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I AM WOMAN | Season 2: Episode 3
In Episode 3, Michi Marshall, Kijafa Vick, Aja Crowder, Sharelle Rosado and Alexis Welch give there take on what it takes to make a bended family work. Sharelle opens up and shares what has worked for her and Chad “OchoCinco” Johnson’s blended family. She believes that communication plays a major role in it’s success and gives first hand advice to others in similar situations. Kijafa shares here perspective and stresses the importance of women “letting go” in relationships to be able to begin putting the children and family first.
The conversation shifts as the women share if they would date a man with children from a previous relationship in they were single.
Chef Tre joins in and serves up “Brookies” for the cast while giving his personal take on blended families and dating women with children from previous relationships.
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[@ImTriggerHappyCOD]

As a male viewer I feel like a fly on the wall every episode getting insights on the female mind. Love it

[@cremoyagard9008]

I would double like if I could. Nuff Respect!!

[@Kay-tz7ve]

I am a female and love hearing their view point and at times learning from the ladies. I watch I Am Athlete with the males and agree it’s good to get their insight/perspective. One of the best podcasts that discuss real life and not filtered.

[@davidornelas7864]

Same..

[@MadMax-ui3tw]

you described this shit perfectly

[@lrrussellrussell8227]

I think that’s great, what are you learning ☺️🤔

[@OptimisticKTV]

Sharelle is so mature that’s a boss right there! I lovvvveee how she carries herself and how she doesn’t let the nonsense get in the way!

[@Prettypiscesgyal]

I really love what Sherelle contributes to this group. Military perspective changes your world view.

[@ms.candace3962]

I love how Sharrelle is so open this season. Michi needs to come out of her shell. She asks the question but never answers them personally. She’s very PC with her answers.

[@desdottcom]

Agree!

[@cccuevas89]

Remember these women also have private life's and the husband have somewhat of an influence on what can be shared and what can't

[@tahitiantreatskeetjuice23]

All of them have kept it PC on this show; at one point or another. Mainly because theyre married Women. Theres guidelines that u follow when u get to that stage in life. If you wanna hear all the "dirty secrets" u need to look at vids full jump offs, who will never be married or even in a strong relationship....lol. i mean, i too would like all of them to open up, but i still understand the reason why they dont full open up

[@chrisnor6878]

Agreed

[@15SilverSurfer15]

More skeletons you know how it goes with these ladies

[@tosha904]

Kijafa you rock sis!!! I almost teared up hearing about your son's experience. I completely agree with your perspective and have done research for years on this. Sherelle you're glowing!!

[@AshleyRaeTV]

Me too! I love her.

[@SunshineKK99]

It is well known a lot of those shots messed up kids. My son had issues too because of vaccines.

[@maja3705]

I absolutely LOVE Sharelle and Alexis! They’re funny, bring so much perspective, and they keep it real! Great show ladies!

[@jenneilelycesocialites]

I Think these Ladies are some Boss Ass Beautiful Successful Black Women that show us well. Their real, down to earth wife's, mothers, and entrepreneurs who made expressing a womens point view popular. I look forward to seeing more episodes and seasons to come. ♡

[@FatherDIVINE.]

Stop saying BOSS they ain't shit without they HUSBANDS

[@Kay-tz7ve]

@@FatherDIVINE. each of the women on the show have their own careers and could hold their own. Has their significant other career help leverage or bring visibility to them? Yes, I would agree.

[@carolynemusolo6188]

Biracial women pls.

[@bettaaskboutmik3861]

The babymama drama be real... I tried to build a relationship with my fiancé's babymama and she became real ignorant about it... it really depends on maturity of the people involved

[@canvasanderth]

I often hear people in their 30’s and 40’s say that it’s rare to meet a childless man or woman and that’s just so interesting to me because I’m 42 and I meet them all the time. In fact, I’m childless and so are most of my friends.

[@Tee-kc3pn]

Same....I live in the midwest and have 3 sisters of which 2 are childless and over 30 with great careers and most of their friends are childless as well

[@BjtheLawyer_]

@Square Peg over 50% of bm over 18 are childless. Now I don’t know specific age range stats. Around 30% of bm are married with kids.

[@kenyafromcali]

@@BjtheLawyer_ Under 21 should not be included in the statement. It’s not relevant to the topic. We’re talking primarily about over 25 adults.

[@BjtheLawyer_]

@@kenyafromcali it’s not up for you to decide who we counting. Why would 21 and under not be counted if at 18 you’re an adult?

[@ydwanabll]

It would be really helpful for someone within healthcare (doctor, nurse, NP, PA--preferably a black woman) into this conversation. I think it would have provided additional context and really help move the convo forward and provided much-needed perspective from the vantage of a health care provider

[@eryn5826]

Exactly because honestly I think it was irresponsible to have such an important conversation without said expert in the room because just listening to them, some of what they said and were hinting at was wildly inaccurate like the Nicki Minaj situation. Nicki's conversation about the vaccine didn't actually have anything to do with the vaccine and was a deflection and very harmful. Kijafa was hinting at ( vaccines causing autism or symptoms of) which has been disproven time and time again. But I guess if the setup of the show is showing how to have these conversations with your friends then hey ....

[@kendraprevost4803]

We hear them all day everyday. Enough of them

[@TheKos2Kos]

@@kendraprevost4803 but not on a platform like this

[@TheKos2Kos]

I'm currently training in medicine and plan on going into anatomic and clinical pathology after medical school. Very few black pathology physicians. However, I might go into primary care as an internal medicine physician or family medicine physician, but my gut, heart, and brain seem to be in agreement that I should specialize in pathology. Here are some of my non-medical licensed opinions (I did past my first of many medical license exams though). I wish the general public was just a little more literate in science and health. The world would be so much healthier if so. In the first few minutes, one of them said they tested positive for covid19 antibodies and she said she still doesnt know if she had covid 19. Here's a quick lesson, if your body makes antibodies for covid19 then that means by definition you were infected with covid 19. It just means you were lucky to have no noticable symptoms or possibly no symptoms because your body's immune response cleared the virus without you noticing it. Second lesson, most viruses, fungi, bacteria, worms, prions, and other infective living or non living things (non-living includes viruses, prions, etc) dont actually make you feel sick during infections. It's actually your body's immune response that causes inflammation, fevers, coughs, sneezes, etc...which all serve to help clear the infection by physically doing things that make your body less comfortable for the infective agent...unfortunately that frequently makes us feel horrible...otherwise known as being sick. In general, over the counter medications for colds, flus, etc work by suppressing our immune response to make us feel better. Sometimes it's the case that you will recover more quickly from the flu or something if you dont take medicines. Sometimes our immune systems are over reactive and cause more damage than necessary and you should take immunosuppressive medication...or you just need to work to earn money and you gotta tell your immune system to chill 🤓. Also keep in mind medicine practices vary by countries for this reason sometimes. For instance, in the USA we generally treat ear infections with medications (that's starting to change now though) but in the UK they are less likely to treat ear infections with medication. Anyways, I do appreciate that these wonderful, smart women are taking responsibility for educating themselves. let's get more health/science literate!

[@kendraprevost4803]

@@TheKos2Kos they are speaking their truth and that is what the platform is and that is ok. People don’t want people to even give an opinion on fear of creating hesitancy . You should be hesitant especially if you don’t fit the criteria

[@tyoung3509]

Yes, I saw the news story about the fake flower delivery man in Buckhead. The lady looked back on her camera and saw that someone had been stalking her house for 16 days prior to the flower delivery. People are crazy. We need to be more careful. Be safe ladies ❤️

[@ebirving1982]

Damn this is scary 😟

[@simonemcmillion2421]

The comment made by Mrs. Vick about women not wanting to "let the relationship go" is SO TRUE! I'm actually planning to write about my own experience based on the ugliness, bitterness and selfishness of a woman and her family not wanting to let a man go - when evidence has shown & it has been proven - that the relationship was very much over. It is truly tragic, not for the adults, but for the children (as stated in the discussion).

[@sheilamohammed8306]

So true. I still don't get why a woman would want a man who does not want her. It seems it would be exhausting! What happens if he just decides to leave? Time is short. Tomorrow is not promised but even these ladies know there is a possibility look at Corey's parents.

[@AltaMay11]

I just don't like when it's presented as a woman issue. Men and women got the same problem that's why bitter bm AND bd exist lol it's not a gender trait

[@mrtee8830]

Channing Crowder a lucky man!!!

[@tg072185]

Brandon ah lucky man shiit

[@z8ne_DemeGod313]

@@tg072185 yea he's lucky, the career, 2nd chance & opportunity to create this platform because if you're a fan NFL fan, you're know he could've been one of those player that nobody wanna put up with & judge

[@tg072185]

@@z8ne_DemeGod313 facts

[@CasinoDdaBasedGod]

They’re all blessed to have each of these women in their corner

[@naturesown1807]

@@CasinoDdaBasedGod Agreed, it's not something that you see often in today's world.

[@derice7375]

This platform is a genius idea to valorize our women around the world.i am the women my daughter sister and mother are a big fans of yours even me also.we are all in together .much love and support for you.keep it like this ladies.i like to see our beautiful ladies sitting around the table to discuss and debate everything.peace and be smart.

[@LaquannaSledge]

I'm glad they're discussing this yet, typing things in a Google search bar isn't research.

[@janaemiller1554]

Yeah, I would like to know what they each interept as research.

[@NewEraNoah]

Thank you! Because most times ppl are just googling something that aligns what they think anyway. The means to research a medical treatment or vaccine is extensive and the normal population can’t really research that.

[@kahmaleast7287]

Facts, ^ getting info from theses media markets on tv is all bull!

[@anonymous204]

It actually is lol and if I’m not mistaken Michi has a degree in psychology which requires 2 semesters of learning how to properly research. Google is the medium aka a search engine to get to info.

[@irreplacable1988]

@@anonymous204 thank you!! Like what is considered research then? Flying across the globe and asking folks their individual experience?? or spending years at the library reading books which STiLL will give you different pov depending on the author?? If you don’t think google is a search engine than YOU are the one that do not know how to use it for wholistic research

[@TheKos2Kos]

I wish the general public was just a little more literate in science and health. The world would be so much healthier if so. In the first few minutes, one of them said they tested positive for covid19 antibodies and she said she still doesnt know if she had covid 19. Here's a quick lesson, if your body makes antibodies for covid19 then that means by definition you were infected with covid 19. It just means you were lucky to have no noticable symptoms or possibly no symptoms because your body's immune response cleared the virus without you noticing it. Second lesson, most viruses, fungi, bacteria, worms, prions, and other infective living or non living things (non-living includes viruses, prions, etc) dont actually make you feel sick during infections. It's actually your body's immune response that causes inflammation, fevers, coughs, sneezes, etc...which all serve to help clear the infection by physically doing things that make your body less comfortable for the infective agent...unfortunately that frequently makes us feel horrible...otherwise known as being sick. In general, over the counter medications for colds, flus, etc work by suppressing our immune response to make us feel better. Sometimes it's the case that you will recover more quickly from the flu or something if you dont take medicines. Sometimes our immune systems are over reactive and cause more damage than necessary and you should take immunosuppressive medication...or you just need to work to earn money and you gotta tell your immune system to chill 🤓. Also keep in mind medicine practices vary by countries for this reason sometimes. For instance in the USA we generally treat ear infections with medications (that's starting to change now though) but in the UK they are less likely to treat ear infections with medication. Anyways, I do appreciate that these wonderful, smart women are taking responsibility for educating themselves. let's get more health/science literate!

[@SP-oh6je]

This has been the best I am Woman conversation thus far. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@MizdeeLiving]

The thing is, even if vaccinated you can still get the virus and spread it to others. You can be vaccinated and pass away, it all depends on your body and immune system. It’s so tough. Never thought this would be a part of our lives….

[@sunseedsthoughts592]

I so appreciate Kiaja sharing her story and how honest this conversation was. I never heard of that book (A Shot in the Dark) and will definitely be getting it.

[@darryladams4808]

This show needs way more views than it gets they are so ahead of this time.

[@Hoodwaze]

Adamantly opposed to getting the shot...denied access to a restaurant and this is what changes your stance?

[@Mimi-rk1vy]

Exactly! I couldn’t believe what she was saying!🙄🙄

[@Mariah0000]

I’ve been in love with Ocho since the bengals hbo special I’m no longer jealous 😭 I love Sharell

[@trinar82]

This conversation needs to continue about coparenting. It was so interesting. I love when Alexis is on!!

[@kcfmsh]

Alexis is so real, love her logical perspective

[@goodtrouble841]

in dating a man with kids, things to be considered (should also) be: age of child; # of children; & relationship w/ child’s mother. dealing w/ a man w/ multiple kids means his time will constantly be divided (even on holidays)… $$ will constantly go out of home (esp. if married). i tend to pref 1 kid or 2 with same mom & over 5+ yrs old. how he speaks of his kids mom & how they relate ultimately holds the most weight.

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

This is what I look for. Thank you for the confirmation

[@coreejacobs4780]

Not for me but Interesting points, I agree for others.

[@lekishaburke3173]

This is my preference as well.

[@melissalitus8879]

Good luck sis hope all works out for you.

[@nacidadenuevo]

*** BEAUTIFULL PEOPLE, IT IS TIME TO WAKE UP!!!*** Luke 12:56 (KJV) ***Ye hypocrites***, ye can discern the face of the sky and of the earth; but how is it that ye do not discern this time? MARANATHA !!! 🎺🎺🎺 WHAT DOES MARANATA MEAN? MATTHEW 4:17 / ROMANS 10: 9 / JOHN 8:58 Matthew 24:39 ^ And they had no care till the waters came and took them all away; so will be the coming of the Son of man. COME INTO THE ARK, YOU ARE ON TIME MY FRIEND: THERE IS STILL PLACE. REPENT!!! MARANATHA !!! - P.S: 1 Corinthians 2:9 But as it is written: “Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man the things which God hath prepared for them that love Him.” - ***THIS IS A FATHER'S PROMISE***: John 14:23: Jesus answered and said unto him, “If a man love Me, he will keep My words; and My Father will love him, and We will come unto him and make Our abode with him.

[@BobbyJOnline]

They’ll say, “Do your research” then take some “Dr. Sebi remedy” or “Instagram Tummy Tea” without doing their research of whats in it because its deemed “Natural”… The irony!

[@taken152]

Lol....ask them what doing your research even means and they have no idea. 😂

[@holistichearts4430]

Her choice wasn't based on health or research, it was based on inconvenience

[@janaemiller1554]

True, bc anyone can have an adverse reaction even to something natural, so...? And Michi admitted that she seemingly made the decision based on the inconvenience of not being able to travel to NY. I appreciated hearing the convos on it, but wished there was another better informed voice on it.

[@ElCapitan8]

“Channing come out with the Choppa” 🤣🤣🤣

[@naeemahwilliams5180]

Kijafa is speaking facts and she’s asking all the right questions!

[@QT-173]

Her child could just have a speech impediment

[@cloclo3740]

I'm 35 with no children and I don't date when with kids. I don't have a problem meeting men my age or older without children. There are tons of social groups for people without children.

[@lawestphilly]

Girl u are doing the right thing trust me it's alot being with a man with kids.

[@jojosaylor8996]

There probably infertile...

[@jmc1111_]

agreed.

[@janeli4616]

Mrs Marshall is constantly spreading misinformation, i really like alexis on this platform you can tell she researches her information.

[@chrisnor6878]

Exactly the covic numbers have actually gone down… that was one thing she said wrong… I also think men would date women with kids fast then single women would date a man with kids…. Women are more selfish when it comes to dating

[@kendraprevost4803]

Nawww Alexis got Israel data wrong . Cases were going up and they are not living a regular life. They have vaccine passports and they require 3 jabs

[@janeli4616]

@@kendraprevost4803 yes they require the booster in order for one to keep full vaccination status but they are reaching herd immunity because of this unlike the us.

[@kendraprevost4803]

@@janeli4616 not true no country is meeting heard immunity. That is false information!

[@janeli4616]

@@kendraprevost4803 it's in the Jerusalem post, youtube won't let me post the link.

[@LuvliLadi27]

Love Alexis! Keep bringing her back! her perspective and demeanor is on point. Love all the ladies overall though.

[@holistichearts4430]

Thks!! Mrs. Vick for speaking up about her experience & how vaccines effected her life personally. Some ppl put too' much trust in Government & Doctors they are not God' trust in ur Spirit not man. Tf' please🙏🏿 protect our babies. Heavy medals or natural immunity??. I think I'm go with my Creator'🙌🏽🙌🏾🙌🏿

[@susanmitchell9060]

Great show ladies. Sharelle and Kijafa always on point

[@tamarabello]

Thank you Kijafa! I also am going through this with my son as he regressed and isn't speaking at all. I will definitely get that book too.

[@jojosaylor8996]

How old is the father?

[@tamarabello]

@@jojosaylor8996 My son's father is only a year older than me. He is 36.

[@yvette7634]

I've been watching you all for quite some time now and I have to say this was one of my most FAVORITE episodes!!!! I truly hope that you have Ms. Alexis Stoudemire back on as fa regular guest, she was truly dropping some gems. I also LOVE her whole vibe....she's so passionate, laid back, open minded and ABSOLUTELY gorgeous! LOVE, LOVE, LOVE all of your various perspectives on the different topics discussed but I have got to admit that Ms. Alexis most definitely stood out to me. I also feel like Ms. Sharelle Rosado had some wonderful points as well - both she and Alexis absolutely SHINED in this episode! Also, congratulations on your pregnancy Sharelle - may God continue to cover you and bless you abundantly! Much love from Chicago!!! = )

[@keneshajordan8349]

I really enjoyed this episode. Especially, when you ladies touched on the vaccines. Because I remember my mom telling me when we first had our daughter to space out all her vaccines. That it is not necessary to give her all those shots in one day.

[@j.simmons8428]

I appreciate Kijafa so much for speaking up about potential negative side effects of vaccines, especially with our children. I used to work with children with intellectual disabilities and I heard the same situation as Kijafa's child too often. But mainstream media and doctors don't want to discuss the negatives of vaccines, including this current one.

[@678tanesha]

All the ladies are so fly and we'll spoken, but Kijafa and Aja are just extra fly to me!

[@speaktruthpeace1612]

Having children is different for women. Men usually don’t have full custody so they can move freely. Women have to find sitters & they are more involved with raising their kids. They can’t move freely so that’s a hinderance or baggage.

[@A.C.K]

I felt Kijafa's story about her son and the shots. My son just turned 20 and has autism. I definitely feel her concern and what she's going through. As parents of special needs children, we all have a story with the immunizations, vaccinations, etc.

[@timmcrocker1771]

I feel her story also. My son was diagnosed with autism at 2 years old. He was fine until he got those shots. He’s 24 now and still pretty much non-verbal. He’s made great strides but at times I feel his life was somewhat stolen from him. I feel he’s still trapped inside himself at times.

[@tamarabello]

My son is 5 years old and non-verbal. I can't lie, I am angry and feel robbed. My son deserves the best life possible.

[@A.C.K]

We seem to all be feeling the same way. I I would love for my son to speak again. I definitely think he was robbed of a "normal" life and I can only imagine what he could be I life if things were different for him.. I think vaccinations, medicine all that are to blame for so many are the issues that we have to deal with in life. 💔

[@speaktruthpeace1612]

I remember my son had a 104 fever after his 3 month shots. She’s absolutely right. Had I’d known then, I’d documented and sued the hospital

[@ChoppedByTPodcast]

Shoutout to the black woman veteran dropping a nuanced vaccine opinion... It's funny to see vets who are anti-COVID-19 vaccine when we literally had to get shots to join the military, go on a deployment, and even do annual checkups. Shots were the norm for sure. Protect the babies

[@howarddickersonjr.6994]

As a vet that is exactly why I’m anti vaccine! When the Navy gave me Strep throat I was done with the military! They literally almost killed me with that shot!

[@ChoppedByTPodcast]

@@howarddickersonjr.6994 which shot gave you strep throat? I don't want to discount your experience. I just don't share that perspective.

[@nacidadenuevo]

*** BEAUTIFULL PEOPLE, IT IS TIME TO WAKE UP!!!*** Luke 12:56 (KJV) ***Ye hypocrites***, ye can discern the face of the sky and of the earth; but how is it that ye do not discern this time? MARANATHA !!! 🎺🎺🎺 WHAT DOES MARANATA MEAN? MATTHEW 4:17 / ROMANS 10: 9 / JOHN 8:58 Matthew 24:39 ^ And they had no care till the waters came and took them all away; so will be the coming of the Son of man. COME INTO THE ARK, YOU ARE ON TIME MY FRIEND: THERE IS STILL PLACE. REPENT!!! MARANATHA !!! - P.S: 1 Corinthians 2:9 But as it is written: “Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man the things which God hath prepared for them that love Him.” - ***THIS IS A FATHER'S PROMISE***: John 14:23: Jesus answered and said unto him, “If a man love Me, he will keep My words; and My Father will love him, and We will come unto him and make Our abode with him.

[@happy_2b_nappy]

Y’all should do a joint episode at the gun range and educate men and women on the importance of protecting your household

[@Msdollfacecouture]

I definitely did my own research 1st. I actually went to an Allergist to understand what is in the vaccine before making a decision to be vaccinated. I did this because I was high risk due to severe allergic reactions... Fast Forward I am fully vaccinated. The 2nd shot made me sick for a literal 12 hours and I have been great since. I really appreciate this conversation from strong Black Women! Thanks

[@msfergie5851]

Detox

[@byronmariani9518]

I love this podcast is the best fantastic 🙌💯

[@BTCSowhat]

Wow this show is awesome men and woman getting the same feelings of respect from me ✊🏿 without hesitation.. I like this!! This is earth!

[@KKaoa27]

I'm a little disappointed in this episode. Israel is doing horrible with the vaccine. And to get an experimental treatment that doesn't stop transmission or stop you from getting the disease should be a personal choice not a mandate.

[@aquasqua]

As soon as they started spreading that misinformation I just started skipping till the topic changed. It really ticks me off 🤦🏿‍♂️ & the fact that most of them got it. Have natural immunity (6 to 13 times better that artificial vaccine immunity) but still got the shot. And let's let's forget about the first responders who more than likely all got it, don't want to be vaccinated and are getting fired for their choice. Absolute madness

[@brittanyb5942]

I agree!

[@avisclewis4492]

Kijafa telling her story about her baby getting shots…. Had me in REAL TEARS

[@sheilaisaacs4360]

Another great episode!! I loved the topics discussed today!!❤️❤️🙏🏾

[@rebeccawrite1614]

Kijafa's skin is on POINT! Creamy brown

[@innovativetherapeuticservi5533]

Please be mindful of your rights as parents and mothers to opt for delayed immunizations for your children. Consider delaying the MMR vaccine until your child is verbal and able to ambulate independently (walk)before having it administered. It’s less likely to alter, delay or regress speech development and compromise ambulation as well as the development of fine and gross motor skills. It’s okay to request that your child’s vaccination time line be extended or you can determine your own time line. You do not have to follow the medical timeline if you are not comfortable. I chose to offset all of my children’s vaccination schedule. There is a correlation between the MMR vaccine and autism/PDD in early childhood.

[@MrsDD23]

im going to research this. I dont have children yet but this is something I will research to make sure im prepared, thank you for your insight, I hadnt even considered the idea that you can delay vaccines for your baby

[@innovativetherapeuticservi5533]

@@MrsDD23 Glad this message offered a different perspective.

[@nakiacee15]

Thank you for sharing this.

[@Mrs.Yeyyyy]

Thank you for this 🙏🏽

[@LindsayAmelia]

Men have more apprehensions about dating a woman with a child because the child is typically with the mother more often. Very rarely is the dad the primary caretaker. So it’s an issue of sharing her time and availability with a child that’s not his. I am open to dating men with kids but I can understand this point of view because the times I’ve dated a guy with kids he had every other week vs a guy with kids he had full time, the dating process was different. For context, I’m 36 no kids and able to come and go freely. But bc I want a family I’m in the mind frame where I’m open to working with either circumstance provided he knows balance. This is difficult as a full-time single mom or dad but it can be done.

[@josephjones5955]

You really want to know the main issue is…it’s the whole baby daddy spectrum. A lot of women go through alot of unnecessary drama with their children’s father that spills over into new relationships. That is what men worry about. Nobody wants to deal with their baby father issues

[@LindsayAmelia]

@@josephjones5955 I can see that. Not drawing the line.

[@georgeparker8198]

This. I was surprised no one mentioned it. Like as a man generally if the woman is a good mother she is going to have the child a vast majority of the time. As opposed to men depending on the situation may just have them on weekends or may only have visitation rights. As for me personally I don't want children so I just prefer to date woman without children because because I like my life child free. Though I am open to a woman with one child, but more than one is a dealbreaker

[@MsJay0913]

Exactly what I thought when she asked the question. I'm surprised no one mentioned it as well.

[@TheKos2Kos]

@@MsJay0913 not exactly sure what you referring to when you say "not mentioned". But the video did discuss baby daddy/mama issues leaking into romantic relationships

[@AltaMay11]

How she saying nicki minaj was shut down for asking questions and then don't even know the actual story tho 😂😂😂😂 girl

[@yudahel8521]

Baby I thought kijafa was gon get attacked; these women are so positive.

[@holistichearts4430]

Unfortunately' like so many her choice was based on inconvenience not health or research.

[@daniellenic0lee]

When it comes to the conversation about immunizations it would be nice to see a healthcare professional included in the discussion. It is easy to speculate in our daily conversations when we may not have all the knowledge.

[@godbody8219]

Always Gone LIVE! This was a great episode to watch, y'all ladies keep up the amazing work

[@blakelip3]

Family should come first then the kids gotta show the kids what a good family structure looks like outside of maintaining your kids

[@BSOG3]

Mike Vick's wife is so on point. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE get the book "Medical Apartheid" by Harriet Washington. Read this book BEFORE you put anything else in your bodies. I hope Sherelle gets a doula and has a home birth. Don't let them shoot up your baby with medicines.

[@MrBlackBradPitt]

She is not on point. She's spreading misinformation. Vaccines do not put a bunch of metals in your body. Yes, some vaccines do have aluminum. But your infant gets almost twice as much aluminum in their diet just from breastfeeding alone vs the amount of aluminum in the vaccines they receive. Please know the FACTS of what you're ACTUALLY putting in your baby's body.

[@holistichearts4430]

@@MrBlackBradPitt Totally False information, Please stop'. U really need to do some more research & not from a doctor's perspective😩 Do research based on the perspective of parents who have experienced a drastic change in their child's development before vaccines. Now' ur spreading false information bc' everyone knows there's extremely heavy medals in vaccines that u don't need in ur body to survive on this planet. Ur Creator🙏🏿 already made u with an intelligent immune system. But' u will listen to ppl' who Practice on beings for a living.

[@tbaileya]

@@MrBlackBradPitt Of all the black heroes we have, you use the name of a Satanist? Furthermore, you double speak just like a devil. "Vaccines do not put a bunch of metals in your body" "Yes, some vaccines do have aluminum" Is aluminum not a metal?

[@adriennem1003]

So true.... Some women can't let go.. My friend dealing with this now.. She's making life hell for him even years after breaking up.

[@greekfreak384]

I like Alexis she should definitely be a permanent cohost. I live for her and kijafa

[@Alongcamelow]

It’s Kijafa imitating the choppa bussin for meeee😂😂😂

[@BeyBrightOfficial]

I’m gonna answer Michi’s question about why a lot of men don’t wanna deal with women with kids. The true answer is that the mom is too overprotective of her kids to where a good man who’s trying to instill discipline and guidance is not allowed to do so in many instances. It can and usually becomes a very toxic and unbalanced relationship where the mom is constantly making excuses for the bad behavior and poor decisions made by her kids. The ultimate slap in the face to a good man trying to take on a responsibility that isn’t naturally his from the jump is, you ain’t their daddy and these are MY KIDS. Unfortunately, too many women wanna be their kids best friend and not their parent based upon their own experiences with their parents or lack thereof. Obviously there’s a few exceptions but for the most part, it’s a big issue. Facts 💯

[@chocolategirl443]

You hit the nail on the head

[@BeyBrightOfficial]

@@chocolategirl443 respect queen 👸🏽🙏🏾

[@chocolategirl443]

@@BeyBrightOfficial I can relate to your statement. Once I divorced my son’s dad and he walked away from them, I promised no one would ever walk out on them again. This becoming overprotective. My Bad.

[@BeyBrightOfficial]

@@chocolategirl443 Hey.. we live and learn. I understand how it happens. The goal now is for men and women to come to a healthy understanding and love each other! Respect Queen 👸🏽😊

[@chocolategirl443]

@@BeyBrightOfficial Spoken like a King 👑. ✌️ & 💕

[@mimib7440]

I am not vaccinated currently but not by choice. I live in FL and was “waiting to see” like Michi said then out of nowhere I caught COVID in August 2021 and ended up in the hospital for 9 days. Very scary time for me! I plan to get the vaccine this weekend since my 90 day waiting period will be up. I’m just thankful that I made it through because so many people did not.

[@MissRiahMUA]

I appreciate what Kijafa was talking about. I’m going through the exact same thing right now with my 3 year old

[@shaharak5613]

Best episode of the new season so far. I’m still waiting for Ashley to return though .

[@B-Icon]

As an investigator with the Health Department, some days my work is emotionally exhausting talking to persons sick with COVID-19. I always encourage to talk with their doctor about getting vaccinated. This subject matter should be discussed carefully. Getting vaccinated is not about force or controlling people. It’s about life vs death. Period.

[@tbaileya]

Then why don't they talk about the recovery rate per age group and that COVID has the same rate as the flu? Over 200k die yearly from the flu. The number one killer is heart disease but there is no fear tactic being applied to scare us to take better care of our hearts. Donations to the American Heart Assoc have been down for years now. Look it up.

[@holistichearts4430]

That's how they promote it, without so call promoting it. She went from a Hard No' to a Hard yes!! Once her life got inconvenienced. Something tells me she caught backlash for that Hard No' & now had to clean it up but' this conversation only opened it up in my opinion. There was no need to bring this topic up again. It's a personal choice & no one else's business but' when ur trying to convince others to get it, u had to talk about it again. Well😩

[@tbaileya]

FACTS Enlightened one, These women don't see that their FREEDOMS have been totally restricted. Just two years ago I could freely travel this whole country without any restrictions, now I have to have proof and show papers to visit another State? Hitler's mob is alive and well in the USA. Any business that asks me for my health papers DO NOT GET MY BUSINESS. If more people thought like this then the mandates will stop existing.

[@holistichearts4430]

@@tbaileya Exactly 😔

[@Haneefrjordan]

It’s a choice when it comes to vaccines. If you chose to get it fine. If you don’t fine. Either way no one should be forced to get it. And no one should have to explain to the world why they chosen either. Peoples medical business is their own. I also believe no one should feel on the outs because they aren’t getting it. Folks have underline health conditions that may require them to be unable to get certain vaccines.

[@evalynnemoyo3159]

Love this show. So positive and uplifting. 🔥

[@nicolewarren2284]

Sharelle looks good pregnant

[@rainpunchlove]

SO F’N PROUD OF YOU MICHI!!!! I know that was so so hard to admit but you made a great health choice! Thank you for being honest!!!

[@holistichearts4430]

Her choice wasn't based on health it was based on inconvenience.

[@rainpunchlove]

@@holistichearts4430 yeah I watched the episode! The choice that she made will benefit her health in the long run. Thanks!

[@Tee-kc3pn]

@@rainpunchlove she hopes....I work for a vaccine client and get all the data when people report adverse reactions....

[@kamarokitchen9487]

She made a choice based on not be allowed to entire certain establishments and travel.

[@antanderson3649]

Love This Podcast....Ladies & Fellas Bring Positive Vibes 24/7

[@prettygirlprogression]

The lady in the purple only took the jab only after she was denied access to a NYC restaurant LAWDAMERCY

[@edwardtoliver5558]

I love this show just as much as the guy’s version!! Also why chef always bringing deserts vs chef Nancy traditional

[@Tee-kc3pn]

It's cheaper

[@220smooches]

I'm sure that's what the ladies want , it probably depends on what time of the day it is as well

[@mz.q4922]

He cooks for the men. Desserts may be what the women want.

[@bumlogistics4260]

That was a good episode. Y'all can teach the men not to over talk each other. Lol. However, they give good commentary and I love watching every episode. They drop some nuggets for real. Stay safe. Stay blessed.

[@NewEraNoah]

first thing, Nicki wasnt just “asking questions”. She was saying don’t take it because his balls swelled up. Lol Secondly, most ppl are so cautious about this, which is fine, but we’ve been vaccinated our whole lives…and no one knew what was in all of those shots we needed for school. And if you say you knew what they were and what they did, you’re lying.

[@tbaileya]

That's not true, When you go to get ANY shot, you can ask to see the warning sheet that comes with each batch or box of vaccines, for example, 10 years ago my wife took the flu shot and became very sick, I went to the doctor and requested a flu shot but before they gave me the shot I asked to see the warning sheet, and cited the Nuenburg Treaty as the law that gives me the right to know what goes into my body before I consented to receive the shot. On the sheet, it lists the ingredients and the side effects.

[@NewEraNoah]

@@tbaileya can and do are totally diff. And you requesting would be the exception and not the rule because most do not ask

[@kenyafromcali]

Do you understand there has been exemptions for decades? Not everyone participates in vaccinations. There have been protests for YEARS! I would never ever get a flu shot. I refused all vaccines as an adult. This is not new. People should always ask questions and be okay saying “No!”

[@jessjo1959]

Such a good point. From this point on I will only so contactless deliveries. Drop it off and I’ll pick it up myself. Thanks for sharing that story Kijafa.

[@GoddessShanna]

Thank you Kijafa for letting them know they still don’t know why they took the jab.🙏🏽💚

[@yudahel8521]

Oh baby she stood on all 10, I thought she was gone silent at first.

[@distorbia20]

My husband got the vaccine for corona but I haven’t yet. I have decided to wait a bit more. I will pray about it. I am not against vaccine but I just don’t like how the government is bullying people to take a vaccine and take our own right to choose

[@kendraprevost4803]

Why don’t people want to wait until full FDA approval ? No FDA approved vaccine is on market. Pfizer has an approval but still not on the market under brand name Comrnaty

[@TheKos2Kos]

@@kendraprevost4803 for the same reason the FDA agreed to bring these vaccines without being fully clinically researched...to save lives. The typical risks of fully tested similar vaccines just didnt outweigh the immediate benefits. Also I shouldn't use fully since no drug can be fully tested because theres not enough money and time to test for everything. But I definitely dont disagree with people who decide to wait, they just gotta make sure they are doing everything to protect themselves and anyone they come in contact with.

[@kendraprevost4803]

@@TheKos2Kos not true bc before now a human being would not ever receive a medication without being fully approved unless they participated in a clinical trial. Millions of people are now participating in a trial which don’t know of the outcome yet . It may or may not save your life. The jury is still out. Many have not gotten it and are still alive and we know that for sure. It’s not only vaccinate people that are alive right now or there would not be be so division. We are alive and not sick!

[@georgeparker8198]

Damn I didnt know Amare cheated on his wife and now they are divorced SMH. Anyway, I'm glad Alexis is on this episode to balance out the ignorance cause Sharelle always on point but there is a whole lot of misinformation being spread this episode, Michi especially was wilding. I support the ladies but damn, y'all gotta be more conscious of what y'all are saying.

[@aquasqua]

Yh fr. That shit kind pissed me off 😂🤦🏿‍♂️ they really don't know what they're talking about when it comes to covid and vaccinations, the efficacy (effectiveness and time wise), the studies (in particularly the ones form Israel and the UK). They're just spreading misinformation, but because they are pro vaccine it's okay. 🤦🏿‍♂️ they probably don't even know the vaccine effectiveness is only temporary, the effectiveness of the booster shots is still unknown too. But yh, they just talking. *sigh*

[@mattiebutler8665]

Absolutely!!! Like c'mon with the misinformation being stated as facts!

[@tsamp14]

Do your own research but the Autism piece has validity. My son is on the Spectrum and I know several parents who have said the same thing Mrs. Vick said. It’s the MMR that is the culprit. Numerous doctors asked for them to broken up and given up over years instead of in one shot.

[@georgeparker8198]

@@tsamp14 I didn't say everything they said was wrong, but definitely a lot of it was

[@KeptChrissy]

Amare cheated??

[@laurenb.3444]

I really love the clothing line I wish it was more affordable 😩

[@DEEprogram]

Something isn’t necessarily considered baggage if you don’t have to carry it with you. I feel men with kids are perceived differently when it comes to dating and relationships because they usually tend to not have custody of the kids so their availability, ability to be spontaneous, etc is vastly different. People value time and in this “me, me, me” society many want to feel they are a priority. Women, unfortunately don’t have the luxury of doing so in most instances because the child will come first when they are with you; as the child should.

[@kenyafromcali]

But the men usually have less control over their parenting situations. It’s normally out of balance. When a man comes into the life of a woman and her child or children the situation is usually settled and easily understood from day one. It’s MUCH easier!

[@thando_qs]

Loved it! These ladies are so authentic and beautiful. Really great episode ❤️

[@michaelstallworth972]

The conversations and points are great but sometimes talking over eachother takes away from it

[@jrainesphotography751]

Although Kijafa didn't say vaccines cause her child to stop talking, just for clarity: Vaccines do not cause regression in behavior, especially in regards to autism. The cause of regression is unknown but it usually appears around the time the child receives their first vaccines. Children who were unvaccinated also started to regress within the same developmental stage of those who received any vaccine.

[@Antizzle57]

Sharrelle & Aja my favorites

[@chrisnor6878]

Great show. Loved how they talked about the vaccine and vaccination with kids. It really effect alot of African American kids. The topic baby momma drama was just to pull in an audience 👌🏾. Michi seem very judgmental and toward Sharelle a lot. When Michi life is FAR from perfect. Every show is about Sharelle life situations…. and Michi low key throw shade. Sharelle seem like a sweetheart.

[@Tee-kc3pn]

Sharelle can be close minded at times as well

[@nacidadenuevo]

*** BEAUTIFULL PEOPLE, IT IS TIME TO WAKE UP!!!*** Luke 12:56 (KJV) ***Ye hypocrites***, ye can discern the face of the sky and of the earth; but how is it that ye do not discern this time? MARANATHA !!! 🎺🎺🎺 WHAT DOES MARANATA MEAN? MATTHEW 4:17 / ROMANS 10: 9 / JOHN 8:58 Matthew 24:39 ^ And they had no care till the waters came and took them all away; so will be the coming of the Son of man. COME INTO THE ARK, YOU ARE ON TIME MY FRIEND: THERE IS STILL PLACE. REPENT!!! MARANATHA !!! - P.S: 1 Corinthians 2:9 But as it is written: “Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man the things which God hath prepared for them that love Him.” - ***THIS IS A FATHER'S PROMISE***: John 14:23: Jesus answered and said unto him, “If a man love Me, he will keep My words; and My Father will love him, and We will come unto him and make Our abode with him.

[@venetiaP]

I don’t care how cool me and my ex are, we don’t need to do blended vacations. Nah

[@Mimi-rk1vy]

😂😂😂

[@ryanporter7400]

....GREAT episode Ladies, so much good content and conversations from beginning to end. I had to grab my lady to watch ( you know she had to start it over from the beginning 😂 ). Now she’s a fan and going back to watch them all ( what have I done, I created a monster‼️ ). Again KUDOS 👍🏿.

[@Mimi-rk1vy]

Kijafa is my favorite....She's gorgeous and intelligent....I just adore her!🥰😍😘😘😘💗💕💝💖💖❤💟💞

[@abi95assasin]

speaking "broken families" into existence .. way to go

[@JazzyLo]

Can you guys discuss your thoughts on the perspective of some women who say they are looking for the right baby daddy , basically opting to be a single mom. As opposed to seeking a husband, preparing for a two parent household. There are a lot of women online who are literally saying they know there aren’t good men out there, so they might as well just do it this way

[@holistichearts4430]

No' vax No' reservations, was ur final draw. Smdh' wow' my ppl have no fight.

[@douluvly2010]

21:03 "So you had chicken pops you can get shingles"...WHAT LOL!

[@monicacornelius3343]

Yes, you can still get shingles even if you got chicken pox when you were younger.

[@Tee-kc3pn]

It's already in your body if you had chicken pox

[@sodvine3486]

Correct!

[@DemecosChambers]

I love iam woman. Im curious tho how many ladies skeptical against vaccines also got cosmetic work done?

[@Tee-kc3pn]

How do you know Kiaffa had work done? I don't think she has

[@DemecosChambers]

@@Tee-kc3pn I don't. I asked

[@itsbritt9155]

All them on that couch …for sure . Whether it was something “small” like Botox/fillers .

[@StyledChic2]

Great episode ladies. Love all of your perspectives and as a married woman, I appreciate these conversations that are so relatable!

[@ashleyshantedeese1557]

I just started watching this show and LOVE it. I’m obsessed with Kijafah. She’s my home girl in my head.

[@Vanessa_Martinez]

Sharelle is brave because it isn't no way. I'll get pregnant during this time or be having a baby. Bless her and her baby.

[@brittanyb5942]

I agree!

[@nikkiboler]

Sharelle is every thing. Such grace to her

[@vanaleba]

Cudos to you ladies for talking about what is not reported by the media, our government and health system! I’m in Australia and much of the same happens!!