What the narcissist thinks of your silence

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@manuelcervantes5866
@manuelcervantes5866 3 ай бұрын
You will look back in disgust, not believing you actually cared for this empty monster
@KYALAwaKisa
@KYALAwaKisa 2 ай бұрын
I can't wait 😢
@manuelcervantes5866
@manuelcervantes5866 2 ай бұрын
@KYALAwaKisa you will get there trust me..
@KYALAwaKisa
@KYALAwaKisa 2 ай бұрын
@ I just never imagined a human being with a heart so COLD.
@kristiemcinnes304
@kristiemcinnes304 11 ай бұрын
It's not silence. It's choosing peace.
@lisaedwards8286
@lisaedwards8286 Жыл бұрын
Knowing that everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie, it makes it easy to stay silent, I’m done with the bullshit
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
Good for you. You see the truth 🙏🏼
@reneegardner2286
@reneegardner2286 Жыл бұрын
exactly!! years and years of being let down his words mean absolutely nothing to me anymore
@mylesheyward
@mylesheyward Жыл бұрын
Facts
@Linkfan007
@Linkfan007 Жыл бұрын
Amen sister, same here! He was a lie from the start and he still won't admit to his faults till the very end. I am in no contact and stayed silent for 6 months going on 7. This is the longest I have ever not talked to him and I feel so free!❤ unlike other times in the past when we have broken up, this time I don't have that craving to go back to him and to go to his house to speak to him.
@julieibbotson6193
@julieibbotson6193 Жыл бұрын
When you see how they react, how they try to wriggle out of it and twist everything, when you catch them out in a lie, OMG it is like watching an artist at work. Lying is their craft.
@mathews0618
@mathews0618 Жыл бұрын
They think you are playing games because thats what they would do and they cannot understand another person's reality
@mummyd1990
@mummyd1990 Жыл бұрын
I split with my nutcase narccsist girlfriend 7 months ago and have never spoke or replied to her texts since she sent me a letter 2 months ago trying to apologise for her behaviour which I read but did not reply to her letter,it has been hard but it is the very best thing to do and never ever go back to them,take care and keep safe people.
@josette_napoleon
@josette_napoleon Жыл бұрын
It's been 10 months, I have moved on. Although the healing is not yet complete, i'm hopeful that the day will come. Thank you for all the help in giving me the knowledge and strength to learn everything so i can leave and have peace in my life. ❤
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
That’s amazing 10 months , I am so glad to hear that you have moved on. The healing journey is a process it will come one day. And you will have peace ☮️ on your life 💛
@patmahgroyn6868
@patmahgroyn6868 Жыл бұрын
I am at 8 months and finally the ex narc tried to get me to react by sending me a collections notice for nearly $2000. Staying silent and keeping strong for the day she just goes away for good. I still feel there is more to come. Thank you community.
@jimcreek961
@jimcreek961 Жыл бұрын
Give it some more time, you will heal, i PROMISE !!
@imbukwa
@imbukwa Жыл бұрын
The person will come back. Be prepared for that.
@josette_napoleon
@josette_napoleon Жыл бұрын
@@imbukwa oh! he tried 6 months ago. I did not pick up calls from 5 different anonymous numbers when he was on a month's vacation from work. I knew it was him. That was a big win for me💕
@Karll541
@Karll541 Жыл бұрын
I was brutally discarded and I had moments where I wanted to reach out but I’ve kept cool. No contact after just 3 weeks and it still hurts
@foxygayla
@foxygayla Жыл бұрын
It's been 5 months of no contact. I'm still healing, but I know the day will come when I will be completely healed. Thank you for your help. ❤
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
That’s amazing 5 months no contact!! Of course the day will come and you will heal 💛
@lauralittle6899
@lauralittle6899 11 ай бұрын
I need help. He is the one ghosting me and I am NOT healing at all. I'm getting worse. So I don't know what to do then. I'm pissed off. He is avoiding accountability is what he is doing!!!
@foxygayla
@foxygayla 11 ай бұрын
@lauralittle6899 I'm so sorry your going through this. I completely understand. Stay strong with no contact because if you don't he will be cruel to you. I made that mistake of reaching out. ❤️
@almcelroy4818
@almcelroy4818 Жыл бұрын
You're always asking,"Why?" with the narcissist. Leaving them suddenly and going no contact absolutely is the best solution for you. They don't care about closure. You don't owe them that and they wouldn't appreciate it anyway.
@caelreed3067
@caelreed3067 Жыл бұрын
I think of her everyday and everyday, i thank god im not with her
@lindsayrichmond7500
@lindsayrichmond7500 Жыл бұрын
I’m wondering if anyone else feels like I do? When around the narcissist I’m feeling like I’m in the presence of a predator.
@blaquecinderella3560
@blaquecinderella3560 11 ай бұрын
Me too. These days I see him as a predator
10 ай бұрын
Predators they are. They pray on your heart and mind
@dekhiastevenson8760
@dekhiastevenson8760 9 ай бұрын
Yes mam I used to get sick to my stomach and I'd be like why do I feel like this only to find out😮
@djnquire
@djnquire 6 ай бұрын
I felt very strange around my ex the last 6 months
@carolinaromero4877
@carolinaromero4877 4 ай бұрын
I have all my body shaking whenever I am around him. I felt the same when we were "in good terms", but by then I though it was infatiatuon syntom.
@mariposa1933
@mariposa1933 Жыл бұрын
Guys, I’m here to tell you that I made it through and can confirm your silence feels awful and was heartbreaking at first but now I DONT CARE and I REALLY DONT CARE IF THEY GHOST ME. The peace and serenity is wonderful! No toxic nada! Praise the Lord!
@grantbantwini208
@grantbantwini208 22 күн бұрын
I started listening to you recently and you have been haven sent by God , I'm in this relationship which I didn't know I was involved with a narcissist , after listening to you everything you say resonates with and now I realize my partner has a lot of narcissistic tendencies and all this time I thought I'm the one who is a problem. Thank you so much now I know what to do
@hibbertsh
@hibbertsh Жыл бұрын
I deleted the narc, he is dead to me, will never go back to that toxic place.
@stoplayin21
@stoplayin21 Жыл бұрын
When you are alone with a narcissist you ever notice they are clueless in areas like childlike clueless…. But that mask makes him appear like he’s the man.
@Unknown02020-t
@Unknown02020-t 7 ай бұрын
She told me I neglected her but she was never vulnerable or opened to me for me to support her. I can’t support or comfort you unless you talk & open up just like I did with her. I believe I caused a narcissistic injury when I opened up about a struggle I had & she hurt me BAD…now I’m healing, going to therapy & getting stronger emotionally thanks to creators like you & books that provide guidance. There isn’t much support for males experiencing narcissistic trauma caused by narcissistic females due to the stigma surrounding the situation. The ones that provide it; I thank you humbly. It has helped me tremendously understand her actions & behavior even as I detach from the trauma bond. I even questioned if it was me multiple times, but I saw the gaslighting after the fact. The manipulation that caused an emotional wound. The monkey branching happening before my eyes. Now I’m educated on attachment theory & narcissism. Thank you again! Stay strong everyone!
@wendydaniel1110
@wendydaniel1110 6 ай бұрын
Going no contact is like dropping a heavy addiction cold turkey.. Been four years plus no contact despite almost daily phone calls from flying monkeys to hoover me back in...Not triggered. Healed and moved on... At peace . Will never entertain that destructive energy again in anyone ..Stay strong ❤
@iamaliveyoucantstopnow
@iamaliveyoucantstopnow Жыл бұрын
Today is my 6 month no contact anniversary!
@ericjackson-nq4hp
@ericjackson-nq4hp Жыл бұрын
It is big deal, you bet it is--one of the best things I read all day. Thanks for sharing such a huge milestone. Super Cool.
@andrewtitcombe8378
@andrewtitcombe8378 11 ай бұрын
There is no power in silence. But you will enable them if you are not silent.
@dumpmail-xz2qp
@dumpmail-xz2qp Жыл бұрын
the sad part is not getting no attention, its the, not getting any attention on purpose. Like, the narc knows they are doing something wrong and could very easy fix that, but are compelled to double down on that
@dazmessent6067
@dazmessent6067 Жыл бұрын
After 5 yrs & 2 kids, I’ve experienced exactly what you’ve covered in today’s story. I’ve struggled with my ex narc not allowing me access to my kids. However I’m getting help through some free meditation services that help deal with these types of issues. Stay Strong Fam!! Thanks Anoushka once again.
@SaraGomez-vn9nj
@SaraGomez-vn9nj Жыл бұрын
They don't care at all what do ever because they have a new victim and they could care less
@DRUMofTRUTH
@DRUMofTRUTH 7 ай бұрын
Yep
@Yash0030
@Yash0030 Жыл бұрын
He will not come back. He discarded me and told me he wants nothing to do with me and it’s over that I need to move on. He acts like I don’t exist. He hates me. I can say i have peace.
@michelebazinet9003
@michelebazinet9003 11 ай бұрын
I also often thought that he hates, hated me, and then tells me ? that he loves me.....
@joshinbama83
@joshinbama83 5 ай бұрын
Fid he ever reach back out?
@violetab3750
@violetab3750 Жыл бұрын
It has been 4 years since I started no contact. I don’t even think about him anymore, only when I stumble upon videos about narcissism I rejoice in my victory. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Be strong, stay no contact, and you will be free. By the grace of God I am free! Thank you Jesus! ❤
@erinpaton0112
@erinpaton0112 Жыл бұрын
Same same for me of over 2 years of no contact and no looking back. So grateful to God. 🙏🏻
@andytaylor9107
@andytaylor9107 Жыл бұрын
My narcissist kept wanting an "induced conversation " to get the last word! Dream on!😅
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
Of course! Glad you didn’t let it happen
@rde4017
@rde4017 Жыл бұрын
By "conversation" do you mean debate, argument, row and screaming match?
@andytaylor9107
@andytaylor9107 Жыл бұрын
@@rde4017circular conversation that leads to all the above!
@jasminasinanbegovic6225
@jasminasinanbegovic6225 11 ай бұрын
I suppose they want you to read their minds, and believe me whatever you noticed, no matter how good you are at reading people and psychology, they will make it appear as you misread them 😊. They don't want to talk openly, they want you to guess them and dance around every word and look and so on, so that they wouldn't feel uncomfortable.
@andytaylor9107
@andytaylor9107 11 ай бұрын
@@jasminasinanbegovic6225 right on, right on, right on!!
@evilstorm5954
@evilstorm5954 2 ай бұрын
Stay true to yourself, stand with your beliefs, and the narcissist will remove you. Just be the stronger, more confident person and be courteous in your dealings with your narcissist and they have no power.
@janicebegley4192
@janicebegley4192 Ай бұрын
Even if he cruelly discarded me 5 months ago and started seeing my friend? (7 yrs together - discarde me 3 x in 3 yrs) I don’t think he gives an F If I’m silent or not
@AnthonyMassarelli
@AnthonyMassarelli Жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me get through this.
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome 😊
@NicoleH1989
@NicoleH1989 Жыл бұрын
Recently I’ve been no contact again for a month. I’ve been ruminating lately which I hate ! I’m hoping I snap out of it soon. I know the healing is going to take some time but I always remind myself the way he treated me and it was just transactional from understanding your videos ! Thank you for your videos!!
@atdz3609
@atdz3609 Жыл бұрын
Nicole, reach out to GOD, tell him your name and ask HIM to bless You. I am coherent, I asked our LORD for help and he touched my head, I am at peace because the timeline for GOD'S will is not mine to speed up. The weight is off my shoulders. The truth always is revealed when GOD sees fit to expose the TRUTH.
@michelebazinet9003
@michelebazinet9003 11 ай бұрын
Very same in my situation
@michelebazinet9003
@michelebazinet9003 11 ай бұрын
​@@atdz3609Sorry but without being disrespectful towards you and your religious beliefs, I think that the concept of God in our situation here : such as dealing with a very hurtful, painful relationship, is completely Irrelevant. I wish people would keep their own religious beliefs, sometimes almost obsession with God, to themselves. Thank You for respecting other people's opinions about this matter....
@RichiesSportsCards2022
@RichiesSportsCards2022 Жыл бұрын
I love you Anoushka! Thank you so much for all the help! You ve been such a blessing to me in the last few weeks. You have no idea how much you have helped me out. You are truly an angel sent to help us!
@scottbartlett1211
@scottbartlett1211 Жыл бұрын
Thank you . I'm at a loss for words. Your posts have opened my eyes and given me strength to combat a truely harmfull person. with your help i am rising again and careing for myself instead of a enabling my own demise.
@Moneyball2ms
@Moneyball2ms Жыл бұрын
I believe that when they have a new supply . The no contact goes out the door cause of them being occupied by the new supply
@deb2319
@deb2319 Жыл бұрын
💯
@sharfalor4244
@sharfalor4244 Жыл бұрын
Yep, if they have a new supply they'll happily just drain them instead. It may depend on how good the new supply is as to whether they care. The narc friend I haven't contacted in exactly months made a point of dropping a card in for my parents and not being able to go in as they 'had a feiend in the car.' Veiled message to let me know she's replaced me but it just seems desperate to me for a response. Edit: exactly 12 months
@Moneyball2ms
@Moneyball2ms Жыл бұрын
@sharfalor4244 yea the new supply has already moved in after 4 months, basically cause she is not one to be alone or want to feel alone . So things were definitely rushed, but I'm happy to be working on myself and finding peace
@kaoshi_kutie
@kaoshi_kutie Жыл бұрын
If the new supply is unaware of narcissism or just is okay with putting up With the BS from them, they probably won’t hoover which is a blessing!! ❤
@Moneyball2ms
@Moneyball2ms Жыл бұрын
@belle-reine7130 No, she doesn't yet, at least, and yes, definitely a blessing ❤️
@ughdang2482
@ughdang2482 Жыл бұрын
I just want to say thank you for your guidance and knowledge and for everything you do for me helping me learn how to heal from this
@marsamarsa7769
@marsamarsa7769 3 ай бұрын
Very good video! Thanks. And yes stay silent. Nothing else.
@MadeTheTeam
@MadeTheTeam 4 ай бұрын
Together 13 years and wow wish I would have known this sooner. Was always sick and walking on eggshells through out our relationship. Been no contact for almost a month after she packed up and left and what do you know haven’t been sick once and there is now peace in the house. Its was always ultimatums and fights over the smallest things. She would be over it in 15 minutes and it would take me days. They are like a poison they never want to see you succeed and always try and drag you down to their level. I neglected my friends and family but not anymore. I should have saw the writing on the walls but would always turn a blind eye.
@craigy691
@craigy691 Жыл бұрын
12 years together and 6 married she wanted a divorce I didn’t do anything wrong she just said she wasn’t happy wanted to remain best friends found out she’s been texting other lads going online dating apps I’ve went no contact for 110 days now she doesn’t exist and I’ve woke up
@ΜΑΡΙΑΠΑΠΑΔΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ-π7ω
@ΜΑΡΙΑΠΑΠΑΔΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ-π7ω Жыл бұрын
3 weeks no contact. I imposed it on him. Last night, I slept ! For the first time after one year! I took back my sleep! Finally! I didn't wake up in the middle of the night not being able to go back to bed!
@digidrum2003
@digidrum2003 Жыл бұрын
Same here....its been 3 weeks for me and I have been sleeping like a champ. She is shacked up with a twice divorced narc.....crazy stuff!!!
@SheilaDay-k6q
@SheilaDay-k6q 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this informative video. I feel back to normal and do not ever want to meet anyone like this again. There are also crazy, narcissistic neighbors I cannot stand to be around. Living my life in peace and living as I choose is what I need and enjoy.
@nightrider4370
@nightrider4370 Жыл бұрын
Good advice and you're pretty!
@mandit38
@mandit38 4 ай бұрын
You have some very chill music. Love your programming, Sherwood,Oregon
@FromtheLightofTheDarkness
@FromtheLightofTheDarkness Жыл бұрын
Thank you darlin. You rock
@Kira-nv3ou
@Kira-nv3ou 11 ай бұрын
It’s been a month since we broke up. I made the mistake of continue talking for him after our break up but after watching your videos. i completely stopped. it’s been a week and now he has new supply. Thankfully I was able to expose him right before i stopped talking to him and even tho he’s in a new relationship and is talking to other girls on dating apps he still comes and watches my ig stories. it makes me feel uncomfortable but i feel so empowered to have the upper hand and see him for what he truly is.
@ericdavis681
@ericdavis681 2 ай бұрын
Maintaining silence is hard but manageable . Stopping the thoughts are nearly imppossible, if they are sending 'karmic energy' as you suggested.
@Kemikemik
@Kemikemik 11 ай бұрын
Absolutely amazing video!! Thank you 🙏
@anaruperto1417
@anaruperto1417 Жыл бұрын
Wow!!!! Your terrific!!!! You really helped me a lot!!!! Thankyou sooo much!!! I’m going to do that!!!! Sounds great👍👍👍👍👍
@sallydaly5597
@sallydaly5597 Жыл бұрын
Happy 🎉 New Year Anushka, all the best for 2024.
@chukslivinus508
@chukslivinus508 6 ай бұрын
Thanks u my sister you have been helping me a lot
@ashleyjackson6503
@ashleyjackson6503 Жыл бұрын
Took her back from cheating time after time. In the end I left because it didn’t feel right again turns out she was with someone else. 4 months later she’s now with him. My child has met the new man already I don’t exist. Ive gone no contact as much as possible with trying to co parent. I no it’s the best thing for me but dam it’s hard. Just because I left it’s all my fault in her eyes crazy they believe there own lies
@Yash0030
@Yash0030 Жыл бұрын
So sry. I’m there and I understand it. He moved on days after I moved out. He now acts as tho I don’t exist and hates me. We only communicate through talking parents abt him picking up and dropping off our 2 year old.
@annaleoni8316
@annaleoni8316 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💕 Anouska you have helped me a lot God bless you.
@Antony-su6pm
@Antony-su6pm Жыл бұрын
Thank you Anoushka
@pandoramurals7058
@pandoramurals7058 10 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤from Australia 🇦🇺
@donnienorwood3005
@donnienorwood3005 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@anoushkamarcin
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏼
@barbaraseccombe2421
@barbaraseccombe2421 11 ай бұрын
Thankyou. You go into such detail which is great as i would never think of this. I am trying to omplement your advice. Now i understand more. 👍
@Caroline-p7u6q
@Caroline-p7u6q Жыл бұрын
You are right! They feed themselve with any energy they can find and hurt you. If you can take your own power back you are stronger than them. The answer is within you. The song let it go ( frozen) help me a lot!❤
@SherryG370
@SherryG370 Жыл бұрын
2 months no contact. Him and his flying monkeys all live around me. I havent seen him around tho. Trust me I am white knuckling it....wanting to know what he is up to. But my pride and well being know that its better not to know. Ya know what I mean?!😅
@lindsay3793
@lindsay3793 Жыл бұрын
Yes I know just what you mean!
@gma729
@gma729 5 ай бұрын
Why would silence destroy them when they have a New guy. ??? Their not involved w your life anymore. They have NEW supply. She don't care.
@adamprickster
@adamprickster Жыл бұрын
it has been 15 months since he left...i still have not recovered fully. i know he is poison but sometimes i still miss him . i have learnt that this is how things will be until i find someone who loves me for me and not i have to offer
@hannahhughes4801
@hannahhughes4801 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@mobileradiofitter
@mobileradiofitter 11 ай бұрын
I had discovered the answer was I hadn't said, done or acted how she had planned me to, she didn't want me and who I am, she wanted me to be who ever she wanted me to be, but it kept changing, when we met I was true to myself and knew exactly who I was, somehow she got into my head and altered me. Then I was changing myself in order to just simply get on with her. That's when I reached enough, what was I doing, why was I trying so hard to appease her, once I opened my eyes, I started returning to myself. It was never a normal relationship, it was a movie I was going to co star in, then the writers changed my role and I was the villain. It really was similar to that. My lesson, stay true to yourself and if you meet someone who doesn't like it, leave them alone.
@battlecry82
@battlecry82 Жыл бұрын
We have been silent towards my father in law and step mother in law (both narcissistic, he grandiose, she is covert)… I wouldn’t say it has been easy, it has created division and hurt. I feel the healing process is a very long time away but hopefully we get there. It is harder to keep distance from toxic family than former lovers I believe.
@pmcclaren1
@pmcclaren1 10 ай бұрын
Also, 2 things happen to narcissist over time: #1--they develop a 'NUMBness' and have 0 FEELINGS-- and then their CONSCIENCE becomes Seared as with an hot iron and have NO MORALS. Thus the thing IN YOUR CONTROL is to GET OUT & STAY OUT---1 Day at a Time--
@wendy3992
@wendy3992 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much❤. This helps me a lot.
@rickross7796
@rickross7796 Жыл бұрын
Liked how you compared the way a narc relationship en ds vs a healthy one
@Phillyphysi
@Phillyphysi 4 ай бұрын
Amazing❤
@Dementorshunter
@Dementorshunter Жыл бұрын
Thank you Anoushka❤
@Sharon-lj8kb
@Sharon-lj8kb Жыл бұрын
Does this happen with an over 60yr narc?I do not bother trying to talk to him any more if he does hear what i say he does not understand.He sits in silence.He just sleeps or sits on his phone does absolutely nothing else.
@Christine-sz5mx
@Christine-sz5mx Жыл бұрын
My is 60 years old too. How many are 60 years old water rabbit chinese astrology
@Christine-sz5mx
@Christine-sz5mx Жыл бұрын
Withholding and constant lusting and talking about other women devoid of feelings
@reneegardner2286
@reneegardner2286 Жыл бұрын
stonewalling
@mandit38
@mandit38 4 ай бұрын
If silence is truly a weapon against the narcissist, does that mean there's something about us they desire,or something about us that's just a handy tool?
@joemisencik1856
@joemisencik1856 4 ай бұрын
Mine blocked me on Facebook and then less than two weeks later, unblocked. No reaction to either but getting anonymous views on my Facebook stories which is odd.
@StoicStud
@StoicStud Жыл бұрын
I went no contact 3 wks and I sent a message I love them , play them at there own game.
@liv5790
@liv5790 3 ай бұрын
Huh? You told him you love him?
@Joe-hf3cn
@Joe-hf3cn Жыл бұрын
What r u talking about, “ I can’t I can’t….” That person doesn’t care if u r dead bc of her actions towards you.. Cmon, when you ‘know’ what they’re about, you can’t block them fast enough
@mandit38
@mandit38 4 ай бұрын
Are there ways to use the silence technique even when living with the person
@Luton-Mick
@Luton-Mick 11 ай бұрын
I can't stay completely silent as we share a school age child so the only time I will talk is about our sons welfare, no talking about the past or engaging in nostalgic reminiscence's just the school or welfare business at hand. Only a year left until he leaves school..counting the days!
@DRUMofTRUTH
@DRUMofTRUTH 7 ай бұрын
Only pure fake energy. Meaning once you call them out and I mean no way out of you know who and what they are. There is no telling after that
@vickibazter3446
@vickibazter3446 7 ай бұрын
I have tried. When you love them it's hard to disconnect.
@carolinaromero4877
@carolinaromero4877 4 ай бұрын
We always believw ww love them! Ask anyone here. But it is actually trauma bond. Please look for that infornation to save yourself. Im still trauma bonded, in fact, thats why Im here in this video. But now is clear for me that it was never love from my end.
@raforbis1
@raforbis1 Жыл бұрын
I got Christmas presents I never got before, his mother brought them over. His son said I’ve never seen you get so many presents. Whatever. It was all about him.
@monicadub5280
@monicadub5280 2 ай бұрын
I feel like i need to HAVE A DEATH RITUAL... i just can't think how to go about it...
@Magirl-xq4hr
@Magirl-xq4hr Жыл бұрын
What if they owe you money and don't pay? Should you break no contact everytime? It's really tiring.
@michelebazinet9003
@michelebazinet9003 11 ай бұрын
Same Question Here, about him owing me money ??
@Magirl-xq4hr
@Magirl-xq4hr 11 ай бұрын
@@michelebazinet9003 I think it’s better to prepare ourselves that we’ll never have that money back.
@Holeysocks464
@Holeysocks464 11 ай бұрын
It’s the best money you will ever loose. If they ever ask for more money, it’s simple, >hey you never paid me back last time< conversation over. Also it reminds you of just how low they will go and helps with your recovery. And it helps in explaining your situation to others.
@mandit38
@mandit38 4 ай бұрын
What if I'm married to the covert narcissists, and I can't leave due to finances plus she wants me to stay,minus all love and affection,after gas lighting me after cathing her cheating. Can i use silence even while living with the narcissist?
@saarMare
@saarMare 8 ай бұрын
if she with me in job,she allways say to me good morning and im go away with not reaction,this is the silence or i should say it at normaly and nothing more?
@totalunderground110
@totalunderground110 11 ай бұрын
How to keep silence with a narcissist when she uses your kids against you !! Silence no problem and no contact, but when she uses the kids against you is hard, because they are suffering cause of the mother
@Yong_Goh
@Yong_Goh Жыл бұрын
Hi there, a silence regime is not entirely possible during this process of divorce I’m going thru because of a child that we have. So in this scenario I’ve made it a point to only be talking about matters pertaining to the child. Heck I even made a chat group that is titled with my child’s name (with only both parents as participants) so that’s it doesn’t even feel like person to person communication. Any tips?
@Steve20333
@Steve20333 Ай бұрын
I won't contact her ! only if it's for papers ! Iam so hurt ,but contact would only be more pain ! she said she hated me ! the mask was off ! she was telling me the truth !
@astralpx
@astralpx Жыл бұрын
Good info. I would suggest more sound dampening.
@johnmoirano5221
@johnmoirano5221 Жыл бұрын
I think she wants me dead. She wants the house 🏠 I live in. And everything that's in it. And 🤪 my sisters want to sell it to her 🙄 😮 I literally have no say in any of it. I'm a ship lost at 🌊 🦭 ⛵️. And I have to go where the wind blows me. I'm a message in a bottle 🍼 😌 that no one will ever read. I'm a ball for narcissists and the monkeys 🐒 🙈 🙊 to kick around until I am no more. I'm a plane with no wings and on and on and on and on and on. That's not the sad part. 😔 😢😮 I'm one heck of a great dude ❤❤❤❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
@rjlacroix3334
@rjlacroix3334 Жыл бұрын
I sincerely hear you brother . I'm going through similar circumstances . Don't ever forget : These people are not well emotionally . They are here in our life to teach us what we need to learn .The best revenge is facing forward and committing to living your best life . may you have peace mate .💪 🙏
@Renee1919
@Renee1919 Жыл бұрын
Love your content! Side note I love your nail color, what is that color?
@delberthunt610
@delberthunt610 Жыл бұрын
What if it has been two years since direct contact? I feel him on phone call scams/social media though?
@lauralittle6899
@lauralittle6899 11 ай бұрын
I have too much to say to go silent and when he don't even talk so nothing to do. Hes doing this crap to me. Its not working out and yeah he has been emotionally abusive and now i want my feelings validated and he won't do it. So now he is ignoring me over 3 weeks. 4 weeks on valentines day. But why are we purposely trying to trigger other people ? So I can't even bother ignoring him and then when he says something it ks super triggering and then i have to respond. .it never feels peaceful or anything good when I stop talking to people .
@huriyeaslan2878
@huriyeaslan2878 7 ай бұрын
I’m in zero contact
@loismoulton2417
@loismoulton2417 Жыл бұрын
WHY are you PUTTING YOUR HAND in our FACES?? 😂BYYYE!
@samirasalim9385
@samirasalim9385 Жыл бұрын
i dont know if im healing or having a mental breakdown..the narcissist has stopped bothering me...however the society view me as a weak person and disrespect me bcz i am calm
@mymatemartin
@mymatemartin Жыл бұрын
You are healing while mentally adjusting to a new unfamiliar reality. That new reality is.... You. And that calmness you feel in the silence is the space in which you will grow strong. Love yourself. Allow yourself to heal.
@anthonyjohn9000
@anthonyjohn9000 6 ай бұрын
Why would a married woman having everything money, car happiness in family do such a thing ,will you be able to answer this.
@zhussain9172
@zhussain9172 Жыл бұрын
Hi anouahka. Can ask is it possible that my ex covert narc girlfriend can have an attachment disorder without been a narc ? She came back to me after 2 yrs ended up having relationship for 7 months had great times then just slow discarded me telling me she dont miss me after setting of home long distance relationship then after 2 weeks went silent then further 2 weeks blocked. I never did anything wrong. All was fine from my end. I could see she was looking 4 excuse to discard me. 2 yrs before the relationship was on off for 1.5 yrs much worse 1st time. 2nd time she just wanted to see how I'm doing but we ended up with good relationship did pick on thecred flags but I was stronger to ignore & be cautious. Wat is she?
@aishaabbasi2674
@aishaabbasi2674 Жыл бұрын
How can we apply silence if he is my husband and we are in long distance relationship
@janiseluvspink8769
@janiseluvspink8769 Жыл бұрын
I ghosted and blocked my narcissist on december 17th. because i fount actual proof he was cheating. he had been cheating for at least 4 or more months maybe even a year. that was the last straw for me . i knew i could never see him the same way again.
@damianooi8261
@damianooi8261 9 ай бұрын
I have just changed my phone number. Hopefully she wont come back or stalk me
@thetruther954
@thetruther954 Жыл бұрын
Anoushka. I see where you are a trainee, pity because you are probably too young for me. It would be creepy trying to get together. But, if I may step in here. One of your videos I’ve been watching, you were being so strong and so independent that I could see a tear being brought to your eye. Yeah, happens to me too. But here’s a thought, Anoushka. There is no crying over ass-holes. You are right, there was nothing there, so why on earth would you be crying? It wouldn’t hurt to tell this person how you feel, even if he doesn’t understand. You are not going back. You are never going back to how it was, and he is the one who has to get adjusted. I saw somewhere else that the silent treatment is one of the most cruel forms of interaction. But, let me help you, don’t think about him right now, turn to me. You’ve got nothing worth crying over, but there was a time you loved him.
@ellensunden2778
@ellensunden2778 Жыл бұрын
Dude, this message is both creepy and VERY inappropriate! You sound just like a stalker...
@thetruther954
@thetruther954 Жыл бұрын
@@ellensunden2778 creepy in what way Ellen? I’m listening. And how do the comments I make to the very pretty Anoushka signal me as a stalker? I’m listening, I can take it. Tell me some more.
@Ma.TeresaRanillo
@Ma.TeresaRanillo 5 ай бұрын
To my ex i can say i already done my sweet revenge w/o contact rip 😂
@knut124andre
@knut124andre Жыл бұрын
they FEEL THE energy ? because you think of them , that is just dumb , you lost me now
@hughiecarins-og4js
@hughiecarins-og4js 9 ай бұрын
For goodness sake get to the point and cut out all the crap.
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