ASMR | Getting YOU Ready for Pride! | They/Them Pronouns

[@GibiASMR]

HELLO! I’ll be posting all 6 videos as they are uploaded to KZbin! :) OPEN ME, AND READ DESCRIPTION WOO! I couldn’t fit it all in the description! This video series is meant for anyone who would like to watch and enjoy. Whether you are confident or questioning, unlabeled or defined. If you feel safe to do so, please feel free to share about yourself and your own journey in the comment section. I will be instantaneously YEETING out rude people, so please be sure to be accepting and supportive of others in the comment section! Please do be sure to protect your identity and personal information when posting, and stay safe!!!!! A few related videos I really enjoyed watching myself: The ASMR Prince kzbin.info/www/bejne/f5S3f6aorsmYbKc Twilight Time ASMR kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYGQgKqdgpt-pdk Angelica kzbin.info/www/bejne/lWiwqpqHg5pnmtk

[@deeznuts-qb7mc]

FIRSSTTT AHH

[@deeznuts-qb7mc]

@delilah :] DO U LIKE WANNA BE FRIENDS?

[@deeznuts-qb7mc]

@delilah :] okay do u have discord?

[@blakecurvyline8765]

LESBIAN PRIDE :D

[@madelynfountain7200]

Hi

[@Soda-sk2zi]

Crying. Gibi you didn’t have to put in this much effort but you did and I thank you so much for it

[@rayannexoxo]

Ikrrr

[@4phis]

Cry a river

[@Soda-sk2zi]

@@4phis aw I’m so sorry you’re offended

[@marlee.daggett]

@@4phis pls kindly shut ur mouth

[@samsairon4804]

@@4phis Lessgoo

[@paityndamron8137]

Hearing Gibi say she was proud of me filled my heart with joy

[@lillypilly_asmr9394]

same bestie, same

[@steinibeini123]

Same because when u dont get it from ur parents it means alot

[@rockstar6565]

Wow did u really not say her pronouns your disgusting

[@wildajthomas9581]

Same sis gay pride

[@Ray-gu2fg]

@@rockstar6565 huhhhh

[@bayleeaustin6290]

this made me feel so happy!! i have wanted to start experimenting with she/they pronouns but i have been too scared to ask people to start calling me by they/them more often so this made me feel so much more comfortable and confident so thank you!!!

[@PunkZombie1300]

I feel you. I only recently figured out I was NB/gender-neutral and that I preferred they/them. I've struggled with body issues and my gender identity for a long time, on and off for almost a decade, until a friend of mine actually asked me what I preferred to be called/identified as. That was the first time anyone had (irl anyway, it's a bit different online where you can't see the person behind the screen so you kind of have to ask). She mentioned that she realized she referred to me as them when talking about me and wanted to check and see what I was okay with, which opened up a couple weeks of self-reflection that made me realize how well that fit me. But yeah since I've been identifying as a man for the past 26+ years and I have a lot of anxiety issues I haven't really come out other than to a couple of friends. My family wouldn't disown me or anything but there's been a lot of uncomfortable conversations/arguments in the past about the way I've dressed and presented myself. So I've kept a lot hidden and just don't want to deal with that conversation. Good luck to you and hopefully you have some supportive friends who can help you out. I understand the anxiety but there's no shame in trying to find yourself and asking people to respect that.

[@pjabber5679]

I go by the pronouns "Lord/Almighty".

[@totallynormal5690]

Sameeeee

[@neverahrose2727]

I'm also experimenting with she/they pronouns and I decided this was a good way to start too lol! Happy pride everyone!

[@Lament.for.the.butterflies]

I have something similair! I started trying out she/ix/00/they but most people call me she or ix, so I decided to watch this video to feel what it'd be like to be called by they/them. I hope you're doing good!

[@sarahleyrer7873]

I didn’t even think it was possible for me to love Gibi anymore. I just feel so loved and appreciated. I feel valid and whole and I feel safe and respected. Thank you Gibi for the amazing content and making everyone feel loved. Happy pride month everyone

[@duckmcduckerson1957]

How does a non-binary samurai secure their kills? They slash Them Thank you, Thank you I'll go die now.

[@duckmcduckerson1957]

Jokes aside, I am cisgender and stuff blah blah, inadequate, blah blah good ASMR stuff. Is nice.

[@Finn-qr7fx]

WAIT THIS IS SO FUNNY now I have a joke for my gender

[@amazinc754]

LOL this is so good

[@ellybellyyyy]

@@amazinc754 lol IKR 😂

[@lethimdohisworkforyou1177]

@@duckmcduckerson1957 What does cisgender mean?

[@QuantumQuadCroc]

As a new member of the alphabet mafia, this was very informative.

[@superduperamazingperson]

Idk if this is supposed to be homophobic or a joke

[@Abaddonbsm]

@@superduperamazingpersona joke

[@T1mburtonfan]

ALPHABET MAFIA omg I love u

[@stellaluna16]

So, how are you a year later :)

[@TheGoodMornning]

alphabet mafia 💙💜🩷

[@morganloewe1294]

Petition to get Ben a Bi Wife Energy T-shirt

[@oifelixcomeherebro1689]

I love this comment

[@emmybrumbaugh9423]

where do i signnn

[@localweirdteenager]

*”ah, where is my pen?”*

[@mathewstitt3924]

Nag

[@sarachalvr9090]

YESSSS

[@kozirogacha2314]

Me: *thinking Gibi is straight* Also me: *notices bi and pan flags on her face* "interesting..."

[@GamblerMentality]

Caught me off guard ngl

[@jpttrece1071]

Yall niggas really use that pfp on KZbin to

[@GamblerMentality]

@@jpttrece1071 lol

[@santiagolozano9354]

@@jpttrece1071 social rejects 😂

[@riayvett]

@@santiagolozano9354 why r u even on this page lmao go away

[@calicoking9456]

friend: Hey, are you non-binary? me: HOW!? My name: Raccoon (This is true and based on a true story)

[@Thestockxj96]

Wdym, hooman? 👀👽

[@floofsterbadooster8862]

:0 your name sounds cool

[@simatro9797]

eh

[@calicoking9456]

@@floofsterbadooster8862 thanks

[@calicoking9456]

@@simatro9797 exactly my thoughts

[@katieeyers5247]

I made it to "I'm going to stick with you the whole time" before I cried. The absolute non judgement, care and comfort in the video and calm reassurance. . . As someone with social anxiety, I wish anyone would do that for me in real life for anything, but especially for pride. I have never been.

[@wholesomerin]

I just wanted to point out how the coffee disappeared more and more throughout the videos lol

[@_thishandleisalreadytaken_]

😯

[@coramth9140]

Day 118 of asking Gibi to recreate the whole Shrek movie once she reached 5 million subscribers

[@tmshaybatou8316]

Yeah keep asking bro🤣😂

[@nicolealex9130]

I'm kinda down for it😂

[@zoenoelle8844]

i think she's actually doing that now haha

[@coramth9140]

@@zoenoelle8844 I knowwww i cant wait ahh

[@SushiFeather]

she reached now

[@utshachakrabortty3615]

I'm not a part of the community, but this video melted my heart. The way she prioritizes each and every point and says that she will keep us safe is just so overwhelming. I have been following her since 2019, and this series has to be one of the best creations. She is just such a wholesome person in all aspects.

[@playswith_squirrels]

I'm questioning and I recently started thinking about my pronouns, but because of my not too accepting family I'm not really able to experiment with them, so this really helped me realise I can go by all of them. Thank you for being such an amazing and caring person Gibi. You help a lot of people with your videos ❤️ edit: It's March and I've going by all pronouns on the internet for about 3 months now and slowly asking the irl friends I trust to do the same, it's feels great so go for it!!

[@Bubbles603]

*Imagine me aggressively grabbing your face* You are an amazing person who is loved and deserves to be loved so use whatever the fuck pronouns make you feel valid because you deserve it

[@playswith_squirrels]

@@Bubbles603 *with a slightly squished face* fank you

[@charlossen]

omggggg same!!!!!!! my family does accept the fact I'm pansexual but they're not really all that happy with the idea of me identifying as anything other than female, so now I'm kinda genderquestioning :P

[@simatro9797]

@@charlossen ur family kinda pog

[@simatro9797]

@@charlossen nvm read that wrong

[@silverrraven5349]

i'm having such a cute gender moment right now, just cut my hair and i feel the most girly and the most boyish i've felt in months at the same time but in a way that makes sense for once

[@taylors.version.13]

I strive to feel like you one day ❤️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

[@99baking]

I recently visited an old friend of mine from highschool who recently came out to me as a trans girl, and she is dating a non binary person who is also super nice. I asked them to use they/them pronouns with me just to see what it felt like, and it made me feel really good. It was surprising to me how much changing one little word can make me feel so much more valid

[@_naija_]

Not part of the LGBTQ+ but I literally am obsessed and I respect gibi for this ily

[@momsspaghetti-sd9sn]

[@letsgetgone21]

I started crying halfway through when I saw you had the Polyamorous flag on the board, I feel so loved since most people forget polyamorous

[@elliothegland7843]

You’re valid💓

[@ruinmanic]

I'm not in a place where I can be out to the people around me and hearing a stranger refer to me by my pronouns hit a lot harder than expected. As in I'm crying over here. Thank you

[@cracklequartz1336]

i hope you’re doing well and that someday soon you get to be in an environment where you are safe to be yourself and be accepted. have a lovely day 💕

[@rowmiry]

Me too, cried a bit when she referred to us as they/them, hopefully one day in my country and family they are a bit more open minded

[@savannalorenzen2368]

i’m struggling with what pronouns to use for myself, and listening to gibi uses they/them for me made me feel better than saying she, so thanks for helping me lol

[@savannalorenzen2368]

@@SamiiRSMT um lmao i am she/they and you aren’t gonna change my mind

[@savannalorenzen2368]

@@SamiiRSMT why?

[@RedBanana_]

@@savannalorenzen2368 You can have she/they pronouns if you want! Congrats on working out which ones feel right! I personally am chill with literally any pronouns.

[@fourwaystodie]

@Morgan Hilker Kinda happened when they were born

[@paigez5528]

@@SamiiRSMT sorry to burst your bubble but you can’t TELL someone their pronouns

[@meep4673]

i hope all other nonbinary people reading this remember that y’all are wonderful inside and out, and you don’t owe anybody androgyny. whatever you’re going through, i believe in you, and you got this ❤️

[@jordynlol56]

Thank you so much

[@justdogs4021]

means so much💜

[@Rexowogamer]

thank you

[@moss7837]

Thxx

[@kelvinkinyanjui3545]

What does this mean

[@keilanbarnes]

coming back to watch these videos with my new pronouns is such an experience. Makes me wish I had friends that would be there for me like this. Having no queer friends, or my only queer friend being very closeted around family (wish I could help), makes me thirst for more opportunities to be myself. So happy Gibi can let me at least fanaticize some friends a little

[@unusedaccount9207]

Well I know I'm a random Internet stranger, but you are valid, you are loved, and you are respected

[@AidanXavier1]

Honestly this was more touching and meaningful than I expected it to be

[@For_The_Republic92]

Lol you people don’t even make sense and act so serious like you’re actually fighting for something 😂😂😂

[@keys.and.knives]

​@@For_The_Republic92 We are fighting for something. That's the point of pride.

[@For_The_Republic92]

@@keys.and.knives Yeah, for special privileges to live outside reality. I’m aware.

[@user-sl3po6tk4w]

This made me cry omg. I'm nearly 20 and have been out for a while but it's still so incredibly meaningful to have someone who I perceive as a proper adult that I look up to share their experiences and validate mine. Thank you so much for making this with the intro and everything. This is so so important for LGBTQ+ people and I wish I had videos like these when I was a scared, queer/trans kid.

[@killerfaithfish]

Same :(

[@sleepyjoe8602]

Ok, I'm straight

[@Maggotboy_]

@@sleepyjoe8602 Good for you

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@Maggotboy_ Nevermind I now identify as homophobic

[@richie6037]

@@sleepyjoe8602 nobody asked and nobody cares

[@robinisntfunny8623]

i recently learned gibi is bi/pan after watching one of her q+as where she was asked about the kinsey scale and honestly seeing one of my favorite youtubers also be lgbt and open about it makes me so happy to see. gibi ily so much -robin/sydney/veronica (she/they)

[@Fehepodz31]

I really didn’t understand a single word of what you just said. You guys just have too much spare time coming up with that hocus spokus hogwarts shit

[@nepptunii]

i noticed the replies are very negative so i want to add a more positive note! i’m very glad you and everyone else (including me) in the lgbtqia+ community feel this way! I do think that this the video is very touching and so amazing that she can make everything feel validated!

[@MisterManGav]

@@Fehepodz31 ???

[@S4N_1C]

@@Fehepodz31 too bad you cant do anything abt it 😍🥰🤭

[@kittykat10272]

I didn't realize how much I needed to see representation for myself, my pronouns, and to feel like a part of the community 🥰 totally didn't have me tearing up a bit at the end because of how welcoming and nice this video made me feel.

[@helloilovemycat]

YOU'RE VALID! Wonder human ❤ take a cookie 🍪

[@sleepyjoe8602]

What are your pronouns now

[@sleightsofheart.]

💓

[@snailbert147]

You are always welcome here, friendo! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍

[@blacklivesmatter2855]

Hey I identify as Roddy Rich my pronouns are skee skrr

[@ea.wangvb2024]

You make a difference gibi, we appreciate this so much truly.

[@ninafleming3479]

I like ur pfp :D

[@ea.wangvb2024]

@@ninafleming3479 ah! Tysm

[@Noobmaster-zk9om]

Is that ur face in the pfp?

[@ninafleming3479]

@@Noobmaster-zk9om no it isn’t lol, he is a KZbinr. His name is Sapnap

[@ea.wangvb2024]

@@Noobmaster-zk9om nope its sapnap you should watch him and subscribe 👍🏼

[@mieonthemoon]

So I totally didn't get emotional and teary eyed at the beginning... Today's my birthday (July 1st) and this was like a perfect present! I've never attended a pride event before, but it's definitely something I'd love to do in the future!!

[@mombun1320]

Happy birthday hun!

[@vannythesimp]

Happy Birthday ❤❤❤

[@lemonzarekool7121]

happy birthday!

[@keelinmathews]

Its my birthday too!! Happy Bday!! 🎂🎉

[@vannythesimp]

@@keelinmathews Happy Birthday!! ^×^

[@luke8051]

When these videos first got posted I watched the one with He/Him pronouns. Almost 2 years later and I've come back to listen to the one with They/Them pronouns to help me feel better about my current identity crisis. Thanks so much Gibi!

[@luminouslylight3690]

Gibi is always precious. But she inspires everybody and she even inspires me a lot🥺💕

[@zenphiix]

Thanks for making this series Gibi. As someone who is still closeted, this was super fun to watch. Keep up the amazing work

[@Onus6688]

Stay strong 💖

[@zenphiix]

@@Onus6688 Thank you!

[@lifeisstrangetoday]

I wish you the best of luck, don’t forget not to rush your coming out!

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@Onus6688 Stay straight

[@slayterlolz]

@@sleepyjoe8602 stay mad lmao

[@larkdangerheart]

My kiddo watches a lot of your videos and very recently came out to me as bisexual. Thank you for your support and encouragement of our community.

[@lester8545]

@@Andrew42520 if she was a good mother she wouldn't raise a bi

[@MadadhAllaidh]

​@@lester8545This is not about raising, but that's how one is born, it's not a choice. Violence is disgusting and shame on you if you like it.

[@lindahl01]

Kudos for this! I myself is a cis straight white male, but also a human. And as a human I would wish everyone of my fellow humans had the free choice to be who they are, and express who they are how they want to. (I don't really have a point with this comment apart from expressing solidarity and manipulate the algorithgms to promote the videos.)

[@fawnoverbrawn]

Yes! Even cis/het people can join in the pride events, Allies are an important part of the LGBTQIA+

[@willh2690]

I've just this day started to come out as non-binary and this video series is the final push I needed to fully imbace it. I'm using both NB and masculine pronouns (mostly for convenience sake). I've been going back and forth with this in my own head for a long time now. I'm still happy to be referred to as male as I have been my whole life, but I have no personal connection to that gender and if I'd been brought up as female or gender neutral I'd be fine with that. I don't consider myself trans, at least not right now but I'm still a vocal supporter of trans rights. Love 💘 to all y'all no matter what flag 🏳️‍🌈 you fly.

[@whodis2546]

i don’t wanna assume or anything but have you considered being gender fluid? and just as a reminder you don’t have to rush and even identify yourself in a specific label, just be you and do what makes you happy✨

[@paradisegirl6610]

What is non binary

[@willh2690]

@@whodis2546 I've thought about it for a long time. For years I've known that typical gender roles didn't fit me and only identified as Cis-male because that's how people saw me and I was fine with it. I've never experienced gender dysphoria, I've never had a stranger staring back at me in the mirror, but I do feel restricted by the societal gender binary. I wanna were makeup, the really cool coats in from the woman's section or just really atypical stuff without it being a statement, I wanna wear it the same way I wear jeans and a t-shirt. So gender fluid could fit me, but I think agendered would be more accurate to who I am right now. Enby is such a broad term that I still have room for exploration and personal growth.

[@willh2690]

@@paradisegirl6610a really broad spectrum covering any identity that is not entirely man or woman. Enbies (non-binary people) generally prefer gender neutral pronouns such as they/them. I am personally fine with they/them or he/him.

[@Just_Like_Ever_After]

This is actually very similar to what I feel except...opposite lol. I’m biologically female but I use they/them pronouns and sometimes she/her (it really depends on the situation) I personally identify as a demigirl which falls on the non-binary spectrum

[@meditationrelaxrc2417]

*My comment will probably get lost but whoever reads this.. you got this! whatever you are going through will get better hang in there 💛*

[@dodoxd650]

@@Boxersteavee english

[@Phoenix_7789]

indeed a copy and paster

[@xxcrippinxx8484]

The absolute GOAT of asmr

[@ThatOneGamer27]

Okay so I’m like a year late, but I’m surprised to see Agender on there. As someone who is Agender, it’s pretty uncommon to find someone who knows what it is. 😂

[@mombun1320]

Gibi says: the pink socks go just above the knee Me: maybe on your long legs! My short legs however . . .

[@demolitiondun]

right omg im a 4’11 adult anything thats supposed to be just above the knee are like pants to me LMAO

[@mombun1320]

My youngest, 28 y/o sister, is only 4'9"

[@demolitiondun]

@@mombun1320 wow! glad im not the only short adult. but we’re cute though so its all okay lol!

[@weakattheknees.]

Then there’s me, not even a teenager, and I’m 5’1 and have long legs-

[@jakekoiii3451]

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[@burnedsunflower9915]

When I saw the video I thought this was queer baiting andiwas kinda disappointed but this is wayyy better. I also identify as bisexual and pansexual and I’m agender so every pronouns are great:)

[@caca7410]

Hey I’m sorry but what does it mean do identify as both bi and pan ? I’m pan so trust me I’m not trying to sound rude in any way, I’m just trying to understand !!!

[@fern5505]

@@caca7410 read the video description /nm

[@becca5911]

@@caca7410 (just guessing so im not sure) but it probably means you like guys girls and enbys for their personality

[@headofathousandsheepswool]

@@caca7410 Some people don't care about the distinction so they use both. As far as I know, bi people have more of a preference but can still be attracted to all genders, whereas pan people tend to not see gender at all.

[@itsniyomii]

Im omni:) (pretty sure) nice too meet you!

[@kylethedragon6411]

gibi, i actually can’t explain how much these videos mean to me and i don’t know if you’ll see this but on the off chance that you do, i just wanted to let you know. i’ve been struggling a lot with my gender identity lately and feeling like i don’t present well enough and i’ve been trying to find safe spaces online to make me feel better and distract myself from my own head, and this was my savior. you’ve been one of my favorite creators for a long time, i’ve been watching your channel to help me sleep for almost two years now, and the fact that you put so much time and effort into this is so heartwarming and amazing. i always end up being very invested in and mildly dependent on the creators that i involve myself with and that can sometimes end badly for me, but you haven’t let me down even once. the fact that someone i look up to so much cares so deeply about my community and people like me is so meaningful. i truly appreciate everything you’ve done. you’ve educated people and encouraged people and validated people. so thank you. sincerely, kyle, transgender (i posted this on another video too but i wanted to say it again)

[@sleepyjoe8602]

The video is kinda gay tho

[@kylethedragon6411]

@@sleepyjoe8602 no way

[@vxrza6953]

No way gibi did all this in one day And good job for making all these videos in one day it must’ve took hours to make these

[@Nadine_1993]

I love the background with all the different flags, such a nice touch, thank you!

[@foxsplitz2993]

No

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@foxsplitz2993 preach

[@RedRosemary]

I feel sad that she didn't talk About the flags in the background. I was wondering if my flag was there

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@RedRosemary The flag that you brainlessly follow?

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@Maisie Daisy yeah you do

[@grrrraghhh4306]

it does kinda feel nice to have someone that i, in a way, rely on share such an important part of my identity lol thanks for being gay Gibi lmao

[@AKarrit]

She's not gay she's bisexual

[@grrrraghhh4306]

@@AKarrit yeah no shit but gay sounded funnier than bi

[@AKarrit]

@@grrrraghhh4306 just because it's "funnier" doesn't make it right. How rude of a person you are.

[@grrrraghhh4306]

@@AKarrit bruh literally nobody else has a problem w this u a whole weirdo bruh

[@alba2380]

@@grrrraghhh4306 tf they so soft for 💀💀💀

[@keb82]

as someone who recently came to terms with the fact they're bi and not lesbian (like I've thought for the past like 4 years) it's soo nice to hear u tell us that you yourself are also bi 🥺

[@SakMang0]

Can't believe I didn't find this until just today. I've had the WORST gender dysphoria these past few weeks, what with a religious argument I got into with a friend of mine as well as a recent haircut i got that doesn't feel incredibly balanced in the androgynous department (for me) But this asmr was so refreshing after all of that. I'm so happy that these kinds of asmrs exist 💖 💓 💗

[@kiwi_Bird365]

I literally started crying. My parents don't understand pronounce and think it's ridiculous. It's is so nice to hear

[@chickenflavor9880]

Lmao. It is ridiculous.

[@chickenflavor9880]

CRINGE 😵

[@chickenflavor9880]

identity crisis

[@endieisded]

Katrine is super cool. They have a cute profile picture. I hope that they get all the love they deserve. I also hope this comment referring to them with they/them pronouns makes them feel better ♡♡

[@pandemonium8703]

@@endieisded I agree! They seem pretty rad💃🏻

[@xSilverxshadowx]

GIBI!! I'M SO HAPPY I'M GONNA CRY. I've been out as bi/queer for over 10 years and out as nonbinary for the last year. I just switched to they/them pronouns about 6 months ago and when I saw the other pride videos go up, I was so hoping there would be a they/them version and here it is!! You are amazing and I feel so seen. Thank you for all the work you put into these videos! HAPPY PRIDE!

[@sleepyjoe8602]

I identify as a space monkey are you proud of me.

[@xSilverxshadowx]

@@sleepyjoe8602 shhhhhhhhhhh go to sleep and maybe you wouldn't be so cranky ;)

[@ooo5514]

@@floatifyy3118 I had a stroke trying to read that

[@leiahana]

as a nonbinary biromantic demisexual who uses she/they pronouns, the genuine euphoria I experienced when you referred to me as they... my god, I've never felt anything like it. I appreciate all you're doing and have done for us, Gibi, and I can't wait to see what else you do

[@shanedonis2651]

Bro what the fuck is biromantic demisexual.

[@partypancake7287]

A what now?

[@obstinacy1621]

Don't listen to these dummies writing hate, YOU'RE VALID!!

[@partypancake7287]

@@obstinacy1621 we ain’t hating just confused af

[@Altoseb]

@@obstinacy1621 Ah yes, just label anything you don’t like as “hate”. Quality tactic.

[@arandomuseronthewebsitekno4054]

as someone with no support from their family in any aspect of being non-binary, i thank you deeply for even taking into consideration the different labels or genders anyone would want to be going by at pride . it genuinely helps to have a source of support in any way, especially from content creators you enjoy watching . again, i thank you for this, it means alot to me personally, and i’m certain you’ve touched many other people aswell .

[@Komnenos83]

Your family is based

[@Sapphosroommate]

@@Komnenos83based is originally AAVE so the creators of that word might disagree

[@violethues5182]

did not expect to get so much joy from Gibi using they/them pronouns for me GFHFG

[@Noobmaster-zk9om]

Congrats them

[@karleighstephano2898]

This reminds me of a close friend who passed recently and it helped me cope a lot. Thank you Gibi❤

[@ameliajones1938]

Hi As someone who is still at school, there can be a lot of pressure on being ‘normal’ or what other think is normally. Gibi thanks so much for taking the time to include everyone regardless of what they think of themselves and others. The fact that throughout this vid you just say that its up to us and all of that your the sweetest!! As someone that’s BI its so nice to feel welcome even after COVID Xx you absolute gem

[@idkidk-yh5es]

I rlly appreciate how u acknowledge that pronouns do not equal gender. as of recently, I've been questioning if I'm pangender or gender fluid, but before that even when I still identified as female, I still when be she/he/they because I felt like any of them fit me. its also a hard thing for me cuz im not out to my family yet bc they're very conservative Christians and yeah, but watching these videos helps me :) rlly love how inclusive and supportive u are, thx gibi :)

[@nicolealex9130]

Okay I don’t actually watch ASMR anymore but I’m still subscribed to a few channels that I loved in case I do need something more relaxing to sleep to. And all I can say is seeing these 6 videos melted my heart you’ve always been the most caring person I’ve come across on this platform. This is so well thought out and so respectful in every way. Keep doing amazing❤️ happy pride month

[@smithd2001]

its over now tho

[@nicolealex9130]

It had been over for all of 1 minute when these were posted sooo and nethertheless you can still celebrate sorry I put the word pride and offended you two white cis men:,,,,)

[@smithd2001]

@@nicolealex9130 😂😂 yeah, right

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@nicolealex9130 No you offended your anncestors

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@smithd2001 I can't believe some of these people keep preaching

[@sunflowervol.6104]

The intro was my favorite part ily so much

[@MidgeMunster]

Me crying and feeling extremely validated as a bi/Pan woman in a cishet presenting relationship 😭💖

[@kit6561]

just because ur relationship 'looks straight' doesnt mean it is! ur bi/pan through and through ❤️

[@endieisded]

Same here!

[@aims4223]

Did anybody else noticed that this series got way more dislikes and got sad? I don't get it. Gibi, we appreciate you so much for these videos and the effort you put into them. - a bisexual

[@sleepyjoe8602]

Thats what the dislike button is for if you agree witht he video hit the like if you disagree hit dislike its call freedom of speech wlecome to America

[@Maggotboy_]

Freedom of speech doesn’t mean u won’t get Consequence for it for example If someone called me a homophobic slur I would punch them. They may be allowed to say it cuz we do have freedom of speech, but don’t be surprised if u get hurt for whatever u said

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@Maggotboy_ Great come at me I'm not afraid

[@RedRosemary]

@@sleepyjoe8602 your probably like a 7 year old with homophobic parents.

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@RedRosemary No 16 year old that cares about the future and has seen what being gay/trans has done to people in my school that I have known. What about you?

[@enhypenobsessed4332]

June has been a lot for me, it was my birthday, the death of my grandfather, my grandfather's funeral and my parents birthday. Even though his month is great I am glad it is over.

[@cracklequartz1336]

i’m so sorry for your loss 💕 you got through such a difficult time so you are stronger now and can face anything else. i hope you and your parents enjoyed your birthdays and have a lovely day

[@50641A]

i am so sorry. you are strong and i personally hope that you feel better soon

[@rosek.5204]

I like that this was published in July since it shows that Pride continues in the months that aren’t June

[@leeisoffline]

hi, uh, a young enby here- and um- i love you- so much. you are such a comfort creator and this is just the best thing ever. thank you so much gibi. you deserve the world and more

[@biaxolotl5171]

We support a new enby friend!

[@Mothz_yay]

@@biaxolotl5171 I'm sorry if I sound dumb but what does that mean

[@voidabyss5855]

@@Mothz_yay what? Enby? Enby's another word for a nonbinary person

[@Mothz_yay]

@@voidabyss5855 thanks for telling me

[@voidabyss5855]

@@Mothz_yay no problem :-)

[@kylesmith5033]

Did I cry at being told I’m valid and don’t owe people androgyny? Yes Did I also fall asleep like a baby to this? Most definitely Thank you Gibi, you are amazing and a wonderful asmrtist/person.

[@sylvie39]

bruh all of the affirmations at the start made me happy stim 😭🙏 thank you for this!!

[@elid69]

You are amazing, Gibi♡ So happy to know you as a part of the community ♡♡♡ Thank you for this video

[@juliar.3702]

Hi Gibi! Thank you so much for this series, I’m really enjoying the video so far! After reading the description I just wanted to say that I personally define bisexuality as “attraction to multiple genders”. Sending love from Canada 🏳️‍🌈

[@katrinashade46]

Gibi, thank you for all the video and for the work you did for this!) I'm from Russia and I'm bisexual, but I can't talk about my orientation freely, because I live in a very intolerant environment. It is very difficult, but I hope that one day in my country it will become just as natural not to hide who i am as in some other countries. Of course, I have friends who support and understand me, and for this I am grateful to them, but at the moment I cannot speak openly about this and be confident in my safety and the safety of my friends.

[@helloilovemycat]

You're wonderful!! I'm sorry you don't have a safe environment but you are very much a valid individual ❤ I'm proud of you!

[@katrinashade46]

@@helloilovemycat thank you for such kind words, it means a lot to me! 🧡

[@helloilovemycat]

@@katrinashade46 you're very welcome! Even if people get negative never stop being proud of yourself :) have a great day/night 💖

[@Anonymous-px5co]

Yep

[@graceeverfall332]

Don't be shy besties, report the awful comments. (Mostly hateful replies to people). It's easier than arguing and doesn't give them any satisfaction.

[@mangosago]

ive only recently started to question my sexuality and experiment with using different pronouns and this video fr made me feel so comfy and warm and loved and safe aaa i love this series so much.

[@pridedoggo]

"Which is okay.. You're falling asleep to my content". This is the most accurate Description ever and I'm proud it's that way :D

[@maconwilkie7714]

I’m crying thank you for this having someone like you represent our community on a huge platform means everything I’ve never been to pride I really want to go so this was awesome for me I have an awesome support system who love me for me and my dads side of the family I only have one person (not my dad) I’ve always gone by lesbian but now I’m not sure so I’m just going by queer/questioning but anyways thank you for this your hard work will never go unnoticed you make so many of us feel loved (and tingles) 🏳️‍🌈

[@craftingbench1827]

The fact that I came out as lesbian( but still a closeted Non-Binary person because I'm experimenting with those pronouns) earlier today like 2 hours ago and seeing this on my FYP is heartwarming. Just what I needed ♡

[@Komnenos83]

Seek help

[@craftingbench1827]

@@Komnenos83 Pardon? What for?

[@Komnenos83]

@@craftingbench1827 For believing you are "Nonbinary". Because you aren't.

[@craftingbench1827]

@@Komnenos83 I am. I don't feel comfortable with using she/her or he/him. I was testing out pronouns to see which ones I felt comfortable with, and I have decided to use they/them as I feel comfortable using these pronouns.

[@craftingbench1827]

@@Komnenos83 Please stop carrying on this conversation with me and go bug someone else. ♡

[@raven-iw5uj]

I know this video is a year old but I just wanted to say thank you so much for making it! I've been watching your content for about 4 years now (maybe 5??) and I've enjoyed it all but this one is especially my favorite. It's so weird coming back to this video because when it was first released I was incredibly new to the LGBTQIA+ community and only knew I'm asexual + panromantic, but now, as someone who figured out I'm nonbinary and gender nonconforming in the last year, remembered you made this and immediately came back to it 🥰 It's so exciting seeing my own growth and coming back to this vid with fresh eyes

[@alisonmorris4262]

I've known that I was bisexual for a long time, but last year, my mum was diagnosed with terminal throat cancer and I wanted to come out to her first. She passed away in January and I never got to come out to her as I wanted to put her first. I recently came out to my dad and brother and they are so supportive of me and that to me is a relief. I am also engaged to a straight man and I was beyond terrified to come out to him as I thought he wouldn't love me anymore. When I finally worked up the courage to come out to him, he told me i was so brave and he said he loves me more than ever. Coming out was such a huge weight off my shoulders and now I can live my life as an open bisexual woman. Life is so good!!!

[@user-oj7np2ej1z]

That's amazing that you pulled through all of that! Im sorry you've been through so much, you're incredibly strong as you probably already know, I'm super happy that you can live as yourself now 💖💜💙

[@emaleette]

Hey gibi! You might be Omni if you like all genders with a preference tho! I just thought maybe this would help with the labeling type stuff :) I’m an Omni person and went through the same problem with labels.. but now I know bc I had some friends help :D stay safe everyone

[@mariakelly9193]

Can you explain what omnisexual is, I’m really confused. Right now, I identify as bisexual, but I want to be more educated in case I identify better with sometimes else.

[@alanda8485]

@@mariakelly9193 Omnisexual is an orientation defined as the sexual attraction to all genders, though gender often still plays a role in one's attraction. While liking all genders, you usually have a preference for one.

[@sturdyurchin24]

@@mariakelly9193 it’s basically pan but instead of having “zero care of you’re partners gender” you have a preference. E.g: pan person finds the non binary person attractive snd the man and woman, Whereas an omni person might find those three attractive but would prefer to be with the man, or the woman, etc… Trust me, I have first hand experience!

[@wornout.n0body]

this is a great educational comment but i also wanted to add this for some people bisexual/romantic is liking 2 OR MORE genders a lot of people connect it to liking 2 genders but a bi person can date a nb person or genderfluid person aswell you dont need labels but if you want them they are there

[@emaleette]

@@sturdyurchin24 exactly!

[@sunflowr1651]

I am so so so so so so so so comfortable and I feel so safe in this space and finding out that you’re part of our community is just the cherry on top. You handled this so well and so carefully I am so proud to tell me people “hey look at this person I watch on KZbin” and it’s you

[@TuftyTaltan]

Your own experience with gender and sexuality is actually pretty close to my own. I tend to find it pretty hard to explain how I feel about my own gender identity as I don't really feel very strongly one way or the other and that can be a bit difficult to put to words. Thank you for this wonderful little series and I'm happy to see what you make in the future!

[@taryn4877]

Just finished the she/her video whilst waiting for this one! I’m so happy you did this Gibi! Also cool to see you’re exploring who you are and your gender identity. I’ve been doing the same for the past year and it can be quite something. Excited to watch the full video! 🌈💕

[@sleepyjoe8602]

From someone who did the same the best thing to do is to stay the same and find out how to live happy as you are now other then changing who you are to feel like you fit in.

[@mxipng2099]

im so happy you put the polyamorous flag in the back :) i rarely see it, because some people either don’t understand it or never knew it existed, i know its confusing to understand- im just really happy to see it in the back!!

[@Seapatico]

🥰😭🥰😭 OMG I didn't expect the gender euphoria this gave me 😭🥰😭🥰

[@classicrockaddict6793]

Gibi! If you’re seeing this thank you a lot! We appreciate you!

[@moonshade111]

One of friends gave me my nonbinary awakening pretty recently, so thanks for this. Its extremely helpful in learning how the heck i navigate this.

[@maddie4523]

i didn’t even know you’re name wasn’t gibi i’ve been following you for four years

[@sarat7240]

THE WAY THAT I GASPED. This is the first nonbinary asmr video I've seen I don't even want to fall asleep to it 🥲🥲 thank you so much

[@basil4702]

so grateful for this. i’m in a queerphobic household. this is so affirming, thank you!!

[@Komnenos83]

Your household is very based

[@Bakedgoodza]

@@Komnenos83 i don't even know how a homophobic 4chan zoomers finds their way to gender affirming ASMR but damn your deep

[@Bakedgoodza]

@@Komnenos83 ps: cringe, take ur meds incel

[@Komnenos83]

@@Bakedgoodza By typing in "asmr cringe" in the KZbin search bar.

[@themyconidwitch]

The stupidity is strong in this reply section

[@arianna1280]

Oh my god the description is literally EXACTLY me. I’ve been confused on whether to identify as pan or bi bc when I came out I thought I was bi but I realize now that im attracted to people of all genders. And I’ve decided to use all pronouns considering (like you said,) there are times when I’ve definitely felt they, or he, but she is what I’m used to. What the fuck. I love this so much thank you thank you thank you ily gibiiiiii

[@jywexler2453]

The main difference of pan and bi is pan has no gender preference, but it’s all about what you want to identify as

[@zaraamir9165]

So I briefly tested out they/them pronouns (I'm non binary) and I felt really good about it, but I stopped pretty quickly because I knew a lot of people would use she/her just to hurt me. I'm from a very conservative society, and not a lot of people know about my identity. It's really nice to have a safe space where I can feel seen. Thank you Gibi.

[@simatro9797]

nobody cares wtf

[@zaraamir9165]

@@simatro9797 LOL imagine coming onto a video for LGBT people and saying nobody cares about the experiences of lgbt people. You're cute.

[@applewingz]

Im really sorry to hear that, im sure that one day you'll find a place where you'll be abke to feel comfortable with yourself without being demonized for it

[@applewingz]

@@simatro9797 you're so adorable

[@simatro9797]

@@applewingz eh

[@jamozmynamoz]

I'm way late to this but, after months of figuring these out, from a bi person (this is just my take, labels are what you make of them): -Bisexual/biromantic: Attraction to AT LEAST the genders within the gender binary (guys and girls), almost always also including non-binary people as well. May have a heavy or light preference, or equal attraction. -Pansexual/panromantic: Attraction to all genders, commonly but not always "gender-blind" (where gender has no impact on attraction). -Omnisexual/omniromantic: Attraction to all genders, where genders do play some sort of role (could have a preference, like different traits in different genders, or both).

[@aamu7169]

Always coming back to these (all versions since I use all pronouns, mostly they/she tho) because they comfort me so much. Not just because of the support as a member of lgbt+, but mainly for the amazing vibe of hanging out with a great friend! Love you 💞💞

[@bckr5799]

I agree!! They are just so comfortable and feel safe. She seems like such a great friend as you said, and I have similar experiences with pronouns! If you don’t mind me asking do you use any gender identity labels? But anyways love you too ♥️

[@aamu7169]

@@bckr5799 I identify as a woman, but slightly out of the binary lol. Close to demi girl I guess, but I don’t personally vibe with that

[@bckr5799]

@@aamu7169 Yeah I get that, I’m the same way! 🤣 It’s cool to find someone with a similar experience!

[@HaleighRainbolt]

Gibi I literally started sobbing when I found out you were bi/pan I’m so proud!!

[@Luna-gc7oz]

I know this is like months later, but these videos are one of my favs and may I just say you look GORGE today! Your makeup is chefs kiss

[@rowanhammer2877]

i am using these videos to test out what pronouns i want to use and i really appreciate all of the hard work and effort you put into these videos

[@jpttrece1071]

Born a guy he him born a girl she her thats how it works

[@graciestgrace]

@@jpttrece1071 do you have nothing better to do than spew your outdated and bigoted views of gender on a get ready for pride asmr roleplay lmao why are you even here

[@bobbiw4481]

@@jpttrece1071 Tell me you're unintelligent, without telling me you're unintelligent.

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@jpttrece1071 fax

[@Imnotactiveanymore744]

@@sleepyjoe8602 you seem obsessed with lgbtq people, you're def closeted.

[@catpaccino]

All I need is a friend like this to go to the next in-person Pride celebration with me. In the meantime I'm absolutely not crying over this video.

[@cat-xg2sp]

I came out as nonbinary (well- to myself) bc I've never felt confutable with she/her pronouns. So I decided that I feel they/them pronouns suit me. I'm a good drawer and desisted to come out to my friends with a drawing (I know sounds stupid) but I draw a dragon with he nonbinary colures and it's holding the flag in it's mouth, I grew up christen (Can't spell) where being LGBTQAI+ in anyway is like- the worsted thing I could ever do. SO I grew up homophobic but, I've never really felt that way. Just goes to show that no matter how you are raised, you can still be what your 'shouldn't be'

[@quisigitur6983]

Oh no my dang ace them-creature heart (certified Old Ace (TM) at that, worry not younguns we've been here the whole time)

[@birdie_ace9753]

I recently started using She/Them pronouns and I’m very grateful for you making pronouns for me to use She/Her and They/Them so thank you so much! :)

[@idontcare-ji7mp]

I actually cried just hearing someone refer to me as they/them I think people in my life think of it as a joke, a lie, a phase, or they just flat out forget.

[@normanreviewsgames698]

Your identity is not a joke and you are valid.

[@satoricrow]

Reading the description made me so happy :)

[@reallyhertv4566]

Don't read the newest comments then.

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@reallyhertv4566 i think that they are great

[@bobbiw4481]

@@sleepyjoe8602 You're literally in every comment, fan behaviour-

[@Mothz_yay]

@@bobbiw4481 I know I'm trying to see nice comments but these assholes are in almost every one

[@kingdomofhearts9999]

But gibi, pride month is over. Time for everyone's channels and every corporate account to forget about it for the next 11 months ((^=

[@minhosfebrezespray7518]

Pride month ends in 8 min for me- (Ik no one asked but just wanted to put that out)

[@sleepyjoe8602]

@@minhosfebrezespray7518 Thank god to it was way too long can't wait for straight pride month tho

[@quillvi]

@@sleepyjoe8602 what...you have to be joking

[@benjaminnicholas5527]

@@sleepyjoe8602 if only

[@aesthetorzoio1850]

@@sleepyjoe8602 straight pride month doesn’t exist bud

[@Axolautism]

One year ago, I watched the He/Him pronouns video and identified as questioning. I wasn't sure I was straight, due in part to a cease in deep feelings for an ex following an amicable "break-up" in early April, though the rest of the summer ended up being a breakup on its own, and it wasn't the greatest. Turns out this was probably due to being some flavor of neurodivergent, which is another recent-ish discovery of mine. I've been on a tangent, however. My point is, I watched the He/Him video a year ago and while it still applies, I have since come to understand myself as nonbinary and I am now watching this video, and my pronouns are he/they.

[@DegeneratesLikeYou]

I hope they find you a cure dude.

[@Axolautism]

@@DegeneratesLikeYou Why do you feel the need to do this?

[@oliviarani1150]

So wholesome 💛🤍💜🖤

[@DemonRatLord]

i love gibi so much they are the kindest human on the internet i love watching her videos