Bad Travel Day - Autism On An Airplane

It was a bad travel day...it just wasn't a good day in general. This was one of those situations as a parent and as an autism parent that we just wanted to throw in the towel and start over but we couldn't. We managed to keep smiling but by the time we got in the car to go home we were just done. Autism on an airplane can be so hard for everyone because of the sensory issues, the anxiety, and the challenges it presents. Without a doubt it is hardest on Abbie and that's what really breaks our hearts. On the good side of it all...the world is a far more accepting and understanding place than you might assume.
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[@tiffanidellapietro8917]

The airport staff seemed really friendly and handled it well! That's one plus!

[@unapologeticallyme8513]

I agree every one of them seemed to be well versed in autism they were very understanding and accommodating that's great to see!

[@wasabiimenace]

Well they should be educated and understanding. No need to be ignorant when dealing with any type of person who is special needs. Period.

[@alfieshort9490]

Yes flight attendants and airports actually offer support towards autism and other stuff like ADHD and stuff I’m autistic but learnt to write they help me a lot wen I flie

[@drk7031]

There are loads of autistic kids around especially travelling .

[@raeperonneau4941]

Proud of LAX. Glad to see they’re cognizant of special needs.

[@kristinamillerrn1628]

Ignore the ppl who are telling you to discipline Abbie. Her behavior is not malicious and doesn’t need to be disciplined. I wish ppl would understand this more.

[@annagitana1]

It's ridiculous. You can't discipline someone into not having autism.

[@kristinamillerrn1628]

annagitana1 Right?! Some ppl are uneducated and like to think that discipline cures all.

[@angieCity90]

I feel like that comes from people who dont understand. I think thats the reason why I watch these videos, I learn so much. I wish others would try to learn about autism too!

[@kristinamillerrn1628]

Angelica C Thank you for taking the time to learn more about Autism. It’s challenging at times to have a child with Autism. My Katie is my all

[@quindixie6867]

It's like telling a kid in a wheelchair to stop being a brat and just walk.

[@pattycake1234]

I’m autistic, and I just wanted to give you parents a 10/10 for this flight. You guys were so incredibly patient with Abby. I wish all autistic parents could respond as patiently as you, she’s so lucky to have you both !

[@carlies.crazyness.creation1398]

Me and my neighbor both have autism and she has a more severe case then me but I sometimes go over and help her mom out when she’s to stressed or needs to get stuff done.

[@celinapalfrey6001]

Patricia, you are incredibly high functioning for autism, but I do know there’s a wide ratio for IQ Your comment was awesome !

[@pattycake1234]

@@celinapalfrey6001 Thanks you so much! Also instead of high functioning and low functioning people with autism usually prefer verbal or non verbal.

[@user-un3kc8pe4c]

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[@GinaDD1996]

I can only imagine how she perceives the sounds of the airport, I don’t have autism, but even I find the airport environment overwhelming. She’s so strong! The whole family it’s amazing 💖

[@arribaficationwineho32]

I agree and am so sad they are subjecting her to this. Continuity is major for this affliction as is noise abatement. One would wonder how important this trip is for the family to take her through an airport?

[@vanessajones9524]

I don't think they are amazing

[@jamestipping5126]

@@arribaficationwineho32 if you watched the beginning of video you would know she has flown before without any issues. If they didn't take her places because she may have a hard time she would never leave the house and live in a bubble. It would be miserable for her because she likes to go. In fact on this flight the flight to Texas she did fine, it was only the flight back home that she had any major issues. Places she has been on previous occasions she enjoys and on subsequent occasions the same places and or experiences gives her sensory overload issues. So you would rather an autistic people person to stay in a bubble and not experience life? It would behoove you to do some research on autism and gain some understanding.

[@ares2300]

@@vanessajones9524 okay? 🤣

[@ghosted_real22]

as a person with autism and is REALLY sensitve to sounds, this warms my heart! thank you

[@faithstortz3132]

Got beat up by his sister... Dad!!! Don't tell the whole world. Epic

[@mindyschocolate]

Faith Stortz that was hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂

[@tinydancer7426]

That was so funny!

[@gochanny]

he sounded serious too 😂

[@yesno-fn9se]

I wish he was my brother

[@adeen5438]

Hi, I am a 31-year-old with Autism, I struggled a lot growing up, and I really wish I had a father as amazing and kind and understanding and patient as you. You seem like a really nice family.

[@sarahthebear2853]

Adeen it seems like you have gotten better, being able to write is amazing for autistic people!

[@popsicIes]

@@sarahthebear2853 not autism is the same for everyone! different people are on different planes of the spectrum :)

[@slendergod775]

I have autism and I’m 18 so things are sort of going ok but I need to learn a little bit more about life so that’s why I have a amazing family around me

[@violetmolloy68]

I don’t get why this person is amazing just because he is saying what a nice family she has

[@sammiedemaio823]

Pokemonjammer nothing is “wrong” with you. Don’t let society tell you what’s “normal”. You are perfect the way you are and intended to be. Don’t let bullies break you down. You seem like a very smart kid and I hope you brush the negative things said about you, off. I’m sure you have amazing people backing you up and rooting for you ❤️ there are many autistic who live and do things just like anyone else. Never give up!!!

[@PauLina-ji6io]

I guess most people didn’t expect Abby being an autistic girl, cause you can’t see it. So they get confused from her actions. Also all people started to be experts on parenting if a kid acts out. Suddenly they got all the right advices how you should regret. Even though they have no idea of autism or of Abby at all. I think you doing great. You guys always try to be calm and always try to be understanding and loving. For Abby it was super hart. And you absolutely did amazing.

[@lexb1075]

She handles airports and planes way better than I do, and I'm not Autistic. When she got upset, it was like watching someone express outwardly what I feel internally in that situation.

[@tgtina.g2613]

Exactly what I was thinking. I feel like that a lot of times. She did a great job handling her experience. Go Abby!

[@AimsAlice]

Same i hate flying im so scard and overjwhelmed by it i hate it anxiety takes over

[@AnimaSola3o4]

Her crying broke my heart. I actually have tears. How frustrating to be upset and not be able to express why. You guys are doing A GREAT JOB. Period. She has a fantastic support team around her.

[@jackfrost2482]

yeah same i seen alot of videos of the family im one of their newest subscribers when she cries i just hate it its so so sad i wish i could help her

[@laurengibbs6940]

She was probably tired, bless her heart..

[@kaelynnb.1267]

AnimaSola3o4 why did she cry tho

[@bee5449]

It was probably the hardest thing I ever went through(I had a cleft palate and autism), being so stressed but never being able to tell anyone,but when I told my friend that,they just said it wasn’t that’s hard to not be able to speak.Some people need education.

[@shameless4126]

Me too, it’s so sad that she can’t say why she’s crying

[@stephaniehollier6335]

The stranger saying “she’ll be alright” made me tear up.

[@ellakaukonen8254]

What part?

[@chelseaeasterly8819]

You and me both.

[@kyleeburton6204]

Ella Kaukonen 11:35

[@mikaelakattenbroek2037]

why'd he say that lol I don't get it

[@TechnoJunkie109]

@@mikaelakattenbroek2037 I'm assuming they could tell she was under a lot of stress from traveling. What a nice stranger.

[@susanhlavaty9500]

I'm a special needs nanny/ educator. I have a master's degree in special education. As parents you guys rock. You're daughter is doing fantastic. To the other people who don't understand she cannot control her actions, it the same if you discipline for breathing you have to breathe. The majority of Autistic children have a high IQ. Think how frustrating it is to them, when they have something to say but can't communicate their thoughts. Their thinking what's wrong with you, I know what I'm saying why don't you understand me. Children that are autistic are hyper sensitive to noises and new surroundings. You're daughter is a treasure. Keep up the great work your doing as a family.

[@alexbarker7511]

Not to annoy you but in the last few sentences you said “you’re” which was wrong and then the final sentence you did “your” for proper grammar swap them…

[@maxcinelli5739]

@@alexbarker7511 why does that matter??? quit being the grammar police

[@carlies.crazyness.creation1398]

That’s my dream job!

[@ninak5645]

Thats a common missconception, they dont know what is going on, they dont have high IQ and cant conceptualize the world around them which usnt their fault (as with any disability or even any brain fuction) but romanticizing it in this way is incredibly dangerous and frankly wishful thinking. They can understand some commends and things but their brains just dont function the same way most people's do

[@KedyCheyenne]

That breaks my heart.. knowing how amazing of a mother Pricilla is but watching her face as you guys got on to the second plane and seeing how she felt defeated makes me want to cry.... Abby is beyond blessed to have you 2 as her parents

[@jessicakelly377]

“Part of me wanted to leave you on the plane” - this is exactly why we love you guys so much! You tell it how it is, no filtering and making it all roses and glitter. And you know what? I’m 110% sure there were many parents flying that day who also wanted to leave their teenage daughter on the plane when they landed - special needs or not!!! 😂

[@mindyschocolate]

Jessica Kelly I liked at the beginning where he talks about her beating her brother up and he’s in the back protesting. 😂

[@zaeliyen]

yes!! it's frustrating being talked to differently just because you're not neurotypical. i love that they're real about things and i don't know her so i definitely can't speak for her, but i think she loves it too

[@cherylbritten6950]

Yes! EXACTLY! Have two boys with autism, it's like this sometimes with us! They are my world, along with their sister and their dad! I don't know how I would get through this without their dad! I love them and am so proud to be their mom!

[@jamssnana4084]

I don't think I would have ever told my young daughter that, though.

[@whoopwhoop9339]

@@jamssnana4084 they didn’t tell her necessarily

[@bmd1825]

She doesn’t need discipline, she needs understanding and Love.

[@melanieclarke6308]

cutetsuna having worked with children on the Autism spectrum, I can tell you that they understand a tremendous amount and do respond to various forms of discipline. They can be ‘naughty’ just like any other child.

[@happillvlog4275]

I agree

[@ilovechickennugget4297]

EatPlums don’t tell austitic children to discipline they don’t understand sicko

[@samantha.wood.05]

And that is what she has from her family and us

[@normadiaz1779]

Well we all know that she might never be able to express her feelings to the point of being understood

[@StefanSchillofficial]

The guy who said you were awesome, was right. I once read something about children that said "they're not giving you a hard time, they are HAVING a hard time". The way you resonate that statement through your compassion and not giving the answers but acknowledging her feelings and anxieties is amazing. She is amazing for doing this. The feelings she must experience had to be so overwhelming. My baby girl is two years old and I hope to remain as compassionate as you towards her in all her challenges ahead. This really hit me hard but I have nothing but respect for you all. Thank you for sharing and caring so much for her.

[@tomwagner6334]

Abbi crushed it. I’m so glad everybody was respectful and caring. Gives me hope.

[@moonfizzz1180]

why is no one gonna talk about how lovely and polite the staff at the airport and airplane was.

[@fashiondiva6972]

They did, repeatedly🙄

[@leonardgros5475]

hello how are you doing

[@paulachoi5789]

You guys are awesome. People can only learn the Autism culture by exposure. It's a learning experience for everyone!

[@JenReid12]

That is thier job to be polite and appear friendly to everyone, why would be any different with a someone with a disability .

[@MarsHouse6166]

Hmmm bc they were ACTUALLY doing their job??

[@pontinrob]

Videos like this have 2 emotions for me first is sadness your all having a hard time but then proud when you all get through it and other people show true humanity around you.

[@fatheringautism]

Well said.

[@happyme3556]

Indeed !

[@Courtjowhite]

I hate those loud noises too. They send chills through my body. I love how Isaiah is always trying to calm her down and protect her. Love your family!

[@karenbrown7291]

Abbie at 14:45 when camp was mentioned bless her. She looked like she totally appreciated having something nice to think about. It's that feeling when you're so upset and someone you love is trying to cheer you up by talking about all your favourite things and you just can't help but smile. I so felt for her. These moments really help me understand how overwhelming a situation like that can be. Thank you for sharing these moments.

[@paint-everything-dont-panic]

I hate air brakes too, Abbie!! They startle me every time.

[@EvergreenVB]

You know it's coming, you prepare for it, you tense up just a little... and still it finds a way to rattle you each and every time!

[@geobershad5375]

I haven’t been on a plane in a while and I probably look dumb asking this but what’s an air brake?

[@04JessicaS]

Georgette Bershad you don’t look dumb at all! you know when a bus pulls up at a stop, and makes that sharp sound like air being released? that’s an air brake. it’s such a sharp shocking sound, and even though I know the bus is going to make the sound, it scares even me, and i’m neurotypical!

[@jolie9368]

Ikr lol

[@kelsiedaisley5626]

I hate any unexpected, sudden loud noise or movement. I'm a special needs adult (I've improved greatly over my almost 22 years) but I have hypersensitive ears/hearing so loud noise such as air brakes really bother me. I usually have to listen to the air brakes twice so I can time them and plug my ears so I can't hear them.

[@pyroimp4607]

Dad: she beat her brother up Bro: WAIT NO-

[@starlightfox3331]

And 1M ppl saw

[@brock6286]

Clo Riv that’s what I thought 🤣

[@Bigdogspyke]

I love how honest you are. Both about Abbie’s struggles, and your own.

[@flastnoles11]

This is one of my biggest issues with my son, it's so hard to go into public (he also has Crohn's and a genetic mutation...his meltdowns can get really bad) because we really worry about ruining other people's day. It's something we need to work on as parents. We have found lately, people are way more understanding and patient than we thought they'd be. Watching this channel has helped us (me for sure as I'm the step father and this was all new for me) and it's helped me to understand my son better, how to communicate better and for that I appreciate you. It's rough, but I wouldn't have it any other way

[@lisawallman2690]

Jkfgjfj

[@lottiethompson11]

the stranger that said "she'll be alright" just awh

[@saree___]

How does Abby react to sensory headphones?? We don't fly with my brother without them. He's not too sensitive to sound, it's most likely the pressure that helps to keep him calm

[@DreamAmaya]

Abby doesn't like having things on her head (such as hats, sunglasses etc). In other videos where they try to get her to put something on her face or head, she pretty much immediately takes them off. Actually in this video, at around the 14:14 mark... she has headphones on but takes them off and won't put them back on.

[@hermenegildoc3933]

I dont have and of this problems but I am photosensible,so without sunglasses I have headaches

[@arribaficationwineho32]

Earplugs that don’t clasp on her head?

[@MiMi-kx1vy]

They are such a lovely family.

[@mochigirl5682]

Gentle parents with a gentle brother. ❤️

[@brandywebster8409]

I like how you guys talked to the flight attendants about how she isn't in distress, and in reply to that, the pilot said hi to her. Thats amazing. You guys handle everything so well. 🖤🖤

[@LisaStojanovski]

Can I just say: seeing the camera go through the TSA x-ray machine was SO COOL

[@michaeljuarez6666]

I totally agree but can figure out why it was so cool

[@Tetra3Ne56scur]

Did you see the white blinking dots too?

[@hidanfan666]

Radiation

[@Kj_Gamer2614]

What time stamp

[@mariyajohny86]

@@Kj_Gamer2614 4:15

[@ttroxy9410]

I feel terrible saying this but I don’t know if I could handle what they go through on a daily basis

[@signeaarejrgensen61]

I hear you! But then again I think you could if you had to🙂

[@malinw1910]

Being strong isn't a choice. It's what you are when it's the only choice you have. The truth is that you would manage. Not because you would be doing so well at this very moment. But if the situation appeared you would, because you have to.

[@akumatenshi9311]

Yah facts

[@liyanibernier5720]

Tt Roxy same I wouldn’t cope if I had a disabled child

[@ttroxy9410]

Phil McGibney obviously lol thanks for pointing that out I had NO idea

[@harlidalton8025]

Her smile warms my heart! My nephew was recently diagnosed with autism so finding yalls channel has really opened my eyes to this world and is helping educate me on how to interact with my nephew! I truly love watching y’all and love what y’all are doing !

[@jonw952]

It's great to see the parents putting in the work to care for their child together. Very inspirational.

[@lifeinawheelchairadventure4034]

If there was an Amazing Brother Award, Isaiah would deserve to win it every year!

[@ivyedan7183]

Liane Morran oh we should all come up with something for him..he so deserves it..he reminds me of my big sister Cindy..she was always there to cheer me on..

[@mybeautifulautism2842]

I was in tears at one point, at the end of the first flight she was trying so hard not to yell and it escaped. I feel that on another level girl. She was trying I could see it. You guys are so amazing. Thank you so much for the awareness and positivity you guys literally radiate❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

[@annagitana1]

Me too. Tough to see.

[@imnotstarra]

i know :( she tried so hard and i applaud her for that poor girl she’s amazing

[@kimnamjoonkimseokjinjinmon9255]

MyBeautifulAutism hi

[@lilliantrevino6940]

Me too seeing her with 😢 in her eyes

[@meothecookiesteeler9626]

Your family is an inspiration for all those in the same situation!!! You are blessed to have each other and we are blessed to have you in our lives as well!

[@sherribennington8812]

I've been watching your channel for a couple of months and all I can say is y'all are a strong family unite. Many people couldn't muster up the patience to deal with her no matter how much love in their heart.

[@terryauer2518]

That would be like disciplining a child having an asthma attack or seizure.

[@GoldenDalani]

Terry Auer thank you❤️ my sister has autism and has angry outbursts but it’s not something she has control over

[@terryauer2518]

@@GoldenDalani I understand I have depression ,family and former friends have told me to snap out of it well you can't.

[@ddboyz2338]

fake depression

[@boulevard4145]

DDBoyZ yeah I’m sure every single person clinically diagnosed on this planet is fake too lol right?

[@marilynnandbobseifert3986]

Terry

[@sarahmccarthy4462]

People who mention discipline clearly don't have special needs kids

[@heikehollas1828]

So true I am a special needs mom too and I agree

[@shalakruep]

Exactly!

[@melissa-Ann]

🙌 AMEN to that 🙌

[@lilliantrevino6940]

I wished I could have seen that comment.

[@sarahmccarthy4462]

I am a special needs mum to a special needs son. We both have autism, spd and other things with it

[@clairefisher3132]

“The world is full of amazing humans” I think you guys are all amazing humans. To have a stressful and exhausting experience and still be grateful for the positive parts and say something like that, you guys are just amazing. My son has learning disabilities and has been diagnosed as not on the spectrum but has what we like to call “quirks,” and there are days where I feel exhausted and out of patience. But seeing you guys restores me. Thank you. Abbie, you are an amazing young woman and an inspiration. Isiah, you are an amazing young man and a wonderful big brother. Mom and Dad, you are probably the best parents I’ve ever seen in action. Sending you all so much love.

[@joydrop7]

Thank you so much for sharing this. I’ve been in your shoes and travel days have got to be some of the most stressful for me! This was so validating to see someone else go through it! And to go through it so we’ll!

[@kittehmou1549]

Isaiah looking over constantly when the flight gets bumpy, my heart.

[@Pencilshaving]

This smile she did while signing candy is precious

[@michaelsmith2940]

I know

[@mr_smile0063]

IKR it was adorable

[@mariagonzales738]

@@michaelsmith2940 **Z*#*ZZZSSZ**ZM

[@teresapelham1156]

@@michaelsmith2940 ⁰xd'

[@padmae1971]

Yes it was!!!

[@cynthianaylor9514]

Nothing wrong with being frustrated and venting your feelings. Your patience with your daughter is to be applauded.

[@thorned10]

Has Abby tried headphones for either music or just noise canceling? I understand she may not like some thing on her head but it may help her not to get overwhelmed by other sounds?

[@shellibabick]

They said she doesn’t like anything on her head.

[@ctgctg1]

Air buds might work for her. Travelling is a lot of sensory overload for someone with Autism.

[@szqsk8]

"She jacked me up" I LMAO'D when Isiah said that!

[@CathySMelton]

You handled that amazingly well. It must be hard for all of you, but you made it. Welcome home. Thanks For sharing truth.

[@msfs19941]

I don't understand how some people can't comprehend that people with disability may have a meltdown or just struggle at airports or on planes (especially multiple flights) I'm not disabled but flying does my head in. I can't imagine how difficult it must be for her. I'm just glad her family are this amazing and supportive

[@twinboys6401]

I’ve traveled for work for over 20 yrs and there were times that I was overwhelmed. She did well! Travel days are long stressful days. Your videos bring more awareness keep it up

[@ellyhind-smith4220]

Moment of appreciation for those awesome airport workers

[@rebeccaemerson6194]

Isaac is the best brother he's so kind pricilla and ace you two are great parents to of raised such sweet children x

[@katemarie651]

I wanna hug these people! There so genuinely so kind and they just are so lovely!

[@jillmagno3975]

It might be a worse flight experience but you guys are awesome. Best family. Best parents. Love is radiating from all of you. Your are all doing a great job.

[@lovelylisawarriorqueen7923]

The pressure could really be hurting her ears

[@sandraarriaga832]

i had started to feel a cold coming on, with congestion and sinus pressure. then i had to get on a 4 hour plane..i thought my ear drums were going to burst. it was awful! i would have cried if i wasn't in the middle seat..

[@lovelylisawarriorqueen7923]

@@sandraarriaga832 Oh gosh I'm so sorry and to try to control the pain sitting in between 2 people must have been agonizing. I had my ear drum burst flying from the West coast to the East coast and had to go straight to the Emergency Room. The gave me a super steroid shot and antibiotics just in case and I had to stay put for 2 weeks then travel almost 3000 miles home by renting a car that took a week. It took me 7 years before I got the courage to fly again. The pain is excruciating for sure.

[@sandraarriaga832]

Lovely Lisa Warrior Queen ouch! That sounds like a nightmare😣

[@kristiworsfold8741]

started crying on an airplane because i had an ear infection and my ear was popping like crazy, worst pain ever.

[@brittanyolson3112]

if you hold 2 styrofoam cups one over each ear creating a seal during take off and landing it totally help with ear popping. helpful trick with kids.

[@MissSugarland4Ever]

Even though she beat up Isiah he still held her hand and walked with her through the airport, he is such a great brother.

[@RoseMiah9191]

He is! I‘m so impressed by him! He‘ll be an amazing father one day!

[@RyanMackle]

Hey, we are in thr middle of watching this video, we are parents to an autistic boy. Our son Ryan is 12 and fortunately for us is a great traveller. You guys are doing fantastic and to whoever said you should discipline Abbey has no clue....She did an awesome job. We are 9 minutes into the vlog and had to stop and comment. Best wishes from Scotland.

[@tgtina.g2613]

Yes I agree she did great.

[@lesliefunn2416]

Thank you for sharing your flight experience. It really means a lot to see you guys keep striving thru the smooth/tough times. 🤗

[@faith9196]

“Disciple her more.” Can’t believe people really say that.

[@jaynie7992]

They do because they don't understand. I'm not making an excuse I'm just trying to explain it.

[@cait812]

To be fair if they don't know or understand all they see is a kid acting up.

[@starbuck4064]

@@jaynie7992 dont justify it

[@emmaholles5897]

when does someone say that? i cant find it in the video

[@corline1506]

what part of the video was that

[@savannahastings3303]

I realize this is totally off topic but Abbie is so beautiful!

[@jenbk2bk275]

I was thinking the same exact thing !

[@sheetalkumar2611]

No doubt she is❤️

[@frogxgorf]

That’s exactly what I thought when I saw my first video on this channel!

[@KniLsZZ]

FBI OPEN UP

[@A.S.28]

yes unlike you and your fake personality

[@Tabbyfunk144]

I really have to say i admire how wonderful your son handles everything and is so kind. Great parenting mom and dad.

[@doylethechocolatelab]

Watching this to be prepared myself. Abbie is an inspiration! My worst problem is the security and checks and I wear my headphones and have a wheelchair and have priority which means I get through quicker and I don't have to wait in a big queue. My fave is going to the airport shops and getting teddies

[@loveyourshiela5878]

If people gets frustrated with Abbie's reactions....imagine being trapped in her body. Imagine how hard it is for her not to express how she is feeling...what she really wants. We just have to be sensitive and considerate.

[@stevenavarette9334]

Well said. Blessings and prayers to you and yours 💜✨🙏🕊️🙏✨💜

[@ulubatl4812]

every time she makes noises I tell myself "she's not yelling, she's talking in her style." this idea made me more understanding, I can say that. and thank you for making me better than a former me!

[@hannahalexander9418]

same

[@AO-ec6ic]

Omgosh as a parent/family member that's so stressful worrying about what other people think! You guys are great. You are doing great! And your right most people are so understanding!

[@mrsfeminist8666]

Watching this a year later and heard the kiwi saying “she’ll be right mate” was so cool. I just want to give you all a hug.

[@saltyboi4362]

The brother must be amazing dealing with her the way he is he’s soo amazing. And even how he might not have a lot of attention and I’d want him as my brother tbh

[@RoseMiah9191]

He is amazing. I said that on the other video too.

[@ambermarielewis9353]

Isaiah is a wonderful big brother to Abbie

[@lilyraestudios8289]

I have a son with autism who is 12 and a daughter who does not have autism, she is 11. To watch her with her older brother when he is having a meltdown is so amazing. When you grow up knowing how to treat others with respect this is the kind of person, like Isaiah you get☺️

[@LittleBitofSunshine]

I don’t think people mean to be rude by staring I think it’s just ‘oh a little girl is shouting I hope she’s okay’ reaction. You know to make sure she’s not in pain or something horrible isn’t happening 😊! But you guys did an awesome job you’re so patient with Abby ❤️

[@frandarby8112]

Your family is very kind, understanding and patient. I have always been sensitive to the needs of others, and babies on planes because it hurts their ears. I think you all did a wonderful job of keeping her occupied, and tried to mitigate the noise as much as possible but sometimes you cannot. Abbi is awesome and I am happy she can travel even if its get difficult.

[@evasavoie6961]

I'm so surprised on how accommodating the airlines and airport is for her it makes me so happy. I have a younger brother with Autism and when we flew last out of Dallas they were not accommodating what so ever like this. This is simply amazing! I hope Abby had a great trip!!

[@maveywavie]

I just wanna say, she is so pretty, and she is so amazing being able to handle as much as she can.

[@Badi1]

With complete respect. She's not imo

[@Seth-jd5xn]

Badi Kawi someone had to say it

[@maveywavie]

Well that's your opinion then. I think she's a beautiful young lady despite her condition (I'm sorry if I offended anyone by saying illness I didn't know it was considered disrespectful. Thank u to those who educated me so I could fix my mistake) and is doing incredible

[@matcha9250]

Mayday Deathday i think shes cute too. people only think she isn’t pretty bc she’s not wearing makeup or has the conventional looking instagram face. she’s a little girl with unique features and she’s adorable 😕.

[@natek5249]

Mayday Deathday autism isn’t an illness though

[@juicylucygoosey]

In the UK sunflower lanyards are used in airports/travel to show that someone may need extra time and assistance passing through security etc

[@ella-bt8hp]

I'm in England I have a teenager with disabilities similar to Abbie except he is also blind. I never had any idea that is what they were for thank you for that ☺️

[@adreanna8967]

@@ella-bt8hp sainsburys also uses them and you can get one from them.

[@elisaxgrace1950]

my brother has one! he has severe ADHD and dyspraxia, they are absolute life savers as he freaks out while waiting to board the plane.

[@kanadeotonokoji6136]

I live in the UK and I had no idea about that

[@bunnyboo3152]

They are great, more & more places are understanding what they represent.

[@TSUNAMI-MAMI]

Oh, those air brakes ARE awful!!!! As someone with PTSD, they do a number on me. Poor girl must be so terrifying for her. She handled everything like a CHAMP! And y’all are so supportive and wonderful advocates. Your love gave her the tools to cope as much as possible. For most people the airport is a nightmare and they don’t face a fraction of the challenges of Abby’s world.

[@MelissaSchwartz143]

You guys are amazing parents. I’m a paraprofessional at a day time rehabilitation school for kids on the spectrum and the way you guys just block when she’s trying to bite and just gently remind her she’s gonna be okay while also communicating with each other, is just phenomenal. Abbey is so lucky to have you guys and you guys are lucky to have her 💞💞 a tough situation that you got thru as a family unit.

[@marlendeluna4936]

“Guess what we are gonna get on another plane and you can try and touch somebody else’s head” 😂😂😭

[@cbudzyn]

I would totally be fine with the kid trying to touch my hair, I understand their setting guidelines for her but she’s also being impulsive in a close proximity situation, I have an autistic daughter and it’s extremely hard (a complete understatement because we don’t have any help or family). However even before my daughter I was always aware of special needs & felt compassion for anyone & families living with it. It can lighten the load by a stranger being kind and joking or being nice because as a parent you feel the looks of disdain & discontent as if you’re expected to fix something can can’t be fixed. Like a blind person wearing a T shirt announcing “I’m blind” bumping into things/people & hearing people become angry about “your problem”, that’s how it feels.

[@mushroomghosty]

I'm terrifed of plane turbulence, I'm impressed with Abby on not freaking out as much as i usually do. I have extreme anxiety when it comes to things that are out of my control.

[@olliedino5207]

Nicolette 20 yeah same it petrified me when there was turbulence on my way home from Italy with my school but teacher had to try and calm me down

[@guidelinesR4pooCz]

If you think about it, plane turbulence actually helps the plane fly as you're flying against the wind it brings more air over the wings. Where as if you fly with the wind it can increase the stall speed of the aircraft. Think of turbulence as a pothole when driving a car

[@lornachartrand2169]

You guys are a great family…so much patience and caring! I applaud you !!!! You are a beautiful girl Abby!

[@neizanunez9304]

I am blessed that my autistic son loves to travel ! Meltdowns can take such a toll sometimes. You are doing a fantastic job with Abbie ! Much love, take care

[@misamo506]

who said she should be disciplined.. come out I just wanna talk

[@fatheringautism]

Lol

[@thatgall900]

Seda hi

[@izzymichele4494]

That Gall Look up what autism is. They can’t control what they do and they try very hard to do so. So they don’t need discipline

[@liyanibernier5720]

Seda not everyone can handle kids like this 🤔

[@pengarth1459]

That Gall are you for real ?

[@hollycaffeinatednerdgirl940]

She's a trooper, that was a hard day. I would share my row of the plane with Abbie anytime ♥ ☺

[@heikehollas1828]

Be careful My autistic son is 2 And he spits, bites and makes a mess of food and he can yell as if he was thrown into fire alive.

[@classicnobody9872]

@@heikehollas1828 yeah it's will get easier as he gets older

[@classicnobody9872]

Same

[@heikehollas1828]

@@classicnobody9872 it can hardly get worse

[@datura_boof]

@@heikehollas1828 maybe CBD would help

[@Clodaghk38]

You guys are fantastic parents! Don't let anyone tell you different! you raised an amazing little girl.

[@rhodadairyheir5084]

Y'all are an amazing family. Abbie is so lucky to have you and you are lucky to have Abbie. Thank you for sharing your journey, even when it gets tough.

[@sarahanne4]

Aw, that made me choke up when that stranger said, "She'll be alright." That's what you guys needed to hear and I was wishing the Fathering Autism fam was there to say to you. I'm glad that person spoke up. You guys did great, even Abby. I get cranky when I fly all day too :)

[@Chin.E.Pondue]

You guys did a great job at the airport and on the plane awesome team work 🙌

[@ReadingswithLinda]

Great parenting. This is so hard and your entire family just stayed so positive.

[@shizmanbeat]

Hey just wanted to show a little love and let you know how amazing it is to see the patience and love you have for your whole family! Great to see such a tough willed father who's still a gentle giant when it means most. Thanks for the smiles!

[@animefangirl9300]

I love how you just constantly see Isaiah looking over to see if everything is ok

[@aerbourne31]

Despite it being hard, I love that Abbie gets to do all the things. People need to have real life interactions with all kinds of people and this is what allows us to build strong safe communities. Her smile makes me smile. Love the message of your videos and the strength of your family.

[@rav2254]

Poor baby, she is so tired at the end of that trip. I totally get it. I feel like crying after long flights and connecting flights.

[@HFIowaGuy]

It looks to me like she handled it like a champ! She is a real blessing for sure

[@sarah-janepocklington2475]

Seeing Abbie so upset broke my heart .you are all doing such a amazing job

[@MusicInMySoul5]

My niece has autism & is non verbal. Abby reminds me soo much of her. You guys are doing amazing. it can be rough but beautiful all at the same time. I love this channel!!

[@amckisson]

I was holding my breathe for half of this one, and cried right along with them. I can't imagine how difficult this must have been for every one of you!

[@cindyfernandez4951]

Life got so hectic for me the last two years but I remembered that I use to watch your videos religiously and came to catch up.. I’ve traveled on my own these past 2 years feeling guilt but I’m ready to take a trip with my nonverbal son. He deserves to explore this world too thank u

[@livishere1672]

The stranger that said “ she’ll be right “ I think I heard “mate” at the end as well, was most likely Australian honestly , they weren’t trying to tell you Abbi would be okay, we use it as a general comforting saying , pretty much it’ll be okay, she’ll be right mate stay strong. Hope you took it the right way :)

[@Roasttrumpet]

Not Australian mate, Kiwi lol

[@livishere1672]

You reckon? I’m bad with accents have no clue

[@Roasttrumpet]

Yeah bro. I am kiwi and so the difference sounds pre big to me lol.

[@livishere1672]

Whoever said it no matter the culture , was a sweet comment , Nz and Aussie slang is similar af

[@fluffyfoxes5185]

People in UK say that too

[@emilyjoneill]

You did fab! As a parent my child just cried for an hour as her ears hurt I couldn't do anything and as a mum it made it so stressful. Nice to see more people being understanding nowadays. I remember 20 years ago my sister was crying and the airhostess asked my mum to keep her quiet!

[@stacietagomori634]

You guys are so awesome. She is very lucky to have such great parents like you guys. It's so awesome they way you explain things to her and have her have some responsibilities.

[@YumeDream39]

Aw she has a Squishmallow plush! I love those things! They really help me when I'm stressed.

[@jackiedrago5854]

let me just say y’all do absolutely wonderful. inspiring parents right here. as a teen who works with students with special needs similar to abbie’s, you make me want to be better. she doesn’t need to be disciplined, just understood. she’s an amazing and sweet girl, and you as parents are absolutely wonderful. i’d enjoy being with abbie on a flight any day!💓💓 much love for your family

[@benjigans1419]

Keep up the great work, Jackie Drago.

[@kelbysorensen3268]

Her brother seems SO NICE I LOVE HIMM

[@tob4653]

Respect to the first airport assistant They where so kind and nice

[@LauraVogel731]

Her goodnight at the end is so sweet!!!! Y’all are so enjoyable to watch thanks for sharing your lives!