Avoid these things as a teenager ( 10- 17 yrs old) 🌷|

[@kawaii80yo]

When you don't rush to grow up, people say your childish and annoying, but when you do, people make fun of you and say you have a stolen childhood.

[@OfficeDuck-]

Ok? If there is no winning, then find something your happy with anyway

[@kawaii80yo]

@@OfficeDuck- I never talked about winning, I was just noticing an example of a dilemma called the "double bind" situation. In this case, whether you rush to grow up or not, some people criticize you either way sadly :(

[@OseaSeastar]

Yeah... People are always picking on people for being young calling them "kid" as an insult or saying things like "your probably 12" to make people feel bad about they're age, and being young and innocent. When in reality they're the ones who wasted they're child and teenage hood by trying to grow up fast and expect others to do the same.

[@Iefan-oc]

Who cares what other people say just ignore them and do what makes you happy

[@CandiCow9]

Exactly!!

[@Strawberrylemon135]

I read “how to avoid being a teenager”😭

[@Daybreaker1211]

Wish that was a thing lmao

[@-P4nda_H3re-]

@@Daybreaker1211same like I am not ready to have responsibilities tf 😭

[@bellhel227]

LOL

[@Wakapat_YT]

Half of them literally are just that

[@kirarazzu_nekomataa]

LMFAOOAOAOA

[@epicgrill262]

I thought that when you turn 13 you are a teenager because 13 is the first number to end with "teen"

[@Violet11W]

Exactly, that's what I thought.

[@Z06Z06]

yeah but ig this is also helpfull for preteens also yes 13 is the first yr of teenagers im pretty sure

[@user3849]

You become a teenager when ur 13. But looking at the kind of kids these days.. they strongly need this advice. They want to look like an adult 😂

[@CanIEatYourMochi]

Yeah, you start being a teenager when your 13 10-12 is tween or preteen

[@DuckyxLifeXD]

You are completely correct. You stop being a teenager when ur 18 and start when ur 13. 10-12 year olds are tweens.

[@0-.mars.bar.-0]

“Don’t watch adult content” The hazbin hotel 9 year olds: 🫣

[@chloellama9926]

Real

[@RachelValentine5411]

fr 😭

[@blwadez]

no bc my 8 year old cousin already watches helluva boss wtf 😰

[@ChocoBerry_12]

Almost all of my friends watch Hazbin Hotel including me.. *we’re 11-13*

[@0-.mars.bar.-0]

@@ChocoBerry_12 i mean- at least u aren’t 9-

[@FrostyFlakeesalt]

"Get at least 7-8 hours of sleep each night" Me who went to bed at 5 am this morning:

[@ItsySh4mpoob0tt1e]

😶😶😂😂,

[@so...sleepyz]

It’s 2:13 am rn 😭😭

[@-SashaGacha-]

I went to bed at 6am-

[@icee184]

4 am for me

[@so...sleepyz]

@@-SashaGacha- same..

[@DuckyxLifeXD]

1:39 My parents: ur lazy and worthless. My friends: aw, don’t listen to what ur parents say! Ur beautiful! Me: crap, I guess I’m lazy and worthless, and I’m not beautiful.

[@Ilovegenshin77]

They meant more on advice like parents warn you to not do an all nighter on games but your friends tell you to, like not studying but you friends tell you to skip and play with them

[@Aurorya]

It's about life choices and experience, you friends surely are very nice but they're the same age as you, so their experience in important life things is about the same as you therefore It's sometimes not an useful other point of view

[@DuckyxLifeXD]

@@Ilovegenshin77 my friends don’t tell me to skip and play with them. They are supportive and are trying to get an education themselves. They would never encourage me to do anything I wouldn’t want to, or anything bad for that matter, and they are against that stuff. My parents don’t give a single crap what I do, it’s not enough either way.

[@dawnflower1]

@@DuckyxLifeXD I agreee with you, my parents are verbally abusive + homophobic and my friends are all I have... plus people your age will have a better idea of what you're going through, unlike adults, who have a "different experience" rather than "more experience".

[@dawnflower1]

​@@Aurorya when people are the same age as you and play a similar role in society as you at the same time as you, your friends are certainly going to know more about what you're going through whereas your parents may not have experienced it before and won't know how to handle it.

[@31r14n_dotzip]

2:22 Funny thing is, you can't just tell someone to stop procrastinating, because it's extremely hard to.

[@OfficeDuck-]

They will, in fact, procrastinate

[@squiddicakes]

me with adhd: "bro i'm screwed " 💀

[@berry__LH]

EXACTLY WAHHHH

[@31r14n_dotzip]

@@squiddicakes YOOOOOO SPLATOON PFP?!?!?!?💯💯‼️‼️‼️🚨🚨🚨

[@squiddicakes]

@@31r14n_dotzip YES BRO ‼️‼️🔥🔥

[@Not-on_MercuryPaws]

1:13 don't change yourself so others will like you. But you can change yourself so YOU like YOURSELF. (Coming from a self-loving person)

[@bitterbanana3638]

🗣🗣PREACH!!!!🔥🔥🔥

[@Not-on_MercuryPaws]

@@bitterbanana3638 yummy, bitter bananas 😍

[@Sadaf-nd7cv]

I love this reply section even though there’s only 2 replies

[@Not-on_MercuryPaws]

@@Sadaf-nd7cv glad you could be part of the Comment Club, Baba! 🤪😚

[@bitterbanana3638]

@@Not-on_MercuryPaws my fave😍🤤

[@koala_corner12]

The advice is great, but it’s a lot harder to actually love yourself, to actually embrace your flaws, to stop procrastinating, etc than just saying it.

[@KaiTheTyrant]

Better advice would be to only change for yourself, nobody else.

[@Shina0721]

Listening to our parents can be bad. My father kept putting me down, telling me that I was a good-for-nothing, capricious, selfish person. He yelled at me for everything and nothing. And with the time, I have believed it. So I started to hate myself and hurt me.

[@xMilkpudding]

I'm really sorry that happened to you, in that case pls don't listen to these negative things he says 😭😭

[@Shina0721]

@@xMilkpudding It's been a couple years, I don't see him for a while. I started to heal with the time and work. It's difficult but I will succeed one day.

[@xMilkpudding]

@@Shina0721 Thats great! I hope you get better soon :)

[@sylveonstarjourney]

Yeah. You have the right to not listen to your parents if they are saying bad things about you. Don't let it get in your head.

[@kichipause5176]

Im so sorry 🫂

[@NotEilahthan]

"Don't rush to grow up" Oh how I wish I could have told 6 year old me

[@Zuri_Riot]

i already did all of this… oppositely (Just leave the smoking, Vaping and drinking)

[@_borntoshine]

I also did everything🙂💔

[@blackcatwhitecat4350]

Me too besides that i’m already a teen… But don’t worry, you still have your teen years to be a better person :.)

[@Zuri_Riot]

@@blackcatwhitecat4350 thank you..

[@Eu_Ni_Ce_1009]

I’m 12 yet I don't do all those except for hating myself, I'm afraid of making mistakes, and comparing myself to others😢. But I'm trying to solve those problems

[@Zuri_Riot]

@@Eu_Ni_Ce_1009 Not Same.. I literally do everyth8ng, I’ve changed like 80%

[@LiaFpevideocreator]

0:42 A lot of my classmates do this 😢

[@wafflecatss]

samee and im kinda a target

[@Th3r1an_Ell4]

Same

[@KrewANG3L]

@@wafflecatsswhy don’t u tell ur teachers?

[@JustanAddictedGamer]

@@KrewANG3Lcurrently for me it’s summer vacation, but last school year I had some bullies and me and my mom told the school multiple times about these bullies, they did nothing, so maybe they did tell someone and they did nothing.

[@Heidiwakkas2428]

Bruh sameee it’s annoying

[@editinq09]

2:00 grades don't REALLY matter until highschool!! you don't need to have all A's. you just need to understand the material. Put yourself and your needs before your grades.

[@Margherita-tf8zn]

Agreed

[@Iridescent.Periwinkle]

In my country, its actually HIGHSCHOOL grades that aren’t really important tbh

[@antigonarosaura7845]

Grades are always important.

[@randompeanut1156]

​@@antigonarosaura7845 They meant that it won't REALLY REALLY REALLY matter until you're in Highschool. Several of my classmates who did nothing in Middle school went on to graduate with me.

[@viva190_]

yeah well school doesnt give you a chance to focus on mental health so all that matters is grades woo hoo

[@crocs_n_socs]

“Don’t grow up to fast” *calls a 10 year old a teenager*

[@rogi-ogism]

Yeah, and I saw a 10 year old in the comments who thought she was a teen ☠☠☠☠

[@Wony_girlie]

I need to be being a “big kid” is cringe

[@crocs_n_socs]

@@Wony_girlie huh??

[@Wony_girlie]

@@crocs_n_socs I’m saying I don’t wanna be “big kid” because for me I cosdiner that cringe and instead I wanna be considered a teen I get I might be growing up to fast but I do wonyoungism and it makes me mature

[@crocs_n_socs]

@@Wony_girlie ohh ok

[@DuckyxLifeXD]

“No adult content” My character ai chats rn: 😨

[@SillyLittleAng3l]

NO LITERALLY SO REAL

[@Starpanda5941]

FR ME TOO!

[@aimeelovescatsss]

REALL

[@Ashley2024_kit]

BRUH, WHY IS THIS SO TRUE?!

[@Starpanda5941]

@@Ashley2024_kit idk- but it is-

[@A13XLaircey]

I am 32. And I strongly disagree with the one about grades before friends. I am Autistic, made straight A's in high school. No college, my parents are poor, plus my dad dropped out of 8th grade and became a very happy, satisfied material handler, while my mom graduated community college on a Pell Grant just to end up working for Goodwill Thrift. I am currently socially isolated, unable to drive, unemployable, and I spent school on grades instead of friends. The only constants in my life are my mom and dad, until they die, then I will be screwed. (I'm an only child.) Please, PLEEASSSSEEEE!! Take time to make friends, go play. Mild mischief is much better than social isolation that ruins you well into your 30s!! (And this is ESPECIALLY true if you have a disability, or live isolated from other kids. And if you risk homelessness, or have a poor home situation; you can stay with a friend, they save your life. Straight A's will not give you a place to sleep if your house suddenly burns down or you get mugged and robbed.)

[@COOLSKELETON95x]

Man I feel bad for you, hell I might turn out like you but have a sister I have autism and I am 13 rn I wouldn't say my parents are insanely poor due to something I wish not to speak of but middle class we live in a apartment which we will be moving from to another one that's less strict, but anyways back to what I was saying the apartment is I think 360$ a month my payment thing splits that with my father's which I'm afraid that it's going be cut off once I reach your age (32) and I'll be homeless since I don't really have any social skills at all can't even talk to myself and I'm homeschooled so no friends and probably no college, and my sister certainly 16 or 17 I forgot is probably going stay with my mom and dad like me until she gets a boyfriend which I for one will never ever get a girlfriend too shy and dumb to do that.

[@A13XLaircey]

@@COOLSKELETON95x Best advice I can give you, look for agencies that help Autistic adults. Number one priority should probably be independent housing; from there, you get control over your schedule, and if you want to invite someone over you just can and nobody can pitch any fits or anything. For me, I live with a loud dad and a hoarding mom; moving out would do me wonders, I would finally have alone time, and I could read and study, and keep my living space clean without the fear or dread that my mom will find a way to fill that space with more of her clutter, and then act an angry fooI about the time I try reclaiming that area by moving her stuff where it belongs (especially if there are *no* safe areas left in the house), or just trying to discard it when she refuses to move it herself.

[@dawnflower1]

I don't agree with trusting people before your friends, when you are a teenager, often the only people you have are your friends. And while grades and your parents are important, it's not okay to push away people that are trying / want to support you because of school or parents - my grades are only good because of my friends, and I wouldn't be friends with them if I listened to my parents. Some people have bad parents, so I guess this advice doesn't apply to everyone.

[@suki-4607]

Exactly. Sometimes parents can’t be trusted. My mother saw me cutting myself (I suffer from dysthymia, but I don’t do it anymore) and she threatened to send me to a psychiatric hospital, but when I talked to my best friend about it he told me that I don’t need a psychiatric hospital, that I needed proper love and understanding

[@mortalkombat4484]

@@suki-4607I self harmed, told my counselor, mom thought I was acting a fool and put me on punishment

[@antigonarosaura7845]

These parents don't deserve custody.

[@mortalkombat4484]

@@antigonarosaura7845 they don’t deserve rights

[@Jaeyuo]

I’m neutral on that bit, for parents, it really depends, some parents are amazing, while others are god awful, while for the grades, those are definitely important cause studying helps lead to a successful future or just help you know more, but I do agree that friends are also great things to have in your life, they make you happy and help you go through hard times, they are also important as well

[@LoshandaTheteenageRex]

Things to avoid as a teenager: 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝘁𝗲𝗲𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗿

[@missmcraefan]

“Don’t watch adult content” Me: *cough *chokes

[@itz_nova19]

Me:**coughs to death**

[@Loomzyandbeads]

* coughs while dying and watching people in drama do 'it' *

[@YallLocalEditor]

*Coughs *Fpe Is 13+ And I'm Ten -

[@that_odd_coyote_fan]

@@YallLocalEditor OMG ANOTHER FPE FAN???? IM ALSO TEN TOO-

[@YallLocalEditor]

@@that_odd_coyote_fan Twin Where have U Been🤭🤭 Collab With Me Sometimes!

[@JunkstHat3605]

1:22 DAWG IM COOKED YALL😭😭😭

[@uzi_the_emo_grape]

FR

[@HazeDaEmo]

@@uzi_the_emo_grapestan?

[@uzi_the_emo_grape]

@@HazeDaEmo what?

[@XDIslanders078]

Me too ☠️☠️☠️

[@sillyratlydia]

2:24 you cant just stop procrastinating 😭

[@UrLocalJumpscare]

"Don't hold grudges" Me: 😨 "Stop procrastination" Me: 🫥

[@UndecidedASMR]

it's perfectly fine to hold grudges if they've hurt you personally.

[@akaKitty]

@@UndecidedASMR No, never hold grudges and forgive anyone who's hurt you. It's hurts you mentally and spiritually, and the Bible says to always forgive those who have hurt you, no matter what. And pray for your enemies.

[@UndecidedASMR]

@@akaKitty i have serious problems with organized religion

[@akaKitty]

@@UndecidedASMR No worries! Just always know Jesus is there for you, if you want to know more, don’t be afraid to ask!

[@UndecidedASMR]

@@akaKitty i think i'll be good. thank you for the offer! i don't mean to sound mean

[@azulathesunmoonsimp8939]

I’m sorry I know all these are genuinely helpful but the ones that say shit like “don’t hate yourself” and “don’t listen to what people say abt you”, just give the same vibe as “Oh you’re sad? Be happy!” Because it’s not THAT easy to get over stuff like self-hatred and harassment.

[@KaiTheTyrant]

My parents used to tell me to take any insults thrown my way as a compliment. Not in the “oh they only insult you because they feel lesser way” but as in “the b word isn’t so bad, dogs are beautiful creatures, man’s best friend, you know?” Usually people would get weirded out or just straight up leave you alone after a while.

[@Stay-loveskzsm]

2:25 “like mate stop procrastinating”

[@imthepineappleinchansburger]

STAYYY

[@_pr3tty_purple_]

Omgggggg a stayyyyy heyyyyy mate I was thinking the same thinghh

[@Justme-zn2qi]

HI SKZ FAN

[@imthepineappleinchansburger]

@@Justme-zn2qi HIII

[@Lesserafimslays]

I THIUGHT THAT TOO

[@ilikefrogs]

2:22 girl it's not as easy as "okay i'll jist stop procrastinating!!" 😕😕😕

[@TheRealAllyFromDisventureCamp]

Grades before friends? I don’t wanna be a perfectionist all the time I want friends too :(

[@rozinq1351]

Then it's better to listen to your conscience than a random video on the internet, of course putting effort into studying and trying your best is good but it's not the most important thing in the world. Having a social life and people who understand you around is equally as important as studying and purposefully isolating yourself from that because of amibitions can be very unhealthy

[@xiii.novq3]

listen to your parents, but what if they say hurtful things, endlessly compares you to others, and expects their child or teen to be perfect at certain things?

[@Elle.ur.bestie.]

ye ik sometimes it can hurt but when ur parents twll u that dont listen to them listen to only like the encouraging things theh say to u ect or likegood and mot rude things💗

[@bcmoore671]

"put grades above friends" WOWWWWW

[@Crystal.Artistt]

FR you only live once AND u dont need good grades to go to heaven

[@LannyLeArtist]

CRAZY

[@barbaratoes]

I’m sorry but i agree with the video. They don’t mean it in a mean way, they just mean instead of spending time with friends prioritize studying.

[@ultimateidiot2344]

​@@barbaratoeshaving a social life is more important than studying, you don't need good grades to pass and a lot of the time you will forget that stuff anyways, while connections and friendship is important for your mental health and also career

[@barbaratoes]

@@ultimateidiot2344 while you may be right, grades are still very, very important to students. gpa is what a lot of colleges look at when accepting students.

[@the_magic_celery]

With the adult content thing, while it may sometimes be harmful, if someone understands the risks and implications of such content and can consume it in a healthy manner, it's a much safer way to explore one's sexuality rather than getting into unhealthy relationships prematurely

[@impurity_028]

​@tobaboba-cc8hn its too late now 🧏

[@kiyokomiyazaki]

@tobaboba-cc8hn my friends would never talk to me again if i tried to talk about that stuff with them lol but i got what you meant

[@kiyokomiyazaki]

@tobaboba-cc8hn noo i meant i can't even talk about crushes with them, they'd think I'm nasty af 😭

[@so...sleepyz]

@@kiyokomiyazakiSame and they’d tell like the whole class 😭😭

[@kiyokomiyazaki]

@@so...sleepyz the struggle is real 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@HELLOKITTYRoblox-qw3sq]

If only life were this simple 😭

[@aleksandarkirjazi966]

For real though

[@Silly-LittlePenguin]

real

[@cheyennec5546]

*Me, a 30 y/o woman stumbling upon this because of KZbin’s random algorithm* “Yes, interesting”

[@DoritotheAxolotl]

0:12 Great advice unless you’ve grown up with people who get gradually more toxic and you can’t find a way to stop being their friend even though they’re rude to you ❤️

[@rozinq1351]

the advice from the video is very simplistic, it's hard to actually apply it to reality since real life scenarios can be very complex and complicated which makes them much harder to navigate than a random hypothesis.

[@DoritotheAxolotl]

@@rozinq1351 yeah true. I was mostly just joking though

[@rozinq1351]

@@DoritotheAxolotl I mean yeah I get that and that's fine but the scenario you listed is a legitimate thing that happens to people and even happened to me to an extent which is why advice that's very ''naive'' for lack of a better word yet so confident in it's message makes me roll my eyes hard to this day, I remember being that 13 year old stuck in an uncomfortable situation with people who clearly didn't care about me anymore and sometimes even went out of their way to make me feel bad yet not being able to distance myself because they were quite literally the only friends I had and I can say from experience that being told to ''just leave lol'' doesn't actually help you out in any meaningful way, and if it's recited blankly like a protocol by everyone who tries to talk to you about your issues it just gets annoying (I hope this doesn't come across as me trying to trauma dump in a random comment section, I just wanted to give an anecdotal example for why I don't think this video is particularly helpful if you struggle with any of the things it mentions, but judging by the amount of likes my opinion's clearly not the only one out there and that's fine, if it genuinely helps someone that's great and I'm happy for them too)

[@DoritotheAxolotl]

@@rozinq1351 Yeah I’ve had similar stuff happen, it sucks. I feel like some people don’t realize how to just back off of someone when all they’re doing is being snarky and mean to them while still calling them a friend

[@_________807]

1:37 My mom said I'm stupid. Sure, I'll listen to her. 🤗

[@Mitsurikanjiro608]

I just turned ✨11✨ so thank you for the advice!

[@darlenexx]

🤍

[@lovekell]

Hi! I’m 14 years old (just graduated from 9th grade, in my country we are promoted to high school), and I can tell you that some of this will be unavoidable. Obviously you can avoid it but some of them are common teenager mistakes. The most important thing is learning from these experiences that make you grow as a person. Don’t rush to seem mature if you are not ready, you’re not too mature for your age. Remember that nobody is perfect and if you make a mistake it ain’t gonna be the end of the world. I personally had a terrible experience at age 12-14 at school, thinking I was the problem. Then I realized that it was them, not me. No one has the right to treat you badly just because they want to or think you’re “weird”. The same way, try to show the best of you and find your safe place. At the end of the day, you learn from your mistakes, and if you don’t make mistakes you will learn nothing and you will not be prepared for the real world. I mean, you can try to avoid some of them but you don’t need to be so harsh, difficult times will always exist and are mostly unavoidable in your teenage years.

[@lovekell]

@LunaOreo-cz9mk i needed to say it

[@user3849]

You become a teenager when ur 13. But looking at the kind of kids these days.. they strongly need this advice. They want to look like an adult 😂

[@Pie_slays]

I dislike the phrase "Kids these days" so much. I feel like it describes kids and teens as a whole when in reality, a lot of kids aren't like that at all. I know for a fact I don't want to grow up quickly. "They" only describes a small minority of teens.

[@user3849]

@@Pie_slays bro this is the era of social media and most kids are spoilt due to this. I'm 19 and I love how I was born at such a perfect time. I had a wonderful childhood without any social media but at the same time got all these things just when it was necessary and at the right age. Most kids don't have this kind of childhood now. They are all surrounded by stupidity. Very few kids keep themselves away from this social media virus and all.

[@G-NG3RRR]

@@Pie_slaysyeah like I’m terrified of growing even 1 year older 😭

[@Quit_g00dby3]

AHEM TIME TO EXPLAIN TIME OF AGE… 10-11= pre-teen 12=tween 13-15=teenager 16-17=teen. DO I HAVE TO EXPLAIN THIS EVERY TIME!?😭

[@G-NG3RRR]

@@Quit_g00dby3 theres a difference between teen and teenager? And tween and preteen? I think those are js different words for the same thing girly

[@Pebble589]

Tbh I will hold my grudges a person skinny shamed me, was racist, bullied me phiscally and mentally till I almost wanted to die so yes I will hold a strong grudge.

[@lozwindwakerfan4076]

I am so sorry that happened to u :( Hopefully ur with only ppl who love u the way u are now!

[@Pebble589]

@@lozwindwakerfan4076 tysm it means a lot 💗

[@KaiTheTyrant]

Screw that advice. Sometimes grudges are warranted. I hold a grudge against my old primary school bully who came to my house and threatened my little sister and my neighbour (same age as my sister). Why? Because not holding a grudge against them would be DANGEROUS

[@Pebble589]

@@KaiTheTyrant I totally agree with you!

[@Hellohello0475]

Thanks you very much sister ❤ ! Your videos are really helpful to me. I'm a teen girl who is transferring to new school/collage for studies. Its 6 almost days left. I was really confused and less confident. Thank you for these tips, they are really helpful.

[@darlenexx]

@@Hellohello0475 you're welcome 🤍

[@Waiting_ToBloom]

“Don’t watch adult content” Me:🙂😅🤨🫣💀

[@personu44]

Ur a creep

[@Daniela-9296]

Fr

[@Toast_on_discord.]

Same-

[@Fifi4ever]

Depends what kind like 18 plus films but they are rated that becasue of violence and not you know .

[@haileyhung]

Me: watching 15+😂😂

[@Kathy-kj4so]

Dude no hate but teenage is 13 - 19yrs

[@rozinq1351]

Exactly man, I don't wanna sound spiteful or overly pedantic but it's kinda worrisome that this person is trying to preach from their mighty high horse about what young people should and shouldn't do with their life when they can't even get the age range of adolescence right

[@KaiTheTyrant]

Frfr. Unfortunately some people in the comments have it wrong too

[@Clover4evrr]

Wtf do u mean grades over friends i would rather care for people with feelings than a letter grades arent everything

[@Pie_slays]

I think they just mean to not forget about grades and get too distracted with friends. They never said to not care about your friends.

[@_pr3tty_purple_]

You can balance them having friends that Don't effect ur grades I mean they build up ur job

[@1zum1_al41n]

1:24 I’d like to add something, it’s okay to have unhealthy foods sometimes too! Vegetables and fruits are good to have once a day but I recommend having unhealthy foods every week or fortnite, this is healthy for your body to have a normal routine in eating. Unhealthy food isn’t totally off limits but it’s good to keep the amount of fast food at a reasonable level.

[@avie_chan0311]

Yeah I’m 12 and I have a lot of candy but I balance it out with vegetables and fruits and meats and stuff

[@BOB_VELSEB_1945]

@@avie_chan0311Oh my goodness, where are you!? I’m in America and that is underweight for a twelve year old- IM TWELVE- and I weight about 107 pounds…

[@ToastedCatnip]

my european self thought yall were talking in kg 😭😭😭

[@avie_chan0311]

@synnairek that’s a great attitude to have:)) ! And I’m pretty sure you are also a good weight too ^_^ so dw

[@avie_chan0311]

@@BOB_VELSEB_1945 oh- I live in America too lol. Idk if I’m underweight or not-

[@Janique-i1k]

Teenagers range from 13-17.

[@vocaloid861]

@@Curlyfriez2013 bro its a 10 year old

[@lilith75]

in country teens are from 11yo to 19yo

[@lilith75]

​@@Curlyfriez2013 we are from another countries so it's normal that we have different things >w

[@Janique-i1k]

@@Curlyfriez2013 I would say preteens are 11 or 12 tho

[@YourlocalGenderfluidkid]

yeah but considering that in the society we live today in every country those tips can be very useful for 10 year olds

[@Strawberry_Mochi-u4b]

2:05 i think i already broke that rule when i was 12 lol 😅😅😅

[@sillypersonzz]

same but for me at 9😭

[@Strawberry_Mochi-u4b]

@@sillypersonzz bruh your innocence was broken quick lol... Also I thought it was like adult movies, but if were talking about something like cuss words I learned when I was in 1st grade. 😭

[@toastLover-yo2yk]

​@@Strawberry_Mochi-u4bi learned abt that when i was like 7

[@mileyluong5251]

@@Strawberry_Mochi-u4b I sort of learned it when I was about 7-10

[@mariandsayoriplushreal]

@@toastLover-yo2yki was like 4-5

[@Ra_wr461]

The pictures you put make me feel bad about myself evenmore🥲🥲🥲

[@BloomingZo]

Don’t let that effect you it’s just a certain aesthetic ❤

[@Ho-oh.Builder]

your perfect the wat you are

[@mariandsayoriplushreal]

@@Ho-oh.Builderthe wat

[@somkeve]

​@@mariandsayoriplushreal way*

[@Shezieee]

If it’s the pretty girls then they’re just wearing a whole bunch of makeup to themselves pretty, thats 100% how they were not born to look like. If you can be pretty without makeup then that is even better. And when I say pretty I mean your personality, not your looks. I’m sure that you are beautiful‼️💕

[@nutijurj8553]

Half of them I avoided , some no. I am a 12 year old who watches 16+ movies, and knows already to many things. I gossiped my entire life almost and nothing bad happened. Still have the same friends that are not toxic and understand and respect me, some even support(I am a therian and part of the LGBTQ+ community). My grades are very good, finished on second place this year, and I skiped studying sometimes. I listened to my friend more then my parent one time, and nothing bad happened. I put my friends and familly before my grades, bcs I know how to deal with grades. And I do hate myself some times and compare myself to others, and that made me change, start working out and become the person I want to be. I would say to let anyone do things how they like, and where they end up is they'r choise.

[@rozinq1351]

You're very wise haha, I wish I was like you when I was your age 😭

[@ButterflyxAley]

"Listen o ur parent more than ur friends" that the 1 thing i can't do😭

[@8QueenArt8]

That screen time and procrastination Bon be real hard for those with ADHD-

[@Chainsaw_gutz]

I’m 12 and all I need to know is to stay trve to the black metal community and to do what I want and what’s best for me

[@saccharay]

as an older teen, I don’t necessarily agree with is the ‘listen to your parents more not friends’. while your parents will, in theory, have your best interest in mind, in practice, sometimes they will hurt you. A prime example is religious parents of LGBTQ children - they try to ‘save’ their children from hellfire while condemning them to feeling depressed and unaccepted for being who they are.

[@Artemis_the_gremlin64]

Listen to your parents more would be good advice if my parents weren’t transphobes 😂😂

[@gacha.annamation]

I agree with most, disagree with others. In any case, it's all easier said than done :')

[@CB_TP]

when i saw the first one, I knew I am screwed cause THEY DRAIN ME SO BADLY THAT I THOUGHT I WAS A DEMON MYSELF FOR NOT FORGIVING MY "BEST FRIEND" is it me or did I break too many rules here? I even broke the "Don't give into bad behavior, know whats right and wrong" I changed myself and broke my vocabulary just to fit in with Filipinos and ect. I broke it all already-

[@CORDY399.]

For anyone who needs to hear this: I love your hair or lack of I love your forehead I love your eyebrows or lack of I love your eyelashes or lack of I love your eyes I love your ears I love your nose I love your cheeks l love your mouth I love your laugh I love your teeth or lack of I love your chin I love your neck I love your shoulders I love your chest I love your arms I love your hands Ilove your tummy I love your hips I love your thighs Ilove your knees I love your shins I love your feet (not in that way.) I love your moles/marks I love your scars I love your voice I love what you do I love your personality I love you on your good days I love you on your bad days I love you when you when you wear makeup I love you when you don't wear makeup. I love your skin I love you when you're sad I love you when you're mad I love you when you're happy I love you when you hate me I love you when you love me I love you when you forget me I'm proud of you for getting some sleep I'm proud of you for trying to sleep I'm proud of you for waking up I'm proud of you for getting up I'm proud of you for brushing your teeth I'm proud of you for tending toward your braces I'm proud of you for doing your hair I'm proud of you for washing your face I'm proud of you for doing skin care I love you for doing your makeup (if youwear it) I'm proud of you that you got out of your room I'm proud of you for getting dressed I'm proud of you TRYING to eat breakfast. I'm proud of you for being clean I'm proud of you for trying to be clean I'm proud of you for being alive I'm proud of you for being a good friend I won't judge you for your looks I won't judge you from your race I won't judge you for your life I won't judge you for your family I won't judge you for your past/childhood I won't judge you for your body I won't judge you for your body I won't judge you for your tears I wont judge you for your age I won't judge you for your sexual orientation I wont judge you for your gender I wont judge you for your money I won't judge you for where you come from I won't judge you for your language You aren't ugly You aren't too fat You aren't too skinny You aren't annoying You aren't mean You aren't evil You aren't crazy You aren't weird You aren't worthless You aren't scary You aren't selfish You aren't too feminine You aren't too masculine You aren't too young You aren't too old You aren't disgusting You aren't a doormat You aren't a toy You aren't a monster You are beautiful You are pretty You are handsome You are kind You are cool You are everything you want to be You aren't perfect, nobody is, but you are perfect in my eyes I wont judge you for anything Im so proud of you I love you. Now it's your turn to share this message.

[@acaami]

"don’t let anyone make you feel bad about yourself" damn gurl i live with such people

[@rozinq1351]

this video is kinda unhelpful if your home life is anything even slightly lesser than perfect ngl lol

[@corgilover78]

1. Toxic and fske friends 2. Involved in unnesscesary conflict 3. Too much screen time 4. Comparison to others 5. Don't rush to grow up, embrance childhood 6. Don't bully fo look cool 7. dont make anyone make u feel bad abt urself 8. no peer pressure 9. dont say gossip 10. dont be afraif to make mistakes 11. dont skip school you wont have ecperience 12. don't be elitist 13. eat healthy 14. atleast 7 to 8 hrs if sleep 15. no grudges but boundaries 16. listen ti ur parents aswell 17. dont seek valudation 18. take school seriously 19. dont be afraid to fail 20. no drugs 21. be happy 22, no provradination 23. dont damage reputation

[@audr11775]

real title: things that are hard to do

[@R0ZAi.1909]

Sounds like a dream...

[@Aurorya]

As an adult this list is pretty good ! Especially don't begin smoking, dinking, such things, and especially not because of peer pressure ! Because then you're gonna have much more difficulties getting out of it that the very person who told you "do it like me, it's fun !" and that's just sad Source : I worked in a drugstore and seeing the "class followers" still addicted years after while knowing the "class leaders" were clean for a while is incredibly sad. It is because of brain chemistry ofc, but also mindpower. Class leaders have more mindpower but it doesn't mean other people don't have any. Please use yours when people try to make you do something bad for you. Always prioritize your health rather than what other people think of you because if relationships, especially school ones, end on an argument about theses subjects, they weren't worth it anyway. Yoy can change friends, you cannot change bodies : you're stuck with yours till the end, so please take care of it 😢

[@Cherry_blossem-y3h]

“Stop procrastinating”😭😭

[@That_Aesthetic_Nim]

Am about to enter middelschool, was very helpful! . 。・゜✭・.・✫゜・。.

[@awhzjack.k]

"Don't use technology too much as it can cause health issues" erm- Me: Roblox game dev Roblox yt and tiktok creator Writer Roblox clothing creator (ugc at somepoint probably) yeahhhh uhhhh- and I am gonna go to high school and college for coding and game design and such so uhh 😅 yeahhh...

[@Porsha._.official]

Video:Don't spend to much time on ur phone❤❤🤭 Me:😮😮😮😮😮😮 oH sHiT!!

[@Moon_editz600]

“Avoid getting in unnecessary drama” in 4th grade we were doing a digital breakout or riddles and the first group to solve all of them got candy, I was in a group with 4 other friends. We got one riddle down and another group got one down so we traded answers and another group had a problem with it (the other group had two of my friends in it, the one that had the problem) and they were forcing us to tell an answer even though they didn’t have any. At recess we were lining up and one of our group members ditched us to go to the group with the problem. We planned to apologize for lashing out at them (that was my fault hehe 🙃) but then they didn’t accept our apology (so I lashed out at them again :p) in the end we actually apologized (atleast 1 of them moved away) all because of a riddle :) anyway im still friends with them both. And this one happened a few days ago. Me and my friend were talking in the group chat because we were bored and one of the people from the other story (the one that had a problem) lashed out at us for “spamming” the group chat so I was lashed out at him to turn off his notifications and the my other friend from the group that had the problem sided with me luckily. He apologized and I accepted but now we’re not as good friends. This took me so long to type help-

[@simplysunsett]

respect for how long it took 🫡

[@MilkyWayMarsBar]

Thank you for this! I'm 16, and I already knew not to do any of this, but I usually do stuff that ruins my esteem. I don't bully people, I'm usually the bullied one tbh. Also, I wonder why you're considered an adult at 18 and 19, I mean, eight-TEEN. Nine-TEEN. I'm pretty sure you're still a teen at 18 or 19. I guess it depends who you ask. Again, thank you for the lessons! Sometimes we need a reminder.

[@rozinq1351]

I'm not sure what country you're from but in the US specifically the age of majority (legal adulthood) was actually set at 21 prior to the Vietnam war in the 60s and 70s when 18 year old guys were being mandatorily drafted into the army, which in turn caused many to argue that if they were old enough to die in battle they surely must have been old enough to vote as well and as a result in 1970 the aom was changed to 18. Over time some other countries that also had a higher age of majority followed their example and 18 became the golden standard for legal majority almost everywhere, though there are still quite a few countries that have it at a different number, sometimes higher sometimes lower. Indeed it's a very arbitrary number and has no real biological or psychological significance, developmentally a 17 and 18 year old teen are essentially the same. It's kinda ridiculous how everyone (and the law) expects actual high schoolers to suddenly become mature responsible adults without any previous preparation for that just because they've had a birthday, as a teen myself I wish there was some kind of official legal inbetween period tbh

[@MilkyWayMarsBar]

@@rozinq1351 Wow, I didn't know that! Thanks for telling me. Also, yeah I agree---I wish you were considered a legal adult at 21, since that's also the legal alcohol consumption age as well as the legal age to attend some clubs. Also because at 18 and 19, you're still a teenager; You haven't matured yet, and at 20, you literally just got out of your teenhood, meaning you're still adjusting. 21 should be the legal age, imo.

[@bunniipuff]

as an older teen i wanna say these are all great tips but you dont have to live a "perfect" and "clean" life like this. a part of being a teenager is being rebellious, and trying out new things. you dont have to ALWAYS listen to your parents, or eat healthy food, or never smoke/drink. when i was younger i was always the one kid in the group that was like "guys idk if we should do this" and i was always so scared of everything ... but this year ive been way less scared, i started smoking weed, staying up late, and trying things i was always too scared to try. im not tryna encourage anyone to like do drugs or anything like that but i do wanna say that drugs like weed, shrooms, acid, and other psychedelics arent physically addictive and if your gonna experiment with drugs do that. the bad drugs are the things like meth and heroin. those are SUPER addictive and withdrawal from those can kill you. psychedelics cannot kill you. sorry idk what im ranting about im just tryna say dont be scared to rebel a lil edit: i wrote this comment when i was high so im gonna clarify 😭what im tryna say is not all "drugs" are bad but everyone thinks that cuz they're so taboo. weed isnt a bad yall im not telling u to go smoke it im just tryna say its not harmful and if u wanna go and do it, do it, if you dont, then dont, but dont go around saying "drugs are bad and unhealthy for u!" when someone mentions weed

[@OfficeDuck-]

I get what you’re saying… Though drugs are a little much 😂😂 Im still curious, how was your experience

[@bunniipuff]

@@OfficeDuck- experience with what

[@alicetheangel-iplayroblox5184]

I'm gonna personally not try to end up like my parents of smoking or drugs

[@rogi-ogism]

No, this is terrible advice, and it is literally coming from a brony aesthetic kid.

[@Glorhbb]

I still don’t think you should even be putting the idea in younger teenager’s heads to try those things.. yes there are worse things to be addicted to and these would be better options, but they’re still addictive and harmful. You can try new things and be rebellious as a teenager without literally doing drugs.

[@fay-dj9ss]

"don't watch adult content" ehhmmm i wachted hazbin hotel, helluva boss, amazing digital circus and more..😅

[@lunarscopeshapeshifterprod7004]

Amazing digital circus isn’t even adult themed

[@KaiTheTyrant]

@lunarscopeshapeshifterprod7004 No but it’s mature because it’s not meant for children

[@lunarscopeshapeshifterprod7004]

@@KaiTheTyrant it’s rated TV-PG according to imdb

[@RealOceanAmethyst]

“No adult content” My hyperfixation: 🗣️🔥🔥🔥

[@Shina0721]

Me with Slow damage 😬

[@totallynotvolohaha]

.. and you're watching a show made by someone with zoophile allegations, regarding your profile picture.

[@aleksandarkirjazi966]

1:29 um.... (looks at sleeping deprived self with only 4/5 hours of sleep) Ehe :-')

[@Puffy_Wuffy]

I have always loved when people say things that will help mental health no matter how small, like these vids! I love ‘em so much!

[@-ethan-5719]

"Being mean to others can harm them and damage your reputation" Which is true but if the person who is mean to others apparently the most popular or has a large group of friends supporting them it's a different situation ngl (also where justice is starting to fall off which pisses me a lot)

[@Mlppvzfan]

As a Young Teen, I really, REALLY do not wan't to grow up! I hate it, I like my childhood! But other kids do not get it, being an adult is not fun, it is tiring...

[@Sucker4Roses]

Life is always tiring.

[@Yelyzavetta27483]

Sometimes adults struggle, it’s not always tiring

[@kittenslikestars]

I agree with most of this but grades before friends is terrible advice. Grades don't matter! They are a make-believe currency, all they do is tell your teacher a story of how well you are understanding a subject matter. Friends are incredibly important to your social development and are not to be understated. Focusing too much on school and too little on friends is like the number one way to burn yourself out at a young age. Focus on building a life you want to live.

[@itzstarlightgaming4483]

No hate though- Title: Avoid these things as a teenager This part of the video (2:19): Do things that make you happy don't please others.

[@enniahbumpingthat]

"skipping school can lead to gaps in learning and poor grades" well it's worth it since i won't have to see THOSE classmates that roast me and cook me and mentally drain me when i literally did nothing to them. they can wait until the end of time.

[@estergaming_editzz]

If I didn't have to wake up at 5:00 AM for school I WOULD get 7-8 hours of sleep

[@KaiTheTyrant]

Yeah. Last year I had to get up at 4am for school. I didn’t get home until 8:30pm, too. I basically had no time to myself on days I had class and they wondered why my grades weren’t so good (funny thing, homework isn’t so good if you don’t have time to do it). We couldn’t even do most of the work in class. I don’t get why it wasn’t online (mandatory in-person stuff for 8 hours).

[@Brooke-de6df]

As a 15 year old, I have learned from making many mistakes with friends and other stuff. This video is so good for younger people/teenagers to see.

[@BiancaVicinanza]

2:34 "learn to save money" Me: Uhm.... Yesn't

[@Pollywood2009]

Thid comment section is filled with TMI. I hope nobody made you uncomfortable. I think this is great advice! I love wtsching videos like these because they make me feel like things can improve if I just try them out.

[@Areejfaleh]

I’m a tween and these advices helped me out a lot

[@zhouZheyou]

Don’t watch adult content & don’t be on screen for 2 long:🙂‍↔️ Me:🤭😅🤐😮💀💀☠️☠️☠️👽👽👽👽👽

[@echuzerahtv3443]

"Don't be afraid to make mistakes" This hit me like a ton of bricks

[@missmcraefan]

How do I stop procrastinating btw, it’s one of my biggest problems

[@missmcraefan]

You earned a sub btw ❤️

[@darlenexx]

You can make a daily routine and plan your tasks

[@Violet11W]

I have that problem too girly 😂💝

[@Z06Z06]

@@darlenexxthat makes my days feel like a loop tho

[@JoanneNichols-bx9fe]

Don't watch adult content. Me watching has in hotel on my tv: UHMM

[@Eu_Ni_Ce_1009]

You mean "Hazbin Hotel"?🤨

[@Starpanda5941]

@@Eu_Ni_Ce_1009 i have done that-

[@Eu_Ni_Ce_1009]

@@Starpanda5941 I don't watch those ( I tried once but I found it boring)

[@Starpanda5941]

@@Eu_Ni_Ce_1009 no, i meant i have corrected someones autocorrect- though i have watched adult content too

[@LyXPenguin]

“Don’t watch adult content” Dang it.

[@thenonfurry]

“stop procrastinating” stop calling me out girlie 😭

[@KaylaCloudy]

Why did you put 10-17 when a teen starts at 13

[@anonym2783]

Also: Talk to people, get help, do not expect of yourself to master everything alone

[@rozinq1351]

Better advice than the video tbh

[@yona849]

Hi u are korean? I m korean ❤ My age is 16 Can we be best friends?

[@darlenexx]

​@@yona849 Thankyou 🤍

[@yona849]

@@darlenexx ok pls peoples tell you are korean pls Upload video its your photos video

[@Violet11W]

I'm Japanese 💝😁

[@ammarahsurve1444]

ㅡㄷㅅㅐㅐ

[@yona849]

@@Violet11W hi

[@itz_blossomfox3476]

YES! Don’t gossip, many people I know including friends gossip and it leads you to not trusting them fully because they might be talking behind your back.

[@c10wn.g0reee]

“get 7-8 hours of sleep a night” insomnia: “hah, no” school: “nope” my siblings being loud as fuck: “you wish” my mom getting me up at 9a: “take your meds”

[@Lasagnamuncher61]

I purposefully procrastinate at times because thats the time when my brain fully locks in and i will do my homework way faster and come up with better ideas or solutions. As for chores i do them immediately, i find peace in washing dishes and organizing rooms.

[@ace.crocheting.therian]

Whatching this after a band competition is nice, my ending silk (flag) was moved/misplaced i freaked ( internally) and continued on like i had a flag, while we was walking i started crying anf turns out what i did (continued on even with out a silk) was what i was supposed to do andim a rookie. That was t he first time someone in my band that seen ANYONE, especially a rookie. I love my band family ❤

[@Mildi1802]

Thank you for making this! I know a lot of teens need to see this and we should be always café ful especially in this new generation that criticize for almost anything 😢 as a 13 y/o (I’m about to be) I’m glad I watched this❤❤❤

[@RYLIXan]

What i like about my friends is that they have good grades! And when i see their grades i feel like i should study harder and get good grades like them. So basically my friends are a big help in improving my grades without them even knowing. I love them so much ❤

[@F0x.P4wzz]

I just turned 11 and I’m so happy this exists! So inspirational tysm

[@P3bblePawzys]

You are a little kid not a teenager 😭 (I’m 10 years old about to be 11 next month)

[@LuciTheSilly]

@@P3bblePawzysWe’re like almost the same age but ur older than me by a bit- (my bdays in like 3 months)

[@miffygirI]

You can listen to your parents ONCE they're right, pls know whats right from wrong

[@sonikarani1627]

Thankyou so much ❤

[@-clover_on_pawz-]

I feel like like I just got roasted because this is literally my life in a nutshell