BABY PRODUCTS I REGRET + WILL NEVER BUY! 2021

[@BethanyFontaine]

I hope you all enjoyed the video! Just a reminder that this is my personal opinion on these items and doesn't mean these products can't be useful to you! To each their own! You know what's best for your little ones! Appreciate you all.

[@taylor2076]

Loved this video! It was really helpful in deciding what I want to buy for baby. If you’re looking to give out the pacifiers, I’d love to try some! Thank you.

[@linak4558]

I'm from Finland and over here many babies sleep all their daily naps for the first 6 months outside in the stroller bassinet (from 2-3 weeks of age), so to us it's really essential. My parents had a canadian guy staying at their place for a while and he couldn't understand how one could let a baby sleep outside. To me sleeping outside is great (with a babymonitor), fresh air and all that. :)

[@ariannatartan5449]

I love that concept! My Finnish Mother in law (here in Canada) often gives a Finnish baby box to new moms. I love that the box doubles as a bed.

[@BethanyFontaine]

That's so awesome! I've heard of the outside naps over there. I can see that being a total essential for that!

[@sintus1]

We do this in Norway too 😊👍

[@threearrows2248]

Unless you live in Miami and the baby would bake 😬😬😬 sounds lovely if it's nice out!

[@emmashuherk6052]

Pumps should be free through your insurance if you are in the US. Also bassinets lay your baby flat which is better for development and more sleep safe than just using the seat or the car seat.

[@bratmari]

I thought so too. With my son I had different insurance 5yrs ago and completely free no questions. Now on my husband's blue cross insurance apparently I have to hit my deductible before it's free. Otherwise I have to buy and and maybe get compensated once I do hit my deductible. Crazy

[@VietQuanT]

Not sure how u can review on products u never used

[@torirobinson6860]

I’ve tried only 4 kinds of wipes so far with my newborn… water wipes win hands down! Free from crappy ingredients, the extra wetness helps clean diaper messes sooo much, and they don’t dry out like the other ones do!

[@ShelbyZager95]

Kinda weird to list out opinions of stuff you never even had to use..

[@ksenia5199]

Consider seeing if there is a buy nothing or gifting Facebook group for your city. You can pass things you don’t need/use to another mom.

[@lindsaybauer6295]

I actually used the bassinet that came with our stroller as my daughter's actual bassinet and it was great!

[@BethanyFontaine]

Thats awesome! I'm glad that worked for you! :)

[@KrystenStrunck]

For new time moms.. I think a pump is essential because no matter what you PLAN on doing, things can change so quickly with a baby, so if for some reason you need you would have it there and not have to wait on it if you ever need one. Most insurances will cover a pump. 🥰

[@rubinabegum4360]

Agreed I bought one for $20 from Amazon and used it for 3 months.. and it was so easy to transition..

[@keithcass257]

I’ve used practically every product you regret buying with my little girl. I’d like to stress for new parents in your comment section that each baby is different

[@SamiGirl261]

I bought the baby breeza and I love it. I don’t have a great supply and it’s so easy to use when my daughter needs a bottle. I still feel like I need more bottles though 😂 With the Mamaroo, my friend had one. And I’m my daughter loved it. So I bought an older model second hand. Best $160 ever. Each mama is different and what works for one doesn’t work for another. We are all doing our best ❤️

[@kasieharriet8498]

You understand a lot of times people buy the snoo because they’re desperate. I think it would be good to mention it’s more than a bassinet. It rocks and shushes your baby and is designed to give you and your baby more rest

[@Lindsayf82]

Exactly! The snoo was a lifesaver for me. I was getting such little sleep and broken into tiny amounts at a time and was exhausted when my son was younger. We rented the snoo for a few months and it helped so much!

[@hanajang1]

@@Lindsayf82 I’m considering the Snoo..did you have it right when your baby came home? And how many months did you rent it for? Debating if I should buy or rent. Thanks!

[@Lindsayf82]

@@hanajang1 hi! I did not have it right when I brought him home, if we have another I think I would though. For my son we got it when he was around two months old and kept it until he was around five months. Then transitioned to the crib.

[@hanajang1]

@@Lindsayf82 thank you!!

[@sj0223]

I LOVE that you're a minimalist mom who's honest about what's needed and what's not. I'm in my 30s and never thought I could have children and pregnant with my miracle little girl right now. I'm terrified as this is unexpected and I'm already 5 months and was unaware for a while. We won't have much help from family or friends and all the products they have out there and all the MONEY I feel I'm expected to spend as a new parent is so scary. This video helped me the most so far and I really appreciate you and your honesty.

[@alexadams2886]

Congratulations on your little one!! Minimal is the best way to go. I have bought a lot of my baby’s stuff off marketplace. Also look for kids consignment things, tons of people selling kids items and as an expecting mom you can normally get first day passes for free. Only thing I’m buying new for my baby is crib mattress and the car seat. I will buy pacifiers and bottles used if they are still in packaging though.

[@dichang3]

Be careful when borrowing or getting a used pump. Make sure it's a closed system and not an open system.

[@katyh.2501]

Newborn should be kept in bassinet until 6 months, after that normal stroller seat is ok to use.

[@alldoodle1997]

The formula maker is awful. You have to clean it SOOOO often, and it gets clogged easily. We ended up just using it for warm water, and they sell something that dispenses warm water for a fraction of the cost. So save money and time, get the water dispenser and manually scoop the formula!

[@michelletraceyy]

THISSSSSSSS. Skip the formula maker and just get the warm water dispenser!

[@emilybowen5871]

I use the tommee tippee perfect prep machine to make my bottles. I love it! Makes a bottle in less than 2 minutes and is at the right temperature. Definitely makes life easier when baby is hungry and you need a bottle made quickly! X

[@PlayWithSunshine]

I agree with almost all of these. The uppababy still is my favourite stroller and the bassinet was used multiple times for napping and overnight trips while traveling or even outdoor naps in the backyard in the summer and using the included bug shield. Way more comfortable to sleep on a mattress than a seat. But it is very expensive and definitely a luxury. Having said that, my eldest is 6 and we are still using it. She steps on the board attachment. Brother is on top. And hopefully baby #3 will be in the bassinet at the bottom whenever that happens 😀 hopefully this video saves a lot of money for first time moms.

[@CharminglySilly]

And the Uppababy strollers have a decent resell value!

[@AdrianeErin]

Used my bassinet "add on " for my stroller as the bassinet they sleep in as well. We also go for very long walks so this feature was essential for us.

[@angelicalopez8030]

I definitely need bottles!

[@rubinabegum4360]

Thank you for your video but I guess it depends on the person.. I bought wipers warmer for my winter born and it was only $10 , also I did buy 20 bottles and even though I stayed home for 3 months I prefer pumping breast milk and use bottles. I also bought playpan 3 in one and it was useful.

[@kristenosterhage4068]

Agreed on all these! LOVE LOVE the velcro swaddles. If you are in a pinch regarding the mitts, socks work great. Also, my boys were newborns in cold weather and peed on me a ton. I found laying a burp cloth over their tummy during a change kept something super handy to whip over them when they started peeing.

[@Stargemini11]

I liked your commentary on this. I always thought a wipe warmer would be really nice. But what about when out and about? So I’m going to no warmer route and will see. Sometimes they go on clearance so if I end up needing one could pick one up. But also the formula thing I have friends that swear by it but they really enjoy the little bottles that are out now for in the go.

[@AvastPirateGirl]

1) diaper genie waste of money was unnecessary and expensive may get ubbi binds it can use regular trash bags and 2)DO NOT get a baby Brezza it was awful major waste of money dispensed inconsistently and more of a mess to clean

[@nicola6234]

I agree with all of these, two time mom now. We did get a second hand baby bath gifted to us and it just lives in our big tub to save us water as we live on tank water only. We kept it very minimal and I don't regret it one bit!

[@mariec8619]

I hated my snoo at first and so did my baby but we both ended up loving it after about 5 weeks. Such a life saver.

[@HesedAcres]

To each his own but our (used and much cheaper) snoo has been the most worthwhile splurge. It can’t really be compared to a standard bassinet because of the smart soothing and weaning ability later. We’ve had 4+ hour stretches of sleep since coming home from the hospital and sleep is priceless at the moment. We cut corners elsewhere to splurge for sleep and for us it made sense and no regrets!

[@TracyPodz]

I agree, I decided I am splurging on the snoo with my third. After going through 2 babies that aren’t great sleepers, I think it’ll be worth it!

[@pieceful_puzzling]

So glad to hear! I got one for half price off FB marketplace for baby coming next month and I am REALLY looking forward to trying it

[@inuyashaismydensity]

This is really helpful, I'm pregnant with my first ever baby and I've been nervous about getting items and what actually works or not

[@allbutgrey]

The bassinet that clips onto the stroller is safe for infant sleep so I see it as a must have for outdoor naps.

[@jerushadoerksen9727]

I'd like to try the Bibs pacifiers, but not sure about spending the extra money on them. Totally agree that you don't need to spend so much money on all the expensive baby items.

[@Lindsayf82]

The bibs pacifiers are amazing! My son was able to keep them in his mouth much easier than the other brands we tried 😊

[@hamiltonhome9390]

A lot of insurance companies pay for breast pumps

[@jordanscott5399]

Binge watching videos like this as I prepare for baby girl #3 in June! Feels like forever since I’ve had to buy baby products, even though my youngest is only three😅 ALSO: Formula feeding mamas, PLEASE don’t use a Baby Brezza. They are actually extremely dangerous for little ones. Not only are they a breeding ground for bacteria, they’ve also been known to use too much water in bottles, causing weight issues with babies and in serious cases, water toxicity which can be deadly. Not worth it!

[@adrim3749]

I love my wipe warmer 😅 and my diaper pail I think it just depends your preference. I feel like it really does depend on each mom and each baby.

[@rubyahmadi8957]

Hi Bethany, congratulations on your new born. I love your channel. My baby daughter is 3 months too and I really wanted my baby to have that kind of pacifier but no success and I had the same issue with the muslin swaddle. 💕

[@neuroticgypsy]

the snoo and uppababy are great products

[@dryvonneburkart]

Such a great break down of the regrets! I totally agree about the Water Wipes and muslin blankets. I bought way too many!

[@rainellstewart1560]

Being that I am 34 weeks and a soon to be young mom this was SUPER helpful. I have no idea yet what will work for my baby but, I definitely took into consideration to wait to stock up on things. Just to see if he will take to certain stuff.

[@randlynch9582]

Don’t worry about having everything. I got everything from target pick up when I needed more. My best tip don’t get any diapers, they’ll outgrow them in no time. Maybe get one newborn size diaper pack not a big box and when you’re sure that the diapers work for them

[@leahbailey9085]

Love Kirkland diapers too!

[@delanieokeefe9597]

The baby brezza is a LIFE SAVER!!!!

[@jannatulferdoush3218]

I love your every videos..It's so helpful. I'm not a American, but now living here,so I had no idea what I need to help me grow my 1st baby,I love to Watch your video and listing every think what I need.Wish me luck, next month my 1st baby will be come and I'm so excited. Thanks.

[@corpselizzy]

She's Canadian 😂

[@jannatulferdoush3218]

@@corpselizzy sorry, Actually I m a new follower of her,just see several videos,but I really like her.And for a asian people everyone looking like same ( American, canadian etc)

[@abigailmae2585]

I would love to hear about your breastfeeding journey! I’m halfway through my pregnancy (first) and I’m a little overwhelmed 😅

[@threearrows2248]

Congrats, don't be overwhelmed! Trust your body and baby, and don't make too many plans. Going with the flow saves sanity!

[@randlynch9582]

Trust your baby 100%. Let baby eat when baby wants to eat. Eating for a baby is an experience not a chore not a task. Even if formula feeding, be engaged and patient. I read this a lot but just be patient and feed baby any time they want. If baby sleeps a lot, wake them gently and feed them.

[@machaelaailene]

I can agree with a lot of these. Don't spend your money on items you're not sure if you'll need. As a formula feeding Mama, I find that you can never have enough bottles. But you don't need to go expensive with them. I personally love the 99c ones from Walmart. It's nice to have a couple on hand in the beginning.

[@allisonkemper5533]

We tried a few fancy bottles and my baby took to Walmart bottles best. It’s nice when your baby has frugal tastes. 😄

[@machaelaailene]

@@allisonkemper5533 that's exactly what happened with us.

[@aliwright811]

Saaaame girl! Only difference is when my son was 7 months we had to stop breastfeeding so we switched to formula and the baby brezza was a life saver! It’s so convenient and honestly just magical. They are popular so I found one on fb marketplace for $50!

[@MarcieJ2000]

Every kid is different, and every family is different. Snoo is crazy expensive, but for us it was literal survival with a baby who seriously struggles with sleep. Neither of us were sleeping 24/7 weeks on end until we got SNOO

[@BethanyFontaine]

Exactly! Glad it worked well for you! :)

[@kaitlynjohn8896]

I could use the bottles! I am finishing clinicals and have to pump and bottle feed while at school.

[@lauren8627]

Oh man I hated the haaka. It either wasn't strong enough or if I pinched it a little before placing it on my nipple I was in excruciating pain. And literally no milk came out. I love Spectra electric pumps, the 9 is amazing for 3-5 pumps a day, if you need more either the S1 or S2 have more charge/connect to the power outlet.

[@BeautyBabe46]

I totally agree with you on the baby bath thing! I actually have a baby bath but it is VERY awkward to store because it’s so big🙈

[@ameliefauchon219]

Formula feed maker with my second and it’s AMAZING, stress relief, it’s fast, perfect temperature each time! I love my baby brezza! And as for bottles I did wait and decided to buy 4 comotomo bottles and only use these 4 day and night 🤷‍♀️

[@BethanyFontaine]

That's awesome! I can see how it would be so amazing for you!!

[@kaijaloren]

The towel is a great idea for bath, but I may do it in the sink at first. They used to make a sponge or cushion for very inexpensive, but I haven’t seen them in a while

[@LoveAtHome]

I agree with majority of the products on this list! I also didn't like the mittens and wipe warmer. I barely used them as well as our bassinet 😅

[@bratmari]

I hated the baby bathtub. So big and unnecessary. When my son was able to sit up at 5months he just sat in the tub. I would have just used a sling type.

[@dreagill6767]

Hello Bethany thank u so much for the advice. Do u still have the bottles available?

[@peta-gaysloley-bennett6558]

I'm a new mommy...I find all these must have overwhelming. I would really appreciate if you could bless me with some of the items you don't need.

[@rach6471]

All my 5 children loved the swing , so this time round for baby #6 ( last baby !! ) I bought a used 4 moms swing and saved a ton of Money. Fingers crossed 🤞 he or she loves it !

[@MyBestSelf1]

The bibs works really well here, with our new born of 2 weeks old. He keeps them in really well 👌🏻

[@lindsaybauer6295]

Haha literally the first thing I thought of that was useless was the wipe warmer because I was thinking of it today ironically😆

[@Diana-ue9tt]

The stroller bassinet was a must have for me. My baby refused to sleep on his back and only slept on his tummy (for course I let him because he had great neck and head control already). He could sleep on his tummy in the bassinet while I was going for a walk or in the store until he outgrew the bassinet. Maybe don't buy it right away but if your baby is a tummy sleeper early on I would definitely recommend getting it.

[@carmencastaneda8828]

Do you still have extra bibs pacifiers that you didn’t use?

[@sairagutierrez3654]

Do you have any tips about an exclusively breastfeeding mom?? Like when you go out and about. Running errands or going out of town?? Do you carry breastmilk in a cooler or just feed your baby yourself in the car?

[@MadameEclipseRose]

I am exclusively breastfeeding and I breastfeed my baby wherever I am. I even once breastfeed I am art gallery 😅

[@vergisses7535]

Me too! I remember the first time I took her to the supermarket with me. I felt so cool to finally be using the "family parking space" right in front of the entrance 😎 After shopping she was so upset, I could only calm her down by breastfeeding and felt so exposed sitting in my car 😳😆 Just take a scarf or a muslin swaddle with you, and you're fine until your little one is able to play with it and pull it off with it's little hands 😉 Carrying milk in bottles around doesn't make sense in my opinion, only on longer car travels, where you cannot take your baby out of the seat without taking a long brake. Bottlefeeding and not having to stop for every meal is nice in this particular situation, although your baby should not stay in its car seat for too long in a row anyway. But that's the only situation where I found it helpful to have milk in a bottle with us.

[@sairagutierrez3654]

@@vergisses7535 thank you its the first time I breastfeed. I get nervous to feed him in front of people. I feel exposed and embarassed. I have a nursing cover but still I don't feel confident in public.

[@vergisses7535]

@@sairagutierrez3654 that is okay! Don't do anything you're not comfortable with! The "breastfeeding relationship" develops in the first few weeks/months! Enjoy the first time as a little family at home and take your privacy for breastfeeding if you have guests. Over the time, the meals will get shorter and easier to "plan" with and you will be able to do running errands in between.

[@threearrows2248]

I just pop out a boob whenever my kid needs to eat. Sitting in a park, in a grocery store, walking around Disney...

[@lizethcamacho44]

if you have any unused baby things i would love them since i had my baby early i was not ready lol

[@RachelTerry]

the diaper backpack you have? where is it from?

[@Brianna7104]

I agree with so many of these! My only difference is that I wished I had a bassinet stroller attachment because my babies hated the angle of the car seat and couldn’t sit up in the regular stroller seat for a while

[@jessicamoore9771]

I had to use socks on my newborn he hands were way to big for them

[@sharhondareynolds8548]

What brand and type is the brown backpack

[@carolezehner1659]

where are you from? the way you say borrow is funny LOL but this video is great, there are so many baby items that are unnessecary and just take up space.

[@BethanyFontaine]

I'm from Canada maybe thats why. haha :)

[@kawigirl100]

I thought I didn't need the automatic formula maker but we ended up getting one because it is so convenient. I got it on fb marketplace for 50 bucks and it has been great. The wipe warmer is a no no in my books. We were gifted one and long story short we had a one week stay in the hospital due to a uti when my little one was 2 months old. I suspect it had to do with the wipe warmer harboring bacteria, it was a nightmare.

[@allisonkemper5533]

Yep, we were skeptical of the baby brezza, but a friend lent us one and we LOVE it. My baby is combo fed and most formula bottles happen at night. We really like that we’re only 20 seconds from having a bottle ready at 2am. We’re so hooked that we bought a second one on fb marketplace that we use at my parents. I really don’t know if I could’ve ever convinced myself to buy one new, though…$$$

[@sarahmooremotherhoodlifest6625]

I feel this! I bought so much I didn’t use

[@k.i.dclothestv374]

It's good to hear from moms first-hand experience with a product

[@cassandradube-savard5213]

My sister in-law got a second hand bottle maker and she loves it since it makes the bottle less than two minutes :). I heard good things about the bottle maker

[@mountainmamacloth4441]

Love your channel!

[@Life-ll1xs]

First

[@bethanymccarthy2020]

Assuming you’re Canadian? Breast pumps in the United States are 100% free. Even the nice ones. I exclusively breastfed and a SAHM but still needed my pump for supplies etc.

[@BethanyFontaine]

Wouldn't that be wonderful if we didn't have to pay for them here... it's like $400 out of pocket usually for a good one!

[@bratmari]

I thought so too, but apparently it Depends on the kind of insurance. With my 1st it was free and now on my husband's insurance I have to hit my deductible before they will cover it.

[@chrystalbaby3826]

I’m from the US and my breast pump wasn’t covered with insurance 🥲