Smash that like button if Jesus saved you from THE BIG GAY
@bennetdiesperger40803 жыл бұрын
All of those bad people trying to just live their lives. Just horrible This is sarcasm, just wanted to clarify
@joppippoj3 жыл бұрын
i'll start with liking this comment
@jimbo22273 жыл бұрын
A 30 year old guy, who never got married, and always went around with 12 men...
@nunyabusiness93073 жыл бұрын
@The Seeker I would rather not get executed, thanks.
@gematr14a423 жыл бұрын
@The Seeker yikes
@VoxVeritas3 жыл бұрын
I once dated a girl who said, "logic is from the devil." I was speechless for days.
@hybridcatbird3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know how to respond.. wtf 💀💀💀
@sarahhardy86493 жыл бұрын
@@hybridcatbird run away......fast.
@GarretsShadow3 жыл бұрын
That's brilliant. You can get away with anything then. "You promised you'd be home by nine, but you stumbled in drunk at 4 in the morning!" "Logic is from the devil, honey"
@arindamsur6263 жыл бұрын
ok... Wow, If id were you I would never talk to her again and just stop dating her. Then go to a therapist and figure stuff out.
@Anonymous-wb3nz3 жыл бұрын
She sounds......stupid.
@gwyn66353 жыл бұрын
"you are not worthy of love but i love anyways" aka "im the only one that could love you" is probably the clearest sign of an abusive relationship
@joeytofil22593 жыл бұрын
For real, makes you just wanna tell Christians 'You can do better, girl/man, He's just a narcissistic bully who's manipulating you! You aren't a bad person, He is!'
@Ropetrick63 жыл бұрын
These people should really see The hunchback of notre dame
@joeytofil22593 жыл бұрын
@Person 1 how do you mean? People fear God because He can be can be irrationally vindictive at times. Give me one good reason for cutting babies out of pregnant mothers before stabbing their tiny bodies, or flooding the entire earth because He created toys who were defective in His eyes. Assuming the Bible is true, is He worthy of worship?
@mayday25023 жыл бұрын
Oh fu k, my parents did that shit
@rembrantvanryn98753 жыл бұрын
@Person 1 ''science still doesn't have an explanation for consciousness" explain please.
@Adoratheidiot6663 жыл бұрын
I literally decided to go to my Christian university hoping they could help me stop having feelings for my friend. That friend is now my girlfriend and I am so relieved I’m graduating this semester. Channels like this have helped me to re-examine my life and beliefs and I am so much happier as a result. 💖💜💙
@GoodnightDassah3 жыл бұрын
Yay
@liammckevitt80963 жыл бұрын
BI GANG BI GANG
@DerAua3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations.
@GavinFromWeb3 жыл бұрын
Congrats
@edwardcierniak78793 жыл бұрын
Congrats
@robertcooper19523 жыл бұрын
"Religion is like a blind man looking in a black room for a black cat that isn't there, and finding it." - Oscar Wilde
@GaganSingh-nx2yv3 жыл бұрын
Dave Allen and Christopher hitchens cracked this joke as well.
@petyreyvind99633 жыл бұрын
Good quote-
@petyreyvind99633 жыл бұрын
@Rusty Howe Yess, I know that one 😂
@spadinnerxylaphone26223 жыл бұрын
Based tbh
@kaialashley83783 жыл бұрын
another reason to love oscar wilde
@rompevuevitos2223 жыл бұрын
"Education can weaken our faith" And Sexual education can reduce unwanted pregnancies Seeing the similarities yet? lol
@noellelavenza4943 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 Are you studying biology? Things like the endosymbiosis of mitochondria/chloroplasts, spontaneous micelle formation, self-replicating ribozymes, etc. cast doubt on intelligent design by highlighting feasible methods of incremental non-guided development.
@alexrudolph3013 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 Agreeing with what the other person said, there is also all the parts of our bodies that don’t work well. Such as 80% of adults experiencing back pain at some point, if we were designed so well why does that happen? Or how we have exponentially more dangerous births than most other mammals?
@noellelavenza4943 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 It's funny, because we CAN do that. We have literally designed ribozymes to prove that self-replicating ones are feasible, AND we've shown that ribozymes can originate spontaneously from natural conditions.
@noellelavenza4943 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 Also, genetic modification exists! There's stuff like golden rice designed to alleviate vitamin A deficiency in areas where rice is grown, mice modified to have less muscle decay/stronger muscle fibers, even mice modified to live 400%-500% longer by modifying their mTORc1 and mTORc2 pathways.
@noellelavenza4943 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 Ribozymes are RNA-based enzymes. Nucleotides, and nucleic acids, can be generated given the right set of initial conditions which were very common on the early Earth; namely, chemical vents provide a source of heat energy and a lot of raw chemicals to work with, meaning they'd essentially combine via trial and error until something self-replicating sticks. It's like how if you introduce a new species into an area where it has no natural predators, it'll replicate out of control. When I said we made better artificial ribozymes, I meant that we made more efficient self-replicating ones, whereas creating them via spontaneous generation as I described before yields simple ribozymes or ones that don't replicate efficiently. There are a lot of inefficiencies in proteins/enzymes, actually! Some of them can be exploited if they're useful (see: antiviral medications), while others can be patched out if they're not (see: making more efficient enzymes that create a certain product, to be inserted into something like yeast and harvested).
@ilcorbellodipianoia86463 жыл бұрын
"Education can weaken your faith" Well it's not false.
@harperbird10343 жыл бұрын
Education saved me from my "faith." Getting education and information from reliable sources about the different untrue things my church taught me as a child/teenager saved me from believing nonsense and giving my life to something completely baseless in reality. I left the faith and fortunately did not attend a Christian university like so many of my peers did. I am now in a secular university exploring all the things I was taught were "evil" when I was growing up. And looking at the level of education and really weird restrictions put on the students at these Christian universities, I can gladly say I made the right choice.
@PixelKnight933 жыл бұрын
Meh Education just pushed me towards witchcraft LOL
@fumioshwartz71143 жыл бұрын
Thats probably a sign that faith isn't a reliable resource
@olegcherkasky27553 жыл бұрын
There are many Jewish people who are highly educated in both secular topics (math, science, etc) and religious topics (Jewish law, Jewish philosophy, the Bible with commentary from medieval era Jewish sages). Education is a central part of Jewish culture and history, it doesn't necessarily make people less religious. With the ultra orthodox being an exception, some avoid getting a secular education.
@nyan3493 жыл бұрын
@@PixelKnight93 Then you got the wrong education lmao
@dj330363 жыл бұрын
i am way older than you but I have to thank you for this video. When I was a young man I attended an evangelical bible college in Los Angeles. While there I had a mental break down and confessed to my dean of students, that I had same sex attractions. I was prayed for, tongues were spoken, and I was told that I was cured. After the prayer I was told even though I was cured I would probably never have heterosexaul relationships. Well needless to say, those were true words since in fact I was not cured. I went through years of self denial and not until my mid twentys was I able to accept myself. It was even more years before I could recognize how utterly foolish all religions are. I wish I could have seen this video as a young adult. Thanks so much, I hope this helps some young people understand that you are who you are.
@jdmmg49043 жыл бұрын
💟 must have been really hard. Glad to hear you found a way to accept yourself.
@skeptischism13243 жыл бұрын
Cant cure, what isnt sick. Thats what these zealots need to learn.
@WastedTalent833 жыл бұрын
i hate all religions except buddhism , and for a reason. If religions were taught later in life, when people are already grown up, i would have nothing against it. If a person decide to throw logic out of the window and believe in fairy tails, its his/her choice. But since they know people are not stupid , they keep brainwashing children from 2000+ years , that should be unforgivable, but for some reason is widely accepted..
@johnc.383 жыл бұрын
@@WastedTalent83 I'm curious to know why you are ok with buddhism? I do agree with what the other things you said.
@johnc.383 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you and I'm glad you are in a better place. I live near Cal Baptist in Riverside. Thanks for sharing your story. Makes me think of what must be going on even today. Me and you are both older guys and I can indenify with what you said about where were these videos when I was a young adult.
@sirflappington24843 жыл бұрын
A big difference I find between religion and science is how they treat questions. In faith, questioning the religion is the worst thing you can do, while in science, questioning everything is the very basis of everything we know.
@yachishairclips22503 жыл бұрын
And science corrects itself with their intial wrong findings too.. It is ever changing and not proclaiming to be the absolute truth that you cannot question
@krinkrin59823 жыл бұрын
@@yachishairclips2250 Science in general does that, individual scientists.... it varies. Some are worse than priests, others would question everything they do. As for religion, it provides one thing: emotional support in times of tragedy. I've heard stories of many people who have lost everything and contemplated ending it all. Religion was their escape from the cycle of depression, since it provided something greater than themselves which would not end or abandon them like humans would. It was an anchor they could use to redefine themselves and rebuild their lives from.
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
This may be off topic...but it is still relevant to you...Can I ask you something? Can a people become a nation again after having been dispersed in different parts of the world for more than two thousand years? And in the countries where they were exiled, they were the minority and were heavily persecuted. They were not allowed to secure jobs and were often expelled from their lands.. And throughout the ages, kings, queens, political and religious leaders tried to annihilate them...do you think they could survive as a people? Could they become a nation again and become a powerful force in the region shortly after they reestablish themselves in the land of their forefathers in the face of much opposition from neighboring countries, considering they are a small country, as small as New Jersey with the land mostly dessert, surrounded by enemies who wanted to annhilate them and with hardly any natural resources that even Mark Twain in his diary said that even a cactus was having a hard time to grow in this arid, bone dry and dessicated land ? What do you think?
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
@@skiplet87 I have seen Jesus in a vision while I am fully awake. I was not into any drugs or was I drunk.I have no vices whatsoever.Living a clean healthy lifestyle. And I am not the only one..many former atheists had experienced the spiritual realm as well..they were atheists when they had such an experience..which makes them credible witness to the fact that there is God and that heaven and hell are real. What about you? What proof do you have to prove with 100% certainty that there is no God? that there is no afterlife?
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
@@skiplet87 I believe in God not only because I believe in His existence but also because I experienced seeing Jesus on top of a hill in an open vision while awake. I saw Him with a woman who was also clad in a white garment ..that woman died a day or less than two days after [there is a time gap between me and that woman as we live in different countries when I had such vision]I could not have predicted her death had I not seen her looking at Jesus face to face..I saw Jesus' back side btw. I am not the only one.There are atheists as well who had such spiritual experience..making them credible witnesses of the after life.
@Mrs.Rachel.C_5th_grade3 жыл бұрын
My female cousin was expelled from an evangelical university because she had a girlfriend. She is bi and is still with the same partner over 10 years later.
@void33813 жыл бұрын
sounds like it was worth it
@GavinFromWeb3 жыл бұрын
@@void3381 agreed
@Mrs.Rachel.C_5th_grade3 жыл бұрын
@Jedimaster420 no. She is bi. Plain and simple. She always has been. There was no pain or trauma. If she were not actually bi it wouldn't have been worth all the pain from being disowned by most of my family. it wouldn't be worth the estrangement from everyone in the family, expulsion from school, job and housing discrimination, and so much more. None of that would be worth it if she were not truly in love with her partner of over 10 years.
@jchow59663 жыл бұрын
Evangelical universities are not rxcellent. They teach hate, prejudice,bigotry, sexism, homophobia, anti intellectualism & many other horrible things.
@graham11583 жыл бұрын
@Jedimaster420 you sound like an extremely annoying person in real life
@raptorkvn3 жыл бұрын
Imagine being in a math class and starting the class with prayer. I guess they say something from the Book of Numbers.
@thechurchofsupersampling3 жыл бұрын
That's numberwang
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
@@thechurchofsupersampling This 'Jesus can turn you straigth' isnt just negativ, its outright disgusting. I encourage everyone to use the Report-System that KZbin provides, if you ever see content of any kind that promotes it. From Racism over P0rn to lil' spam-bots, i managed to get a flipping lot removed and I'm proud on it. If you want a Crash-Course and some Starting-Help, tell me.
@fogweaver56333 жыл бұрын
Five minutes out of the Book of Numbers will put an insomniac to sleep. All those begats.
@shady80453 жыл бұрын
Lol I go to a Christian school and we literally do that. Granted it isn’t fundamentalist and we definitely teach evolution but still
@jhoughjr13 жыл бұрын
Prayer might have helped in calc II. some integrals feel like 40 years in the desert
@CossZt63 жыл бұрын
> goes to a *university* > the university: "Education can weaken our faith!" > 👄 👁️ 👁️
@ChickenC0re3 жыл бұрын
Having faith in yourself : ,↪️ 👁️👄👁️
@unoriginals88873 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@moatasemkassab45173 жыл бұрын
No, more like: 👁️ 👁️ 👁️ 👄 **Third eye opens**
@LadyOfTheEdits3 жыл бұрын
Lol XD
@literallyglados2 жыл бұрын
@@moatasemkassab4517 👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️ 👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️ 👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👄👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️ *WAIT STOP GO BACK*
@ellyisjelly15043 жыл бұрын
On the topic of sexual repression - I’m a lesbian who went to a single sex religious school, and let me tell you I went through so much repression and guilt for having sexual urges, especially towards women. There was very much a culture of ‘dont talk about sex’ at my school from my memory.
@DemonicRemption3 жыл бұрын
@ellyisjelly The irony I'm experiencing right now makes me want to scream.
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
I am going to reveal to you 3 things that are about to happen, so when they happen..you know that God exist. These prophecies are written in the Bible. First the disappearance of many people [true believers] worldwide. Governments will attribute such disappearance to an alien abduction..it is not..do not be deceived..it was the rapture that took place where Jesus will save believers from the catastrophe that will come into the world. Iran, Turkey , Russia will attack Israel...the U.S will not help them. Israel will be on its own but not for long because God will intervene. You will be ruled by the anti christ. All countries will live as one nation ruled by the anti christ. There will be no buying nor selling for those whose faith is in Christ, for those who will refuse to worship the anti christ. When these happens..receive Christ as your Messiah..you can still be saved but you may have to sacrifice your life for the faith during the time of the anti christ..but stay strong in the Lord.
@ellyisjelly15042 жыл бұрын
@@mikeygarcia8271 lol this is literally an atheist video my dude, the majority of people here don’t believe in a god
@vhawk1951kl2 жыл бұрын
But can you not grasp that homosexuality has n-o-t-h-i-n-g to do with *Sex* ( reproduction).. You cannot be s-e-x-u-a-l-l-y attracted to another woman, and even if you were it would and could have nothing to do with reproduction; sex is not anything-to-=do-with the genitals - or masturbation would be sex and it isn't.
@ellyisjelly15042 жыл бұрын
@@vhawk1951kl well, I am very much still attracted to women despite your claims. Sex is not always about reproduction. Homosexual activity occurs in other animal species as well and attraction the same sex is common and not a choice!
@asadmalik24643 жыл бұрын
As an ex Muslim, I know how being heavily indoctrinated with BS feels like lol
@aikou28863 жыл бұрын
Please stay safe, I hope that death cult doesn't harm you.
@asadmalik24643 жыл бұрын
@@aikou2886 fortunately I don't live in a Muslim country and I've only told a few people I trust so I'll be fine but thanks for the comment :)
@nunyabiznes333 жыл бұрын
@@asadmalik2464 Make sure to vote to keep your country secular.
@asadmalik24643 жыл бұрын
@@nunyabiznes33 I just hope all the Muslim countries become secular, doesn't seem like it's happening any time soon tho :(
@bluegirl2783 жыл бұрын
@Asad Malik Sad, but true. 😔 smh
@MEnsignScience3 жыл бұрын
This pattern is also consistent with my experience at another private, Christian university. It’s not just evangelicals.
@susanmaggiora48003 жыл бұрын
MEnsign I think it’s fairly consistent throughout Christianity in general, despite all the comments I’ll probably get telling me “Not in MY church. WE don’t do that.”
@andyz32253 жыл бұрын
New Saint Andrew's?
@PixelKnight933 жыл бұрын
@@susanmaggiora4800 Christianity is just a dogmatic religion. In fact in a lot of the churches that I was forced to be affiliated with as a kid they seem to have a very like mindset there.
@Jcjcjd-d2o3 жыл бұрын
@@PixelKnight93 im an atheist but its not just them but many educational institutions pushing out their own breed of dogma.
@schorpioen74663 жыл бұрын
It's probably what already happened for centuries in catholic institutions next to physical abuse
@Mallory-Malkovich3 жыл бұрын
It's embarrassing that we still have whole colleges devoted to promoting cognitive dissonance.
@vedritmathias91933 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, colleges promoting cognitive dissonance of a different variety are becoming increasingly common.
@Mallory-Malkovich3 жыл бұрын
@@vedritmathias9193 What do you mean?
@MatthewChristn2 жыл бұрын
That is what liberal institutions churn out. Mindless, useful idiots by the millions 🙄.... You are not an individual; you are identify politics.
@mightylad21972 жыл бұрын
Most do. They teach to accept and rationalize authority instead of thinking critically and questioning the world.
@OkayUser2 жыл бұрын
U used the term cognitive dissonance incorrectly good sir
@dulcedelira26103 жыл бұрын
The "you are not worthy of love but I still love you" hit hard. Growing up in a extremely Christian house and liking women this tore me down, to this day I have issues with accepting love from others, mostly my family because I always feel like a don't deserve it, constant feelings of guilt and unworthiness shallow me whole everyday. The fact that christians fail to see how they are harming others with their "but God will always love you" hurts my soul, something as love from a "heavenly fatherly figure" has become haunting to me.
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
This may be off topic...but it is still relevant to you...Can I ask you something? Can a people become a nation again after having been dispersed in different parts of the world for more than two thousand years? And in the countries where they were exiled, they were the minority and were heavily persecuted. They were not allowed to secure jobs and were often expelled from their lands.. And throughout the ages, kings, queens, political and religious leaders tried to annihilate them...do you think they could survive as a people? Could they become a nation again and become a powerful force in the region shortly after they reestablish themselves in the land of their forefathers in the face of much opposition from neighboring countries, considering they are a small country, as small as New Jersey with the land mostly dessert, surrounded by enemies who wanted to annhilate them and with hardly any natural resources that even Mark Twain in his diary said that even a cactus was having a hard time to grow in this arid, bone dry and dessicated land ? What do you think?
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
Let me reveal to you 3 things that are about to happen, so when they happen..you know that God exist. These prophecies are written in the Bible. First the disappearance of many people [true believers] worldwide. Governments will attribute such disappearance to an alien abduction..it is not..do not be deceived..it was the rapture that took place where Jesus will save believers from the catastrophe that will come into the world. Iran, Turkey , Russia will attack Israel...the U.S will not help them. Israel will be on its own but not for long because God will intervene. You will be ruled by the anti christ. All countries will live as one nation ruled by the anti christ. There will be no buying nor selling for those whose faith is in Christ, for those who will refuse to worship the anti christ. When these happens..receive Christ as your Messiah..you can still be saved but you may have to sacrifice your life for the faith during the time of the anti christ..but stay strong in the Lord.
@dulcedelira26102 жыл бұрын
@@mikeygarcia8271 I believe in God, that is not the point. It's that since I was very young I was told I wasn't worthy of love. If people like you took a fucking second to listen to other people and understand religious trauma, we wouldn't be here and people wouldn't be running away from God, but you only care about being right
@richardjones46622 жыл бұрын
@@mikeygarcia8271 , let me reveal to you... I can definitely see evil. And your religious beliefs are evil (and can't have anything to do with a "righteous" god).
@a_plastic_bag Жыл бұрын
@@mikeygarcia8271I recommend you look up Occam’s razor. If your explanation for those event presupposes the existence of a transcendental, objectively unobservable and intelligent power with little to no consideration of explanations that may presuppose far less, you might not have the right explanation.
@LethargicScientist3 жыл бұрын
I went to a catholic university and they were totally chill with me being trans. The entire faculty was really accepting and understanding of my experience. Even the monks. In fact, the monks liked talking to me and asking questions about my lived experience. They were genuinely interested in learning about how people like me had to live and progress in our lives. I'm glad they weren't evangelicals, because they do not sound like they were genuinely interested in learning anything.
@hopek70333 жыл бұрын
Evangelicals are absolutely horrible. They did a wich hunt in my hometown ( #wm3 ) and they won't get vaccinated or wear masks, endangering the rest of community.
@adrianusnicholas86002 жыл бұрын
Yes. My old catholic teacher was chill about talking about those kinda of stuff too
@エルフェンリート-l3i2 жыл бұрын
That's also part of why I'm so okay with being "scientific" and religious at the same time. The religious authorities I encountered in my life (mixed catholic/protestant region in Bavaria) were mostly wise and understanding individuals that would have been very sceptical, if someone came up with a simple explanation for any complex societal or personal problem, such behaviour was even discouraged and frowned upon in my religion class by most teachers (it's compulsory where I live, but consists of one half Philosophy and one half Theology and was one of the most precious and fun experiences in my life so far). Everytime I see Evangelical Fundamentalists talk about their ideal of "Christianity", it seems for me like I'm thrown back into Kindergarten level of explanation and devotion. It's funny for me because of it being so primitive and non-convincing for any sophisticated adult, but at the same time I feel sorry for everyone who had to go through this up until being an *adult* . This just sounds so sad and unsatisfactory.. also because of the stark contrast to those beautiful things I experienced to be belief and self-exploration :/
@ToharaAmah2 жыл бұрын
Catholics are pretty chill, in my experience. They're not as aggressive and judgmental like evangelicals.
@deep_fried_midget2 жыл бұрын
@@hopek7033 you are as brainwashed as them.
@synthetic2403 жыл бұрын
They're teaching their students how to actively engage in doublethink. I find it horrifying.
@learningisfun21083 жыл бұрын
Nice Orwel reference.
@nayandusoruth24683 жыл бұрын
@@learningisfun2108 yeah, whilst 1984 was primarily a political book, it does seem to have interesting parallels to religion, which is noteworthy to say the least...
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
@@learningisfun2108 This 'Jesus can turn you straigth' isnt just negativ, its outright disgusting. I encourage everyone to use the Report-System that KZbin provides, if you ever see content of any kind that promotes it. Aaaactually, i even promote just overall using the Flag-Button more, as literally not enough people do it, tbh. From Racism over P0rn to lil' spam-bots, i managed to get a flipping lot removed and I'm proud on it. If you want a Crash-Course and some Starting-Help, tell me.
@viktoriavadon22223 жыл бұрын
Wow. That narrative, "You are sinful and unworthy, but God still loves you." Take away the religious context and you're left with emotional manipulation and abuse... this is not okay!!
@rompevuevitos2223 жыл бұрын
Change god with someone's name and see anti hate groups loose their shit
@stevieh98603 жыл бұрын
It’s actually the first part of that equation that upsets me. I see so much of the “ we are not worthy. We are wretched “ nonsense it makes me angry. No, you Fucking aren’t wretched! Pull your head out of your arse! People like this also believe pride is a sin, lust is a sin, envy is a sin. In fact everything they do that might have a bit of pleasure in it is frowned upon. And yet...... God loves us. Oh no he Fucking doesn’t.
@rompevuevitos2223 жыл бұрын
@@stevieh9860 They still do all that stuff btw, they love to preach but they don't always follow
@millsykooksy48633 жыл бұрын
This is literally what the Bible teaches
@geoden3 жыл бұрын
Since there is ZERO evidence for your ''God'', how can you say and know, that a non-existent entity ''loves you''? You are making no sense!
@MidnightBreezey3 жыл бұрын
I literally came inches away from suicide 7 years ago because of severe internalized homophobia thanks to religious education. Was standing on a chair with a noose around my neck, all I had to do was kick the chair away, but I didn't. I'm so lucky I managed to escape those toxic, self-loathing beliefs and find peace with who I am. I still have a lot of emotional scars though due to the fact that all those supposedly holy people who were supposed to help, protect and nurture me in my childhood instead harmed me and taught me to hate myself. I ended up severely emotionally stunned, I'm turning 30 soon and I feel like I have the emotional maturity most straight people have by 20 due to being so delayed in exploring love and relationships. I was 27 before I even had my first kiss or went on a date, during the last 2-3 years I've been having to learn all the things most people do in high school.
@NormallyImKim2 жыл бұрын
How are you now? Are you coping ok? You can see a therapist or even a sex therapist. I think it will help you with your self-hatred and gain confidence in your sexuality.
@finngswan37322 жыл бұрын
I feel this so much.
@asthma23dudet052 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you chose life
@darlalathan61432 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry!
@atticusmiller39612 жыл бұрын
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@uschurch3 жыл бұрын
"Closeness to god is necessary to maintain sexual purity" I don't know what either of these things are and I don't think they matter very much.
@fogweaver56333 жыл бұрын
Or just being asexual.
@FiveFoxesInATrenchcoat3 жыл бұрын
@@fogweaver5633 Oddly enough, they don’t like that either.
@fogweaver56333 жыл бұрын
@@FiveFoxesInATrenchcoat After The Flood, God told Noah and his family to "go forth and replenish the earth." Asexuals don't procreate much. Doesn't matter, the earth has been replenished, and then some.
@cy-one3 жыл бұрын
Tbh, the first thing my brain went to was how "close" some priests are to the boys in church.
@con.troller41833 жыл бұрын
It means, whenever you have sex, even with yourself, remember that GOD IS WATCHING YOU! If that doesn't ruin the mood, you have a kink called exhibitionism.
@jonathanconnor81903 жыл бұрын
When I was in my teens, my peers where always advised to not study psychology at university as it would ruin their faith. No one ever said why it would. It was only after I got out of the Baptist cult that I was in that I realised that they would learn about the manipulative techniques that were used on them.
@aralornwolf31403 жыл бұрын
"that were being used on them at that time"
@roems63963 жыл бұрын
Logic, science, and history are other courses that can ruin one’s faith. If learning so many topics make it hard for one to continue to hold a belief, maybe that belief shouldn’t be held onto.
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
This 'Jesus can turn you straigth' isnt just negativ, its outright disgusting. I encourage everyone to use the Report-System that KZbin provides, if you ever see content of any kind that promotes it. Aaaactually, i even promote just overall using the Flag-Button more, as literally not enough people do it, tbh. From Racism over P0rn to lil' spam-bots, i managed to get a flipping lot removed and I'm proud on it.
@CatholicFrog3 жыл бұрын
I left the Baptist movement (am still a Christian but an Orthodox Christian) but I studied Philosophy and Psychology and yes they suggested I not study those things. Then when I came back and was like “Y’all ever heard these arguments” they were like “Well I don’t know about that I’m just a simple southern boy idk about that big city stuff I just trust the Bible” and I was like “Which interpretation of the Bible” and he went “well idk about that I just trust the Bible” and I was like “Ahhhh.... ok”
@roems63963 жыл бұрын
@@CatholicFrog So you didn’t actually question the religion itself, just your specific brand? As someone who studied psychology, surely you know about why people just accept the religion of their family and society. You never questioned if maybe the entire religion wasn’t true, and not just the Baptist version?
@khisk83 жыл бұрын
"Sexual purity" has got to be the weirdest concept ever created
@texasyojimbo3 жыл бұрын
And it has been considered weird for decades, at least among many mainline Christians. There's a whole chapter (one of the last chapters, I think, thrown in almost as an afterthought) of C.S. "Narnia" Lewis's "Mere Christianity" where he basically says "ok guys sexual sin is a thing but it's literally the least important kind, please chill out about this and focus on the big picture." And he wrote it like 70 years ago. But sadly us folks in the mainline gang just don't draw the big crowds anymore. No matter how many sprinkles we put on the donuts.
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
Francisco Actually, its not. We have a lot of Perversion these days.
@debrapaulino9183 жыл бұрын
@@texasyojimbo Unplanned pregnancy with adoptions, abortions, and STD's, and emotional trauma from failed relationships were always great incentives to be sexually pure. Are those factors now history?
@debrapaulino9183 жыл бұрын
@@slevinchannel7589 From everything I've read perversions are very ancient problems. Do we accept it as a matter of relativity so we are no longer bothered by it? To bring in the New Age of love and unity under the banner of inclusive?
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
@@debrapaulino918 P-erversion definetly exists. S--ual Perversion exists; and its just one (arguably the most well known) part of it. But everything an be perversion: A P§do that acts like Santa Claus is a Perversion of the idea of Santa Claus. And a Teacher that hits his Kids is a Perversion of the Teaching-Job. Get what i mean? But even regardless of all that, i just have one word to say, so you can maybe figure out that perversion definetly exists. Just one word: Ince$t.
@RandomRothbardian7 ай бұрын
If education can weaken a faith, the faith is wrong.
@AlexChristian3 жыл бұрын
Liberty University grad here. Pretty much everything you described is true of LU.
@XStormieX3 жыл бұрын
I live about 10 minutes away from liberty and know a lot of people who went there so it’s the school that came to my mind as well. Some of the things they do are just beyond horrible.
@caileirel.p.76413 жыл бұрын
@Alex Christian I'll be attending Liberty University (because my parents expect me to attend a Christian college and they are paying for it) in the Fall and have been going online to get my AA degree (I just turned 17 on the 12th). I've been going to Liberty University Online Academy since the 6th grade. I wouldn't say I'm atheist but I would say I'm more agnostic, which could change in the future. The discussion boards make me sick and angry in my religion classes, some of my classmates that are my age just speaking so ill of people in the LGBTQ+ community and mothers/women who have gotten abortions (while I am personally against abortions I will not talk down to someone who has had one and rather women be able to get them safely then not). As someone who doesn't really have that close godly relationship with God, do you have advice on how to 'survive' these next few years?
@AlexChristian3 жыл бұрын
@@caileirel.p.7641 I'm actually a Christian, but I really hate what the "church" (ie., organized religion as opposed to people truly living out their faith) has become. Hopefully more Christians can demonstrate Christ's love like we're supposed to...
@Eugene3843 жыл бұрын
I have heard that their is an underground party atmosphere at Liberty U. But , what the heck Jerry Falwell Jr. Sure didn't live biblical lifestyle.
@XStormieX3 жыл бұрын
@@Eugene384 lmao that’s for damn sure, one of my family members used to party with him so I always found it both disgusting and hilarious the things he preaches
@somedudeok14513 жыл бұрын
I hate the people who built the system you are describing here. This is abuse.
@sonja41643 жыл бұрын
Definitely abuse
@oliviawolcott83513 жыл бұрын
this used to be my life.
@michaeljames59363 жыл бұрын
They really don't know any better. Some are obvious money grabbing hucksters, but many believe that should they fail,personally, or allow their students to falter, an eternity of torture awaits. That's pretty motivating. It is still abuse, but done through ignorance, not malice.
@ghostagent35523 жыл бұрын
You can't really blame 'em, they were raised that way, if not then they believe that their beliefs were true, as a result, they strive to make others believe the same with them. All of us aren't that different.
@kinglyzard3 жыл бұрын
This dude is a joke on a yoke.
@EdwardHowton3 жыл бұрын
To which I simply respond: gay away the pray.
@polardiscoball3 жыл бұрын
What we are dealing with is not Christian principals instead it’s a cult and like all cults and extremest groups in history one of the things they focus on is hunting down heretics because it’s a way to enforce group think.
@EdwardHowton3 жыл бұрын
@@polardiscoball "What we are dealing with is not Christian principals instead it’s a cult" So we're not dealing with food, we're dealing with edible matter that provides nutrition to animals when consumed. Most people just call that food. Religions are all cults. They just happen to be puffed-up self-important cults that erroneously think they have some legitimacy.
@Solbashio3 жыл бұрын
this
@n3v3rm0r33 жыл бұрын
@@RobotNinjaDestroyer okay do would you like me to save you a seat.
@GnarlyRaePepsi3 жыл бұрын
What if I gay while pray
@ccs12293 жыл бұрын
I've often wondered how a biological need can be considered a sin. It's like God saying that it's a sin to..pee.
@ericsuarez3682 жыл бұрын
My theory is that rulers saw that people were dying of stds, then wrote that sex outside of marriage is a sin to keep deaths under control. You can't exactly keep people from having sex, but what you can do is make it a taboo subject and make it frowned upon. This explains other rules as well.
@LA-kg6zd2 жыл бұрын
You shall not pee!
@Forestfreud2 жыл бұрын
There’s a comedian who was a former member of Mother Teresa’s order of nuns. She said that in the order, they were told to hold their pee because peeing as soon as you felt the need was overly indulgent or something. In her standup set the woman said she got in trouble for responding to that order with “okay, just call me Sister Urinary Tract Infection!”
@philippk8183 Жыл бұрын
@@ericsuarez368 That is an interesting idea, never thought about that.
@SeasideDetective23 ай бұрын
Who enjoys peeing?
@stephaniesoraa3 жыл бұрын
"you're not in an environment that prioritizes education, you're in an environment that prioritizes that maintenance of specific beliefs." THIS
@Solbashio3 жыл бұрын
r/foundthereddituser
@suziwolf48303 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 ... except that modern biologists have not only demonstrated how it happened but have actually replicated the process. Unlike organic life, computer code doesn't change as a result of what system it's in. Side note: most of this audience is familiar with the concept of false equivalence, so I'm afraid attempting to use it here won't work very well.
@suziwolf48303 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 As I said, they demonstrated exactly how non-intelligent processes can do it. I, myself, am not a biologist, so you'll need to look up the precise details.
@suziwolf48303 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 I personally do not, but people with more knowledge and education on the subject do. I'm afraid the apologist trick of "you don't know everything so you can't know anything" won't work either, sorry
@gamersbest46013 жыл бұрын
@@suziwolf4830 he didn't reply I wonder why 🤣
@jimhayes51883 жыл бұрын
I too went to an Evangelical University, back in 1977-78. Everything you say was your experience was also mine, decades apart. Amazing how they refuse to learn from their mistakes.
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
These Schools are literally objectively harmful; maybe you call the following statement (even though i will phrase it as a question) as too extreme, but: Should the Goverment perhaps make these Schools illegal?!
@ViktorOddy3 жыл бұрын
I am now a second year student of an evangelical college, became an atheist 1 month ago, still in the closest and can relate to all that you've said
@dill_pickle_853 жыл бұрын
oof i wish you well. i remember being a closet non believer at a Christian middle school. its tough but life is so much better once you get out
@SlightlyDazed.3 жыл бұрын
@@dill_pickle_85 nice puffin
@laurenmiller48243 жыл бұрын
As someone who grew up in an Evangelical cult I give you my hope in getting out. Don’t give up fighting. Good luck, I know you can do this. (:
@ViktorOddy3 жыл бұрын
@Let's Talk About Movies jesus said to me that evangelicals are going to hell
@imsentinelprime92793 жыл бұрын
Give me your projects
@ryanpeters10053 жыл бұрын
Genetically Modified Skeptic, thank you so much! This video changed my life. Just a week or before this video was posted I finally came to terms with the fact I was bisexual. I was a deist at the time, but digging into Christian homophobia and pro-gay theology got me reading the bible and become a Christian again. This only lasted a few months though. When watching apologetics debate and answer questions, I found myself disagreeing with them, but I was still a believer. After watching enough Christian videos about why being gay is bad, your response videos to them started being suggested. I was skeptical of watching your videos once I found out you were an atheist, but the thumbnail and title for this one tickled my interest. I watched it, and it made me really realize just how absurd of a religion Christianity is and the crazy things otherwise reasonable people will do just to maintain faith in it. I later watched more of your stuff responding to homophobia, and although none of it made me an atheist, it got KZbin to recommend another channel, therimintrees, to me. The videos looked like responses to my own objections to the bible; after reading the Torah and Job, I concluded Yahweh is a narcissistic child to ridiculous to exist in the real world. The videos by therimintrees let me hear someone with the same conclusion talk, and I finally admitted that God is not real. Immediately after saying it out loud, I was filled with joy. Now for anyone who thinks life without God is unlivable and sad, I say, "try believing in a world with a god who took part in making a book that is responsible for literal millennia of your people being slaughtered. That's what being a Christian is like for me. I want you to look at my face and imagine it being bashed in with rocks because of what your so-called lord of love told desert wandering savages with eye-for-an-eye ethics to do. How dare you not only try to tell me there is a god who loves me so much he is willing to honor kill me for not satisfying his fetish for impregnations but also try to coax me into believing I deserve death and the only reason you haven't killed me yet is because your idol said to love your enemies. Your so-called morals are illusive and based upon primitive laws of iron-age, animal-sacrificing bafoons who would have killed you yourself for your race. Jesus was not the Israeli god of weather, Yahweh. Yahweh was never real. If you actually read the bible in context, Yahweh is absolutely a tyrant who would never love you unless he gets something out of it. The text is not divinely inspired. Your religion is a lie. Get over it." That was my rant I guess. If anyone actually read this far, thank you for reading. I may have gotten caught up in the heat of the moment there, but I just want to say ever since I left the religion, my life has been so much better. I'm the kind of guy who thinks that if I'm in a religion, I need to genuinely believe it. I genuinely believed in Yahweh for quite some time, and it was living hell. I find my story to be an example of how Abrahamic religions are demonstrably harmful to a great number of people.
@lallal4 ай бұрын
i found the rant a bit difficult to read but only a little bit there's a quote i particularly love that your third paragraph reminded me of: If a man, holding a belief which he was taught in childhood or persuaded of afterwards, keeps down and pushes away any doubts which arise about it in his mind, purposely avoids the reading of books and the company of men that call into question or discuss it, and regards as impious those questions which cannot easily be asked without disturbing it - the life of that man is one long sin against mankind.... "But," says one, "I am a busy man; I have no time for the long course of study which would be necessary to make me in any degree a competent judge of certain questions, or even able to understand the nature of the arguments." Then he should have no time to believe. William K. Clifford, 1874
@laurameszaros95473 жыл бұрын
Speaking as a Brit, it's almost inconceivable that stuff like this would be taught in UK universities.
@snsnplpl3 жыл бұрын
And that is why America will stop being a leader in technology. It's harder to get ahead when a certain percentage of the bright minds are sidelined. Or it may develop into a 2 tier system, the googles and microsofts will become their own little islands of science surrounded by seas of byebull thumpers. It's going to be interesting to see what happens in urban Texas as more companies relocate there and bring their corporate ideologies with them. The transplanted employees are not going to put up with attempts to teach intelligent design in public schools.
@notsosecretsnacker52183 жыл бұрын
You don't get taught much at UK universities anyway
@laurameszaros95473 жыл бұрын
@@snsnplpl I'm hoping the new scepticism will eventually become mainstream in the US, so maybe the outlook could be more optimistic than you suggest. In the UK almost half the population now identifies as "None" when asked about their religious affiliation, so it is pretty mainstream to have no religious beliefs. The problem we have here is with Islam, an increasing Muslim demographic, taking offense easily and demanding that modern ideas that contradict their beliefs be kept out of schools. The left sides with Islam - where it would NEVER side with conservative Christianity - so that compounds the difficulties.
@lomicwind3 жыл бұрын
Maybe you need to look closely. I guess it is far worse in USA, but I doubt there is nothing similar in UK, if so, good for UK ! In France we have religious schools but most of them lost a lot of traction and religion is loosing its grip, but for a long time those private and religious schools add a much better reputation. The level of the students was better on average. Even today, I have a few friends that are teachers in a college where teachers are required to be christians and to engage themself not to dispute religion in class. My son is in junior high school and religion is optionnal there, but when he was in grade school he had to attend some religious celebration where his teachers would ask him to sing during the mass. And they where very carefull to put the celebration between two lessons, not at the beginning of the day or the end, preventing students to arrive after or leave before the celebration. My son hated that. In junior high they put less stunts like this, and covid might have helped too lol. I am older obviously and been through those hoops too. Damn in my time it was not even "religious education" but rather catchism. Now at least the teacher is supposed to talk about all religion and not preach.
@laurameszaros95473 жыл бұрын
@@karolina.s2835 I honestly think that the crazy position the left are taking on this issue has something to do with it. There is simply not enough resistance to what is happening from the population generally - who is probably lukewarm and uninterested in religious matters - and the left actively sides with Islam, rushing to protect them when there is the slightest criticism.
@alaiterg3 жыл бұрын
In my (thankfully secular) school we have this tradition of a “marriage booth” at the back-to-school fair. Last year two girls got “married” and a Karen mom had a public freak out screaming that we would all burn in hell four our progressive ways and her son would no longer attend our school or some bs like that. It even got the “marriage booth” thing abolished, starting debates on the school newspaper, that’s how loud that asshat’s tantrum was.
@coreyswiatkowski15773 жыл бұрын
I left the church years ago and am only starting to realize the scars it left behind. Definitely subscribing. Thank you for this.
@PaulTheSkeptic3 жыл бұрын
Apparently, my life should be completely unmanageable as I spiral out of control and into a desperate abyss of depression, self loathing and drug abuse. It must piss them off to no end that I'm happier and healthier as an atheist.
@Kimnicpat3 жыл бұрын
Yep, ironically I'm in much better mental health now without formal religion than when I was thoroughly devoted to it.
@PaulTheSkeptic3 жыл бұрын
@@Kimnicpat Me too for sure.
@proculusjulius70353 жыл бұрын
Same for me. Happy as can be.
@maxwellorryn33803 жыл бұрын
They hate me cuz I follow the Norse gods and call Yahweh a woman
@PaulTheSkeptic3 жыл бұрын
@@maxwellorryn3380 Well, I guess those pagan gods are a lot better than the puritanical, blood junky from the Bible but I still think it's both incorrect and less healthy. Being free from all superstitious baggage is a good way to be. I'm not going to push it any harder unless prompted but that's my 2 cents anyway. Good luck.
@Fledor.3 жыл бұрын
As a gay man living in an atheist society, I've managed to avoid most everyday discrimination. But I have friends whom have had it much worse at the hands of religion, and it breaks my heart. I truly believe that videos like this are super important to LGBT people in religious spheres, and that they can help a lot. If nothing else, they give me tools so that I can try to help others. Keep up the good work.
@Fledor.3 жыл бұрын
@Kadyrbek Nurlybekov I'm from Sweden, but these friends I talk about mostly live elsewhere
@roems63963 жыл бұрын
Yes, there is a negative correlation between the Happiness Index and the religiosity of a country. The more religious a nation is, the lower it scores on the Index.
@nunyabiznes333 жыл бұрын
@@Fledor. Fight for what you have or it'll be taken away from you!
@sentientchessboard5953 жыл бұрын
@@xstatic-ow5mz you know he records thesse videos inside right?
@ForgedinPrint3 жыл бұрын
@@xstatic-ow5mz hes not wearing a mask because that is his home/building he owns or rents. Just because the camera is there doesnt mean theres a cameraman behind it. Hes alone in a place he owns or rents so if he wore a mask then he might as we wear one while asleep. Edit: stupid autocorrect turned or to ir.
@NichtcrawlerX3 жыл бұрын
To me as a "normal"-university student, what you are describing to me does not sound like a university, it sounds like a dangerous cult and I am absolutely terrified by the concept.
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
Okay..I am going to reveal to you 3 things that are about to happen, so when they happen..you know that God exist. These prophecies are written in the Bible. First the disappearance of many people [true believers] worldwide. Governments will attribute such disappearance to an alien abduction..it is not..do not be deceived..it was the rapture that took place where Jesus will save believers from the catastrophe that will come into the world. Iran, Turkey , Russia will attack Israel...the U.S will not help them. Israel will be on its own but not for long because God will intervene. You will be ruled by the anti christ. All countries will live as one nation ruled by the anti christ. There will be no buying nor selling for those whose faith is in Christ, for those who will refuse to worship the anti christ. When these happens..receive Christ as your Messiah..you can still be saved but you may have to sacrifice your life for the faith during the time of the anti christ..but stay strong in the Lord.
@crayolian2 жыл бұрын
@@mikeygarcia8271 lol sure bro
@TwoMonkeysInATrenchcoat3 жыл бұрын
ive honestly been scared to click on this video for a few months. I am an ex culist it hurts knowing I believed in such horrific ideology and practices.... and I know in the last 10 years, I am STILL unlearning and deprogramming, so it is scary to know there is a lot more. But I need to know, so I can continue to grow.
@o0Avalon0o3 жыл бұрын
When you're forced into church school, remain celibate because your parents promised to abandon you if you don't, then get constantly accused of being gay by the same people because they assumed you'd fail & need forgiveness...
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
This 'Jesus can turn you straigth' isnt just negativ, its outright disgusting. I encourage everyone to use the Report-System that KZbin provides, if you ever see content of any kind that promotes it. Aaaactually, i even promote just overall using the Flag-Button more, as literally not enough people do it, tbh. From Racism over P0rn to lil' spam-bots, i managed to get a flipping lot removed and I'm proud on it. If you want a Crash-Course and some Starting-Help, tell me.
@itsyoboiivan32553 жыл бұрын
And then they wonder why they are in a nursing home
@userequaltoNull3 жыл бұрын
@@slevinchannel7589 just because you don't like something doesn't mean you are justified in suppressing it. You are just as obsessed with purity as Evangelicals, you just favor Ideological purity rather than Religious purity.
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
@@userequaltoNull No, thats just your baseless assumption. I have no bias for or against Evangelics, in fact. In fact.
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
@@userequaltoNull You making stuff up about me is a Dissapointment for GMS and Me, if i may say so.
@lamegoldfish67363 жыл бұрын
I had 4 years at a christian university, and the longer I was there, the more I realized I was not a christian. It took me a few years before I considered myself an atheist, but I did eventually get there.
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
This may be off topic...but it is still relevant to you...Can I ask you something? Can a people become a nation again after having been dispersed in different parts of the world for more than two thousand years? And in the countries where they were exiled, they were the minority and were heavily persecuted. They were not allowed to secure jobs and were often expelled from their lands.. And throughout the ages, kings, queens, political and religious leaders tried to annihilate them...do you think they could survive as a people? Could they become a nation again and become a powerful force in the region shortly after they reestablish themselves in the land of their forefathers in the face of much opposition from neighboring countries, considering they are a small country, as small as New Jersey with the land mostly dessert, surrounded by enemies who wanted to annhilate them and with hardly any natural resources that even Mark Twain in his diary said that even a cactus was having a hard time to grow in this arid, bone dry and dessicated land ? What do you think?
@nighttime42723 жыл бұрын
9:40 : "Commitment to a belief regardless of what you learned is not an ideological strength, and when that commitment is required for the maintenence of a belief it's a sign that the belief is dependent on the believer's ignorance." I couldn't have put it better myself.
@gustavangerbjorn56013 жыл бұрын
Well, please define belief for me then. Almost everyone believes in some purpose or meaning. Very few atheists or theists would say that the things they see as meaningful in their life haven't changed during the course of their lives. Therefore, the argument is toothless, it applies to more or less no-one. Christians may express what they learned in the words of "I grew in my faith" while atheists might express it as "I became more aware", but it means the same thing. Both people's beliefs changed, both people changed their views on what is meaningful. The number of people that "commit" to a belief their entire lives is zero, not counting people with very short lives.
@nighttime42723 жыл бұрын
@@gustavangerbjorn5601 I think you didn't understand what he was trying to say. It's okay to believe a belief like "There is a god" and "There is no god" but if you believe it despite you can't dealing with arguments against it + you want that nobody will ask questions about that faith, then your faith is based on ignorance.
@gustavangerbjorn56013 жыл бұрын
@@nighttime4272 As far I as know, I understood the argument. What I’m saying is that is doesn’t apply to anyone. When someone presents their own way of thinking in a respectful way, people will listen. Obviously, no one will listen to you if you start of with saying ”everything you think is false”, because the person knows it isn’t completely false. And that is not ignorance, that is just common sense. And that’s ignoring the fact that everyone is not always in the mood to talk about everything.
@some-one-else3 жыл бұрын
@@gustavangerbjorn5601 It doesn't apply to anyone in the sense that no one can force themselves to never change their mind about anything. The point is that people will try to follow this to the best of their abilities and are being taught to, that's dangerous.
@gustavangerbjorn56013 жыл бұрын
@@some-one-else But people are just simply not taught that. Like I said, the argument is toothless, it’s not based upon reality
@JosieDrake19953 жыл бұрын
I did not attend a Christian university, but I did go to a private Christian school K-12. This school was also attached to the church my family attended (southern baptist). I’m 26 now but I’m still working to break down the ideas I was brainwashed to accept. Specifically, that I’m not deserving of love; it came as quite a shock to me how deeply I’d internalized this concept
@fogweaver56333 жыл бұрын
And Jesus said "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might. And love your neighbor as yourself. This is the whole of the Law and the Prophets." Guess your good Southern Baptist church wasn't too strong on the basics. Jesus said to love yourself. If you don't love yourself, how can you love others? If you don't take care of yourself, how can you take care of others? Or, in more secular terms, Who rescues the rescuers? Take care.
@JosieDrake19953 жыл бұрын
@@fogweaver5633 the manner in which I lacked self love sprouted from how I was taught to view humanity as depraved, loved by god despite our worthlessness. This was supposedly a good message, that first destroys your self image through sin. Our “sin” makes us sick, disgusting, worthless, and broken. Once you’ve internalized and believed this idea, you are ready for the hope that comes from a belief in a “loving” god. In the Christian faith (or at least my denomination) god loved us so much despite our sickening depravity that he was willing to save us. So in this sense, it’s a relief for Christians: I was disgusting but god still loved me. Once I quit believing in god, I apparently still believed that I was worthless, but I couldn’t move on to the next step: acceptance of god’s love because I no longer believed. I hope this explanation helped you realize that your comment did not address my actual experience. I suppose that you are a Christian who is willing to watch atheist videos so I choose to think you’re willing to learn and expand you understanding of other peoples experiences. What I don’t appreciate is how dismissive you were of my faith background, as if it wasn’t substantive enough to qualify as Christian, so I can’t actually be critical of faith because It wasn’t a true representation of how faith is lived. The church harmed me, and my faith kept me stuck in a toxic mindset. I reject organized religion and as for the actual Bible, my interpretation has led me to reject a belief in god as he would be the most cruel entity if he were real.
@Lilpumpkin505 Жыл бұрын
I hope you find your healing
@Jeanettesboxingchannel4 ай бұрын
You are deserving of love. Otherwise, God would not love you, and He does.
@timothymulholland79053 жыл бұрын
I quit church at an evangelical college. The more I learned about the religion, the less I believed.
@Stephh993 жыл бұрын
Same. Attending an evangelical college has radicalized me in my atheism in that I now actively dislike religion...not the outcome my parent was hoping for
@wilberwhateley75694 ай бұрын
Same here - I was the guy asking all sorts of uncomfortable questions regarding concepts like “free will” and “salvation” at Bible studies as I began to understand the implications of an omnimax deity in our universe: questions that no one could answer…
@xBLACKSTAR3 жыл бұрын
A school like that sounds like hell on earth. Pun intended.
@firewolf94933 жыл бұрын
And i'm fucking scared that my mother wants to put me in one of those, and the worst is that if a couple HOLD HANDS he would need to pay 4 hours of work into the university and if they kissed it was 12 and sex could result in expulsion.
@nighttime42723 жыл бұрын
It doesn't sound like hell, it is hell, and most schools in the world are hell too.
@Nx2.13 жыл бұрын
They seem obsessed and overly focused on sex too.
@firewolf94933 жыл бұрын
@@Nx2.1 Yes, because its a biological need and the more they repress it the more of a problem it will become to them.
@etlttc3533 жыл бұрын
I would definitely try to fuck with my teachers as much as possible of i were sent there
@WastedTalent833 жыл бұрын
its 100% true that education weaken your faith. When you learn how to use your brain, its a side effect, you actually get smart and start to ask questions :D
@dallasfaircloth8040 Жыл бұрын
Controversial opinion: Universities' such as the one Drew speaks of in this video should be illegal on the premise of brainwashing/ abuse
@shrekiscool47435 ай бұрын
They should be but they won't be, at least not in the US.
@davidstowers19643 жыл бұрын
Evangelical College is where you flunk by getting the questions right.
@sharonrigs79993 жыл бұрын
EC " education" is very similar to the "education" North Koreans receive . Just replace God and Jesus with Kim il Sung and Kim Jong il
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
Okay..I am going to reveal to you 3 things that are about to happen, so when they happen..you know that God exist. These prophecies are written in the Bible. First the disappearance of many people [true believers] worldwide. Governments will attribute such disappearance to an alien abduction..it is not..do not be deceived..it was the rapture that took place where Jesus will save believers from the catastrophe that will come into the world. Iran, Turkey , Russia will attack Israel...the U.S will not help them. Israel will be on its own but not for long because God will intervene. You will be ruled by the anti christ. All countries will live as one nation ruled by the anti christ. There will be no buying nor selling for those whose faith is in Christ, for those who will refuse to worship the anti christ. When these happens..receive Christ as your Messiah..you can still be saved but you may have to sacrifice your life for the faith during the time of the anti christ..but stay strong in the Lord.
@MP1977422 жыл бұрын
@@mikeygarcia8271 The Rapture happened years ago. You were left behind for cutting your beard and wearing mixed fabrics.
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
@@MP197742 When you see Russia, Iran and Turkey invading Israel...remember me.
@johnscaramis25152 жыл бұрын
@@mikeygarcia8271 You copy&paste the same sh*t here under variosu comments. So I assume you know for yourself that your "arguments" are BS and you have nothing that could convince people. So I guess you try to use the old trick: if something is repeated often enough then it will be true at a certain point. Like Matt Powell having an inflatable banana in his backyard. What's your inflatable object in the backyard?
@CorwinFound3 жыл бұрын
"Hate the sin, love the sinner," is about the most emotionally and intellectually dishonest thing that Christians say. It completely negates the identity of large swathes of people. I went to my sister Christmas eve service (before COVID) and got soooo angry. I was looking at their youth and thinking that at least 10% of those kids would grow up learning to hate part of who they are. I know my sister wants to do good and does do a lot of good. But it makes me nauseous thinking about the abuse the church hands out while calling it salvation.
@kinglyzard3 жыл бұрын
Tax this church today.
@dudep5043 жыл бұрын
"hate the sin, love the sinner" "Ok" "Also, murder everyone who doesnt believe in me" "Wait, that doesnt make sense tho" "Alright guys, he questioned me, kill him" "Oh"
@pureone83503 жыл бұрын
@@dudep504 Isn't that Islam?
@dudep5043 жыл бұрын
@@pureone8350 its the same, but islam doesnt hide it as much
@juanfumero69513 жыл бұрын
If you base your identity on sex brother, you are confused.
@KomodoMagic3 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for those students...
@TheDevler233 жыл бұрын
the first five minutes of this is why I left religion. This whole video described my private christian HIGH SCHOOL to the T. The full first ten minutes feels like you stepped back in time and described my high school years to me. The only difference is that our school didn't even acknowledge that gay people exist. Didn't talk about it. Didn't discuss conversion because "Gay" was something that happened to "other" people, not good christians. (Surprise, we had a trans student and multiple LGB students who came out in their late 20's). It's awful that universities do this to students. It was awful to have it done to me as a teenager, too
@iandean11123 жыл бұрын
As a gay former Baptist, I would always get the shit about being told that I need to fix myself. As a 14 and 15 year old when I came out.
@conroyfinnigan87313 жыл бұрын
The people who told you that are wrong. The scripture we read is correct. You are loved by God no matter who you are. That’s what the bible says
@harperbird10343 жыл бұрын
@@conroyfinnigan8731 I'm glad there are believers who accept people for who they are. A lot of the bigotry in my church caused me to seriously question things and, ultimately, become an atheist when I did research for myself. I don't know if I would have kept believing had I been in a more accepting environment, but I'm glad there are Christians who are accepting. It shows me that the fundamentalist Baptist church I grew up in is not "the only way."
@roems63963 жыл бұрын
@@conroyfinnigan8731 That isn’t true. There are MANY passages in the Bible that call homosexuality a detestable sin, and even that they should be killed for it, in some. The scripture you read isn’t “correct”. There is no correct interpretation of the Bible because you can use it to support almost ANY position. That’s because it completely contradicts itself constantly. There’s no reason to listen to any of it.
@conroyfinnigan87313 жыл бұрын
@@roems6396 ok this is a long conversation. I can’t go through the whole scripture in context . But, as a start , the law was made for the Hebrews . Also , Jesus took the law and completed it . If we go by the old law, then we say Jesus hasn’t done enough. No disrespect to you at all but I’m not sure how much you’ve read the scripture, in context.
@lamestudiosinc4183 жыл бұрын
@@conroyfinnigan8731 Mr. Finnigan believe what you want but the bible even after the old testament unambiguously condemns homosexuals. Unless you claim to know better than Paul what a Christian should believe you are wrong.
@jemborg3 жыл бұрын
"Evangelical University" sounds like an oxymoron.
@jemborg3 жыл бұрын
@@clutchthecinnamonsergal8493 ...with emphasis on the word "moron" 😁
@bobs1823 жыл бұрын
Where geology, biology, and cosmology die.
@imafuckingmesslol8713 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 murica, fuck yeah, im gonna move to an uninhabited island in the pacific ocean no-ow
@bobs1823 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 Computer coding is by definition not natural as natural is non human origin. We distinguish natural from not natural by whether it was of human origin or human intelligence origin. We know that DNA is natural because it isn't created by humans or a human like mind. You definitely have faith that an invisible super human like mind can exist without a brain and think/will complex entities into existence. Using your logic you have enormous faith that a super human like mind AKA god can exist without a creator. Imaginary beings can just exist without being logical.
@jemborg3 жыл бұрын
@Tyler B #2 prove to me that DNA _is_ created by a human like mind. The burdon-of-proof is on you since you are making the assertion. There is nothing to say DNA is _not_ a natural process. What laws of nature are broken? Research shows us a bottom-up universe not a top-down one. Complexity is just the result of the simple being repeated endlessly with variation. Staggeringly complicated is not excluded in nature under the right circumstances. It might be improbable but it isn't impossible. The universe is staggering in its vastness but it ain't hard to find a needle in a haystack if you're sitting on it. _And_ even if there _was_ a supernatural being involved... _SO WHAT?_ Who is anybody to say what it is, Christian or otherwise? And what questions does that then answer anyway... none. It is a non answer, an unproductive solution that explains nothing. Your "Human like mind"? ...sounds more like vanity and insecurity than insight.
@chemicaiiyimbalanced3 жыл бұрын
As someone who is still forced to go to a very conservative Christian Reformed Church, thank you for this video. It is like a breath of fresh air from all of the religious stuff I have to hear on a regular basis.
@alexistaylor84173 жыл бұрын
I got kicked out of a Christian uni.... for violating their "honor code" I cant even describe how insane that place was
@walterdaems573 жыл бұрын
If god existed there would be no need to prove his existence
@geoden3 жыл бұрын
You're right, but he doesn't so the believers lie like hell!
@walterdaems573 жыл бұрын
@Laygo Cole if you fall flat on your face, which in a way you did figuratively speaking posting this comment, you will experience gravity in all its might and there will be no god to help you back on your feet.
@EpicGamer4403 жыл бұрын
*religious god
@tottalynotmark8773 жыл бұрын
@Laygo Cole Except gravity is not intelligent all loving being that made hell for people that don't believe in gravity. If god was real and was all loving, wouldn't it be in his interest for us to believe in him. So why doesn't he give us evidence that he exists. Why doesn't he talk to us?
@wilberwhateley75694 ай бұрын
Or perhaps this “god” just doesn’t feel the need to interact with humans any more than humans feel the need to interact with the bugs on their front lawn…
@wayfa133 жыл бұрын
Oof, I know the feel, my parents raised me in this manner. At 36, I'm still battling to deal with that crap they forced down my throat.
@laurenmiller48243 жыл бұрын
Same. 27 here, still working out the trauma
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
This 'Jesus can turn you straigth' isnt just negativ, its outright disgusting... I encourage everyone to use the Report-System that KZbin provides, if you ever see content of any kind that promotes it. Aaaactually, i even promote just overall using the Flag-Button more, as literally not enough people do it, tbh... From Racism over P0rn to lil' spam-bots, i managed to get a flipping lot removed and I'm proud on it. If you want a Crash-Course and some Starting-Help, tell me.
@fogweaver56333 жыл бұрын
Talk back to the voices in your head. The trick is to find the correct rebuttal. I had a lot of toxic lines of my mother's running around in my head that I dealt with fairly easily, but the "Why can't you ever do anything right?" took a few years. Turned out the correct reply to that one was "Because I was born left-handed." That shut the b*tch up. Just negating what the voice says isn''t very succesful. Try spouting scripture back at it. If you half-remember a verse but not where it was, try Strong's Exhaustive Concordance online at www.biblestudytools.com/concordances/strongs-exhaustive-concordance/ My father had this in his library, and it never failed to help me find what I needed. Took a while sometimes though. Even found verses I didn't know existed.
@debrapaulino9183 жыл бұрын
It was conundrum for sure. There is liberty from it now yet new conundrums have been created.
@uncleanunicorn45713 жыл бұрын
In my upbringing , I found myself afraid of scientific papers, especially about evolution, until I realized the folly of fearing knowledge
@dennissmith10723 жыл бұрын
As someone who is currently deconstructing my own faith, I appreciate videos like this, if only to be reminded that I'm never alone.
@metademetra3 жыл бұрын
"Don't worry, even though you aren't worthy of love, God still loves you" On the inside, this is framed as the sweetest, most righteous statement ever. On the outside, this is the language of abuse. I don't know how else to describe making autonomous adults think their biological feelings are dirty and evil but abuse. To think I almost subjected myself to this, but stopped after I saw the graduation rate (10%) and decided I wasn't willing to call my grandma a bad person (she's married to another woman) just to stay in school. In hindsight that might have been my best life decision.
@NotesFromAutumn3 жыл бұрын
"I can get it right this time!" You say as you try to make your life fit into a narrative that was never true to begin with, and when you fail again you blame yourself instead of the lie. We were gaslit.
@pilaracevedo20783 жыл бұрын
Thank you. We weren't stupid, we were brainwashed and abused
@deductivereasoning42573 жыл бұрын
When I see comments like this, I can only laugh as no teachers were ever able to influence me to see them as anything more than strangers that worked as teachers...
@alexndg52603 жыл бұрын
@deductive reasoning you sound like a high school kid with low self esteem
@Khymeira3 жыл бұрын
@@deductivereasoning4257 Edgy.
@alexndg52603 жыл бұрын
@@deductivereasoning4257 One of those people who's oddly proud of not being able to learn anything
@DeadPool-fx3sq3 жыл бұрын
Commenting for the algorithm is a good idea, saw someone else do it. Will be taking that and using it
@darthdookuvader1633 жыл бұрын
That’s a good idea. This should be a “help my algorithm” chain
@DeadPool-fx3sq3 жыл бұрын
@@darthdookuvader163 yeah. Let's start it up. Call your friends
@DeadPool-fx3sq3 жыл бұрын
@@darthdookuvader163 I'll call Hugh and Logan
@darthdookuvader1633 жыл бұрын
@@DeadPool-fx3sq I’ll call kylo, palatine and revan
@stevyd3 жыл бұрын
I'm so thankful that beyond having 2 atheistic grampas, my father was more interested in laying cement and brickwork around our house than take us to church, and my mom who would say, "well if he won't go, I'm not taking them alone."
@sidstovell21772 жыл бұрын
Very nice!! Good chuckle.
@Rapscallion2273 жыл бұрын
Commenting for algorithm
@andrewneild20743 жыл бұрын
All hail the algorithm!
@fedmusicat3 жыл бұрын
answer for the algorithm god, the one andonly god of youtube
@randomname67103 жыл бұрын
great point made lol
@patrician10823 жыл бұрын
glory to algorithm
@randomname67103 жыл бұрын
@@patrician1082 I'm not sure if i agree with that but i respect your opinion.
@anthonybeard32383 жыл бұрын
This very closely mirrors the beliefs and experiences at my private Christian elementary/high school. I eventually came to these same conclusions myself, but you’ve expressed them extremely well here-especially the abuse cycle that these beliefs depend upon to survive. There’s no way I could have said it better myself.
@martawatermanfitnesscoach2 жыл бұрын
Wow, so true. I graduated from a bible college years ago, and by my last year was having some very serious questions. A couple days before graduation, all the seniors were handed a one page document listing 13 points of doctrine, and we had to sign it to graduate. At that point I was not down with those beliefs, and had to ask myself, do I sign this when I don't believe it and throw away all my years of diligent work, or do I refuse to sign so that I would be completely honest. After only a few minutes, I said the hell with it and signed the damn paper. The college had no right to steal my years of hard work. I have never regretted that decision.
@melaniewilson17423 жыл бұрын
Omg the "How did what you learned make you closer with God?" question is something I was put through at my Catholic high school several times. It was in stark contrast to the rest of what we did, which was generally pretty secular and thought-provoking.
@FREAKE_DJ3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about this kind of stuff Drew, I deconverted from Christianity about a year ago and I've still got a couple years left at my very Christian university, where I'm having to hide it and it's a very lonely experience - your videos help me so much, I'm really grateful for them
@theskepticalskeptic13513 жыл бұрын
Wasn't an Evangelical (I was raised Catholic) but I remember so well how I felt so much guilt over having normal sexual urges.
@yachishairclips22503 жыл бұрын
So true!! Born as catholic but schooled as a Protestant.. And I could remember the times when the boys are being charged guilty of sin when they masturbate... And that one time.. They called out a couple since the girl got pregnant and made them publically apologize..
@georgejob75443 жыл бұрын
That,s how religion effects control! I was born a Presbyterian, now free I am a Humanist !
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
This may be off topic...but it is still relevant to you...Can I ask you something? Can a people become a nation again after having been dispersed in different parts of the world for more than two thousand years? And in the countries where they were exiled, they were the minority and were heavily persecuted. They were not allowed to secure jobs and were often expelled from their lands.. And throughout the ages, kings, queens, political and religious leaders tried to annihilate them...do you think they could survive as a people? Could they become a nation again and become a powerful force in the region shortly after they reestablish themselves in the land of their forefathers in the face of much opposition from neighboring countries, considering they are a small country, as small as New Jersey with the land mostly dessert, surrounded by enemies who wanted to annhilate them and with hardly any natural resources that even Mark Twain in his diary said that even a cactus was having a hard time to grow in this arid, bone dry and dessicated land ? What do you think?
@mikeygarcia82712 жыл бұрын
Okay..I am going to reveal to you 3 things that are about to happen, so when they happen..you know that God exist. These prophecies are written in the Bible. First the disappearance of many people [true believers] worldwide. Governments will attribute such disappearance to an alien abduction..it is not..do not be deceived..it was the rapture that took place where Jesus will save believers from the catastrophe that will come into the world. Iran, Turkey , Russia will attack Israel...the U.S will not help them. Israel will be on its own but not for long because God will intervene. You will be ruled by the anti christ. All countries will live as one nation ruled by the anti christ. There will be no buying nor selling for those whose faith is in Christ, for those who will refuse to worship the anti christ. When these happens..receive Christ as your Messiah..you can still be saved but you may have to sacrifice your life for the faith during the time of the anti christ..but stay strong in the Lord.
@theskepticalskeptic13512 жыл бұрын
@@mikeygarcia8271 Give me a time frame, because you sound like you are talking out of your ass. How soon? What if 50 years passes and none of those, or just one of those things happens? People have been making predictions about the second coming for millennia, and they never come true. It’s the boy who cried wolf. But I will screenshot this comment with a note saying to never delete it. I’ll get back to you in 50 years.
@Shiny_Hunter_Rob3 жыл бұрын
I had to do a double-take at 5:11. When confronted with students who think they're not worthy of love, the people in the university would reaffirm those thoughts? That's super messed up...
@victorvelie39803 жыл бұрын
yeah that really fucks with me too. My sister would talk that way when I would talk to her about these things, literally saying that you don't deserve love but God loves you anyway
@ryankelley95722 жыл бұрын
I still consider myself a believing catholic but have startinf falling away from my faith recently due to me being gay and getting a boyfriend. I recently stumbled upon your channel and it sounds like I’m goin through a similar thought process as you
@ChristianF15cher2 жыл бұрын
I’m bisexual and a former Catholic. I support whatever decision you make.
@michaeljames59363 жыл бұрын
Christian scientific method..."Do not put the Lord your God to the test".
@nicoledreamcr46663 жыл бұрын
In other words don't try to find proof for God's existence 😅
@arindamsur6263 жыл бұрын
In other words, don't use common sense
@chrisinnes21283 жыл бұрын
Nor at all
@yachishairclips22503 жыл бұрын
True!! This is truly preached in a lot of churches
@matthewkopp23913 жыл бұрын
What the Bible actually says is "Test all things; hold fast what is good." 1 Thessalonians 5:21 People test doctrine and reject it because it's not good.
@stevendurrant17243 жыл бұрын
Our Lord never said 'don't have sex'. But he did say to sell everything we have and give it to the poor. Did the pious teachers ever get round to that bit? I havent, but I'm not some blasphemous wretch claiming to know the mind of God and Christ.
@budd2nd3 жыл бұрын
No one knows the “mind” of any god. That’s the whole problem, preachers pretend that they do. But they are just deluding themselves.
@nyhyl3 жыл бұрын
But still you claim to know the know the existence of something you have only ready and heard about in a book among many other books.
@budd2nd3 жыл бұрын
@@nyhyl Who are you talking to?
@stevendurrant17243 жыл бұрын
@@nyhyl my beliefs are mine, and you don’t know how I came by them. What separates me from these evangelists, and possibly you, is that I don’t expect others to share my faith beliefs, nor would I seek to impose them on others.
@dakunssd3 жыл бұрын
@@stevendurrant1724 Cool dude. Then I don't think you'd mind just keeping that whole comment you just posted to yourself? Since, y'know, you don't "seek to impose them on others", and therefore no one needs to know about them, especially since no one asked.
@spaceman0814473 жыл бұрын
At an evangelical university, I wonder how they teach sujects such as astronomy, cosmology, physics, chemistry, biology, genetics, archaeology, paleontology, anthropology, etc.
@oscargr_3 жыл бұрын
God created the planets, god set the universe in motion, god wrote the laws of physics, god created the elements to fit the periodic table, god created every animal kind and humans after his own image... You get the drift.
@PedroPiquero3 жыл бұрын
It is as @Oscar Gr says. I´ve not been on an evangelical university, but I grew up near an evangelical theological centre. And I had to contain myself when I saw a "PhD in biology" telling everyone that evolution is a lie and the real scientific theory is intelligent design.
@yourbuddy65563 жыл бұрын
The good thing is, you'll never fail the exam. Whatever the question is, just write "God knows the answer".
@arcturus47623 жыл бұрын
@@PedroPiquero The thing is, you can't finish proving either. So whoever says that either intelligent design or biological evolution are scientific facts is dead wrong. There's a reason why they're called theories.
@PedroPiquero3 жыл бұрын
@@arcturus4762 to say that is to admit you don't have a clue what science is about. Or are you just trolling here?
@chaz33453 жыл бұрын
This is such a worthwhile message. Subscribed just for this. Attended a similar university. Got an actually decent education in engineering but found myself questioning by sophomore year and fully agnostic by junior year. Was an absolutely gut-wrenching process wherein I had countless conversations with professors, counselors, other students and staff etc. etc. The interaction I'll never forget was from a former student who majored in business, went to work for an investment firm for 3 years and was "deeply troubled" by "the secularism of our society and of the world of finance" and came back to work for the university managing student accounts. For lack of better term he tried to "talk me out of" my new-found skepticism. He kept asking "what is it really that makes you not want to believe anymore". I gave him probably 6 or 7 different answers, each one getting more and more fundamental before I finally settled on answering "I prefer thinking over believing". After a long pause he said probably the most impactful thing I've ever heard; "You know, if I was going to miss out on the paradise of heaven in God's kingdom because of just one thing, I'd have to question if that thing is really worth doing." I stared at him for probably thirty seconds in disbelief. I'm much happier now that I graduated and don't have to attend mandatory church services three times a week.
@Skythikon3 жыл бұрын
"If a set of beliefs is true, it can withstand scrutiny on all angles" oh dear
@emeraldglow91953 жыл бұрын
I can't even imagine what trans or gnc students at these institutions have to go through
@GeneticallyModifiedSkeptic3 жыл бұрын
For real. I never met anyone who said they were trans at my university, which I don’t take to mean that there were no trans people there, but rather that the environment was so hostile that no one dared to come out. This is why videos like these need to be made. I can’t imagine how terrifying it would be to go there as a trans person.
@idontknowwhatmyusernamesho55403 жыл бұрын
Does Gnc mean gender non conforming? Can someone explain this to me, what does it mean to not want to be or not feel like a certain/any gender if you know what I mean, like how does a gender ‘feel’? Genuinely asking, not being a dick
@bysonharrison13953 жыл бұрын
"trans person" lol....if they didn't transition then they aren't trans...just fantasizing
@benzenefire3 жыл бұрын
@@bysonharrison1395 if you aren’t even gonna try to have empathy, why are you on this channel?? I don’t remotely understand gender either, but you can’t just use that as an excuse to dismiss trans people and all that they go through
@bysonharrison13953 жыл бұрын
@@benzenefire you say you don't understand gender....well don't assume that I don't because I do. And facts don't care about feelings so go be an empath in your safe space snowflake.
@davidwood87303 жыл бұрын
I can only imagine what Biology class was like.
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
These Schools are literally objectively harmful; maybe you call the following statement (even though i will phrase it as a question) as too extreme, but: Should the Goverment perhaps make these Schools illegal!
@gabykiwolewawolewawooioi99_88g3 жыл бұрын
Hi, I just really want to thank you, you've really helped me with my process of understanding that since I was a kid I've been lied to with all of this religion thing, This has been a liberating and also painful process but I'm gradually regaining my self-esteem back, and making peace with how much I like to make questions and be critical of ideas without caring about the judgment of christians close to my life and without being scared to death about burning eternally in a giant pool of fire. THANK YOU SO MUCH.
@attesmatte3 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for kids growing up in that toxic environment... 😕
@OnIslandProductions3 жыл бұрын
As an ex-christian that actually attended one of these colleges you hit every nail on the head!
@jaredtweed78263 жыл бұрын
As a current Christian, I agree. Too many universities seem so afraid of opposing viewpoints that they don't accept people who struggle with faith or deny it, one of many things they were called to do. They seem to expect you to act like them without adapting to the people around them. I really don't like when Christian institutions do some of these things. However, I thankfully went to a Bible School (post-secondary) that didn't do these things and even accepted some atheists as well.
@OnIslandProductions3 жыл бұрын
@@jaredtweed7826 evangelical Christians could not consider you a "True Christian"
@jaredtweed78263 жыл бұрын
@@OnIslandProductions I disagree. Maybe a subset of protestant Christians that I have never met would think that I am not a Christian. I do know of many people and organizations who implement the things mentioned in this video. But the (church-going) Christians that I know personally, generally agree with me. Remember, I went to a literal Bible School that thinks the same way I do as well. It might be a regional thing. I have met Christians that think like me in British Columbia, Alberta, California, Germany, and Minnesota (I don't know many from Minnesota).
@arcturus47623 жыл бұрын
@@OnIslandProductions On the contrary, he's more of an accurate Biblical Christian than these institutions. I still don't get why people try to turn Christianity into an institution, when the entire basis or the religion is the personal relationship you have with God, not through an institution or a church, like many churches or Catholics say. There's entirely valid ways to debate a lot of things, but outright censoring them isn't one of them
@hoptians87853 жыл бұрын
student : so, you turned straight because of christ christopher yuan : well yes, but actually no
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but grammar?
@junglerat72472 жыл бұрын
I don't know the guy but it's at least admirable that he answered that question honestly even if it doesn't follow the narrative he was supposed to be there to promote.
@wilberwhateley75694 ай бұрын
Yes… No… Maybe… Uh, can I buy a vowel?
@allhailthesqloint3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this sounds so similar to my primary school I attended growing up. I was there for ten years and everything we learned had to have some connection to god, it was ridiculous. We were discouraged from free-thinking and simply instructed to blindly believe - it was insane. I literally didn't even meet an atheist until I was fourteen. My school was also in full support of bullying atheists and explained to us that to respect an atheist was to betray Jesus. They also explained to us the moral good of conversion therapy and when we had our first lesbian couple at school, our teachers forced them to break up as they were setting a bad example for other students, and who they were was plain disgusting and defies the laws of our god. My religious school experience was so tragically toxic that I honestly think all religious-based schools and universities should be illegal. These schools are indoctrinating young children and refusing to allow them to think independently. It needs to stop.
@quinnrafferty46353 жыл бұрын
I have cousins who go to Pensacola. Staff apparently reads your mail there.
@Kimnicpat3 жыл бұрын
Do they still segragate the sexes in the cafeteria and sidewalks?
@independentfundamentalathe63333 жыл бұрын
I’m currently attending PCC and the rules have relaxed slightly since under new management. PCC still monitors WIFI traffic and can call a meeting with you if they notice something suspicious. Nevertheless, I’m searching for truth into my beliefs and I’m so glad I found Andrew’s channel!
@anythingspossible13 жыл бұрын
I feel so lucky that only some members of my family tried to covert me as a kid. By the time they figured out I wasn’t going to believe I got a lot less interesting to them.
@vincegonzalez21713 жыл бұрын
Once they found out that you were a heathen, you mean! Actually had a similar thing. My mom's side is very religious, and when I was very young, my aunt got us Christmas gifts that were these horrible Jesus dolls that had little scrolls with scripture.... My dad absolutely tore her a new one and threw them away.
@dravonwalker23522 жыл бұрын
I love how centered, rational, and calm you are during your videos - no matter the topic. It adds a lot of weight to your presentation and I for one greatly appreciate that! Thank you.
@sleepninja23503 жыл бұрын
Dude I really appreciate your videos. I was forced into religion at a young age and I have a lot of negative experiences from that time. I’m an atheist now, and I’m still processing through a lot of my childhood bullshit. I really appreciate your consistently caring and logical breakdown of topics like these. I find your videos a powerful tool to help process my religious trauma. Thank you for sharing yourself online.
@nikospido30003 жыл бұрын
Second. I love your videos, it's inspired me to be myself and stand up for me and others
@lauraw3533 жыл бұрын
My husband and I met at Oral Roberts University. We look back at our time there and cringe. We had chapel twice a week, required religion classes regardless of major, weekly devotional meetings, dorms segregated by sex, curfew at midnight, signed a pledge each semester that confirmed many evangelical beliefs about sex, alcohol, etc, and a general culture of basically living at church camp. I’m both comforted and horrified that I’m not alone in this.
@roems63963 жыл бұрын
So they robbed you of your fun partying college years?!? That’s almost as bad as the brainwashing in general.
@fionafiona11463 жыл бұрын
@@roems6396 people neglecting covid precautions did that to plenty additional students.... I am so embarrassed by my governments failure
@roems63963 жыл бұрын
@@fionafiona1146 How is that the government’s failure? Do you mean the school’s governing body?
@fionafiona11463 жыл бұрын
@@roems6396 government as the ultimate authority over schools, requiring them open
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
This 'Jesus can turn you straigth' isnt just negativ, its outright disgusting. I encourage everyone to use the Report-System that KZbin provides, if you ever see content of any kind that promotes it. Aaaactually, i even promote just overall using the Flag-Button more, as literally not enough people do it, tbh. From Racism over P0rn to lil' spam-bots, i managed to get a flipping lot removed and I'm proud on it. If you want a Crash-Course and some Starting-Help, tell me.
@paintbrush35543 жыл бұрын
The first was so true for me n I wasn't even at a Christian School. Not gonna lie, the depression this sent me in along with educating myself on science and archeology led me out of Christianity. Thankfully I'm not depressed anymore
@fresanegra773 жыл бұрын
Happy for you getting over depression :)
@parkermorris36353 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. Really validated my experiences at a private evangelical christian university and I feel much less alone.
@kaylaandjimbryant82583 жыл бұрын
Thanks for recognizing the prevalence of clinical depression in the evangelically taught secondary school crowd
@Jarige2 Жыл бұрын
"If a set of beliefs is true, it can withstand scrutiny from any and all angles. There's no reason to be concerned that our beliefs may be challenged throughout our education if our beliefs are true" I agree wholeheartedly. It was the main reason why I started investigating Christianity thoroughly. And I threw away a lot of things that I grew up with in the process. I'm still a Christian though. I found out that if I were honest with myself, I wouldn't have thrown away Christianity because of Christianity, I would have thrown it away because of Christians. When I started investigating Christianity, I found out many things that I wouldn't have known if it were for my education. I simply started educating myself despite the "don't ask questions, trust God" attitude I got from some Christians. And boy I learned. The Bible contains errors, the Bible contains contradictions, there's parts of the Bible that we do not know the author of. There's parts of the Bible that were later additions. I learned a whole lot that I never knew, but if I were honest with myself, none of these things had any bearing on whether the account in the Bible is true or not. It didn't mean as much for it. And today, I consider myself an educated Christian, free for all kinds of ideas about how the earth and animals came to be. I accept the Big Bang, I accept evolution, be it theistic evolution. And I'm still educating myself further such that I may change my mind if new evidence contradicts with my current views. I really, really dislike the anti-education and sometimes anti-thinking view that some Christians seem to have. Christians really underestimate the value of an analytic mind and I have plans to educate the people in my church such that they start to think critically about their beliefs, like I did. Public education and science started from churches and Christians for crying out loud, where on earth did we go wrong?
@glentaylor713 жыл бұрын
I could tell this was an emotional topic for you to cover. I'm sorry you had to go through that. You moved me to realize some of the dissonant indoctrination from my own childhood.
@olive4naito3 жыл бұрын
I think everyone experiences this in a church environment to some degree except at this "evangelical university" they can monitor you more closely over an extended period. It's like a four year daycare for young adults. The side effect is that it keeps young adults in an adolescent mindset. They don't develop emotionally as they normally would because they're told that sexual maturity until marriage is wrong. This can also lead to a great deal of emotional trauma. Back when everyone got married in their teens, chastity may have made sense to some degree because it was only a short time before marriage. But not many people attended highschool let alone university. Now that people don't marry until their mid 20s or 30s, it could be quite damaging to delay normal adult stage development until marriage.
@slevinchannel75893 жыл бұрын
@@olive4naito These Schools are literally objectively harmful; maybe you call the following statement (even though i will phrase it as a question) as too extreme, but: Should the Goverment perhaps make these Schools illegal?!
@eeveegon3 жыл бұрын
The way I see it, religion is totally acceptable in any situation until your religion starts hurting others (including yourself), whether or not you know them personally. Once that line is crossed, that religion becomes unacceptable.
@akiraholland4572 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on the religion. Christianity should not be practice cuz its pro genocide
@eeveegon2 жыл бұрын
@@akiraholland457 it’s pro genocide? I mean I know it mentions genocide numerous times in the Bible, but jeez
@lallal4 ай бұрын
@@eeveegon it's also pro slavery, you see i had the same logic once but i became a lot less tolerant when i thought that believing in any religion at all is hurting yourself, since they're not real, the same way that a kid believing 1+1=3 is damaging to them
@Josiah_Cornett3 жыл бұрын
I definitely grew up in a culture of being afraid of education in a sense. Afraid that it would cause me to lose my faith. The funny part was, by that point, I had lost whatever faith I ever had nearly 6 years before that, when I was 12. My parents and people from my church just didn’t know that. At one point, I told my mom that I had signed up for a philosophy class. She didn’t like that. To her, philosophy was dangerous and a very secular class. She told me she didn’t want me taking it, and I told her that if Christianity was correct, I should be able to take philosophy and still believe in it. The truth shouldn’t be afraid of education. Remarkably, she agreed and was fine with me taking it 😂 That class really helped me shape my views on things. I layed a lot of groundwork for skepticism that semester. It was great! So, in a way my mom was right. Lol
@wildfyrefamily5733 жыл бұрын
I attended a Southern Baptist college in TN back in the late 70s-early 80s and my experiences mirrored yours closely. I was even on a track to become a Baptist minister. However, it was my experiences there, and my interactions with my fellow ministerial and other students which drove me further and further from belief. As I tried and failed to remain celibate, and struggled with my failures, I was faced with the expectation that I would maintain the great illusion when I was asked to be a guest speaker at religious services or to lead prayers. I found myself publicly condemning the activities I and my female partners (I was straight) were engaged in from the pulpit, while guiltily hiding those activities from public view. Even then I had a high sense of ethics so I simply stopped speaking on certain things in order to, at some level, not become a hypocrite. The problem was, that I knew other guys, who could cheerfully have sex on Saturday night with one young lady and another on Sunday morning and 2-3 hours later, with a straight face to boot, stand in front of a congregation and wail convincingly about the evils of lusting and fornicating. After 3 years of this I had had enough and I walked away. I went to church for a couple more years but as I witnessed hypocritical pastor after hypocritical deacon after hypocritical "church lady" I eventually left the church, and with the exception of tours of great cathedrals and the like have not set foot in a church in nearly 40 years.
@Jenn-lq9yu3 жыл бұрын
It's interesting to listen to your experience with Evangelical universities. I went to a Catholic Private School when I was in High School, and it was a rather dramatically different situation in my High School. We were required to attend Mass once a week and we did have a religion class each year, but rather notably, our religion teacher generally encouraged us to explore other ideologies and religions and to make up our own minds on what we believed. It was precisely what a religious school should be - we present you with information and you make up your own mind. It was even common knowledge in my High School that only about 32% of the student population was Catholic, and only about 51% of the school population were Christian in any sense of the word. Nearly half the School either believed in a different religion, were agnostic, or flat out atheistic. This was never brought up as a negative point by any of the school staff, and not participating in the communion during Mass was an entirely acceptable thing. At one point in my religion class, one semester was even devoted to comparative religion studies and we were simply required to give a presentation on the basic tenants and history of any world religion we wanted to. Unfortunately, that High School has since closed due to a lack of enrolment, but it was really a refreshingly different environment from what I hear is the typical environment at most Christian schools.
@smcsavage3 жыл бұрын
I am probably twice your age, but I feel a great deal of connection to your experiences. I was raised in the Bob Jones Evangelical faith and appreciate your videos so much. Totally accidental meeting here youtube.❤️