ASMR | What's the Worst Advice You've Received?

[@HayleyChit]

I had a community college teacher tell our 7-9pm Mon/Wed class that you shouldn’t work while you’re in school because it’s a distraction, so either take out student loans or just ask your family to pay for your education. Excuse me?! Why do you think we’re all here in a night class, at a community college? Because we also WORK during the day to survive 😅

[@MichaelaASMR]

It's kinda funny how they couldn't read the room AT ALL 😅

[@HayleyMilczarek]

IMADE IT IN!!! 😁😁😁 Thank you SO MUCH! I love you. And you just made my day! 🎉

[@mauricemakesmovies]

A few things I would like to say: 1. Wow, it takes strength to be this open about how you're handling emotions. I think it's great how you've been able to change your perspective and mindset. Showing emotion is the opposite of weak in my opinion: it shows you're not afraid of the other person's reactions and know that what you think and feel matters. 2. I was wondering if you were studying abroad in Korea, judging by your Instagram activity. If you did, it's super interesting as I'm also given the chance to study abroad next year. I'm still not sure which country to visit, since Korea is such a different culture. I have been thinking about visiting there for a few years now. If you did study there, I would really value your opinion and experience! Lastly: I noticed you live in the Czech Republic, and I read there's been a heavy rainfall and flood going on, with many fatal consequences. I hope you have been able to stay safe from it... Sorry for the wall of text 😅

[@MichaelaASMR]

1. Thank you so much, I truly appreciate it! 2. Yes, it was Korea, but none of the photos on my instagram are from that time. It was 5 years ago already! I did a storytime with the craziest experiences: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j3qqZJSlis6bgZYsi=SHsroOrTQ-L2JicL Definitely study the Korean alphabet beforehand and use Naver maps to get around the city as Google maps don't work. And thank you, luckily everyone I know is safe.

[@mauricemakesmovies]

@@MichaelaASMR 고마워요! 😉 (I have been studying hangeul since I fell into the K-pop hole years ago) I finally got around to watching your video and it seems you completely dodged a couple of bullets! Even with the 8 hour long date... Not sure what that guy had in mind. I'm glad you were with someone when you accidentally walked into /that/ building. Thanks for sharing these moments. It's common in certain countries to prey on tourists but actual stories like yours are even more effective. I'll definitely keep my guard up in that case. Thanks again and I'm happy you're safe on all accounts, including the stories and flood in Czechia.

[@RonB246]

Thanks Michaela. I agree with all your counter advice.

[@ZackyASMR]

Amazing video ❤

[@jordanhartley825]

Love these videos, hope your weekend is going well.

[@massylii]

For me I just can't be in a normal relationship.... Once they love me I'm no longer interested.... It's not playing... It's just I can't control it... And it happened my whole life now I'm 29 and the last time this happened was 1 month ago once we got in the serious relationship I ran away from her... Maybe I need help

[@mauricemakesmovies]

@@massylii Sounds like a fear of commitment, which is actually very common, so first of all, don't fear too much. Have you ever tried writing out (for yourself) why you decide to leave? Sometimes, writing about what you feel brings you a step closer to understanding yourself. There may be an underlying issue (whether it's from your past or not) that keeps blocking you from commitment.

[@massylii]

@@mauricemakesmovies I think yeah it's fear of commitment and responsibility.. But I'm not sure... Because I get a weird feeling like... I fear that I'm stuck into that relationship and I also feel like now I'm not free... And also start doubting if it's the one... Trust me it's more complicated than this... I hope I fix this very soon because I'm 29 and my friend are getting married meanwhile I'm having this

[@mauricemakesmovies]

@@massylii I definitely get what you mean. I myself turned 28 last month. The way I see it is that we have to consider whether /we/ are ready for a relationship. I'm not much of a casual dater for example, prefering a friendship or deep connection to find the one. But, do I feel the pressure to find someone considering my age and the people around me? Yes, yes I do. It's a really complex matter like you mentioned, but it sounds like you're not done being single yet (this sounds really silly, sorry, hopefully you get what I mean) and that should be fine, moving on your own pace. Maybe as you accept that freedom more, it could eventually lead to a more relaxed approach considering dating. It, of course, also depends on the person you're dating and whether they are moving too fast (getting settled, etc.), that could also push you away. Sorry for the wall of text! I hope my reply made sense. 😅