Aubrie's Story: Cheating With The Swinger

[@SympNurseLife]

The relationship was over when he suggested this. 💯

[@courtneymurphy1023]

As soon as she said they are swingers, I lost all sympathy.

[@lkb-il8iy]

Same here. Be careful what you wish for

[@BethKolasinski]

Exactly.

[@lkb-il8iy]

Sorry but if my significant other even brings up the idea of swinging then I’m out. I don’t understand why women (and men) go along with it just to keep their partner happy. What about YOUR happiness?

[@TheSFCjaymo]

ABSOLUTELY AGREE!!! Sex is PRIVATE!!!!

[@frenchbluehen]

Women never get to think about their happiness.

[@lkb-il8iy]

@@frenchbluehenNot all woman are like that. I’m certainly not lol

[@joyvalles76]

Oh! I'm judging! Those people have NO MORALS!!!!! PERIOD.... And I don't feel sorry for them.

[@carololech3493]

Sorry but if you swing, you’re asking for trouble!

[@lkb-il8iy]

@MickeyMack-og8mv Girfriend or wife I’m not participating. That’s how people end up Dateline 😆

[@pooh4025]

I'm in shocked that this happened said no one 🙄

[@lkb-il8iy]

Right lol

[@dst6517]

He wouldn't be able to send the roses to the other wife anyway because her husband would know.

[@alexandrialove2826]

My thoughts exactly!!

[@alexandrialove2826]

I think something is going on between them. He probably didn’t send flowers to the other woman in fear that her husband would see the text message.

[@dougmurray3692]

Yes. Group chat should be one of the top 3 rules - no communication outside of the group chat. Arranging the "get togethers" involves everybody anyway so why not coordinate it centrally around a group communication. And ANY contact is done thru this portal only. Pretty simple.

[@JuveDeNile]

Or… stay with me… here’s something waaaay out in left field but what IF, huge IF, we forego the portal and not have sex with other people while married and instead if your marriage really sucks this bad, get a divorce and skip the BS? I know it probably hurts your brain 😅

[@dougmurray3692]

@@JuveDeNile People are free to do what they want, as long as it doesn't harm others. Add to that the betrayal factor. If you make an agreement, stick to it. If you don't then you unilaterally change the agreement. Legal marriage is a contract. It's a business arrangement, as far as the law is concerned, and as far as morals go, I've mentioned the agreement/betrayal of it. That being said, your insult is unwarranted. All you've done is pointed out how I secure you are with your own intelligence, b)c you know zip about me. Let me guess, you're a "Christian" who doesn't completely follow the rules but that's "good enough", right? If the head of Christendom, the Vatican, and it's agent, the Pope, knew what you lived like, you'd be Excommunicated. In the very near future good "enough" won't be 'Good' enough. These are the New Rules, you're outta the Loop. So obviously you don't know what you're criticizing. Quite the skill in judgement you have there. As far as my intelligence goes, you'd be left in the fetal position if you had dumped into your head what I have in mine. Care to introduce yourself in a diff way or should I leave with that? It's your life and you're gonna live it, regardless. Try giving discernment a whirl, rather than judgement viewed from your own position.

[@lkb-il8iy]

Or just don’t have the “get-togethers” at all. Only have a party of 2

[@flyingblind5677]

Some people don’t view sex the same way, I know that might be hard to understand. There’s nothing wrong with swinging if all parties involved are consenting and committed to the boundaries they set. It didn’t sound like Aubrey wanted to do this, and her husband didn’t commit to the boundaries either. But sex isn’t this private intimate thing to everyone, sometimes it’s just a way to enjoy yourself, that’s all

[@dougmurray3692]

@@flyingblind5677 Totally agree. It's when side deals go on that's the issue. In this case (as in most, if not all), the original agreement was honoured. So side effects; lack of trust, feeling of betrayal, etc. but the activity itself is no diff than math. It works. 'How' it's done is the real thing. And then there's agendas. "Let's try it" can mean just that. Or, it can mean a setup where one party thinks it's trying when the real thing is expose them to it so I can get more, which isn't disclosed. Few things to unpack but the lifestyle is fine.

[@kjb379]

She should probably just have the other woman contact her instead of her husband for setting up "dates." #ProblemSolved

[@dshdesigns]

When dude wants to share his woman... he don't care about her. And the fact she's giving herself to others to make him happy is just sad... she needs to get out.

[@MichaelNavarro-i3w]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 dumps ass keep swinging!!

[@40aterules]

These situations may seem fun at first but are always a train wreck.

[@heatherdelias8168]

This is the perfect example of when you do not enter this lifestyle....to make your significant other happy. If its not something you also want to experience it will cause problems. The one who did it just to make their partner happy with feel jealous and insecure and think theyre happier with the other person. Sounds like they needed to let this lifestyle go as she was in it for the wrong reason.

[@antoniosanchez-mw8qb]

If this was something right, than you wouldn't have to disguise your voice

[@mylovelylittlezoo]

I wonder why they didnt do the 3 way?

[@lkb-il8iy]

I feel like that would’ve been better. I’m surprised they didn’t do that.

[@mylovelylittlezoo]

@@lkb-il8iy Me too. Maybe the wife didn't want to rock the boat too much

[@40aterules]

This always happens when these swingers do tbis.

[@lkb-il8iy]

It never ends well

[@dereklee2590]

Comfortable with self how can u be comfortable it not gonna from her horse mouth it doesn't work u see it dont work

[@demidundalk]

Your marriage is 💯 over when your husband introduces swinging into the relationship!!!

[@brianbrian598]

Swinging lol getting what you deserve

[@dereklee2590]

Swinger not gonna end well

[@dereklee2590]

Get the divorce court papers ready to file to the lady don't understand it's the man idea in the man's hand man playing ground women not understanding

[@dereklee2590]

It don't work u don't start yeah ok it ends bad not jealous jealousy gonna be there really she nuts

[@dereklee2590]

No divorce u get when involve get swinger

[@dereklee2590]

Be comfortable its not be comfortable u pretending it's not pretend it's u become not this nonsense I have explained yet people don't understand