The Real Uber Man - My Life Story - Part 2

[@pammatteson4675]

I am Randy's mother-in-law to be and I am so impressed with this mans integrity. I am a lucky lady to have this man marrying my daughter. I will always be there for him and know that he will love and respect myself and my daughter. Honesty is a lost trait these days and I will always value his. I am looking forward to us being a family!! love you randy!!

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

I can't thank you enough for those encouraging words. I truly feel blessed to be part of your family. I couldn't be happier with Jessica.

[@thomasmadden1658]

I understsnd focus with work , & life , i been there , play in relstion , all can keep son help , focus !!!???

[@lancehigdon8683]

Yeah when I was 5 years old I was getting beat I was getting whoopings I was you know getting smacked in the face I was getting kicked I was doing everything I was getting everything when I was a little kid I got bad abuse when I was a little kid I know how it is man because you know I've been through the same thing stuff that you were going through and it's no fun he won't do that to me no more cuz he knows more better

[@lancehigdon8683]

And I am 35 years old now and he's scared of me every time he sees me he runs off cuz he knows what's going to happen to him every time he comes around me

[@TroyFujimoto808]

Your Part 1 and Part 2 video was painful because it was so raw, real, and echo the experiences of far too many families in this country. Your story is real and helps us all know that we are not alone.

[@jennadonlan2307]

Thank you, Randy. Truer statements couldn't have been made. A few years ago I learned to walk away from toxic people in my life and how to identify them before they get "inside." Never been happier in my LIFE. I make enough money to get by, I don't need fancy things, that's all material. Just being happy and not having their mind games and drama in my life has been so relieving and freeing. Good luck at court, man! Sending good vibes your way

[@Twags62066]

Good luck next week. Yes this is helpful. I was not physically abused but watched my parents try to kill each other. Night before graduating high school was one of the worst. Alcoholic parents who went to bars while I stayed home each night struggling with homework. Never learned how to take care of money or myself. Still learning. My income can’t cover the bills so I went back to school. But I need a better job. Still trying and not giving up. That’s what it’s all about.

[@danielmckenzie6858]

Randy I saw this 2 years ago, and I come back to see it again to remind me, we are lucky things didnt go worse in our lives. Toxic relationships are bad.

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

Amen to that brother!

[@sandrabay7097]

I feel for what you’ve been through. You’ve got a good attitude about it all. I respect your positivity and hope all goes well at your hearing. Thanks for sharing your journey with us.

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

Thank you.

[@walterfoster1167]

Hey this video reminded me of where I was at around the late 90s. I grew up in an emotionally and mentally abusive family. I went to counseling and was able to overcome some things but I still have anger issues every once and a while. Thank you uberman for all of your videos. I’ve been watching you for over a year. I live in philly but I’ve learned a lot from you about uber and most of it applies to our market up here. I would like to see more on this series in the future.

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

Thank you Walter! I appreciate you taking the time to watch and to comment. Ones beginnings in life don't dictate where they will end. I truly believe that.

[@spacefacegaming]

I never have a abusive relationship with my dad but I know my mom would never do anything like that but seriously this actually a good story to hear

[@DanT2406]

You have alot of balls talking about this stuff Randy, alot of ppl wouldn't be able to talk about it and explain it well, you've helped me think about certain things maybe doing stuff different, and you've probably helped afew kids that dunno what to do so respect from me brother.

[@iliaslamari7315]

Randy, I'm subscribed to you since you started to become ''Auto Auction Rebuild'' because I'm a car guy too. Scrolled down trough all your video's and told me to watch these part 1 & 2 of this series, because you seemed like an interesting person and always told in your video's that you went to a hard time. *I just want to tell you that I have a strong personality and that sharing your story is a great way to express yourself and helps others that are going through some hard times.* Back in my young child days, my dad had anger management problems too. He just could freak out and told us to go to him. I didn't want to but he then starts screaming so I did and he hit me then. Also, the relationship between my dad and mom was wonky. I remembered that I and my little brother sometimes stayed with my dad and my older sister with my mother. We didn't talk to each other for a half-year sometimes but lived in the same house. It was horrible and as a teen, I tried to act tough (because my dad teaches me that men don't cry). I did get great grades, but also got I trouble, became the school clown, stole stuff sneaky. But a grew up, my family is doing great now and I'm studying hard to become a Product Designer. I admired your work audited and positive vibe even if life kicks you in the know where. Keep doing what you're doing man. This channel needs to keep growing as a middle finger to all the people who like to talk down on us raised poor!

[@geoffgrech6725]

Thanks again Randy you are very inspiring even though I have healed from my past pains you are inspiring me to do more for myself so I also may go on to help others like you are. May all those watching grow past old and new pains then pass on to those still suffering our message of of hope . Little Aussie Follower

[@CaliKrazyTV]

Great! This is cool bc there's no social programs for men. When a man experience something he's told to suck it up. When he's doing child support or loses everything has no where to go. No outlets for expression except total darkness and lonely stewing thoughts. There are even drivers out there livingout there car, just dont give up push forward Awesome video Will donate soon

[@joshuawilliams181]

I have to say, i watched your video because i thought what the hell why not, and i realized watching them, our lives are pretty damn similier on growing up. Im proud to say ive learned and grown and matured and had my own success. I hope you continue this series, it helped. Just a message from a guy in indiana who went through alot. Much love brother...

[@seanthefam2024]

As I'm sure that you found out in your therapy sessions, when parents treat children like those it's not your fault and we often blame ourselves I have been through this sort of thing myself I went through a bout of depression I was raised by parents who beat all six kids when they thought anything was wrong and it happened on a regular basis for a very long time. So the bottom line is a lot of people blame themselves for the horrible way that their parents treat them and the truth of the matter is adults should never treat their children that way makes them feel like they're worthless but they wish they never been born like my parents stood and it took awhile but I finally got to the point that I understood the what my parents did was wrong and I'm a better person for knowing that it wasn't my fault what happened to me when I was a child. Thank you so much for sharing this with us it's always nice to know somebody else has been through the same thing and they become a better person for it

[@cayugafutures]

Keep the drive alive buddy. Your "part 1" video got my subscription.

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

Thank you!

[@CODplayer705]

very interesting..keep the vids coming! honestly these vids can go a long way. any kid who watches them is going to seriously think about how good they might have it now and shape up if need be.

[@1coldboy]

thoroughly enjoying this series..reminds me of stories i’d hear from my first neighbor/classmate’s dad from the south. he was so wise and unlike everyone else around our town it kind of hurt to move away in retrospect

[@marybrooksbatiz]

Your generosity of sharing your personal history is courageous and life saving. Thank you so very much. I'm so glad you.ve made it through. Just what I needed to hear at a very low point in my own life.

[@La1Neese]

I haven’t seen the first part of this series, though I’ve been a subscriber for some time. I respect your courage. (I’ve always respected your moxie) What moved me to tears was your tragically profound statement that your family has burned and thrown you under the bus more than anyone else has even come close to doing....and that they continue to do so...if given the chance. This is my world-a world I’d not wish for anyone-not even them. Stay strong, hold your head high. You’re rocking it.

[@demarkusthompson2867]

You are one hundred percent right. Thats whats wrong with my family. Ever since my grandmother passed away in march of this year my family has been arguing and i feel like some of my friends the way that they treat me are kind of like brothers or sisters to me. its so hard to get my family together and now my family is split in two. Everybody has their own little clicks. I wish i had somebody like you with great advice in my family. By watching this video i learned a lot and i need to remove myself from toxic relationships and move on.

[@samanthamccoy6201]

Baby mama and sister is a whole mess... I wrote a long post on part one... Keep pressing and thank you for being sooo transparent hopefully u helped some other men out here to talk and share and get healed from toxic relationships... #realmenmatter

[@Shezan1]

You are not a Uberman , You are a Real men.

[@kimcourtney6014]

We all have war stories ,just gotta keep going.This has been one of my worst years of my life.Keep praying this year ends without any more drama.There are no normal families,it's not just you. From expirence,friends are not always what they seem to be.So,I just walk away and keep my distance from everyone,which is not the solution.For me,it's all I can do.

[@anthony6972]

Randy! Holy shit man. Been following you for about 6 months now so I didn’t see your old videos. Part 1 of this story popped up on my feed so I watched. I give you so much respect for sharing your past you’ve had a rough one man!. Definitely have a new level of appreciation for your content. Happy your doing well these days brother!

[@wonfeather]

Part one got me subscribing. So sick of fake youtubers, thanks for sharing. I have to see a lawyer today to talk about some serious allegations made against me and your story gives me strength.

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

I wish you all the best. It's never good when a lawyer is involved. I just went through all of that myself.

[@TTT-cm5ik]

"Your friends know who you are" this is the quote I was told by my solicitor. Unfortunately I've had to stand by and watch my children being destroyed from a very young age, in the last four years both my children have lived with me, my youngest son I picked up from the police station, he never went back to his original house, or the police house! 1 year later my eldest son, ADHD, ODD, AUTISM, and possibly starved of some oxygen at birth, now lives with me and his learning/ understanding of of life has truly truly improved to the extent he can read fluently, Having spent 16 years involved, fighting with social services and the experts, ultimately my new partner advised me to stop any communication, which I did and my life has improved and cloud has been lifted. As a child I used to take regular beatings, still have my twisted finger to remind me, scar in my eye brow, I have never beleived in beating my children, ever!, unfortunately older generations believed in beating you into submission, it never worked with me. On a lighter note Im still mad about cars, have a triumph stag just out of paint shop, and Audi A8 coming out of shop from front end repair, have a few other cars as well, don't we love our cars, especially the old timers, run forever with care, my 62 1,500cc Wolseley still keeps up with local traffic. No one can change the past, but we an change the future, stay strong, it will eventually get a lot better, Ps love the channel

[@capeRCouple]

wow man,we have so much in common,i never would have thought you had such a rough life...i had pretty close to the same childhood as you and feel for ya.i turned into a drug addict since my teen years and just last august when i started my own youtube channel is when i had enough of that life,ive been clean ever since and will never go back.i am currently now building my subscriber base and put all kinds of time into my channel,i can surely relate to some of the things you went thru as i had some of the same,especially the molesting,i always hated the person that done it to me until the day he died.what helped me to get clear of the drug life was just like you said and get the people out of my life all together.keep up the great work on your channel..take care and stay strong.

[@degeneratewinners]

Keep being you bro. Great way to build this community that's becoming a family.

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

Thanks TK! That means a lot.

[@chumpchangeoutdoors1919]

I've been watching your videos for about a year so now. And I figured it was best I go back and watch some of your older videos. This particular video of your life story I can relate to. You were talking about your counselor crying. I suffered a spinal cord injury and is part of the procedure to get disability I had to have a psychiatric evaluation. When I started talkin to the psychiatrist and started talking about some of the things from my childhood. She cried and ran out of the room and someone else had to take over. I have been disabled for a while now. I was a GM mechanic and a dealership before I was disabled. I lost everything and I even lost hope. It is next to Impossible to get somebody to want to hire a broken down mechanic. I hope you realize me watching your videos has helped me get my head out of my ass and try to do something with myself. I love cars I have an addiction with cars like yourself all I've ever done since a young age was work on cars and nothing else ever mattered. It's just something I haven't been able to overcome. I just want to say thanks for sharing your story and keep making videos. You never know who you might inspire. Thanks Randy

[@ronniebuchanan6575]

Dude I found you on Auto auction rebuilds. I have to say I had no idea how good my life was growing up. I went through some rough things with my parents but it was very different. I got a great deal more respect for you. Its now been 3 years since this video was made.

[@richarddelp4180]

I’m an ex- cab driver/owner. I hated you for helping Uber take my customers and kill my business. I changed my mind after watching your video about your life and childhood. It breaks my heart to hear about children being treated badly. That’s an understatement in your case. I’m glad you survived your parents, they were monsters compared to mine. I’m fortunate to have had a pretty normal childhood myself. I can’t imagine living like that. God bless you!

[@J-xl3vc]

You are one hell of a good man from what I can see on KZbin I'm very inspired by you you are the reason why I'm a good person with the hell I went through as well sir

[@Prismadeluz18]

Thank you for sharing. I wish you to have more peace with your family and relatives and good luck in getting your children back.

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

Thank you.

[@Jeff-S]

I watched your video. You are a brave man. You deserve the life you are building now.

[@ronaldgathright1650]

I was a uber driver for just 3 months but met a lot of interesting people! Meeting you and your videos have been my best uber experience!

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

Thank you so much. I appreciate that!

[@AllanPowell]

"Sometimes in our lives we all have pain We all have sorrow But if we are wise We know that there's always tomorrow"

[@angelvigil5999]

Keep sharing Randy. This is the path to healing. I keep saying we are all so connected even tho we feel we are so alone. We are more connected than people think.

[@penwize]

Man I relate to losing a child, in my case children, to their abusive father. I am rooting for you! You definitely need have custody of your son. You are so pro-active in your own life and for him. What you shared about him, most parents in that situation, would be in denial but you took the bull by the horns. You are strong as hell and you have so much on your side I feeling hopeful about the outcome of court for you. I will be sending you positive vibes and prayers, if that is ok with you. Your mother did abuse you too, through neglect. My family of origin was very abusive as well. I understand the feelings surrounding an abusive family of origin. People like us have to go out and create our own "families". I do have two fabulous boys who are now young men just starting out. You are right, we have to move forward find people who lift us up and not drag us down, You ROCK.

[@DuncanR2007]

Thank you for your honesty, here is hoping one day I can have the same honesty with myself and my situation.

[@nickelder8338]

Hey man I am surrounded by fake people all over some of it is just highschool but I was introduced to you buy the Copart walk around a and dug into your videos and found these and I can tell that you are a real one and you earned this thumbs up

[@penwize]

Part 1 was so powerful, I could not respond. I feel for you.

[@cherieknighton4149]

I am going thru serious shit too. Thank you for opening up to the world! Coping with difficult situations is the hardest "grow up" there is! I have similar situations that you described.

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

I'm sorry to hear that. I wish pain on no one. I hope you can keep pushing through it until you break free.

[@ccross1210]

Wow Randy, this series is helping me in more ways than one. You said alot in this video that brought me to tears. Where do I begin? There's so much to speak on

[@albertajenkins7950]

You never know how strong you are until you go through it and come out of it! I have been to hell and back at least 3 or 4 times, layoffs, staying paycheck to paycheck for 10 years...im just now getting my career started at 33 almost 34. If I can get myself together anyone can! Thanks for sharing your story! I've been there! Stay blessed! #Godsaidweareallinthistogether!

[@roberte5617]

I appreciate you sharing semiprivate details about your life. This is something I won't do, but I respect your humility and sternness all in one. I too have told some people to stay away from me.

[@scliradalandsman8201]

Two Incredible stories Randy. Unbelievable.

[@yrich5737]

Yes, surround yourself with the best people you can find. Just having positive interactions will bring you a long way.

[@johnguerard1355]

A lot of what you have said hits home for me as well. Thank you for welcoming us into your life.

[@eugenemccoyjr.6880]

I have to respect a man that keeps it real is you sir. And you're absolutely right families are not what they are supposed to be and my experiences work the best either but you really keep giving me a different perspective and you are absolutely right. We have to heal we have to cut those relationships and cut ourselves off from those people so they don't ruin our future. God sent me an angel last year and I married her and I'm really careful about not letting the past affect our relationship because I tell you my folks did not like her for whatever reason but I've forgiven them. I'm only having limited contact with my mom. My brother and sister can basically kick rocks barefooted but I really appreciate the first and this video is really inspiring me to keep on keeping on. Thanks a lot good sir

[@shelleys1872]

Thank you for sharing. I needed to hear this. Especially the part about toxic family relationships. Best of luck at court next week

[@UberManTampa]

I had to raise $3,672 in a tad over 30 days. 14 hours a day for 7 days a week for 47 days straight. Uber and Amazon saved my ass. It is okay to cry, the fact of everything tumbling down cause of one piece of shit will make anyone break down. Abuse comes in many forms. You have the power to come out strong and you are doing just that by talking about it. I've been an alcoholic for over 20 years. I have quit once for 32 days, the next was 57 days. Not having insurance, facing death you have to grab life by the balls and take care of it. You can win, if you find your inner "karate kid". Life is a parallel roller coaster to others you know. I could go on. You are an example of human strength.

[@ShinkuGouki]

I have so many friends that still believe in the "blood is thicker than water" bullshit. I have a really close friend who has finally realized what a lie that is. He told me that every time he is in need,it's me and not his family that is willing to help him. Same with my family,man. I got rid of all of them.

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

Amen!

[@jeffgrey4374]

Yes u r very right in saying get out of toxic situations. I finally did about four years ago and can say my life is better now than before

[@theelementsqueen9878]

This video should have been your closing speech for the year. Perfect!

[@cutzsharp8441]

Thanks for sharing! You are a Survivor! I believe there was an angel watching out for you. That's how you made it through all the things you been through. I will be praying for you!

[@Jimpenny]

I was there, thanks for sharing your story. Felt like you were telling my life story. Thank you sooooo much

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

James Penny happy to share man.

[@chrisduplessis1930]

Randy I have so much more respect for you now. I watched a video where you took off a crash bar an Nick helped you that was a nice video.

[@ThatMans-anAnimal]

I was really moved by part 1. I don't know what to say about it except that it shows how much you've grown just to be able to talk about it. A minor point that I feel disagreement with in part 2: You're right that families can be toxic and aren't always worth staying in, but saying someone unrelated to you, with no degree of interdependence, can become your family, I think is incorrect. A family is a group of people who are interdependent. That is what keeps people together, not friendship or blood relation. I don't want to shoot down your uplifting message, I just don't want people to get hurt thinking their friends are their family. They are just your friends, and then they won't be when circumstances change. You've come a long way from being betrayed by your own family to trusting total strangers with your vehicles, picking up total strangers, etc., but that stuff is quite dangerous and I advise against it for people who have more to offer the world like you clearly do. Keep making videos and leave that sort of stuff for people who are desperate and have less to lose.

[@hernanc.645]

bro..everything you have you have earned..congrats!..theirs alto people out there who want it all with out the work put in.

[@hogfish3881]

Thanks for sharing your story. You got hell of mind set. A lot of successful people came from abusive families. I guess that's what really creates personality and not something you are made in to.

[@danielmckenzie6858]

it seems that many of the women I dated in my life only want something, trying to steal my medication and use me, I try to be a great guy and it only gets me more used, so i try not to go there, i feel you Randy, I weeped thru these touching videos listening to your story which is not much different than my story, i only wish I could meet you my friend

[@markcooper643]

Me and my son loves watching you. My son is 13 and know he want to work and sales car. Keep strong and keep going.

[@manuelabregomartinez4196]

My toxic relationship right now is with Uber lol

[@milam4193]

Manuel Abrego Martinez , that's why Randy says - walk away from ANY TOXIC relationship !!!

[@mrwindowcleaner1000]

Hay mate I've been through a lot of the same apart from my mum and dad stayed together it was horrible .I'm a born again Christian and I rely on the lord for a lot you should be proud of yourself God bless you xx

[@SavageScientist]

Man im sorry to hear about all this shit, we all have our storms, I shared my experiences on my channel also.

[@mryoung762]

I've always had respect for you ever since I saw your first video about cars because I love what you do but now I have a new found more respect as a real man with pride and dignity and it's ok to cry fuck what people say I'm from Brooklyn ny when you ain't supposed to cry but real men cry and I have before keep doing a good job and fix them cars

[@penwize]

Hmm, my sons just got their licenses. It is time for me to share these videos with them. I think you will be able to fill in the gaps that will make them successful in any job they choose to do. Their dad was not successful this way because his temper and problems with authority prevented him from keeping a job. Their dad was went through anger management twice. The second time was court mandated through our divorce and custody battle. Upon completion (he was required to report to work search) he of the court mandated one he went to his appointment where had and prove he was looking for work. This was at the courthouse. He go so angry at the woman he had to report to that FOUR court officers had to rush in and pull him out of there. Sigh, that asshole got custody, and yes, my boys now have some anger issues. I want them both to watch and learn from you.

[@jonathanbowles2577]

Good afternoon Randy. Thank you for sharing this eye opening information about you. You are a very Brave and Honest young man, who has Fought very Hard with what you went through. I had the same Problems with my Family. I was made the Black Sheep of the Family. They thought i was Controlling and Taking over our Mother who i had a very Close Relationship with. My whole Family turned against me, I had no one to turn to, or Speak to for Help, Support, Comfort. I talked to my very Close, Longlife time Friends who Helped me get through the Crap and Heartache i Suffered. I even seriously Considered ending my Life. I have also lost my Mother and my Eldest Brother, my second Brother, i have not heard from him as far back as my Eldest Brothers Funneral, that was in 2019. I am on my Own now, trying to remain Strong, Positive, Kind, Thoughtful and always be Honest with people. I will always Help people, whenever i can. Your video's of You Randy being so Happy and Positive as a Successful Business man, having a Fountain of Knowledge about different vehicles, knowing if a vehicle is worth putting a bid on. Is it worth taking a Chance with a certain type of Vehicle? You have got that Gift Randy. You are a True Inspirational, Positive, Truthfull, Determined,Strong Independent Handsome young man in the World today. Well Done Randy.

[@subzero___]

I like all kind of videos that you upload.

[@bobbiclinger7500]

Truth. Well said. Got to forgive, learn healthy ways of being, and move forward. I forgave my parents. I had to...for my own sanity.

[@garretrocha8]

I know you probably won't see this comment. I have since been a long time subscriber and had recently come back and watch your previous videos and re watched these videos. I have to say, you are a strong man Randy. I hope everything worked out and you are living happy now, as that's what it seems from your recent videos. I know you stated this in your previous video, towing the Passat to Weird Beard with the F150. What happened to Tim? Your brother. You said you didn't want to talk about and wanted to keep everything private from KZbin which is completely understandable. But watching this video makes me wonder what happened. If you needed to talk about it, this comment section would be the best place.

[@robertdiehl9003]

Greatest self help conversation,/ information I ever heard at age 48

[@UberManTampa]

I'll say one more thing, I don't mean to spam your comments, I just hear more of what you're saying and want to agree. Please listen to "I Look To You" by Whitney Houston. Even if you don't like her, you will hear the cry for help in her voice, her being alone and fighting addiction and influence and needing help.

[@mc996cars1]

I agree with you about toxic relationships, I haven't talked to my sister in 18 years and What a relief not talking to her.

[@mauberdriver738]

mc996cars My family hasn't seen or talked to our brothers in 25 years. A*holes.

[@SilverA90]

Respect.

[@danielmckenzie6858]

My family which I love dearly, I was there sore excuse and made me feel that way Randy, I left Michigan 1998, with no money living in an ambandon house my friend owned and he ask if I could home improvement, I said maybe, he said ok here the keys to the house, I a year after living there got my life back on track and bought my house I had for 16 years, I felt I was born again when I starting to live my life.

[@joedorcas]

In my personal opinion, IF people cannot accept you for who you are, FUCK THEM. YOU do not need them in your life. I never knew my real dad. My mom was date raped in 1972. IF it wasn't for my grandma, I would not have been born. I lost my mom in 1992 due to a heart attack. My grandma passed away 8 days after my 17th birthday in 1990 and my 1 step dad in 2007 and the one who was an abusive BUT loving step dad in 2011. My first wife was so abusive to me in 1995, that I am STILL trying to get my personal self back to be able to cook, clean and all of that fun stuff. My SECOND wife is a kind caring and loving woman that I have been married to for over 19 years. My second wife has helped me HEAL as a human and has helped me get some of the trauma from the first wife removed. And this was typed before you started mentioning about TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS.

[@lisadennisorourke797]

Randy hard to move forward I can relate to Men don’t Cry Crap, I’ve 280 pound guys cry like a who’ve I’ve known a longtime, there is strength from showing Emotions

[@zenobiooibonez5097]

I'm loving these yo. You should do more vloging/ sit down talks. It is GREAT therapy and a way for another good income. Im sure the cons are very tuff though like being too popular and being mobbed haha. Jk. Hey Randy have no worries much of us have been through it. Just imagine another person in your shoes but far worse let alone in a 3rd world country... it happens to many, I believe if we realize this then we can make life more meaningful and purposeful other than partaking in the pleasures of our bodies in this physical world. like helping other people however we can make things more intended rather than accident and furthermore without flaw, deceit, lies, hate or anything that separates us as humans, help all even through a simple You tube comment or video we can contribute! Sorry if this sounds too real. I'm meant to share this truth. Uber on!

[@beckyb8599]

Thank you for sharing . From Rhode Island

[@ColonelMarkH-P71]

God Bless you brother 🙏 .

[@J-xl3vc]

My dad was abusive to me and my half sister and always was cheating on my mom so I understand a little bit of what you went through I was born in the 80's as well 1980 to be exact

[@marykleinklein8958]

💗💗💗💗youve got my ear! In your last vid your also kinda funny and i know you dint mean to be!😅😇 And yep i need anger management classes, yikes

[@Justicefire1006]

I was mentally abused by my mother I know how it feel when I was 17 years old I start drinking and doing a lot of drugs and didn’t care if I died finally I moved on and grew up and married my beautiful wife and have 2 beautiful kids .and my wife saved my life I been Sober for years now . I need to do was cut my mother off and any one that was Against me

[@cableTVcutters]

Randy I salute You ! your a great Person

[@JGarcia2016]

Wow what a video randy ...

[@SUZUKILTRLTRAFTERMARKETPARTSFB]

Randy, I'm curious to know if you've ever had the opportunity to speak with your dad as a grown man about what his relationship was like with his own father? Anger, violence and extreme vitriol in men don't come by accident or coincidence. There's usually a sordid and unspoken history there that no one has ever explored. The details of which may explain a lot about your father's horrific behavior throughout his lifetime. If you get a chance, you might ask your dad to let you interview him on camera about his upbringing and his relationships with his nparents starting at his earliest memories. It may potentially lead to a healing of your own relationship with him as well as closure, forgiveness, and some kind of redemption. You never know. But just remember that forgiveness is the ultimate goal here. As it's not for anyone's sake but your own. In the end, it's what's required by God so that He can forgive you. God bless and props brother.

[@UberManTampa]

I wouldn't say it's easy to grab a bottle. In the beginning it sure is. Once you progress through the stages, you feel like shit, yet you still grab that bottle. Addiction is a massive battle, one that takes the strength of 10 angels to over come. Whitney Houston, Mahilia Jackson, Judy Garland to name a few spent their entire life fighting this battle with a huge outside influence. If it wasn't MGM studios, it was Bobby Brown, the first step is to say no! Addiction will never end, it's a battle that will surely kill you if you don't grasp it. The human brain is a monster of a machine that can be fought, but you must be strong. My family is toxic too and it's tough to watch others who talk to there family regularly and you can't.

[@ronniebuchanan6575]

God blessed you from the prayers you prayed years ago.

[@danielmckenzie6858]

Randy I can relate, we are lucky we can be on the other side of the electric fence

[@cordovanbee713]

You have a huge KZbin family

[@marciahill6125]

i support you i know how you feel i lost all 5 of my children

[@Tinkerdink6769]

more hugs for you uber man !!!!!!!

[@YourPersonalDriver]

Cool story bro. LITERALLY. How lit was that meta sentence? Do I sound millennial right now? And I'm sorry about the family drama. Family drama is the worse.

[@marknovak562]

THE GREEN was algae my dad did somethin similar it incorporated self discipline made you know you could accomplish anything with the right environment my story when i was bad he told me to go get some willow branches for a "lesson" i came back with a thirty foot log i drug to the back of the house my logic was he couldnt swing it to hurt me.....as always share your story they get read!!!!!!! UBER ION DUDE!!!!!!!!!

[@TreeTvRadio]

Do you have an email address people can contact you at?

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

For sure! [e-mail]

[@TreeTvRadio]

Uber Man ty bro

[@Joepats]

Hey man thanks for sharing. I have gone through similar abuse, mainly verbal. Alcoholic father.etc by the way how is Lyft going . Lyft in Boston Ma is here but I do not favor it, over Uber.

[@jastrent2866]

I can't believe baby mama took Darryl! I thought she was long gone! Absurd!

[@AutoAuctionRebuilds]

She was. Then she came back and moved in with my sister. My sister has him now.

[@kevina5519]

Uber Man Why is your sister getting involved?

[@jastrent2866]

kevin Anderson probably because baby mama is using his sister to try to wreck his life. Making up things etc....jealous of the new fiance.

[@garym7937]

I get what you say. I have blood relatives and then close friends that are family.

[@JerrysEdits]

Is there a part 3? Also I'm sorry, I don't even know what to say honestly.