Abuse in Synastry Charts (When love HURTS)

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[@jaygo3558]

Mars square mars 6:22 Mars square mercury 7:10 Pluto square mars 9:47 Saturn square Venus 12:47 Saturn square mars 13:59 Saturn square sun 15:45 Mars 7th house 16:59 Mars 4th house 18:14 Mars 8th house 18:58 Pluto in 8th 19:35 Mars 1st house 19:58

[@Tonishasupreme]

My mother in laws mars is in my first house!

[@blahhhcaliborn.9253]

"Pluto will kill you k.. " 😂😂😂😂 i love your personality and your videos!

[@ruhphodastica]

i had mars square pluto and mars conjunct saturn with someone.. it was hell indeed.

[@AstroDeeStars]

damn 4real... whew gurl I already know by just the sound of the placementz

[@77shawnie]

Me too!

[@juju-yr7zg]

I had my Mars Square his Pluto. One time I physically attacked him. He could get on my nerves like nobody else. Sex was great in the beginning but ended up becoming very draining and toxic. I would withhold sex from him as punishment or vice versa. My venus square his saturn. He had this way of always belittling me. Literally made me not wanna spend my money to the extreme. My saturn square his mercury. I would make him feel worthless in return. Hell. Don't do it. The sex is not worth it He has moon+pluto+ascendant in scorpio 1st house I have sun+mars+venus+mercury in 8th house. Mars opposition uranus/ trine pluto.

[@spiritofmatter1881]

You are so brave being this honest with yourself - this is halfway healing.

[@jadehalliday6636]

I've noticed a pattern of abuse in my synastry chart, as well. We worked together & at one point, we had a rather complicated intimate connection. I was inexplicably drawn to him & while he was always a little bit insecure, possessive & controlling, he became increasingly irritating & emotionally & psychologically abusive post break up. He found me rather threatening, I felt suicidal & now I have PTSD. Here are our synastry connections 👇🏻👇🏻 ~ His Pluto squared my Mars ~ His Saturn squared my Venus ~ His Pluto, Saturn, Mars & Jupiter fell in my Fourth House

[@jadehalliday6636]

I've noticed a pattern of abuse in my synastry chart, as well. We worked together & at one point, we had a rather complicated intimate connection. I was inexplicably drawn to him & while he was always a little bit insecure, possessive & controlling, he became increasingly irritating & emotionally & psychologically abusive post break up. He found me rather threatening, I felt suicidal & now I have PTSD. Here are our synastry connections 👇🏻👇🏻 ~ His Pluto squared my Mars ~ His Saturn squared my Venus ~ His Pluto, Saturn, Mars & Jupiter fell in my Fourth House

[@shlomovlogs9662]

My Pluto trines her Jupiter and my sun squares her Pluto while her Pluto opposes my Venus all by 1 or 2 degrees. We call ourselves friends but the energy is to intense. No sex but the obsession is ridiculous.

[@heathermcvey9660]

I got Mars conjunct Pluto/Lilith in the 4th squaring my Venus rising. Anyone around my age is gonna hit all of that with their Pluto. I'm of an age where I've learned a lot of lessons. The dark way. The only way out is cultivating and practising self love/worth.

[@lisakaye3919]

You could be a person that attracts abusive mates. I have mars in the 1st house and mars conjunct saturn.

[@plhlarissa3366]

I’ve watched so many of your videos over the years and first and foremost I want to express how amazingly talented you are in what you do And how knowledgeable and talented you are in sharing your knowledge. Secondly you are so incredibly beautiful both inward and outward. I just had to share that with you! Please continue to share your knowledge with the world! Signed Pisces sun Cancer moon 💗

[@AstroDeeStars]

Bless u for that.. thank u so much

[@mzzcece]

“Its a shame” perfect song for this subject

[@AstroDeeStars]

lol nope!

[@tylercovington6938]

Me & my bf have saturn square mars & soooo true. He physically suppresses me all the time, not in a violent way but he’ll smother me in affection i dont want & it does truly affect my sex drive with him

[@ChayYP]

I haven't watched the video in full but I'm SURE having the opposite moon doesn't help. I keep attracting partners with natal Scorpio moon (my natal is in Taurus) who have all been very abusive... Ok. Lemme watch lol...

[@astracampeau9306]

I love how u deliver just saying 😍😍😍

[@maggiep.3854]

💯 on point with pluto opposite mars. Good friend was murdered by her boyfriend who just lost it / jealousy issues throughout relationship. Very sad 😔 she wouldn't leave relationship either no matter how much we begged.

[@clarissecatelynn946]

Damn.. Im sorry for your loss.. Was she the pluto or the mars in the synastry?

[@maggiep.3854]

She was Mars, and his pluto was the exact opposite degree.

[@clarissecatelynn946]

@@maggiep.3854 even though it may sound crazy but I was the pluto in this synastry. During fights, when Id didnt feel understood or perhaps even mocked, it felt like they try to embarass or humiliate you. When this keeps happening, you start getting weird thoughts about them. During fights with my expartner, id get thoughts of stabbing him with a knife when he would really upset me or would wish he would get in a car accident. Since im not a violent person, of course I didn’t execute them but it was scary to feel these thoughts for a loved one. That was my warning sign that it wasnt healthy and I needed to step back from this. We were together 5 years, never hit each other, no pushing or tugging but oh the battle would sometimes really make us feel raged. dont recommend this aspect!!

[@DstarAstrology]

This was really good Dee. On point.

[@AstroDeeStars]

i appreciate that...i wanted to mk sure i did this right

[@shalaylaw7933]

Just from the way you describe the Pluto squared Venus or anything to do with Pluto being squared sounds like an awful ex of mine. It was grand manipulation from the beginning, and it went on for a long time before he finally showed his true colors. It low-key scared me and changed my life. Think he was a Scorpio sun...

[@AstroDeeStars]

Yep take a while for subtle scorpio energy to show.. wishing u the best

[@LolaLaura1993]

my ex's mars was in my 7th house and he was all kinds of abusive. physical,emotional,verbal and financial. I'm glad i left him

[@sugarcandy4639]

He has his Pluto square my Venus and I have my Venus opposite his Pluto and I have Pluto square his moon and square his mars and my mars square his moon and Saturn and mars. And I’m obsessed he is so pretty and I’m so mad the universe made him toxic to me, because he is literally exceeds my type but I don’t want my heart broken so I kept my distance

[@alebalessa77]

the same

[@accidentsafe]

My Pluto squares my husbands Mars and Sun. We only verbally fight about sex and cleaning up.

[@jasminemordha7015]

Same

[@sushmitasutradhar4880]

yes... I believe in freewill too 🙂

[@chloedenlinger3217]

Damn, I’m fucked I have a moon that squares pretty much all of men’s (Scorpio) Pluto. If I choose to pursue someone romantically, who is younger than me, their Sagittarius Pluto opposes my Mars. Also, all of my favorite Mars signs in men, either square or oppose my Mars.

[@Mysticalbeing.xx444]

Sameeee

[@chellestephens2098]

astro d! girl you looking good! good to see you back. much love from Dallas, Tx!

[@AstroDeeStars]

alright dallas!!!! workin on me sis glad u see❤❤

[@chellestephens2098]

awready! i see ya🙌✊

[@LVLV-im3ne]

AstroDee that Sagittarius was a woman beater & I walked away more than 22 years ago & more recently a year ago. I didn’t look back cheers for peace of mind🍾

[@AstroDeeStars]

SEND U SO MUCH LOVE for breaking through that.. takes alot of strength

[@AstroDeeStars]

yes Cheers to a peace of mind ❤

[@DestinyTheAries]

I’m so glad I found this channel. You break It down with sass and simplicity. Much love darlin! ✨

[@aquamarine0303]

There is this guy that I dated when I was 14 and he was 16. We met up again this fall. I never pursue guys, but I pursued him. I think my mars is in his house. He pursued me while in a relationship with another woman. On the phone.

[@user-cq8zc8ed9p]

Wich hoise please 7th right

[@intuitivelauren8539]

Thank you, great information. I have Mars in the first.

[@Eirammmm]

My mars is squared pluto in my own chart.... wow.

[@phoneixrising5038]

Same. How does it play out for you

[@Eirammmm]

I only have that one indicator. My mars in Leo in the 8th and Pluto Retrograde in Scorpio in the 12th. In the way of getting angry it takes me a long time but when I do I flip out. I definitely let everyone know. I’ve never gotten physical with anyone. When I get that mad I ALWAYS try to leave. But it honestly doesn’t happen often. It might be because I have a lot of Taurus in my chart. But also have a lot of fixed energy in my chart. How about yourself

[@phoneixrising5038]

@@Eirammmm ahhhh okay I kinda have a hair trigger temper , n when I blow up it takes alot to calm me down. I hate when I blow up it takes so much of my energy then I feel I lost power over myself to the person who pissed me off which I hate! Pluto in the 8th square mars in the 5th it's more to say but I'ma leave it at that Lol

[@mimend345]

I have Leo mars in the 9th squaring my Pluto in scorpio in the 1st conjunct my Scorpio rising. I am quick to anger and usually everyone around me will feel it. I always relate that to my aries moon, but the intensity to this aspect. I am angry until I feel it release, once it's passed through me, I usually go back to normal.

[@angelspirit9]

Glad I found your channel! You’re dope ❤️💓✌️

[@cmdny11]

I hear domestic violence by RZA 👌

[@AstroDeeStars]

yup! !!!!!!✊✊❤👍high school rachet nostagia Dm on IG @astrodestars5

[@cmdny11]

AstroDeeStars so awesome! Will do!!

[@ZizYoubizHERE]

can you pls make the saturn square venus video? i have this with 3 people...

[@AstroDeeStars]

Videos coming next 2 weeks...but I'll tell u right now I HOPE U RAN!!!

[@lekibb2905]

It sounds like "it's a shame" by the spinners.

[@AstroDeeStars]

lol nope

[@rarecombo]

Really good analysis

[@Melissa-lovinlife]

Thank you for this!!..very insightful 🙌

[@quinnxx369]

My Pluto square his Mars, also my Saturn sesquisquare his Venus. But dude has his Pluto opposites a bunch of my planets. BOOM!!

[@quinnxx369]

@T. C He is jealously, possessively and aggressive.. I think because I am a Cancer Moon myself... and he is an Aries Moon so yeah... I find him not that scary but rather immature most of the time.

[@sarahkoob1156]

She said Ike and Tina lol

[@sushmitasutradhar4880]

anyone pluto conjunct venus synastry?

[@flyleelee5351]

I've felt that before... it's intense

[@HighPriestess2222-]

Absolutely noo clue to what the song is 😂but i love your style authenticity im a scorpio stellium scorpio moon, venus, jupiter, pluto and north node soo much water but i have an astrology chart and deal with love career and the passing of loved ones to bring peace to people love your work astro dee!

[@Arelisms]

Omg spot on venus square saturn!! Ughh

[@linepetter1378]

Brilliant, GREAT video AstroDee.

[@AstroDeeStars]

much appreciated review!!

[@Peri_Sunrise]

What if someone had Mars in the 5th house and you had Pluto in the 8th house? What kind of dynamic could you expect with the Mars person? Would they fight for fun and you'd be manipulating and cunning your way for depth in the relationship? Would it change at all if your Pluto was retrograde? Would it be less severe if the orb was bigger than 5 degrees? Thank you!

[@jemerrific]

Oof my last one had pluto in scorpio at 26 degrees, my mars in aquarius at 27 but his mars (24deg) was conjunct my venus (27deg) in aries on my south node 🔥🔥🔥...I thank my lucky stars things ended when they did!!

[@JohnSmith....]

with my ex i had mars mercury square, and PLuto Mars opposition, moon square moon, venus square moon and mercury, Saturn opposite moon, sun. It was hell on earth...Too much Saturn and too much Pluto, the moons were all jammed, awful. The composite was even worse. We end up with resendment, that was mars pluto, the sex was good thow LoL, very very intense.

[@A...LA...LA...A]

AstroDee I love you💕😍... Your funny, your dope, with mad personality, I been rocking with you since AstroLada when I discovered y'all in November 2017, any who I need a reading asap! I believe I have a twin flame situation and I didn't even believe in mere soul mate's before all of this... I'm very detached but sensative and lately my life is harder than ever dealing with this, and I broke down down! 😖smh... I wish I knew that song lol

[@5050TM]

Great video!! Thank you!

[@AstroDeeStars]

thanks for watching

[@lisakaye3919]

Mars square pluto. Mars square saturn. Mars conjunct saturn are the worst. Also bad nessus and dejainira placements.

[@user-cq8zc8ed9p]

My pluto saggitarius and saturn gemini square his sun pisces he is the most sensitive man i'm the most direct rude woman i confess

[@nightloaf4983]

Mars square Mars is horrid in opposite sex/sexual shit. Mars square mars with same sex/friendly relations, It is a motivator.

[@lindahawkins5205]

Dudes jumping out of trees and stuff... 😂😂😂😂

[@beataklotz4315]

Mars squares Mercury: in the signs of LIBRA (Mars, 2nd h.) and CANCER (Mercury, 6th h.) still hurt in synastry?

[@AstroDeeStars]

Possibly❤

[@Lanana2444]

What about saturn opposite venus? Is it as bad as the square?

[@hellojimmyjimmy]

Anyone know about Dejanira? Like I have it conjunct his venus. We also have a lot of Pluto aspects and he has a lot of trines from his sun to my planets. But I’m scared of him. He’s obsessed but really jealous too. But it’s hard to walk away completely

[@yogeta3]

Plz make synastry over venus mars nd venus moon...moon moon...etc plz

[@Carrie21506]

Have Pluto opposite mars, Pluto opposite Venus, and Pluto square sun (he's the Pluto opposite my Venus, and I'm Pluto opposite his sun and mars) is this as bad as a square?

[@AstroDeeStars]

yes! are you okay gurl?

[@ZizYoubizHERE]

their mars is in my first house, exactly opposite my venus and square my pluto.. possibly sextile my moon too. idk if this is incredibly hot or violent... just based off of this, do you think the mars person will have the urge to abuse here? their mars is pretty badly aspected in their natal chart but its in pisces lol. in the decan of pisces too! in their 12th house

[@Myiaam]

Hello can you update please? I would be very glad thank you 😊

[@sazchy17]

Hi Astrodee I love your videos. I just want to ask if these aspects can also manifest with progressions?

[@AstroDeeStars]

yes!

[@Wendywolf8]

What about conjunctions or oppositions with these planets?

[@Divine-vg7qg]

What about mercury square lilith x And chiron square mercury

[@Divine-vg7qg]

Is the song you remind me of a girl i once knew

[@KyraMedici]

What about opositions like saturn opposing the other persons moon? or mars opposing sun? Aren´t those painful stuff as well?

[@Divine-vg7qg]

Your so funny 🤣

[@hiyokosaionji2169]

Mars in Leo(me) Opposition Mars in Aquarius in (him)

[@phoneixrising5038]

How does that play out

[@hiyokosaionji2169]

@@phoneixrising5038 it's very sexually tumultuous. Arguing turns us on. His mars also sits in my 3rd house. I really love hearing him speak, and doing quick trips with him. I have natal uranus and neptune conjunct my house 3.

[@phoneixrising5038]

@@hiyokosaionji2169 I totally get what you're saying Lol Me an Boyfriend The Same Way. My Mars In Leo, His Mars in Aquarius

[@hiyokosaionji2169]

@@phoneixrising5038 😂😂. Say are you on social media. We could talk about our charts. I have insta, kik, reddit. You name it.

[@phoneixrising5038]

@@hiyokosaionji2169 Yasss I'm totally down with that!! I have Instagram And Facebook

[@mockingbird6151]

His pluto is in my 12th house conjunct my asc both in scorpio, his mars is in my first house in scorpio and square my sun and moon, and his saturn is in my first house, all in scorpio... And we have venus square pluto in composite... Is he my enemy?

[@cuzitsnecessary]

My girlfriend and I are sextile in venus and mars; however, her pluto Scorpio and my Jupiter Aquarius is scares me a little as it's a square.

[@AstroDeeStars]

Wow does she get crazy jealous on you?!

[@AstroDeeStars]

Wait it may not be that bad

[@shlomovlogs9662]

Oh no my Saturn also Squares her Venus but hers trines mine on top of the negative Pluto aspects?

[@AstroDeeStars]

Dont sound2 goo

[@makicappy5602]

Pluto square Venus 6 degrees, does that mean I don't have to worry much?

[@tiffaniemoglovkin]

How do I contact you? I would like a reading, I have been studying but I have questions about a few things in my chart.

[@AstroDeeStars]

Hey visit my website www.astrodeestars.com and click on services ❤ thank you for watching

[@rawanalkhaldi9055]

His moon conjunct my asc and sun, his Pluto conjunct my moon mars 4th house, his mars Saturn conjunct my Pluto 5th house, his sun Venus mercery and Jupiter in my 8th house. What are your thoughts?

[@AstroDeeStars]

id have to see the whoooole story

[@JungleofMayaCouture]

How tight do the degrees need to be for a square would ten be ?

[@AstroDeeStars]

At leastb5 to 10

[@iyonahbrown8006]

how about if our Pluto opposition of Asc for both of us?

[@AstroDeeStars]

Heyy more so overpowering that yea can feel like abuse but depends on the state of pluto... if it's already got issues that yea thats abuse

[@iyonahbrown8006]

AstroDeeStars ... sadly everything was great but I think I started the abuse. I started hitting first. My Pluto Falls in my 7th house Scorpio. && his Pluto naturally falls in my 7th house. Yesterday we fought fought. & ofcourse I’m bruised & abused. bumped & lumped. etc. but ugh it’s just so unfortunate. I’m leaving it all the way alone tho. I grew up like that so I know what it is. 🥺

[@tractordriver8950]

Mars in 12th house doesn’t count?

[@AstroDeeStars]

hey i answered this during my last live.. check it out,

[@Delilo83]

And mars CONJUNCT saturn??? (Im mars)

[@coollibra3644]

I have leo mars so I square the millennial women smh