Barking Queen Bichon Frise: Lilly | Full Episode | It's Me or The Dog

Lilly is loud, aggressive and out of control! This Bichon Frise might look cute, but she will rip to shreds whatever she can get her paws, bark the house down and go to the toilet wherever she pleases. Can dog trainer Victoria Stilwell keep this doggy princess occupied and maybe teach her some manners?
It's Me or the Dog UK (Season 1, Episode 5)
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[@gpeace9187]

Way to go Lilly! And... great job Victoria!

[@sandrapao123lol4]

I love dogs I wish I could have another dog to play with my dog Oreo

[@sandrapao123lol4]

Hello I love dogs but I love watching your videos love me

[@sandrapao123lol4]

@@cozykay I love release name can I have really am just kidding I wish I could be responsible for having the world's largest dog owner I just wish I could have a lot of dogs throw into Me by Katy Perry I'm just kidding I don't even know who that is but I love your videos please give me a shout out by my name is Sandra 1 2 3 if you want to give me a shout out

[@Rancelot1738]

@@sandrapao123lol4 dafaq are you on about?

[@lulub9993]

@@sandrapao123lol4 that's a little too cringy

[@Daisieheart]

"it's a girls dog" even the son in the background is laughing

[@mrluistito2529]

I wouldn’t walk that dog either

[@Sweet.Mother.of.Cheesus]

EVERY dog can be "a man's dog" - if that means that you can have a great time with him/her, enjoy walking it and teach it all kind of stuff and make him/her show everybody what dogs are really capable of! but it depends all on YOU to behave like a real leader, use your brains and.... grow some balls!

[@Te3time]

thats the definition of fragile masculinity

[@Twuben]

@@Te3time Or it just means that it doesn't like that type of dog, I mean I have a chihuahua, but yet I wouldn't like their dog because I don't like dogs that are all fluffy

[@xmissmilkywayx1887]

@@Twuben thats terrible I feel sorry for you bless you

[@caseyl6461]

Did he really just say he doesn't walk the dog because it's girly?? Wow lol

[@KaoruGoyle]

he is the typical macho futbal (soccer) hooligan type, of course he would say that

[@danielledougal7078]

My ex said that about my westie x papillon when I wanted to adopt him, I ended up ditching the boy and getting the dog, and my current partner calls Freddie his baby and loves taking him out and playing with him 😂

[@caseyl6461]

@KittMonster Puff lol

[@Pe-S]

@Casey I What an embarrassing _moron_ ..!

[@leftovermonday1642]

He's reached pique insecurity lmao.

[@victoriaperez3574]

Every single episode: walk your freaking dog and half the problems are solved.

[@Lai_0is_g0]

Lol

[@sofie9270]

Well if u had no technology you would do the same

[@trashpanda59]

"but she doesn't like itttttt!" This is an excuse a lot of the people I see use-

[@bobbyed5383]

Yes! My Cat From Hell is the same but the takeaway is "Play with your cat!!!"

[@sopaipillapesadilla7023]

Yeah because they never deal with serious cases of dog reactivity on this show

[@beckyglam5162]

If my dad (huge guy - 6 feet tall) can walk our Yorkie in her pink raincoat, this guy can take a bloody ''girly dog'' for a walk.

[@mooni3x]

Awww

[@lildishh4163]

BeckyGlam exactly I have a Cavalier King Charles Spaniels and she always wears a pink raincoat or hoodie ( i live in Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿) and if my dad can take her on a walk so can he

[@alexisparisian7392]

Your mom chose a good one

[@mascarasblancas6183]

My dad's complaining about walking a bichon frise with a pink collar, meanwhile he's wearing a neon pink hair tie all the time🤦‍♀️🤣

[@ashleysharkey7327]

You dad sounds like a great man

[@zuley0w019]

After this episode: Lily: *doesn’t bark* Post man: did the dog die or sum?

[@quiescent606]

LMAO

[@oatmeal2882]

LMFAO

[@lillyr9592]

lilly* heheh,, its my name x

[@sabrina-cn9iw]

Sisi_luvs_you her name is spelt Lilly, look at the title of the video. ☻

[@p.t.4491]

I was thinking the same 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@itsmarla5857]

When are we going to start spoiling dogs with nutritious food, consistent rules, and frequent exercise?

[@hellosunshyne529]

I let my collie sleep on my bed and he sleeps the whole night doesn’t pee or poo and he’s only 5 months 😁

[@AlphaAussies]

Thats how its supposed to be, they arent children

[@juicyfruitfan101]

Love the OP comment.

[@bethmcfarland9790]

That’s so true, @It’s Marla

[@beepot2764]

When lazy people stop impulsively getting animals to fill a void.

[@ajvanmarle]

"Dogs are not children. Dogs need discipline and structure." "Well, so do children, actually."

[@didimametja3095]

AJ 1978 hehehe😂😂

[@repent.]

I know. 😆

[@ameliaparkinson8578]

No hate AJ 1978 but that sounds so rude

[@SheniceSays214]

Didi Mametja Yep

[@shanamedah]

True

[@shaiviacharekar9783]

“This is Victoria and she’s been training humans for 10 years”

[@Maninawig]

*over 10 years. Seriously, she is half psychologist half trainer in most of these videos.

[@lavivalabiba3148]

This comment is golden

[@PunkRatSoda]

Remember that she is 51. Yeah

[@Maninawig]

@@PunkRatSoda in 2005, when Victoria started training dogs, she had just over 10 years training. So her age doesn't have an issue in this quote.

[@PunkRatSoda]

@@Maninawig I.. I said that because i still can't believe she's 51 and is that pretty but... Okay i guess

[@KB-tg7pf]

These two women look like sisters! They even walk with the same stride.

[@lthequietthunder.orbrightl352]

Yeah you're right

[@iamvia9749]

Yeah they look really much like each other :D

[@tinaamariee832]

Right! They need to ask their parents some questions

[@ijustpulledthetrigger5482]

Same haircut too

[@UnlshedBst]

HOLY CRAP ITS UNCANNY!

[@diagnoesis]

y'all didn't have to zoom in on the poop so often LMAO

[@makepeace234]

Saiko Thought the same. LMAO 🤣

[@raeannehill1503]

Saiko we know what it’s look like. No need to ruin my dinner

[@alfiefever6749]

IKR lol

[@makepeace234]

@@alfiefever6749 And they even drew pictures of poop complete with smelly lines on the poster in the KITCHEN! 🤑

[@melonbar1042]

I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING LMAO

[@LightMyStar]

My step-dad is one of the most manly looking men I've ever seen; he's tall, muscular, a top swim coach... and he adores our 2 Bichons. He walks them, cuddles them, baby talks them, and spoils them to bits. Loving on a dog does not make you less of a man, no matter what the dog looks like jfc.

[@elenacodanunziante7375]

It's actually (generally speaking) pretty attractive to women for a man to be affectionate towards a dog (or any animal or baby)

[@elenacodanunziante7375]

@ComaBerenices true lol by any animal I was thinking about traditional pets (cats dogs bunnies)

[@lunchadventures]

ComaBerenices I’m a girl and I LOVE snakes and other reptiles but I do like fluffy animals like my 4 dogs a cat and my 21 chickens lol

[@obitouchiha3865]

I really miss my bichon I had to put him down on Valentine’s Day it really hurts me and my parents

[@isaibro]

You’re missing the point entirely

[@biancal1528]

His laugh when he said “is it me or the dog” his laugh slowly being a concern laugh 😂😂😂

[@charlotterobey1299]

That part killed me😂😂😂

[@gtgaming1534]

*Lilly goes crazy and Victoria is forced to intervene.* bAbObaP baPoPap BaPoBoP bAP

[@ceidhlafynesx]

GT Gaming hahaahahhahahh

[@signepalenius8404]

And the look of the random guy after killed me lol

[@andysweeney5116]

😂 such an underrated comment

[@sukanyasharma802]

GT Gaming ahahahaha

[@allie440]

Hehhehehhe

[@michitariru]

omg Victoria cracks me up with the LOOK AT THE MAN WITH A BICHON FRISE LOOK OVER HERE AT THE MAN WITH A PUFFY WHITE DOG xDDD

[@SammyAsylum]

Sarah Miller i legit got to this comment as that part came on 😂

[@BKStarlet08]

and in the background was an older man with a cocker spaniel and not a care in the world

[@lokiprime9108]

I regularly see a really buff dude walking his little fluffy cloud of a dog and it's the manliest thing I've ever seen. lol

[@pearldruce5857]

Lol

[@pearldruce5857]

She's literally running around yelling that embarrassing the man

[@princessstrawberryrainbow1395]

she protecc she attacc but most importantly she above u in the pacc

[@joysnider3288]

Learn to spell, fool

[@jami5296]

@@joysnider3288 he/she knows how to spell. She spelled it that way to be funny. To make it rhyme. And to just spell it like that. So lay off, fool. 🙄

[@twobrokewolves5884]

@@joysnider3288 It's a common meme that has nothing to do with spelling or intelligence level

[@39suhanamakhija44]

@@joysnider3288 it's a meme

[@joodyfouad3681]

Joy Snider shut up kid

[@hauntedshadowslegacy2826]

Victoria, bellowing: 'HE'S GOT A BICHON FRISE! AND HE'S A GUY!' Me: (imagining that 'see? no one cares' meme)

[@maismais993]

I was literally waiting her to say "see, nobody cares!" it would have made my entire week lol

[@candiiiiiiicane77]

😂😂 I love it loll

[@Maninawig]

I actually wish he was in a neon jumper... with flashing lights...

[@kimberlyleveille1863]

"Dogs are dogs, not children" Say it again for the people in the back!

[@katherinerichardson2273]

Family yes but not children. They have their own needs.

[@martinawolf2983]

They are like children in the meausre both need love, s rutine, and a healthy diet.

[@precious2d222]

I treat my dog like my own child soo..

[@a.ro5]

A lot of people use dogs or pets in general to replace their children (grown up usually) and give them love and attention, it make them feel important

[@imzadi83fanvids7]

You can love them like children, but part of being a good parent is meeting your child's needs and helping them succeed in life, which this woman wasn't doing. I love my dog and consider her my child, but she is a dog and has dog needs that must be met to keep her happy and healthy in life.

[@kianna2265]

Imagine having a masculinity so fragile you can't even walk a dog

[@rat8718]

Lol

[@cleliaoconnell3705]

Hahahahahaha

[@camilac.l.1323]

9:06 to 9:16 ❤

[@horsegirlb7120]

@Kaleb Ortiz I think your comment makes me the happiest lol

[@JazzyCrumbles]

Regarding pets, I really don't think there's anything more masculine than a burly man walking a fluffy, poofy dog down the street, that dog obeying and listening to their owner. That just shows you have so much confidence the dog sees you as their leader, and also that you care more about your dog than strangers' opinions.

[@scorpionheart]

Husband: I'm too much of a MAN to walk this girly dog Also husband: * moves her paw to wave goodbye *

[@bry7928]

This is the dog where you can say “It ate my homework.”

[@renatovillar8847]

Mhm

[@eleanorhogan8643]

And show the chewed up bits. Teacher (shocked) the dog ate your homework? Boy:and there's the proof Teacher:I didn't know dogs really did do that. Boy:My one did.

[@markcameron2842]

So the husband doesn’t walk the dog because he thinks she’s a girly dog? What a terrible excuse to not walk a dog. Sounds like a very insecure man.

[@jazmeen04]

Exactly, very insecure

[@PeninsulaPaintings]

Unfortunately, he's not the first one I've seen on this show make the same excuse! There was an episode with Pomeranians where the dude didn't want to walk them because they're girly! It's pathetic.

[@splatsunemiku]

And lazy

[@nickdubbin2636]

The guy didn't want the dog in the first place. He has no bond with the dog, it was forced on him by the look of it. In my experience little dogs are more aggressive and likely to bite. The lady didn't do her reserch it's clever with lots of energy , the owners weren't suitable for the dog.

[@marujedelooconroy5687]

I agree

[@fifthstr]

I had absolutely no idea that men had issues 1. Walking "girly" dogs. And 2. Neutering their pets. Masculinity fragile af.

[@TheBeings]

fifthstr and for you, that is a very uncommon thing with the people I know

[@linthoisanayumnam4376]

Spayed females are also much calmer.

[@neve8881]

I’ve watched like 6 episodes of this show tonight and at least 3 of them hadn’t had they’re dogs neutered.

[@LilFrg]

Karina Peters Omg I’ve only been around a stallion twice but that was 2 times too many Lol

[@viccolasvic9461]

3.) how men don't have a problem with their agressive dogs but also don't spend all day dealing with said agressive dogs and have no qualms with their wives and children being in constant distress. 😒

[@didimametja3095]

3:16 that nervous laugh sent me💀💀😂😂😂

[@nelldunning8102]

SAME LMAO

[@Ari.x22]

OMG!! 😂😂

[@majmalton9343]

Victoria is such a beautiful human being. Not only does she want to help all the pooches of this world, but the humans too (humans are mostly the cause of the pooches' issues)

[@bjork5572]

6:15 the toxic masculinity jumped out His son is even embarrassed of his dad Jesus Christ

[@joiathegreat]

Yeah but he stepped up 6:40

[@leahholt6128]

Seriously. Even though he does agree to walk the dog, having an attitude like that is gross and shows what kind of person he really is. You're a married man with two sons and you still feel that insecure in your masculinity that you can't wallk a small cute dog?

[@leahholt6128]

After watching the rest of the video I softened up a bit on the guy, but it's still a shame that that kind of mindset is so pervasive. It keeps people from realizing thw true potential in their lives.

[@wonderstruck_artist]

True

[@Yumichan62]

@@leahholt6128 Well, I also think that he thinks like that because there are some shitty people in the world that would call him weak or dtuff like that because of the dog. Because that dog breed is often used in those girly bitchy movies. So he probably was insecure. Its the same with Girls in some situations too. You dont want to be called manly because you play a manssport or whatever. Femeninity is important to man and masculinity to men. So I thin he was just insecure. But he at least changed a bit in the end :)

[@mydaydreamer4712]

“My dog ate my homework.”

[@catiewhite4668]

LoL

[@marujedelooconroy5687]

Haha😹

[@whomcares8736]

Same with the debts

[@acedragon1456]

My Mum once had a horse eat her homework, and the corresponding textbook

[@whomcares8736]

Acedragon How?!

[@KCannaQueen]

Victoria : remember this dog has better senses than you do and yet she’s girly because she looks good? I died 🤣

[@pigeonhofmann3756]

K-Canna Queen SO TRUE!!

[@swagmcjagger487]

Men saying they won’t walk a “girly” dog is like them saying they won’t take their daughter to the park.

[@mooni3x]

True

[@Waseemmmm]

No it isnt OMEGALUL KEKW POGYOU PEEPOWTF PEEPOCLAP

[@Maninawig]

Wow, this is such a great way to put it! Seriously, it works so well in so many levels

[@amitchell8054]

I disagreed with him but even I didn't think of it like that. You're right.

[@RC.-]

@@Waseemmmm you must’ve been dropped when you were born

[@Thegirlnamedsomthing]

Haha, I could never imagen refusing to walk a german sheperd because it would make me seem less feminine.

[@marujedelooconroy5687]

Yeah😹that Guy is absolutely ridiculous

[@smvh06]

I wall my English Mastiff around town. Nobody has ever told me it makes me less feminine, I have had people tell me it makes me look badass handling this dog that outweighs me😂

[@elagradecimiento]

lmao not like i was that feminine to begin with

[@crs7461]

@@ethanswimmer1287 or maybe to detter people who want to "dominate" you .. and creeps like you..

[@amurderofdrunkcrows2587]

when bubbles are involved, German shepherds are bubble dragons, ADORABLE

[@jt2553]

These full episodes showing the problems & the solutions are much appreciated!!!

[@champagnecoloredeyes]

J T the problems are always the owners 🤣

[@SilentDarkAngel16]

these solutions are also very true as I trained mines in most the things she does in the show and I never knew it until tonight watching these vids i'm like oh shit im glad I was doing it the right way, I did used to watch the show on tv as a kid I know I used the clicker training because of her

[@samwdavis]

Two words..... BARK COLLAR!! These HIGHLY PRODUCED TV PROGRAMS just make me laugh!! There is a VERY SIMPLE solution. BARK COLLAR!! It's cheap, and it's simple. Anxiety peeing.... that's a bit more complicated, but can be solved MUCH more simply through balanced training and it has NOTHING to do with exercising the dogs. This episode is FILLED with misinformation about how to train dogs. Victoria has it right in that you have to establish leadership, but she is COMPLETELY WRONG in that you manage this only by positive only training. You have to REWARD to show what you want and PUNISH to show what you don't want.... the is FUNDAMENTAL dog training protocols that Victoria doesn't seem to get. It shows the most fundamental lack of understanding of dog psychology. The distraction technique on the walk is an ABSOLUTE JOKE!!! It's all about leadership and that the dog understands that you are in charge and the protector, not the dog. You don't AVOID confrontations, you show the dog that YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF THE WALK. There is NO NEED TO DISTRACT!! You teach the dog to trust in you and therefore build the relationship that you have with the dog. Anytime that Victoria is ready for a ONE-ON-ONE challenge, without all of her TV PRODUCTION resources, to address these types of dog challenges, I'm ready. I don't expect that she will answer anytime soon. I've issued this challenge SEVERAL times in various videos..... no response.... Hmmmm...It doesn't surprise me.

[@videosbyivy]

Man: "No need to apologize" Sorry mate, haven't taught the dog to speak English yet.

[@hanna09620]

lmao fr, i’m shocked he was so rude. he saw that she was trying to take care of the situation, he really didn’t have to act a fool.

[@that.ll_do_pig]

I loved Victoria's snap back. Lol

[@HMatthews80]

The owner should have apologised straight away. He wasn't rude.

[@Alonepistachio]

@@HMatthews80 he was. She was talking to victoria, so he interrupted her to ask for an apology just cuz the dog barked? So he’s allowed to bark at people if the dog barks at him? That sounds like someone who demands respect but doesn’t give any.

[@isaibro]

He was totally in line by calling them out tho. Letting animals act that way in public towards innocent people is just entirely unacceptable

[@Vixterlk]

Everybody's talking about the Husband but the lady literally bought the dog without consulting him because he said no to having another child with her? Which is probably one of the worst reasons to buy a dog. Dogs are not a replacement for children, they are part of the family but they have completely different needs. Yeah the husbands attitude wasn't great, but I'd be pretty upset too if my partner bought a dog without discussing it with me because I wouldn't have a child with them and then my partner spoiled said dog to the point that it made life difficult for literally everyone. His attitude wasn't the best and there was definitely some fragile masculinity there, but most of it, I feel was underlying frustration.

[@Yolandae662]

To be fair, she said she wanted a baby.

[@Laura-Yu]

Violet You know it takes two to make that decision?

[@Ianayru]

It's said at the start of the episode the husband agreed to a dog

[@xyzsame4081]

Poor guy had the dog even taking over in the bedroom. the wife put the dog above the needs of the family, her husband and likely also her sexlife. Why was the dog in the bedroom to begin with. They could have put her in a cage over night if she does not behave. And I wonder why the neighbours did not get the police involved. And let it terrorize the family w/o getting a trainer earlier. That is an expensive brand, but she did not bother to inform herself or take some training with the dog.

[@Maninawig]

@@xyzsame4081 cage is a bad idea for the yappy ones. Gates are better as it is less confined meaning less reason to bark.

[@chloefalla3716]

are you kidding me.... doesnt want to walk her because she is a "girls dog"...

[@sandrapao123lol4]

Hi Supernanny I'm sorry I got confused but when will you see more of that calculus dogs on earth I wish there's more dogs to play but it costed money so I can't get that many dogs but who cares we have money in our life boat with we get money money will let us have a miserable life I just wish I could have all the dogs I wished

[@blessedplace9257]

Low blow

[@cleanandambient4387]

There was a guy that had prosthetic balls for his dog put in after he nurtured it and all because he wanted people to know that it was a male dog.

[@glacier8678]

Chloe Falla it's a stereotype kind of like this People see poodles as foo foo show dogs bought by some rich parents for their 10 year old daughter who still likes pink and plays with Barbie dolls and is obsessed with princesses.

[@snazzyidiot]

i cant walk my dog cause shes a " girls dog" me: bruh a dog is a dog l: I

[@laurab5497]

The husband clearly never thinks of the dog. Who forgets to feed an animal? Not someone I want to be around.

[@philipmeisterl]

Laura B i agree its idiotic masculanity But tbh if my gf got a dog without asking me i wouldnt like it either i think that should have also been talked about in the video

[@repent.]

I'm your 601 like

[@lazyriver53]

Dog are dogs they're not children. Thank you Victoria! Too many people these days treat dogs and cats like their children.

[@trashinpain7788]

Rename this channel to "It's the owner not the dog"

[@cudibear98]

Did this man really say “It’s a girls dog that’s why I don’t walk it”????!!!!! Wow what a beautiful example of fragile masculinity. I’ve seen full grown men walk a chihuahua or a poodle and I’ve thought nothing of it except that it’s a cute dog🤦🏽‍♀️🙄

[@renedoe574]

That's his right. Who are you to judge him or question his choice?

[@renedoe574]

@evergreenpenguin Exactly. That's his wife's dog. She wanted it, now she's got it. Let her deal with the situation.

[@renedoe574]

@@remoraidz I don't really care, as it's not my business. Still, giving out the dog is the best idea. But your second solution makes no sense at all, it is utterly ludicrous. You obviously have issues.

[@marujedelooconroy5687]

Cute dog tho🥰i think that might be something that we can all agree on😹🐶💖

[@balanagargoje5636]

Ulu uil)l🤗😑😇😑😑😑😇🤗😘ff re

[@thirdie2456]

what you do for profession? victoria: i make weird noise to dogs

[@whomcares8736]

Third Harmony and it works

[@papageo9812]

@@whomcares8736 perfectly

[@alexgava2086]

BAPBAPBUPBUPBAP

[@LolaRabbit]

Lilly is so smart. She learns so fast

[@Norah0325]

The way she attacks the mail

[@yaniragarcia8329]

As a kid I had a bichon frise. He was one of the smartest dogs I ever knew. He was easy to train and even helped train the dog we got after him. Unfortunately, the dog we got after him was kidnapped while they were outside. When it happened Our bichon frise (who didn’t bark) ran inside barking a storm. There was an infant in the house at the time and even when the baby chased our dog, pulled his tail, or tried to grab him our dog behaved very friendly. Bichon frises are wonderful dogs, they just need training like any other dog

[@melodijordan]

I wouldn't train a bichon, they are very smart, does anyone know they even know how to count?

[@litchtheshinigami8936]

jordan s well there are tons of dog breeds that are really smart..

[@zoedark7101]

Children should never tease dogs

[@myahobbswunsche9806]

Yanira Garcia ya I had one too, she was very well behaved I still really miss her even tho it’s been 5 years

[@feraflauna3238]

+Yanira Garcia-I had one myself so I know that bichon frise are larger than life dogs with huge personalities. They are extremely smart, they often even know this and pride themselves over how smart they are, but they are so sweet and undyingly loyal to you. It was pretty clear to me early on some of the obvious mistakes the owners were making: treating Lilly as a toy. No dog ever likes to be treated as a toy-something you can dress up and parade around. Not disciplining or correcting Lilly's poor behavior-the mom went to great lengths to cover up Lilly peeing and pooping in the house rather than discipling Lilly for bad behavior. So if Lilly is not checked on this behavior, naturally, as any other 'kid', they'll continue doing it. Bichon frise are very intelligent but very energetic dogs that do need a lot of stimulation. . .it's likely the family mostly kept her in the house, even before Lilly's poor behavior got so far out of control, they didn't want to walk her anywhere. . .Naturally, with that pent up boredom, Lilly lashed out and sought to entertain herself. No matter what she could find-eventually, she focused on tearing up the mail. And because dogs are smart and they do pick up on things like the fact the dad didn't want anything to do with her, Lilly became even more of a momma's girl and sought to seek out her mother's attention in any way she could. And it's likely that excessive barking was due to a combination of unbearable boredom AND trying to seek out attention the way she as a dog knew how to. .. Too often on this show, it all comes down to one thing: poor "parenting." Lack of discipline and also lack of structure. Dogs naturally want to please, they want to make their owners happy and nothing pleases them more. . .You don't have to be mean or cruel to discipline a dog. You just have to be firm and consistent. And of course, give your dog lots of love and playtime. Just basically, be a good parent. Because spoiled/unruly dogs are not too far removed from spoiled/unruly children and it doesn't take much for either in order for even the dog/child to be happier and healthier for a more structured house.

[@mokimon5079]

Damn Victoria if u ever need a stunt double use Claudia

[@alext8020]

Not at all.

[@TM-mc3zn]

No way

[@anaao9550]

Sometimes I was confused who was who 😆

[@216trixie]

They look like twins.

[@elisasmith3001]

I think it's because of the hair color and hairstyle that they look similar.

[@gracelavin2185]

I feel so bad for the cat. I'm so glad Victoria trained Lily!

[@ericpaulmendoza2261]

Oh come on, the cat is a paid stunts cat!

[@julissagarza267]

me: *eating pizza* them: *zoom in on poo*

[@mayflower1139]

Hehehe... as i watch a lot of these shows i knew it was coming and could take my eyes away...

[@madii4735]

Lol

[@leaheneix8597]

Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@user-pw8qy8nl5h]

I'm eatting pizza right now

[@anastasia-cs8mv]

PenileAugmentation Same i dont get grossed out by videos/pics

[@havanese37]

My two favorite episodes on It's Me or the Dog is Teddy Pompom and Lily. Wish Animal Planet brought this show back. I never missed it. I don't watch Animal Planet any more since most of their programming is not about animals but fish tanks, swimming pools, tree house construction. Animal Planet is in the toilet as far as I'm concerned. I love Victoria's training.

[@angeldavis3619]

True! I only watch pitbulls and parolees

[@lieutmich7681]

Hey whats wrong with aquariums? I just dont watch cause if tree jouse and construction its not even ANIMAL planet anymore so i agree

[@TrophiesNclips]

Agreed loved animal precinct

[@punkcrocs7202]

My faves probs Demon Husky and Food Theif Dalmation ( Deisel & Pongo)

[@douglasgriffiths3534]

Animal Precinct and Animal Cops were the best!! Also Emergency Vets was great too. We don't watch Animal Planet any more either. It's more People Planet nowadays. @@TrophiesNclips

[@smuj007]

I used to think my dog was not well behaved but then I discovered this account. He's an angel to me now.

[@The-Determined-Ninja]

I love it when he just laughs awkwardly and it fades away... 😂

[@suckonmycroissant8480]

Such an intelligent dog, really just needed some more exercise and stimulation

[@feraflauna3238]

+Nej Tak-And in almost every single episode of this series, very little needed to be done in order for the dogs to improve. In Lilly's case, all she really ever needed was just some more exercise, stimulation, more playtime and love from the rest of the family, and for her "mom" to stop treating her like a fashion doll. That's it. Small changes like that are really simple, easy to start and maintain, and even improve the quality of life not only with the dog but the rest of the family. Unfortunately, it takes a lot of owners far too long to even WANT to implement these simple changes, if they ever do at all. But if you actually put in some actual EFFORT, these things are not too hard to where often, with dogs behaving badly. . .very little needs to be changed in order for them to be far happier and fulfilled.

[@suckonmycroissant8480]

@@feraflauna3238 Exactly

[@Harmonikdiskorde]

Claudia really wants a daughter so she tried to have a dogter.

[@leslindsouza7758]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sophiagomez5619]

She brings a framed picture of the dog with her to the hotel...

[@NikkieRoxxx]

Nice word play!!!

[@neriumsuitedher]

But what she actually needs is a doctor.

[@lilybellapink6171]

Haha.. nice one

[@marambaron]

I just love Lilly. She’s hysterical. Way to go, Lilly!

[@justsomerand0]

3:06 is hands down the best nervous laugh I have ever heard lmao I laughed so hard poor guy XD

[@kkaebsongsehuniee7225]

TwiMex1125 😅😅😅

[@soul7530]

I thought the same 😂😂

[@cautiousdemon]

Me too. XD

[@andysshanghailife6595]

3:18

[@samanthafarmer633]

Same! 😂😂

[@approachingetterath9959]

i wished i could be so shameless around other people when training my dog. i just love how Victoria doesn't mind making weird noises while dragging a dog behind her, or shouting around in a park like a crazy person 😂

[@lolwutathon]

I'm a postie and I've lost track of the amount of times I've heard a dog shred the mail when I put it through the letterbox. Getting a cage for behind the box or even an outside box is always a good idea when your dog likes eating letters....

[@barbaraallen8439]

Is anyone else bing watching these videos 🤣😂❤️ It’s addicting

[@TheResistance8969]

Yeah I dont even have a dog😂

[@debbiearchibald8667]

I don't have a dog either but I love to see the little miracles that Victoria does with dog behaviours.

[@TheAoichibi]

Yeeeees! And all I have are cats... 😂😂😂

[@K1rby-_-111]

It gets me every time people under estimate their dogs, read up on the breed you are getting. Not just a cloud!

[@cookieundertherock1035]

it is silly that the father wouldn't walk the dog at first because it was "girly", but the most important thing is that he was WILLING to change and he did. So if you don't mind, I think it's time to stop judging him and look at the positive outcome.

[@joypomeroy1452]

He should have used his own empathy (or lack thereof) to change in the first place. It shouldn't take a dog trainer to tell you what your wife has been trying to tell you the whole time. She should leave him.

[@cookieundertherock1035]

@@joypomeroy1452 well...I feel like leaving him at this point would be useless as the problem he has had been resolved. I do agree with you that this shouldn't have been an issue in the first place, but it was. I mean the wife wasn't making the situation any easier by pampering the dog to the max, but that really shouldn't have labeled it as "girly" or whatever. I just think at this point since the problem has been solved and both people have bettered themselves, divorce would be a pointless, extremely painful and messy process.

[@intellectualrebel5340]

@@cookieundertherock1035 This guy is toxic to the family. Also a bad role model for his sons. It would be better for everyone.

[@Br0nto5aurus]

It's not "silly", it's misogynistic and giving in and walking the dog doesn't mean he isn't still a misogynist. That's why no one is letting him off the hook for his behavior, not because of what it was (not walking the dog), but because of where it came from (misogyny and toxic masculinity).

[@mrsbrightside.]

just because he changed doesn't mean we can't critique it. a lot of men have fragile masculinity issues and take it out on others in the form of misogyny and in this case, refusing to care for his dog. it's important to acknowledge it and discuss it and not just brush the issues aside

[@BerkyNoah]

This is how many people like dogs ⬇️

[@mads1686]

I think Victoria is a very good dog trainer and I'm very surprised that the adults got on so quickly because for most people there pets really are like there children.

[@Cheshiregrinn91]

Lily is such a clever dog. So easy to train! She will be able to do so many tricks. Dancing Lily gives me life.

[@user-jw7ss7bx7k]

The cat just had enough of his/her life being disturb by Lilly everytime

[@sunnie6]

Lilly*

[@user-jw7ss7bx7k]

@@sunnie6 I just changed it. Thx :D

[@asiaaaaaaaaaa]

Yall really needed to close up on the poop I just wanna have my oreo cereal in peace :(

[@tamaramonster9027]

"Dogs need dicipline and structure. They need a leader" So do kids, Victoria, so do kids.

[@nirvana9968]

5:02 thanks for that close up, really what I needed

[@ItsMeortheDog]

You're welcome

[@ohhlexi9464]

😂😂😂

[@megaygirl1804]

Savage

[@sel7547]

It's Me or the Dog LMAOO YOU REPLIED

[@blackvelvetistherevolution4494]

It's Me or the Dog “you’re welcome” HAHAHAHA

[@jayj5535]

I love how she schools the dad on the dog being girly. She doesn't break gaze and the guy gets served

[@frostdragon64]

Barking queen! There's no peace, It's the owners fault, oh yeah! You can bark! You can scream! There will be no sleep tonight! Ooh! See that bork! Hear that bork! Digging the Barking Queen!

[@krithiksankar4395]

How the hell is Victoria Stilwell 50 years old!!!!

[@ultraboombean]

This show is 10-15 years old

[@poisonivy745]

Love it, this lady brought a picture of her dog while she was away at the hotel? Gold!

[@ElaAusDemTal]

Someone is insecure in his masculinity 😄😄😄 I loved Victoria running through the park 🔊 "A guy with a bichon frisé". PS: Claudia reminds me of Bebe Neuwirth from "Cheers" / "Frazier".

[@xxoxwillowxoxx643]

@mario cast lmaooo pathetic af, its a dog

[@10ksubswithoutanyvideoscha42]

Lilly looks so happy and cute when she smiles.

[@theahaberman8189]

I loved watching the dad have to admit that Lilly is smart. THAT'LL TEACH YOU TO UNDERESTIMATE THE LADIES! 😂💪

[@tekrimar9332]

Is it just me or does the trainer and Claudia look like twins 😂🤔

[@magicmoonart]

It's not just you, as I watched it, I was like "I bet no one else picks up on it, but they even dressed very similar when they were both out walking the dog, both times!

[@tekrimar9332]

And both have bangs

[@kamifleece3731]

IKR

[@Liz-yw9vr]

Maybe that's why Victoria had her hair down instead of up like usual!🤔🧐

[@carolinex2390]

I kept getting confused who was walking Lilly

[@danielledewitt1]

RIP mail.

[@Pippylova]

That's what lily certainly did! Lol

[@douglasgriffiths3534]

They should have put a basket under the mail slot. But no point now; Lily leaves it alone.

[@samanthagolding3876]

I'm not going to lie. I didn't know how intelligent that dog breed actually is. Look how quickly she learns. I see now that these pups are much more intelligent than what their appearance make them seem. They look like the kind that's mostly just to be treated like a doll, which I'm sure many of the owners do. They're definitely underestimated when it comes to intelligence. I'm very impressed.

[@WajidAliJAFRI-uv4xe]

The dog with the mail is a whole mood

[@iwasverybored5713]

i fell down a rabbit hole watching these and Victoria is so amazing its crazy also what he said about it being a girls dog was the dumbest thing ive heard from an adult MAN in my life

[@yelenavanderlist5135]

Seriously am I the only on how sees that she is a super nanny for dogs

[@gabagaba7144]

Yelena van der List I say that every time I see people say she’s the Gordon Ramsey of Dogs!

[@Laura-Yu]

No you’re not the only one.

[@sadbeautifultragic013]

Yep, she is! It’s where she got the idea from, and she pitched it to the show runners of Supernanny.

[@briannafraser9142]

We have a Bichon too and beside he barks always ...sleeps in my sisters bed...He is perfect. He works as a therapiedog in a home for old people

[@rrajeevy]

I got a Bichon poodle mix and my friends were roasting me but then they spent 5 mins with her and loved her. Great breed!!

[@Edith.G.G.]

I love the energy and enthusiasm of Victoria! I want to be like her when I grow up 😜 (I'm 28)

[@melonbar1042]

she’s amazing!

[@doggo1971]

XD

[@iamvia9749]

Yeah she seems so cool. I wish I was that good with dogs :D How can she be so amazing?

[@sunnie6]

That guy won’t walk that dog because its a girly looking dog. My 6’1 dad walks an apple head teacup chihuahua (if you dont know what they look like, look it up. They are small, smaller than that dog.)

[@matilde4387]

Ethan Groß no, alpha males aren’t afraid to show femininity because they are confident in themselves. If a man can’t walk a dog because it’s girly he is insecure and certainly not an alpha

[@emmavansluis1108]

6'1 is not tall

[@isabelblah6105]

Looked it up....It really doesn't seem like a healthy responsible breed

[@monke2229]

@@isabelblah6105 yeah most teacup dogs dont live longer than a couple years, its quite sad

[@ultraboombean]

@@emmavansluis1108 the average male height if like 5 ft 9, so yeah 6 ft 1 is tall

[@deannak1841]

This is clearly an original episode.... N I love it! Good on Victoria for putting that mouthy man back on HIS OWN MANNERS, it "scared you a bit"... What from a little "girlie dog" 🤣 I love to think of her as proper but clearly she's a OG Gangsta 😂

[@bethanylisk3058]

Bichons are my favorite breed & incredible little dogs if you actually know how to take care of them or a dog in general.

[@cube2root802]

Lily can learn commands so quickly. That mean the dog is easy to train, the difficulty from training the owners.

[@yourbandsux]

I cracked up in laughter when he was saying I’m afraid to ask her if it’s the dog or me that stays, he started laughing and quickly it to turn a realization as him going “ahh...”

[@RyleeCoyote13]

Omfg I *LOVE* Victoria *SO* *MUCH* 😂 "Look everybody!! He's walking a Bichon Frise!!!" 😂

[@tessjones5987]

Adorable smart turn around in such a quick time. Lilly is so dear.

[@JT-xo8xi]

Damn, the dad won’t walk the dog because “It’s a girl’s dog” and his “masculinity” is in terrible jeopardy. Wow.

[@LoriFahy]

my dog sleeps on the bottom of my bed, but she doesnt wake me at all, she waits for me to wake up in the morning. I suffer from chronic illness and anxiety, so having my dog with me helps me sleep.

[@bambiebambie2706]

They're like a twin.

[@ralucadudescu]

Victoria is a treasure! She really helped this difficult dog and its family.

[@ihhssaann]

It's so amazing how quickly these dogs can be trained- it really shows you that the dog isn't the problem, the owners are. Don't just get a dog- learn how to train and properly care for them.

[@AK-nd9io]

Just ten years ago and toxic masculinity was so awful they wouldn't even walk a dog that seemed "girly" lmao jfc, also that other man from Diesel the husky episode

[@pipbread5637]

In the Pugsley episode the dude literally said "cutting my dog's balls off is cutting my balls off, and I'm not letting you cut my balls off". Toxic masculinity is so laughable lmao they take all these precautions to seem tough but it just shows how insecure they are

[@peachylavender]

LastTram 90 I’ve only watched a few episodes of this show so far but fragile masculinity seems to be a common theme with how a lot of these guys feel about their dogs

[@cyberkkult]

peachy lavender yep but this was 10 years ago soooo

[@literallygaston2489]

Betsy Lee Do you really think toxic masculinity is something that can disappear after a decade? It’s existed for centuries, sure we made some progress but that doesn’t mean the problem is solved. Men are still judged for not being “manly enough”.

[@cyberkkult]

KosmicznaKoneko dude, I was just saying. God you don’t gotta argue lmao I was just saying

[@Goosy0825]

Your walking down the street and u hear this: *BEEEP BOOP BOOOP BOOOOP BOOOP BOOP BEEP BOOP BEEEP!*

[@lewisjones85]

Victoria whips every dog into shape in about 10 minutes they should show these videos to people before they are allowed a dog

[@XxBrittany20xX]

Wow. My bichon never acted like that. He was quiet and gentle. Never a problem

[@EvelineUK]

That's because it's not so much the breed but the owners.

[@hububdub8716]

xXBrittany20Xx bichon’s are real angels if taken care of and looked after properly

[@drhayenlapid4797]

Can I ask how much you bought it?

[@XxBrittany20xX]

@@drhayenlapid4797 bought my dog? He was a rescue. So he didnt cost alot. Got him from the shelter at a year old

[@sanja1489]

All the bichons I've ever met were super sweet. They're not lapdogs though, they need their walks and activity.

[@alki114]

4:57 this is so gross why are they zooming in? 5:02 again?! 5:17 whyyyy

[@ceciliaw1065]

lmao my reactions exactly

[@dailyorangepill3338]

Reality Dog! 💩

[@NikkieRoxxx]

Realty check for these Who wantxa dog

[@signil]

I am not a dog person but this breed has my interest now. She really is smart! :)

[@Lovinia1]

“I don’t mind if she eats the bills.” Fair statement Also, doesn’t Claudia and Victoria look related

[@bethmcfarland9790]

The man’s laugh sounds so insecure and awkward, like he’s smart or too good enough for these types of people. Or he’s just too masculine to be in a house with a “girl dog.” XD

[@bethmcfarland9790]

Wow, 36+ people agree. Dang 😂😂

[@ReinhartSchneider]

The fact that you and hundreds of other triggered women immediately rushed to the comments to make these observations because your female ego was wounded by his comments is much more insecure than anything anyone does in this video.