Attention Seeking Light Skin Woman Gets Quickly Humbled At The Club

Attention Seeking Light Skin Woman Gets Quickly Humbled At The Club
00:00 Introduction
00:22 I Got More Attention Than Her
02:16 She Spilled Her Drink On Me
04:59 That Doesn't Make You Pretty
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[@kevinkev1530]

The chick in the pink tlakin all tht good stuff an it makes sense but what doesn't make sense is all tht makeup she has on making her face appear to be way lighter then it is, riddle me that batman😂😂😂the pigment of the makeup in the middle part of her face is the color of a light skinned, with out it she's look like her fingers lol😂😂😂

[@KrisIsHere4040]

Every light skinned woman is not automatically more attractive than a darker skinned woman. That's real

[@andalus1229]

Never stops. High School doesn't end. Lol.

[@nzubechukwu2856]

😅😅😅😅

[@darryldavis0357]

The majority of women nowadays are official 9th graders for LIFE!!!

[@thewordsmith5440]

Colorism follows people to jobs, political office, music industry it's not just a high school thing and not always a woman thing. Even lighter skin men can be chosen for intellectual jobs due to their skintone.

[@troubleinthevalley5884]

Oh, it does if you let it.

[@latonyajackson867]

Even with Senior citizens

[@kevinaustin5086]

Any woman that's in tune with her body will always win. Exercise, eat right, drink water, maintain her natural hair, & stay away from negative women.

[@TanzytheglowupG]

I agree

[@NikkiWalker-gt]

💯

[@RiFi357]

The filters be killing me 😂

[@souljahx3987]

Grown women really be using them 😂😂😂delusional

[@tweedcadillac789]

You so right, omit the filters,they Mud Ducks. Why is their sele esteem is based on their fake hair and makeup.

[@kcmarie3774]

Man lets be honest pretty is pretty. 3 dark skinned girls I worked with were STUNNING and got attention from every race of man that came in. That girl in the pink knows she is very pretty and ain't our hear crying that men don't like her because she's dark skinned.

[@OmaAlkebulan-grace]

Pretty is Pretty and and less Pretty is less Pretty no matter what's the complexion. Features!!!!!!🎉

[@letrice2892]

​@@OmaAlkebulan-gracei agree just call it as it is and if some one isnt interested its not due to your complexion...it simply could be u as a person that doesnt do it for them i think ppl forget that personality ,being able to converse,intellect etc..are things ppl still look for while dating. And some ppl may not have all the boxes checked off in that area so they rather not pursue any thing its not about your complexion and i think those who use that as an excuse have some inner work to do

[@BlackAboriginalAmerican]

Facts💯

[@BlackAboriginalAmerican]

Facts💯

[@brianfreckles8542]

You don't have to tell me that. My wife's always been a dime. Every race of men were competing for her. I went up against a Japaneses professor who really liked her 😅I've never been attracted to lightskin women

[@AbsolutelyNoOne12]

I'm light skinned, and I think dark skinned women are gorgeous... but only if they're actually pretty... 😂😂😂

[@ameliaannhouck2670]

I BLEND SO FEEL THE SAME !! THEY BE SO GORGOUS THE COMPETION IS ROUGH ! BUT OMG NOT LIKE A GHETTO QUEEN ! YIKES !! I STUDIED AFRICA AND TAUGTH IT AND JUST SEE SOME OF THEM , BLUE BLACK WITH THESE GREEN EYES , BEYOND BEAUTIFUL!! WE WHITE WOMEN GOT IT BAD ALSO , TRY COMPETING WITH MARILY MONROE OR BRIGETTE BARDO THE FRENCH GODDESS!!

[@Shigami-lb6oc]

​@@ameliaannhouck2670lol..Spanish girls look WAYYYYYYY better than caked up Marilyn Monroe...middle eastern woman come 2nd....

[@seamusohoulihan666]

@@Shigami-lb6oc Arab woman are number 1

[@charleslennonbaker]

@@Shigami-lb6oc, you do know Marilyn was born a Latina?

[@lainaugu7285]

Delusional 😂

[@TonyRome402]

Fine is fine, in any complexion or race. This lady in the pink is fine; so a light skin or white woman would have to actually be fine to compete.

[@Wormanatti]

I would like to see her natural before I start throwing fine around. She has on plenty makeup & a hair hat. These broads be regular & average without the costume on. I have a few females platonic friends that will fool you done up.

[@GreyMann2]

I agree with you but I've heard people say "pretty for a dark-skinned woman" or "she would be fine IF she were lighter!"

[@prettypuffprincess]

Thank you 🙏🏼

[@GreyMann2]

@@prettypuffprincess is that YOU rocking the pink top?

[@c0deinebrxt]

@@GreyMann2 as a dark skinned woman I’ve always perceived that as just being, they find you attractive regardless of you being dark skinned they just feel as if they’d be more attracted to you overall without hesitation if that person were lighter skinned. But I don’t see it as them saying that person is unattractive just because they’re dark skinned

[@jasonarcovio6923]

It's called variety and free choice. All humans absolutely love options.

[@dy6277]

My man thinks I'm cute... That's all that matters... 😅

[@4runit654]

Most ridiculous thing you could concern your self with

[@rhammond1963]

At the end of the day, they all are attention seekers.

[@kristoffsouffront1638]

Oh yeah, you’re right about that.

[@keebmarketing]

Yep: attention & comfort

[@bluehibiscus502]

THIS!

[@JeSlade-vk6uu]

For sure, too many women are way too caught up with looks, desperate for attention or a low grade compliment, how vain grow some confidence!!!!!

[@JeSlade-vk6uu]

If good looks are all black woman has to talk about their conversation and mindset is shallow, I've never seen so many vain, desperate women so eager to compete for attention, always wanting to out do each other, that's an insecure girl, "disclaimer" there will always be someone better looking and younger

[@TonedZoneTours]

All I heard was attention attention give me attention.... 😐🤦🏿‍♂️

[@tweedcadillac789]

They be yelling that like DMX..lol

[@TheChicagoKid81]

Faxxxx no printer….

[@JeSlade-vk6uu]

Always, so vain!!!!!!

[@jaywayytoofresh9670]

If you're good looking you're good looking.... regardless of skin tone

[@itstiffanydarling]

As a woman of color, woman would have more power if they actually uplifted one another and stop trying to put themselves in a higher category.

[@V4Now]

I always say this, colourism and featurism comes from women first. Pretty is pretty no matter the shade to men.

[@truthtelling1195]

I agree to a certain extent, however, did racism come from women first ?? I’ve said this multiple times, but it’s very interesting that we can come up with all of these grandiose reasons to dismiss the experiences of black women, but we have to poignantly and make zero excuses for racism . At the end of the day, colourism is a branch of racism, which is the origin . It’s interesting that you completely dismiss all of the black men during the 90s and present day that obsessed over red bone, yellow bone, you would look better yellow. Completely ignore Charlemagne da God constantly taunting DJ envy for having light skin, calling him a Mexican and American, despite the fact that he is 100% black American. Calling him waffle coloured, dark skin rapper, calling Drake soft!! And lil Wanye who recently did the interview stating that Drake receives a lot of jealousy because he was light skin. So like I said, we are able to understand and rationalise everything else, apart from the experiences and voices of dark skin women !!

[@BEINGSICKISOVERRATED]

Thats completely false. These black entertainers and athletes are showing and telling us that darkskin women are not on the top of their list.

[@Abstract.Noir414]

Naaaaaaaaah thats partially true

[@MrSamPhoenix]

Agreed!

[@marc6sixes]

She kept going to the club with the light skinned girl because she also like drama.

[@MorpheusASmith]

If that's the case why she cut her off?

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

Exactly! They love to keep eachother single and lonely.

[@brooklynbred1460]

Goofy she literally said she cut her off

[@TONY-fw6bk]

ALL 3 STORIES PURE LIES😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@MorpheusASmith]

@@TONY-fw6bk - LMFAO! Said the threatened, light skinned girl. 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@charlitabrown8580]

Colorism is in most races but extremely so in the black community . One comment I use to get growing up is that I was pretty to be a dark-skinned woman. Never understood that being younger because I was told by family members I was just a pretty girl. Beauty comes in all shades, we know that right?

[@truthtelling1195]

Don’t say anything about your experience, because unfortunately this comment section does not believe that skin women 90% of the people are saying she’s lying, but it’s very interesting because these are the same people who will scream racism, but completely refused to acknowledge colourism from a dark skinned woman (which is literally racism). Dark skin women were discriminated against, and for some reason whenever we speak about the stories it’s like this vitriolic reaction people get so irritated and want us to melt into the background and be quiet. We’re not allowed to speak about anything

[@AbsolutelyNoOne12]

😂😂😂 yup... I'm a chonki girl n I always got, "You're cute for a big girl. "... uh... Gee, thanks, I guess... whatever 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🙄🙄🙄😒😒😒

[@truthtelling1195]

@@AbsolutelyNoOne12 yup, it works in the same way for women who are bigger. Also, they are very dismissive of any experience. A bigger woman or a black woman has you have to disappear and say into the background and when you are confident and secure in yourself, they have a huge issue with it. On the flipside , if the bigger girl loses weight, that’s when you see the truth, nature of people because they are more than happy for you to play background, they automatically see you as competition, and that’s when you see the mean girls come out!! The jealousy is in full swing lol

[@onlooker4564]

​@@truthtelling1195 It sounds like black women are continuing slavery in their mind, with this light-skinned/dark-skinned nonsense...

[@albertmendez2262]

Even more so in the Latin community. Especially Dominicans lol

[@soniagalindo7589]

Sadly I am a light skinned Mexican but in regards to black, let me say I saw this young lady as dark as can be and heavy set BUT I went up to her and had to compliment her. She not only was dark and heavy set, she was well dressed in an orange dress, she obviously had confidence. RARELY do I see a VERY dark skin she had and she looked fantastic.

[@blackingingerpurrin]

This comment is condescending. Cause what

[@soniagalindo7589]

Not at all condescending. I wish I was darker, I look white, so I saw beauty where maybe some wouldn't. Her skin color is rare. Ultimately I know what was in my heart and I know the tone in which I complimented her. People need to love themselves and it was clear she did, no matter how dark or how heavy she was it goes to show that even the thin or light ones might not have it going on. @@blackingingerpurrin

[@soniagalindo7589]

The young lady, I promise did not look at it as condescending. Don't think it's too difficult to believe a women can be heavy set and very dark skin, confident yet looks beautiful, since women as such do exist. I will keep my skin color out of it so that maybe your response would have been different. Didn't realize it was going to be a problem. I certainly cannot prevent you from reading it in the tone you chose to, a condescending one. I promise you the young lady saw how thin and light I was and was not offended where the compliment came from because of what I looked like. She merely said, 'thank you.' @@blackingingerpurrin

[@AliciaWade-ze4wl]

Are you okay? I’m hoping most of this is just a language barrier and English isn’t your first language because what? You think that woman should appreciate your compliment more because you are thin and light skinned?!

[@femfatalNj]

You don't get out much do you? I'm a Redbone, and let me tell you that dark skinned women are everywhere, especially on the runway. They have some of the most beWhy because they are beautiful and have some of the most beautiful skin ever. What❤!!. You being Latino, you never seen a dark skinned afro Latina before. Very close minded. What you're giving is a backhanded compliment that isn't a compliment at all.

[@BlackAboriginalAmerican]

A beautiful body and features makes a woman attractive. Not complexion… 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@-dp8hx]

But face more bc any woman could always slim down and look great, especially with a pretty face, but if you've just got a body but an unattractive face, you can't really do anything about that. And makeup doesn't even help. An example of this would be how celebrity women like Margot Robbie are always propped up bc they are slim and have attractive faces. Margot Robbie isn't known for her body. She is just slim. But maybe it's different in your community ..

[@-dp8hx]

And as long as she takes care of her skin -- thts important. I've learned that. Being a good body size and having healthy skin are of importance. Then you'll always feel confident. The same goes for men. He doesn't need to have a body builder bod'. As long as he is nice and slim and a bit athletic with a cute face and takes care of his skin -- he's a shoe-in.

[@koaelmorz7073]

What happened to BROWN SKIN??? If you're not light skinned you're automatically DARK SKINNED??? i wonder what yall call PEOPLE that are ACTUALLY DARK

[@HawaBintYusuf]

Like what would they call us from the Sahara, darkness?

[@dee27206]

I guess Caramel or brown/light brown doesn’t exist anymore. It’s just dark or light

[@keita4040]

That’s so true!!!

[@thick_peanutbutta]

Right ? There are many of us who are smack in the middle . Not that it matters, just shows how stupid ts is We all nignugs in the end

[@rodneywilliams6000]

CHARCOAL😂😂😂😂

[@user-xo7yg9wo7p]

That whole light skin dark skin thing is real wack 😒

[@kingbeazy4329]

Women literally do dis online story time shyt to inflate they ego 😂🤦🏽‍♂️

[@caesonpotter]

Attention is always their Currency...SIMPS still don't GET IT!!!!

[@politicalbrownkid191]

I see it too. A lot of BW want to be light-skinned or exotic. You see so many women calling themselves light-skinned or "mixed" and they are not. Trina (rapper) calls herself light-skinned and I severely disagree. These women don't love themselves.

[@mowilliams8511]

Nope they don't... That's why they wear alot of makeup to cover their natural look...

[@nunyabidify]

@@mowilliams8511facts!!! Just like the woman in the video. Whole neck is dark- face is gray.

[@truthtelling1195]

Thank you, light skin, women make this skin tone, the entire personality. Myspace and MSN really expose this in the early 2000s and even more recently on Instagram. They call themselves hazel eyes 360, yellowbadieforever Mixedchick98 green eyes, Bethany. The features and skin tone is the entire personality. They have absolutely nothing else to contribute, but unfortunately as the black community we allow them to get away with it because we also inherently value proximity to whiteness. It’s absolutely insane and it’s no surprise to see most of the comments on this video gaslighting, denying and dismissing the experiences of dark skin, black women. All of these people are obsessed with inherently removing themselves from blackness and dark skin

[@Nick-kk9ei]

You know why, stop posting shit without context.

[@Afrocypher9590]

Hahaha, yeah. U right about Trina, her goofy ass sholl aint no light-skin anything. LoL

[@louisiana318]

Pretty is Pretty no matter the color...

[@angelawilliams9088]

I'm very dark-skinned and experienced the same thing as a sophomore in college. I always received a lot of attention not only by BM but also by WM. I love myself and always will! 💕

[@melmcdonald4142]

She states coloris doesn’t affect her but yet her makeup is telling a different narrative

[@donotsupportterroristgroups]

True, so is the hair.

[@linp5045]

I'm a darksin South Asian & African woman, and in my younger years I've had the same experience as the girl in the pink. I still kept hanging with the girls because I had no other friends.

[@Detro_ZeroEightSixOne]

How many times is she gonna grab that hair?! 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Detro_ZeroEightSixOne]

@ou8r122 😂😂

[@prettypuffprincess]

DARK SKIN GIRL PROBABLY HAS BETTER FACIAL FEATURES AND A BETTER BODY🌹 Sincerely an ambitious mixed/black woman 🥰

[@jeffrey-Epstein00]

How can we tell with all that makeup, filters and weave? Serious question

[@Abstract.Noir414]

Go play in traffic my guy@@jeffrey-Epstein00

[@nextlevelmindset1629]

Must be a slow topic day.

[@vwd3437]

@nextlevelmindset1629 Nah, Exoticals are trending in these You tube skreets!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@sauceboss354]

I had to cut a very close friend off late last year cause he wass jealous my woman was prettier than his,and he finded my woman very attractive.

[@marcel3942]

Found*

[@-dp8hx]

😹😹 Thou shall not covet another man's wife . Men are actually the worst about hating on other men who are doing better than them. I witness it all the time. You all just pretend to be bros who can get along, despite envy and insecurity and disagreements. Women tend to be nicer to one another, especially these days knowing that it's important to not compete with each other anymore and form a strong union as women. But males hate on other male's cars, outfits and shoes, social status, and especially women. The only thing I can see you guys not hating on another man for is his intelligence or talent bc those are unshallow things at least.

[@user-st3vl1ew2r]

All women hate, personally think the hate gets worse the older they get. They just know how to hide it better. Married or not, they still want all the attention.

[@kasht1857]

Speak for yourself. Not "all" women hate each other some of us are too busy living our own lives to be concerned about who what when where why the next bitch is doing what they do. Thanks.

[@itstartswithyou9132]

I hate attention and compliments embarrass me.

[@Vincent-of8ub]

Bro. The Willie Lynch Syndrome is still alive and Prevelent in a lot of today's youths and young adults. Sad to say, however the saddest part of it all is that they have No Idea About this and why they think and do what they are doing today.

[@duduman05]

Light skin women be mad when they got to wait in line at the club lol

[@user-uy7uz9oq4f]

I am light skinned and my sister is dark skin my sister gets more attention from all races of men. And that's fine with me.

[@c0deinebrxt]

I’m laughing at how she’s kinda dissing the light skinned girl while wearing her concealer shade and an Asian woman’s hair😂 hmm

[@heatherhussler6709]

The jealous lightskin has been spotted. Don’t be mad because this darkskin woman looks better than you. Also…your concealer shade is supposed to be about 2 shades lighter than your skin, because it’s supposed to HIGHLIGHT.

[@VitaInDC]

I weird trend I noticed in the 2000s was virtue signaling regarding the darker shades. Other women might say, "Oh she's so beautiful, don't you agree?" If I said "she looks very nice", that was taken as an insult. I feel the same way about light skinned people too. When I see pretty or handsome now, I wonder about their character, integrity, morals, humor, temperament, talents, and what kind of problems they have. Sounds cliche but it's true that beauty is in the inside, even when you're considering a dog at the shelter.

[@TheILUMInatedOne]

That first chick is wearing makeup for someone that’s JR’s skintone. I’m loving all this sisterly solidarity! 😅😅

[@Stillwatersrndp]

Why do these fake chics always caress their fake hair?

[@joeyoung6287]

Because they are actually self conscious about it. It’s the equivalent of these dudes who sag. They’re constantly pulling up their pants

[@thewordsmith5440]

@@joeyoung6287 No it's a womanly thing to touch your hair. It's literally a signal of femininity you know what black men say they like. It can also be a sign of flirting.

[@joeyoung6287]

@@thewordsmith5440 well, I’m curious as to why those women who are wearing wigs or weave do it substantially more than a woman wearing her own hair

[@ssunshinetolliver6699]

Cause they bought that's why

[@user-on6xc8dk4z]

Say that again

[@Mariem090]

I'll take shit that never happened for $1,000

[@bezlew2639]

The same thing happened to me as a darked skinned women, my then light skinned friend got really upset because I got more attention then she did when we went out. I am not bothered if a guy like my friend more than me. Just like women, men have preferences and looks and skin tone is not always 100% important to them. Men look for women who know how to act correctly are espectful.

[@marcel3942]

I'm a light skin man, simply that doesn't make you attractive. Let's be honest, dark skin women are the people who talk about colorism the most

[@rda6029]

Totally agree! You rarely see light skin men, light skin women or dark skin men obsessing over skin tones but there are literally youtube channels (with thousands of subscribers!) with dark skin women babbling about their self hate issues!

[@keishamurrell3095]

Not true 😔 Two wrongs don't make it right. ⬆️⬆️

[@marcel3942]

@keishamurrell3095 Be quiet women. I have a black mother, grandma's, aunts, cousins. Who's idea was it to relax, or flat iron your hair? Definitely not your father's. You're mothers instill self hate

[@jmiller7901]

Ooh! Say that again, sir. Say that again. You are not lying!

[@t33mc]

​@@keishamurrell3095 Hit dog

[@smack7110]

My boyfriend, girlfriend, and I all went to a birthday party together and she low key was doing things to get his attention and low key flirting. I really think it’s because it’s hard for her to accept that she’s not getting all the attention. It was like she was thinking how dare my darkskin ass get more attention than her mighty light skin ass. This is not supposed to happen!!?? Our whole lives she was put on a pedestal because she was lightskinned and now it’s hard for her to accept that she’s not the center of attention anymore. We are in our late 40s. I’m brown and curvaceous and fit while she is shaped like a box, btw I cut her off for flirting with my man. Friends don’t move like that.

[@saltwatertaffy7020]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@jayblack4195]

These 304’s are treacherous, always in competition with each other! Tired of everyone trying to cater to dark skin women because they are insecure

[@vwd3437]

@jayblack4195 And pandering! Kat Williams made the “Weird Faced Wives” comment and had me wondering if he was pandering lol.

[@suziepickes702]

But yall don't say anything when people pander to light skinned women. Why is it an issues to compliment dark skinned women?

[@jayblack4195]

@@suziepickes702 Actually I love dark skin women, but I know a lot of conceited dark skin Sisters! I also know a lot of light skin women that take the backseat to dark skin women because they don’t want them to feel bad and that’s crazy! I love my people rather light or dark I judge you by your attitude not complexion

[@suziepickes702]

@@jayblack4195 but dark skinned women are souppsoe to take that backseat with no problem.

[@xman7688]

...ok but no one going to talk about how the "darkskinned" chick painted her face 4 shades lighter than her neck 😂

[@terriehiggins9489]

Why are they bragging about being light skin. Do they know how that came about historically?

[@BroDCDAB]

Black is beautiful. Black comes in All shades. The question is 1. who taught them this foolishness. 2. Complexion doesn't make a woman beautiful or not attractive. Ask the grown men, ladies. SMH.

[@veteranbroad8802]

A coworker of mine found out our mothers (my mom, her grandmother) worked together..she said : her grandmother said while my Mom was dark skinned, she was beautiful ..mind you her grandmother AND grandfather, were dark as tar. ..it's cool, my Mom was a good lady

[@mr.stinker9335]

😂😂

[@megasg75090]

A dark skinned female co-worker told me she wished she had my dark complexion. Another co-worker heard and turned to me and said, "But, both of you have the same complexion."

[@dee27206]

@@megasg75090well do you?

[@taylorthenatural5509]

@@megasg75090 Were you darker than her?

[@donotsupportterroristgroups]

Complexion also means the appearance and texture of skin. For example if you have skin with no acne, scars or broken capillaries someone might tell you you have a beautiful complexion and honestly that's usually what they're talking about.

[@trickerasims1255]

I’ve always proudly considered myself “dark skin” and others love to say “no, you’re brown skin.” I’m just love my complexion regardless 😎

[@user-zq8to3zr5y]

You are dark brown.

[@trickerasims1255]

@@user-zq8to3zr5y It doesn’t matter love! 😂 I’m a child of THE Most High GOD! It only matters that I wake each day with the will and focus to walk the path He has laid for me! 🫶🏾

[@joebruce2180]

I don't believe her! Especially the way she was strokin that weave😂

[@lsf9818]

Light skin or Dark skin ! People we are all Black people ,please be proud!!

[@Ck-pj3vu]

That is so true. I had a light skin friend tell me “you know all the men want me”.i thinking girl in my world im the shit. Another light skin friend always talking how fine she is because she light skin but when I came over she was so insecure she hid her man in the closet be she felt like he man would want me. The double edged sword to light skin / pretty privilege is that from birth to high school they were told how pretty they were and got addicted to the attention that eventually comes to an end after high school. Meanwhile the darker and average girl who didn’t get the attention from birth to high school have excepted their looks and learned to work with their “ugly “ and it’s no longer ugly. Have the confidence and don’t need or expect validation from the outside world because from birth to adulthood they had to always validate themselves. You really never see average/ dark skin females begging pleading for a men not to leave them. It’s mostly light skin/ pretty privilege women who are not use to rejection and attention ready to off themselves because a man left them. Average women be like you don’t want me? Ok have a great life.

[@Rosemary46840]

That's just not true, allot of dark skin girls I've met have been WAYYYY more insecure and needed WAYYYYYYYYYYY more validation since they didn't get enough from the outside world as a child, and I see just as many women of all complexions and look types begging for a man back or doing pick me behavior, so I think u just made that part up in your head

[@alwaysaccurate8725]

@@Rosemary46840NOPE she is not as a darkskin girl I have always been pretty but im also smart and playful. If all you have is your looks or your basketball skills- u will soon realize thats all you have and that not all ppl want. You are both right!!! Insecurity can come early AND later in life!

[@Ck-pj3vu]

@@Rosemary46840 that why l said light skinned/ pretty privilege. The skin tone is not the point it’s the pretty standards/ privilege who most likely to have a problem with rejection.

[@Ck-pj3vu]

@@Mimi-ht6xr I never said people get rejected on a regular. I just said people who have gotten a lot of attention during childhood may have a problem once they finally get rejected.

[@Ck-pj3vu]

@@Mimi-ht6xr it is easier. That’s why hard times hit them emotionally harder. It’s like rich entitled second generation wealth people waking up broke. They would handle it differently than someone who worked hard to become rich and lost all their money.

[@FAMKeepFamilyTogether]

My x was light skinned/Indian, my present wife is 10 shades darker. To be honest I like darker, it just glistens so well in the sun. But bottom line is attitude makes you pretty no matter the shade.

I'm light skinned, my wife is dark skinned. I love her complexion. Our daughter has her complexion and I wish I had their color.

[@6ftNaturalBeauty]

Chilli from TLC came to mind about the reference to being called a darker shade than she perceived herself to be. She allegedly had an issue with being called chocolate. Even though she is dark skin.

[@Rashaida1980]

Proud of you sis! Dark skinned women are number one! As a black guy you are beautiful.

[@truthspeaks281]

Complexions doesn't make you pretty.

[@TONY-fw6bk]

WHO BELIEVE THOSE WEAK ASS STORIES 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@1anth]

No one should 😂 people make them up to feed the “light skin people ain’t shit” narrative

[@Dream90210]

I swear that shit cap 🧢 af anyone who knows how Orlando is knows she’s lyin off rip especially if her friend is bad like she described

[@timbradford1673]

Not me

[@truthtelling1195]

Colourist !!!

[@angelrogers3880]

I definitely don’t. But a lot of people here in the comment section do. Lol

[@bye3680]

People need to become more comfortable with the fact that some people are just more attractive than them and complaining about it wont make you more attractive , even me, i know some people look better then me and i look better than some people but all i can do it worry about myself because thats the only person i can control

[@monique1887]

What u said was 💯 everyone wanting to be everything except their selfs....thats why I stay in my lane 😂

[@jAITtROtULL]

@0:21 This goes for a woman of any complexion!!! If this beautiful young woman took off that long weave and makeup would she still look as beautiful?

[@callmecanolli322]

It happens sometimes. I used to go out my friends at one point in my life and I was completely ignored. I am considered attractive and That doesn’t typically happen, but with these two friends we were all in our early 30’s, one was lighter one was darker and I was invisible. I never let it bother me, because they were my friends and they were gorgeous. It happens.

[@k.s.w.8282]

“Colorism is only on the internet.” Gotta be the dumbest thing I ever heard. Especially when you’re talking about it affecting you in real life. Blaming somebody’s complexion for your skinsecurity is hilarious.😂

[@lashurediscussion4970]

All the time, I am a beautiful chocolate girl that has all the attributes of what most light skin women have. Long hair, good hair, flawless skin. The biggest issue was my hair, people always felt the need to tell me that dark skin girls aren’t suppose to have good hair. I was that kid who could go swimming & not worry about my hair during the pool or after and it drew a lot of attention that I hated. Wanting to touch my hair, saying I permed my hair. Never permed my hair. Then when flat iron became popular, I was accused of wearing weaves. I have always had long hair and as a dark person that seemed to always be an issue. To this day I have long hair. I have gotten into fights over my hair because I refused to allow someone to touch my hair to prove I had no weaves and they feel the need to try touch my hair. Every thing I mentioned are comments I have heard throughout my like. Oh you are beautiful to be of darker completion, to me that’s offensive to me to tell me in my skin tone if I didn’t have good hair, long hair , even skin tone I would be ugly.

[@truthtelling1195]

I think you need to unpack your colour is it because you made a comment that was very ignorant. “ attributes, that light skin, women have) There are a ton of light skin women who has 4C hair, brown eyes like the most of us, acne, skin condition. Why do we automatically assumed I’d like skin is more beautiful ??? Oh, you never said that, however, your comment is inferring that these attributes are synonymous with light skin women and that’s completely not true. I know all races of women can have these attributes as well as the negatives so let’s stop pushing this narrative that black women can’t grow long hair. I know a ton of black girls that have real life bundles underneath their wig. There is a trend on TikTok of a dark skin black woman claiming that black women cannot grow hair and so many beautiful, black, specifically dark skin. Women have responded to the video, showing their long luscious natural hair.

[@lashurediscussion4970]

@@truthtelling1195 if you read my statement correctly, I mentioned that these were statements told to me. I clearly understand that black people comes in all shape color and hair texture. I consider myself an average person that don’t like a lot of attention. For some reason I can be the attention,I have had my face deeply scratched all because a black girl did like that another person keep complimenting on how beautiful my skin is and that individual told me black girls like you are not pretty you are ugly and scratch my face . I wear the scar on my face to this day & that was from a person that look like me but a shade lighter than me. I had another black girl stab me near me temple scar still their all because the unwanted attention about my hair. In my younger 20’s going to the club seem to always lead to an argument over my hair with people that look like me. I never could understand why was my hair such a big deal anytime I asked it was told to me. That a dark person normal don’t have the features I have, you see that in lighter skin girls/women. So what other conclusion should I come too? For other people statements If I come off as colorist maybe I have the right. You have no idea how much damage it does to a child who grows up mistreatment and the support to help her navigate the misguided unfair treatment of her hair & skin tone.I could never understand what was the big deal, about my facial , hair and skin tone. Those were the words told to be you have features of what light skin girls have that black dark girl should not have. I only made a comment about a glimpse of what I been through in my childhood and all the rude statements came from people that looked like me .

[@truthtelling1195]

@@lashurediscussion4970 and if I sound like, I’m dismissing your experience, I AM!! Sounds like you need therapy (and I say that genuinely). You are holding onto resentment of young girls, who were just as naive as an ignorant as you who were also trying to discover themselves who have also experience, and will continue to experience the absolute worst of society, simply for being dark. I’ve never encountered these things however, I have experienced horrific things from lighter skin people and other races that does not shape my view of the entire collective because that would be completely insane. The fact that you made your initial comment is probably the reason why those girls attacked you light skin women and dark skinned women such as yourself always pretend to be so naive, but will make the most prejudiced disgusting comments and wonder why they received such treatment. do you think dark skin girls can’t pick up on your biased And the fact that you are inherently believe you are better and these features are only attributed with light skin tones, do you honestly believe dark skin black women cannot pick up on the energy ?? ??

[@truthtelling1195]

@@lashurediscussion4970 what you are talking about is experiences of growing up in a specific demographic people get into fights. It happens but the fact that you inherently believe it was to do with your hair love is crazy. Maybe it was your attitude maybe it was your personality maybe the inherent stereotype and bias you carry surrounding other black women came through in the way that you treated them and they weren’t going for it!! I’ve grown up in the hood and this is a everyday occurrence of women fighting each other. In fact, this happens in every demographic so don’t isolate yourself as if you’re so beautiful with long hair or so special.

[@lashurediscussion4970]

@@truthtelling1195 My experience is my experience and it’s something I deal with and it does not matter what demographic I am. The fact that someone does not believe I don’t wear weave is not my issue an issue of the other person translate to I am not good enough to have hair like I have. It baffles others that know me why is everyone so fixated on my hair. I am not a hair person, I don’t go to a beauty shop to get my hair done. 98%of the time my hair is in a ponytail, even wearing a ponytail can lead to questions as to what chemicals I use to get my hair wavy and most don’t like my response. Grease & water. When I do my hair myself. I get compliments of my hair follow up question who did you hair? I say me and all hell break loose. Can I touch your hair? My response is no? That’s a problem, I wear my hair in its natural state (wavy curly) and that’s a problem. I get asked all the time what chemicals I use to get my hair to look like that. My response is nothing and that’s a problem. I have heard it all, seen it all over my hair. I don’t make this stuff up. If I see a black woman with a hair style I like I compliment them. I don’t ask them questions about their hair, like people do me. It’s hurtful that another black women would argue with me about my hair. You are right it’s hard to believe that my hair is controversial , unless you been around me and witnessed my experience you would believe it. Friends that hung out with me are the ones that joke about the disagreement I get into about my hair. The stuff is crazy. Most of the time my hair issues starts off with a compliment & ends in a disagreement. Based on my response. As I have gotten older I just don’t respond to the foolishness & I have every right to have an attitude. It mind boggles for even you to find it hard to believe that it’s me who is the problem or me making it about my hair. I have folks who can back up my claim. I don’t think I am beautiful, I been told growing up ass a child I was ugly & believed it. I don’t think I better because I have long hair. Self confidence is what I lack, that’s my issues.

[@elw7658]

I am cooking tacos Yummm

[@heyyou904]

"The Darker the Berry, The Sweeter the Juice!" 💯

[@GreenClean662]

I was 8 years old when my mom told me don’t ever bleach your skin. You are a beautiful dark skin girl and you will always be dark. I didn’t understand what she meant. Fast forward in my 30’s I meet this gal who was my best friend but always talking about her light skin and hair. It took me a while to figure it out what she was talking about. In the mean time, she starts dressing like me?? Hmmm. It never phased me a bit. I just looked at her and said oh okay, every time. I moved on.. “Thank you mama RIP”. You were ahead of the game..

[@chocolattae2281]

I had a light-skinned friend who got upset when people referred to her as light-skinned. She would argue that she was brown skinned. Meanwhile she was around the same complexion as the girl in this video who's sitting in her car. Maybe a little lighter. When guys would try to talk to me around her she would say and do the weirdest things that had the guys looking at her funny. It was sad. I learned to distance myself from females who need to be the center of attention cause they will never let you enjoy your moments.

[@yvettemorris7295]

What’s the point of this video; I wish Americans would help each other out on topics like child hunger; Domestic violence etc! Gang violence; Homelessness; what the F does this matter? Smh!

[@brooklynbred1460]

The point is light skin women aren't the ish the think they are

[@angelrogers3880]

I agree

[@vwd3437]

@yvettemorris7295 A lot of “isms” are connected to the topics you just named.

[@yvettemorris7295]

@ou8r122 why do you people blame everything on immigrants when palm color people have destroyed America 🇺🇸

[@user-xs6dp2jo9p]

Im A Woman for the Woman! Jealousy IS REAL, I HAVE NO Friendgirls, Some are too Envious & Hateful, Jealousy is Dangerous! 😢 never had to take a Girl trip to Confirm this!

[@taliaasims]

This always happened to me with friends and I HATED it!!! I get attention everywhere I go and honestly I hate that too. It’s overrated and people shouldn’t be that thirsty for attention

[@Heather-nq4rv]

Yep, it's a nice confidence booster but I prefer to be left alone. I usually wear my glasses even when I don't necessarily need to when going out just to make myself look more bookish/nerdy. 😂 (I am really a nerd at heart anyway 🤷‍♀️😂).

[@onionarms]

colorism is real but a 10 is a 10 regardless of skin.

[@malawideep7980]

I wonder why women have a habit of running their fingers through their fake hair and constantly teasing it while they are talking 🤔

[@donotsupportterroristgroups]

She's flirting with us; though she's pretty at least with all that makeup and faux hair) but I don't swing that way.😁

[@paulhumphries9430]

That first female was probably mixing some truth with lies. She kept playing with her yacky as she was telling her story. That alone was weird.

[@TheGhostryder88]

Attitude makes or breaks a woman 99.99999% of the time

[@MrSamPhoenix]

The thing is, a lot of sistas that got their stuff together (body, face, attitude etc) will attract everyone around them.

[@sabrinaneves-demps9496]

Personality is everything!

[@Rue100]

THIS BLACK WOMAN IS BEAUTIFUL

[@rollsroyce2627]

Exactly, real talk my brother..i feel the same way, i never understood that crazy color ish either....smdh.....Peace

[@thenatberta8275]

Pretty is pretty and women need to stop waiting for men to validate their looks that is exhausting!

[@MysterENigma]

The chick in pink should've ended her story with, "And this one time, I was out with the reigning Miss Universe and the 1st and 2nd runner up and EVERYBODY wanted me!" I call cap.

[@Damita3272]

Why is it cap? She’s pretty

[@Mariem090]

She's trying to change guy's minds to go for darker skinned and making it seem that men prefer darker skin

[@williamsmootie]

Most of these females these days are clowns.

[@brooklynbred1460]

And I call lack of comprehensive skills. Goofy you're actually proving her point

[@Dream90210]

@@Damita3272because ppl who’ve been to Orlando know it’s cap off of what she said alone, she’s pretty but she’s cappin hard

[@kingbeazy4329]

Like bro she clearly was da friend comparing herself to her homie n den try push dat narrative on her 😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♂️ Like braaaahhh

[@YvetteT]

They always do that shit and try to make it seem like it’s the light skin girl. No it’s they own insecurities

[@morenobeyo]

Nothing like a chocolate star 🌟

[@citizencoy4393]

The first girl is in Florida where the blk women are not only confident but also beautiful. The blk pride is VERY RICH in Florida. There are pockets of modern blk men that will not talk to bw bc the internet said no. It is usually the ppl moving to Florida that get the wake up call that blk women pull frfr down here and the bm LOVEEEE them some bw and have blk pride!

[@813South]

Yep, that's Florida women.

[@haddingtoniangcp2464]

My man said "Ebony and Ivory!"😂😂😂😂😂

[@haddingtoniangcp2464]

Yep,i cant be around anyone who hates me. I've never met my brother in law as hes been doing his utmost to wreck our marriage. My wife told me all he's said. I've decided not to ever meet him because I cant show anyone my teeth who don't wish me well.

[@latoshiaguffin6594]

They feel entitled they think their skin color is superior

[@eventsbylashay]

I’ve definitely been in a terrible situation where my boyfriend was hit on by my cousin and was turned down and her response was why do you like my cousin anyway she’s dark skinned, and I am light skinned🤣 the double audacity is still nerve-racking to this day.

[@deeebloccc6830]

I have always loved a dark chocolate skinned black woman🤤, redbones was never my thing

[@tmapp1003]

So when we started referring to non black people as light skinned? 🙄 Please stop

[@JayStonez84]

Colorism is real.... it's the reason why she used the makeup she used to lighten her skin. In many cultures (especially in America), color is a deciding factor for many ppl choosing a mate.

[@SW1NDLE123]

Delusional comes in all flavors.

[@shunnaflowers3664]

I'm not hanging around them...

[@dynishaaustin8154]

Listen who give a fuk 😂

[@alexisrose3836]

I feel like the girl in pink I have never experienced that❤ thank goodness

[@keep_it_low_bro]

😂😂😂 She said, a high yella fella OMG

[@ninadavis5517]

I'm considered caramel tan and had a friend that was fair skinned like her mom, her dad was dark as midnight. We would hang out and when guys would look in our direction, she would always say they were looking at her or wanted her. She even told me her sister who is the same complexion didn't care for "dark skin people" and I should take offense to her snub. After awhile I got tired of her friendship