Autistic Girl Had To Leave Restaurant

Abbie had to leave the restaurant after getting worked up. She does really well at handling a loud environment with lots of sensory input but she often gets to a point where she can't handle any more. I had to take her out of the restaurant for a little bit. It doesn't stop us from going though. She's come a long way.
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[@fatheringautism]

It comes up every time so I wanted to make sure I addressed it. "Autistic Girl" isn't a label. I often title the videos and descriptions to accommodate search engine terms. It helps our videos to be found by new people thus helping spread awareness and acceptance. Happy Thanksgiving #MaassSquad

[@mistyross8108]

I am thankful Abby and the videos

[@fatheringautism]

@@mistyross8108 Awww

[@leilaevans8269]

I am thankful for my family and very thankful for you all i love watching your videos they make my day happy thanksgiving and Abby you are doing so good

[@marciabeasley8506]

FatheringAutism That’s crazy that you STILL have to address this!!!

[@mysticloverfairy1]

I look forward to watching new videos

[@demi8177]

Little does that lady know abbie brightens thousands of peoples day daily

[@daniellewarren1701]

Abbie cheers me right up! When I come back from work I check to see what she's been up to, every day. I'm not American but I'm thankful I found Abbygirl xx

[@deblavan4190]

I agree I watch because Abbie snd your family makes my day! You are so great with her and sharing her and yourselves with us!

[@liztrainer895]

demi has a opinion I liked what that customer said. You shouldn’t have so stay home because a family member is autistic. Everyone has a right to be anywhere they want to.

[@rgvfamilylife5256]

For sure 😘

[@alanacarson5609]

That lady is 100% right, people with special needs deserve to have the luxury’s we have. Yes we may be asking for behaviours by doing things but at- least we can go to bed at night with the thought “I’m giving them the best life possible”. I volunteer with special olympics and Work with special needs, and I strive to ensure that i make sure they live life to the fullest. There is not many people like this unfortunately in the world who will put in the effort fully. But I’m glad that we are those type of people. Abby is amazing, she has parents who work hard, who give her the best quality of life and I may not know you personally but I can see thru these vlogs that, that girl is one of the happiest girls and she loves her mom and dad and brother! You guys are such great parents and I hope I can continue to learn from watching you guys! ❤️

[@alynndollhouse1367]

Love seeing the clip of Abbie in her younger days. You have come so far and endured much. Blessings and Happy Thanksgiving to you and your inspiring family💕MamaMiaof5👶🏼👧🏻👦🏼👱🏼‍♀️👩🏻

[@california_grown_carissa216]

Seeing Abbie push open that door and start putting those packages in without any prompts or gestures ❤️🥳👍🏻

[@KarlaAkins1]

Way to get out in public, Dad and Mom!! So proud of Abbie!!!

[@anneanne9009]

Not being judgemental, I have an autistic child an being in pubic like that, with all the noise, is hell for her. It will never be something she'll get used to so why do it?

[@KarlaAkins1]

@@anneanne9009 That's simply not true. With time and persistence and consistent exposure, de-sensitization can occur. I have twins with autism. They started out quite severe, licking the floors and melting down everywhere we went. Now, they are amazing 24-year-old men who handle public situations very well. Now, that said, every single child is different. What one child responds to isn't what another will respond to. However, there are evidence-based practices that do help children with autism overcome fears and struggles with times in public. We all sometimes have a bad time in public. People with autism are no different. I've been in stores and restaurants before that I couldn't wait to get out of myself. It's not impossible and if Abbey is never exposed to these situations, she'll never get the chance to learn how to cope with her feelings. We learn by doing hard things. We don't grow if we don't try.

[@anneanne9009]

@@KarlaAkins1 We can agree to disagree, autism is a spectrum. Yes, their coping mechanisms can increase, they can go to school etc, but I think it"s a mistake to think you can 'normalise' them. Sure, they will get it, but it's hellish and kinda cruel really. Yes they cope, are they happy, are they okay and are they not living in a contant state of stress and anxiety? Who knows? I'm sure they know how you want them to answer that question.

[@MelB868]

Have you thought of noise counseling headphones? I have Aspergers and it’s we can hear everything at once people talking it just blends together and sounds like noise I can’t understand what’s being said when everyone talks at once and every time a fork hits a plate it can be heard

[@MelB868]

Have you thought of noise counseling headphones? I have Aspergers and it’s we can hear everything at once people talking it just blends together and sounds like noise I can’t understand what’s being said when everyone talks at once and every time a fork hits a plate it can be heard

[@shannonsantoro6876]

As a teacher in a self-contained autism classroom, I have to tell you how much I enjoy your vlog. I know what it's like for me as a teacher, but I don't think ANYONE who hasn't experienced parenting a child with autism can really understand what it's like for you. The amount of patience and love it takes me in my 8 hour day... you have to have exponentially MORE than that to do what you do. Thank you for bringing autism awareness out into the community in a very real, tangible, and honest way. Knowledge is power and education fights ignorance. Way to go!!

[@lifeonlowbatteries8153]

I'm so thankful for FatheringAutism and the entire Maass Squad! Thank YOU for doing what you do: for entertaining, for bringing awareness, for breaking down barriers, and for being a friend. I'm glad to have found you.

[@QtdiamonD]

I dont celebrate thanksgiving (im from the Netherlands) but im thankfull for finding your family. Im learning from every single one of your videos and im using some of your tips at my work with kids on the spectrum. Everyday is a joy watching your beautifull girl. Thank you for that! #Masssquad

[@jalledira]

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[@taliathetree123]

Ayyyyy 🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱 (Also I agree. Abbie and this family are so inspiring)

[@tellyourWiFiloveher]

Im in recovery from addiction. Watching your family and your struggles puts my petty issues into perspective. Thanks c

[@schrdngrskat3847]

rachie woo I don’t think your issues are petty just because they’re different! They’re still struggles for you. I’m glad you’re working towards recovery!

[@tammymozingo03]

Congratulations that's awesome

[@snooterpoops]

rachie woo hope you’re still doing well in 2020 💕

[@shakennawaken5394]

Me too, that's y I watch this channel, congrats on your recovery

[@hm6134]

My daughter is special needs and I know how it's not easy to go out and eat in public or when the child becomes overwhelmed by the surroundings. Greetings from Tampa Bay, Florida

[@RMHave]

I can attest to this woman's statement. I have been suicidal in a restaurant and some times a child's smile and a wave and change everything. Keep up the great work, Abbie is a wonderful person and you are an amazing family to be envied.

[@BoilsonA]

You guys are great parents.

[@FakedPvp]

As someone that has a bother with high functioning autism and I worked fast food we had this one girl come with autism and I helped their family on rough days she was my favorite person to see.

[@carissachristiansen5800]

I’m thankful for being 22 weeks pregnant after 12 years of infertility. I’ve done several IUI’s and a few IVF’s. Watching your family helped me stay positive about a possible pregnancy as you all are just so positive and kept my spirits up. Thank you for who you are and never change! We need more people like you all in this world! Happy Thanksgiving😊

[@chloeprint-lambert4750]

Carissa Christiansen what a wonderful blessing! Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy 💕 I look forward to the day we can celebrate the same blessing 🌟

[@bettyshulthise3505]

I am thankful for my 4 children, 10 Grand children, and 11 great grand children. I hope you all had a great Thanksgiving.

[@shortwonderland1589]

Watching old videos but I also got into a weird phase of watching pearl opening videos ALL THE TIME one summer, something about it was just relaxing and satisfying to me.

[@napoleondynamite8618]

You Tube recommend your page for me. And I have to say I am extremely in AWE in how supportive and loving you all are for Abbie. You are all so so amazing

[@slimy5209]

I must say..just discovered your channel and the love that you all share as a family is very beautiful...inspiring! Love your channel!

[@maryilalio4951]

Watching this has made my day seeing how calm you guys are makes me feel like I need to be more less stressed about life ❤️

[@ShadowL42]

I am so glad I found you guys.I have ADHD and often have trouble communicating and following multi step processes, even at 40mumble years old. It is a learning experience for me when you explain some of Abbys behaviors and how you are teaching her AND how she learns. In the past I have worked with disabled adults, all of whom had some brain related diagnosis. From Seizures, strokes, TBI's and yes, autism as well. This has explained some things I never knew and will help me in the future when I meet new people who have autism and other things that are all part of the same family tree. Thank you for being so open about the day to day struggles and joys of your family. You are all so very special and the worlds needs more of the love that you share with all of us.

[@saskiase8090]

Hey, Im from netherlands. I just watch this for no reason than I enjoy it. I just like you guys. Even tho I don't need the info for autism. You guys are just great.

[@saraherbertwatson706]

I’m thankful for you guys and that you’ve shared so much of your lives with us - you all truly make the world a better place!! 💙

[@keshiaw8470]

We THANK YOU guys! I appreciate seeing what you guys do as far as outings with Abbie and how you get through different situations.

[@Cheye-one]

I’m thankful for my son, he means the world to me and he has taught me so much. He’s a true joy and a blessing. Happy Thanksgiving!

[@julieminer1757]

I’m a new follower just catching up on older vlogs. I LOVED this vlog!! So amazing, I love how you took her outside to give her some time to settle herself. The shot of Abbie & Asa sitting side by side on that bench was so sweet! You both are such wonderful parents, it’s truly amazing. Look forward to your vlogs each day. 🌸💐😊❤️

[@hs489242]

You guys made my day. I've been struggling all day, and I thank you for this video.

[@guadalupepineda5954]

Happy Thanksgiving!!! Thank you guys for all you guys do! 😊✨ I also wanted to say I'm thankful for my wonderful boys and family!

[@SunshineValley121]

For the Restaurant. What about bringing one of her fine motor skill activities to keep her distracted. Like the things she does at school. I know when she's really amped up it won't help at all. But it could help a little. ✌💛

[@fwir711u2]

Watching these older videos and your newer ones, I am absolutely impressed at the progress that abbie had made. You guys keep up the awesome work!

[@fatheringautism]

Thanks so much!

[@iheartstarra]

thank you so much for posting! i love this family and channel and i hope you guys can prosper and keep going forever!

[@lugolobijeffrey1257]

Thanks guys for all! Much love from Uganda-Africa...I like Priscilla's laughter

[@bobbi543]

as I have been watching the old videos and the new ones, you can see so much progress in Abbie.. she is had so much progress in her communications skills and using her hands and all, even though she is non verbal, she is using sign language and all to tell you stuff, she is so precious, and that lady in the restaurant is so right Abbie smile and all makes me smile and happy.. I am glad that you take her out and do stuff.. Love you guys so much

[@michellehorning2216]

I'm in Canada but want to wish you a very Happy Thanksgiving! Thank you for all you do to bring awareness and acceptance to the world. I cannot thank you enough for how you have blessed my life. Love you Maass family. Many thanks once again. 💕💕💕💕

[@awarren6158]

I jus luv u guys thank u for your openness and allowing all of us into your family! Ms.B from Chicago.

[@adayinthelifeofolivia651]

You guys are such amazing parents and Abbie makes me smile every time i see her 🌞

[@christineblack5719]

Happy Thanksgiving guys... It is so nice to see other families that go through similar things... Good job Abbie!!

[@misslashondacade6973]

I am thankful for you guys! Abbie you are so amazing and you inspire me to keep going everyday. I was born with Microcephaly and find it hard sometime but you show me that I can get through anything and be strong.

[@begane1]

Thank you guys! You’ve taught me so much, inspired so many, and opened up and let us be a part of your lives ❤️

[@sarahriggins7988]

Abbie loves dropping off the mail. She was so excited. The noise always causes meltdowns with my son in restraunts. Your so patient and understanding with her sensory needs. We're thankful to you guys, too. I've learned so much from your family. Bless you.

[@nealfeldpausch715]

Your patience is second to none amazing !!!! Cheers !

[@DiariesofaDisabledmom]

That is so sweet that somebody said that. I get stressed when taking my son out cuz ppl just stare at us and upon occasion i get dirty looks and ppl have made comments about him. Ppl are just rude. Glad u met someone nice. And abbey u did good, i would of had sensory issues being in that loud of a restaurant. I love seein how much progress u make.

[@heathermarie2226]

Asa, you are an amazing father so patient and loving. Thank you and your family for the awesome vlogs and all the hard work that goes into filming, editing and dedication thank you! I hope you had a wonderful day today.

[@1Life2Live007]

I love watching y’all. Y’all make my day. Such a beautiful family! God bless each one of you.

[@juanitahuisentruit1989]

Iam thankful for my life and the ability to keep learning at the young age of 62. Thankful for wonderful people who help teach me ( all of you are part of that )

[@Juwlz]

Watching older vlogs before bed. I would love to see more videos of Abbie when she was little. They are just too adorable for words. If you guys have more, an entire episode of old Abbie clips would be amazing

[@dawnl.7792]

love your family. love your truth and your genuine desire to help other people in your shoes. love that you watch your steps, knowing that others are following right behind. praying for blessings and love abounding.

[@joydisney]

Happy Thanksgiving! You’re family is a true blessing to me! I’ve learned a lot over the years watching (since her sensory room vlog) being an ABA therapist for a while and now a school psychologist intern! God bless you

[@Jojoleen1]

You’re children are so sweet. Watching this is helping me to see the person and not just the autism. I’m also enjoying the family dynamics you have. This vlog speaks to people in so many ways. 🙂

[@felixandfamily3445]

It IS different! You guys are a part of my life in a way no other KZbinrs have or will be. I can't even describe how much I look forward to your vlogs every day. Thank you guys for sharing your lives and family with us❤

[@ivanjdrakov1957]

When in the restaurant I would inform the staff about Abigail's condition so that they're all prepared with cups with lids and also mentally prepared for a bit of a different experience.... Keep well and safe guys.. Lots a love from Bulgaria... Sweet 😁

[@liztrainer895]

Ivan Jdrakov I would have called the restaraunt and told them what to expect to prepare them .

[@XxxXxx-yz8sy]

You guys and abby make me smile all the time especially when im having a hard time thank you for that

[@jodygillam8197]

Thank You, each of you!! Abby uplifts my days also!! I love your video's... Happy Thanksgiving!!!

[@kathypickering9447]

Your family is amazing. I always feel so uplifted watvhing you guys. Hugs from.NZ

[@chelseahansen9746]

Grateful for you and your family. Sending love to you from South Florida. :)

[@KP-fj5vp]

Awe Asa such sweet words. A very moving vlog. Im grateful for community. Happy thanksgiving to all US viewers

[@Clarey-ke6vb]

Happy Thanksgiving Maass Fam and Squad!!! I’m grateful to you for helping me understand Autism at a different level. Before watching you I had only known about Autism and that people who have Autism can be anywhere on a spectrum. Thank you for bringing awareness to people like me.

[@lotos2980]

I've just recently started to follow you on KZbin. I'm amazed how you are doing and what you are willing to let us see you ups and downs. Abby is such a wonderful girl and love her already. I think my first comment was on the video where Priscilla did have her operation. I am thankful for being alive and for my family.

[@jeanettejacinto8027]

I completely cried at what the precious lady at the restaurant shared. That touched me to the very core. As a teacher and advocate for special needs, I am thrilled at this feedback and how she took the time to tell you. I am thankful the awareness that is happening through your channel. Thank you and your family!

[@DeannaMarina]

I’m so thankful for you guys. You’re sweet people with an amazing story who not only brighten my day, but teach me a lot. I love you all and thank you for all your hard work!! ❤️ Love, Deanna Kilroy ❤️

[@suzykauffman1831]

I love your patience and grace!

[@dainianjames22]

Aww Abby melts my heart..Good job Mom & Dad! #MaassSquad!

[@jacquelinemchardy2612]

Abigail makes my day everyday, she is one lucky girl to have an amazing big brother and two fantastic parents, much love from the uk 💞😊💜

[@julierowles6429]

Happy thanksgiving to your family from us in the UK ,the lady in the restaurant was right I’ve suffered depression since I was 13yrs old and I’m now 56 I absolutely love watching Abbie and she certainly cheers me up when I’m feeling blue.x

[@buildingburning]

I love how understanding and supportive you are of Abbie!

[@shirleygreer7209]

Abby you make my day too!!! I always watch before I go to sleep....love you all soooo much!!!!!

[@gamom1]

Thankful to meet you and learn so much from Abbey🦃💜

[@theresalynn3633]

I'm curious to know, do you all know how much Abby verbally understands? like I know she can tell you yes or no to things and if she wants a cookie or to go to the bathroom...but I'm curious to know if she can understand like whole conversation or just key words....or do you not even know? this is a genuine question no hate I'm just curious.

[@carmenlenting1360]

Theresa Lynn They made a video about communication with Abby. It explains a lot of the questions that you might possibly have.

[@Cupcake_Murder]

I love seeing Abigail as a little kid. You can see the progress she did over the years and this shows how good parents you are to her.

[@rhiannonmarquez1754]

You guys consistently do alot for me ty God bless u all!!💜🙏✌

[@mlwalston1]

You’re family is the real deal. I love the authenticity of your channel. ❤️

[@courtney9213]

Omg!! That video clip at the end of her trying to feed herself reminds me so much of my son. He is 8 and we are still working on self feeding very much so. He has a lot of the same mannerisms as your daughter. I just started watching your videos and I love them!!! They kind of show me and outlook on what could be expected with my son. Thankyou for sharing your beautiful family with the world.

[@whipchick90]

I've got really bad depression, and I know that Abbie definitely cheers me up! She makes me smile. She's so sweet!💞

[@coreybethmcknight4973]

Abbie reminds me so much of my son. The only difference is my son is verbal. We have struggled with him in stores and restaurants his whole life. We have to stop him from shoving all his food in his mouth all at once, usually we give hime bite size pieces one at a time. Otherwise he will choke himself, then he will gag non stop for a while.

[@karahorace5027]

Love you guys completely addicted to your channel and your fam so strong 💪 love watching Abby make progress w her independence as well

[@braincreativesit2884]

I am the father of an autistic child like you and we also broke the norm by leaving the country to live by the ocean in mexico.. The ocean has been an incredible healing power in our life, My wife and i have watched all your videos and we will continue to do so, we are even thinking of folowing your steps by offering a view of traveling with an autistic child.

[@jadebeattie1693]

Hi I live in Northern Ireland I love ur videos and I love that ur putting ur struggles and highs on the videos ur family is so sweet u should be proud

[@erikaelyse8192]

We are super thankful for your family!! I love watching your videos!! Hope you had a great thanksgiving and have a merry christmas!!!

[@christacrosson6352]

happy thanksgiving to yall I am from Canada so we already had ours back in October so hope u had a great day and a great meal.... Am glad u took Abby out for dinner that night and made that womans night that was amazing and made me smile just by seeing Abby brought such happiness to that woman again happy thanksgiving lots of love from Canada xxxx

[@DanielHLynam]

Thankful that I have the mind picture of Asa and Abbie sitting together in the be bench. Just a sweet moment

[@nokesvillehaunt915]

Such a sweet video of you and Abbie sitting on the bench until she was ready. I love those little moments. Great job to Abbie for conquering that overwhelming loud restaurant. That is awesome. She has grown so much even in the little bit of time I have been watching!!

[@chrissy_matia]

I love that you added the video of Abby when she was little she is so precious

[@cindyholloway8939]

Thank you for your sharing your life with your beautiful daughter Abbie with us. I just found your channel. I am a special needs assistant and I love working with children like your daughter. Thank you all

[@toystorylover5257]

Wow! Abbie did really good at the restaurant! I'm so proud of her! And that lady was so nice about her! She's right, everybody should have the opportunity to get out and do stuff! Well thanks for sharing your day with us! Have a good rest of the day!

[@mariseljewell3644]

I'm thankful for finding you guy we just found out my 5 year old nephew is autistic and watching your video's help so thank you for being you.

[@kylarunyan1048]

I'm thankful for my family and the time I had with my mom

[@maofautism7413]

I am thankful for the Maass family. I've learned so much from your channel. Its also a nice getaway from my regular life. Your family makes me see things in a different light. Not everything is black n white. Also, watching this channel makes me feel as if I'm not aline. Being a single parent, i get that feeling a lot!! So thats very important!!

[@freekimsurr]

IM THANKING FOR MY DAUGHTER N GRANDAUGHTER AND IM SOOOO THANKFUL THAT I FOUND YOU GUYS ON HERE WHEN I DID. I LOVE Y'ALL AND ABBY MAKES ME SMILE WHEN IM HAVING A VERY DEPRESSING DAY ;) SO THANK YOU!!

[@rachaelmcdonald4347]

Bless her heart. She did so well to get as far as she did. You could totally sense she was unsettled from the beginning of the restaurant. But seriously, I never ever get tired of you doing things & absolutely smashing it ❤️

[@biankita8245]

I'm thankful for finding your and SBSK channel 💗

[@susie9010]

It was so sweet to watch you Abigail on the bench. A beautiful family....

[@jojokukahiko]

Happy thanksgiving!! I learn so much everyday from you!! Thank you for your videos!!

[@Mtwhitewolf1016]

Thank you for allowing us to be a part of your lives. Sending love your way!!!❤️❤️

[@stephinethompson1581]

I am thankful for people like you. Showing the world about autism. My son has moderate autism but we have our good and bad days. Thank you so much for what you do. One more thing I'm thankful for is my children. They are 6yr old twins urijah and leigh-anne.

[@loristewart3086]

Love the Abbie throwbacks! I bought four ornaments and I am writing a little note with the ornament telling about Abbie, your family, fathering autism and what Mass Squad has become! Spread a little awareness in our gifts of Abbie's ornaments! I'm so excited! We are thankful for the maas squad family we have all built here and all the love they show your family and really do laugh with you and cry with you! True friends are hard to find and I feel very blessed at this group, brought together by a precious little girl and a father wanting to make the world aware of his amazing daughter and the blessings of having someone in your family with autism! Bottom line, I am thankful to Asa, Priscilla, Isaiah, and Abbie, a humble family who have taken a chance and put themselves out there to pave the way for their daughter and spread autism awareness and understanding and now we can jump in all over the country and create awareness! I'm so excited! Thank you for being you!

[@canoefor-one1102]

Happy Thanksgiving to the four of you. I loved the old video clip. Young Abbie was so sweet.

[@carriemoore819]

I love that you guys are so open and honest about everything ❤❤❤ you guys are amazing...Happy thanksgiving..

[@rosehaire4503]

Thank you so much for sharing. Happy Thanksgiving! I am so thankful for everything I have. Friends, family, and watching your videos. I have made you part of my family. I would love to meet all of you some day so if ever your in the Omaha Nebraska area look me up. Can't travel much these days because of my mom but would love to meet you. Once again thank you for who you are and showing the world how much your family has for each other.

[@sunflowermom51]

I'm not sure how I stumbled across your vlogs but I'm so glad I did. It had made me more aware of this condition. You are a wonderful family and I am cheering Abigail on in my heart every time I watch you. Isaiah is a great brother and you are wonderful parents. Also love watching PPP. I don't subscribe to to many people but I will subscribe to you.

[@ChristinaH333]

Thankful for you guys as well ❤