Attempting to make an ice cream cake 💕

[@rufiredup90]

Awww, I feel sad that you didn’t get your favourite flavour of ice cream! May all the ice cream flavours you have in the fridge be your favourite.

[@samishkasingh8123]

I am the 500th like, this somehow makes me feel very happy😊

[@VijayaLakshmi-wq3bc]

Such a sweet comment ❤

[@misharajapakse2359]

One of the sweetest wishes ever from a stranger! 🤍

[@ChiomaObiozor-eo6zz]

omg urr so sweet i hope both sides of your pillow is cold

[@3kidsberryman409]

@@strawberryprofiteroleFalse lol

[@wonderlandmafia2]

For a second I thought that was orange juice and not butter

[@serenity6010]

When I saw it I came to the comments 😂

[@jbthekinggod8666]

​@@serenity6010ong

[@jbthekinggod8666]

Ong

[@bethanycochran1970]

Sameeee

[@SlayalldayINLIFE]

Same

[@jamiek2086]

Jokes aside but I genuinely feel for all the children who had parents that favored one child, no matter how ‘insignificant’ the favoritism is. Watching your own parents, someone you trust & love, favor someone over you can really damage a child’s esteem. Im saying this as someone who’s also witnessed mums favour their son due to deeply rooted sexism. 😢

[@bluestars3046]

OMG FOR REAL THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS, MUCH LOVE

[@Sparrows_Wings]

I feel that so much- it makes it so hard not to be so angry towards my twin because of it. I’ve told my parents so many times that they are favoriting my twin and yet they still deny and ignore me. They still shove me to the side, still have higher expectations and yet less faith in my ability to meet them. My apologies for ranting, and I feel for you to. I am sorry you had to go through something similar.

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

It's really bad. Nowadays my mom doesn't do favourtism but when she used to it would hurt really bad 😢

[@lizpimentel2566]

My grandma always favored my aunt (the oldest) and always bought her favorites. My mom to this day resents my aunt as she is kind of stuck up and judgemental. Favoritism in families is not cool and causes more trauma than we think

[@liastorm795]

Favoritism is definitely the devil’s work 🙃

[@gamerflamingo0977]

Finally, someone who understands the youngest is not always the favorite

[@yourlocalrobloxaddict9932]

Yes, everyone thinks that the youngest is the favorite but not always, like me and my sister (I'm younger she is older) Mt parents make it super obvious and when guests ask who the favorite is they look around making sure we're r not there then say my sister even though I can hear them loud and clear

[@dazem8]

Well, for a lot of families a boy is the prince so if he had been younger than her he still would have been the favorite.

[@cheeryberrie]

Sometimes the non existant boy child is STILL the favorite, you guys remember when our mom wish we were a boy?

[@pixie_dust2089]

I agree

[@relaxvibeschannel3473]

​@@yourlocalrobloxaddict9932who the hell asks that kinda question to someone! That's messed up as much as the parent's answer 😵‍💫

[@ladyvimto5546]

Some parents don’t deserve daughters

[@julyfareed3810]

For choosing someone elses favorite ice cream flavor? What is wrong wit yall on here

[@moonwave9748]

​@@julyfareed3810 Girl...its obvious there was more to it than just the icecream, she used this aspect of her childhood as an example of her moms blatant favoritism towards her brother

[@Cinqp_]

Parents have favorites yes. They're also human

[@No1shigeokageyamafan]

​@@Cinqp_having favourite children is a bit much

[@Lila17_]

@@julyfareed3810are u 10 cuz how can u not understand when she explained why her mother chose the ice cream instead of her daughter. Pls stfu next time

[@angelicasysnila5476]

The worst mistake a parent makes while parenting is picking favourites between their kids I am not calling your mom out, but mine 💔

[@lizamay722]

I'm calling mine out too. She completely favored my brother and it fucked me up on a constant. It still does, even though she's not even in my life anymore and neither is he.

[@angelicasysnila5476]

@@lizamay722 i am so sorry 😔

[@justagalwhocomments]

@@lizamay722I’m sorry for u I’m an only child but if I had a sibling I’d be even more annoying

[@ifkn]

@@lizamay722Sameee. I can’t wait until I’m able to move away from my mom and younger brother.

[@melissaevans4396]

My step children’s grandmother told my stepdaughter that her brother was her favorite of the two and it devastated my stepdaughter. No I don’t agree with that at all.

[@TheOtherChosenOnes]

In typical sibling dynamics, a segue to celebrating them is through the trauma they imparted on you through an unaware third party (parents)

[@TheOtherChosenOnes]

@@land-uknown7456 I was using the word typical to describe sibling dynamics demonstrated in the style of the video, not because of the story told. As in, her discussing an unpleasant but formative memory to celebrate his birthday. It did not refer to sexism being normal, or sexism at all. I wasn’t normalising sexism because I wasn’t discussing sexism.

[@lizamay722]

​@@TheOtherChosenOnesyou tell em. They don't know what they're talking about. Took it too far and way too left field with that shit

[@avarisun8383]

I’ll never forget the time me and my younger sister were sick at the same time and my Mom decided to buy ice cream because it was all we could eat, except she bought vanilla ice cream which I hate and told me to still eat it because it was all my sister could eat but we were both sick so 😅 and we weren’t strapped for cash, she could have bought another flavor, I felt even more sick after forcing myself to eat that damn ice cream Then next time I got really sick from food poisoning, she wouldn’t make me lugaw (Filipino version of rice porridge) because she was ‘busy’ then got offended because I wouldn’t eat her hot water, rice and salt dish which was literally just hot water poured over rice and salt 😅 My brother caved in 3 days after I’ve hardly eaten anything and finally bought some actually soup so that I could eat it with rice. So guess who never goes home when they’re sick because they know they couldn’t eat if the stayed at home, it’s me, I am they I’d stay in my apartment and just have food and medicine delivered because it emotionally hurt less than seeing your family not take care of you when you were sick Also why I keep a stash of granola bars incase I got too sick to actually get my delivery

[@AyanaSioux]

I'm so sorry that happened to you 😢

[@franceskittrell8761]

This made me tear up.😢 So sorry you had to go through this. You matter too. May you be blessed with your own family that will honor your presence and contribution in their lives. And love you deeply and unconditionally as you deserve. With love and admiration. Many Blessings to you.❤

[@mileystewart3944]

One day you will find your soul family who will love you so much that you will forget all your pain ❤️

[@recoveringsoul755]

Always keep soup and medicine you might need if you get sick. I'm so sorry. You deserve to be pampered when you're sick too Sometimes we have to do that for ourselves. I made chicken noodle soup from scratch and froze it in case I got sick. I never did.

[@madlad2527]

Dude you gotta let go!

[@boyinblue.]

My mom loves my brothers more than she'd ever love me, and I know it's because I'm a girl. It's really upsetting whenever I think about it.

[@Lila17_]

No you are so beautiful and wanted even if u don’t feel like that in your family. Being a woman is beautiful, I wouldn’t wanna be anything else. Sometimes parents prefer boys because they have a void for not having a good father or not having a father at all, it causes someone to psychologically want what they never had especially in women. It’s quite sad actually but that’s how it is, if u think about it the majority of families nowadays have a missing father or just a bad father, this why many people are messed up , women have daddy issues and men don’t know how to be men.

[@kava6109]

honestly you should not let that affect you cause in reality half of the world don’t like women … so don’t really let that get to you and ruin your mental health for people who don’t deserve to exist even .

[@Urmumshoe_]

​@@Lila17_ if thia was the case than single fathers would have their daughters as the favorite child yet most times it's the opposite. Not everthing has ro do with mommy/daddy issues some people are just bad people

[@Lila17_]

@@Urmumshoe_ uhm that’s cuz fathers always fear that if they have daughters they’re gonna be hoes. They stress thinking that they have to protect their daughters from dirty men. Also because society says “boys” are better which is a very misogynistic way of thinking. Men feel like it’s “better” to have a son also they think their boys will grow up to carry theyre legacy and last name. We live in a very misogynistic world , in case u didn’t know. The new Barbie movie explains it a lot there, so if u want a feel of what it actually means then I recommend u watch it.

[@bluecheese-vn7rq]

I'm so sorry Ik how u feel becoz that's exactly my situation as well just know that u are worthy no matter what ❤

[@Madeline351]

I love how good sported she is, never held a grudge after so many years ❤️

[@MaithiliKulkarni]

She did hold the grudge. Just not against the brother (rightfully so)

[@lizamay722]

​​@@MaithiliKulkarni For sure. I'm glad that she didn't take it out on her brother, it looks like she really loves him a lot

[@MaithiliKulkarni]

@@lizamay722 True!

[@newbeeify]

Its not the brother's fault

[@aceyoucanguess7966]

My brother is my mom’s favorite. You can tell. I have a fever, she isn’t worried. He has one, she almost has a mental breakdown. I tell a joke, it’s not funny. My brother tells a joke, it’s very funny. I make a cake, it’s being criticized. He makes a cake, it’s adored. These small things are noted parents.

[@moonchildc3894]

I can understand you ,cause it's the same condition in my house as well. Once during school week I won 7 trophies and brother got 1 .. when we reached home we showed mom our trophies . Guess what she got so excited and happy for my brother and just glanced at my prizes and congratulated me . There's many incidents like this which reminded me again and again that who's the favourite.

[@doris6206]

My mom used to be so partial towards my brother .Now that I'm older and gained confidence to point it out whenever she is partial she says I have weird thought process.

[@diaya1029]

As a younger sister, my brothers favorite was cookies and cream. I hate that flavor. Thank you to my father who would always buy this 😃

[@cynamin922]

As someone who was always the least favorite, I felt this. It made me the strong person I am… so I don’t feel sad about it at all.

[@moonchildc3894]

Yes... The one's who faced the inequality while growing up,can understand the feeling and they're the one who will bring a change in the society hopefully.

[@katie-wd6vu]

Looks great! A quick scrape around the edge with a bench scraper, offset spatula or a knife would show the layers!

[@winter.elisee]

That, or putting a parchment paper border inside the tin before adding the layers also works well! Then you can just peel it and show it off 😊

[@emileavemealone603]

Please heal your inner child and keep your fave flavors in your freezer and make ✨yourself✨ an ice cream cake for your bday in your fave flavor ❤️

[@unclewiley1986]

I feel her, Ive only ever had four birthday parties for myself, my 1st, 3rd, 4th and 16th. On my second birthday it was a surpise introduction for my little sister and every party from 5-15 was a 'shared' birthday on my first younger brothers birthday where it was everything he wanted and all his friends were invited. For my seventeenth birthday my mom even forgot and got me a cake to share with my second brother THREE MONTHS LATER. For my first party in years my aunt planned a special party this year for my 21st but she canceled it because my uncle is doing a sleep monitoring😭. I hate bday parties, I literally have seven siblings and they all get at least a cake and a special dinner😂.

[@kalinaribic6383]

I wish brothers were that sweet towards their sisters. Normally, girls who are favourited over boys are resented by their brothers.

[@figmo397]

You are a sweet sister. I know what it's like to be the not-favorite kid because my brother was my parents' favorite. They were so in-your-face about it that my grandparents and other relatives went out of their way to make up for it.

[@MadhushiNandasena]

Same as my family. My parents favorite one also my elder brother. Every time i need something i have to use the what my brother used. If i need to buy something i want, they tell him to buy it then he buy something that he want not what i want one. Even the my university year they never give me to pick my university 😢. It also pick by him.

[@jenniferwilson1323]

Yet, you still made the cake for him. Looks delicious. 🥰

[@TaniaNouri]

you are literally the best sister ever. i would love that cake for my birthday!

[@newbeeify]

We need to have more discussions about how parents treat their sons and daughters differently especially Asians

[@juju.2018]

Usually there will always be a favorite child, but it’s actually a psychological thing where many mothers tend to favor their boys over their girls.

[@Need_Nirvana]

It's deep rooted sexism

[@kat1774]

My mom does favor my brother, even when i came out as ftm(Female To Male).

[@justsayit5251]

​@@kat1774You are a women! Gender cannot be changed

[@jasmynjay3855]

I always thought my son was my favorite... I equally don't like neither my son or daughter.....😭🤣 Jp I love both of them. My daughter is just a strong A$$wipe

[@juju.2018]

@@jasmynjay3855 well at least u dislike them equally 💀

[@moonchildc3894]

Well , it's same in my house as well. Growing up I tried to convince myself that there's nothing like that, but fate brought such conditions again and again and eventually I understood that no matter what I do , my brother will always be my parent's favourite.

[@Butterism]

I can relate somewhat. Growing up, my favorite cake and ice cream is chocolate. But since I 'liked' vanilla, we _always_ had to get vanilla. Who's favorite flavor was that? My twins. Who else 'liked' chocolate but never had to sacrifice their favorite flavor? My twin. I only ever got chocolate cake on our birthday. Which I loved since I basically got an entire cake to myself. (Our parents always did 2 cakes)

[@leshundragreen631]

My big brother passed suddenly from a heart attack about 5 years ago. Thank you for sharing this. ❤

[@stupidinkgirl9609]

Damn imagine having a sibling that loves you and would do this for you 🥺💗 i could only wish

[@oliviacastro408]

I get this video and can sadly relate to it. Growing up my mother favored my elder brother due to my brother being born just 2 days before my mom's 21st so my brother had always been super close to my mom and someone my mom greatly relied on. But my eldest brother also was favored by my mom's mom as well. Now my youngest brother was always favored by my dad, and by my grandpa. Meanwhile I'm the only girl my mom had and the middle child (all of us are 3 years apart) and when I was born my dad was asleep in the waiting room downstairs, and when I was brought home my grandma hated me, cause I looked like my dad and she didn't like my dad back then, (she does now) so she kinda resented me a bit. I was never emotionally connected to either of my parents and for a short while I resented both of my siblings until I was about 7 or 8. Then I tried to see past the favoritism of my siblings and actually get to know them and realized that because they're the favorite, they had a lot of pressure on their shoulders. (Of course mine was doubled being middle child and the least liked) I was ignored and acted out severely due to this. So I'd argue with my parents and talk back, cause that's the only time they'd talk to me or even notice me(when they were yelling or smacking me). Then it all changed when I was thirteen. My mom died 2 weeks after my birthday and 4 days before Christmas, my dad became even more closed off than he was, I got cancer and suddenly they noticed me. Sometimes I wish for my siblings sake that everything was back to normal before I was 13. I never knew if my mom was ever proud of me???

[@pandacoolcute905]

I low key kinda feel you. My dad wasn't biased, but man would my sister ridicule me for choosing flavors they didn't like (aka mint chip). 😒 alot of things I liked would be things they didn't like, due to majority rule we always got rocky road.

[@EditzUlike]

Omg im early, and girl stop making me hungry it’s literally 3 in the morning rn and oreos are my weakness! 😭✨

[@norkhalilafariz]

I feel you girl! My father love my eldest sister because she's the first child & a lecturer, my younger sister, because she's the only one who inherits all the musical talent my father have and my younger brother, because he's the last & the brightest. My father always says he loves all of us equally, but well, who doesn't get her favorite food whenever she comes home, who always need to take care of herself whenever she got fever. Me! Who gets to cook party food for everyone birthday including my own birthday, ME!!!

[@zlatkajupe]

First of all you did amazing. As an Oreo lover I would totally devour that cake. Secondly, for you to make this for your brother, even though you have a bit of a history with this(never feeling validated by your mom buying what you liked, only what he liked) you really are a caring and sweet sister truly.

[@ramonabertuso3749]

Would love a video on how you folded the parchment paper & where to cut it to fit it, please!!!!!

[@Sai0912]

It hurts ikr

[@sylviaisafoot6570]

It’s beautiful!

[@livewiiiiire]

I love that you use the paddle from a rice cooker to spread the ice cream, such a great kitchen tool

[@alover5409]

Lol.I notice every little thing too... Hilarious 😅😅😅

[@kenyattastarks9590]

You're awesome sister!!!!

[@miks2078]

ever since i was young i've had an orea ice cream cake, it's been over a decade and i'm still not over it! i hope he had an amazing birthday and that you trued your amazing creation!

[@LeesDreamyFF_28908]

you are such a sweet sister omgosh

[@lavenderflowers1075]

The lady is so pretty.

[@melissaevans4396]

That’s what being a loving sibling is all about. You are a sweetheart ❤

[@theatotbads8991]

When I heard kuya, I was like: Omggg she's from Philippines too! 😂

[@lns4life]

I love ice cream cake. But am I tripping or doesn't it usually have a layer of actual cake?

[@Newizzy]

Omg me and you both my brother is definitely my moms favorite 😭

[@soshuaco.4392]

"she would always buy cookies and cream ice cream. Not mint chocolate chip-" "guess who's favorite that is. My kuya's" Everything about this so relatable since I'm Filipino, love mint chocolate chip ice cream, and have an older brother who loves mint chocolate chip I aspire to be as joyful as you in the future, I really hope are similarities are more than just opinions and nationality :>

[@thexaviera]

You did that! Edit: I still live through my mom favoriting my brother. She used to make him smoothies growing up…still never had that. But it’s cool, it taught me how to better learn others care accordingly. I hope you were able to heal from the favoritism you experienced. It’s a life long journey. Much love ❤

[@hulahipz01]

I'm also the sibling of a favorite child. That's why I never make my kids and grandkids ever feel like I have a favorite. I would never want them to feel like I used to growing up. Take care and stay safe Everyone. ❤❤❤

[@LaNette2733]

You did an good job. I am going to try it thank you.

[@mac_kindnessqueen7914]

omg i love ur energy

[@user-yz2hu3cf3e]

That is a delicious looking masterpiece!

[@M-bj1ug]

My mom does this too!! For my younger brother though. We only ever have cookies and cream. But the crazy part is she always tells everyone I’m her favorite

[@rinums4360]

Maybe you are you are misunderstanding her.

[@Mulchedd]

Your outfit is wicked cute!!! It's very elfy🌿

[@alexischow8374]

I feel like filipino parents favorite child is usually the oldest. My kuya gets whatever he want whenever he wants cuz he is our parents first.

[@moonchildc3894]

In my country boys are generally the favourite child. I am the oldest in my family but my younger brother is our parents favourite.

[@queenthelma3710]

I feel you in that... mother son love 😩

[@lisalacoursiere6819]

That’s so sweet that you made it for your brother and kinda twisted that you only got to eat that one flavor. Also I worked at Dairy Queen and got to learn how to make ice cream cakes. If you ever wanna make your brother another awesome cake here’s a pro tip. Build it upside down, freeze it, pop it out of the frame, decorate and refreeze.

[@luca_diaz]

Drooling 🥹

[@user-px7qv5ey9c]

looks SSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO good!!!!!!!!!!!

[@user-gq8cs2cx8l]

I can feel the SWEETNESS!

[@intentionallywoman2945]

My cousin felt the same way about her little sister for a similar reason only to discover mom gets her own favourite snacks and the kid who happens to like it is just lucky not favoured 😂 as a mom it totally makes sense.

[@imsoslay06]

Didn’t know u were Filipino but now that makes so much sense that Kuya was nanay’s favorite 😭

[@cheeriostinkyhamster]

This actually reminds me about the cake my aunt made it was so gooddddd.

[@beefpatty1347]

This is how I feel about Cinnamon Toast Crunch 😂 my mom would buy it for my brother all the time and now it gives me headaches

[@reonitez]

The last frame of it melting(?) Was too hilarious 😂😂

[@labibaazim8050]

If I asked for an icecream I will be fat-shamed 😊 so I only had icecream with my pocket money which is like a onetime experience since I rarely had pocket money.

[@doctorwhofans2830]

Your outfits are always so gorgeous 😍

[@carolodonnell70]

I love your outfit!

[@No-xh2cs]

Omg the level of love to do this. You are the best sister

[@user-mf4md1qn6d]

Love this sm ❤

[@taniyabrazley7390]

I feel u I go through the same thing😅

[@kaylamcaulay7833]

Looks great!! If you freeze each layer for 5-10 minutes before adding the next it helps show the layers at the end:)

[@Nisee_BeauxExclusive6]

The ending hurt my heart cus it looks so good 😂

[@user-bn1xb6sy8u]

u r such a gud sister for not getting jealous of ur brother, rather u love him more. i respect dat

[@TamaraInTanzania2]

I love your outfit

[@aubreylane8849]

I'm glad that you still do nice things for your bother even tho he was always the favorite

[@galacticgarbage9148]

This hit hard because my favourite flavour was mint and chip and my brother’s was Oreos and cream and no matter what it was either Oreo’s or vanilla! The amount of mint extract I went through to satisfy my cravings :’)

[@nicolehayse]

That’s because you’re an amazingly lovely sister that you would make his favourite dessert and that’s why he loves you and why he is lucky to have you

[@jansilloway325]

Acts of love ❤️

[@pallavigorantla2468]

The rice spoon/scooper she’s using for the ice cream is soo funny😂

[@KAS_CREATES]

Lol cookies and cream is my whole family’s favorite too, every time we go to the store and decide to get ice cream there’s no questions asked on which to get

[@LiaaaaaaaaAAAAAHH]

Girl I do t think you hated the ice cream I think you resented what it stood for; your mother’s love. Sorry that happened to you.

[@Justdetu]

The cake looks pretty good

[@janastrawberry2588]

i could never get tired of cookies and cream icecream ngl

[@weeping_willowz]

I get that always eating the same ice cream get annoying, BUT HOW COULD YOU NOT EVEN WANT TO TRY IT?? THAT LOOKS SO GOOD 😭

[@aridraney8979]

Aww so sweet!!😋 the cake at the end is pretty funny and sad tho😂😂

[@thatrandomdogperson323]

You deserve more suns! And you got a new one

[@TheAlexinator52]

Girl your getting so good at this! I would love to see you make a cake and decorate it but I enjoy your grocery store cake redecoratings just the same ❤️

[@lorelliecantos2977]

Proud that you're pinoy,that's why i love your dessert designs.

[@RileyConrad-mt8wq]

Omg that looks amazing

[@OliviaSalter-rj4ix]

Looks so good❤

[@julyanaa.akiyama]

THAT LOOKS DELICIOUS I CAN FEEL IT

[@zarahitorres25]

You're such a good sister, my brothers could never😅

[@austinbacon2123]

These cake videos are wonderful ❤

[@HareemEjaz-hp5oc]

Aww its soooooo delicious

[@rohinichikane2079]

The candle is cool

[@faihafaiqa3060]

looks like dream cake

[@chychybabu8323]

This looks good

[@iheartfearstreet7472]

Same for me!! Except my Ate’s favorite is Mint Chip.

[@unknownunknown-gr5xz]

I Love your cake your the best

[@michellecastro2475]

Still looks delicious. Cookies and cream is too much for me but still looks amazing. I would definitely try a slice.

[@beatricedarling1580]

You are a great little sister :)