BAECATION GONE WRONG! WOMAN FINDS OUT HER MAN IS CHEATING WHILE ON VACATION! VIDEOS & PHOTOS

[@RUNWAYBEAUTY]

She needs to block the family…ONE BAND, ONE SOUND😆

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

Facts 🤣🤣🤣😭

[@kepop98]

Yup

[@healingonesmindset]

Immediately 🙋🏾🙌🏾💅🏽

[@dblr4931]

And because they "like her," they will keep trying to talk her back into it. Even if it's just in the way of saying "you're so much better than so and so" when he dates other women.

[@PrincessLoX0]

LOL I just hollered 😭😭😂😂😭

[@Lucyinthskyy]

He cheated so easily when she wasn’t around . It’s definitely not the first time he’s done it .

[@Shay-rx4xu]

If he does that with her on vacation can just imagine what he actually does without her there

[@softersideofc.c.5655]

That part

[@candace9560]

Right and if she stayed he’d be like ok I got a forever dummy would of just kept cheating

[@Shay-rx4xu]

@@candace9560 exactly

[@mizz2ts86]

He cheated while she was there too! He’s a serial cheater🤦🏾‍♀️. I’m so happy she left!

[@phoenixpower8532]

She’s choose herself and I love that!

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Same proud of her honestly

[@sg5720]

One thing for sure is - yourself will always want you to succeed. 🙂

[@Chillikilli]

Fr she is glowing. Im glad she was able to let that deadweight go.

[@KDiamond666]

Yessss plus she is so gorgeous!!!!

[@maryuhh89]

Finally someone practicing self love

[@sunflowersandsand]

Her missing that flight was God protecting her so that she could see her "boyfriend's" true intent. He's brazen and his flippant comments in the group chat show that he's been cheating on her for all those years. If his cousins are in relationships their significant other's need to check their phones too because birds of a feather!...

[@flychic7]

Facts 😅

[@reesemonique]

was just about to write this!

[@nameunknown1519]

Leaving your girlfriend drunk by herself in a foreign country to go meet up with another woman is some of the nastiest work 🤢😭🙅🏾‍♀️

[@jacks4009]

Yuck

[@ChocoBeauty8]

She was definitely out of his league. She was very classy.

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Too classy

[@CloudsSilverlining.]

Very demure

[@KDiamond666]

Right?! She is too fkn gorgeous for his bum ssa!

[@AmberBrooklyn24]

Very mindful lol

[@divinej802]

Very beautiful.

[@agirlnickel]

He meets some random ass girl and now she’s everything he needs for the week… Meanwhile his girlfriend is on her way to what she believes is going to be a great vacation with her boyfriend. These men are really sick in the head. And the way he’s so easily open to his cousins about cheating has to mean he does that shit all the time.

[@FijiMatic]

Exactly

[@Shyknit]

And the fact they've known each other since they were kids is crazy, like it would be bad enough to cheat someone that used to be a stranger and yall were dating for a short period but to do it to someone you grew up with and know as a person, smh

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

Bingo!!

[@elysiyah3364]

And it means more than likely his cousins ain't 💩 either, just a whole dusty family tree.

[@Shay-rx4xu]

​@@elysiyah3364😂😂I was going to say that until I saw u said it already

[@HoopsIDidItAgain1998]

This is the POWER of decentering men. Boo is already glowing and won’t have any problems finding someone else. A huge blessing is coming her way. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Iwantallmymoney2024]

This!! When you truly decenter, you barelybget rattled by them! I had one clown try it this summer, I left immediately! No triangulation, no fighting! You were just a good time and that's it!!!!

[@Shay-rx4xu]

So true

[@lolabunny1157]

Amen!!

[@likhonancate3366]

Just how she is telling the,her tone omg I'm in love with this lady!!! I am so impressed with how she handled herself ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@phenitagomes1292]

Amen

[@rosalynnartis2404]

His passport, his wallet, his phone, and keys would be in the same predicament as his mind. LOST!

[@softersideofc.c.5655]

😂😂😂

[@Dtheodore]

Hilarious 😂

[@Chillikilli]

Yup i would have hid that shit in the toilet lmao 🤣

[@oshunthagreat]

Yeah cuz I'm crazy like this too lol classy to an extent

[@anelbre0904]

@@GoldenPisces903 Definitely. The passport AND luggage WOULD BE GONE.

[@Morenita570]

She refused to go thru the humiliation and triangulation ritual that BM demand BW go thru to ‘prove that they’re the false prize.’ In the end, he would’ve still discarded her, because he has no honor or moral character. She’s spiritually protected. Is this our Queen of ‘Moving in Silence!!’

[@SISTAGURL]

Women are doing better, no longer signing up for that and I love that for us.

[@zeeb116]

“Humiliation triangulation ritual!!” Sis that’s iiit! We the collective are sick of it! Loved how she moved in silence ❤

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Yup love to see bw choose themselves

[@Mia00889]

When my ex cheated on me and his moms and sister reached out, I just sent them the pictures I found on their son/brother phone. If I gotta see it, then all of the close women in your life is gonna see it 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Lisette121]

Lol savage😂

[@demetriuspowell29]

You only saw it because you went through his phone you shouldn't send photos to his family members

[@Mia00889]

@@demetriuspowell29 Dametra no one was talking to you sis 🤭

[@catharsismemory]

You reap what you sow, you guys get caught cheating and think you shouldn't be exposed or have sympathy.

[@tessy28]

​@@demetriuspowell29 You sound like a cheater salty that you got caught cheating.😂

[@StylishlySaved1]

That level of maturity is sooo refreshing. The faster she knew that the attachment was not worth it, she also knew she could move on much faster! Blessings to her on her healing journey!

[@stacyj2015]

That group chat told me he had been cheating for awhile as well! Sis should be SO proud of herself for leaving quietly. Silence speaks volumes! He’s a terrible person and how dare his female cousins try to convince her otherwise.

[@cutlyfe]

I thought it was just me.

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

This!

[@Empress1014_]

Exactly what I thought, if he’s doing that on vacay, what has he done on US soil. She dodged a major bullet! She has mastered the level of detachment, and I love that for her! ✨💫🙏🏽

[@prtdiva]

That quiet disappearance left that man SICK! I can PROMISE you that. Whenever I break up with someone I don’t cause a fuss and they always try to come crawling back because they couldn’t manipulate me. Leave quietly. That’s a much bigger impact than crashing out 💅🏾

[@dancingmango143]

I think his female cousins were just reaching out to apologise.

[@mango7966]

I need to go to her yoga classes. Sis has a different type of peace

[@lynnd4997]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Lol especially now since getting rid of that drama out her life

[@DaPhlyymamee]

Seriously!

[@jazmina1343]

He wanted to get caught and didn’t respect her. Glad she left him.

[@zoozagt5]

I was thinking so as well. He didn't want to be with her anymore. He wanted to get caught so she would break up with him.

[@Chloenextdoor]

How cowardice are these men really?! Sparing themselves of having an inkling of feeling or “accountability.”

[@amorelockster1023]

@@Chloenextdoor most definitely and apparently not his own mother. Choosing a random girl over his girlfriend and mother is nasty work.

[@Chloenextdoor]

@@amorelockster1023 because he knows he can play on some women until kingdom come, well apparently not the ex-girlfriend maybe just the mom….I am beyond proud of this girl because here he is putting her health at risk for a Spanish fling and her physical safety too. The amount of men being drugged or off’d in these Spanish countries… He could’ve dragged her into his mess and got her robbed or worst because he’s a lust bucket with no integrity. So many things went through my mind during this video but me being proud was the most important.

[@truettadevil]

They get off 🍆 💦 on the thrill of getting caught...

[@GoodieGabor]

He took his name off the bills so she would reach out to him

[@thestar5375]

I'm glad you said this, wow. Feels like he is the type too.

[@laneesha1000]

YUP💯I know he pissed she ain’t take the bait😫

[@GoodieGabor]

@@laneesha1000 facts lmao

[@candicecurry8800]

Omg yes and the fact she’s just like “oh well gotta pay it myself” 😂😂😂😂 he got to be hot

[@MsSiaNicole]

All these women talking about crashing out if they was in her shoes .. baby I’m not getting locked up or ending up in no hospital from fighting a ninja in a foreign country.. makes zero sense. Arguing and fighting would have not changed the outcome so she was smart to just get up out of there and not look back. Yes how he did her was CRAZY but you still need to move accordingly outside these states.

[@IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle]

I agree

[@yvonnekilla3971]

Taking his passport is fucked up ,but flooding the air bnb is criminal

[@sagba9473]

Exactly say it again I’m not catching charges for no man

[@MsSiaNicole]

@@sagba9473 especially not in another country 🥴

[@Shay-rx4xu]

​@@MsSiaNicole😂 right I watched too much locked up abroad

[@RyzeQueen]

Her former partner and his male cousins lack integrity. The text messages revealed their true nature, giving her even more glimpses of their character. I'm relieved she chose to depart gracefully❤ true Queen!

[@sunflowersandsand]

Trust me! God will send him his karma, and she will be blessed abundantly for not reacting emotionally. I love a level-headed Queen!

[@aliyahharmon9045]

That's why when a man's friends and family vouch for him, it means nothing to me

[@dessi8685]

The fact that they grew up together probably broke his parents heart just as bad as hers! Omg good for her ❤ may god bless her with an amazing husband!

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Yup which is why I say u can be with someone for years and still don't know who they are

[@AyAReI00]

Exactly and people have the AUDACITY to blame women for choosing wrong .... Like sis they know each other for ages and he still fake he was a good person. Or these people havent seen documental of psychopaths with family and kids and comunities that love them and they kill women for sports ... Is not our fault men fake personas

[@neftana8]

Shoot that's if they like her, cause I've seen parents root for their kids to move on despite knowing their spouse for years

[@kylia2009]

The disrespect from him was so loud... he clearly don't give AF. He's not worth another moment of her energy.

[@HealthyBrownGirls]

VERY Demure..Very Classy....Very Mindful...and the gag is...THAT reaction will continue to haunt him for many relationships to come. She sealed her position as the one who got away.

[@lekeciagarland6148]

Facts 🎯💯

[@sidology1.0]

That part. I'm glad she didn't do the nonsense people are mentioning and catching a charge in a FOREIGN country!

[@mi3helle707]

Fr fr. Sis saw and left. The joys of knowing your worth, and self-love.

[@MyTVtube2009]

Ladies, please choose yourself and your health. He didn't care about passing any diseases to her.

[@sidology1.0]

That part!! I be so shocked when this isn't mentioned in any of these cheater exposed videos. That's also why I can't understand why women take their cheaters back.. this dude clearly doesn't care about his life let alone YOURS! it's sooo sad 😔

[@lisaalso895]

She handled it perfectly. His ego is beyond bruised. He is now questioning his bedroom performance, and the other woman probably got a man.

[@nettaleanne]

Right, that woman got dressed and went to make breakfast for her man and kids 😂

[@Shay-rx4xu]

As it should be

[@biancam2327]

The fact her purposely got her drunk so she could pass out and he could go meet up with the girl..nah..its best she left this man alone, he will never be good for any woman. He has no morals at all.

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

He’s scary 😟

[@heavenlee4544]

Wait did I miss something!? He met up with her when she got there as well!? 🤯 Edit: Just got to that part. This man ain’t SHIT! It’s a scary world

[@biancam2327]

@@heavenlee4544 right! Made me think he let his girl get drunk on purpose. Smh.

[@nameunknown1519]

And taking those videos of that girl without her knowing smh. Top tier disgusting.

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Just sick honestly

[@meganscott1219]

This womans reaction to a shi**y situation is gold!! Her self worth and detachment is on 100!!

[@p994able]

She definitely knows her worth and I love to see it.

[@ashajeremiahqw8775]

Yes she does

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Right so proud she choose peace instead of drama and trauma

[@DeLaTr0ll]

I know ppl are saying they would’ve failed that test but he’s about to have the hardest season in his life. She’ll be blessed.

[@Harlem_Renaissance]

Yep, and once he truly realizes she's done.. he gonna be emotionally scarred. Especially when she mets someone else. She handled the situation perfectly.

[@Lavender_8497]

He would’ve been laughing and kee kee’ing in his group chat about how she was crashing out over him cheating. I’m glad she didn’t give him the satisfaction. I’m learning to think before I act now. I didn’t used to do that.

[@JB4C89]

His lesson bout to be HARDDDDDTTTT 😂😂😂😂

[@Virgo904]

Exactly !!!

[@D415h4n34]

He fumbled a mentally healthy, balanced, BEAUTIFUL yoga instructor?!?! SHEESH

[@kOmack880]

Exactly🤦🏾‍♀️ Proves to me that: Males wake up every day Knowing they are UNWORTHY....

[@chelseagriffin3148]

I didn't see the follow-up videos...I was just thinking it must've been awkard to have to talk to his family but that just adds to the stab of his ego. Because now his family is gonna keep bringing her up as she evolves & moves on with someone else 😂😂

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

Facts 😂🤸🏽‍♂️✨

[@mi3helle707]

Fr ROFL

[@MY-im5qp]

He did not value her at all. To be in a relationship , have s3x with a random on vacation, record, and text your cousins. The audacity!

[@AyAReI00]

How they find girls that easy to sleep with randoms ??? Did he pay that. Woman ?

[@Black_and_Green]

I'm sooo glad the word "closure" was not used in this video.

[@SISTAGURL]

Great point

[@soblessed3157]

THANK YOUUUU. Closure is overrated. The need to know why someone did something WILL NOT MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER! She honestly is my role model now because I aspire to have this level of detachment.

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Cause it's never needed when they blantly disrespect u closure is just a way to be manipulative with more lies

[@lolabunny1157]

Amen! Cheating was the closure.

[@lightdove7]

​@@soblessed3157 💯💯💯💯

[@zeshanelle1468]

He's a fool. She is beautiful inside and out. Not to mention, she's the type many claim they want (mature, educated, NATURAL, wifey... etc.) and he showed his behind and why he doesn't deserve her. It is even more disgusting that he did this to her and then bragged about it when they grew up together. He must have severely low self esteem. He has no self respect, no class, no integrity, no loyalty, no nothing. Just wow. He messed up with a good and very rare one. I am very proud of her.

[@B_Millie]

This is the one. Looking at his pics,he was the family friend that "couldn't get right" and noooo one was entertaining him in their hometown. The parents encouraged it because "it was safe". It's giving Moesha and Hakeem before he kissed Niecey🥴

[@prettybrittany_]

yeah she’s definitely wifey . she’ll come across better

[@zeshanelle1468]

@@B_Millie Right. If ever an ex's family member(s) reach out to you to apologize and bring forth outward closure on the behalf of you ex and THEN encourages reconciliation, it's because you are the catch. Don't go down that dead end road. Choose to save yourself instead of trying to save him. You are not Jesus. Even Jesus stayed away from narcissists who "didn't need no saving". He's a walking hazardous sign. He better check his drawls. Good on her. Ain't nobody got time for that.

[@zeshanelle1468]

@@prettybrittany_ It was definitely meant for her to miss her flight.

[@zeshanelle1468]

​@@B_Millie Right. If ever an ex's family member(s) reaches out to you to apologizes and brings forth outward closure on the behalf of your ex and THEN encourages reconciliation, it's because you are the catch. Don't go down that dead end road. Choose to save yourself instead of trying to save him. You are not Jesus. Even Jesus stayed away from narcissists who "didn't need no saving". He's a walking hazardous sign. He better check his drawls. Good on her. Ain't nobody got time for that.

[@Bianca.Nceeee]

I hope she was careful with him. Beasts like him just spread diseases all over the place. Shes gorgeous she won't have any issues moving on wish her the best

[@winehousted90]

That’s what I’m afraid of too liek how he’s sooo in the streets like this I wondered “ dam did he ever get any std’s” like wtf man dating is sooo scary this is insane

[@ms.virgo82187]

That's why I get tested every 6 months because unfortunately ninjas 🥷 out here be lying to your face! Had to finally ghost 👻 a ninja I've been knowing for 11 years, but we just made it official about 2 years ago. Don't understand how a 40 year old still can't just be real! Putting people's health at risk is sick!

[@Wearenotfriendsxo]

Stories like this scare tf out of me because when you’re a faithful person you never wanna be betrayed 😢

[@beverly3304]

worst feeling in the world fr smh

[@imanmarie8764]

Wow she handled that with such grace and class. She's absolutely gorgeous and knows her worth !

[@BrittbyBit]

Cheating with a random woman in a foreign country is so ...🤢🤢🤢

[@divinej802]

Utterly disrespectful

[@PurePosey44]

She and I are spiritual twin. I left quietly when I found out my husband was cheating. He’s still trying to talk to me since the divorce was finalized. I refused to talk to him in mediation and through the divorce settlement. 3 years later he’s still trying to talk to me! NOPE, naw, uh huh!

[@Natalie_11188]

She should be proud of herself. She did the right thing.

[@xpnn]

I’m glad she left him and I hope she stays gone

[@latebloomer177]

Something tells me that she has been through similar with him and doesn’t want to get into it. Not everyone is going to crash out for these kind of situations but it seems like this was “ last straw” type deal.

[@onlyalisaawilliams]

Agreed.

[@blackingingerpurrin]

True because ain’t no way he’s that comfortable. I hate when women continue to deal in struggle love ..

[@sincerely5906]

Yea if this was the first time he was caught, I highly doubt she would’ve remained so level-headed b/c that’s DEEP betrayal that brings out SPECIFIC emotions.

[@nd7289]

​@@sincerely5906 Not necessarily, a lot of us know it's more painful to leave someone witbout closure.

[@Dr_AKA_HLF]

The same th8ng happened to me...I found out my ex was cheating while I was using his computer. He was in a group chat, had pics of him receiving felatio, admitting that he was sleeping with "randoms" (his word, not mine). I was devastated but I left. I left his computer open to the messages, blocked him, and left. These men are absolutely immature and disrespectful. Always choose yourself!

[@AyAReI00]

I dont understand women that allow men to take pics of them ... I don't trust men that much to allow them to have something to blackmail me, Revenge porn is a thing and is always women who suffer

[@TheSacralHealer]

When the other girl said she would’ve taken his passport and packed his clothes 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m healing yes but still come onnnnn 😂🤣 hell yeah I would’ve too

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

😂😂😂 facts f a note

[@prettyangel0921]

My gosh this would’ve passed through my thoughts….. yassssss! But sadly I wouldn’t do it 😂

[@MT-yx5cu]

Why? You know how these men are. There is a reason we decenter them. Im not going to show my behind or play "get back" for someone that functions at such a low level. She moved exactly the way she should have as intelligent young lady who knows her value.

[@Sarahu-p1i]

Period

[@moneyisviscous]

Being spiteful is not the answer. She stayed true to who she is and didn’t stoop to his low level. Leaving and denying him access is punishment enough. I am glad she’s MATURE. ALSO…He was clearly trying to start a fight with her so he could go out. Then so disrespectful to be talking to the other girl right in front of her because she was drunk.

[@BoHeaux]

He took her for granted. They grew up together and he thought she’d always be there. Good for her! You teach them how to treat you and she said she is above the phuckery-she don’t care who you are.

[@tab2n0]

Leaving gracefully, i love that for her!

[@kass2086]

Yesss, she did that!!!

[@_KayBee_]

Its him telling his cousins that a girl he knew for 37 hours is all he need. What a bum! Also she let dude (a stranger) film her naked multiple times. I'm afraid of yall.

[@Mbuyiselo5]

Thank you, he said he doesn’t know why his girlfriend or Mother were coming. A girl he just met less than 24 hours ago was more important than the two of them combined. He’s a loser.

[@giab.3411]

Her back was always turned so I doubt she even knows.

[@chelseagriffin3148]

I saw this in my fyp too like a week ago! This girl left that man in the most classiest ways possible!

[@ClassyDdiamond]

Sis was deep in the family for most of the women of HIS family reached out. Good job sis

[@Mbuyiselo5]

Yes she was, the photo of them as little kids 😢 This man doesn’t deserve her. I’m glad she protected her peace.

[@AyAReI00]

Do You think they knew ? He was telling his cousins like no biggie

[@lmusima3275]

The fact that this guy cheated, recorded it, posted it and bragged to his friends about it tells me everything about his true character. It tells me also the quality of his friends who probably also cheat

[@mi3helle707]

*Cousins. His Cousins. Not friends. Which is even worse😢

[@jessicaellis8751]

The real mind blowing thing is how lately on the internet? How all these men be saying they don't trust their girlfriend friends but they out here knowing damn well that they tell their friends. Meanwhile they show their friends everything from pictures and recordings and have them to still lie and cover for them but they can't trust their girlfriend friends this is living proof this how men act all the time?

[@abbygailyoung-beaulieu460]

I loved how she chose herself and left gracefully. By simply leaving quietly and remove access to your presence/space, you showing that person who they really fumbled. Great video 😊

[@Nbayoungguh]

He kinda told on him self by mentioning other females💯

[@blackingingerpurrin]

He did cause if my man told me he hanged out with other girls I would’ve cancelled the trip

[@ghostgirl531]

@@blackingingerpurrinFRRRR

[@tonjamanigo]

He is trash. The fact HE cheated on HER and has the audacity to try and be spiteful is wild. Glad she found out before she became more than a girlfriend. Wow. Shout out to her for keepin it cute.

[@kreestyle8986]

He’s in arrested development. Smdh. A real man is going to scoop her up immediately. (Sidebar; her reaction gives last straw vibes. Like her intuition was letting her know of his alleged cheating before baecation but she stuck it out.

[@vlee7217]

Agreed

[@Datb2]

So classy!!!! HE FUMBLED BADDD

[@SmileySaidIt]

I broke up with someone while we were on vacation before lol! I was not playing! We were very newly dating and went to Puerto Rico and he showed how possessive and insecure he was. This was 13 years ago and I wasn’t playing then, now that I’m 32 years old, I DEFINITELY don’t play around! Tuh, end it immediately no matter where you are or what time it is. Good for her!

[@AboveRubiesTV]

Yes! The insecure, possessive types are annoying on top of scary.

[@alicia_nicole]

Is this what we would call high functioning? I learned a new word! 😊

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

Yes 😭

[@kimberlyanicegregg8212]

She was so classy! Are we locked in. Are you my friend. Yes, boo-boo we are locked in.😂

[@vinkeyla23]

I’m so proud of her! This level of maturity should be the norm💁🏽‍♀️🎯

[@Nique25]

Shoutout to her being healed enough to know she didn't need to do anything more. Don't block your blessings! Just like she said, better will come for her, no matter what that looks like

[@tamarareed2901]

I love her she knows her worth and is not desperate!

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

Mire women need to take a page out of her book

[@drjekelmrhyde]

Buddy is lucky that she didn't toss his passport in the garbage .

[@ElleJae-b9q]

This is the comment I was looking for.

[@brwnsuga.mangos]

I caught my ex cheating while he was sleep in my bed. I was curious so I went through his phone and found everything I was looking for-I took screenshots and sent voice messages/videos he sent to her to myself. So for a week-I played my role until I had my ducks in order. Went over to his place-took all the gifts I got him and returned the ones he gave me, left a note with the proof and my finally thoughts and left the key on his kitchen cabinet(and changed my locks at my place). He saw the note when he got him.

[@NaomyP]

I saw her story, I even commented! She’s so gracious, because I don’t handle cheating very well, let alone if I catch it happening in real time. I don’t know how I’ll handle it and that’s how I know I’m still healing!

[@FijiMatic]

They have cheaters group chat yuck 🤢 love and hip hop creep squad type guys

[@AyAReI00]

Is extremelly disturbing that some men bond by disrespecting women, thats some antisocial personality traits RIGHT there

[@Wearenotfriendsxo]

Her just keeping it pushin reminds me of one of my close friends she be blocking and never looking back 😂

[@nyobibanks253]

Proud of you , Sis. The woman that got away!!!!!

[@Besafe782]

He could have given her something 😢 he just slept with a random girl

[@MsNieshaBean]

Applause to her, and im working daily to become this healed! She is the epitome of "choose yourself"!! I got teary-eyed from the story, and her reaction!

[@SouthernP751]

So disgusting and disheartening, I hope that was just a way to clear the path for better things in her life

[@maureen_momo]

There is nothing a man will do that will make me pop off! Delete. Block. Move on. Never talk to them ever again. Sis is me and I hope she doesn’t give him an inkling of her time. He deserves absolutely NOTHING!

[@masterofnothing2360]

The only consideration she needs for this ex is to get a std/sti screening just in case because her probably been cheating. Him and his cousins in that group chat are disgusting and I’m so glad she immediately cut him out. People like this deserve no closure or chances

[@mininininini]

The ultimate disrespect. They have a decade long relationship and friendship and look at how he betrayed her. He should’ve expected nothing less. I love how the family reached out to her and they have to be holding him accountable and I know he feels like a FOOL

[@OhNaNa2012]

No reaction is the correct reaction. Sometimes when you think you’re getting revenge, youre just giving them the validation they want. She was very self aware of her value and knows her absence is the biggest L she can hand him. He probably going to start stalking her soon 🤦🏾‍♀️ And he will be crying about her when he turn 50+

[@kristysmith2552]

Yes! I love this kind of girlie that’s handling it with grace and class. I didn’t know these women still existed. So proud of her!

[@NIFly-kd9vz]

The amount of self control you have to have in order to walk away like that. Wow so much respect!

[@WIGAHOLIC14]

He was very reckless damn just some random on vacation knowing that his girlfriend was coming that's diabolical. It's wrong either way but damn he couldn't control himself 24 hours. Very mature of her good luck to her

[@MsMookalate]

Oh I definitely know how to block emails since when I block your own spirit guide and ancestors can’t reach me😂😂😂

[@YourLifestylist]

Her moving in silence is masterful … yall have no idea how crazy this man is going to become bc she silent

[@EarthQueen-1111]

I love how unbothered she is🧘🏾‍♀️

[@IndigobluBeauty]

Glad for how she handled this now but the skeptic in me recalls the numerous stories of the women going BACK…let’s see where this is at in 3 months chile 🤷🏾‍♀️👀

[@AyAReI00]

Thats SO freaking sad, cheating is the last straw... No forgiveness there, no matter the years wasted ... actually women should thing that if he was able to risk all those years he dont deserve her. I wish women love themselves more than they love a d ... Girl NEVER get back to a Cheater then won't appreciatte You for coming back, they Will think is if she forgive me once i can do it again

[@IndigobluBeauty]

@@AyAReI00 it is sad and I am so jaded now from all the stories where you rally behind the woman who post then next thing you know she’s back with him after raisin everybody else’s blood pressure. I’ve been her but thankfully there was no social media for me to run to and further embarrass myself lol! I hope she does lover herself more though💜

[@warewellnessco]

5:14 it’s a NO FOREVER!!!!

[@tulanibutler]

She chose herself and her peace. I love that for her ❤❤❤❤

[@samanthac8060]

She did the right thing. Move in silence and keep it pushing.

[@glamfortheculture5583]

And she’s a yoga instructor? I would’ve dated her! She’s probably peaceful as hell. 😂😂😂😂 I wish her nothing but the best

[@B_Millie]

👂Are you choosy? 🤭Heck...I'd learn yoga to teach you while maintaining peace🤞If that's you in the default pic😏

[@misskeah8893]

She's too wholesome. Men be screaming "be my peace" and when she is....he goes and sabotage it.

[@roshikay413]

Happy Labor Day weekend everyone? Enjoy the fruits of your labor

[@Floratic]

She handled this very graciously. I hope she doesn't go back. I definitely would have failed this test. 😂

[@stormnuage]

I love her personnality so much!!! A good example of Believe me im learning from that situation😊 like i might cry once but believe me next day i almost forgot your name and planning what im going to do with all that FREE TIME.. GIRL YOURE FREE❤❤❤❤YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL

[@janajahbragg1747]

Good for her!! She will be blessed and will find everything she deserves 💗

[@moniquew3603]

The guy is TRASH. I love the way she handled it. Cute, quiet, and QUICK! 🏃🏾‍♀️‍➡️

[@dbailey5033]

Silence is powerful! No matter how much a person disrespects and you decide to walk away and ignore…eventually it WILL HAUNT them for the rest of their existence. TRUST!!!! 🤞she took her POWER with her! ❤

[@t.j.m7131]

When you know your peace it's easier to disassociate and leave. I did this years ago to an ex and he flipped out when i calmly was leaving. Blocked the door, tried to hold my items hostage 😂 you're right he called and stalked me for more than a year straight. I had people around me listen to his calls. He was desperate. I agree ghosting is the best because you can man handle his family and friends 😅😅

[@naomynn1]

She chose to leave quietly which requires a level of self-control. He expected an emotional reaction. He was playing checkers, she was playing chess.

[@bridneymumford8133]

Ladies never crash out remember crashing out can lead to serious consequences don’t jeopardize it for a no good men …plus crashing out only stroke their egos don’t give them the satisfaction your absence is gonna speak for itself 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@thesassynapturalista5915]

Glad she got out of her situation and hope she doesn't look back. Always best to move silently to avoid confrontations that sometimes can turn violent. Also not suprised this dude have family members that support his degenerate behavior. It is more common than people know.

[@Michaeleism]

The violent part... Especially when on vacation, these XYs will delete and disappear a person with no hesitation or reservations.

[@DontTakeItLiteral]

Now Yanieeee how you preach about us De-centering men, not becoming baby mama’s, && not accepting the bare minimum but you telling us you would have crashed out 🤣🤣🤣😂 No ma’am sis. She could have caught some charges, && you don’t go tik for tat with these lil boys, they are dangerous…. He could have got mad if she did all that && come back to kill her or something. We actually need to encourage her type of behavior more often following with NOT GOING BACK…. She handled that absolutely well 🤞🏽

[@TiffyAlwaysBlissy]

She is HEALEDDDDDDD. And she knows her worth. I’m so happy she walked away. The families always know. And yep *something* would have left with me by mistake on purpose.

[@kimberly5455]

YES!!! In my Mariah Carey song Voice… And a SHERO comes along with the STRENGTH to carry on!! I’m proud of her!!

[@RUNWAYBEAUTY]

It was meant for her to miss her flight.

[@MizzFaithy1]

"Better is always making its way to me". "I have everything I need and what I don't have is on its way to me". 8:03

[@praise3700]

With the way she’s cheesing I hope she doesn’t go back to the fool!! Once again ladies!!! His homies / family are his not yours!!! I’m sure the cousins be laughing with her.