Locked-In Syndrome: Nick Chisholm

[@destaniepignataro9393]

His wife is the epitome of a ride or die. She's amazing.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Destanie! Hope you enjoyed!

[@Sen10r87]

In sickness and in health. Those are important vowels.

[@Darkdemonoflite]

so she's correct still actually

[@paulprice6330]

Destanie Pigñataro Do you think you could do that?

[@monkeyjuju7441]

Destanie Pigñataro she is what a wife is supposed to be. Unfortunately the meaning of "in sickness and in health, til death do us part" has been lost over generations

[@Zoot_of_Anthrax]

His wife is awesome, but I gotta give props to his big tatted up gym buddies who also are so sensitive and caring of him as well. What great friends!

[@kacheenasvariety9414]

Yes, he has a big support system of people that want to see him succeed 😊♥️

[@someoneinthecrowd4313]

Everyone around him is inspired by him. He's pushing his limits, and everyone can see that. I think it also helps that his default face position is a big smile :)

[@hybridfuckingcomplex]

@@bemfawkes3214 one of them literally calls nick his best friend my guy

[@anitarosetorres420]

They're awesome!!!!

[@stenchemitter2407]

@@bemfawkes3214 Idk what a sweet f a is but these guys are genuine. Don't make such a negative assumption

[@rosieg9093]

I think this is just about the most punk rock man to ever live

[@iequezada]

The true definition of punk rock

[@operationada]

DUDE i couldn't agree more. i respect the shit out of that guy and his wonderful woman too!

[@nagchampa3752]

My favorite comment, by far.

[@chloepresley2000]

best comment ever! So true!

[@kennaisatlas8323]

I want to like your comment, but it’s at 666 and I don’t want to ruin that.

[@sarahkatherinemiller]

I love the way she can understand him with just a few letters and using his eyes.

[@SkylerDawn1123]

I don't think I could do that, that seems like a lot of skill!

[@tibicenlinnei4014]

It's actually a common tool professionals try to use and teach for people that have strokes or similar conditions. My godfather and his wife and their daughters used one.

[@KDL861]

True love! 🥰

[@Darkspexter]

@@SkylerDawn1123 Actually you gain a six sense when you spend a lot of time with some one, you some times end up finishing each others sentences, dogs are really good at sensing people's emotions, I believe it's something similar

[@JohnvanGurp]

I wonder if it’s that she is coming up with the sentences for him.

[@cooperdobson1471]

my mother had a brain stem stroke in 2008, she developed locked in syndrome from it and she lived like that for 8 years. Its truly beautiful to see you stay by his side because my father didn't. Stay strong

[@roll2ones]

So sorry to hear that I can’t imagine that

[@violet1785]

🙏💓🙏

[@technomickdocumentalist2495]

Oh man, that hit me reading that. So sorry to hear this, I can't imagine the blow this must of been to your Mum, and the family. Stay strong.

[@ericherstedt3217]

Your father's a coward. So sorry to hear that.

[@emmy_corgi8809]

I’m very sorry ❤️

[@korridarkheart2342]

I almost died of cuteness when she said “he is so handsome” and his eyes got so big and happy!!! My heart!!

[@taytay1030]

I watched this a long time ago but watching it again, I did the same thing everytime

[@SiaLaterZ]

Korri Darkheart I’m crying I need to appreciate people and my body more I’m too blessed and I take it for granted

[@lilie9042]

Ummm.... How did they have s**? Is that too far? Sorry just wanna know

[@phantom_kitsune7424]

@@lilie9042 they don't have kids yet they'll most likely adopt if they want kids though

[@lilie9042]

MintyFox Ok thx 👌

[@RolyWestYT]

Such an amazing way of communication and she’s great to know how quick what he’s going to say x

[@dojaboo3788]

I love you Roly! She is amazing

[@Squeebles]

What a coincidence seeing you here, love your videos

[@signepalenius8404]

Ayyy rolyyy my favorite lgbt piercing youtuber!

[@Lozenge95]

Completely agree!! So nice to see you in the comment section!! Love your content 😊!!

[@sparkimoto]

They should set him up with something like what Steven Hawking used to use. That way he could communicate independently.

[@Beautybizz28]

This is true love at its finest he is a lucky man his wife is an angel.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching!😀

[@Beautybizz28]

Attitude i was watching and crying😰 thank you for this channel.

[@jessicavasquez-flores3212]

Taylor JA Vixen that is so true. Through thick and thin that's the power of marriage in my eyes.

[@lisagrant4329]

Estrella Felina So basically an angel

[@elizabethshaw734]

X.Alexandria.X angels are absolutely real and she is one of them. so are people who spend their lives caring for other human beings. there are all sorts of Angels in this world. by what you said I can tell that you have no creativity and no passion. I would hate to be like him and stuck with you.

[@iainooooo]

His wife and his mates are just insanely incredible. They'd go to the ends of the earth for him their respect and complete devotion is amazing. What a lucky guy.

[@mr.snulch]

I mean you have to be extremely unlucky to have this condition, but I see what you mean - at least he has people who care about him and will fight for him!

[@lela8081]

@@mr.snulch and they have a kids now they are beautyfull-

[@gordonlekfors2708]

yah he's pooing in his pants at 7:43 and his mate just takes ut face on lol 😂

[@misspoliticallyincorrect2081]

Now that's someone who meant what she said on her wedding day! A truly inspirational couple!

[@rotties-rules]

She meet him after his stroke, got to know him the man and then fell in love and married him, which shows the rest of us what a truly inspirational women she is, now the rest of us need to follow her example and stop judging and excluding people that are different to ourselves.

[@backdoordestroyer4622]

Wtf

[@TheAuntieBa]

its a dogs life She’s perceptive enough to have recognised a soulmate very quickly, and they’re clearly mfeo (made for each other).

[@soulasylym6304]

I was thinking the same thing!!👍😍😍 Out here in the States he probably would have ended up in a nursing home! I have a Good friend who's mother has stg 4 cancer, and is treated at the Queens Hospital. Still alive! They never gave up on her, and I wish they'd be so kind to treat all their patients like over here?

[@StLMikie]

It’s unfortunate that all relationships aren’t this punk rock solid.

[@ineffablesplendor4172]

This woman is beyond remarkable, it's dumbfounding what incredible depth and compassion she has.

[@AttitudeLive]

Nicola is amazing!

[@trishab2147]

She defines patience.

[@AttitudeLive]

Totally agree Trisha!

[@koffinkat666]

Truly

[@LadywatchingByrd]

What a gorgeous woman and a fabulous example to other people how to love and care for your love.

[@MissLilRedRooster]

I really appreciate how they let him tell his story through his wife. She makes a huge effort to let him talk for himself in the interviews, and doesn't tell his story for him. That's such an important, empowering action, even though it seems small, and it would just be easier for her to talk instead of taking the time to use the board and let him speak. She is pretty amazing, as are all the people around him who support his new goals.

[@coollkat]

YES! This comment! My favorite parts were when she helped him with the board, letting him do the talking. They get along so well that I found myself giggling and giddy right along with them.

[@mirandam7265]

Such a sweet couple ! Once you know someone for a while I'm sure she knows all the ques and gestures. Probably have some good inside joke expressions they use (; they are truly amazing. It's so sad to know people are 100 percent mentally well but not physically. I couldn't imagine. Stay strong. ❤ and everyone going through a hard time in general! May God bless and protect you.

[@SimplyASweetHeart]

She is totally amazing,! 😄

[@kchandler2940]

Camry Hood Dx

[@louthompson322]

Nicola was my English teacher for the two years I did my GCSE's and honestly there was a reason she was everyone's favourite teacher. She is a genuinely lovely lady who is compassionate, patient and happy to put her time and effort into people, even people others wouldnt. I love following their story because Nick seems equally lovely. It's such a beautiful story that is a living happy ending. Everyone needs their own Nick/Nicola ❤️

[@seatherny_y]

His smile makes me wanna burst, this is the coolest couple I've ever seen.

[@tinyelephant2104]

I KNOW HES A GROWN MAN BUT ITS SO CUTE WHEN HES HAPPY AND YOU CAN SEE IT IN HIS EYES THIS IS A LOVELY COUPLE 10/10

[@KDL861]

Tiny Elephant he still has pretty great muscle mass. Not too atrophied.

[@grayskindablue]

Kathy Lucas Physical therapy (that’s honestly underestimated a lot- in general, not saying by you, I don’t know you lol) plus the strengthening in the gym he does can do incredible work on that level. Along with proper food/nutrition, and he’s getting high protein and then coupling it with strengthening exercises. So it’s not surprising he’s still pretty damn strong, but I’m positive it was, and is, really fucking hard.

[@CyberDyke]

Amazing, you can see the light in his eyes when they laugh together. A disability will never have the power to take happiness away.

[@hankhill3180]

depends on the disability

[@24POWERS]

Cbass Kabal happiness is in the mind not the brain, get stronger get better. Be the first to overcome whatever the doctor told you.

[@CC-uf8wi]

@@24POWERS No, absolutely no. Emotions are chemical triggers in the brain, and don't work the same for everyone. Given depression is lethal, I highly recommend nobody take this advice, and coordinate with medical professionals if you are struggling. You don't just wake up one day and decide you are going to be happy, and therefore you are. It takes significant work and understanding. This isn't a bum leg you just need to work through. This advice can cause someone to fall into remission and even pander to psychotic delusions. This is SUCH a hazardous a statement to make concerning mental health.

[@siim605]

"A disability will never have the power to take happiness away" - I get you want to be positive, but this is such a non-clever statement. There's a thousand disabilities one can have that can take everything away from you, happiness included.

[@queencerseilannister3519]

As Mr.Rogers said, "Part of the problem with the word 'disabilities' is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can't feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren't able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities."

[@honeyyb]

Their technique with the board is amazing how she can understand complete sentences from just a few letters

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Brittany!Hope you enjoyed our channel and keep coming back! 😀

[@Yozi6414]

@Brittany Jorgensen I agree 100% Their technique is impeccable!

[@BJ-nj5fn]

That’s what I was thinking. She is amazing. Love them both

[@EthosF4ded]

It truly is. Love is a truly unmistakable rarity of this life. It's special because once you see it in its true form you know what "it" is. We sir, are lucky enough to witness such and honest love.

[@Karmen2010]

It would take a lot of patience and dedication to do that. Very admirable.

[@lior483]

She is a perfect woman indeed. The mental strength that he owns is incredible. They are both amazing, authentic, good and very strong people and their love is truly bigger than life

[@vanessapaige2240]

I also love that she kept his style up his hair she did what would make him happy. He can smile at her it's so sweet

[@mortal88]

he can communicate.. im sure he tells her how he wants it

[@mollyprysunka4828]

She's not married to a vegetable, dude...

[@skinsey85]

@@mollyprysunka4828 Hahaha, right?! He still communicates

[@KDL861]

They both look extremely cool. And spirits seem high. Thank you Lord. 🙏

[@nitnickers]

Person centred care... he has capacity

[@meganozman2505]

A true testament to vowing "in sickness and in health" They are such a great couple.

[@AttitudeLive]

Totally agree! Thanks for watching!

[@summermorgan9836]

Just saw on their Facebook that she is pregnant with their first child. Such a happy ending ❤️❤️❤️ Edit: They had triplets!!!

[@90dayslater28]

@HelloBroch my child have you not learned about the birds and the bees?

[@marilyntape508]

Summer Morgan cool😊💜💜💜🇦🇺

[@koro-sensei7884]

90dayslater2 , I’m pretty sure they probably know how but.. HOW!?

[@dentxhead]

they've had triplets it seems! very happy happy for them both ❤️

[@americangirl2492]

They actually had triplets! 1 boy and 2 girls ❤

[@riverraven7]

My son was born with autism. He spoke a few words when he was around a year old but sadly that went away. He's been a lonely frustrated young man these 28 years. The summer of his 21st year his sister almost died from a brain tumour...but she recovered. Just a few days after she came home my son James broke his back. I don't know why I told you all this except you make me cry and smile too. Your a lovely young man and she's a lucky young lady . I wish you both the best of times and much love to those lucky little babies💖

[@jimv8957]

"I make gains both physically and mentally." This guy is a raging badass.

[@sunflowertrashcan]

His wife is amazing, but also he seems to have an incredible support system of true friends! This guys social circle is larger and stronger (mentally and physically) than most people I know, myself included. Lol He obviously has to work harder at it, but he appears to be living a full life that makes him really happy. Awesome to see!

[@caramelkisses8857]

Tiffany S I actually cried thinking about that part (support). It’s amazing

[@conservat1vepatr1ot]

You're beautiful Tiffany. Dont change how you look at the world.

[@sunflowertrashcan]

conservat1vepatr1ot aww thank you :)

[@stevetaylor3681]

Read ghost boy. It will you blow you away (and horrify you). There are also KZbin vids on him, but the book covers his sister's friend turned girlfriend turned fiancee turned wife.

[@Saddiesinclaire]

I love seeing how high his quality of life is, how much everyone loves him. He really is thankful for all the amazing friends and family around him ❤️

[@PayamK91]

This broke me down and built me back up. I have never seen so much mental strength blaring out of one person. that laugh with his wife blew me away.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Payam!Hope you enjoyed our channel!

[@JackNapier420]

As a seasoned veteran of the internet, I don't often say this anymore as I've seen so much, but- I am truly blown away and speechless after watching this video. Awe-inspiring, humbling and spectacularly moving... Wow, bravo 👏👏👏

[@BlessedDog]

>I am truly blown away and speechless So is Nick

[@gordonlekfors2708]

yah the way he poos in his pants at 7:44. impressive af and very humbling.

[@dimitris90schild92]

Agreed!best video EVER 💪💪

[@breadcrumbhoarder]

Nicola: “it became clear why he sent me it” Nick: *looks slightly sad* Nicola: “but it didn’t put me off because he’s so handsome” Nick: *eyes go super wide and he looks at her like ‘you can’t say that on tv’* Lmao they are so sweet like such relationship goals

[@baboowam23]

Anaya Klein 16:12 had to clip that

[@KDL861]

He knows what’s up! His wife is AWESOME!!!

[@CanadianMum444]

AGREED!!!!!!⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@randomcrow8172]

Anaya Klein that was adorable

[@Pro_Vs_Con]

EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT! His eyes Said it all! "I can't believe you said that!!?" 😀😆

[@nazunananakusa8916]

A glimpse at actual love. Someone who sticks by your side no matter what. I wish we could all have that :c

[@sarahmyers6343]

Rena Ryuugu totally agree so inspiring a once in a lifetime love

[@AttitudeLive]

Totally agree Rena! Thanks for watching !

[@psyclinez5985]

Attitude damn my boy looks good!!! hey man look tell nick i said hell yea!!! i am 285pounds and 11% body fat and shit wish i looked like nick...man mad respect,u guys every need help and i can contact me,[e-mail] facebook Terry leonard altoona PA...man love u guys!!! outstanding!!!

[@angelathurman9771]

Rena Ryuugu yes. My. Man. Stays. By. Me.

[@lizzyquaiatto7372]

I love that they don’t coddle him at all, everyone pushes him to do what he wants to do and it’s so fucking cool

[@mckenzie5550]

I keep finding myself smiling ear to ear when I watch Nick & Nicola together, they are absolutely precious🥰

[@missinformed23]

awwww when she said he was handsome his face jus lit up .... awwww u guys are soul mate

[@AttitudeLive]

They sure are amazing aren't they! Thanks for watching Salima!

[@lilycough9500]

They are couple goals. The fact that she knows and understands him is truly beautiful. (Also they have matching hair).

[@AttitudeLive]

Hope you enjoyed the episode Lily! Thanks for watching!😀

[@laurabosscher9883]

Hollywood needs make a movie about this badass. What an inspiration 🙌💪

[@mog882]

Laura Bosscher There’s no happy/sad ending. His life is ongoing, story unfolding so it wouldn’t transfer to the screen all that well.

[@persephone2706]

There is a movie called the Butterfly and The Diving Bell, after a book written by Jean-Dominique Bauby, editor-in-chief of Elle magazine. He had a stroke at age 43 resulting in locked-in syndrome, with which he is almost completely paralyzed and only able to communicate by blinking an eye. He wrote an entire novel that way.

[@cameronveeck1950]

Laura Bosscher sorry to burst your bubble but what would it be about

[@jhuganomics]

Hollywood would ruin his story.

[@justingray2976]

Steve-O would make it work 👍

[@vanessacroft8502]

His wife is right, he is very handsome, he love for life and his willingness to always improve makes him even more attractive, but she is all of that and more, a wholesome, rare individual, who loves without pity and truly connects with his soul, made for each other, who would of thought such diversity would create such a beautiful love story. Amazing couple. Love to you all

[@poorexecution]

I cried from start to finish. little things such as talking shouldn't be taken for granted. everyone needs a reality check once in a while, this was mine.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Rachel Nadeau, hope you enjoyed!

[@coweenuhm9662]

SAME

[@Karmen2010]

I don't think they want us to cry though. They have a lot of challenges but they are deeply in love and want to share their story.

[@figureworksco.7035]

"What's gonna hurt more oi, these few rips or coming in second" Priceless

[@annafrostman3569]

Oh I thought you said or becoming sicker . I cried 😭😭

[@sarahnorment]

Reps

[@dannyleira9371]

Reps

[@kjh-h7162]

Wow this woman is amazing. I thought that he had med her before the incident, the fact that she fell in love with him after his struggles just shows. Love like this is the real deal.

[@KDL861]

KJH -H What about her?!? She is SUPER Woman! 😳😘

[@stevetaylor3681]

Please read Ghost Boy. Its a tear jerker. The KZbin vids about him, don't detail how he met his wife. His ordeal is the stuff of nightmares, most can't even imagine.

[@4Mikes4Mindset4]

beautiful

[@tueudeeuiexdtu7317]

I missed that part somehow, thanks for pointing it out, that is awesome!

[@aminoto-3]

Despite his setbacks, this guys got more fight than most people, not only is he smiling while pushing to get the best out of himself, he’s encouraging others too…. and a lot of couples could learn from these two, they are lucky to have found each other and the often elusive balance of love and laughter together.. keep on keepin on 🤟🏼.

[@dessaml18]

Nick is adorable, and his wife is a doll. This story made me smile.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Dessaml! Hope you enjoyed the episode!

[@carpediem5107]

Attitude we could learn something from his lady

[@samanthaolivares5054]

Carpe Diem 8

[@wildfloweratheart1111]

What a great documentary and what a great woman. He is incredibly lucky and inspiring

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for the support Lillovebuglily!

[@justincal6817]

incredibly lucky?

[@TrueBlueCat]

Stength. Patience. Hope. No greater love. 🙏

[@theabysmalplane2016]

@@justincal6817 Lucky my ass.

[@lelap.1486]

@@justincal6817 I think they mean lucky as in lucky to have someone so supportive of him and who doesn't care abt the condition

[@natashar4651]

Nicola is my former school English teacher from when she was living in the UK, she really is amazing!

[@TiggiTheWillful]

Oh wow you’re lucky. I bet she was fun to learn from and so glam

[@sonalmundhra248]

I would have loved to get to know her.

[@natashar4651]

@@TiggiTheWillful she had the best style! She also taught me how to make nightmare before Christmas earrings, I think I still have them somewhere!

[@elainebines6803]

@@natashar4651 Nicola is so creative, watching her make the cupcakes was art in itself. Glad you had the opportunity to actually know her and to be taught by her, amazing. A quality of a good teacher is patience and listening, Nicola has that for sure 👏

[@gotcha9983]

God bless her

[@nursedaniel72]

Wow. How gorgeous is this guy. And she is definitely angelic. This story brightened up my mood after a grim diagnosis I received. I felt guilty for thinking my life was over when I saw this. Amazing.

[@Aster_Risk]

Whatever the diagnosis is, good luck with everything.

[@seagullokapi]

Yo he's so physically strong? Holy shit. He's kickass and the relationship between him and his wife is the cutest thing.

[@user-tn3kx4vc8v]

They had triplets a few months ago

[@so-b-itcustoms908]

Im not crying..im not crying Ok im crying

[@Dimera09]

Dude is fitter than me lol

[@gordonlekfors2708]

yah the way he poos in his pants at 7:44 like it's nothing. impressive af 🤜🤛

[@daniellebeckman2406]

whats really cool is they fell in love after his injury. i figured they were together and he became disabled and she stood by his side, but what she did is even more amazing.

[@MissLexiMarie]

Everyone around him loves him so much. What an amazing support system.

[@salvitoregachione1237]

Lexi probably needs a nap just goes to show how interdependent we all are. Isolation is real cause of despair.

[@Billie523Cummings]

Every single person in his life loves him so much and is so wholesome. I'm so happy he has so much love and support

[@sarakyoutube]

watching this changed me

[@AttitudeLive]

Hi Sara K! Thanks for watching and really hope you enjoyed the episode. Stay Tuned! Attitude

[@sweetpea254]

Yes goodness i mean im epileptic and watching this inspired me to NEVER give up. Seizures are NO joke and i have them a lot i have three kids and they're very strong for me also. I always be scared of having a stroke because of the seizures. This documentary gave me strength to continue on.

[@mamarobyn]

Same...

[@MeezCheese]

Sara I hope you’re doing well :)

[@SusanLynn656]

@Jason Bouphasavanh you're way out of line. Sara K and Robyn Ragone are beautiful women who love life. That's what I see in their videos. Sounds like you were hurt by relationships? Did you feel used in a relationships especially after time when your partner lost feeling for you and continued to be with you and use you for your benefits? Yes? Well BINGO! You are projecting your own hard feelings and bad experiences on two innocent women. Man up buddy! Get your ass in therapy and learn to cry and learn to grieve. Find a male friend to be your mentor. Learn to love good male friends and female friends. Learn how to have long term intimate relationships. On the sauce or numbing out on drugs? Stop it and go to an AA or NA meeting. Get a sponsor ASAP. Your anger is channeled in an ugly way against these two women. Man up like Nick in this video. Did you even watch this video???? Use your anger in a positive, healthy way making small gains. Man up brother!!! Now apologize to Sarah and Robyn.

[@mspolefreak2919]

Locked in syndrome...it's harsh..I lost my husband..he couldn't manage without a tracheostomy..I miss him..it was extremely emotional watching this...I wish u the very best Nick and Nicola....much love❤️🇿🇦

[@headoftaxreformandpercenta4908]

Very sorry to hear that. I've taken a lot for granted and it's humbling

[@BobbyG83]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[@choronzon.333]

I'm so sorry for your loss, I couldn't imagine what your going through. Good thoughts your way.

[@Jadeygirllisa1985]

Bless you 💙 am sorry for your loss.

[@backdoordestroyer4622]

I'm sorry for your loss

[@RibbitApple]

This is one of my biggest fears. My boyfriend has severe nerve damage and, while he can still walk now, he's been diagnosed to be paralyzed by 30 (diagnosed at 14, now 21). We've been together for 6 years and I can't imagine life without him. Watching things like this, seeing couples go through such a hard time, it gives me hope and confidence and reminds me that if he does end up needing my care I will be able to do it with no problem.

[@marloesifyable]

Ribbit wow, good luck to the two of you! Stay positive 💖

[@AttitudeLive]

Thank you for watching and your comment Ribbit! We hope you enjoyed this episode and hope you got something out of it!

[@jemi636]

Ribbit good luck to you both and it's so beautiful to see how committed you are to stay and care for your man! What an amazing person you are!

[@ALBUMOF2008]

Ribbit i'm terribly sorry for your situation but you seem like a really strong and caring person and I wish you all the best!

[@leahtotallymindless1433]

Ribbit you are fucking amazing and the both of you have my support❤️

[@Ethan-qp2sq]

The dude is ripped man , massive respect for someone in that situation keeping on with such deterination

[@maskedasmr4992]

You can tell in his own mind he doesn’t view himself as disabled. He’s a happy dude. Smiles all around. Thank god he found his wife. This was truly inspirational.

[@gotcha9983]

God bless them

[@ellie2050]

Whether he does or doesn't...being disabled doesn't determine your happiness and even if he does recognize he's disabled, what's wrong with that???

[@ricklocket2812]

@@gotcha9983 please cut your religious bs, thanks

[@daydreamer412]

You can tell in his own mind he’s not JUST disabled.. He knows he is.. His wife knows he is.. and that’s okay.. It’s obvious he struggles more than most with some of his physical limits and he gets angry and upset sometimes just like everyone else.. Along with the smiles in the video, we also saw him angry and frustrated.. I’m sure it took a lot of tears to get to some of those smiles we see and it’s not genuine to say he doesn’t recognize the gravity of his situation.. He knows what it was like before this and I’m sure misses many aspects of his older life, but I’m also sure he wouldn’t trade where he is today, with his body building and wife and children, for the world… He’s made a new normal that is better than most people’s lives in some aspects, but that is not without strife that is greater than most.. Where he’s also different than most is in the amount of mental strength he has to power through everyday, and to continue on trying to rehabilitate himself; and live his life, his way, with his wife and children.. His determination is truly commendable, his energy is brilliant, and his story is motivational.. His physical strength is also impressive af.. I can tell by his work in the gym he’d knock me right over like he did the other buff dude 😂

[@improbablyyourdad8458]

@@ricklocket2812 you're a cornball and I'm not religious at all

[@hotaruishere2133]

I don't know HOW she can translate what he's saying by just watching his eyes look over letters... that's unreal!

[@mcrp_]

Actually, that's love ♥️

[@ruththomas1652]

She explained and showed how in the video. When both his eyes focus on the letter you can tell what he is looking at.

[@merncat75]

@@ruththomas1652 Yes but it's only a letter, not a full word. I had a difficult enough time understanding my dad trying to communicate with a board full of pictures.

[@GutsmanLoL]

@@hammaslanka69 it looks like he confirms or denies whenever she makes a guess on a word. there are parts where she finishes the word and he looks up every time shes correct.

[@morganfox5358]

@@timetraveler1577 stfu

[@abara5678]

16:17 his reaction when she says " because hes so handsome" omg so lovely. these two are just lovely

[@SomethingInTheGround]

Dude this guy cant walk, move his hands, or talk. But hes out here getting shredded and getting married. This guy is a inspiration. What the heck am i doing with my life? Nothing thats what. I come up with so many excuses to not do anything that will better myself. Not anymore. Thank you nick.

[@Emarion80]

He is amazing. His mind is locked inside a body that had at first stopped responding to him but he is kicking ass and doing what he wants anyway. Beautiful. Keep kicking life's ass Nick.

[@Valverik]

This is the kind of comments and life perception everybody needs... Love this comment... Thank you

[@jorddalord5400]

@@Valverik This is also a beautiful comment. have a great day!

[@LetsBeClear87]

I cant help but feel deep regret at the time ive wasted in laziness or self pity.. these folks are gorgeous examples of authenticity, grit and kindness. What a delicious couple. And that smile👌😘

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching!

[@jvertrees1988]

wow, I really feel for him. I think having all of your mental faculties but being unable to express yourself has to be horribly frustrating and difficult. I'm very happy for him that he met Nikola and is able to have that full time love and companionship. he's amazing!

[@IntoBlackHouse]

It is not only horribly frustrating, but beyond claustrophobic and terrifying. I was in the ICU for a month battling guillain barre syndrome. It left my body paralyzed and I was barely able to utter a word or string together an audible sentence like "I'm hot" or "I'm thirsty". This was very scary and upsetting. I had an alphabet board similar to the guy in the video as well as a board that had basic needs the nurse could point to and I could with all my might nod "yes" to. However it was still living hell and that isn't an overstatement. Being able to express yourself is one of the basic needs every living thing needs. Even if you are merely being ignored or discounted in what you are saying, it strikes a chord in you where you feel upset and sort of claustrophobic as if no one understands or cares. Imagine what this is like for someone who actually cannot speak or use their body to get their point across. It's awful and I can't imagine many things worse, if any.

[@lisabaltzer3163]

IntoBlackHouse I am very happy you recovered and will say a prayer for you. God bless.

[@nannybooboo7380]

Abc xyz I agree ☝️

[@randommess6667]

@@IntoBlackHouse Im glad you got better , I hated and felt so scared and anxious about being in hospital last year, I was crying about being in hospital more then the fact Id had my colon removed out the blue an was ill ect I just hated being in hospital and dependent on others , I cried about needing others help and being confined to a bed even though I knew id be able to get up one day an get my strength back, although it felt like what if I never get better it was very anxious time when you start to worry you will never get out of the place and felt suicidal because of it I was thinking how can I kill myself which sounds silly really but its so depressing and awful being sick an in hospital, I cant imagine how much worse it must have felt for you not even able to talk im so sorry you went through such hell

[@janseendiguiseppiThomasMC]

This has to be one of the coolest couples I've ever had the pleasure to witness.

[@CaptKPinksies]

This seriously made my day. I'm here all frustrated with losing weight and this guy is a savage at the gym.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Whitney! Hope you enjoyed!

[@aiyana3773]

I'm 15 and my dad had 2 strokes when I was 10 which wiped a lot of his memory + paralyzed all of his right side of his body. He couldn't walk, talk, feed himself, cleanse himself, etc. He didn't even remember his own family. It took a hard toll on my 2 younger siblings, I, and the rest of our family. My mom was having to raise us 3 kids while taking care of what felt like another child. It's been 4 years now (he's now 38) and he's gotten so much better. He can stand on his own, talk on his own a little, feed himself, move around way more independently, he completely understand everything around him, and so much more. I'm proud of how far he's come and I love my dad a lot. I know what this struggle feels like and my dad is my biggest idol. He's such a fighter and this man is too! Such an amazing video.

[@taegenmcshane]

aiyana sksksk i wish you , your dad, and family the best ❤️

[@tomaskuli177]

Hope everyone helps mom and dad out!

[@kiki29073]

Your an amazing child. Keep that love and pride for your dad. He, you and the rest of your family deserve it.

[@RealElongatedMuskrat]

Sending love to you and your family, pal. I'm so sorry that your family has suffered such a tragedy, but I'm also so glad to know that your dad is making progress and that you have a great relationship with him. I can't imagine what he must've felt, what you and your mum must've felt when it first happened.

[@gracestutler2258]

I can't believe how similar my experience was. When I was 9 (I'm now almost 20) my dad had a large stroke that paralyzed his right side too. He was completely nonverbal at first but now is able to walk, communicate (still has aphasia but my family can always understand) but still can't use his right arm. I felt similarly with being the oldest with two younger sisters and seeing my mom struggle with raising us and also him. Was getting down lately thinking about how I missed out on my dad but seeing your comment made me feel a little less alone and if you see this I hope it can do the same for you :)

[@lobsterzworld]

These two are so adorable. He's so strong, and stubborn as he put it, lots of people would probably give up. She's an amazing woman for all she does for him, but more than that you can tell that they both care deeply for each other.

[@AttitudeLive]

Hope you enjoyed the episode ! Thanks for watching!

[@derekturner3272]

Good hearts attract great people around them. What an amazing bunch. I'll add you guys to my prayers from time to time.

[@Dalester1979]

Talk about inspiration. Damn!! This guy's busting his ass in a gym with his limitations and I can't get my ass off the couch? Geesh!!

[@AttitudeLive]

Glad you enjoyed the Dalester! The story sure puts things in perspective!

[@paulinemwihaki4562]

Dalester1979

[@AttitudeLive]

Thank you to everyone watching!

[@paigehardy4359]

I feel like a failure at life when I see his determination and drive. I am an obese couch potato and I am ashamed. Go Nick. Bless you.

[@AttitudeLive]

Hi Paige, he certainly has some incredible strength! Thanks for your comment!

[@eccentricca]

Dude is phenomenal. Also, Nick & Nicolas wedding photo should be in a pictorial dictionary under love.

[@AttitudeLive]

Awesome! Thanks for the support eccentricca

[@southernrebel9081]

he is very cheery and seems fun to be around

[@Karmen2010]

Soviet Rebel She is too

[@southernrebel9081]

Absolutely , they are perfect together

[@nickcurrier1546]

This guy is toughness and fight personified. That is one of my biggest fears being afflicted with locked in syndrome and immobility in general and this guy not only is surviving it but thriving and growing with it! Best wishes to this couple

[@ashleyorben1859]

if you compare Nick with majority of others with locked in syndrome he has pushed himself so far it's unbelievable how strong and determined he is to achieve this level of functionality with the syndrome he has to endure.

[@Dspalten]

I am a nurse and had a patient with locked in syndrome. To use the letter/word board, he used a pair of glasses frames with a laser pointer taped to it. This made it easier for those trying to see/understand what letter/word he was pointing at and cut down on frustration with communicating especially for those who did not work with him everyday. The board had common words in addition to the alphabet to make communication easier. I know any ideas can help sometimes. God bless

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for the support and advice Darcy! we hope you enjoyed the episode!

[@trteeerryfse-wy2ww]

You're an angel

[@Mathew_Machado]

Can't give enough credit to this wonderful woman and how lucky his is to have a wife like that. What a great man and woman

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Mathew!Hope you enjoyed our channel!

[@aunt_shoe]

I'm not crying, you are! But seriously, I struggle with physical disabilities, and watching this man live his life in spite of his own physical disabilities is so powerfully inspiring.

[@summermorgan9836]

Another update for you guys, they’ve just had triplets! They’re all doing great and mum and babies just got to come home from the hospital the other day ☺️

[@delilahbaxley5880]

Really triplets?

[@summermorgan9836]

delilah baxley yes!! Two girls and a boy!

[@rachelcollins6188]

Where can you find the uppdate?

[@FATTYBONGRIPS]

How does that work

[@hushedmirth]

@@rachelcollins6188 apparently their Facebook

[@3musketeersmum]

what a lovely couple. you can see how much they love each other and the way his face lights up with his wife is just awesome. i want someone who loves me like that 😍 stay happy and healthy guys. much love xx

[@3musketeersmum]

that trainer too,such a brilliant guy x

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Flirty30 Flinty, hope you enjoyed!

[@3musketeersmum]

Attitude it was brilliantly made and definitely raises awareness of it.

[@headoftaxreformandpercenta4908]

I found myself crying and smiling the entire doco. His smile when looking at Nicola is infectious

[@mommichas0912]

true deff of love. through sickness and in health

[@montanawhite5699]

I love how his friends is literally laying on the ground in awkward positions to help him pose.

[@Karmen2010]

I'm thinking he was always a well liked man for all of these people to be so dedicated to him. He was/is a great friend.

[@someoneinthecrowd4313]

Carrie White It's so obvious from looking at his old pictures (with his mom's narration) that he lived to live, which he continues to do now when the odds are against him. Truly inspiring. I don't think pettyness and being mean to people was ever a part of his life, because that's not living.

[@ZOSOqueen]

They love their friend!

[@Crypto4always]

just realise this guy is more shredded than most people with a fully functioning body! mad respect for this dude and his wife aswell!

[@tatianymonteiro529]

What a badass group of people. No boundaries. Just kill it! Such an amazing story.

[@andybee1381]

So he still has the same mental capacity and awareness as before the stroke, but he's stuck in a body that he has very little control over? That's very sad and must be extremely frustrating to say the least. I'm glad he has such an amazing wife and is able to communicate.

[@MUNCHKINZE3RD]

brains still good not its best but i think it still works the body is screwed i think the brain is still good

[@MsSusiePan]

The stroke was in the brainstem. There, we have motor and sensitivity paths, along with cranial nerve nuclei. The stroke affected those functions; not his cognitive capability. That is entirily preserved.

[@PunkNation26]

Miss Adjusted It would be unimaginably terrifying.

[@charlottebensted6118]

Yeah, its like being paralysed but very limited movement. It can be such a devistating syndrome but Nick is inspiring to watch

[@lisadooley3872]

I love his determination to live despite his illness and disability because that would drive me crazy and I don’t think I could handle that

[@mikeylikesit525]

When they showed the wedding, I cried. That's really adorable. Good tears. He's so amazing and they are so cute together. Love them.

[@MadeleineHenderson]

you can really see the connection they have hey when they look at eachother, amazing couple

[@Cognitoman]

Me too and I’m a guy. What an incredible human being

[@lifeimitatingdeath3608]

32 yr old death metal drummer here.. I cried too bro.

[@frogganna]

He is such a kind hearted and handsome man! You can see his love for his wife in his eyes. The way he never gave up is so inspiring!

[@keatonscreations]

His friends helping him to pose... what an incredible reflection of their friendship. Helping him to be strong and holding him to look his best, both literally and figuratively

[@MissKellyBean]

What an awesome wife, and what cool mates to work on his training! Nick is amazing, and his whole crew seem like top-notch folks. Loved every second of this.

[@MissKellyBean]

Stellar that Nick is helping others that are overcoming challenges as well - we all have needed a mentor at some point in life, someone who has been through it and come out the other side even stronger. Good on you, Nick, for sharing some of that amazing strength with others and showing them the way.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Kelly!Hope you enjoyed our channel!

[@marli8907]

I started this thinking how hard it would be to be married to someone and have to become their caretaker, and then got halfway through and realized she married him after he'd already had his stroke. That's rather amazing.

[@Ladyne77]

You can't tell me that soulmates don't exist. There are people in this world who are meant for each other and they are destined to be brought together. She is definitely the right woman for him. Such a tragic yet precious story.

[@judithgilkison8604]

My mother was locked in for 20 years. I cared for her the last 10, and the very last 7 alone- just mother n I. And I memorized the board and just put my hands up like at shoulder level- open like before you clap your hands are open. It's hard work and I can say the.most wonderful moment of my entire life- I became one with my mother. 2 people using one body/ mine. And I would do it all over n over again. I was trully blessed. Our lives looked hard n sad to others but it wasn't. We were happy and it became our way of life. God bless and keep you both. oh and my mother just spelled with her eyes for 10 yrs. because they said she would never speak again, no one did speech therapy. I worked with her for 3 years of moving mouth and facial expressions. SHE GOT THEM ALL BACK, YUP! And in the end I was reading her lips very little board. My mother's brain was 100% normal she just had a chiropractor wipe out her "Ponds at the base of her head where it meets the neck. I can't even begin to say how much coming across this story and channel has made my day and my life. It shows people the reality that he is a full person and has value. If people only knew. The strength it takes the locked in quad to even live.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thank you for watching and sharing your story Judith! I hope you enjoyed this documentary!

[@cg-ny9078]

Judith, it was so nice to read your comment. Thanks for sharing such a personal story. You are a true hero for caring for your mom and enduring so much for so long. I couldn't imagine having to do it for my loved ones. What a God Send you were for her.

[@IntergalacticSpaceKitten]

This is the most beautiful comment I've ever read. Bless you and your mother. To have such a bond like that is so rare and phenomenal.

[@zitazeon]

@@Smog.hater.420 thought i was the only one lol

[@wanda01141]

Hi. Im wondering so are u saying after your mother went to a chiropractor she became locked? And thanks for sharing your story

[@nathannash2011]

This Guy Just Changed My Entire Perspective On Life. Ive Never Been So Inspired. He Will Forever Be That Voice In My Head That Pushes Me When Life Gets Hard. I Thank You For That Bud.

[@nopenothappening2923]

Wondering how a man without a voice will be the voice in your head?

[@kk-murda9632]

@@nopenothappening2923 I thought the same, figured it was a troll making a joke at first 😂

[@everything777]

I bet he forgot about him 2 days later

[@freelife1121]

Don't listen to this people.It's wonderful that he inspires you and i wish you all the best

[@nathannash2011]

Well Here It Is A Year Later And Still Relevant. Figures In Any Video You Find Assholes That That Always Have Something Negative To Say. To Everyone Else That Liked This And Understood Without Nitpicking Everything, I Appreciate You. 🤜💥🤛

[@ShiNoKuroTsuki]

This is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen!

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for your kind words, we hope you enjoyed!

[@introvertile7803]

Seriously. Makes me happy that he can take something shitty that happened to him and continue on living doing his best. He seems so motivated still. It amazes me.

[@AttitudeLive]

We could all learn something from Nick!

[@veruschkadahmer1805]

It's amazing to see how Nick is well surrounded by awesome friends and his wife. Those are true buddies. People who are willing to help and support you daily, it's beautiful. I'm sure that Nick give them back a thousand of times in love, laugh and affection. What a beautiful, sad, uplifting story all together

[@KatBurnsKASHKA]

This was such a beautiful doc, thank you. Nick is a shining light, as well as Nicola!

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Kat! Hope you enjoyed!

[@KatBurnsKASHKA]

Attitude you're so welcome. So happy to stumble on this channel. Lots of great videos here. New subscriber :)

[@AttitudeLive]

Awesome - thanks for subscribing Kat!

[@JuniperTreeee]

I wonder how these people all met. They have a nice tribe.

[@randomhuman3064]

Yeah, right? Thought the same.

[@WolfScythe91]

I believe they knew him theyve always been his friends even before

[@BD-bo5cl]

Your vibe attracts your tribe 💗🥰

[@xJanay]

@@BD-bo5cl I must be giving off a bad vibe then 😢

[@sandora2cute1]

aww his personality is beautiful :)

[@AttitudeLive]

He is an awesome man Lia!

[@sandora2cute1]

You can tell!

[@gordon12121212]

In so many ways Nick is a stronger man than I am! Hearing his story makes me feel so humble yet inspired at the same time 🙏

[@RoyalFlush333]

What an inspiring woman to accept him for who he was on the inside. And what an amazing man to keep living despite this horrible situaiton. I'm inspired and warmed by both of these amazing indivdiuals. They are trully beautiful on the inside and on the out. (Not that the outside matters.) Their truest beauty comes from within. It gives me hope, that if I continue to be myself, maybe on day someone will find me beautful too. Love is powerful, and those two clearly have it for each other.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for those kind words Liz! They truly are an amazing and inspiring couple!

[@debbiedattilo7026]

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[@because0011]

He's in great shape. This is amazing what strength and courage he has. His wife is so sweet and strong.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching!😀

[@JaimeMesChiens]

because0011 I know. Dude is cut! Gorgeous musculature.

[@velvetcherrylips]

He is in Excellent shape, the cakes his wife made are beautiful, I could never be that happy 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@PallidTrash]

I spoke to him briefly on Facebook and he's awesome!

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks for watching Jazhua, hope you stay tuned!

[@ghostwiththemost5097]

How's he's doing now?

[@BabeLisaLovesBilly]

I always wonder how they're doing!

[@Surdeigt]

Jason Bouphasavanh dead? No he is very much alive, mate!

[@Surdeigt]

BabeLisaLovesBilly last time I checked they were wanting to have a baby 😊

[@BloodylocksBathory]

Seizures AND a stroke is beyond rough. I'm glad he's able to communicate, I can't imagine how it would feel trapped in your own mind and unable to speak.

[@reginaaustra2702]

It's not an easy thing to deal with that's for sure. It took me a while to recover and relearn everything after my strokes. It was a rough journey. But with the help of some really special people and my Faith, I'm here. Seeing his story was nothing short of absolutely amazing.

[@Anthobvs]

To be honest it's still pretty amazing he is still even able to move. Like he can workout (of course with help) but he is still able to partly reeducate his body, and he might be able to earn some of his independancy back at some point

[@MegaMusicMasher]

I feel honoured to go to the same gym as this hero!!

[@Tashanaa-R]

Very inspiring video 🙂 My son also has this condition it's been a year now and he still continues to progress a little each day 🙂 Thanks for sharing & all the best for you guys 🙂

[@illiteratefool]

What a badass!!! Seriously. Amazing. Your gym must be so proud

[@channie_ya]

oh god, watching him cry of joy during the wedding is making me cryyyyyyyy

[@piotrnod6489]

good, it means you are alive and have heart in right place

[@Tracys_Little_Patch_of_Dirt]

More of a man than most I've ever met. As for his wife what a diamond.

[@AttitudeLive]

Thanks Tracy! Totally agree!

[@TrippyVibes-]

Wow that’s all I have to say is wow. What a woman he has, what a great set of trainers, and family. Absolutely amazing

[@melissafulham7089]

The smile on his face when she said he was handsome. Like UUUFGGHHHH MY HEART!!!

[@ashf585]

His smile really gets me. What an amazing wife too, everyone could learn from you both honestly. Also 14:48 the way they laugh with each other really speaks for itself.

[@MurkleQ]

Oh yeah yeah XD As soon as I saw the avatars I was expecting this

[@CanadianMum444]

TOTALLY!!!!!!!🥰

[@amberrhea2863]

Nick his wife and his mates are the fabric that hold our world together. ♥️