Bachelor party HOT TAKES, budgets, strippas, & ideal trips!

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[@arianabustamante1736]

I love how open minded Josh is and try’s to see both sides to everything

[@cyndival24]

Can I just say how much I appreciate that Josh totally gets it with the money situation as far as splitting the bill. A lot of us want to hang out with friends but still live on a budget and it gets tricky especially when u have to deal with people that take advantage. It’s not black or white when it comes to this topic. Every situation is different.

[@melissamartinez7877]

You guys should have Karen and another female friend for a part 2 and hear the “Do’s & Dont’s” from them, I think that would make another great episode. #mondaysdontsuck ❤

[@ThisChik16]

Yesss with Morelia perhaps 🫢😉

[@2073228]

@@ThisChik16 it would have to be one of Karen’s bridesmaids lol I don’t think she is one

[@torijurado2486]

Yes!! Going on a bachelorette trip to Florida in 9 weeks. This was helpful. Would love to have a woman’s insight.

[@sireniabautista9529]

Oh yess! Women’s perspective would be awesome & on average how much $$ to they spend on the week trips Ik it depends on among of ppl but still!

[@ojitosvee]

Karen and Ale 👏🏽

[@natashagarcia491]

La platicitaaaa we missed uuuu Josh lookin fine as per usuuuuaalll. Sebas always stayin freshhhh. Needed this today.

[@14martharomero]

lmao 🤣

[@priscillarasso6023]

Josh, I agree with you 100%. People don't have to know the In's and Out's of someone's relationship. Acting responsible and respectful and having a good mindset on the situation is the main topic. Taking one's feelings into consideration is also huge if you really care about your partner. Everyone has different feelings, and that's okay. Communication is the key for your Loved one.

[@edgarcuevas7319]

I love josh and his way of thinking. He is so humble and grounded. I feel like with Seas is this way or no way his very firm with his answers as there is no other way

[@nancybrito8495]

I love my boi Sebas but he def seems to see a lot of things from a more privileged perspective Also when Josh said that he hates money tension and would rather take care of it, THATS ME! I’ll use my credit card if I have to lol I hate money awkwardness

[@yazmintorres9084]

I agree with what you said about Sebas.

[@2073228]

I see your point, but also he is friends with people with the same privilege so maybe it’s not weird for them. Just his own POV

[@Yesenia305]

I agree with you! I have been picking up that vibe from him on several episodes now, including this one.

[@baabybal711]

I agreee!! Still love sebas but you can tell he is more privileged minded

[@lanohwanoh]

@@2073228 yea I think sometimes perhaps they forget that most of their viewers dont have it like that. a little bit out of touch on this episode with the bachelor party expectations lol

[@ladeljeepblanco]

I love that you are ready to have a great time with your friends but keeping your relationship boundaries in mind. All men & women should be this way in a relationship. Trust and communication is definitely key!! Great episode ❤

[@stephanieamador68]

I literally love this poddy oddy woddy!! Buuuuut for the first time I felt super *side eye* when sebas was talking about the money situation, you only feel that way because you’re privileged maaaa boiiii. Haha yes you deserve to fine dine bc you have the money you well earned but not everyone had that luxury to just pay for everyone this time and they pay next because not everyone has that type of money. Either way still love y’all but hope you consider that next time you classify money situation as maturity vs case by case scenario. In the perfect world we would all love to pay for everyone and ball out lol

[@Wendeee5]

Period

[@danielleinfante5086]

Well said!!! 🙌🏽

[@Yesenia305]

Very well said!

[@lanohwanoh]

I think he would have a different perspective if he was making regular job money. Most of us arent influencers or have boujee circle of friends. Some of have kids to feed vs inflating an entitled friend’s “Specialness” by “servicing” them. Its for the birds in this economy. Also ppl in the ranchos didnt have these bachelor “parties” lol sorry for MY hot take 🫣still love yall!!!

[@TheHumblelife69]

Personally if I’m the one getting married, I would NOT expect anyone to spend anything on me. It’s my choice to get married why should they have to pay for any of it. If there was a party planned I would pay for what I want and just have them pay for whatever they want to do or take. I don’t get why others have to spend on something I am choosing to do 🤷🏻‍♀️ secondly if I could not afford to do pay it myself I would not expect anyone else to pay for anything.

[@helloyou9]

Heck, some ppl are just fine with a sit down brunch, lunch or dinner surrounded by their loved ones. But like Sebas says, communicating with the newlyweds to be and the wedding party. Heck, it maybe even nicer that instead of doing anything, maybe a honeymoon fund.

[@actg08]

Josh casually dropping Gone with the Wind quotes… I liveeeee

[@lluviagarcia8707]

I just know both of these guys love so genuinely and with a whole heart! Just the way Sebas expresses himself about Karen , and the way Josh speaks about how he will treat a partner and the way he sees his future relationship is sooooo warming and beautiful to hear 🥹❤️

[@koartehz]

We need more men like them

[@Charobabyyy]

As a woman’s perspective in the whole bachelor night out. I think both partners need to have a discussion about the event before. Y’all gonna do what you wanna do. Regardless. But if you have respect for one another there shouldn’t be anything to trip over. Both party’s have a memorable night! 🤪 Love you guys & Karen 💕

[@jess-yu3by]

Sebas needs to be humbled. He acts like he wasn’t on a budget a few years ago. I’ve never gotten this vibe from the queen herself, Karen. But Sebas come on, a lot of us didn’t even know who you were until Karen. Sorry but I was not feeling your vibes in this episode. Josh on the other hand is always good vibes 🌀

[@jedidahevence]

About the paying etiquette, I agree with one person paying & everyone else paying that person for example if a party is being planned. However most of the time when me and my girls go for dinner(we're a small group) we just do separate bills, it's easier so everyone can eat as little or as much as they want.

[@emmendez28]

Exactly same here

[@amarquez211]

Just have to make sure everyone is going to pay you back! Still haven't gotten paid after 5years 😂 lost cause there

[@AshXoxo-vm1jw]

I wish I could’ve sent this to my bridesmaids party before my bachelorette trip !! I had a bridesmaid who stays penny pinching and it brought everyone’s vibe down . Me as the bride I had to be the mediator between her and the rest of the party . It was so uncomfortable. Please do an financial episode to social etiquette because some people need to learn 🙃🙃

[@priscillapie]

As her friend don’t you know how she is beforehand? Why didn’t you have the conversation before?

[@AshXoxo-vm1jw]

@@priscillapie my friend has an expensive taste . Always buying brand names purses and clothes. But when it comes to splitting dinner bills or splitting drinks when We go out , she always makes comments of how expensive things are and sometimes tells me if she can pay me later. I never went on a trip with her before though and it got awkward with money real fast & I ended up paying her part just to avoid conflict with the rest of the girls

[@precilla5669]

I think that strip clubs aren’t necessarily for the bachelor, they are for the groomsman because why would an engaged man need to celebrate his engagement by having naked women who are not his fiancé performing for him? 🤔 that’s just my take. Great episode!

[@herreraraquel5]

I agree with Sebas, if our group of friends plan to go out to dinner then it should be split evenly. Now if I decide to buy an expensive bottle or meal then I know that I’m putting more money towards the bill. This is also a conversation you have with those friends before you start ordering food!

[@emmendez28]

Why can’t we all just get separate bills? Some people order way more drinks than others so it just makes it easier to get our own bill

[@marissajorgensen8912]

I agree 100% with mahboiis about splitting the check evenly. But also DONT be that person who takes advantage and order more and expect people to pay for that 👏🏻

[@miss.andreanicole]

I love how you guys are so in for being loyal to your significant other. 💓

[@juanitahernandez341]

Respect is the number one take away. Whatever you do to celebrate a bachelorette or bachelor party do it in a respectful manner.

[@neednids]

Sebas last point was so on pointttt, grounding yourself throughout moments where you're so caught up in the motion is such a great reminder and such a nice perspective to these celebrations. Luv u guiseeee

[@jaquelinemorales8618]

Dang even when traveling, y’all still post 🔥 real dedication mah boiiis!!

[@kristelmacias8401]

Josh gives me mega golden retriever vibes and it’s just downright the sweetest most absolutely adorable thing…… *please date me*

[@tatianahenriquez4091]

I agree with everything you guys said - my friends and I split everything . order what you want ! and depending on the amount of ppl we typically just pay with one card and send the money right there. there's been times where I was damn near homeless and I would get invited out but I wouldn't go - cause if you don't got it don't force yaself to go out. you will be okay

[@akchavezm]

I love how Sebas tells Josh “if you had a girl” 😂

[@araiscarreno2670]

But isn’t he actually seeing someone right now? Haha

[@akchavezm]

@@araiscarreno2670 Yeah he is lol

[@lettyzendejas8981]

Lol we know!

[@helloyou9]

@@akchavezm Josh himself said he is single.

[@Ali-gk4bc]

@@helloyou9he's probably trying keep it private for him and the girl, but he is seeing someone

[@Jenchaaaaaaa]

Feliz Lunes La Plática Familia!!! Just started this episode and I already know it’s going to be 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@karenrm8632]

Listening to the podcast while making breakfast for my kids and now my 3 year old is walking around saying “caca-popo” 😂💀

[@sandraaragon2571]

Not Josh asking for " the perfect bachelor party" sneaky lol ! taking mental notes for Sebas 😂😂🤫

[@lizzettenava6672]

Loved this poddy! ❤ and loved that the emphasis was on communicating with your person when it comes to these baches! 🎉 😅 I can’t even express how awkward/uncomfortable it is to sit there and watch people arguing with their significant other and be in a bad mood. It honestly makes the vibe change. Set the tone for the weekend, be transparent, communicate & be respectful 🙌🏻🤍 *if your not in a relationship, go ham heheheh!!

[@Aleg519]

Glad to have La Platica today. Was a little worried we weren’t going to get one today! Lol. Let’s get itati on the potty watty

[@LaPincheDaze]

I love opening up KZbin & seeing yalls faces first thing on Mondays. MONDAYS DONT SUCK BABY!!!

[@0618pixie]

HEY! I was the one who asked for a picture in Colombia while at the “Colosal” restaurant! Thank you so much for being so kind! Funny story, my male cousin confused you for Maluma when you walked in and he pointed you out, my female cousin knew exactly who you were and told me you walked in 😂 (she knew I follow you and Karen, and she had mentioned you were also in Colombia) Saludos!!

[@IrlandaArriaga]

First of all Karen AINT worried about nooooo $trippers 😂💯 Karen is BEAUTIFUL ✨✨✨✨

[@sweetleaf2806]

and that’s on iluvsarahii

[@washurhands5079]

Sebas talks like that because he has the money to go the extra mile. But if I’m the friend that has money I have to be considerate about my friends that don’t make as much money as me.

[@jessicam522]

It’s a damned if you do, damned if you don’t scenario. I would hate for my friend to change her or his plans for me because I can’t afford to do certain things. It’s about THEM. But, everyone views things differently and your opinion matters too.

[@aylin7567]

Josh’s way of thinking when it comes to relationships is goals, hes understanding and not one sighted. Hope he gets a girl that will reciprocate his effort 🥹

[@Sailor.Catracha]

He has changed? I thought he did cheat in his relationship w chachi

[@veronicam263]

Love Josh’s perspective on money management, I’m trying to get those points as well!🤓

[@Angielorraine2023]

I love the wedding content. I really think we need Karen on again before the wedding. Maybe even one of her bridesmaids!! That would be an awesome episode!!

[@mariaxelo1192]

Totally get what your saying, but sometimes people don’t have the funds and get guilt tripped in to participate anyway. I personally like to know a head of time roughly how much I’ll be spending so i can plan for it vs not knowing and being put in an awkward situation.

[@jazminpinon6083]

I AGREE WITH YOU GUYS w. the splitting the bill part!

[@shellymakavelii]

Love these type of videos from you guys! Can genuinely respect y’all’s insight!

[@behappytoday6137]

Strippers are just straight up disrespectful… it has nothing to do with omg you’re so boring, it’s your last time.. blah blah blah. You are checking out lusting over another women. There is no way around it. If you need to have that thrill of a stripper when you’re about to be married.. then don’t get married. If you’re single fine do whatever you want. But if my boyfriend/fiancé/husband did that I would be disgusted and hurt.

[@Chanita1717]

Yeah I agree on the financial aspect. When I plan trips or go on trips it’s always with the friends that are also financially stable. I have friends that are not and that’s ok. But when it comes to trips I only have a select few that I travel with

[@cheetofan1998]

I 100% agree with the going out with friends etiquette! Just split it between everyone and if you don’t have enough, give what you can and everyone else can help with the rest. You should know your friends enough to know what to do with the bill but unless it’s a special circumstance, SPLIT THE BILL EVENLY!!!

[@eileenhan6593]

I love when they ~doctor straahnngeee~ it😂😂😂 love y’all SO much🔥

[@hannahsoliz3571]

my absolute favorite poddy!!!!! love it here

[@crystals5581]

Perfect timing, going on a bachelorette trip soon. 🙌🏽 Part 2 with both of your perspectives + Karen’s!! 🤍

[@faithcardenas7312]

I started watching you guys last week & I’ve been hooked! Monday’s are the best days ever now! 🤪

[@kaylafernandez5791]

I agree 10000000% just split evenly..makes it so much easier and not awk when the check comes

[@Quetzalxx50]

Y’all have been dropping banger episodes lately. Keep it up. ♥️

[@marleyx3663]

i definitely disagree on the whole restaurant paying the bill evenly thing. i’ve been in the situation where i’m broke af but i still wanna be included with my friends so i go out to eat with them, but all i can afford is an appetizer 😭 so ya i’m not about to pay the bill evenly when i just had artichoke dip & everyone else had steaks

[@lovely52587]

On my last girls/mommy get away to Mexico I told my girls (group of 7) up front let’s put everything on my card and at the end of our trip I will tell you how much you owe me, I just thought it was easier and not have to worry about the dollar to peso exchange… all my girls loved it and everyone paid right away after. Regarding a regular night out I think you hit the nail on the hat when you said if you all have similar dinners just even split it, nickel and dimming it is weird.

[@karenruiz6668]

I loved hearing about both of your perspectives on these fun celebrations prior to the big day. Now, I actually appreciate the perspective on splitting the bill when out with friends, I thought that was pretty cool to learn a new perspective as we all do things different.

[@Gina-zu4lc]

Finally I was so bored at work waiting the minutes for you guys to post thank the lord 3 minutes early it been so looooong

[@marisoliniguez8180]

I’m with Sebas! The splitting the bill evening! I love tht my family we have this agreements and no1 cares Bcuz is the time we spend together and we never complain for paying for food! Even with kid we only count adults and if is a birthday the birthday person is included! And we ain’t a small family same with friendship I have a close circle and we don’t complain. 😊 I’m sorry Bt 100% agree with Sebas! Ain’t spending 30min to figure out a dam check.

[@ztefiie]

I think the same!! When it comes to splitting the bill!! I am a server i always appreciate when people split the bill evenly rather than doing single checks. Btw I love you guys thank you for always posting!!! Mondays dont suck!! Maahh boiiii❤

[@tina6442]

Splitting the bill evenly only works when it’s a max group of like six people and like you said we all kind of ordered evenly. once it’s more people and somebody ordered within their budget and somebody didn’t order within their budget and somebody just went crazy and somebody was just there like that’s when it gets murky because it’s not fair to split the bill. It’s definitely situational and I know the friends that I can do that with and the friends that I can’t do that with for whatever reason

[@miriamvirgen9835]

We should all pitch in to get them a sign so they can remember what episode they are filming 😂😂😂 LOVE LA PLATICA❤️❤️❤️

[@gladishernandez2328]

Love this!!! An episode 2 of this is definitely needed!!!!

[@teresacorrea7692]

The way Josh looks at Sebas when he’s talking… but like he really looks at him so depply so cute!!!! AHHHHHH LOL

[@joanamora4521]

For our bachelorette/bachelor party. We did one night of boys & girls. It gave our wedding party an opportunity to all get to know each other and then we split the next day and everyone had the best time!

[@kelseynicole7340]

So glad it’s Monday MahhhhhhBoiiiiii😭🫶🏽🤙🏽

[@jazmine-hk2ec]

I literally look forward to these on Mondays now.

[@griseldabautista1183]

I love Josh’s mentally ❤

[@Ceciilllia]

Ive actually have been waiting for an episode like this 😂 honestly I agree with josh as far as the whole strip club thing … I’ve always thought that I feel like out of respect for the partner why would someone want to go out and look at other people and get turned on by the whole scene. Yes it sounds like fun and having a good night with people you admire but you could also do that with doing other things. Had to put it out there but I definitely understand all the perspectives what you guys have said! Much love

[@sandraf8752]

On the “money tension” conversation, I think it’s hard to create an “etiquette” on that because everyone spends money differently, splits differently & ppl have different approaches to it. I don’t think it depends on income levels but like just the approach or mindset that people take it with. My personal approach is 1 person pays the bill and send them that money right away!

[@sergioestrella1224]

Aww Sebas, the shock in your face when you learn you come back to no Karen 41:11

[@yessi4510]

I think its important to know with who you can do what and those you can’t do certain things with. We all have specific friends we can fully travel with & theres no issues on budget. Theres situations at dinners were like Sebas said you take care of the bill & then someone takes it next time. Theres other people where you know you can put your card down & people will send the money over & not have to ask for it. Please have Karen & Ale on to discuss the dos & donts!! (Will be attending a bachelorette party this year thats still in the works)

[@michellec.7208]

I love Seba’s & Josh’s laugh 😅 Was worth staying up from my Night Shift to watch you guys 🫶🏽

[@vanessavargas9199]

I love how you guys spoke about still respecting your partners while out for the trip. Also, I agree with you guys about the tab! If I order more than my friends, I usually cover the tab and they’ll tell me they got the next one. Yet I don’t always think they have to get me on the next one. When it comes to splitting, it’s always straight down the middle. I’m not going to calculate what I got and only pitch in that portion. But then again, that’s just me! ☺️

[@Elveeeezy]

My mom always says : CUENTAS CLARAS AMISTADES LARGAS 🤞🏻

[@kamiflores5075]

No because our friend group does the EXACT same thing rotating paying for the bills. It’s always been an unsaid thing in our group and also cuts confusion and time for the staff/waiters. We’ve all worked our asses off to have it like this so it izzzz what it izzzzz mah ehhh

[@SaraiF722]

If bride of groom want to plan a big bachelorette or bachelor party they should think about their party too. I get it’s their day it’s about making them happy. But I wouldn’t want to plan something where my party can’t afford it either. I’m not going to make my friends spend money like that. Not everyone is in the same boat as both of you were your able to go to a whole other country. I’m sorry. I hear so many stories about friendship breaking up because of a weeding issue. It’s my worth it to me.

[@vanessacaudillo16]

When you see this GOOD MORNING MA BOIS 🤩 That Bachelor trip looked like a MOVIE 🌆

[@nancybrito8495]

Mah boi Sebas talking like a true “tiene dinero” y le vale lol As someone that’s not rich and are middle class When I go out w friends and It’s a little tight atm I want to pay my stuff only But si ahorita si traigo dineroooo I’ll pay for everyone or we can split idc I also don’t think that just because my finances a little tight that people should say well then stay home…I’m obviously not spending my rent money to go out but I can be on a budget and still deserve to have fun

[@dayanafelixm]

My marathon training Doesn’t suck thanks to you guys! Much love ❤

[@SASS071]

I agree with sebas. it's so awk to be at dinner and be those situation. even when planning a trip you're giving someone unnecessary stress

[@jasminecastillo4054]

Lmao 5 minutes in and I was wondering how you filmed so quickly after getting back. Looks like you guys had fun! Glad you’re back!

[@ferrolvera1552]

sebas stop trying to explain yourself so hard mah boi we get your point we got you ok don’t worry to much about what people are going to think about your opinion

[@Jacquelinea26]

Wow this episode flew by!! I really enjoyed this talk 🙌 spot on guys! 👏 #cantwaitforthewedding

[@sassysara312]

Broooo y’all already had me cracking up 33 seconds in wtf 😂😂😂❤❤❤

[@TripzLady]

Love starting off my week watching you two ! Perfect duo ; always a good laugh. Love you mahh boiiis

[@themariasifuentes]

I’m in love with Josh. He’s got the most amazing heart - so open minded. He just gives me gooooddddd vibes ❤

[@kimberlyromo169]

josh is just perfect! don’t tell my man’s 🤣 sorry not sorry. Celebrity crush for sure 🥴

[@gladishernandez2328]

My hubby is getting ready to a bachelorette in Mexico & im definitely playing this for him before he does 😅😂

[@analirubio9285]

Why aren’t they dropping on Spotify at the same time? 😢 I listen while at work

[@esmeraldabasilio7237]

Who wants to go back to sleep when the #1 Latino podcast uploads a new Podie Wodie . #mondaysdontsuck #mahboii

[@MM-nb9wu]

Sebas laughter @29:34 gets me every time!!!!

[@Ccp0112]

It’s unspoken rule that if you order an expensive meal and a lot more drinks you’ll pitch in more that’s just the right thing to do and if you’re that person that doesn’t think that way trash.

[@danielleinfante5086]

Yes yes yes!

[@jenesisgarcia6301]

One time I went out with a group of friends for a friend's birthday. The birthday girl also invited like 4 fam members. When the bill came she wanted the bill to be split by whoever is paying. None of her fam memebers were paying. Mind u they got multiple drinks and the plates were like min of 30 each. I had to speak up bc that was not ok. I felt bad bc it was her bday which I paid for her meal and she had to pay her family memebers part. It was soooo awkward!

[@yazmintorres9084]

Wow how dare they come and expect not to pay 😯 so embarrassing!

[@linapaz2683]

This pody is always a vibe 😂🥰

[@lesliesinay]

Man, excellent topics! Loved this. That whole paying segment, that’s so complicated. But honestly, I hate people that don’t pay. Super annoying. Anyways, love you guys! ❤ keep it up! I wish more poddy’s came out during the week!

[@makanakaai]

Splitting the check really depends to me. If I'm out with people I'm not that close with, I'm only paying for stuff I ordered. If I'm out with family or close friends, we'll just split it. I don't put my card down for just anyone because I've been burned before where the person doesn't pay me back right away. But I do agree, if a person only had like one or two drinks, I'll normally just catch it. I have however been on a bachelorette trip once where I wasn't a bridesmaid but just a friend going on the trip not apart of the planning at all. We had about 2 years to plan for this trip bc it got pushed back bc of covid. The maid of honor ended up not being able to afford certain things and putting her burden on the other bridesmaids. Bc of that other bridesmaids started airing out that they can't afford this or that, so it ended up lacking as far as the planning and events went.

[@helloyou9]

See and I think there should be open communication about what ppl are willing to spend. This would eliminate a lot of issues.

[@jennalva-v4372]

Love that I have la platica to listen to on the plane ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@julzdafoolzz]

as a gemini, i whole heartedly agree with Sebas in terms of friendship etiquette. We're very kind and think of others first and ultimately, the secret people pleaser in us wants to avoiddddd that awkward situation so were like let's pay and then get it over with. you pay me, you don't pay me. we're friends and I got you && the intention is there of were gonna have a win win situation. Homies first, in debt later. its not a money loss, in my eyes, becuase it is an INVESTMENT in my homies :) perooo lets not get it twisted with this happening too many times, its stuation by situation. such a good episode!!!! Good job mah boisssss much love, julz

[@pamelac4111]

Not everyone is fortunate to make the same amount of money as everyone else I believe you have to understand each person and put yourself in their place 🤷🏽‍♀️ which I respect and in that case best is one pays everyone Venmo in the instant as anillos as that

[@akchavezm]

32:29 I personally think this is how it should ALWAYS be when you go out as a group of friends. Don’t go out if you don’t have the funds & don’t be a penny pincher.. PERIODT!

[@linaamuro3199]

Number ONE LATINO podcast in the 🌎 #TeamSelena 💞 Mahhhboii

[@lesl-19]

Happy Monday ma boii!!love starting my week with this podcast.

[@kimmacias7105]

I agree with sebas on the everyone splitting it evenly because that’s how I like to do it BUT I also know who I can and can’t do that with. I have friends who don’t mind it but I also have friends that do mind and when I’m with the ones that do mind I will personally say we need separate checks to just resolve the issue quick lol