SEASON 2 PART 1: UPDATE ON WOMAN FACING LIFE IN PRISON SOUTH KOREA! FIND OUT HOW HER BF SET HER UP!

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[@RealTalkWithYanie]

If you missed part 1 or need a refresher: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g4nbdHV8qcaZfZYsi=wl-0mKWyZ0u3jMf2

[@ThemisThoth]

I am hooked… cannot wait to hear the rest. I feel so bad for her.

[@ThePinkPillOfficial]

This is a stereotypical DC Loser she got tied up with. I live here & he dresses just like them. This was so degrading.

[@copiouscat]

It’s this video being part one… of season 2…. There’s MORE?! 😮‍💨😵‍💫🫠 also Hi Yanie & Themis ❤

[@JustLetMeDance]

Thank you!! Because what??!! Let me catch up. 😕

[@Mouth4thep]

The job in Korea itself was her opportunity to separate herself from dude. She was given an opportunity to leave him in the U.S. and neglects to admit she wasn't ready to part ways with this dude who showed himself FULLY, prior to her leaving the U.S. Sis, he was a liability from day 1! When someone shows you who they are, { for the love of Pete} ... believe it!

[@chellemarcato]

Lmao @ Pete!!! But for real tho

[@sfr2107]

Facts...

[@staceywilliams1863]

Self accountability!

[@jamiesellers683]

that part! She let this go too far. She was in love love.

[@zantrellrobinson]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 FACTS!!!

[@Misspinkbeauu]

When women be this slow I think they like the drama. He stole your money. Then you literally saw him going through withdrawal, what is there to question?

[@itsnotmeitsyou717]

Also why is he even using his dad's medication and going through withdrawal? But you thought it made sense to send your lawyer documents stating it was his dead father's medication?

[@Misspinkbeauu]

@@itsnotmeitsyou717 letting him lie and say you took care of him too. Then him texting her saying to say “not to my knowledge”… like she was not thinking of herself at all.

[@Ceilingkatwatchesus]

Exactly. I don’t understand women and men like this. I also thought she just liked the drama since she don’t have no other hobbies. Seems like this is their hobby and it keeps them entertained. Cuz ain’t no way 😹😹😹😹you can be this ignorant

[@peacejoylove8542]

The self preservation is surely lacking.

[@ms2gud1234]

Stupidity and desperation lol

[@shantisam6972]

This girl went there on GOVERNMENT Orders!! ignorance is not an excuse in korea or the military! She lacks accountability. She brought someone who im certain wasnt on her wrk Order! She automatically assumes all responsibility for him. They’re in S.Korea! Hes a whole drug addict! Tf! I’m retired military who lived in S.K. i wld neeeever let any man jeopardize my career or freedom!

[@shantisam6972]

Im sure she had to get security clearance. U knw full well u cant even have bad credit or u will lose ur secret clearance. Muchless having a bf thats a liability. She was being willfully ignorant.

[@trenellclarke10]

Well said!!

[@theressak]

​@shantisam6972 exactly!! Have you seen part1?? Sooo many things happened before the move to S.K!!! Like giiirl what are you doing??

[@MayaDivine8]

Thank you!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@asmlove32]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@channielavonne8254]

Staying single is becoming more and more appealing every day… and I’m only 23 lollll

[@jjjones4502]

Just do you and if it’s meant to be, God will surely bless you with your life partner. But just know that the devil obviously hears your prayers as well so definitely be vigilant.

[@channielavonne8254]

I’m starting to wonder if the real blessing is me being content with my peace all by myself. Lol and atp I’m cool with that

[@shaypope4732]

​@@channielavonne8254u have my name but with a s instead of c lol n I'm 27 and love my peace being unerupted plus u can be with someone for years and still don't know them only wat they choose to show u then when they mask slip will call blame u for believing their lies so definitely not worth it unless they are upgrading everything in ur life

[@ClaudiaNkeji]

Lmao honestly and I’m 22

[@rgold51074]

I'm 50, single, financially stable, and world traveller...Life is good. Love urself more than you like anyone else. The gag is, when u have standards men and women will break their neck 2 not only meet them, but 2 maintain them.

[@paeshaswanson]

She keeps saying that he is “ gaslighting”her. 🙄Girl he is just lying to you blatantly in your face.

[@TheAnnJanel]

Isn’t that what gaslighting is? 🤔

[@albertamathurin7084]

That's a form of gaslighting

[@DhalilaD]

Everytime Yanie deletes my comments it lets me know she takes things so personal and insecure because you can’t leave an opinion of someone else that’s not about you and wasn’t rude? You’re mad i said she didn’t take accountability and don’t blame with craft like most BW do? FAKE UNBOTHERED BIASED NO ACCOUNTABILITY HAVING VIRTUE SIGNAL YANIR

[@mamat1213]

She gaslighting herself MORE than anyone else smh 😢

[@Lucky_Gurl-Luna]

That's what gaslighting is tho 😂

[@tishr9670]

Higher power gave her so many times to leave him behind. Crazy.

[@Dawn4j]

Now I get your comment,😂😂😂, she should have waited for him outside if she wanted to... But she should have left as soon as she was outside with all her luggages

[@Mouth4thep]

Indeed!

[@sidology1.0]

When she mentioned to asking for a sign from God ... I'm like girl, he's given you dozens if not HUNDREDS on signs!!

[@xluvs]

To make it worse and make herself even more foolish: the man had put his Drug in YOUR BAG instead of his. Then he's trying to coach you on what to say in the interrogation even though he CLAIMS HE HAS NEVER been through this or know what it is.

[@sidology1.0]

@xluvs I feel bad for saying it but in a way, I don't feel bad for her

[@raizzy33]

Why did she invite a junkie to move across the world with her? She can't be this slow. Then she waited after she saw an alarm was on his luggage? smdh.

[@Jaiunsolicited]

Right. It gives they were both in on it then they got caught so she folded and is playing innocent now. She already admitted to trying stuff with him.

[@TherealMorganAlyse]

@@Jaiunsolicitedwhen did she ever say that? If you watched the first part the Percocet he previously gave her that may or may not have been that was because she wasn’t feeling well not because she wanted to party. Why would she be trying drugs constantly and she works for the government in various capacities?!

[@Letstalkaboutit2323]

She really wanted to learn the hard way. Heavy on HARD.

[@Jaiunsolicited]

@@TherealMorganAlyse You gotta have your own facts right before questioning mine. She said he worked for the government in the first part not her. Sis thought she was doing something dating a mayor’s employee. She didn’t get a government job until the Korea one. After saying she wouldn’t see him again if he was taking drugs in her house and he can’t have them around her, she was taking drugs he gave her. The lady took those pills and kept drinking the alcohol she was questioning willingly knowing his history. Idc what it was for. If a man was already giving you red flags and you were questioning him why in the world would she take something from him? It wasn’t even a prescription so she didn’t try to check at all before taking it. She said she was going back and forth to her doctor trying different medications but instead took his & that fent was the only thing that helped her?? She’s definitely leaving truths out. She found out he was a recovering addict trying different drugs, allowed him to get ahold of “percs”, and THEN thought it was a great ideas to get a marriage license & move with him.

[@13ikea]

@@TherealMorganAlyseshe said it in this video that she was aware he was doing drugs beforehand

[@Mikkiw__]

This is a perfect example of IGNORING RED FLAGS!!! She should have dropped him when he brought them drugs with him!! Like ain't NOBODY putting my freedom at risk!

[@RuHyacinth]

Okay, NOBODY

[@Mikkiw__]

@@RuHyacinth baby the more I watched the more I screamed!! Like baby girl we gotta do better! Any communication would have been cut! He would have been by himself in korea!

[@RuHyacinth]

@Mikkiw__ & knowing myself, I wouldn't have put his luggage under my name at all. Who does that honestly? Lol I feel everyone's name should be under their own luggage unless it's a small child

[@RuHyacinth]

@Mikkiw__ & that too! I would had have to cancel whatever I was doing in Korea and just went back to the states without him

[@jdeux3677]

​@@RuHyacinth THIS

[@Sophia-bp9ul]

It’s not about staying single. It’s about dishonoring yourself over and over again. If you don’t honor yourself then why would anyone honor you. You don’t need a sign if someone already dishonored you.

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

Thank you. “This is why it’s better to stay single” is a copout to me. How about we start using common sense and discernment? The signs were dead in her face and she choose to ignore than multiple times.

[@albertamathurin7084]

You can honor yourself and still have a horrible man trying to dishonor you and do damage When are we going to realize people are going to do to you or see you in the frequency that they see themselves. People operate in the realm with them selves so it's not about you

[@miabarnett2452]

⁠​⁠@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947omg yes! People don’t want to change and miss out on all the goodness that they can experience:(

[@Sophia-bp9ul]

@@albertamathurin7084 yes and after the first time he dishonors you, you then leave because you have boundaries, self respect and self love. There will be no time for this type of damage when you walk away immediately.

[@DhalilaD]

Everytime Yanie deletes my comments it lets me know she takes things so personal and insecure because you can’t leave an opinion of someone else that’s not about you and wasn’t rude? You’re mad i said she didn’t take accountability and don’t blame with craft like most BW do? FAKE UNBOTHERED BIASED NO ACCOUNTABILITY HAVING VIRTUE SIGNAL YANIR

[@HarrietWanjau]

Wisdom is trying to catch up to her but she's faster 😂😂😂😂😂

[@leah7659]

OKAY🤦🏽‍♀️😂 HELLO⁉️ like anyone home ….. cus this whole time listening to this, I’m like girlll🙄😑

[@t.j.m7131]

The min he was acting the fool ain't no way I was going Korea with him like wth

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

@@leah7659 I know, it felt so annoying the more she spoken 🙄

[@BelieveLoveLive92]

I started getting upset myself, like come on girl!!! Open your eyes!

[@Ms_Smith876]

😂😂😂 she’s way too fast

[@DarthFurie]

She doesn't care about her life or take it seriously. She's a passenger in her own existence, doesn't take charge or use her own agency. She's probably been through many calamities at the hands of others during her life, it's terrible to watch. Don't be like this

[@tammtammlove3210]

💯

[@withloveleemu]

I concur 💯

[@daniellepaylor2840]

Well damn

[@areilareill6982]

Not only did she fail herself, but the authorities failed her as well. The patriarchal culture of Korea was on full display in this story

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

Omg I noticed that 😩

[@areilareill6982]

@@RealTalkWithYanie I got a Yanie like and reply? ☺️

[@Misaamanenoir]

I noticed that too. I was like okay it is clear that South korea is misogynistic.. extremely so. Those officers acted in complete bias against her.

[@roanred555]

Yup, if you've ever watched Korean content it's usually on full display.

[@talkingtochapri]

There is a white woman who started her youtube channel talking about her divorce with a Korean male and the entire system and family is harassing her and took her kid away from her. This is why women in that country is 4b and completely deny dating or marrying Korean male because the system is very patriarchal and anti-women.

[@Tefahh.c]

She should have been recording every conversation they had about it

[@YannaTes_Positivity]

Every conversation after the airport. Especially when he confessed about how the drugs got in her bag. Every threat of ruining her. His withdrawal symptoms. Screen shotted the fact someone was trying ti hack her email and what he was texting her through the first prosecutor meet up. I mean, i would have told my lawyer that no I think he did it and he has something to do with it and planted it on me because he's trying to coach me on what to say. I'm telling the truth. I just...kind have pity for her situation. She should have screen shotyed the text messages, etc etc.

[@sdc1961]

Damn, I thought that’s where the story was headed 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jbcwms]

‼️

[@Alexz5040]

Can’t read Korean but you moved with a drug addict to Korea ,a place that doesn’t play about drugs she better Pray to God that she gets out of this

[@Dulc3deleche]

I had to stop 🛑 listening mid way…. Girl wake up! This is not a test.

[@brunofam313]

Me too. None of this makes any sense. She let all that ish slide even AFTER she understood he threw her under a train.

[@t.j.m7131]

😂😂😂@ this isn't a test

[@sidology1.0]

It's very maddening. I've almost had to do the same

[@shachede6828]

17 mins in has me sick! 🤢

[@D415h4n34]

Ok, now I don't feel bad struggling to get to 26 min. And Yanie said there was 300 hours of footage?! 😵‍💫😵

[@seraphina2293]

I remember being told “ NEVER in your life, trust a junkie” This is one of the highest proofs they were right.

[@nieshanicole]

i just find it verrrry hard to believe she was that oblivious

[@GodsFavorite1]

This is what i came here to say!!!! NOTHING SHE SAYS IS MAKING SENSE!!!!

[@erinmellllll]

Absolutely, because why did he have access to your luggage?

[@dizdimples]

Sad, but they're women who are this oblivious cuz my mom is the exact same way when it comes to men sigh😮‍💨

[@uzougwu1511]

She wanted to say my man my man and he ain't even worth to lose sleep

[@nbucwa6621]

@@erinmellllll Afaik he didn't? He booked his luggage under her name so when his luggage got caught with substances, he just lied and said he was holding it for her and she was charged since it's under her name.

[@arain764niara]

Witchcraft or stupidity? I don't know why she's trying to blame him for her ignoring her instincts

[@JB19_92]

My vote is stupidity lol

[@ITSSHANTi]

I work for an airline. The first thing they taught us in training is family or not DO NOT check anyone’s bag. If anything criminal is in that bag you will face charges. I had a suspicion this would be the story.

[@shachede6828]

You get!

[@oliviagilmore8125]

That's one of the first things they ask you when they randomly search you. Did you pack your bags yourself? Did you leave your bags with anyone? Did anyone ask you to hold a bag for them?

[@misslady5029]

​@@oliviagilmore8125Standard procedures for airport security since 9/11 in the states. It's always been that internationally. 🙂

[@misslady5029]

Standard procedures for airport security since 9/11. Internationally it's always been that way.

[@Nadiyahvibes]

I know this from watching true crime.

[@lifewithangelina92]

She should’ve went to the US embassy for help.

[@piscespisces6]

This and she should know better

[@7Tiffany]

She’s slow

[@Victoria-AI]

So...she caught him in lies, drugged her while they were dating, graped her...etc... And she still allowed him to follow her to another country to continue havoc. The more she speaks, the more I feel she pretty much asked for (nah, WELCOMED) the chaos.

[@sacresolace3669]

She didn’t know he had been drugging / graped her until after she moved to Korea and then she was arrested. And she said bits and pieces came to her after everything already went down.

[@simplysuzan21]

@@sacresolace3669 so it had to take getting arrested for her memory to come back despite feeling that things didnt seem okay.

[@sacresolace3669]

@@simplysuzan21 no she literally explained that her memory started coming back as she was speaking to the police . But only bits and pieces. Her memory started coming back more when she was initially removing the root work.

[@ladydede88]

Lord don’t ever have me this lonely. She ignored EVERY SIGH you sent her 😫

[@SpiffyPenguin]

@@simplysuzan21girl you didn’t want the video did you? 😂 she explained how that happened. She was goofy for many things but you’re weirdly blaming her for the few things she literally didn’t know until later.

[@Thelovelygwrlj]

He really had no business even coming to Korea to begin with! The very first time she met him he showed HUGE HUGE RED FLAGS. That she blatantly ignored. It’s hard to feel sympathy for her in this situation

[@ProfNDKai]

She’s pretty it’s ridiculous she must have wanted this to be her forever partner or scared she would be alone because this doesn’t make sense The fact that she’s not recording everything by this point 18:25

[@UrFavPopularloner]

She finally posted who he is on TikTok 😮‍💨 I’m glad she revealed his name and picture so other people won’t get caught up with him smh

[@LizettesB3autyChannel]

@ccgotit173 Ohhhhh….running to see now 😮

[@vanessaclaudomir3750]

Who is he?

[@oliviagilmore8125]

he was posted on the original video as well.

[@copiouscat]

Who is it? 🧐😶‍🌫️ for the girlies like me not on TikTok 👀 please & thank you 🙏🏽

[@UrFavPopularloner]

@@copiouscat I went and rewatched it just for y’all lol!! the name Tiana released is Dennis McKinley King Jr!! Idk if the spelling is right!!

[@nnelson8550]

Ladies please learn to love yourself more!If you love yourself trust me you wont find yourself in situations like this!

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

Exactly!

[@DhalilaD]

Everytime Yanie deletes my comments it lets me know she takes things so personal and insecure because you can’t leave an opinion of someone else that’s not about you and wasn’t rude? You’re mad i said she didn’t take accountability and don’t blame with craft like most BW do? FAKE UNBOTHERED BIASED NO ACCOUNTABILITY HAVING VIRTUE SIGNAL YANIR

[@LanaStan-k2s]

It's really hard to have sympathy for her. So he frames you for drug smuggling, and you're still considering marrying him?!

[@catlady3024]

Not me forgetting about the story, but being excited about the update 😂❤

[@Hue_10]

Same 😂

[@yahainHotPink]

Ditto

[@NoPickmeishasAllowed]

I didn’t forget lmao

[@TeeaLynn]

SAME!!!

[@StopPlayingAtLife]

Same 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Aye_Yay_La]

I’m only a few minutes in but I’m waiting on the part where she explains why she took her *boyfriend* on a work trip and how he had access to government offices.

[@copiouscat]

It wasn’t just a work trip it was more of a workplace location Transfer. And she explained he brought up the idea. (Not defending her just clairifying)

[@Aye_Yay_La]

@@copiouscat Oooh thanks for clarifying. I see I missed part 1 so I’m going back now. I am so invested 🤣

[@MsJmeeh]

I believe she was very much aware of his drug use. Probably felt like the government job would save her so she put all the items in her name. She appears so flippant about the airport smuggling. SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sierragolden8559]

Yes and she said she had taken pills with him before… still waiting on the hair test to come back, but this definitely seems like a pill head relationship.

[@MsJmeeh]

@@sierragolden8559 right!!!

[@tammtammlove3210]

💯

[@ThatESGChick]

I blame her !!! I once dated a pathological liar and after I found out his first lie I don't believe a single thing he says !!! She should have recorded everything he ever said to her after the airport!!! I would record his voice everyday

[@JS-qn2zz]

I feel you sis but why record when she can just LEAVE lol idk too harsh??

[@peapod6747]

Orrr... you could leave after the first lie because you have self respect

[@brittanygrant5974]

She’s brought alot of this on herself . Knowing she had so much to lose she should’ve shown messages and recorded him

[@RebecaMitchell-ob7sx]

When will us Womb(man\men) Learn to Listen to our inside mind aka intuition or gut feelings!!! When she was free to get into the taxi with her bags she should've left! Aftr she go check into her living quarters then and only then would I have went bck & "checked" on him Sorry Not Sorry! This my livelihood here on the line he would've been on his on frfr and threw up the Deuces on his ass

[@RebecaMitchell-ob7sx]

He was sweating cuz he goin threw withdrawals from his drugs he doesn't have, he should've went to the hospital or a medical detox I've seen ppl when they don't have they perc, fentanyl or lean(codeine wit promethazine)coke don't do that nor crack so yeah......

[@MJ-onlyonejones]

Why am I feeling like she is not a reliable narrator?? I believe she went thru it with this jealous evil man, but she doesn't take any responsibility for her role and her actions.

[@bribri0786]

Same. She’s minimizing her part and then talking like we’re supposed to be as outraged as she is.

[@HauzPlant]

@@MJ-onlyonejones 0 responsibility, 100% minimization . She’s oblivious to everything.

[@oliviagilmore8125]

Not to be a victim blamer, but I'm really starting to wonder if everything happened as she's stating. This story is all but unbelievable

[@Jaiunsolicited]

@@oliviagilmore8125 I questioned her two months ago and she was so nasty about it. Wasn’t even addressing her but she jumped in like I was the moron. Whole time it’s her.

[@driareigns4147]

It’s hard to feel sorry for someone who willingly overlooks this many red flags.

[@peapod6747]

She will never take accountability. Saying "theres nothing i could have done that would have made a difference" is sick. She is slow and people this slow shouldnt be allowed out without a helmet. Lying to the police about drugs in another country is insane. Also....he gave you the perc..you knew it was his. Tell the truth, you wanted to protect your black man because you are a pickme.

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

💯💯👏🏿👏🏿💯💯👏🏿👏🏿 AMEN and A M E N She's as slow as a box of rocks.

[@JujusOracleMsgs]

Yes I would’ve been singing like a canary! He was texting her telling her what to LIE about during the interview?? 😅😮

[@psychattack3381]

Couldn’t have said it better myself 😂😂😂

[@erbodyluvschoc]

🤣🤣

[@theegoddessk]

There was toooo many alarms going off!!!! That man should of never came to Korea. This is wild!!!!

[@oliviagilmore8125]

Right, he literally drugged and raped her and she continued with him, made plans to marry him and brought him to live with her in another country. Watching this story raises my blood pressure 😭😭😭

[@Nature-ep5cu]

*Have...

[@dionna6360]

I love that you actually did a follow up on this situation but I swear the more she says happened the more I'm like girl get up, take a step back, analyze then RUN PLEASE

[@Misspinkbeauu]

Yeah she’s pissing me off. She has no boundaries. She lucky she didn’t end up unalived.

[@nbucwa6621]

Its too late to run unfortunately.

[@shanchan8247]

I'm starting to wonder if this is a real story or if she's just doing this for views. Everyone seems to be on tiktok with a drama series 🙄

[@Misspinkbeauu]

@@shanchan8247I swear she’s just too calm to be facing life

[@LethalLemonLime]

​​@@Misspinkbeauu I'm also skeptical because Korea rarely gives people life. I don't even think they be giving people life for murder. they're so lenient in the way that they sentence people here.

[@notvillainessb]

this girl is exhausting 🫠

[@MayaDivine8]

Okay! Watching this like a friend is dumping a their bullshit on me when they were making sooooo many bad decisions… I can’t take that from my friends, so why am I torturing myself by listening to this BS right now? 😂

[@kay_red1156]

She’s not very smart.

[@TheREALMB444]

At all

[@xluvs]

I mean the man Graped you and you still stayed! Completely foolish!!!

[@Stacy..H]

And they got her working for the government 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@StopPlayingAtLife]

I would never check a bag as mine if I don’t know everything that’s in it. I have been “randomly picked” multiple times at the airport because of my last name. Can’t risk getting caught with anything; not going to jail for anyone, ever!

[@oliviagilmore8125]

Even if you think you know, it only takes a moment for someone to put something in it

[@Heartestry]

I almost got deported back to the US from Korea for having a TASER! Long story short, I took it with me for my protection and did not know they were not allowed (it wasn’t in my contract) and I was young and didn’t do further research. I got through TSA and it wasn’t until a year later when I had issues with a stalker that this all got discovered. I was being stalked nearly everyday that after a week, I mentioned it to my Director and we made a police report. While reporting, I mentioned my taser (unaware of the seriousness of it all) and my Director had to FIGHT for me to not face any legal consequence as long as I was willing to turn in to the police. There was A LOT of back and forth between the two and my Director nearly begged them. While in Korea, I visited Singapore and right before reaching TSA, they had a big sign that read something to the effect of drug smuggling being punishable by DEATH. This was back in 2015 though but doubt much has changed. Please be careful when you travel, drugs aside, even the smallest thing that may be allowed here can have serious consequence elsewhere.

[@oliviagilmore8125]

OMG, mentioning Singapore reminds me of the kid that was publicly beat for spitting on the street there back in the 90s. They definitely don't play in these countries. It's never a game when your in an unfamiliar country with a completely different culture. So glad you were able to make out alright.

[@jdeux3677]

I don't understand WHY he's leaving the airport with her, HE WOULD NOT BE LEAVING WITH ME, HE'D BE ON HIS OWN. Me thinks, they used to use together

[@sandigirl9026]

Had to be getting high together because ain’t no way!

[@tulanibutler]

She let him trick her out of her spot🤦🏾‍♀️😬

[@sdc1961]

This story is scary af, and knowing how South Korea treats their women over there… I’m not surprised of her treatment.

[@Ohsnapitzann]

This is a cautionary tale to listen to your instincts and follow them the first time.

[@nbucwa6621]

And let people book their own luggage.

[@DhalilaD]

Everytime Yanie deletes my comments it lets me know she takes things so personal and insecure because you can’t leave an opinion of someone else that’s not about you and wasn’t rude? You’re mad i said she didn’t take accountability and don’t blame with craft like most BW do? FAKE UNBOTHERED BIASED NO ACCOUNTABILITY HAVING VIRTUE SIGNAL YANIR

[@jdeux3677]

He's smarter than her, so much smarter than her.

[@TheJtoben]

She worried about this man when she should be worried about those charges!! Omg

[@darnelljurden684]

The menace. He told u who he was when u met him 🤦🏾

[@leah7659]

😑💯💯💯😂

[@misslady5029]

The name says it all! 😅

[@bethanyowens-abramov1796]

I feel like she’s minimizing her role in a lot of things…for example, how did he switch his stash from his own luggage to yours while in the airport? Also, how did you have absolutely not idea something shady was going on all this time before taking this man to another country with you? There are things not adding up.

[@lemonjuiceproduction2411]

My thoughts exactly...how did she find everything out AfTER she went to Korea...you're trying to tell me not one of these stories she found out about him before leaving...nah she doesn't wanna admit she stayed despite finding out he was a grapist/smexual intimidator, drug user, alcoholic (considering how many times she mentions his drinking I think he was also an alcoholic, liar etc.

[@Blub2cool]

@@lemonjuiceproduction2411because thats clearly abusive behavior and leaving abusive relationships is hard. Psychology studies and stats can prove this to you. So who’s really slow…

[@lemonjuiceproduction2411]

@@Blub2cool Lol you babe...She stayed beyond finding out other red flags BEFORE the dv part...she ignored so many of his obvious lies, even when he threw her under the bus with the sister TWICE, she knew he was oing drugs way before ( she mentioned obvious signs of his use that she quickly passed over because it show she still stayed and risked her life with an obvious junkie)....so Ion understand where I was slow cause I at least listened to the details unlike you who heard one story and I guess you think that's the first red flag when she saw MULTIPLE before even leaving DC... You can try to twist my response and say I'm victim blaming but ignoring her obvious delusions before the dv situation won't help other women protect themselves from obvious red flags that will lead up to this situation.

[@aliyahharmon9045]

You bring up a good point! A lot of this couldn’t have been done without her consent. I think she shrugged off a lot of things and now she’s come to social media to get her side out first.

[@Lonely95824]

Why ??why does she even let him use her computer knowing that she got a subpoena because of his ass?? Why didn't she just turn his ass in and tell the police everything??

[@taybhoney5434]

It feels like she was not supposed to have him there with her and he came anyways.. and he use the power of knowing that she was not supposed to have him there.. likely unless they were married.

[@Hue_10]

Why the heck would she go back in the airport 😩

[@jabellatv3240]

Seriously she acts like she couldn’t just call or text to check on him it was obvious that something was wrong when they alarmed his bag smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@gorgeousfrazier5903]

Wouldn’t be me

[@RoGodDaughter]

I think she knew he had fentanyl in her bag. She probably thought he’s snitching on her ☹️.

[@LethalLemonLime]

​@@RoGodDaughter if she thought that he was snitching on her why would going back into the airport to talk to security do her any good? That also doesn't make sense.

[@tessy28]

I remember this story. This is why women's eyes 👀 should not be too long when dealing with men. Look at all the mess she is going through. 😮 I feel for her because it was all so avoidable

[@shanchan8247]

She let herself become desperate and the guy definitely took advantage of that

[@ProfNDKai]

@@shanchan8247but it’s crazy because desperate why though she’s pretty and was going to a new country all this stuff genuinely makes more sense happening in the new country

[@africanbeauty7]

@@ProfNDKaiPretty but empty in the head. No man worth his salt wants to deal with that no matter what Hollywood movies say. Brains do matter lol

[@valery5900]

It's so difficult listening to women who are intentionally slow. ZERO EMPATHY.

[@ponyofish6268]

Girl same!! she did all this for a lying ass bum 😒

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

Lowkey I’m trying my best to continue giving women like this grace and having empathy. There were so many signs, like so many. Dude was showing clear signs of a drug withdrawal and “jokingly” telling her he’s going to cause her to lose her job and she just….protects him? Like when will common sense become a thing?

[@Loggieloggs]

Okay, I thought I was the only one. Got me questioning my solidarity 😂

[@ChuckysOveralls]

The way she brushed off him trying to break into her phone was annoying lol. For days, too

[@ThatESGChick]

Exactly, I don't feel an ounce of sympathy for her

[@Uy19640]

I have never been so pissed listening to a story in my life. Girl you should have never travelled with that man to begin with. This is very scary. You let this man ruin your life. You didn’t owe him anything and you let him slide. It was too late by the time you realized what happened. Like girl what were you thinking. I am still confused as to why you let it go on for so long.🤮

[@jfenetwork]

She wasn’t thinking she has low self esteem and was desperate for a man so she allowed everything just to keep him

[@luvoshun]

My spidey senses are tingling. She’s not being truthful

[@chantefenton3915]

i wanna hear your theory lol because they is actually insane??

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

Which part are you feeling she's lying about?

[@LethalLemonLime]

maybe she's not going to jail at all this whole story is a lie

[@mizelle4096]

@@LethalLemonLime S Korea does not F around when it comes to drugs. they are hard on weed. they'll drug test celebrities and prosecute them for it!

[@Boooitsnia]

i wanna defend her but damn girl 😭 the delulu was STRONG

[@Hue_10]

I have so many questions! Why in the heck would she allow him to put his meds with hers smh! He wouldn’t have came with me on orders.smh!

[@itsnotmeitsyou717]

But she always knew he did drugs so why didn't she question his need for medication in the first place? She's so gullible it's making it hard for me to sympathise with her.

[@jdeux3677]

Because she knew and they've probably used in the past

[@YannaTes_Positivity]

​@@itsnotmeitsyou717that's a good point!!!!

[@YannaTes_Positivity]

​@jdeux3677 actually, I can say I know people who are with users who don't use themselves. They're just so in love and will look over troubling, toxic behavior.

[@JenobiaWrites]

He wouldn’t have made it to the airport messing with me, false day, false flight info, false ticket lmaooo

[@gorgeousfrazier5903]

That part

[@bsharper24]

Ngl I’ve gotten in trouble once with my ex. It wasn’t this severe but it did put my life on pause for 4yrs. Going forward idgaf how much I love someone I’m telling on them!

[@YannaTes_Positivity]

Yeah because if they truly love you, they wouldn't even want you taking the fall for them or being in ruin with them!

[@lol.3460]

@@YannaTes_Positivitythis!!!!! I had to change my way of viewing things. Rather than looking at things from a view point of “I love them so I should be willing to do this” I had to see it as “if they loved me they wouldn’t even put me in this situation…this isn’t the one for me…good bye”

[@bdove2007]

I liked the video because of all the editing you done on this ma’am! Her story telling skills is like watching paint dry lol

[@uzougwu1511]

😂😂😂

[@jennifernabrahamable]

and people wonder why a lot of folks are choosing to stay single.... this was a LOT

[@citrine_parfait]

Shes making extremely poor decisions. This man been trash smh

[@jennifernabrahamable]

@@citrine_parfait oh yeah, definitely. I vaguely remember part 1 and was wondering why she didn't leave at the first few signs of trouble

[@shanchan8247]

I would definitely suggest people who aren't good at discernment or decision making to stay single.

[@MaryamM98]

Doesn’t she know that South Korea has an EXTREMELY patriarchal culture? This is the same society whose systems and police don’t take SA seriously (i.e., always blame the female victim). That’s why the police took “the menaces” side about him owning the house/ stuff and told her to keep quiet (i.e., the nation has a male centred mindset so of course they’ll believe that he “bought all her stuff and it’s his home”). Had she done her research she would have know that Korea is not the type of country you want to bring a controlling man too! (Because they always believe the man over the woman).

[@tatianachristian4563]

Sometimes, it's not the other persons. It's your own brain!

[@aliyahallen2000]

And the simple fact he sat his ass up there and said nothing when they were questioning her was very telling.🤦🏽‍♀️

[@toyam4144]

Sound like she should have left him turned around and went back to States without that man.

[@marolatv618]

I was thinking this exact thing. I wouldn't have signed anything and I would've taken that deportation so quick!

[@Soulfulgoddess]

I’m just irritated the longer this story gets 😂 like whyyyy is this experience with him so long?? 😩 omg it is not bad at all just being single

[@faevalentine9187]

People can literally ruin your life if you don’t know how to detach and love yourself, Ladies. I thought I was lucky because I didn’t go through severe trauma from other people. I mean, I’ve had my fair share of the normal stuff but I always find the will to rip myself away from toxic situations. But I realized that it’s because I’m an only child 😅. I’m healthily selfish. I’m my own peace so if you’re disrupting that, I will have to terminate employment. It’s literally that simple. I genuinely don’t understand keeping people around that make your life harder including family. What outcome are you expecting? How much better would your life be if your loyalty was only to the people that deserve it and improve your life? Detach, Detach, Detach.

[@KH-vv6kr]

Why did she bring him ? … you know I actually have a lot of whys but that’s the biggest. Like why ?

[@sweetness2153]

I was thinking the same thing. He was lying in America in Part 1. Why is he in Korea with you?

[@citrine_parfait]

Coddling bms

[@Hue_10]

Same question I have, esp on govt orders! I’m not risking my clearance or freedom for you smh!

[@chantefenton3915]

Yeah i was wondering that too. 3 months and you bring a working age dude with you to do what?? I really hope she can fight this cause them asian countries are crazy af when it comes to breaking rules. I wonder if she’ll even be able to convince them that she really didn’t have anything to do w/ it. So scary

[@sdc1961]

Oooh that’s the part I’m missing. I’m like why wouldn’t she it’s her man, she’s not a psychic. But I didn’t hear the first part of the story. 😅

[@chelseydrausin]

This story is ver triggering tbh. The wrong man can really RUINNN your life. It almost makes you want to blame her for not looking out for herself first. But that’s just what us women do.

[@meganscott1219]

I can’t really remember the details of the backstory but this whole story is terrible! I know hindsight is 20/20 but my God! Why did she bring him to korea with her? She had a new opportunity and brought a bum with her. No one suggested that idea was A HELL NO!!

[@jdeux3677]

And he stole from her BEFORE going to Korea

[@brunofam313]

And how did the military allow it? They were not married. I know people in the service so this makes not a lick of sense.

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

@@brunofam313she probably paid everything on her dime, or his, not sure if he had a job.

[@LethalLemonLime]

​@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947he didn't have a job

[@VeeLondon1449]

♥️ Appreciate the update Yanie, and your editing skills. Take care.

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@23MzSmith]

That’s a wild story. She had the opportunity to leave the airport within the entire hour and decided to go back in to help him. I’m not judging her but recognizing that there are times where we can exit toxicity that we need to take.

[@itshaitian_dollz4153]

This woman is Yanie's lookalike🤭

[@valery5900]

Ikr...i was like... Now why is Yanie's selfie on the left? Lol

[@tessy28]

They really do look alike both beautiful ladies.❤

[@primppoutnycbytokyokho]

I was like wait! Then I specifically looked for this comment to.make sure I wasn't the only one 😂

[@MANNIE20]

Twinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn …. Where have you beeeeeeen??!!! 😂😂😂😂 I swore that was Yanie in the picture on the left in The video 😩

[@KH-vv6kr]

Def gotta keep double taking

[@tessy28]

There's a lot of men out there doing wizardry and witchcraft. That's how you will be doing a million things for them and not understanding why.

[@mirandaholley9797]

The "open doors" are how witchcraft takes root. Close them and the impact is less

[@peacejoylove8542]

Nah, a lot of these men are just low functioning. They are not adepts. Besides, forces like that do not work on an individual who knows their own power. There are a lot of women who dont know how truly powerful they are, especially when it comes to intuition. Leaving them vulnerable to low-functioning men like "the menace"

[@mamat1213]

Girl I went thru this and had to pray, fast, beg God to deliver me! It was scary… I found out, among other things, he was burying my panties in his yard?!

[@DMoses76ix7]

You're soooooooo correct

[@imanimcdonald4200]

Wizardry?? At some point self love has to kick in some where. This is complete and utter nonsense and foolishness.

[@mikas.8951]

I couldn't watch it after she believed that the fent was his fathers prescription. Girl!

[@nbrown5602]

In part 1 she says both his parents are dead! So how is a dead man getting prescriptions?

[@Jaiunsolicited]

@@nbrown5602exactlyyyyyy I don’t believe it and I google it saw nothing yet this is definitely something that would make a news outlet

[@mikas.8951]

@@nbrown5602 that's even worse!

[@MsFadir]

300 hours?! Omg Yanie. Thank YOU!!!

[@victoriadream]

The fact she leisurely popped fent laced percocets w “The Menace” before & it was recent enough to be picked up on by drug screening makes me think this woman wasted your 300 hours of editing lol This woman was not set up; she was a willing participant.

[@YannaTes_Positivity]

But didn't she say she didn't know and she started questioning him after the airport? And she said she had migraines so she might have used it for pain.

[@jdeux3677]

THIS, they're both users

[@Lenae23]

@@YannaTes_Positivityshe did. I remember that part

[@caseyjakemorris]

Fentanyl so strong how can you take it more than once and not know something is wrong?

[@sdc1961]

@@caseyjakemorris I mean I’ve never taken Perks or Fent so I wouldn’t know what it’s suppose to feel like. But that’s me 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@amberausten7]

This is so irrelevant but the internet service in S. Korea is top tier. They take that sht seriously lol!😂❤

[@aliyahallen2000]

And cellphone service💀

[@bricbrac28]

Umm idk y'all,something about her tells me she don't cook with the stove on

[@copiouscat]

🤣🤣🤣😭😮‍💨

[@tia5183]

😂😂😂

[@morna224]

😂🤣

[@cocoa_bean_queen]

I’m trying so hard to empathize…but…um yeah…shawty a 40 watt bulb…😅

[@bricbrac28]

@@cocoa_bean_queen seriously!!🤣🤣🤣🤣 Like she's fine eating uncooked macaroni noodles! Did you see part 2?

[@Geishapeach1]

Women that ignored their intuition are either in the cemetery or in prison. She should have listened to her’s.

[@MoodytheMisfit]

oh that man is sick asf...why tf would he do that????? envy??? jealousy??? hate??? like wow

[@YannaTes_Positivity]

Being a man we hear horror stories about. And it's sad that she got caught up in it.

[@sandigirl9026]

All 3!

[@VaLEriE-en8xl]

I ain’t even started listening yet, and I’m giving that thumbs up because CHILE…that’s A LOT of editing

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

Thank you 😭🙏🏽

[@VaLEriE-en8xl]

@@RealTalkWithYanieno problem at all 😊

[@hellothere8347]

Omg!! I would’ve been losing my mind in that airport!! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Chrissy213]

Appreciate the update Yanie!

[@Mani_Talks247]

This really breaks my heart. It's sad that one man can literally change your whole world smh

[@Jaetheeintrovert]

The amount of eye rolls I’ve done throughout this video.. 🤦🏾‍♀️ i pray she truly learns discernment & start listening to her intuition for her safety.

[@j.m.edwards1183]

When she said she realized he had planned her destruction or death in a foreign country and she had to be strategic about her plan, I screamed you should have been strategic back in the US.

[@brokenpofu]

Idk why she would've even told him she was shipping his stuff back. I would've changed the locks then been in lodging on base for the next few weeks.

[@itsmerandome]

Why would you sit there and tell him ya plan midway through 🤦🏾‍♀️ You never let the left hand know what the right is doing!

[@masiahb.2838]

Why tf would you lie for him I would’ve recorded him and played it during the meeting

[@GabyAlwaysLate]

Almost broke a nail I clicked so hard!

[@DhalilaD]

Everytime Yanie deletes my comments it lets me know she takes things so personal and insecure because you can’t leave an opinion of someone else that’s not about you and wasn’t rude? You’re mad i said she didn’t take accountability and don’t blame with craft like most BW do? FAKE UNBOTHERED BIASED NO ACCOUNTABILITY HAVING VIRTUE SIGNAL YANIR

[@JuJugyal]

Her speaking about him using narcissistic tactics on her while she IGNORED EVERY SINGLE SIGN is baffling.

[@roshikay413]

With the smuggling thing this can happen to anyone not knowing what a person is packing. She just got caught up checking his luggage in under her name

[@oliviagilmore8125]

he never should've been with her to begin with. It sounds simple, but he has drugged her in the past and she knew he was an addict.

[@Alexz5040]

She allowed all this to happen to her that’s the sad thing she settled and allowed allll this to happen just to have a guy she even claims if they were to get married he would offer nothing 🤦🏿‍♀️ why girl

[@Alyssa-ux8ke]

Sooo you're wanting us to have empathy for stupidity? Nope. No.

[@Rosierose902]

I’ve been patiently waiting for part 2 . I thought you forgot about the series but you were letting the tea simmer!! Thank you Yanie, this made my weekend!

[@mastermanifester8722]

3 hours of editing? You deserve this thumbs up yanie.

[@infireme3591]

Ooof 300hrs thank you so much ❤

[@heyitsbrya2749]

This story is so triggering. Being someone in recovery from jarc abuse, I saw ALL THE SIGNS before she confirmed it. The withdrawals, the having her lie. Everything! My god ppl are evil

[@Simonetraceyxo]

This story is actually making me sick I feel so bad. Why would she not call her family and let her know what is going on.

[@sharee2012]

What happened with her and the Korean police is scary! If the menace would’ve slapped her up in front of them it seems they still wouldn’t have done a damn thing

[@KingArthur13th]

Just recently, a Korean actor raped a woman, admitted it, and received no prison time because the rape wasn't "violent enough" to be deemed as rape by South Korean standards. Victim was successfully sued for defamation afterwards.

[@sharee2012]

@@KingArthur13th Oh wow that’s disgusting. So it’s not just black women they discriminate against, it’s women in general. Smdh

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

😅😅😂🤣

[@sdc1961]

@@KingArthur13th Heard this too that’s why they start the 4B movement

[@jabellatv3240]

They definitely wouldn’t have done anything about it smh South Korea is always gonna believe the man first

[@bernardethg]

This story is crazier than I thought! 😧🤯