[AUDIO PODCAST] Separation: The Strange Secret of Marital Togetherness

Unless you're the Post Office or a University, you do not offer lifetime employment to new hires. It is a bad business practice. So why do we marry and say to each other, "this is forever" or "till death us do part"? Tenure is not good at the post office and not good at universities, so why does it work for marriage? Most successful partnerships are built on a carefully drafted partnership agreement. Why do many marriage partnerships thrive without any written agreement? The best airline pilots have gained proficiency on about ten or twenty different airplanes before they take the controls of the airliner you are riding in. Surely the best marriages are when husband and wife have gained proficiency with ten or twenty other people before you? Read about our special Passover discount on The Financial Prosperity Collection here www.wehappywarriors.com/finan.... How can the action that creates life be anything but holy? But how can the source of great sensual pleasure be holy? How can a wife be both a sister and a bride? How can we possibly live together: Men believe all pain and sadness can be healed with physical intimacy, but women don't. Banishing the tedium of familiarity and recovering the original euphoria.
00:00 Marriage, tenure, and relationships.
05:59 The importance of accountability in workplaces.
10:16 Marriage, finances, and personal growth.
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19:02 The importance of partnership agreements for successful relationships.
23:49 Marriage paradoxes, including the importance of practice and agreements.
31:13 The unique aspects of the male-female relationship, including physical intimacy, and its impact on marriage.
36:00 Gender differences in intimacy and relationships.
44:18 Biblical marriage, gender differences in intimacy.
49:37 The meaning of "tamei" in Hebrew culture and its connection to death.
56:46 Monthly separation for communication training in marriage.
1:01:50 Marriage, relationships, and gender roles.

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Blessed by your podcast rabbi Hid Bless you

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Thank you!

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4.55 - Too many relationships. Man-woman, Family-Parish, Private Property-Municipality. I accepted these as my guides and have finally understood this and have found a way to apply these relationships to creating tax benefits for me, even if I have an education in French-Polish law and court procedure. You know you can make free legal service into a big money business, you just have to think! God guides, God provides, you count the money. Thank you Rabin! adwokat Tomasz Surdej

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This was a wonderful presentation, very deep and enlightening. I think it's no accident that modern, secular society promotes the opposite of everything you teach. given it's push to weaken families, religion etc in it's push towards socialistic state control. Sadly I'm likely one of the people for whom it may be too late, but I will certainly pass the message on to y daughter. Thankyou Rabbi Lapin.

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35:40 : Hello it's me again. Anna Karenina is a Slavic character. Russia is starting expeditions to Siberia. The bed is the Slavic symbol of fertility - jebanica in Kashubian Polish or łóżko/łoże/loża in Polish - which in Croatian means vineyard.. Is the Slav to conquer the whole world or just keep to his/her bed? That is the question Anna Karenina is trying to ask. She puts out her bedsheets to dry because she wants to see whether the oracle will bring her a symbol of Asia or Slavdom - of Buddhism or Catholicism. The Church has reunified - we just don't have the details sorted out. God help us!

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58:46 -What if she is old and is ovulating on a day her spare egg comes to roost. Is that allowed by the Talmud, Mishna, Tora, or higher necessity?

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49:44 - This happens in Slavic languages - supposedly it's like 20 languages, 100 dialects, but in reality it's a language with regional differences. I am Pole of lesser Poland. I understand Russians, Bulgarians, Serbs, Bosnians, Slavonians, Dalmatians, Czechs, Upper Hungarians, Austrian Slavs, Rusins, when they speak in their native language. They try to force me to speak their 19th century created nationalist standardised banter I lift in anger. If they are atheists, I try to speak to them the language of the Slavic Bible of St. Cyril and Methodius, which fails but is simple to understand for anyone with a Slavic background. Is it true that Knaan - Polish Slavic Jewish -was banned by the Kahal in the 15th century to be replaced as the language of Talmud study? I have questions but no one will answer them. Adwokat Tomasz Surdej

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21:47 - Christians don't believe in contracts. The mere fact that an obligation can exist without a corporeal body created by God is idiotic. - Pope Blessed Pius IX