ASMR Whispering/Eating: Sad Girl Eating Cup Noodles

[@lee5]

hey, you're not a loser. you're just going through a rough time, dealing with this stressful situation. if anything, you are incredibly strong and resilient. and I really admire that about you. I believe you will get through this. it's gonna be tough, but just remember to take things one day at a time. hope you have a great weekend. please stay safe

[@mikem2646]

We voluntarily watch these vids, so they're not bummers to us. At this point, we're getting to see mildly off, and we're moderately invested in your story. I hope you continue to post.

[@thatboiijhonyy3182]

^^^ listen to this person . We care mildly

[@mildlyoffasmr]

Thanks, I appreciate that. I listen to that negative voice in my head a lot. And I’m experiencing a lot of negativity at work, in my personal life, etc.

[@mildlyoffasmr]

Thank you, I appreciate that a lot. I’m trying to keep posting bc it feels like you all are all I have to talk to and you all actually listen. Which makes me feel better.

[@alexanderfree7963]

We shall raise her up. She will see. #perspective&Forever

[@mildlyoffasmr]

That made me tear up. Because rn it feels like I’m completely alone and unloved and unwanted. So I appreciate that. Thank you.

[@alexanderfree7963]

@@mildlyoffasmr I will love you!

[@charityGFenc3]

I’ve just recently found your channel and I think you are amazing!! You will rise above this difficult time and hopefully rediscover your worth and special, beautiful place in this world- without the person who caused you hurt. We are all here to support you! One day, you will find someone who will love you accordingly and treat you like a queen, however you need to find love for yourself first: otherwise you will continually make excuses for other’s negative behavior toward you. Please never settle for anything less than you deserve. You truly deserve to be safe, loved, cared for, yearned and desired exactly as you are- not what or how someone wants you to be. Please never forget that and also remember to be kind to yourself. Others have hurt you in the past: you never did, do, nor ever will deserve to feel that hurt. The world is a better place with you in it 💞 thank you for being here with us 🤍

[@mildlyoffasmr]

Thank you, I appreciate that so much, and it’s definitely something I needed to hear today. Right now I’m taking it day by day. I have some really bad lows some days, and my videos reflect that. So I hope to heal, but it will be a long journey. And I agree with you. It’s time that I learn to love myself. Because I have accepted a lot less because I have had a longstanding belief that I am not worthy of love. But to survive out here, I have to at least pretend first. And in LA, everyone fakes it. So I just have to do it long enough until it becomes a reality. Right now I’m trying to make female friends and do activities with people and explore. But my job is causing me a significant amount of stress and my ex and his family did what they did at a really awful time. I had JUST started my job. So I’m definitely taking it day by day. But thank you so much for your comment, your empathy, and your words of kindness and reassurance. I appreciate them so much. 🥰

[@charityGFenc3]

@ thank you for sharing that 🤍 it will take some hard work and deep diving, within yourself, but just acknowledging that you deserve better and making strides to receive better speaks volumes! You will get there- I can feel it in you! Sometimes moving away from places where pain has festered can do a lot for the mind, body and soul. LA is very plastic world and it’s hard to truly love yourself and feel organic love when you are surrounded by so many others who are faking it too. Have you ever considered moving?

[@youngbucka8374]

I’m feeling a lot of what you say, thanks for the great ASMR, it helps. I’m in a rut too…we just gotta keep moving.

[@mildlyoffasmr]

I’m tryin’ man, I’m tryin’. Lol but I really feel like I’m running on empty here.

[@user-vm5qs3if1z]

You're not a loser. You're neurodivergent and had an abusive dad traumatize you as a kid. You're repeating the same things you always heard from your terrible family - stop. You need support, acceptance, and community. This won't be your last chance at happiness, but you'll have to push through a lot of this negativity and it will suck. From one messy ND woman to another 💖 Don't Wronski Whispers out on us!

[@stormyday6889]

We can only hear our own stupid thoughts and never experience the inside of somebody elses head. If we could we would see that nobody is normal and not stupid. Have you ever tried not telling yourself all the time how awfull you are? Even if you do not believe it yet, starting to give yourself some credits could also change the way you feel. Maybe it‘s worth a try.

[@mildlyoffasmr]

It’s really, really hard when you feel alienated where you live, work, and when you were just dumped and vilified by your ex’s entire family.

[@RebeccaRinehart]

Finding God and having a relationship with him changed my life completely. He has a purpose for us all and He loves you. I hope you try to seek Him bc I promise He is waiting for you. If you want to you can talk to me more about it. If not that’s okay and I love you and I will be praying for you🩷