Yes the US culture teaches you to be Self sufficient and independent and that’s a good thing but we should also continue to teach them their culture. The kids who visit Ethiopia or see how people are do care more than others. Great topic!
@lovepower1440Ай бұрын
Yes, we expect alot from our children.... like as we believe in education we pay alot for university and high education, the one who afford, then we expect alot too much from our kids 😮, we have to change , let the kids be kids .... let's guide them to be honestly happy and find there way, let's pray for them and advise them to walk hand in hand with Alah/ God/ universe ✨️. So many youngsters are committing suicide due to pressures from parents, family, society. Let them find there way , let them be who they are while we have a close relationship with them. Let's wake up as a parent 🙏🏾
@yenazarethlije558Ай бұрын
Especially habsha parents the most crazy ppl.
@tesfalemyohannes6091Ай бұрын
No , We aren’t crazy perhaps we are in dilemma & dilution’s totally different.but give to receive also if u don’t have from where u give ? So this is America land of Capitalism & land of opportunity so instead of arguing with family & live in nightmare have your vision & dream & live practice then dreams take you & find yourself in the middle of big company & corporate as well in the middle of White House. “ seek ye first The kingdom of God ,The rest shall follow you “
@tesfalemyohannes6091Ай бұрын
I agree with what you are saying but I believe that positive pressure is important and vital so that are kids can be focused and disciplined for the better of their lives. If there isn’t pressure then they will be lazy and always expecting parents to give them milk like a baby. We have to give them pressure to be able to crush bones. Remember this is the land of Capitalism and the Land of America. Even though there are opportunities, we have to be more competitive to become a winner. Seek the Kingdom of God and the rest shall follow you!
Thank you so much for bringing the issue for discussion and for sharing your experiences. I agree with your opinions. We don't have to expect something we did not do. Raising children free is not civilization, but it has its own negative consequences on attitudes and social life. As a habesha, please let us not leave our traditions and ways of raising children.
@elzabethasfaw3080Ай бұрын
ሀሳቡ ትክክል ነው ግን ነጮች ጥቁሮች አትበይ just የዚህ አገር ሰው በይ
@abrhamease6175Ай бұрын
What is the big deal we call each other amhara (Injra ) tigri( anbsha ) oromo ( genfo) gurga ( kitifo ) why you are sensitive you sound triga
According my understanding I don’t expect from my children,if we live in America We have to live as Americans forget about help if they are successful & paying their bills it’s more than enough.😅
So the solution is give them love, momy should be around the house all the time till they grow up and tell them they have to do it back when their parents are old. If it is in their mind they will do it.
Yordye Endet nesh ene lejen yeweldkut Lebanon new ahun wede U.S moved adergen ena Timert bet ke lechech ga lesmam alchalem lije batam friendly new Ezi demo endalshiw abro mechawet share madreg bezum yelem ena betam eyetchegre new ezi hager I feel really bad about it.
@Yordanosbeyene512Ай бұрын
I know yemer kebad new eyekoye yelemdewal gen baheriwen mulu bemulu wedenesu endaykeyer anchim Erjiw sikoye esum lej selehone yehegnawen new follow yemiyadergew
@TarikuaSleshi-jz8nuАй бұрын
@@Yordanosbeyene512 Eshi enat Amesgnalew, 5 ametu new still kenega neber mitegnaw ene negn mabelaw beka seraye esun mekebakb becha neber endalshiw yehone neger kelkyew betam sialekes ayaschlegm yesedet lije yemejemeriye new ena betam new misasalet gena and werachin new ezi yelelebtn bari new ke temrt bet tedwlo mesmaw becha betam yikebdal 😢
Most habsha kids born and raised American useless nachwe 🙄🙄🙄
@tesfamariambahta5660Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@saidibrahim6997Ай бұрын
I American kids if they take care of them self better than aly thing they offered me
@bekelegutema7875Ай бұрын
Black & Spanish born kids for tax & retirement back up. However, the system doesn't allow you to be supported by your kids at retirement. Therefore, don't expect too much from your kids.