Venus in the 12th house Synastry ( Love that's hard to catch)

[@indiglolove]

My BF Venus sits in my 12the house, so accurate🙄 it took him almost a year to tell me how he really felt about me, didn't even know he was secretly crushing on me. Took another year to even show how much he loves me. It literally took for me to walk away from the relationship for him to show his feelings, But when he did open up about his feelings, OMG we're inseperable now😍😍😍

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Thats beautiful... my venus was in someones 12th.. I liked them alot.. then they disappeared when I told them...lolol

[@clarissecatelynn946]

Omg really.. thats lovely!! Its a shame they keep their feelings hidden like that!!

[@lady00303]

@@clarissecatelynn946 it's because it's hard for them to show their feelings.. I have my Sun, Mars and Venus in my 12t house, we tend to be painfully shy.. but have usually had hard childhoods.. I for sure had a hard childhood and not much love from my parents.. but I digress.. so give them time to open up. But yea, we are good lovers when we open up ;)

[@Monster4life13]

Same my bf’s Venus falls in my 12th only it took him 7 years to admit his feelings. We’ve always been really good friends, didn’t talk for a little bit, reconnected, and now we’re a couple!!

[@indiglolove]

Marie Wegma oh wow that’s awesome

[@roulinna]

This aspects often indicates twin flame relationships. Unconditional love, death of ego, obstacles preventing them of being together.

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

whew you said it.. and that last part.. ouch

[@bria7999]

Yup I just started my spiritual awakening last year.

[@theamjolnir9641]

This is so true, my Venus fell into someone's 12th house and to be honest, what you said is exactly what went through my head. "We'll be happier without eachother." And I broke everything off and cut them out for good. I don't negotiate. I'm decisive. I saw potential but in reality the potential is only what I saw and what was in my head. Not only potential, I also saw a lot of challenges and obstacles I was sure I didn't want to put the other party through, so it's just easier to forget about me. Sacrifice.

[@lillian3890]

That's deep !

[@jewelswithgem125]

I'm so sad at that as it may be what I need to do 😔😞 I just had too much wine and it's soo painful

[@ariannaramirez2383]

hi, i don’t know if you’ll see this but i used to think this way too but then i realized i shouldn’t let myself make all the decisions and should let the other person decide too if it’s something they want to go through with me. because sometimes they do want to, and it also motivates me since we will work through it together, instead of viewing it as problems only i have to solve.

[@ariannaramirez2383]

also you should let others decide what makes them happy:)! and what the consequences are and what’s important to them. if you broke it off only to keep your happiness, it wouldn’t be selfish but it does seem a bit less thought out for you to do it for their own, without talking about it. unless you guys did discuss that and decided that what best together , then that’s very mature of you both.

[@gabbyrojas7305]

this is exactly what i did! i’m the planet person as well

[@Blizzzzzardful]

Every time someone's Venus lands in my 12th house, i may have an instant attraction, but theirs is indescribable!!! They are very caring/nurturing, they ignore my flaws, they love me undonditionally. Well i want to give them things, but sth stops me from doing this 100%. And although i never care about someone's appearance a lot, let me say that with this overlay i don't find them quite attractive.

[@lananhtrucle2776]

his Venus in my 12th and his look takes my breaths away every time I see him. Strange! However, rest of your feelings relates to me.

[@MissBanks777]

So you don’t find him attractive. Interesting ...

[@Blizzzzzardful]

@@MissBanks777 Yes but this is a minor detail. Personally i think this is a very challenging and often draining placement with many emotional lows and ambiguity.

[@MissBanks777]

Blizzzzzardful I’m wondering if a placement like this can ever lead to marriage ...

[@Blizzzzzardful]

@@MissBanks777 I have seen that even the baddest aspects in synastries can lead to marriage. It takes at least 2-3 good aspects for partners to get along in the long run. But whenever i see any personal planet in the 12th house i am like ugh🤐.. fingers crossed. I don't care if it makes the best aspects with other planets, 12th house overlays unfortunately cause/boost friction. To me Venus in 12th house (love) is like someone let's say a girl entering a shadowy room without windows and doors trying to find her beloved one. This person is intrigued by the mystery and wants to provide/care/ help etc. The 12th house person can tell she is there, they can feel her but they can't see, feel her clearly and therefore they can't completely trust her. And then it goes vice versa.

[@Itsbabyj1]

We both have venus in each others 12th! lol We they stimulate my imagination all the time, not fully telling each other how we feel about each other but still experiencing deep feelings, we plan on traveling to far countries together although we live far af from each other. Psychological breakthroughs, they make me react in strange ways.

[@clarissecatelynn946]

How long have you been together

[@jakevendrotti1496]

The we-they might be a typo but it sure echoes the boundary blurring of 12th house qualities 😅 insightful!

[@sapisusu4363]

My secret lover venus falls into my 12th house and yes we ve very secret relationship, it seems we let our guard down when we r together..

[@DestinyTheAries]

Yes! Same here. She’s so accurate!

[@ΕιρηνηΒρ]

I cried my eyes out for him and he is just a crush. I am the house person. We are so different. He flirted me in a way that made me fall for him but I don't understand his intentions. I can't communicate with him. This is crazy, I wanna get out of this.

[@romina6635]

Same here

[@GypsyInThirteen]

Same here. Truly trying not to curse the day I met him.

[@areejalawami3628]

Saaane

[@sonishabasnet]

My venus is in my husband’s 12th. I had to keep this relationship secret from my mom because she would have gone crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣. We kept it secret for 2 years haha After marriage, we migrated to another country and live in sort of an isolated place.

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Perfect example!!

[@lotusphoenix8]

Wow! You aced this aspect!

[@isabellouis3833]

Damnnn

[@Sweettea_tea]

Omgg 😂😂😂😂

[@Sweettea_tea]

Wanted to be safe and secure

[@thatgworl2504]

I’ve dealt with 3 men with venus in my 12th house. The first guy was a co worker. I had a crush on him but it wasn’t serious and years later we reconnected on social media and this was when I realized that he was really into me. He asks me to come and hang out with him but I’m always giving him the rub around. I can feel his energy deep. I feel that he really likes me but doesn’t want to admit it. The other 2 guys, it started off fast and it ended fast. They both admitted how much they were in love with me and I couldn’t understand why when they just met me. It was in secret but the connection was beautiful and it felt like we were in our own world. Unfortunately, I found out one of them were in a relationship and the other guy left but wanted to come back when he got into a relationship. I love these connections but I would say when someone’s venus is in my 12th they are not to be trusted. I would just enjoy it for the moment

[@anaivanka2273]

I’m currently in this situation with another woman, I’m same-sex attracted and my Venus is in her 12th house. She’s 100% my type. We met through online dating, but it took us several months until we could meet in person. So far every person I met was into me. I do look like in my photos. But when I was around her, I got highly insecure! I gave her compliments but she never returned them. The whole meeting was so devoid of any sexual tension, at the same time though, she was trying to grab my hand twice when we were going for a walk, but it all felt so awkward to me, it didn’t feel right in that moment, so I snatched my hand away, as politely as possible and told her, I want to be friends.🙈 This happened two days ago. She laughed and said “wow I’ve never been friend-zoned by anyone this fast” And then she told me that’s it’s fine, she’s actually already seeing someone else at the moment, but still wanted to meet up. So it’s like my intuition about not wanting to hold her hand was right, and then I thought why are you even trying to hold my hand then? I didn’t say any of that, I just laughed and said “good for you, I hope she’s special” and then we had some awkward silence and then I talked about my ex girlfriend and how great that relationship was and we talked about all our past relationships and what we like about sex and what we don’t, and what we’re expecting from a relationship and we were agreeing on everything and it was honestly kinda heartbreaking for me, bc I was (still am) really into her. So I think, in the case of this aspect: Venus is highly infatuated with 12th house person, but feels under-valued and invisible, so Venus either leaves, or buries their feelings to preserve her own image. When I came home I checked our synastry and composite: we got a 12th house stellium in composite with an 8th house moon. In synastry my Asc conj her SN, her Asc/Lilith conj my NN and her Eros/Juno my SN. Her Mars falls in my 12th house, so I wonder what that means. Is her sexuality invisible to me? Idk, what to make out of all of this, we’re still writing, she wants to meet me again, so we’ll meet as friends, also bc she is already dating someone else and I’m not going to be an affaire to anyone.

[@nocando89]

Do you still think about this person? I have had a crush for 5 years on the woman I met but I think she might think it's weird if I contact her now... man... this sucks. I'm the Venus person and she is the house person. She has no idea how I feel. I couldn't really talk around her at all...

[@DhiendaCleo]

Its not gonna go well with mars 12th synastry. I have it with my sister and some of people i know, theyre hidden enemies.

[@oscardiaz3311]

I'm always the house person with this and it follows me. absolutely the most heartbreaking people in my life. has manifested as finding out way down the line that i was The Other Woman to someone i came to love so dearly n there has been someone else who i know loves me to the core, but refuses to say to make a move.Then there is someone who simply lives far away, but wow it's always long distance. Everything you said is completely spot on. I'm always falling for that spiritual link too like wow the higher octaves are incredible. i always worry when i see it n often they have saturn falling in my 12th as well or their mars too so im just like omg what is going on. Truly TRULY in love wih a ghost. i have one of them that i still fall into his dreams and we've had these eerie syncs with divination work we do n its just so ...hard. I have grown though and I think the real higher octave as temporary as it was was important n life changing for me. I think each time we both stop talking n ghost eacsh other cuz its too intense but we always linger on social media n we are like ghosts watching over the other. very heartbreaking. Thank you for such a wonderful video. my favorite so far.

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Whew this was deeeeep... incredible longing i see from this.. sending you spiritual love..... from afar ❤🙏🏾

[@diegogibson3391]

My sun conjunct rising is here! I usually can feel the Bullshit, I get it that too! Thats just how it is and nothing can be done about.I remember my uncle told my cousin to never be serious with a man until he's 46...After studying i found out Why.My advice, Make sure he's Spiritual on all levels 1st.

[@julinobile7045]

​@@DeArieshasDesignsmy Venus in his 12th house, my Neptune falling in his 7th house...we met at a distance, both in different countries, as he lived in a communist country (Cuba), I helped him get out of there. ...we were together for 9 months as a couple, living together...now we are best friends...we still live together and he is about to move to another country and he proposed that I go with him and his family...plus we have my sun and moon falling in his house 11...that's why we are best friends, he says it's like a brotherhood...that I was the person who did the most for him and that I was in the worst moments unconditionally, that I am one of the most important things in his life...and the best person he knew...although as a couple we didn't get along well, as friends excellent...my moon and sun fall in his 11th house, my moon and sun and vertex conjunction his Venus. ..but we have many contacts from Pluto...my Pluto trines his moon and Mars and in opposition to his Venus...conjunction Venus Mars, aspects my moon his Mars, my Mars his moon, and that still generates that we cannot leave sexual intimacy aside

[@sophiasjoy08]

LOL!!! So true about being oblivious to someone liking me. Friends will be like "they were flirting with you.", and I'm like "Nah, we were just having a good conversation.". Lol!

[@Sowley8]

Happy almost 1 year anniversary on this video....perfect timing for me. I’m with someone who I’m am Venus and he is the 12 house. This is the best video ever! This is the best Love I have yet experienced. I love him, but want him to be happy no matter what...even if it’s without me.

[@jay-eh4fj]

Wow! Very accurate, AstroDee. I'm experiencing this aspect right now. I'm the 12 house person. Her Venus makes an exact conjunction to my Mars in Aries, which is in my 12th. The problem is, there's nothing I can do about it. She's a good friend of my Wife......not that I want to cheat, but the attraction is undeniable and uncomfortable (at least on my part). I'm not sure how she feels. My wife and I was separated for a couple years and I was so tempted to make my move, but I couldn't bring myself to cross that line. Now, whenever she comes over, I try to leave the house, LOL.

[@Juhi169]

It's better to leave your wife...your wife deserve someone better!!!

[@brianalashawn0828]

Yeeeeah, I am the 12Her & I feel like the Venus person sees me as their personal fantasy and not like a whole person. It’s aggravating. My Venus is in their 8H, so there’s also that 🙃

[@jkingvevo2472]

What’s y’all bond like? Ik 2 people with these same exact placements in their synastry 😂 8th and 12th house is something else I swear lol

[@michelgarces6931]

Anyone who wants to get out of the 12th house have to practice self awareness and recognize when this pattern of secrecy clandestine and unrequited love appears. to break free from this you must have to make it real! you like someone? tell them! or make something very obvious to communicate ur interest! you being offered a love affair? but the person only shows you partial availability cannot fully commit for whatever reason? practice self love and make your boundaries crystal clear! focus solely and the man/or woman you want to have and accept no subtitutues. 12th house is about sacrifice but it makes a huge difference what you decide to sacrifice! a chance to have a healthy love affair and a relationship in the open? or your self sabotaging tedencies making you reclusive and unable to express yourself due to self imposed fear and prejudice, people with 12th house venus have to know that people get rejected people break up and separate for many reasons its up to you if you take it personally. measuring you attractivityness and desirability based on how many people you can seduce and be in a relationship with its a one way ticket to self destruction and sabotage the 12th house in the 8th are were we imprison ourselfves due to self imposed behaviors due to traumus or past experiences. The solution may seem simple yet its difficult cause theres a huge sensitivity here but taking owner ship of your venus is what will give you succes in the love department. be vunerable and stay strong when your love is not reciprocated or its not able to be formed with the individual you seek to be with learn to let go without giving up on love. Cause we all are worthy of a healthy stable relationship and theres many people out there looking for the one just like you! express yourself put yourself out there in the best way u can. much love .....I'm a venus in virgo in the 12th house a libra rising. Cut through the foggyness and illusion and go down to the grain what is you want cause I want this period ! can you give it to me or not? always stay humble but never sacrifice your self love and ur dignity just to be in a relationship cause it takes 2 healthy individuals to form one!

[@anaivanka2273]

Another thing that comes to mind, concerning this aspect: I think Venus in 12th house synastry is kinda like the dynamic between Shane and Carmen from the L Word. For anyone who watched that show back then, they’ll know. ;) We, as the Venus people, are like Carmen to someone else’s Shane. Carmen, a total babe, has to face continues rejection, from an emotionally unavailable person. She’s treated like yesterday’s meal. Instead of treating her for the major catch she actually is, Shane is in her own head constantly, engaging in one escapist activity/one-night-stand after another. It takes her a whole season to finally realize and appreciate Carmen’s feelings for her. But it also takes Carmen a whole season to finally talk about her true feelings. Before, she just started dating Shane’s best friend Jenny and continued lusting after Shane from a distance. When they finally do get together, the theme of being undervalued, unappreciated, cheated on and left at the altar sadly continues. Now that I think about it, Venus in 12th house really sucks. I hope it doesn’t always end up being this dramatic. 😒

[@majahcuyos933]

I have my Venus in my husband’s 12th house and his on my 11th house. We’ve been together for 12 years. I’m Venus in Virgo and his Venus in Gemini.

[@romina6635]

Square venuses?

[@romina6635]

Us too. The same😂

[@LRB-vd9he]

😭how did this work i have this with my crush

[@LRB-vd9he]

@@romina6635 yess

[@fi6594]

3:26 private lowkey 3:54 want to sacrifice their own happiness of being together for the other person 5:36 12th yearn for Venus 6:05 venus is in my hidden to realise their feelings

[@fi6594]

13:04 friend that you find out has had feelings for you all along but didn’t want to ruin the friendship.

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

@@fi6594 wow❤️❤️

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

@@fi6594 thanks❤️

[@dusica1904]

I am crazy about one guy and my venus is in his 12 house...he is kinda my ideal man...but he is not single...so I keep my feelings for myself and trying so hard no to be seen. We work together and we have wierd comunication with some secrecy fog surrounding us. And I am very shy infront of him and I am not shy in general. I would do anything to help him and support him. And I do dream about him...The first day we started to comunicate, I had that very night a dream about him. So , just wanted to share this experience...And you are doing great job.

[@myaacount]

can i see your Synastry chart? i m interested in check few things. Regards

[@kapoianyxta5886]

Sweet Jesus.. almost same story here.. i am the 12th house person. I am still feeling so confused about him. No contact for over a month, don't know if he takes a leap of faith and reach out to me.. i have no clue about what future holds..

[@nocando89]

I dreamt my 12th house person didn't care for me. Maybe that's changed. I also feel like I would like to do anything to support this person. I don't have a hidden agenda. Def worried what she thinks.

[@meggiesue]

The guy I like has his Venus in my 12th house. I have liked him for years. He is only available now because his partner passed. I don't even know how to begin to approach him. My Venus is in his 2nd house.Such a mess.

[@dejakashaka]

With my experience as the 12house person, either I like them and don’t feel like they like me romantically and then I find out they‘re in love with me later and I had no idea. or they ask me constantly if I like them as if they don’t believe me . It’s in Leo and I feel like I might be attracting This aspect so much Bc I have a Leo asc.

[@meowsitgoin1937]

My current friend with benefits sun,mercury,venus and Jupiter falls in my 12th house. I could scream. I love him unconditionally but I feel like he could care less as he’s so elusive, but he hints that he does care to an extent. Drives my fears and insecurities up the wall.

[@shesalibra]

This is also me he has Sun, Mercury & Venus in my 12th

[@SThunderchild]

There's this person. Their Scorpio Venus is in 12th. My 12th is in Scorpio and my Venus is in Virgo, which makes this thing make more sense I guess. They wanted something with me. I said no. It wasn't an affair or hooking up, they just couldn't acknowledge how deeply it runs and I wanted to protect the connection. It hurt to say no, but I did it because I knew it would hurt more to act too soon. Some things take time and they were moving too quickly for growth. What you've explained really helps. I think we're in love with each other. It is completely unspoken and breaks my heart. I'm losing hope that they're ever going to gather the courage to tell me how they feel. They know everything I know, it's so obvious. They just haven't come forward. I'm not waiting... but I am, if not unintentionally.

[@LamiaEnglish]

his venus in my 12.... All ur words and comments hurted me so much and made me cry. i hope we can break it but what you say is completely true. both of us are craving for each other but tryna hide it. we are not sure what is really going on . i dont wanna lose him but if universe send him to my life for some reason, i can deal with it , at least i hope. we both are so sensitive coz water energy is heavy our charts. he is asc libra , sun scorpio, moon cancer (with scorpio stellium and other 3 planets in water sign) and i m asc scorpio, sun cancer, moon taurus (with cancer stellium in 8 house ) ..... will be so fuckin sorrowful experience for us. thanks sharing

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

wow I hope you both pull through and get lots of strength and healing. Thank you for sharing as well.

[@jakevendrotti1496]

7:58 🤣 "y"all go fall" made me howl. We love you Ms. Dee 🙏❤️

[@JordanDT]

Yasss😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@cameronr59]

"Is that cute? I don't think so, I don't want that shit." 🤣🤣🤣 12H Venus in Gemini Rising ...so you know what the deal is. Very spot on, and very entertaining. My Mercury in Aries appreciated listening to someone discuss this topic without being sucked into the sad and hopeless demeanor many usually do it with (it's sad enough ffs!) But on a real note, the heartbreak is real enough with this natally...when it is compounded by a synastry placement...the pain is unreal. It makes a place that can be so heavenly feel like a hell with no escape or end in sight. 8th House suffering doesn't hold a candle to 12th House suffering because especially for the house person when they don't have any planets in that house to provide them with insight and attract life experiences that give them clues about what's going on up there, it's can be a house where you have very little control.

[@lacedthoughts1001]

Come thruuu AstroDee!!! This was much needed 😩 lol His Venus in my 12th , My Venus in his 1st... my moon in his 12th , his moon in 1st... I’m damn near running in circles at this point lol He’s definitely a guilty distraction of mine , so the self undoing is real if you aren’t paying attention 🙌🏾❤️

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Oh yes.. and its almost very ideal for him... like your a goddess on pedastol..if hell admit it

[@ebonychavonherndon3379]

Just stumbled across this video and wow I have this aspect with a guy who keeps reoccurring in my life but we’re always unavailable to one another but this is our exact chemistry this was so beautiful 😍

[@merlinsreturn]

Venus in the 12th house isn't always about cheating or wanting someone who is with someone else. It could be a celebrity's venus that comes in your 12th house and they dont know you exist and since their pluto squared your moon you were obsessive enough to go and check their chart based on their birth time LOL

[@minuit6305]

That is oddly specific 🤔 😳 😅

[@sodapop83]

sshhh... it is very specific. let's chuck in some saturn square too, why not?😊😥

[@Traders_Paradigm]

I met a girl a few weeks ago and we hooked up two nights in a row. Come to find out she had just broken up with her bf a week or two earlier. I left after the second night on a trip, and got back about 6 days later. Everything has been pretty awkward. We talk but she is also talking with her ex as well. I will say though that their is some kind of dreamy no time feeling when we are around each other (I've seen her twice since we hooked up). However, our texting back and forth is absolutely TERRIBLE. It's really weird, because everything is fine in person. It's like we are both hesitant. And I can't picture her face in my mind at all. She also has her sun in my 12th house too. Strange feelings with this placement and you can't get them out of your head.

[@clarissecatelynn946]

Yes, as the house person you cannot picture the other persons face in ur mind and yeah theres a dreamy feeling when your around eachother. Very interesting and kind of weird

[@Deeplyr00ted]

Yess! I'm the Venus person in his 12th house . We always call our time together "the twilight zone" lol . Because when we are together it's like we don't care about anything else that we usually would care about if we were alone. It's like time doesn't exist .. and we can't get lost in each other very easily. I long for him when we are apart . We have issues also when we are apart ....more bickering and arguing but when we are together it's like it never happened . When I get around him he makes me feel like a teen with a crush again . Never had this connection with anyone before ever. But it can't work ..so it is heartbreaking.

[@SS-ym8cj]

I’m on 2:30 and I’m already sobbing. I came here in some 12th house business but it was a word O was sent for. Whew!!

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

🙏🏾🙏🏾❤

[@ZoeyChilds]

I was in an elusive 10 year situationship with a guy who had Venus in my 12th house. Every word. Accurate, WOW.

[@cian2898]

Both of us have multiple planets in each other’s 12 house. A lot of heartbreak because of unknown affection- undoing self sacrifice energy. I let go of him because I love him. But I need to love myself

[@Anastasiapajarillo]

His Venus in my 12th h, conjunct the exact degree of my north node, my Venus in his 7th h, conjunct his north node as well.. some serious implications, passions, telepathies and other things of the sort here. Not sure if it’s more pain than pleasure, substance and depth than pure romanticised imagination. Future will tell

[@Sowley8]

The characters from the movie good deeds is a perfect example of Venus in the 12 house. Tyler Perry was definitely the house person.

[@user-ec6me3rz4e]

so sad i just found you. you have such a great way of explaining and i love your personality 💛

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Im thankful you have... Wishing you a good week

[@mary-anneb2614]

His Venus/Pluto is in my 12th house, my Venus falls in his 12th house too. The composite Venus is also in the 12th house! Very spiritual synchronistic. We always say we have our own little world!

[@CarmenBelcher]

Aww you so cute and expressive! So glad I found you. So I’m here because my Venus is in his 12th house (and sun, node). And he has 5 planets in mine (sun, moon, mercury, mars, node)...unsure where its going. 18 years apart both are single and we’re neighbors

[@clarissecatelynn946]

Sounds exciting

[@CarmenBelcher]

Clarisse Catelynn yeah so no he is a jerk and we stopped talking before the holidays

[@xxxangel1267]

🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🤣🤣🤣

[@certifiedvampgf]

Oh my gosh, this is so accurate! My Venus is in my 12th House and my Venus is also in Capricorn, AND my sun and moon in Sagittarius, and every part of this resonated from the travelling, self undoing, and feelings of inadequacy when it comes to partners. I have such trouble telling people how I feel about them. It's like walking around a dark room! Thank you for this vid!

[@vgylsen]

I'm the Venus person and my dude knows, trust me. But yes its the forbidden fruit. We not allowed to be together lol

[@qutiezai]

this is what he said to me his Venus in my 12H... "he wants me to be happy 💔😭"

[@phyllishandy2367]

Venus in 12th sucks.

[@thatgworl2504]

This is right on Time.

[@hilmichildofgod]

It's amazing how spot on this video is! And also straight to the point and everything covered! :D

[@thenorthremembers5978]

There is someone I like in the university. My venus falls into his 12th house. I felt that he liked me first, but I didn't have any feelings for him around that time. After he talked to me for the first time, it was like I don't know. I liked him immediately. Then 5 months of bullshits we started seeing each other. We had sex when we met for the first time. I just couldn't control myself. We're sex buddies for a while. I still don't know if he like me for real. 😔 I tried to break it off but he always finds a way to get me back. I'm with someone else now. But I just want go back to him. We still meet up sometimes. I'm practically cheating on my boyfriend. My life is a mess right now. I only want to know if he loves me too. 😔 Now it's been a year. I wish I could give up on my life.

[@peacefulpurpose6982]

The North Remembers man get yourself together

[@TheGeeLuv]

I love Venus in the 12th house synastry.

[@JoeZaza100]

11:13 "Totally giving you fucking diabetes...?" 💀💀💀💀

[@ruthie2795]

his venus is in my 12th house (as well as his moon, mercury, and jupiter) and i never felt like it was necessarily “hidden”. He enjoys showing me off (Maybe this is his leo ascendant?). He is also a pisces venus in his natal chart

[@Troublemaker0]

Same I’m the planets person I have this with my lover and I show him off all the time. We are long distance tho so that part is true But I am secretive about him I just wanna protect what we have. I’m also a Leo rising Pisces Venus

[@malcolmxaiver6521]

my last relationship, his sun mercury and venus were in my 12th

[@alinedafonseca8854]

I think I asked or this or whoever did read my mind. Either way, thank you!! Always love watching your videos!!

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Yaaas I.think it waaas you!! Thank u

[@penguinlover4809]

I had my Sun, Merc, Venus in My coworkers 12House. He had asked for my number we started as friends. We were seeing eachother for 5 months fwb. It felt like our own world. Turns out he had a wife of 9 years 💔 We had a 8 year age difference. Can't help to think that everything might have been fake🥺..

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

oh shit 9 years.. so sorry to hear this.

[@MsGalliday]

Woooh Child this explains why Gemini’s are so intrigued by me . Gemini rules my 12h and there are so many Gemini men that have had crushes on me. my ex had sun, moon, Venus, and mars in my 12h and everything you said was trueee its truly a relationship i cannot explain at allllll. To crazyyy he was sooo in love w me but too unstable . Now this other Gemini guy has his Venus in my 12h that has a crush on me now and I’m running lol he’s like I’ll take you out and I’m like nah . Lol I’m so done w/ Geminis I can’t take it and the hidden enemy part is true with the women ...

[@Ariesmoon337]

You’re my favorite 💕

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Your so dope ..thaaaanks boo!

[@shaystuh]

dated someone with his sun moon and venus in my 12th...absolutely crazy to say the least

[@clarissecatelynn946]

Please do tell..

[@shewalkshertalk]

@@clarissecatelynn946 I guess they don’t want to tell

[@revelofficial8542]

i've experienced someones venus in my twelth. its hard. so hard. hurt me like so bad. was not worth it. i ghosted

[@clarissecatelynn946]

What made it hard?

[@MysticRainDrops]

It was great I have to say that i am the venus aspect and i feel his 12th house is the one that does all these things.. to the point that he creates situations that would make us be apart. By the time he realizes it i will not return to him. He doesn't appreciate me and i am trying exactly what you said... to awaken his spirituality

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

You can also surrender too, Lack of appreciation is a deal breaker. Thank you for watching!!!

[@arieschick1]

Thank you for the vedic influence

[@Phoenix333Rising]

All of this is so accurate, (the good and the bad)! I'm in a long distance situationship with someone, and my Venus falls into his 12H. He also has 12H Venus natally - do you think that would make things even worse, or would it on the contrary, mitigate things a bit, since he is 'used to' this energy signature?

[@Divine-vg7qg]

Omg this is so much like that film 'something borrowed' with Kate Hudson in it. Aw man this is venus in 12th house stuff

[@miss.samanthaj.8]

I definitely agree with you here!! Love that movie... perfect analogy.

[@roseandstem8054]

Both his venus and mine are in 12th house. My Sun, Scorpio - is also in the 12th house

[@mikkishea8458]

My Venus is in his 12th house. His Venus is in my 8thhhh..

[@rana8xd]

what happened now

[@rana8xd]

it is significantly platonic love for both side

[@barbariancauldron3284]

I LOVE ME SOME ASTRO DEEEEEE

[@NatalieDuby]

Wowzers. My venus placement is in the 12th and I'm really paying more attention to this. I see so much truth in it, regarding my love life.

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Im so glad, I really hope this is helpful because, we can waste so much time in this fog until the truth sets up free. best of wishes to YOU!!! and thanks for watching.

[@DM-xj8hi]

Yup I sacrificed my relationship to be with him, my work relationships, my family hates me now. : ) He dumped me after 3 months, ruined my work relationship and just... Im disgusted. My Venus in his 12th

[@DM-xj8hi]

My Venus in his 12th house, it hurts like hell. Literally

[@angelamaeserdan1697]

It's vice versa. Im a house person and yes i feel like i am more affected than the venus😔

[@sarahwaiyee9137]

Wow. Just wow. You're amazing Thank you so much for this knowledge. Blessings🙏🙏🙏

[@Jackie_O7809]

So glad I stumbled upon your videos!! Great breakdown/explanation and insight! ✨✨

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Heyyy shoot im happy you stumbled here too! Lol if you like this I hope your following me.on IG @astrodeestars5.. thanks for.watching

[@emmabrooke8705]

Accurate lol. Spiritual, secretive, heartbreaking, longing, psychic, relationship never manifesting, in love but then not realising how much etc. I was Venus in their 12th. Don’t talk to them anymore, I disappeared lol. When they had gf, continued with me in secret. Have to be super clear if ever have this placement again! I never said how I felt lol. I like spiritual side of this placement but reality in love be beautiful too. Lol.

[@spacejelly4600]

Work with a married doctor my Venus is in his 12th his Venus is on my ascendant......sooo much attraction and denial 😩🤦🏽‍♀️

[@gracielagomez7044]

Can you describe what it was like when you guys first met?

[@lollipoplolli2312]

Love this, thank you for insight ❤️

[@amina7037]

I swear this barista has their Venus Scorpio/Sag in my 12H. I had to cut them off and completely stop coming to that damn coffee shop. I'm sad I can't get their pastries and drinks anymore, b/c they're such a sweet distraction (like you mentioned) and I really need to focus on myself. They had me writing/journaling some very deep and raw shit on their outdoor patio seating. I've never had feelings or thoughts like that toward ANYBODY. I pass by them everyday at work, I feel like I'm getting lured/sucked into the shop but I have to resist. Thank you for the vid and explanation, resonates a lot. 🙏🏼🧡

[@amina7037]

I also had to cut it off because I discovered they had a partner and I did not want to play that damn game again.

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Oooo yes! You showed yourself complete self love and walking away and avoiding it was the BEST you culd have ever done... big hugs to you luv❤❤😊 may you find your match asap

[@niterockerone]

Mars in Taurus Sun ,Ruler Venus ,Gemini Moon in Venus ,12th House Cancer Rising placement ,Venus.... Venison Tri-Power. Sun ,Moon ,and Rising !

[@veronicavasquez7517]

This makes sense I have Venus in the 12th house . I had meet a guy a year ago we talked a little bit and exchanged number . We lost contact till last November and he remembered me but I didn’t remember him then he told me where we meet and stuff so we started talking and hanging out a lot and it was all good till I asked him who he lived with and stuff and he told me he live with his kids mother but they are not together so I ended up friend zone him and till this day he try to convince me to be with him but I rather not .

[@lotusphoenix8]

7:00 killed me 🤣🤣🤣 Unfortunately, I am the house person in my current situation. Guy is smitten DEEP and I'm so not moved romantically. He's too willing to sacrifice himself for me. I keep trying to show him that this is going nowhere but he just insists on pursuing me, it's really sad because he's begging for this heartbreak

[@nocando89]

I'm so worried about my house person feeling the way that you do lol .. this is why I'm keeping my feelings to myself. Either they want to get to know me or they don't give a fck. Lol. :(

[@lotusphoenix8]

@@nocando89 I have been on either side of this fence and it's very unfortunate. Hopefully your house person isn't cruel about it at least. It helps if one doesn't sacrifice one's dignity or humiliate the other in the process, whether one is the planet or house person. I wish you all the best.

[@jayanikke295]

Venus in the 12th house can be someone at a distance or a celebrity.

[@ranaalshazali2131]

i have 6 planets in 12th house including venus i cry daily in private since years now have deep wounds can’t express it my love interest in 12th house venus also i feel bad for him because im 12th house also

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Whew!i know that is too hard.. wishing you much healing

[@andrijanaperajkovic7722]

His Venus in my 12th house and my Venus in his 7th house

[@pretend15]

Andrijana Perajkovic I have thé same . Could you please tell me more about your expérience

[@andrijanaperajkovic7722]

@@pretend15 There is certain chemistry between us,like he is reading my mind but also a lot of suspicious

[@slowmotion2383]

Ja imam terenutno takvu poziciju. Ima li nade? 😀

[@DhiendaCleo]

My placement too

[@Milsukix3]

Hmm, Its interesting I often feel the people with Venus in my 12th house feel it stronger for me than I do for them. Is it always that the planet person feels it more or maybe Its because of my Sun being there so it creates also Venus conjunt Sun?

[@Jj-ls1nd]

Yes same for me. I have sun in my 12th house and I feel like ppl who’s Venus falls in my 12th feel it more than I do, but I can feel it too

[@realnettieb]

I really didn’t know you liked me! That gotta be my tag line 😭😭

[@nicolehavelyana5265]

I love your channel so much 😭💕 thank you for sharing the knowledge 🙏🏽

[@margorowe3025]

Spit my water..lol..being in love with a ghost😂

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Lolol

[@catherinefebrianti9820]

My ex bf has this placement kept asking me a lot if i loved him or not..i always said tht i truly loved him but it was a kinda hard for him to believe..i already did everything for him to make him happy but he yet didnt feel satisfied. It made me feel confused wht he really wanted & what was wrong with him..i couldnt get it coz he was very secretive..i didnt know either he loved me as well or not. But unfortunately he decided to leave me coz he wasnt worth of having me:(

[@katrinaligas4491]

What if his venus conjuncts my ascendant? It still sits in the 12 th house though.

[@dayad333]

girl this too accurate… my boyfriend of 5 years had an accident baby on me during a 6 month break… currently healing from the heartbreak still. the baby ain’t even been born and he already telling me he wanna come back.

[@nataliavargas3891]

My Lilith sits in the 12th house Taurus. My Jupiter lies in Scorpio. This was a difficult lesson to alchemies

[@christinafrancis3173]

Hi,Dee! New subbie,love your readings! What if you & a special one both have 12th house Venus? I have it with someone I like.

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

That actually may work...especially if it's clear unboth like sachother...now ur getting the higher octave

[@reflectionprogression2210]

Luv your energy !

[@addyyylaidefanf5215]

my synastry has venus in 12th house and 7th house, im not sure if planets can be in more than one house, i also have sun in 2nd 7th and 12th house, anyway i just came here to let you know THAT THIS IS SO REALL , we are in along distance relationship were best friends before that, he left his girlfriend for me, we also have a YOD, i didnt know he liked me but he confessed, then things got so toxic and i became too giving, and he was emotionally closed off, now things are so good, still in long distance and i believe its gonna be like that for a while since were 18 and both VERY ambitious, so yes, we long for touch and communication, its hard for him to communicate because cap in 3rd house and cap moon, so that is VERY difficult, and not to mention my gemini is in 3rd house so my mouth hardly ever shuts up lmao, also we are different religion, so here in india definitely this relationship is forbidden from the public, our relationship is literally a secret and its so difficult very accurate i fathom its true love thanks :)

[@etoileconsciente]

You're voice sounds so beautiful. Are you a Pisces/Taurus Mercury?

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

Nope but close guess❤❤

[@poetrinoerel19]

Beautiful explanation! Thank you so much ❤️

[@BangNeenaWill]

I have Venus in the 12th house, Scorpio

[@margorowe3025]

Me too..but retrograde🌅

[@merryfreakingpoppins8968]

Me too we should start a club do you think it's a positive or negative placements iv had sucky love adventures

[@googlebarbaralernerspectre2581]

Same here. I love love hahaha

[@kerrithornton]

My Venus is in their 12th house. But his Venus is conjunct my mars in his 7th, my 2nd house, in cancer. Also ascendant conjunct the descendant, with true nodes. Lots of positive aspects, but this aspect. Definitely feel the psychic stuff. And I can tell if they notice/are attracted to me when I dress cute lol and I sense that they are engaging in those "undoing" behaviours....but I could never tell them how I feel as it would require so much sacrifice (career, reputation, relationships). So stuck here in this weird limbo.

[@lenasvn]

He got his sun, venus and chiron in my 12th, with his chiron conj my NN. Lets just add that he’s stuck with a karmic and their mutual children. 😔 18 months in, it could become permanent if he let go of fear and stubborn aries-ness. 😄

[@sanny-nk9re]

Plz do a video of south node conjunct vertex synastry

[@bitchyvirgo_]

Lower octave 5:00

[@Ycnanko]

As the Venus person I was so oblivious, the house person perused me for years the moment I reciprocated the feelings he was too stunned as if he were scared, we also have 7th/5th house synastry & other positive aspects but Venus square Pluto does it for me. I rather be friends than lovers

[@arlastevenson9583]

My Venus is in his 12th. he’s my step brother so the chances of us actually getting together are very low

[@feather_333]

🤖

[@honeybfly1980]

Omg yes, Im the venus and he’s the 12th house and yes I want him to be happy even if not with me. I cant hate him. Im also a pisces moon so I have to sacriface all the time

[@honeybfly1980]

He also has a 12 th house sun so he liked me first

[@aiai4276]

I love how you explain this. It’s how I am feeling

[@DeArieshasDesigns]

So welcome