The Narcissists WORST NIGHTMARE: What Happens When You One Up Them

[@Real2k25]

No need for revenge walk away never look back go live your best life

[@anoushkamarcin]

YES 🙌🏽

[@yvonnezhang2562]

that is not enough

[@amygradybsw]

Been saying the simple word "NO" to LOTS of people these days. It's anazing to see what hsppens. Just keep saying NO when needed.

[@inaphtali6176]

One day I just got up and said I dont need to do this and have gone no contact for nearly 2 months and it was overdue. It's great to let go of what is truly not for me. Thank you for all your videos and this community 🙏🏽

[@anoushkamarcin]

I’m so glad that you had the realisation and you did something about it. That shows strength and courage 🙏🏼 thank you for your comment and you very welcome

[@amygradybsw]

Proud of you!!

[@kerstitekko2257]

I was with 3 years, after 4 months i wanted him to leave, he did not left after 3 years. He said he is evil and a narcissist.

[@marytaylor9504]

Stay Strong! Don't give them any fuel or satisfaction!!! I've been NO CONTACT for 8 months now!!! My eyes are now wide open! Their Ego grows when you respond to their tricks and schemes!!!

[@marytaylor9504]

​@kerstitekko2257 yes an evil dragon!!!

[@augustrusso5413]

GO NO contact ! & run as fast as you can from them

[@isabelleparise5607]

Putting god first in our lives is a must for all situations.

[@Steve20333]

Your absolutely right !

[@John-sweeney333]

The narcissist is easy to defeat,let me explain.They calculate their plan, they then execute said plan.The unsuspecting person in the relationship with them needs to employ counter intelligence.The definition of which is not revenge, it is simply taking on the narcissistic person and using your intelligence to counter their plan.Leave them without a word ever being spoken, block them from any sort of communication.Turn your heartache and betrayal into rage which equates to motivation.Turn your back them,forgive them,yes you read that right,forgive them because nothing will annoy them more than that😉

[@msingh9634]

Join the live ladies and gents. Seriously, the community is amazing and supportive.

[@jeromereed9245]

Thank you! I'm taking my power back day by day. I was devastated when my NEX over played their cards. I awakened and walked. No more drama, no more putting me down, no more manipulation. Focusing on school and chasing goals.

[@anoushkamarcin]

I really love this for you. Doing you, changing goals making your life happen 😊 this is what it is about. Thank you so much for your donation … keep levelling up ⬆️ and going forward 👏

[@susannalavallee2348]

No revenge...release!❤

[@anoushkamarcin]

YES 🙌🏽

[@Steve20333]

just remember the discard ! not the love bombs. just the DISCARD !

[@rajraghani1681]

6 months after my discard she showed up at my door. She wanted my 10 minutes. I rejected it. Then she showed fury! Started blabbering and accused me of bank fraud 😂 with no proof to back it up. I did not react. I summoned my landlord to ask her to leave. She left threatening repercussions. I’m still waiting. If I had reacted then I would’ve given her supply.

[@SweepDailyWin]

You did great!!!!! 👏

[@natffwill2794]

😂😂

[@deezgex]

And when you respond to them they can tell you, you triggered yourself?

[@amygradybsw]

Great Job!!! Keep up the great work!

[@erickonassis6310]

Nice, those people are nuts

[@sjnardozzijr.7850]

Things I’ve learned: If the narcissist is talking , they are either not telling the truth or telling half truths…

[@BNyaB]

👍👍👍

[@Donnygoinup]

Facts. It’s weird asf.

[@MSBLAK05111]

I am so happy i found this channel. I so feel like my life is being told to me. 23 years of abuse. I am 12 hours of no contact. I cant get him off my mind. I feel like he has some type of stronghold on me, my mind, and my heart. I pray I can move on and heal. I feel like i am being awaken. Pray for me yall.

[@sbella6719]

Sounds like you're trauma bonded. Research what it is to get a better understanding. I'm in the process of breaking one now. Two months no contact. Stay strong and sending love and prayers.

[@jimbojones2457]

It's been several months since i walked away from my covert narcissist. I still feel some emotional pain but i think to myself....imagine how much pain i'd be feeling if i was still with her? Still being oblivious to her games? I truly wonder if calling her out on her narcissism, manipulation and compulsive lies caused her narcissistic injury? I'm now healing but it's taking longer than i thought. She really did a number on me. Thank you Anoushka. You have helped me so much with your content. You're a superstar!

[@John_Wood_]

same here. Wife left - only looking back this past few weeks and realising everything with her was a game. Nothing genuine, nothing kind.

[@ronpetrich9591]

That was the injury.I went through it.

[@edgreen8140]

You did a video on rejection sensativity. Lack of reaction. Soon indifference. You focus on you. No response to stupid things. You can work on your triggers to lessen then. You can do the opposite of how you used to act.leave them alone. Detach emotioally to the extent you can. Don't react don't engage.

[@anoushkamarcin]

That’s right … detach from them and consider your needs, work on your triggers . You are spot on 👏👏

[@amygradybsw]

No is a POWERFUL word. SIMPLE NO. TRY IT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.IT'S AMAZING ❤

[@MHLivestreams]

It's all about letting go, it's quite something. Then we can live. 😎👌

[@anoushkamarcin]

That’s right and choosing ourselves for once and looking at what we can do for ourselves to help us enjoy our lives 😊

[@Joe-hf3cn]

Yes, like walking away casually like they do

[@carlfamiano8577]

No revenge, they need prayers. Amen ❤️🙏✌️

[@Buttercup-vw2zo]

YES.I have gone no contact with mine but I pray he doesnt go to Hell

[@baldersn4474]

​@@Buttercup-vw2zono such thing as heaven or hell...

[@leeben1504]

If it weren't for my best friend and these videos i probably would've snapped at some point since her last round of messing with me. Its good to put terms and names to her behaviour. Still healing but being aware is helping a lot.

[@TruthandJustice-hz9nv]

Thank you so much for this, Absolutely tremendous, No need for revenge, The best revenge is no revenge, Not to be like that, Wise Stoic, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high :-)

[@sbella6719]

Don't seek revenge. They are far better at hurting others and they are skilled at going for the emotional jugular.

[@beatricehudgins2836]

💗💃 They must pay the price for the choices which they made.

[@Eire32]

She was always working and had body dysmorphia and I was walking on eggshells with her it only lasted 5 months No sex she punched the wall in her job spends hundreds every week on clothes and comes from a terrible background all the kids and her were in care and gos crazy for nothing also always breaking promises after she discarded me I let her have it sent her loads of Narcissistic videos she was always doing her eyebrows she had every symptom the rage I treated her better than my own she was 13 years younger than me I’m so glad I found these videos

[@jay-t8l4g]

I’ll tell you how crazy my covert narcissist female was! She told me after coming back to the relationship for a couple months and wreaking havoc and then monkey branched with a client to have a roof over her head that she was on a “healing journey “ WTF? I didn’t know about these people at the time and after researching her behavior and what she did to me tells me self aware and way more dangerous than I ever imagined

[@ovidiuovidiu2313]

Thanks!

[@marcelmeyer8616]

Thank you. I have decided today to end this emptiness on that golden plate. Glad to have kept a daily record since day one. The cycle is continuing with propositions of the same nonsense and ideas.

[@krisannaviglione1364]

My soon to be ex covert husband told me I was just a pawn on his chessboard after financially backing a business that we are partners. Self sabatooging the business so I don't get anything at the end.

[@i.l.9546]

Same here.

[@spectershore4482]

What a testimony ! Craaaazy evil spirits they are !

[@perla5921]

This wasn't meant to be a game, but he made it one

[@kekoab2213]

Going to our mediation before filing for divorce. I am working very hard to regain my power back by then. My ex is such manipulator and controlling .

[@John_Wood_]

I'm in mediation now trying to get more access to my children. The quite and unassuming wife turned into a monster once she got what she wanted. She won't give an inch in mediation, next step court.

[@unknownentrappment_ed3522]

Thank you so much Anoushka.

[@anoushkamarcin]

You are very welcome 🙏🏼

[@amygradybsw]

I SO love your channel. Keep up the great work!! ❤❤❤

[@Mike-u8z3o]

I didn't need to do any type of revenge my exes life has fallen apart since I kicked him out kinda feel bad for him has nothing to offer anyone to bad couldn't see it sooner

[@LolaAileenVanslette]

I was told by Legal Aid that I should take him to small claims court for his illegal use of my name to get credit. He owes Home Depot $5000. I didn't want to do that, but he caused me to lose my car, so I need credit to get another car. This should be fun.

[@unknownentrappment_ed3522]

Thanks

[@anoushkamarcin]

Thank you 🤩

[@christinemanigian209]

2ndary Supply to Covert Narc: "Meet me at the club this Friday night as I'm in town for the weekend. Let's catch up."😉. Covert Narc to Main Supply: "I need a boys' night out. I would like to fraternize with my friend Sam. I've been home with you all week, went shopping with you all day, now I need some guy time."🤥 Main Supply to Narc: "I thought we were going to have a nice evening together? "☹️ Narc to Main Supply: "This Valentine's Day is all for you. 🌹I'll make it up to you, my dear. You go out to a movie with Cassandra tonight as I'll be with Sam." Main Supply to Narc: "Ok, I'll call Cassandra now. Don't be too late."😢 This is the meaning of "Covert Narcissist."👺 *Names have been changed.

[@spectershore4482]

🤯🤯

[@penkapetkova428]

Maybe it is a good idea to say from time to time that you are going with them - this will shock them ! Oh also out of the blue go out to somewhere with someone or alone.

[@Identifyplumbing]

I've started this evening. She messaging all day about money and control. We've been divorced 2 years! Still messaging

[@John_Wood_]

Children involved?

[@DRUMofTRUTH]

Well they love and live in a nightmare so this is true love then!

[@arcticauroras9627]

Info n real life queen

[@Hobbit55-xw5th]

My Narcissist mother tried to force slippers onto my dying fathers swollen feet just because she wanted to go out for a drive in his mobility car, i was his career and driver when i told her to stop and was being filmed she went crazy throwing the camera against the wall then started on me, stating no one tells me what to do, 7 years after both parents passed away i still suffer from flash backs from her behaviour toward myself growing up into adulthood.

[@traxikscifi8105]

All true, its disgusting to watch... I have a Sister just like that, but i caught her and exposed her, She hates my guts... The sad thing is, She hás always been like that, took me a long while to understand it... But now i Control her and She hates it... Never do what they tell to do... Do as you wish, and don't tell them, do it.

[@seeUnique1]

🎤💥YEPPERS! THE BACKFIRE IS BRUTAL FOR THE NARC. I will not let the enemy have his way. Period!☝️😎 I will never accept make-believe. I will be me regardless of the circumstances. The narc is and has always been behind me and beneath me. 😊I am Royalty according to my Jesus! That is my focus. Jesus loves me over man 100x100 infinity. Soooooo.....

[@MENTALHEALTHWITHLUKE]

Getting revenge makes you no better than them. We broke up over her disgusting behaviour. We had a big chat about changing and making it better. At that piunt i had no clue. We got back together but she had me back to get me back. The final discard was the worse thing ive ever gone through. She found out i was looking at these videos and flipped. Had a public meltdown. And smeared me. Did i play a part, hell yeah, course i did, and i dont care. A narc is a narc. Now, 2 months later, life is being kind to me. She has very recently smeared me again on her socials. This time, you wont get a peep from me. I honestly do not care. Is boring. If thats what she wants to do then crack on. You do you and I'll do me. Her current smear holds no substance. If her circle wants to believe then good on them. Shes blocked and deleted on everything so i honestly couldnt care less. Life is good. I lost an awful lot on that final discard. 3 months later ive got everything back, only its better. The only "thing" missing is the "thing" i do not want.

[@hopeazzzieya1019]

Is my boyfriend a narcissistic person when he has two lovers without my knowledge? I just found all this on his phone and saw two numbers that he blocked and suspicious. Apparently all this time, he's been playing behind me without me knowing.

[@Nicole-v2e8w]

From being in a relationship with a narc blew my mind that this man would cause so much distraction in every single way possible.. how are they this well known & not put in jail?? Conmen fraudster's go to jail

[@amygradybsw]

I LOVE BEING A NIGHTMARE. LOL 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤

[@StefanIaLGalati]

After 45 years with my narc, when I leave he will definitely use my grandchildren against me. Tell me that I do not care for them and how can I leave them….. etc. Not my own daughters per se, but my grandchildren for sure. How do I react to that?😢

[@chanteynk7324]

You tell the truth that he is lying. Narcissists thrive when we remain silent. If you say nothing to them, the narcissist will use it to tell them that you don love them not care about them. Tell them the truth.

[@amygradybsw]

Wonderful Video!!! 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@moniquepeerboom2196]

you can get over it, but… never forget! 😏

[@ovidiuovidiu2313]

Hi Anoushka , congratulations and good luck in what you are doing for those who have been through relationships with pathological narcissists, i want to ask if you want to address a topic closely related to relationships with narcissists especially after divorce, they apply alienation parental where please explain to us how one can communicate with the narcissistic parent for the good of the child because the narcissistic parent does not in any way want a natural and healthy connection between the child and the parent he alienates by turning the child against the empathetic and loving parent. Please explain to us if there are ways in which we could help with guidance the child who spends most of the time with the narcissistic parent, how can a child go through childhood with the narcissistic parent more easily? thank you with great gratitude❤

[@sheilayagodzinski5747]

They know you care ? Yes you care about yourself, is that why they trigger you ? What if you care about yourself not them or do they not care why you are triggered . Maybe they don't know you don't care about them anymore.

[@Folieadeux-x9o]

Grrr just msg my narc by mistake 😅😅😅didn't answer there questions thow damn...

[@arcticauroras9627]

At least you look ok n ain't got problems finding

[@PhœnicianPassion]

No contact for one year after that i sent a message since he lost his mom but no reply from his side

[@Petruss67]

Klopt.... ga zo door !

[@laurienordin2076]

so what do you do when they send their flying monkeys around asking questions? ie: sending you an email thru a flying monkey that they haven't heard from this person and they know you are their friend, how are they doing? does one just Not respond to the email?

[@phoebsc5993]

Block, block block. Screen shot as appropriate if emails are threatening. Could be of use if police involved at any stage. Flying monkeys eventually get bored. No contact is exactly that...thats how you take back your power. This means leave social media to protect yourself if necessary. Focus on you, no peeking on social media. Look after yourself, be with real friends and family. As soon as you go no contact, block block block....you have won! Build those boundaries and look forward to the future where all the pain, toxic behaviour.....is gone. Its wonderful on the other side....post narc. One day at a time, claim back your space, your life and heal. You will be surprised down the line how strong you are and how much happier.❤ This channel was a godsend to me when I was suffering from narc issues. Good people here will connect with you and it helps the healing process. You have done nothing wrong...narcs brainwash you it's all your fault. It's not. Treat yourself like gold, cos that's what you are)❤

[@sbella6719]

​@@phoebsc5993 well said. I appreciate that also. Thanks!

[@MissyMuthaTruckiN]

i can only greyrock so long. next step is CPO and constitutional carry

[@arcticauroras9627]

Queen Bee needs wings flapping fast rate

[@HASMUKARMATRASHA]

Noononono what revenge what bullshit game just over

[@anoushkamarcin]

YES 🙌🏽

[@HASMUKARMATRASHA]

Yes BB but I can't watch them with bad eyes I don't know why Is that 😂

[@Hood1ne337]

🔥

[@NH-zu9cl]

👏👏👏

[@benhulme2863]

You call watching a camera winning. And religion will fail you every time and that’s a stone cold fact.

[@decypherdust290]

Religion has helped me beat my narc. In full lucidity. I have regained what God has said about me, let alone respect and value myself. Jesus wasn’t always nice to everyone either, big misconception. “He didn’t come to bring peace but a sword”

[@hughiecarins-og4js]

Please get to the point