My Ex Disfigured My Face - Now I'm Helping Other Victims | SHAKE MY BEAUTY

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23-YEAR-OLD Kayla Hayes has risen to overcome domestic abuse, and now she fights and advocates for other women who don’t have a voice. Kayla was 18 when her ex-boyfriend bit off 85% of her lip in an act of revenge. She was rushed to hospital but doctors were unable to reattach her lip. With over 350 stitches on her face, Kayla didn’t recognise herself and she completely lost her sense of identity. She told Truly: “I felt like a monster with such big scars over my face." Over the past five years, Kayla has been on a physical and emotional journey to heal the scars left behind by this tragedy. Her mom, Jamie, said: “It’s hard knowing that this is the life that was chosen for Kayla by someone else. But what she has done with this reality is amazing.” Kayla decided to wear her scars as wings, partnering with author Alisa Divine to share her story. Through speaking openly about her experience, Kayla raises awareness around domestic violence and brings about justice for others.
Follow Kayla at:
www.sheriseswithkaylahayes.com/
IG: @kaylahayes101
With thanks to: spameonline.com/
If you are experiencing domestic abuse, please get help by calling the National DA Hotline:
1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
0808 2000 247 - UK
Videographer: Gerrit Messersmith
Producers: Milly Martin, Natalia Giorgi
Editor: Cecilia Brunelli
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[@awesome_comment]

Her mum looks more like a sister than mother, so young looking.

[@tammya5403]

I thought they were sisters at first too

[@donnar9864]

Me too...looking good Kayla's moma!!

[@naomidublin8028]

My same thought

[@j.3779]

Yes. I thought she is her sister.good genes I guess. Both are beautiful

[@ashley_z]

I thought the same thing

[@nyame-kyekondo7306]

He was trying to take your beauty and your light. He failed. You are still beautiful and your strength is inspiring.

[@flyingdumpling5204]

Well said!

[@aproudstanofbts5377]

Absolutely

[@tmj68789]

Keep shining I had a girl at a med spa completely scar my entire under eye area a little over a year ago and now I have permanent atrophic scars from burns and the fat has dissolved. It was intentional so when I hear stories like this it reminds me of me some even though it was not from domestic violence because someone was trying to take away our beauty, happiness, and the light in our eyes! You are a beautiful soul and beautiful just as you are and I love that you didn't let him take away your light keep shining bright!

[@bannedmann4469]

He wasn't doing a Joker thing?

[@bartender4877]

Love your comment I was just thinking about that! Also like your name where is it from?🥰

[@junkalunk]

Leaving your abuser is statistically one of the most dangerous and violent points in an abusive relationship. Please remember this ladies! Thank you for sharing your story Kayla and bringing awareness to others!

[@surge127]

Men also remember this

[@LibertyMadison]

@@surge127 🙄

[@lexi1492]

But it's definitely not the main reason most don't leave. Most are not in danger. Most just don't want to give up the perks of the relationship.

[@triciabyrne7761]

@@lexi1492 Really? The "perks"? No.

[@lexi1492]

@@triciabyrne7761 Yes really. There are women everywhere online slowly admitting it. They say they stay for financial reasons, out of fear they won't find another partner, for good sex, etc.

[@cheriebrittin7627]

Dogs are put down for acts like this, that guy is a monster who deserved life sentence! Who does something like that! Kayla’s resilience is amazing! 💗 Sending my support and well wishes. 💗

[@romystumpy1197]

He should be put down because he should know better make choices .nut jobs born every minute.we cant know who will do vile things when much older

[@JakeKoenig]

There are maximum sentences in place for every type of crime, and they only hand out life sentences for murder in America. Even the most extreme cases of aggravated battery have a max of 25 years. I think he should have gotten the max given the circumstances, but unfortunately he only got 12 years and is eligible for parole after 10, so he might be out by 2028. He should've had to serve a full 25 years in my opinion.

[@jlo80]

NEVER meet up with an ex alone,always bring someone with you or just don't meet up with them at all.This woman is beautiful and strong!

[@I_Love_my_adblock4408]

🙋🏾‍♂️ Never meet with your ex at all. Your ex is your ex, move on. If need be, to a new location that nobody will know.

[@chancewilkerson63]

I mean what if you have kids together that’s a monkey wrench

[@cappuccinocappy]

That’s exactly what happened to me , my ex was a compulsive guy and after one year of breaking up he asked me if we could meet alone so we could talk why he has been that way. This whole situation felt wrong so I simply said I don’t go and he was furious about it. I don’t know what could have happend that evening but I’m glad I moved on with my life and live peacefully now. Everyone who has to go trough domestic violence is a hero and a survivor in my eyes and their stories needs to be heard

[@veruschkadahmer1805]

@@chancewilkerson63 well, yes it's an issue. But imho couples should think twice before making babies. It's a super heavy long-term responsibility and you have to ask yourself: what our relationship will look like in 10, 20 years from now ? What will happen if we break up? I know that it's not an easy topic but when you want children you better choose carefully your partner

[@frenchgirl75000]

Never meet an ex....

[@tammya5403]

Domestic violence is not a joke. I really teared up hearing Kayla’s story, especially when she said she felt like a monster, because the truth is that HE is the real monster. Let’s hope he’s locked away so this cannot happen to anyone else. Kayla’s resilience is admirable & I pray for her continuous healing.

[@k.r.i.s.t.a.q.n.u.s.h.i.]

I think her ex was drunk and did this domestic violence!

[@originalyou4069]

@@k.r.i.s.t.a.q.n.u.s.h.i. drunk monster then!

[@helixmoore7636]

And it needs a different name. Call it what it is. Felony criminal assault

[@Dynamatrix2000]

If a woman did this to a man; I wonder if she would paint herself as the victim.🤔

[@12Messenger]

The dude should do 50+ prison time. The laws have to have a zero tolerance for things like this

[@collidewiththesea]

I gotta say, the doctors did a really good job with the stitches. And props to her for telling her story and also raising awareness

[@sophie2084]

Honestly, she is such a beautiful woman, inside and out. Horrendous what happend to her, absolutely horrendous. How brave of her to support and help others by sharing her story. She is a true inspiration

[@shannonp7338]

The fact that the guy was only given 12 years is appalling. You can look at his pictures and tell hes a complete and utter PSYCHO! He was 21 and dating a teenager also. That tells you everything you need to know! Stay safe Kayla!

[@robynw8223]

Wow. I was thinking he needed at least 50 years for this. He's dangerous

[@elainew2230]

If this had been done by a dog, they would put the dog down. This guy should not be allowed out around other humans.

[@sherylpayne5851]

Even more appalling is they often do a half and in some cases a third if their sentence.

[@palomaaviles5998]

12 years is the longest sentences I’ve ever heard of for a domestic abuser. I agree they should get longer. Normally nothing happens that’s why so many women die because of it

[@jessicalittle608]

It really doesn't tell you anything. Being 21, you're only 2 years older than 19 which is still teens. My uncle was 24 and my aunt 18 when they got married and they've been in an amazing marriage for 52 years. I'm not saying anything good about this guy but you can't use age difference as a justification for why someone is psycho. That's just being judgmental in the wrong areas.

[@yourmomishot7547]

I feel bad. No women or man deserves to be hurt like this by the one they thought they trusted and loved

[@yourmomishot7547]

@Life with pets I'm glad u rescue animals ❤😹but that was so off topic lollll but yes SAVE ANIMALS

[@aprioriontoast704]

she is so brave

[@GhastlyCretin]

You're the most obvious creep I've come across. Well done.

[@hyunjinshairband766]

@@GhastlyCretin what?-

[@nveka]

@@GhastlyCretin creep?

[@viviandiaz5044]

He wanted the word to stop looking at your beauty but he just caused the world to notice you more. You are absolutely gorgeous. God bless you

[@betterbetty3542]

I can’t even comprehend how she was injured. He tried to pull her lip off? I hope he’s rotting in prison. Kayla, YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY STUNNING!

[@mle011]

He was trying to kiss her and bit her bottom lip off! Kayla has posted images on her Instagram of right after the accident. Truly awful what that monster did to her. She is so strong for rising above all of this and taking back her power.

[@m.a.i.l.a5481]

@@mle011 thanks for this. Pls what I would like to know is how come the stitches go up to her face

[@ukmedicfrcs]

@@m.a.i.l.a5481 I'm a surgeon but I am not familiar with her specific story so I can only offer an educated guess. Her lip was amputated and the surgeons could not reattach it so they tried to close it up by bringing some of her cheek closer in to make it easier to stitch up the bottom lip. Basically rebuilding her mouth.

[@Jmanisalive]

@@m.a.i.l.a5481 I'm wondering the same, and cutting up her entire face to replace an amputated lip doesn't sound right..... I'm definitely no Dr, but there was no other alternative? regardless, remarkable lady, and story.

[@amygriesinger6285]

@@Jmanisalive your not a dr so shut up

[@donthaveausernameonmind7450]

She looks so flawless and her smile is so wholesome may god bless and satisfy her even more and empowers her with endurance she made it

[@KimJones-fh1pt]

In Jesus name amen

[@RainRemnant]

Wow the bots and spam here...

[@lauraswann5543]

In Jesus' name. Amen.

[@Tezah89]

She’s absolutely beautiful and she’s amazing for sharing her story. I hope she has been able to help even one person.

[@ironfist458]

This is a white person problem. If you get involved they will take you down with them. So stay out of it Queen. Smh!

[@maidahaltrecht6577]

@That random guy who comments absolutely sadly enough.

[@pawsitvelyspeaking934]

I am a survivor of domestic violence. I got out and 2015 and still struggling with the brainwashing he did and the control he had. You are such a strong and inspiration to others! Keep sharing your story and spreading your wings you will go a long way in life I know! Thank you for sharing your story!

[@georgia8592]

🖤🖤🖤

[@lepakshijaideep489]

I'm glad you survived 🧡

[@thisorthat7626]

A lesson for women (and men) is to please learn the signs of a narcissist, so you can avoid being in a relationship that could end up harming you. Kayla is helping people by sharing her story. If we were taught the traits of narcissists, more people could protect themselves from dangerous relationships. Some are easy to spot. Others are similar to Kayla's ex. They want to force you into accepting the decision they want, and look out if you don't. Blessings to you, Kayla.

[@MaliMwauraNdichu]

💯

[@ladyV1977]

He tried to take away her beauty and fail. She beautiful inside and out. God bless you too keep helping those that need you.

[@beezusanne]

Kayla is beautiful inside and out and I appreciate her sharing her story.

[@marcoantonioidontwantno4797]

Holla

[@marcoantonioidontwantno4797]

Hola

[@Godhelpus62]

I can’t imagine the flood of fear and anger that would overwhelm me if anyone did that to my daughter. Leaving an abusive person is so dangerous. If your partner has ever been even a little violent and controlling, know that this is possible and never meet them alone. She is so inspiring and so beautiful inside and out. You go girl! 💗🙏🏻✝️👼🏻

[@brooklynooklyn]

What an incredible woman. Her demeanor is so calm and the strength she has is inspiring. She is beautiful even with the scars.

[@mamawlife7852]

Mama looks like she could be her sister. Beautiful ladies and thank you for standing up for other women who is in or has been in a domestic violence.

[@kathleenking47]

She could've had her at 18

[@mamawlife7852]

Oh yeah I know. She could have been younger than that.

[@kathleenking47]

@@mamawlife7852 I notice, her dad wasnt with her. Guys like this, tend to beat women up a lot BEFORE doing something like this. She probably kept taking him back

[@RainRemnant]

@@kathleenking47 again, victim blaming, and it was not her dad who did that to her but her ex 🙄

[@kathleenking47]

@@RainRemnant a reason why i said this, because my sister went thru this. She didnt leave, after her husband began to beat her

[@luizotoch]

I hope he's behind bars. And Kayla, you're beautiful, kind and resilient. Never give up on your dreams!!! 💖

[@BluePrecious77]

When a person "shows you who they are - "believe them."

[@michaelpalmer1649]

Beauty is not on the outside. Beauty comes from the inside and just from hearing your story you are the most beautiful woman I've seen. Keep up the great work for domestic violence survivors. 👏

[@pleasuregates4504]

She’s flawless absolutely gorgeous & that’s why this animal tried to purposely disfigure her & his attempt failed she’s still beautiful!!!♥️

[@donnar9864]

That's exactly right...

[@ShredCo]

Flawless means no horrific facial scarring.

[@pleasuregates4504]

@@ShredCo she’s flawless

[@ShredCo]

@@pleasuregates4504 isn't everyone?

[@pleasuregates4504]

@@ShredCo yea ,but this is her story!!! so that’s who I’m reacting too and please stop trying to turn my beautiful comment into something mean now enjoy your day I’m all about uplifting and positivity and you seem very negative so I pray you heal🙏🏿👌

[@blinkypushbuttons]

He doesn’t even deserve to be called her “ex”.

[@PoppyUr]

I am sure she will help plenty of men and women who are in abusive relationships with her story and experiences… I’m glad she survived the attack!! She’s gorgeous

[@tiyailaC]

She's absolutely gorgeous! Her and her mother look like sisters. Praying for your continual healing in Jesus name 🕊️

[@tombeals6234]

I'm sorry he did this to you and because of him you're afraid of men. Women should NEVER have to worry about this. As someone with good morals as hard as it is to believe, there are good guys out there that would never lay a finger on you. Good luck with your surgeries, and I hope you can find happiness, wherever it is!

[@BigBri7647]

The good guys need to be standing up to and calling out the bad ones. Violence against women and girls (and other men) comes predominantly from men, yet its seen as a woman's issue.

[@defenderoftruth6526]

@@BigBri7647 how is it seen as a woman issue??

[@defenderoftruth6526]

@@C12341 but how do you even quantify "more emphasis on talking to women about ways to stay safe"?? Thats just the reasonable thing to do! Since you will never be able to control the actions of others, but you can always control how you react to what happens or act in ways to avoid those situations. Obviously women shouldn't be getting black out drunk at bars and going home with random men and then claiming it's the fault of society for not teaching men to be less rapey 😑 unless you take some kind glory in paintings yourself a victim anyways.

[@13lilsykos]

@@defenderoftruth6526 - It is the reasonable thing to do but they also should be focusing on taking the stigma away from men reporting abuse. Also more men coming out and talking about their abuse would help. It's gotten better in the more recent years but still, plenty of men just take the abuse or never report it because they think they need to "man up". I may be wrong but I think what they are getting at is that its seen as a "woman's issue" because typically its women being abused by men. It least a lot of people to think that only women can be abused, which obviously, isn't the case. I'm just guessing here.

[@icyivy2424]

@@C12341 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

[@deborah8887]

It goes without saying that you’re stunning, but beyond that you’re strong! Mad respect for turning it around and helping others.

[@allthingsharbor]

The hardest part, for me, is dealing with the fact that THE very person who was supposed "to love and care for you" is THE very person who did this TO you. I have woken every morning for over 25 years to see the scar and lip damage my ex-husband created on my face by slamming me into a door frame while he was in a drunken rage so I know the feeling.

[@sensei7306]

I hope youre doing ok

[@Celeste_92]

My ex tried to stab me knowing I was pregnant with his child. For absolutely no reason. I was asleep and he was drunk and woke me up accusing me of cheating on him literally because I had a job. He did not want me working because he thought if I was away from him for any amount of time, that meant I was cheating. I am very lucky that I was able to get away unharmed and my unborn baby being unharmed. I got away and never ever saw him again. I am currently 8 months pregnant with my baby girl and I feel grateful and lucky every day I was able to escape and protect myself and my unborn daughter from that evil man. And Kayla, you are a strong beautiful woman. Thank you for your courage and for speaking out about what happened to you.

[@ibobeko4309]

I wish you and your baby the best in the world. Some people are just evil.

[@georgegrove7605]

I'm glad she is okay, knowing that she has loving support from loved ones will make it better. Her smile is still awesome!

[@WhatEver-xy1bx]

She is absolutely gorgeous😍 Brave young woman. I wish nothing but the best for her🥺

[@tnk19811]

Hear me out, I just love that fact that after she said " she felt like a monster " , they show a pic of her and she looks like an angel 😍

[@nibs2511]

Kayla, you are a beautiful person, inside and out. And truly an inspiration for many. Best wishes in all you do. You've got this 🙂

[@hellaSwankkyToo]

i'll never understand why people apologize for crying or getting emotional during an interview or while talking about something....emotional. 💁🏾‍♀ remind the people you love that they never need to apologize for feeling their feels. 🖤✊🏾 humans are allowed to human.

[@angiewizefool]

She has much grace...🙏🖤

[@Ph4r4oh_444g]

Some people it’s just a habit for some the sorry isnt for them it’s for themselves cause they didn’t wanna show weakness

[@Katherine_xs]

Bcz they are making everybody else uncomfortable

[@jessicalittle608]

People get awkward when others cry. Not only do humans not like showing weakness but that person feels they're making it uncomfortable for others because of that weakness.

[@payableondeath9091]

@@jessicalittle608 when we worry about what others think we are only hurting ourselves by not truly being ourselves

[@rashaq6329]

She is still gorgeous 💖 respect you and proud of you

[@eydnamortensen5985]

She’s Absolutely beautiful inside and out. That monster couldn’t take that away from her. Try as he might, she’s still gorgeous. You go girl! Love from Denmark

[@zombae3871]

Beautiful woman.. horrible thing that happened to her and it’s scary this happens to people everywhere everyday. Domestic Violence is a toxic pandemic 😷

[@shannonmurone1089]

She wears her scars well. She is absolutely beautiful inside and out. I love that you are strong enough to share your story to possibly help other people. Keep doing what you are doing. You truly are beautiful.

[@bileigh8675]

There's a lot of power in Kayla's message and the hard work she's put into healing herself. Please send this video to anyone you know who is in a violent living situation.

[@Bella24.]

He did not disfigure you, You’re beautiful inside and out ! You’re brave and a survivor. Great things will happen to you. And his time will come.

[@capstevens2657]

You’re still beautiful young lady and you’re a warrior! Keep moving forward.

[@squarebear619]

Couldn't be my daughter even if I have to wait years. He'd really come to find out how it is to live with a disfigured face... I am a big believer in vengeance is MINE.

[@elizabethfuller5508]

I absolutely agree with you 💯!!!

[@canadasweetie]

The biggest vengeance? Is getting on with your life happily.

[@LadyInner24]

Crying listening to Kayla’s story. Her inner strength is extraordinary. Wishing Kayla all the best. She’s so beautiful xo

[@paulbuck7356]

Hi Cindy here, my heart breaks for you and what he did. My first marriage was a horrible nightmare and could expect to be beaten on a few times a week. It's a wonder I got out alive. You are amazing and beautiful, he tried to take your beauty away and he failed. These are not just words from this old lady, you truly are in my eyes still beautiful.

[@zoranabanana]

This is extremely heartbreaking and even more hearing the hurt in her voice. I truly hope she manages to heal someday from what she’d gone through.

[@care-a-lot1051]

Her ex was sentenced to 12 years in prison. He has to serve at least 85% of his sentence before he’s released.

[@alezandradavila2581]

Nice

[@seeia1673]

Is there a link to a news article?

[@care-a-lot1051]

@@seeia1673 I didn’t save it. Just google her name

[@leslie-annjones5321]

She's a beautiful soul her ex is a monster and I hope he pays for what he did. To be an advocate for domestic violence and tell her story is very brave and she'll help many people

[@kat.699]

What a truly strong, gentle and beautiful lady she is. Her scars take nothing away from her beauty and her experience can help her be the voice for other victims. I wish her all the best.

[@808animescoob9]

No one deserves this in life. It gives me hope to see how positive she is. I have a lot of scars on my body and have a medical condition that causes me daily pain in life. I am so glad I saw this. Thank you for sharing your story. best wishes to you and everyone.

[@bruppieo5118]

I can’t even imagine how awful that experience would’ve been but my god she’s still extremely beautiful. I know that isn’t the important thing but she is still incredibly physically beautiful and her strength is truly inspiring.

[@sanniwartinen3595]

Kayla if you read this, your face is STILL beautiful!!! I am not saying this just to "be nice" or boost your ego.. It is the truth!!! You are very pretty and honestly your scars are not that noticeable.

[@romanaabo3664]

She knows she's still beautiful but every time she looks into the mirror she'll be reminded of the guy. Don't minimize her pain. Strangers may not notice at one point but of course she always will.

[@katbozues]

Her scars are now her beautiful strength...this girl is stunning. May she and her family be blessed.

[@kierraadele]

That is a scary situation...domestic violence is something no one should have to go thru.. kayla is a beautiful inside and out it seems.. true inspiration

[@donramonito]

Strength in a sometimes unbearably unmerciful world…lord have mercy. Sorry for your horrible experience

[@yelitzagalan5670]

I cried so hard hearing her story but also felt so proud of her for sharing. I'm glad she survived, she's a strong and beautiful person! ❤️

[@beautifulrecovery2337]

Okay so many things. 1. I LOVE how she healed and is healing what a powerhouse! 2. I love the support of her mom and how she is also healing. 3. I love they didn't give the monster who did this to her any attention.

[@getitdonewithsiobhan]

OMG she is soo beautiful!!! I have been in a domestic violent relationship and it was absolutely hard. I praise her for standing up.

[@mokaLARE]

I can’t imagine all the nightmares she probably has at times… courageous lady!

[@whispermcgaughy7251]

She's beautiful! And I'm so happy that she was able to rise above and beyond..💞

[@sky_odin]

She's so gorgeous! It makes me so sad that even with a traumatic event that she still had to rebuild her self esteem. She's beautiful with her scar and it is unfair but I'm so glad that she's feeling more confident. My dad was physically abusive to my mom, me and my older sister. He didn't leave any scars but he left a mark and I can sympathize fully with Kayla's story💜

[@martharivera1590]

Your strength is inspiring and it will help victims of domestic violence to see the signs and take them very seriously and if you walked away from the abuser avoid meeting him no matter what he says, and IF he shows any good changes they won't lasted for long "STATISTICS " I can attest to this,

[@akumatenshi2004]

Can someone tell me if they know if her ex got brought to court or is behind bars or something? It’s scary to think he’s still out and attempting to date other women.

[@tammya5403]

Yea I was wondering about that too.

[@ACuteKitty]

I think he should get more than just a court and some bars :)

[@kimberleeberry2039]

@@ACuteKitty I do too

[@liyenong2017]

I think for cases such as this where the harm is intended, there should still exist a law where an eye for an eye applies, that is after jail time have his face heavily disfigured so no women would date him.

[@mmyo6636]

From googling, he was sentenced to 12 years in prison for assault and battery of a high and aggravated nature.

[@cynthiaspencer9994]

Not only physical pain but there's emotional scars to heal when abuse or betrayal happens. But you look absolutely beautiful and strong. Thank God you are ok.

[@deloresjonestv972]

Congratulations on your ability to take back your life and use it to educate. You are a very beautiful person inside and out. Thank you for sharing your story

[@TheTrakker]

This is an amazing story of strength and resilience. As a grandfather to an incredible 8 year old girl as well as two younger boys, I'm always thinking of the "what if". And I believe that is is everyone's responsibility to ask those questions and keep our eyes open to protect them. Not only our own, but every person who may fall prey to the evil in someone else. Kayla is a real hero!

[@ChristionGirl45]

She is beautiful!! I honestly didn't even notice the scars right away! But, she is going to help so many with her story! ❤❤❤

[@Meganwesseler5332]

She is gorgeous! I can't believe he didn't go to jail for longer or life. He did that with his hands???

[@RainRemnant]

@@Meganwesseler5332 he bit her with his teeth, saw it in another documentary

[@Meganwesseler5332]

@@RainRemnant omg that is horrible...hope he gets what he deserves!!

[@yyg4632]

shes beautiful and made something so positive out of this traumatic moment. Its so hard but please stay away from any relationship that will physically hurt you. People who hurt you like that do not deserve you or love in general. They need to fix themselves.

[@briansschepens9527]

Keep positive sweetie I am sorry that happened to you stay strong and keep fighting never give up your a very tough girl

[@elliebellie3625]

Honestly you still look so unbelievably good and everything healed very well! ♥ He definitely didn't succeed in making you ugly

[@JamilaColeman]

Thank you Kayla! You’re so beautiful and what’s amazing is that your beauty comes from your soul. You had to fight for it but your ex couldn’t steal your smile or your beauty or your worth.

[@dwightesnard7672]

I honestly dont see anything wrong with her.Shes beautiful ,so for me personally it drowns out her injury.

[@arlenehynes4607]

I agree! She's gorgeous!

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

She literally looks the same to me just older. It’s not like she had bug lips to begin with

[@impendingeuphoria8802]

@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 its not about the lips its about those big scars surrounding her whole mouth... it deformed her lower face... i mean its not horrific but you can tell something happened. Maybe fat grafting or fillers would eliminate the divets in her face.

[@RainRemnant]

@@impendingeuphoria8802 she's perfect the way she is and only people that see something wrong with her have something wrong themselves

[@InTheNameOfLife1]

Wow thank you for sharing this with us. He is absolutely vile for doing this to you, but you have turned around and used this experience to better the lives of yourself and others! That’s strength and endurance. Overcoming is a tricky road, especially when there are visible scars. You’re so beautiful and so is your mom! Keep up the great work.

[@benitamaiorano3970]

I’m so sorry you experienced such pain & cruelty. You are beautiful! Proud of you! God Bless you. Thank you for helping others

[@allinaflutter6117]

You are still absolutely beautiful, I am sorry you had to go through this. I can’t fathom how anyone could do that to anyone, let alone an ex partner. You are so strong, you are not a monster 💕 You are helping others, domestic violence has to stop

[@introvertedbandnerd3289]

No one should ever have to go through this. it must be so hard for her mother to tell the story, let alone kayla. Domestic violence is no joke, props to her for surviving. Keep showing your wings girl!

[@eab5950]

You’re beautiful and you are amazing! I’m so happy you are speaking up about domestic violence, no one should ever have to go through what you have experienced. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@dakotablue3366]

You are literally the most beautiful person I've ever seen. Your beauty shined right through the screen of my phone. Keep fighting girlfriend . you bring a lot of peace and hope to a lot of people, and your Battle scars are absolutely perfect and beautiful.

[@Erika-kw7ur]

You are so strong and beautiful. I've been through domestic violence as well and it kills me that you went through this. thank you so much for speaking up that these things happen and using your voice to help others

[@spulwasser]

Her ex didn't manage to take her beauty away from her! ✨💪 Hope her heart will be able to heal equally well...

[@carlosbarrea-martinez-dyer311]

Good to see a victim's story that is encouraging and gives inspiration to others. Her abuser doesn't deserve any attention. If he doesn't repent he will be facing hard times on Judgement Day.

[@x0539p]

Kayla you are beautiful inside and out! Your story will help other victims of abuse so thank you for coming forward with it. Your life partner will not see the outer scars and will love you for all that you are and for what you have been through.

[@AnUnknownGoddess]

My ex was becoming violent toward me and my son. Then I reminded him. I too was a veteran and as an ex cop in the military had no problem insuring the safety of myself and my son. He took it very seriously. Still it is hard. She is so very brave.

[@queensade1325]

Kayla is such a beautiful soul and the true monster is her ex but he couldn’t win, she still has her smile and her unbreakable spirit. GOD bless you Kayla, you are such an inspiration!

[@GodsSoldierGirl]

From one survivor to another my love goes out to you God bless you keep that light shining and I hope if you can't read this you are reminded in some way in your life how deeply loved and beautiful you are 💓

[@charmainemontanari7673]

I’m so sorry this happened to you, no one deserves this. He’s an animal. You remain beautiful inside & out. Thank you for giving back to others……

[@irrationalluv08]

This made me tear up. She was beautiful then and she’s still beautiful now. The monster was that POS that attacked her. I’m glad she did let this snuff out her voice and spirit. Side note: she looks just like her mama and that’s too cute!

[@cookinghealthy8049]

She is a beautiful soul. That boy must have a Demon inside of him in order to do this. I once had someone bite me on the shoulder and I have the scar from that. I am also a survivor of domestic violence

[@freddiejohnson3936]

I had a woman bite me on my shoulder, I was dating her at the same time, we broke up and i had no problem, when you get to a such age a break up doesn't mean anything, when you are much younger it probably means more, but me and her was just playing, but she is very aggressive, but i couldn't never hit a woman i probably would run from her first, i use my workout equipment to take my revenge out on people, they just helped me stay in shape

[@codename495]

No. He does not have a demon, he doesn’t deserve to blame this on anyone but himself

[@cookinghealthy8049]

@@freddiejohnson3936 wow I wasn’t dating the girl but it was my step sister. She was drunk but growling like a dog and biting. It was surreal. I am glad you made it out okay. I was thinking of getting a tattoo of the cross on that shoulder.

[@cookinghealthy8049]

@@codename495 anyone that can rip into someone’s face has to be demonic influence. I couldn’t do that even if I wanted to. She looked like she was attacked by an animal. But the fact that she got attacked by a person she thought she loved is more devastating. I am glad I never met up with my abusive ex. I had a really bad feeling about it. Dude was crazy too

[@freddiejohnson3936]

Wow sounds like my sister while she was going through a divorce and after she got a divorce, she's is very bitter and jealous, and the funniest thing she doesn't want me to date anyone, even that woman that bit me on my shoulder, she and her don't like each others

[@craigdoherty2974]

She is so beautiful , all you have to do is look into her eyes . Would date her in a heart beat as some of the monsters that have crossed my path are far worse . Her energy alone is amazing ! Hero to all of us .

[@king18722]

Absolutely there is a reason you made it through that terrible situation. It wasnt your time you have so much to offer your self and the world . Your scares are a map of where you've been and what you've gone through and they can only make you stronger ! You've already shown amazing strength and heart to be where you are today! We wish you the best in the future to come and thank you very much for sharing your story with us..God Bless you

[@brownsugar163]

What a beautiful soul. I send Kayla and her mother prayers to keep up the fight and to continue to have the strength needed for this journey.😊😊

[@munchkin0518]

For those wondering why her scar is in such a symmetrical, circular, and precise pattern (I was curious, too) - it appears that her demonic ex bit a considerable portion of her bottom lip clean off, which couldn't be re-attached. I'm guessing that to "fill" the gaping wound and restore range of motion with her mouth, surgeons were forced to re-align and reapproximate the entire mouth area extending into her nasolabial folds. In pictures immediately after the attack, you'll see it's just part of the bottom lip that's missing and the rest of her mouth is fine. No disrespect meant, btw, this is just to answer some medically valid questions that some commenters had.

[@romanaabo3664]

I still don't get it. There's a few images where only a small piece of her bottom lip seems stitched (3:11 for instance). I don't understand where the large round pattern comes from?

[@crystalmonroe9578]

She is still beautiful and her positivity is like a shining light. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️. I pray for continued healing for u.

[@RedPandaFRANK]

That's horrible. I feel so horrible about this and I am glad that you are ok. No matter what, u are strong and I will always support u. And let no one ever tell u any different...you are still beautiful. Absolutely beautiful.

[@christophertaylor2738]

I really hate this for her he's a coward for doing this hope he burns in hell and hats off to her for being so strong she deserves so much more 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@frenchtoast4630]

Hell isn’t a place for no human even the ones who are bad. God will give her the strength she needs ❤️✝️

[@lovelocked5385]

@@frenchtoast4630 hell is real and if that guy doesn't repent and give his life to the Lord he will go there. The only way into Heaven is through Yeshua/ Jesus

[@frenchtoast4630]

@@lovelocked5385 I understand that, but Gods will is for no human to go to hell, it wasn’t even created for humans.

[@frenchtoast4630]

@@C12341 I understand, in order for Him to go to heaven, he would have to repent from his sins and turn to Christ. God sums it all up with just this one verse. For God so loved the world that he gave His one and only Son and whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life John 3:16. God says repent and be saved but he doesn’t say Hell is temporary. Once a human goes to Hell, he’s there for eternity. I wanted OP to know that Hell is an awful place and we as humans shouldn’t want anyone to go there. Lastly, it’s not about religion, it’s all going to come down to your heart and your relationship with Jesus Christ. Did we follow His will for our lives? Did we put Him first? Did we forgive to be forgiven? Also a person who has trusted in the Lord Jesus Christ as his Savior goes immediately to heaven to be in the presence of the Lord. Though their body is in the grave and decomposes, their soul and spirit (the immaterial part, the real person) goes immediately into the presence of the Savior. Daniel 12:2 says And many of those who sleep (die) in the dust of the earth shall awake, some to everlasting life, and some to shame and everlasting contempt. ❤️✝️ I’m sorry I said so much 😅

[@frenchtoast4630]

@@C12341 🥲aww thanks! You too☺️

[@florenceknight420]

What a strong woman she is..i couldnt imagine the trauma shes been through..im praying for all the best for yr surgery..i hope u find the right guy💖🙏

[@elfangel94]

I can’t even imagine how horrifying that must have been. I’m glad she at least has gotten away and is able to help others do the same. That’s one brave woman.

[@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690]

You are strong. My heart goes out to the mom. I'm also a mom of 2 daughters. I feel so bad for both of you. You didn't deserve that. God bless you for helping others