Baby Onboard | S08E02

When we first started exploring the Caribbean by sailboat almost 8 years ago, we had a huge amount to learn. We had to figure out how to live in such a small space, how to feel comfortable in foreign countries, and how to constantly deal with the dangers of sailing from one remote anchorage to the next. That first year of sailing was full of intense experiences, both intensely good and intensely bad. And through those experiences we learned that sometimes doing things the hard way and learning to become competent at something difficult, can reap rewards beyond our wildest dreams.
And in so many ways I feel like our choice to raise our newborn baby on a sailboat has brought us back to square one. We have once again chosen to do things the hard way, a way that might seem at times like we are just banging our head against a wall, but a way that I believe may once again lead to rewards that we now can’t even fathom.
But all of that is far in the future. Now we’ve got to figure out each aspect of raising a baby on a boat and hope that our desire to sail the world survives this crazy transition.
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[@margi6035]

As myself being a parent since 1972, your experience is normal. My first reaction after coming home was realising the responsibility for the tiny little human that could do nothing without me. It all comes together but not before tears, frustration and sleep deprivation have wrecked your emotions. Support is critical and here Mothers show their shining glory. You are doing fine.

[@boldpredictionssports]

Father since 2014. Very well put.

[@dobie2times]

I bc also became a father in 1972 with a c section. No boat but an absolutely wonderful experience. He is now 49 years old and helps me when I try to do some things. 😍

[@fishpond4527]

😊😊😊😊

[@sabrinafair7444]

Yes, yes, yes, to all you said!!!!!!

[@WorthICT]

Very well said, in no time she will be telling you that her friends are coming to pick her up and they’re going out trust me time will fly.… Wait till the first boy shows up lol

[@christopherkeefe7716]

The only advice I could give you as new parents is try your hardest to enjoy every moment because before you know it she’s all grown up and off on her own life journey and it feels like it all happened in the blink of an eye and you can’t even remember the hard times you only miss all the good times,congratulations on your new family

[@koborkutya7338]

+1

[@blackthornhealing]

So true

[@mranallo]

100%

[@Whoreallyknows]

Great advice!

[@katemcpolin1121]

But don’t be hard on yourself when it’s hard and frustrating and exhausting!

[@spinozareader]

You're not killing your old self, you're refining your ever-growing self; peeling back new layers of you. Everything the two of you are enduring is so familiar to all of us who have taken home a new, noisy, teensy human. It's so exhausting and daunting, at first. The both of you are champions. You're such good friends to one another through it all. And you manage to find tiny pinches of humor and joy when you can. Isabella is a lucky girl. I can't think of a twosome more suited to having a new infant in a boat cabin, and pulling that off with grace. In the States, we fetishize babies. By that, I mean we tend to "over-'cutesy'" them--to the point that we gloss over how demanding they are. This does a disservice to new parents, I think. It tends to make them even harder on themselves. p.s. Babies need to cry sometimes. It's not essential that she be quieted at all times--as long as she's fed, burped, and dry. (Though this is tougher to take in within a boat cabin.)

[@bobmeador4465]

That "overtly positive" experience you are not experiencing now is something parents experience IN HINDSIGHT. Every new parent, no matter how "positive" the initial days, is too wound up in the instant, the stress, the moment to moment crises, to feel positive or negative or relieved, or even thoughtful. The first two weeks are zombie days spiked with moments of panic. Tell us how you feel when you are holding a daughter who just said her first words!

[@petec9686]

Been a dad now for 31+ years and the indescribable joy of my daughter's arrival beats anything else I've ever experienced. Walking her down the isle last year was kinda cool too! Given that, I fail to see how anyone could describe the overall process as negative in any way. Overwhelming? Scary? Tiring? Sure, but still the best experience of my life and it isn't even close.

[@egonjgf7015]

Jordan: Speaking from a Dad perspective: hang in there. It gets better (or at least manageable!) Fatherhood is the best, worst, most inspirational, most annoying, and ultimately most important thing you'll ever undertake. No one feels ready or capable-- you just do it. You are equipped, and you'll make it happen. You'll have triumphs, and you'll make mistakes. Do your best, and get it done! You'll be awesome!

[@christopherbarber9351]

I appreciate your frankness, not glossing over the difficulties. Great edit as well, can't imagine how you pay attention to the detail of presenting an interesting video while dealing with the big stuff of fatigue, worrying about "why is she crying", and how are we going to live on the boat?

[@ED3]

Amen

[@zino6310]

JORDAN WITH THE HEADPHONES ON WHILE THE BABY WAS CRYING..... PRICELESS!!!!! LUVYALL ❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍❤️👍❤️👍❤️🌊

[@lifeenvironments]

Over the past years I have watched both of you. And yes, it's been a while since your journey together began. During that time, I have watched both of you learn. I have watched both of you become more interesting. I have watched both of you evolve. I have watched both of you build two boats. I have watched both of you build a relationship. I have watched both of you build experiences. I have watched both of you build a channel. I have watched both of you build a special love. I have watched both of you build a unique life. I have watched both of you build a new child. And now I am watching both of you build a new family. I can't wait to see both of you build wonderful new stories into the life you have both built. And so your story continues. Build delightfully.😊

[@darleneermis4903]

Your baby is adorable ❤ I had triplets 26 years ago and was alone with them during the week days! I’m not going to lie it was difficult and scary. They were premature and very small and fragile. They had to eat every 3 hours so I was lucky to get 1 hour of sleep in between feedings! This went on for 5 months. My husband couldn’t help much because he had to drive 2 hours there and back ! Anyway I got through it. Fortunately I don’t require a lot of sleep! My point is they melt your heart more and more every day❤ Time goes by so fast enjoy every minute! I learned at lot from the nurses in the NICU. If you want any suggestions feel free to message me. Good luck and safe sailing 🌹😊

[@jenfinlay4983]

You guys look like you have this. Jordan you feeling are normal there just forgotten after time. That seat is a must safe places to put child when hands are needed. For baby baths, I showers with my kids we did not have a bathtub that worked. Best advice ever I got is if baby will not settle out of arms lay her with a shirt you have warn so she can smell you.

[@tunkelp]

Kids are the greatest thing ever. Almost 60 and my son is 30. I every minute I get to spend with him. You never stop being a parent, mentor, and friend. I Love it.

[@chadkleiner869]

The days are long but the years are short! Enjoy ever cry, every poop, and every waking minute with your new bundle of joy!

[@johngoring]

Jordan, you have come SO far in terms of being honest and genuine on camera. Your vulnerability shows tremendous sincerity and (honestly) strength that will serve you well as a father and as a husband. Your experience of feeling overwhelmed and even depressed after Isa's birth are congruent with my own experiences with the birth of my own two children. You'll get there. The time FLIES by, and before you know it thirty years will have passed. All the little detail stuff that seems so important now will not be remembered. Keep at it. "A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor..." You two have become so incredibly skilled in your relationship together and in your lives; you will also become a skilled father, and Des will become a skilled mother. It's inevitable.

[@zackslawninvoice7692]

What an epic comment! 👏

[@donaldbrown9437]

You have entered the greatest “Adventure “ of your life. Like starting to cross the Atlantic except you never get to go back. This will be the most exciting adventure of your life. While it seems scary, it is, but all great adventures are! Embrace it like all the rest of your adventures and be thankful you have this opportunity that most people don’t have. The two of you are without a doubt well prepared for this adventure ! This is an adventure you will never regret! I really enjoy watching your adventure and envy your opportunity! You 3 are great!

[@svwanderlust9697]

Jordan, the first year is pure survival day by day. My kids are grown and they are my best friends. Every stage is an adventure! My wife said keep the bouncy!

[@navyretired230]

Our oldest son, (31) has autism. One step at a time he will one day have a tiny home of his own and long-term savings so he can afford taxes and utilities along with basic maintenance. Each day we teach him over and over again how to do basic maintenance. he can repair a faucet, replace a water heater, mow, wash window's and cook basic meals now. Ramen is his meal of choice...ough

[@desertedenblooms]

Everything you felt and feel is normal. You mentioned about sailing the world with the a baby. MY dear ones, SHE and you both are the world, to each othER(osito too)! Looking so far into the future gives anxiety and a feeling of overwhemness but the worst is you stop being in the present and missing the small stuff. You'll adjust . Everyday, Isabel grows, resets, and each day you'll gain a few extra minutes a nd moments. Your doing great, stop being so driven, deep breath in...gratitude out. In the big scheme of things, your 4 divine souls having a human experience on an eternal time line. Enjoy the ride (sail). Be Blessed.

[@manonbedard3463]

You are doing great, babies don’t come with instructions but your maternal and paternal instincts are kicking in!! Bravo!!

[@CameronOgilvie1]

With a newborn, the no sleep thing in a way is like being on watch during passage. You got this! And congratulations on your the new chapter in your life adventure.

[@LiftRanger]

Jordan, Dez and Isa, far be it from me to give advice. Nevertheless, here I go: It is apparent to me that you have the right tools and skills to be great parents: you are patient and loving with each other, you are there for each other, you are dedicated to each other...work on being more patient with yourselves. You got this, take it minute by minute, day by day, week by week. Work on the most immediate need, forgive yourself for not being perfect (who among us is) Remember, all things pass. You already know this about passages, same for life. Know that there are hundreds of thousands of us out here, whom you may never meet, praying and sending best wishes for you and Isa. Your unique style, openness with your supporters, and heartwarming videos are a blessing for me. I find myself getting emotional and a bit choked up watching and feeling your emotions. Who would have thought a YT channel could evoke emotions like these....well, remember "one step at a time", forgiveness , patience and love each other.

[@greghouston3998]

You are a great Momma and it will fall into place, children don't come with instructions or directions. Hang in there Buds and you both will do fantastic.

[@laurariley308]

Wow! She is just absolutely beautiful 😍. This is the hard part…. It will become easier but not just before you cannot take it anymore😅. Everyday you will fall in love with her more and more and realize the power of love in a whole new way. Congratulations guys!

[@macambrag]

Guys, your life is something private. I understand it. I am a father of four kids and my wife and me had different experiences with our four sons' births. Those are experiences that enhaced our lives. Godspeed guys! I am looking forward to see Isa running along Atticus ll deck...

[@BillB23]

You mean you're not going to bare your souls to a quarter million subscribers? Gasp! Seriously, thank you for sharing what you do with us. We don't need to know 110% of what's going on. Y'all 4 just keep on keepin' on and share with us what you feel free to share. Rest assured that the light you see at the end of the tunnel is NOT an oncoming train.

[@michaellapensee]

That ❤Child is in for quite an adventure !

[@Susan-qp7pk]

Jordan, All of what you said is 1000% spot on!! It will all settle down…but your lives will never be the same.. but ENJOY it they grow up really fast❤ Love to your sweet new family! Good job to the 4 of you!!

[@susandavault8121]

One of your best videos! So proud of you both, thank you for sharing your heart! Much love to y’all from Tennessee❤❤❤

[@mermaid7775]

OMG the bath…Beyond adorable!! You guys have come so far and grown so much in the couple of years I’ve been watching. Such a joy to watch your journey, and so important that you’ve shared your emotional journeys too. It provides loads of comfort, validation, and connection to our human condition for all your viewers. 💕

[@leegrass6954]

Love the baby’s❤ straight jacket-don’t Forget to hold Doggie and rock him and love on him just as much as before baby!🥰🙏

[@lydial5695]

You're doing great! I lived in a camper with 5 kids... You can do one kiddo on a boat. 😆 I'm a huge advocate of baby wearing! You'll get more adept at doing all those daily chores while wearing the baby and her little brain will get the best development! It's a win win.

[@chrisphinney6430]

You two are rocking parenthood! Gongratulations! I remember my children at this age. All you have to do is show them you love them.

[@stevehammond7485]

Jordan, those things that come aboard are so transient that you will be surprised how fast you are looking for someone to take them from you. Don't fight it, momma knows best! Don't' forget to be in the moment. This time won't seem like it but will be over very quickly. Enjoy that little tadpole!

[@frednonis6832]

God bless you guys. As when you started, it's one step at a time🙂

[@craiglangford7171]

...and thank you for sharing your incredible story with us!

[@MrEspaldapalabras]

I respect so much how you have balanced sharing your lives but not oversharing.

[@barryanderson5116]

My wife and I have watched every single video you folks have put out and enjoyed them all. They continue to get better and better. The quality of the videography is excellent and your coverage of the locations you travel to is first class. Excellent work. Since having the baby we sense a real change. It seems like you are getting more personal with your videos and we really enjoy you sharing your feelings with us. You will make an incredible family and your daughter is in for an educations enjoyed by only a very few. We thank you for your hard work and your efforts in entertaining us and we keep you in our prayers.

[@jeffmoon6230]

Thank you for sharing your life and now little Isa with us. I can see your doing well now, and I’m glad you have that difficult 1st week behind you. Never feel like you owe us a view behind every curtain in your life. I love how Desiree described peeling off her old life and coming out into her new, she seems like a super hero now!

[@jasonwickens0813]

For centuries babies and parents have sailed the high seas. You two new parents are very strong people and will figure it out along the way. God bless your family. Safe seas and may the wind be at your back. Love to all. Be safe. And congrats

[@happygarden7111]

It was wonderful to see the baby!she’s beautiful. Y’all are doing great as first time parents. You got this!

[@michaelmccotter4293]

What a blessing to share this part of your life journey with us. We are 2 Grandparents with 3 Sons + 3 Daughter-in-laws, = 9 Grandchildren, we're enjoying those old memories. Isabella is a beauty and a blessing! You two are beautiful precious Parents. Your doing just fine. We will continue lifting you all in our prayers.

[@marioluque1107]

Having children, raising them, and then watching them grow and eventually become parents is all part of the circle of life and you both have taken the first steps. Wish you the best, health for Isa and patience for you both intermingled with sporadic sleep! 🥰

[@angeliquebelluomini7797]

A gimbal bed for baby is huge! The gentle rocking is a gem.

[@brunolagace1135]

This little bundle of love will change your life for ever. Having three kids of our own we when through all those emotions

[@francineclave2207]

WHAT A BEAUTIFUL STORY TODAY! Desiree it was like you described how unexpectedly you have been born yourself! Wow that was insightful and lovely! ❤️ It is so wonderful seeing you come together as a family and with so much love. Jordan your honesty is strong and we appreciate how you are sharing all your “dad/husband/captain/leader” thoughts too because they strengthen everyone. I believe we are all seeing great parents in the making…. Love from your extended family (worldwide).

[@tomivy11]

Des, Jordan - you’re doing great, ur going to be great parents. Please don’t worry about if you’re doing things right or wrong or worry about a routine just take it slow. It gets better and better everyday, one day you two will be sitting there watching Isa and Oso playing on the foredeck of Atticus ii and it’ll bring such a smile to your face when your reminded to these first few weeks. You’re doing great buds, love you guys and thank you for sharing this part of your journey!

[@naturalsailor7117]

“I think you’re going to need a bigger boat”! Congrats guys. You’ll figure it out like every parent. It can’t be any different than figuring out your solar power, right! You got this. Thanks for sharing your life with us. All the best to you all.

[@bob75819]

jordan I raised three kids and now I have eight grandkids. parenting was the hardest, most difficult, horrible job you will ever have in your life which is also the most greatest and happiest, most rewarding and cherished experience you will ever miss when it's over. love and cherish every moment because it ends way too soon!

[@jamieminton172]

Mine R now in their thirties. My neighbors son in law, a six four Marine combat vet, was a basket case when their first daughter was born. I told him to hang tough and it will get easier when she can put three words together to form a sentence. He ran with that. Adapt and over come. About five years later and another daughter he came to me and asked if I remembered telling him..... I busted up laughing. I looked him in the eyes and replied, " I am sorry Jar Head. I lied! It never gets easier. But you have done well Gunny and they R growing like weeds!" And so, It never does! But the rewards R beyond the dreams of Averroes. My condolences and hearty Congratulations.😍

[@elizabethjocollins4313]

How preciously beautiful your baby is. WOW! all that hair love it. Congratulations! GOD bless all three of you! Enjoy every minute of this time. She will grow so fast. Sending Love, Hugs, and Prayers.

[@domfer2540]

My wife and I had a child in 1989 in Italy. We had no family near by and my wife still wishes her mother was there for the birth. We like yourself, traveled the world starting at 22 years old. Our son at 2 weeks traveled by train to Venice Italy. It was not to bad, we lived north of Venice. We also did some sailing on 30 meter in the Mediterranean. You are developing memories that will never be forgotten and the child grow up to learn self awareness and eager to take control of their live. This a good thing.

[@debbiecollins1154]

What a beautiful child God has given you. You guys are doing a great job and just stay positive and everything else will fall into place.❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@davidm6553]

Issa is so fortunate to have such loving parents and the prettiest boat ever! Best wishes for a very happy life together.

[@alohatvj]

Amazing video 📹 👏. You two are going to be the best parents in the world 🌎. Look forward to the next one 😀.

[@Bosstubeman]

Try this Jordan: "Your not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Just relax. Master this day. Then just keep doing THAT every day". As the father of twins, I know what your talking about. Your waiting for almost a year for her arrival and then BAM, your life just changed dramatically! Roll with it and take each challenge as a learning experience. It gets better......

[@jimfisk4474]

Hello again Desiree and Jordans and sweet little Osa. Thanks so much for sharing your new life. Oh and can't forget your little doggie Oso. I hope I got her name right. Life is full of a million things and we must go with the flow and succeed. Welive jabbered enough so you all be safe and God bless you, by now

[@billwilson6096]

Jordan and Desiree your lives from here on will be fuller and have real meaning. Little Isa will show you the way without you realizing what’s happening. Take it from an old guy of 82 who was fortunate enough to have four kids, three grandkids and a great grandkid. My first was born when I just turned 19 and I feel I grew up with him.

[@beachwalker2574]

Beautiful Baby absolutely Gorgeous ! Birth defects are noting to worry about wait until she is 14 years old keep her off the internet that's a must ! At 6 months old make sure she is in the ocean or water beautiful family !! long long time fan

[@BryanRogers]

Jordan with his Fanny Pack and cap backwards has reached peak 90's Dad. Congratulations you guys. You rock.

[@BryanRogers]

You're going to be great parents.

[@anthonyelam2257]

You always here about the parents of first born always over do it and do better with the second born ... well with both of you I would hope that you cherish every moment with this little angle because they grow so fast ... and I know this child will be so loved and educated by you and everyone who will know her ... she is going to be one great little girl and her education will be so unlimited ... her IQ will be at Genius Level ... like the Baby Movie ... " Baby Genius " ... she will be so special and so loved ... I am so excited for the future of " Project Atticus " ...

[@stub2022]

OMG, she's such a sweetheart!!😁💛💛, and it's always amazing to watch dogs bond with babies. 😆

[@FunsongsMusicByPeterRahill]

The day I was taking my baby girl home, I heard the WORD "G.I.-G.O." (like Guy-Go?!) When I asked, "What does that mean?!" - and then I remembered hearing my first computer term, "Garbage In - Garbage Out"; and I understood right away that I was holding in my arms the equivalent of a blank disc: whatever I hoped to see become of this new little human was going to rely totally on what I 'data' I entered. I wanted her to have a healthy, happy, kind and loving experience - so that was my responsibility and task - to plant good seed, in hopes of raising a fruitful person. Hope that helps you with your responsibilities as new parents: I pray for you to have grand success, joy, peace, and prosperity... and a lot of FUN!

[@FunsongsMusicByPeterRahill]

pardon any typos. :0/

[@windingroad9678]

She has Jordan's eyes and Desires hair, just adorable. Being overtired can be hard, but you both look like you're doing a great job. Very proud of the both of you and thanks for sharing & Happy Birthday Desiree 🎈 🎁

[@tonyl8053]

I'm just so pleased to see that, with all the challenges of being new parents, Oso hasn't been pushed aside. Don't know how you do it all, but good on you!!

[@blainedrayer4776]

You two will thrive when you get settled in. No parent is confidant in the beginning and there are no instructions on your newborn. Glad Osso is enthralled by his new sister. Our first arrived 21 years ago next Friday and he an we survived, even thrived. you got this! The baby blues are a real thing, give yourself permission to feel sad and know it will pass soon.

[@keithproctor6380]

Jordan. You took on some highly insurmountable things in your life. Building a boat basically, learning the lines, the Ocean, repairing things and all the rest of the things. Yes, the old you is fine, now you're a DAD. Now you won't take as many chances because you are in LOVE with a little girl. I had one of both. The sleepless nights go away and you do get used to it. Now you have another challenge...another Chapter in your lives. Everything right now is PRECIOUS time, time for pictures, time to watch a little girl become who she is going to be and you guys get to watch it. Enjoy because it passes quickly. You two will have to change most everything...grow up to be Mom and Dad. Just think of all your friends coming on board and how much they will ignore you because of your little precious girl. Lol. It will be fun again...just in a different way. And now you have a new crew member!!! Just wait until she starts walking ..running...exploring. If she's anything like you two... you're in for some extreme FUN.

[@Dan6erous]

People who don't let themselves be profoundly changed by their children aren't doing it right - so you're doing it right! Also, when possible, nap when they nap!

[@RS-bn9rx]

A daughter’s love of her father will be yours forever..

[@michaelmann3468]

You guys have this, hang in there. You are blessed.

[@peterlang5985]

I follow a bunch of sailing couples on You Tube and seldom watch an episode with 'my heart in my throat' as it is watching both of you share your story, especially this episode as you offer your hearts to us. Your film making is incredible visually, musically and narratively! We all find inspiration following your journey. Isa is a beautiful little human ❤

[@donmoore481]

There are no books required reading for being a parent. Everyone is different, all are a challenge, and It is obvious you three are figuring it out. As others have said here, you are experiencing the time of your lives and will remember this forever, Remember, one day Isa will ask to borrow the keys to the dingy and go off by herself. Everything else is window dressing. Love every minute you have together.

[@jodygirl2023]

That bouncy chair was a life saver for our gassy baby ....pay attention to what you eat and the gas if breast feeding....I found sleep deprivation was my root for all evil...grumpy..no patience...sad...but you are great parents and help each other get rest...She is beautiful and such a blessing to you and your life...we are empty nesters now and I so miss the days you are going through right now....don't sweat the small stuff and enjoy every moment because shortly it will be a blur.....

[@darrencoile]

A few of things I learned as a parent. 1: people have been having kids for thousands of years and, against our best efforts, most of them turn out ok. 2: You’re not going to mess them up like you are messed up, you will mess them up in new and unique ways. 3: enjoy every minute of it. Maybe not in the moment but, years form now the sleepless nights (and days) will become just another funny story you can embarrass them with. ❤

[@sandralea4935]

Unschooling mom of two grown daughters here. (One's an avid sailor now!) Infancy is intense but super fleeting...it only FEELS like it goes on forever. Parenting is a journey in itself, it's not all smooth sailing but if you let it, it can be the most amazing and fulfilling adventure where you'll learn and grow as much as your child will! It'll blow your mind! Wait and see! All the best from Nova Scotia, Canada.

[@yokavandenbrink6010]

Thank you for sharing your wonderful stories with us. Congratulations with the safe arrival of your beautiful baby girl. My husband and I watch quite a few KZbin boat documentaries and we love watching you guys, you are our favourites. We built our 65ft Ketch back in 1993 and have been sailing and living on board for more than 20 years. You are doing a wonderful job. Life is a journey, not a destination, so enjoy the journey. God's richest blessings to you and your beautiful family.

[@gaigegriff2323]

Being a dad of 2 girls, the beginning is the hardest. Exactly as you said, take one step at a time to get up the mountain. I would say forcing a positive mental attitude on yourself helps. You can always find something wrong or to be upset about. If you search for all the little positives, you’ll have a happy life. Y’all are doing awesome.

[@odessa3186]

Keep the bouncy seat. It’s a lifesaver. Also a baby swing. There’s an awful amount of gear you will only use over the first 6 months then you can get rid of it. What a life she’s going to have with two amazing parents. Great grandfather here. When baby naps one or both of you need to nap as well,

[@duanejohnson6271]

You were so lucky to have the family there to help out during those first tough weeks. Your experiences are perfectly normal. It is few births that happen as expected or as planned! You two will make great parents and your daughter will take to life onboard just fine. Be patient and loving and the rest will come in time as it should. Don't worry about things in the future as much as enjoy and appreciate the present.

[@adriangadd6888]

I just want to say congratulations again and how tearfully happy I was watching this episode for you both. You are very special, talented people that will work out the best way to be a new family. Thanks for sharing special moments in your lives.....

[@rboston33]

So happy to see you are doing well. Like many of your followers, I shed a tear or two for you. This is going to be a new beginning . I look forward to watching her grow.

[@triscuba17]

As a proud father of 2 kids, I can relate to your anxiety over the first few days. Seems that you are getting more confident and into a rhythm. You guys will be fine and will be great parents.

[@mrmranch1217]

Welcome to parenthood where every plan u think u had gets chucked overboard hehe. You 2 are amazing and will be amazing parents! Just do you and it will all work out! Congratulations again!! Isa is just beautiful! ❤️

[@gloriaolson4091]

you guys are doing great!!!! I cried watching you guys. Your baby girl is absolutely beautiful! Isabella is so lucky to have you both as parents and to embark in this amazing adventure. You are going to show her the world and so many amazing experiences that the rest of us only dream of. Reach out when you need help. I am sure there are many grandmas, myself being one, who are willing to give you a hand anytime you need one. We love you. Thank you for sharing your life with us. 💝

[@davekragness269]

You guys appear to be doing great! In the next months and years to come...into toddler time...when you are exhausted and everything seems to hitting the fan all at once and anything you try doesn't work to console her...just hug each other and cry...and then look at each other....AND LAUGH! Eventually...it all works itself out. 🥰

[@kevinsanger8339]

As a big burly geezer your episode had a tear in my eye. Isabella is beautiful and the Clip of the crying did make me chuckle a lot. Thanks for fantastic vids..❤️👌

[@johnmartin3486]

Guys I have four children and 5 grandchildren, I’ve seen it all and yet I cried watching this, you did all that and still managed to film it for us Massive respect to you both you have our love and admiration xx

[@boldpredictionssports]

It may be some of the hardest times but the baby stage is really the best. Congrats and remember to enjoy the moment.

[@baeschler]

Don't feel feel like you are confronting a barrier. Feel like you are confronting a huge meaningful experience.Your children will be an enormous part of your life and they will not be with you as long as you realize. Cherish them every minute as they grow because they will not be with you as long as you wish. Burke in Montana.

[@Danclimb1989]

I can RECOMMEND this book " french children don't throw food", awesome tips on sleep routine ! My daughter of 10 month sleep like a rock after I have read and applied the tips in the book. Super hugs to the family,❣️

[@doogl2331]

A big congrats you two, she is lovely. Our girl had colic for 3 months, it was horrible but then one day it left and there was this new little girl again. The lack of sleep you are feeling gives you a new understanding why sleep deprivation is used as a torcher technique. Just remember two things baby’s love schedules and Desiree what you eat the baby eats. And Jordan you will become a wiz at getting projects done fast… Cheers you two.

[@blackthornhealing]

Gosh I had twins with colic. Its horrible that colic. And beautiful when it stops.

[@jameswilliams1405]

As a dad to 3 and grandpa to 7 . One little advice... always enjoy each phase of being a parent. As I look back now at how fast it all went. I am always amazed. Welcome 🙏 to being a mommy and daddy hood lol 😆.. biggest of hugs to you all. God has blessed you with a beautiful gift. Enjoy her...

[@mpdsailing]

Ten fingers, ten toes, count your blessings. And oh yea, you need the bouncy baby thingy!

[@delmanicke9228]

My dad had a saying, patience and perseverance, and ye shall be rewarded, it has held true all my life and I'm almost 70. My best to you all. ❤️

[@mrsmithdaddy]

Cool to see you guys documenting your adaptation. Everyone's story is full of changes. Some are planned, some not planned. I really appreciated hearing you guys express how you're willing to let go of some of how you wanted to view yourselves and allow the evolving you to emerge. Isa's going to have an exciting life! (edit: just wanted to add that I'm a 56 yo dad of 6 kids, and I'm a very different person than I was 30 years ago when I first got out of the military, haha!)

[@thobiaslysell4579]

Hang in there! As my firstborn joined our family I was like you. I felt like the ”ground service” only. But day by day the bond comes to life. Especially after like 6-10 moths. I was in panic the first weeks. No one told us anything about parenthood, just the deliveryprocess. But it made my life complete, and has ever since. My only advice is to spend as much time as posible with the kids, always. Time flyes and to enjoy every day is a must. You will miss the cuddling afternoon sleep sessions later on. My kids are now 9 and 6. We just came back from snowboarding this week. Thay love the summertime on our sailboat and the arcipilagio around here. To see them grow, both fysicly and mentaly is my biggest adventure yet. We also did not have a nice experiance the first time giving birth. But at the end, it’s the outcome that matters. Looking forward to see the upcoming adventure of raising a kid onboard. BTW, Sweden is really nice during the summer since you already is in the med.

[@TravelswithTommyandLori]

We have watched y'all from the start . Child raising is one of the most daunting things you will ever do in your life. I understand being overwhelmed, but I promise, this is the best investment (and the scariest) you'll ever make. Y'all got this. Meanwhile, we'll just watch, feeling like secondary grandparents and cheering you guy on from a distance. Our daughter is y'alls age and we're blessed with two grands. I'll tell y'all the same as we told her and our son in law, just do the best you. can and lead with your heart. If you do that, you'll raise humans as good as you are.

[@lesleyt7438]

I struggled really hard with the newborn stage. I didn’t like it (I felt like I had gone to hell) and felt really guilty about not liking it and just surviving. An older mom gave me permission to not like it and assured me there are other stages I’d love. My girls are 17 & 20 now and it’s been an amazing journey. Only the first 3 months were difficult. Congratulations you’re great parents!!

[@Gotmath8]

Second this experience. Hang in there, guys. ❤

[@robertnixon3816]

What you are experiencing is really normal. Always remember that your baby is on a steep learning curve and so are you both! You will soon find out that nothing when it comes to babies is "set in stone". Roll with it, adapt daily. This is the greatest adventure of you lives and your both doing it right! BTW: so stinking cute!

[@rockysjewel]

Just relax and take day by day. You worry too much about what you will do when. When that time comes you will know what to do. You don't have to be perfect, it's ok to make mistakes. I was 17 with my first and did just fine. Issa has 2 loving parents and has all she needs. RELAX and enjoy each moment

[@valeriesorrells]

you two are rockstars doing this on a boat! I have two teenage boys born less than 2 years apart. Those first four years we don't remember a thing because of sleep deprivation. The ability of you two to document her early life is amazing. Stay strong, you two are doing great!

[@vandbaxelrad6902]

You are very brave. Thinking about the other boat-babies, La Vagabond, Delos and Ran, they all stayed on land for the first few months. You are true boat people. I wouldn't have this courage. I'm impressed.