Social Media Dangers Documentary - Childhood 2.0

[@DevonnyDX]

i don't even have kids and I'm worried about my kids future

[@BarkTechnologies]

It's definitely shocking to learn about their reality, but we hope this film helps parents better understand what their kids are going through.

[@DevonnyDX]

@@BarkTechnologies Absolutely!

[@SavannahSedai]

DevonnyX mine are little and I do too. What will all of this look like in 7-10 years when I am going to tell my kids “no. Go play outside.” Ughhhh they will hate me lol

[@FayCreative]

Lol me too! Tech, covid nwo, pollution, etc ....

[@benwil1715]

....nice!!...

[@OfficialTumblers]

Can we take a second to appreciate how this whole video is ad free 😧

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thank you so much for your support! We’re grateful we could help others by making this free to watch. We were so glad to share our expertise with the filmmakers, and we believe this documentary can really help parents understand what their kids are going through as they navigate growing up in this digital age. We're always here if you need us! ❤️ - bark.us/contact

[@masumbasith5892]

You sure you don't have the premium feature

[@itskyra4862]

Yess right

[@Roadent1241]

@@masumbasith5892 I'm on regular YT and there's no ads I can see. It's not like it's difficult though, you just don't advertise your stuff. Easy peasy.

[@ramraghunathan947]

Fantastic video.

[@rickpadilla3303]

We are the family featured in the documentary who lost their son Jack. Since we lost Jack we have been involved in multiple advocacy efforts to address this issue. We can't thank the producers enough for undertaking this project. Please have the conversation with your kids, we don't want another family to experience the pain we have. Thank you. Jackstrong17!!

[@BarkTechnologies]

Padilla Family, our hearts and thoughts are with you. 💔 We thank you for bravely sharing about the loss of your handsome son, Jack, to help to educate other families, and for your continued efforts and advocacy. Our hope is that no families have to experience this kind of loss and pain. Please let us know anytime how we may help, the Bark family is here for you! 💛 - bark.us/contact

[@insocal4891]

I’m so sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing such painful experience for the good of others. He had such beautiful eyes, May God’s comfort be with you.

[@sarahhumphreys3980]

So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. That must have been so painful for you💗

[@Saffronlily]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story and Jack with us. Arohanui (big love) from Aotearoa, NZ 💛💛💛

[@Lizzyscloset]

May god rest his soul into heavenly peace and may Christ bless you with a wonderful joyous life 💚

[@jasonleon1976]

Im an 80s kid. I actually feel privileged to have experienced childhood before this madness.

[@ROMA--AETERNA]

Totally with you!! 👍🏼

[@clvsidy]

envy you unfortunately I’m a 2000s kid so I lived through the social media era

[@ROMA--AETERNA]

@@clvsidy, regardless, just learn what to do and what not to do; when you have children, _use parental controls._

[@palladium607]

Me too

[@Sambocha]

i was born in 2009, but luckily my childhood was very technology free. all i ever did with screens was play video games and watch tv. for that i am forever grateful to my mom

[@zeea6507]

Life away from social media is more peaceful.

[@mosywilliams8458]

It probably is, because being on it can make one compare their profile to another. If one person gets less likes or comments then soneone else. They may view themselves differently. But it's a social profile that should not fully define a person.

[@jesuslovesu5508]

Until we grow restless and have to comment on you tube

[@mahmouddia261]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍☕☕☕☕☕

[@joolshools]

TRUTH

[@hellojimmyjimmy]

This isn’t just about the youth. This is for everyone using the net. This happens to everyone.

[@dianevanderlinden3480]

Yup. I just started dating again (I am way past teen-aged) and will not use dating apps. Sorry! Even guys old enough to be grandpas send me pictures of their junk, or have no desire to actually date. Everything is hookup first, like you’re just a walking sex organ. These poor kids!!

[@kfarm3858]

Diane Vanderlinden right!? The dating apps r something I refuse to take part in! I’ve heard horror stories! I set one up for one day (1 day because u couldn’t delete ur account for 24 hrs) and all I got was “hookup” advances and penis pics🤦🏼‍♀️ so disturbing and really freaked me out!

[@BarkTechnologies]

Definitely! ❤️

[@dianevanderlinden3480]

@@kfarm3858 It’s definitely soul-crushing out there. I’ll use my ‘social time’ to strengthen my friendships, write music, and start my own business or something. That energy has to go somewhere good or I swear I’ll disintegrate. Stay strong! A female friend of mine is still on Tinder, even though she’s had horrific experiences, like a guy trying to keep her from leaving his apartment. I don’t get it. I told her to watch that movie ‘Looking for Mr Goodbar.’ My aunt told me to watch it when I got my first apartment. Scared the crap out of me.

[@juliaarambula3153]

Diane Vanderlinden so true!! The unpopular thing to say is keep your closed. But, it goes a long way when you do. Online dating is a glorified meat market. It’s so annoying to get the disgusting pics or “hey sexy” as the first words. No class or respect. Then when you check them they are out.

[@alessadolan5718]

I'm 16 and i don’t have social media, i quit social media 3 months ago to focus on my self and do the things i like instead of scrolling my phone for 4 hours. My social anxiety completely disappeared after quitting it and i think i still would have social anxiety if i didn’t quit, i do things like roller skate, paint, draw, play on my nintendo switch, talk hours and hours with my parents, dance and meditate. Seeing the people around my age so distracted hurts me, when we go outside to take fresh air in school all my friends do is check their phones even littlest things. Also the kids around my age act sexual and they also very social awkward and so insecure about something or their selfs. I just want to live a life that i enjoyed quitting social media was the best thing ever ✨✨🌻

[@jennymarie2603]

Wow I’m so proud of you!!! Keep it up. You are different in a very good way which is so unique.

[@melissaray6840]

Good choice!

[@kfarm3858]

This makes me smile so big!!! U are a very bright young person with the world ahead of you! I know it’s hard to see your peers in the trap but keep leading my example and tell them why ur so happy:) maybe they will b encouraged to do the same

[@philindeblanc]

How did you become aware of needing to do this, and what steps did you start taking? Thank you!!!

[@bluntzb444lunch]

Be careful with meditation that occult/new age stuff can get really dark believe it or not. Other than that quitting social media was a great decision on your end ^^

[@verena9911]

I had to delete social media now (I'm 21) because it damaged me mentally and physically... i hope more people will notice that it's more harm than good

[@acw079]

I left facebook and now i removed all my friends from instagram and im just using apps like reddit and KZbin. Too many peoole putting fake things online. No one even talks in person anymore.

[@evaluna122]

@@acw079same, I feel happier and more productive in my life, social media made me feel like I was behind in dating and it was the root cause of my porn addiction and desperation in life, I know it’s just in our phones but it plays a big part in our life’s when we have social media, I’ve also seen who my true friends are

[@abidv.0.1]

I uninstalled 😊

[@Yohanyothan]

Great choice. I’m currently minimizing my online presence and engagement, and it is changing my life in the best way possible.

[@carlos41519]

And what abt yt? This is social media yk

[@terryb0i]

It drives me nuts when I see a parent pushing baby in a stroller and the baby is watching a video on a phone!!!! Wth!! That really breaks my heart for some reason!

[@helenrogers1400]

I agree. Very sad. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🇺🇸

[@dissendiums]

...for some reason, 🤔

[@JennyAmigo31]

Me too!!! It’s such pathetic parenting!!!

[@marypoole6064]

Time to go back to Free Range Children//Free Range Parents//Not New Age Helicoptor Parents//New Age Cult !!!

[@kfarm3858]

I used to work in kids club at the gym and so many parents would come in and ask if the kid could bring their iPad in. I said “and what? Sit in the corner and not socialize with other kids? NO WAY!” Wtf🤦🏼‍♀️ I feel so bad for these young generations! I can’t imagine!

[@bruh-wc1gs]

I’m 14, I grew up with the internet. I’ve grown up seeing disgusting stuff on the internet, stuff that scarred me for a few years. If I ever have kids, i’m not letting them on the internet for sure.

[@BarkTechnologies]

We are so sorry to hear you've experienced this. 💔 We know there are many dangers and concerns online, but it can also be a very useful tool as well. It's great that you are educating yourself; awareness is so important! Stay safe. 💛

[@emaanahsansarfraz1940]

Hello! How is everyone? If anyone needs someone to listen, someone to talk to, or a friend. I am here to talk, listen, and be a friend. Know that you are amazing and have rights as a human. You are incredible and are capable of wonders. Love yourself and cherish yourself. Please have appropriate action for anything that you know is wrong. Anything that seems bad or wrong in your life right now will get better. Please don't do what is wrong, fighting back and harming others will not solve the problem. Please understand that and do the good thing. It will one day come back to you. The people in the world are so much more than what we know about them, not everyone opens up about the beautiful things and acts they have witnessed, not all those amazing doings are acknowledged. Please understand that and know that. If you feel like no one cares about you, know that I care about you. Together, we can be a better community. Stay safe, healthy, happy, kind, understanding, positive and strong!

[@derinaries]

@Bruh. Then you will have to home school them because schools use the net to teach. It is sad how kids actually need a computer for school.

[@meteorstorm415]

@@derinaries It's not sad it's the education system evolving/adapting to be streamlined, especially with covid. The internet is primarily used to help make projects and experiments in school with information not as easily found or accessed in libraries or parents.

[@CelesteAnise]

@@destryedbyhippiepwrs There is never a ruined life you can start living the life you want. Every day is a new start and time you start over.

[@rocker99908]

All parents should be required to watch this documentary

[@kiki_1220]

Just sent to my mom, we’ll see

[@zyzyx4157]

Everybody should be

[@janetmaldonado]

Amen I agree 👍 😊

[@VinceTomJones]

Or sterilised...

[@KatelinCleveland97]

My parents still don’t know about anything on the internet cause back in the 50s and 70s there was no internet

[@jdegrulo]

I am 26 years old and I experienced both the “when the lights turn on, get inside” and the birth stages of social media (middle school) to what it is now. I have fell victim to most of the topics discussed in the video and realized IN THE MOMENT and in hindsight that what I did was wrong. I believe deleting social media for months and months can really put life into perspective and that you aren’t an outsider looking in. Take a break every once in a while. It’s okay to be “out of the loop” because life still goes on. Stay safe 👍🏼

[@fuzzypanda1684]

I'm about a decade older than you and had a similar experience. But for me, the social media takeover didn't start until after I'd graduated college and was struggling immensely to find meaningful work. In the early days of SM, I struggled and failed to build any kind of following and focused instead on more improving my in person interactions, general knowledge, and real world skills. If only I'd known how integral having a SM presence was going to be to networking, and integrating with companies and the industry you're in. I never focused on, or managed to do that, and it feels like I've been completely left behind. I would say that I was born too early to fully amalgamate with SM, and too late to gain footing with the more antiquated skills of in person interactions, but I have friends born in the same era as me who are thriving in both. So unfortunately, that is an excuse that cannot be supported by the evidence displayed by my peers. Instead, I must accept the fact that the problem lies somewhere with me. I suppose what I'm saying is, delete your SM with caution, as it is the key to success in the modern world.

[@missylks1239]

Remember when social media when plain and boring? MySpace with no photos. No like button. Just like a bizarre, boring, version of twitter without emojis, retweets or likes?

[@BenSmith-jw8zy]

The loop spins faster and farther downward the more you let it. It will isolate you and take your confidence if you allow it. Even attempting to stay "in the loop" is a mistake. Create your OWN loop and make IRL relationships, or you will wind up a hermit with no friends. I spent years isolated in front of screens, using drugs for synthetic happiness, it is truly endless unless YOU step out and get real friends who care about you, then once u have friends, social media will just be a fun escape for a few minutes to an hour a day, the transition is not easy but definitely worth it. Edit: and of course use social media as necessary for business, just dont put your happiness or hopes in it. It doesnt deliver.

[@shuffman8094]

You’re my sons age and agree he was able to enjoy those years as well.

[@ciaraskeleton]

I'm exactly your age and I feel the same. I remember the switch and I look back now and wonder how I came out okay. Internet safety is such a modern concept and it changes constantly with the advance of technology. Our parents couldn't possibly keep up, nor could our schools. It was the wild. I stopped using social media for 6 months last year and since then I use it very rarely. I'll post on holidays and like a few family posts. That's it. I feel like I'm getting my childhood back as an adult. When I stopped using my phone I found out I could paint, I took up guitar and piano again (I'd neglected them for years), I started writing and being productive. Not just that but in my down time I do slow activities like reading or drawing. It feels like a sort of sobriety, you gain so much of yourself back when you stop putting energy into your phone+social media. ❤

[@raissa4260]

Learn to give children the gift of "NO". Its called discipline today and they will thank you tomorrow

[@onlyswedishmeatballs1677]

Count me out boomer, I called quits after I seen this video. I have already said when I have kids no tech till mid teens, but now yeah my mind has changed, it’s about moderation and TEACHING ABOUT PRIVACY AND SECURITY I’m in IT and missing kids are missing out on valuable information at a young age is an issue more kids actually need to learn a lot about tech right now. Theirs a SERIOUS privacy issue, very few adults can teach it, coming from someone who’s in the generation Z the generation being shown in the video as we are the youngest generation that has been categorized atm.

[@Laura-Yu]

@@onlyswedishmeatballs1677 Lol “boomer” spoken like a child. You know there’s a difference between “tech” and “social media”? Your argument has a faulty basis.

[@onlyswedishmeatballs1677]

@@Laura-Yu ok, your opinion is not one I care about, technology is young as you can tell by the video, so your lack of knowledge of technology is far greater than mine, but heck you keep using you iPhone and android phone, if I had to guess your probably from China, a country the dictates what you see and do, if not well based on everyones lack of knowledge and how easy it is to take out an entire banking network, you'll be led into a world owned by technology, because at this rate I don't see privacy existing, have fun cause it's been proven people don't do things in front of others when they know there being watch and people perform much better when watched, so that is a future your trusting the brainless boomers to regulate. Nothing to hide, well then you must not have anything to say, thier for you have no need for freedom of speech You should just type out all the passwords to all your accounts in the comments if you have nothing to hide.

[@TheGamerRedline]

@@Laura-Yu Faulty Basic omggg big word !1!1!1!1!1?1!1?1!1?2!202.11?1!1?1?1?1!

[@rameshmishu2020]

Learn to give children the gift of "NO". It's called discipline today and they will thank you tomorrow...

[@ivmpnst]

It's not just social media, it's loss of human connection. Everyone is busy, busy, busy and constantly distracted and has no time whatsoever for any meaningful relationship with a friend. It is so sad!

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thanks for watching! We certainly hope you found the movie helpful! We feel every family should have access to such important information about raising a kid in the digital age, so please feel free to share with friends and family. We're always here if you need us! ❤️

[@Catstimesinfinity]

I was personally just starting to get a grasp of human connection just before the pandemic. In Feb of last year, I met some really great people. Sadly they didn't keep in touch since we haven't been able to see each other and now I am back to where I was. Walking in the dark with my arms extended, trying to find the way... but I'm still walking.

[@raresabraleaks8216]

relationships don’t have more meaning than clout bro

[@selenasherman245]

We all need to SLOW DOWN!

[@pongchannel.]

The internet can be very helpful but it can also hurt it really depends on the person (which yes it's way to much pressure on a child) but I am 16 and most of the problems I haven't delt with and I had a phone for a while. There are still people how want human connections you just have to seek them out.

[@emilyrefici9850]

As a fifteen year old myself, this document has brought me to tears. It put everything I wanted to say into words, Thank you.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Wow, thank you, Emily. We're so glad it helped you. We appreciate you watching. Reach out if we can ever be of help! 💜 - [e-mail]

[@smiley2477]

Take of the mask, put up the phone, and take a small group of friends and hang out outside

[@mattlogan1344]

Just learn that likes and social media isn't really important understand that high school becomes a thing of the past. One thing that helps me get through hard times is I always just think to myself 🤔.. I can't wait for the next 2 weeks to pass and this will all be over

[@doratheexplorer5354]

@@smiley2477 Doing this when the Pandemic is over.

[@g-hazygaming1938]

Plant the seeds of truth....mankind needs that.

[@Uzmaa_Tabassum]

My parents never allowed me to use internet unnecessarily. It was only during covid when I got my first phone for attending online classes and I was 19 at that time . Kudos to them for protecting me from these online dangers all these years ❤

[@maritime-anagram-diceware-mama]

Wow, that’s so interesting. I can’t imagine growing up like that. Can I ask if you live in the west or elsewhere in the world? Did your classmates ever poke fun at you for not having a phone or being online, or was that seen as more normal? ❤

[@Liapjr]

Dangers such?

[@whatthesigmaW]

did you even watch the video or are you just slow@@Liapjr

[@BriGomez-rg2tp]

@@Liapjrdidn't you watch the documentary?

[@amandasullen91]

My 19 yr old son and my 14yr old daughter are the only kids at their school without a phone. They do not get made fun of, theyre happier and dont have to endure the anxiety and drama others are enduring. They LIVE life, not watch it.

[@ysfhero]

Kids are the future. If we dont do something now, the future is darker than we can imagine. This is increadibly depressing.

[@frogsong207]

Yes, but this documentary is the start of a long road that we must all walk together as a human species. The kids are indeed our future and now is the time to assess the cost benefit analysis of having these tech devices available to kids from an early age. Vision problems along with emotionally stunted growth are negatives. Not to mention the time wasted on social media when human lifespan is finite, time is precious!

[@delrosario7453]

Parents can take control to do something about it such as limiting access and restricting use because if you provide and pay for technology then you are in charge of it too

[@KevinKurzsartdisplay]

The future is already dark, I hate the future!

[@millaewelina3893]

@@KevinKurzsartdisplay damn who hurt you

[@KevinKurzsartdisplay]

@@millaewelina3893, in the future, we’l be living in the dark ages, in our lifetimes, that’s a fact. It’s sad that so many people don’t realize what’s happening, no one is willing to stand up and go against the shitty government because they’re just too fucking stupid, dumbed down by society, sad. If I were you, I’d worry about it. If you think life sucks these days, it’s nothing compared to what’s coming towards us so you better be enjoying your last days in paradise until our western culture falls.

[@madisonm64]

i am 10 years old almost 11 i wanted social media to get validation im now will work on deleteing all the social media i have thank you.

[@emaanahsansarfraz1940]

Hello! How is everyone? If anyone needs someone to listen, someone to talk to, or a friend. I am here to talk, listen, and be a friend. Know that you are amazing and have rights as a human. You are incredible and are capable of wonders. Love yourself and cherish yourself. Please have appropriate action for anything that you know is wrong. Anything that seems bad or wrong in your life right now will get better. Please don't do what is wrong, fighting back and harming others will not solve the problem. Please understand that and do the good thing. It will one day come back to you. The people in the world are so much more than what we know about them, not everyone opens up about the beautiful things and acts they have witnessed, not all those amazing doings are acknowledged. Please understand that and know that. If you feel like no one cares about you, know that I care about you. Together, we can be a better community. Stay safe, healthy, happy, kind, understanding, positive and strong!

[@AOSMAKAKMS]

Hello I plan on doing this aswell. I plan on growing a channel but that’s nothing much.

[@loiscassels8966]

Good work!

[@afireinhearts1302]

Fantastic!! 👌🍀💕

[@hannahsings517]

I live in a small town In the uk and it’s almost like a time warp, kids out playing all the time, my 7 year old plays on the field next to our house for upwards of 4 hours per day with 6/7 other kids his age,. They play with sticks and ride around on their bikes and it’s amazing. Also most of the kids parents are who I used to play out with myself when I was a child so we all look out for each other’s kids. I feel very blessed to live where I do.

[@BarkTechnologies]

That sounds like an incredible place, Hannah. Thank you for sharing it with us. Take care! ❤️

[@kirstijeggo5970]

I’m British but been in Perth a long time ,recently had 3 years in Uk ,my kids played out all the time there ,they don’t seem to do it here

[@1914-x1k]

Yes,you are truly blessed. So many American communities are in turmoil! I am so grateful that my son is raising his daughters and son to have a healthy fear and respect for the internet and Social Media,meaning it can be the best and worst tool in their lives. I appreciate the fact that he encourages his children to play outdoors,i.e.riding bikes,hop-scotch,while inside during inclement weather, arts & crafts,board games, reading, making-up telling stories ,playing office worker,supermarket and even playing inside of cardboard boxes,which is the two year olds favorite!!!My favorite that I share with them, are nature walks to teach and observe Gods creation and the beauty of it, which is for our enjoyment. So they are truly balanced. There is a time for everything under the sun and the internet,in his family is totally the least important actually ranking last on the totem pole. As parents and guardians,we are our children's very first line of defense!!! Our children are a gift from our creator and he has given us the greatest responsibility to raise and care for them as a rare PRICELESS GEM. So,WE must be aware of ALL DANGERS and protect them. We also must learn the art of LISTENING to our young ones,believe them,trust them but most of all LOVE THEM UNCONDITIONALLY.

[@nicheleloh2893]

That's always cool! That's how I raised my children in a suburbs in USA and they would all ride bikes, play baseball, soccer! I did feel safe and so we're they🤗!

[@1914-x1k]

@@ggrother539 Oh my goodness,so well said. I really love your comment!!!💕

[@yourfavorite7518]

I was born in 2001, and I still remember a childhood w/o social media. I never really liked sitting down watching tv. My mom always talks about how I wasn’t a calm kid and I would always jump around and stuff. My first personal smart phone I had it when I was 14. Things really did go downhill after that, I saw things on that phone that someone my age didn’t understand. I’m 22 now and I understand a lot of the stuff that were going on. Grooming, sexualizing etc. wish I had stayed away from social media.

[@jomaw0875]

Parents need to tighten up on the restrictions and supervision of their children, especially with cellphones. Good parenting is not being your kid's best friend.

[@yourfavorite7518]

@@jomaw0875 I agree 100% !!! I used to work at a phones service company. Parents were buying 8 year olds, the latests iPhones. 😭 that would blow my mind. Because when I was 8 the black berry was such a huge deal for us back then. But my parents never thought of buying me one.

[@scorpyloon2182]

I can totally relate. I’m a 2001 kid as well

[@MiaCarter7]

Im in my late 20's watching this, and I myself, am trying to break a social media habit. Social media is very toxic and unfortunatly more addicting than people would like to admit. I'm tired of it.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Hi Mia! Thanks for watching! We support you in your efforts 100%! We know it's not easy to take a break from social media, but it can be much needed at times. Stay safe and be well! ❤️

[@chickwithaguitar6876]

I agree. Watching this video is very helpful.

[@anythingbutASIC]

We could have stopped at flip phones but NO...

[@SocietyKilledTheUnicorn]

I'm in my late 20's too. Wanna trade? 😉😘

[@krustydolphin7130]

Bro just unplug its hard at first. Im in the process. F this meta verse false cyber world

[@Anthony-kj2zj]

"Comparison is the thief of joy." - Roosevelt

[@Anisa-nh5uh]

Yesterday my 9 year old son asked what I did when I was his age. I told him we spent nights at our cousins home, we hiked to various places, we rode bikes, we played cricket, we went on long walks, we built a tree house, we played board games etc. He was so upset that his generation doesn't even do those things that he teared up.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Awwh, Anisa. Thanks for sharing. 💜 As the first generation to raise children with an abundance of digital technology, it can be a struggle to find a good balance between the things we did as kids and what kids today are experiencing. We hope these resources will help families navigate through the tough issues. Please let us know how we can help! Childhood2Movie.com

[@carissaa8411]

Maybe encourage him to do those things and he can encourage his friends and they can see how fun it is.

[@electricfishfan]

You need to find other parents who are local and join or start an activity group if your son isn’t experiencing enough. Find a scouts troop or try sports, dance, martial arts, some kind of consistent physical activity. I felt the exact same way and my only cherished outdoor memories are from working, hiking, and meeting new people at scout camps. Please don’t take his sadness lightly! Lack of social cohesion is a very sorrowful thing.

[@donnaedwards2391]

Have you considered doing the activities you grew up as a child with your son? The experience will be a positive one for bonding, development, socialization,😊 and a alternative form of interacting with his friends. He could introduce the

[@TheHonestPeanut]

Sure he did.

[@cantuscycneus8138]

This documentary literally made me cry. As someone who experienced friend's suicide, some sort of bullying over denying dating a guy, having a toxic relationship of my teenage era in which i denied having any sort of sexual things which caused i was cheated on 3 times but couldnt leave, self-harm, searching for suicide discussing topics and groups, making unsafe and dangerous things while seeking for death and making little suicide attempts, being depressed since 13 yo till like 18 without parents helping me but moreover blaming for being sad, being not enough, telling me to go kms, saying "no" when i asked for help and a psychologist help, saying many things that hurt me the most The only thing saved me from searching for attention i rly needed on the social media was strong self-hating, lack of self confidence, being scared of getting hurt by ppl so i started avoiding them and lost communicating ability Now I'm nearly 22, not gonna say about the path i had to do to help myself, but as for now I still don't want to have a children in my life, I'm scared of what the world had done to me, of what it had done to some people i knew and even more people/kids i never knew, but i grew up stronger i could imagine, I'm finally not afraid of saying what I experienced and what i think. There are still many days i feel unsure if I'm worth living, but i try my best even if sometimes it only means lying apathetic in the bed, sometimes even breathing is hard to do, it's okay, it's okay if any of you feel it Please, I'm begging you, never tell anyone to kill themselves, that cuts so deep, don't blame those who send nudes, its non of ur business, blame those who share it with others because they are not trustworthy, don't blame those who dont send nudes because no one has to do things they dont want to and are not ready to do. Please, talk to your children from the very beginning. As for kids, please, be kinder to each other and especially to yourself. Remember, no one deserves the pain, so dont you. Please, don't give up on life even if u feel like that, if you are on the edge, atleast tell youself you will think about it tomorrow, and tomorrow tell it yourself again, and let yourself live for one more day even if its hard. You are enough, you are doing things right even if there are mistakes, its okay, be proud of yourself that u are living, every day you live you move somewhere, even if the future seems dark, maybe it can be the most beatiful starry night and you just have to wait for a little bit more. You are the only "you" in the world, there's no any other "you", no one can take your place, never. Feeling sad is okay, being depressed is okay, asking for help is okay, crying to sleep is okay, making mistakes is okay, feeling emotions is okay, even anger is okay since u are not a machine, but you should control yourself as much as possible sometimes to not hurt urself or anyone else, thats the only thing matters. Sometimes even wasting ur time doing unproductive things is okay if it makes you feel better, dont blame yourself hard. Bullying is not okay, telling someone to die is not, sharing someone's nudes is not. Never blame yourself for something bad someone did to you, it's their fault, not yours. You deserve love, so please become the first one to love and forgive yourself even if it's the hardest thing to do yet ❤. All the things can't be changed in one moment thats why you may not see the difference but there is, step by step it will get better, it must get better. You deserve things to get better. Sorry if there are any mistakes, I'm not native speaker

[@AMITHURL]

Thank you for sharing this.

[@MostBased_]

thank u irly needed to hear that!!! amazing words ill be coming back toread this often

[@donnaedwards2391]

Thank you for sharing. You are a very brave and strong person. ❤ Never forget your strength or ever stop believing in yourself. You are worthy and you will succeed. Always put yourself first. Self-care.

[@Recaptoons-z5y]

Thanks. It takes a heart to write this. You really have a big heart.

[@shirleysmith8565]

❤️🙏🏼❤️

[@urbanrealism237]

To any teens watching this, it's not too late to loosen the tight hold that technology has on us. Go out and enjoy nature enjoy time with the people you love and make memories that are beyond the screen. Let this pandemic be a lesson of how much we're missing out on, once this is over GO OUT AND LIVE! doesn't matter who makes fun of you or thinks you're weird, enjoy yourself.

[@nohemymendez8189]

While I agree with you unfortunately its the parents that need to take the initiative. My mom didn't always to let me go out with friends because of her fear something might happen to me. And I can't say we also had the space/freedom to do a whole lot.

[@urbanrealism237]

@@nohemymendez8189 You’re so right! The world is a pretty dangerous place unfortunately.

[@lil.chatita5496]

Nah I'm just gonna go become the next cardi b 😝 Kidding kidding

[@urbanrealism237]

@@lil.chatita5496 hahhaaa go off kween😹😹do yo thangg

[@lil.chatita5496]

@@urbanrealism237 Thanky you thank you😌💅🏼

[@codyequestrian24]

Nope. My kids are absolutely not having a phone early on. I want them to be kids. I see 8 year old's saying they are fat, or ugly. That shouldn't be a thing to thing about at that age. Its really sad that kids can't just live now a days. I grew up way too fast and I just don't want that for my kids.

[@BarkTechnologies]

It's great that you're thinking so carefully about what you want for your kids, Cody. Thank you for watching.

[@flybystu69]

That's the way gov wants it, over here in uk they've abolished middle school which you would attend from eleven, so now you go from nursery straight to high school, and you can see the difference in kids growing up, now with social media, I was shocked to see 12yr old daughter totally flip out because battery was running out, never seen that befor

[@sashjayd3062]

I didn't allow my daughter to have a phone until she was 16, and then she still had a lot of restrictions with social media. It didn't kill her, and actually, she now comments how her friends are so addicted to their phones, while she would rather go create some art or do something in the real world.

[@Lexthebasedgod]

I wish i wasn’t given a phone so early on it gen destroyed my mental health.

[@bruh-wc1gs]

My mom wouldn’t let me play outside much because it was dangerous, she didn’t realize how much more dangerous it is staying home on the internet.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thanks for your comments, Laiyla. We are sorry that your internet usage at a young age has had some difficult long lasting effects. We hope that by bringing awareness to these issues, it will help parents raise their children as they grow up in this digital age. We're always here for you if you need us. ❤️

[@deadartist8827]

We're never really safe..

[@Maz-zb9uf]

Really I'm sure more kids go.missing long internet was introduced to the world society

[@titosanchez3416]

Exactly

[@kenos911]

As long as she teaches you not to go onto discord and start flirting with 40 year olds, you’re pretty fine I mean, the internet has loosely made me all of my real life friends so I might be slightly biased

[@billiemunchen]

I was a kid in the 90s and early 00s. Happy to have had hundreds if not thousands of hours playing outside, getting muddy, playing with similarly aged kids from the neighbourhood, learning hobbies by myself without distractions.

[@whitneylopez-prata6336]

This video should be implemented in EVERY school around the world and as well in the households. Social media has been affecting our generation and so many people are taking advantage of every child’s vulnerability.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thank you for taking the time to watch, Whitney. ❤️

[@accidentalcatalyst1003]

Amen

[@accidentalcatalyst1003]

This made me cry tears for our youth. I could feel their pain so strongly that it upset me indescribably.

[@dizzymcwhizzy]

There's a new war...and it's not on drugs like it was in the 90s. The realest enemy to children now is technology addictions.

[@jillsmcfarland2001]

They are the school.

[@buzzcutbiene2211]

The irony is that many mums I know rather have their kids "safe" in their room playing with their mobile phones or computers than going out into the "dangerous" world, it is so ridiculous.

[@robbe.t.r.o]

we used your comment today in our english class lmao

[@streetscienceofficial8675]

Sounds make sense but I don't get where your point is? Your direction going where?

[@pattyg8204]

I know, it's ironic. I partly agree with you about the illusion of safety inside a child's room. However, I'm going to disagree that the outside world is safe - it's not. There are a lot of predators out there and children really cannot be left alone to play outside, and most parents cannot sit outside and keep vigil. The argument that abductions are rare doesn't hold water for me - if it's your child, you won't care what the odds were supposed to be. I was almost abducted as a child (intercepted by my mother) and I was molested twice, once in my own yard and once in my own home when a trusted adult was present in another room and had no idea what was going on. My children had an encounter with a lunatic in the toy section of a major store while I was a mere 3 yards away. I'm protective; I shudder to think what less supervised children are exposed to. Children need freedom in order to develop independence, yes, but we as a society are going to have to come up with a third option - some kind of play scenario where there is a watchful eye a ways away, or a gated community that can at least keep down the predator population, some kind of safe parameter within which children can roam.

[@buzzcutbiene2211]

@@pattyg8204 I am very sorry for you. Well, it happenend to me too but within my own family. Actually, statistically most of these cases happen internally, not by strangers. Yes, life is not safe in general, never was. But that is part of life. When I think back to my molestation as a child - would I want that my parents had stood by my side everywhere outside at every playground - with every friend - before and after - hell NO. We have to prepare our kids carefully for the dangers of life, but we have to let them free too. Otherwise - how will they learn to live as an adult? This behaviour leads to fear and panic attacks in individuals.

[@pathollingworth2170]

@@emmywilckens3677 I sent this video to my 14 year old granddaughter and asked her to watch it - bring awareness of all things so they can learn to defend themselves in the real world

[@KayKay0813]

A while back, my 13 yo granddaughter showed me her phone and said, "Nana, I don't know this person on instagram and they want me to reply to their message." I immediately said, good girl...now give me your phone. She did, and I found that a man was sending her an inappropriate message and asked her for a private reply. I replied, "This is her grandmother and I have contacted the FBI with your stick mac address (actually this was true). He immediately replied (stupidly) "I'm sorry I have the wrong person." I then replied "you certainly do, but she has a savvy Nana and you are going down pervo."

[@JamieNotLamie]

@The Burgundy Pill what message are you referring to exactly? Self aggrandizing? I hope I'm wrong about you doubting what this Nana did, but if not, you have problems if you think someone catching a predator is "self aggrandizing" I'd be goddamn happy about stopping that sort of interaction as well! Karma never sleeps, you know.

[@thomastuohy829]

Sounds like bs nana.

[@keluvnme]

I LOVE it Nana!!

[@JamieNotLamie]

@The Burgundy Pill 🤣🤣🤣 good grief you're a wreck. Have a nice one.

[@MeatCatCheesyBlaster]

How did you get his MAC address? This is a fake story

[@Gojiraa666]

I love how KZbin has to put up a warning before watching this. Goes to show which side of the debate they are on.

[@toniasheridan]

This is probably the saddest and most scary thing I've ever watched. :(

[@BarkTechnologies]

It is seriously shocking. 💔

[@giannacrotty2605]

Share it, share it with everyone you know. That’s the only hope

[@sine8811]

[" So you live in this world yet this movie is shocking to you? I find the implication of your comment horrifying. Why do you think things are the way they are? Perhaps... ignorance disguised as innocence? "]

[@giannacrotty2605]

Sine .... what in the world is this comment? What is your goal in posting this? We are all ignorant to some extent and gaining knowledge, perhaps later than you, is not a sin. Humble yourself.

[@sine8811]

@@giannacrotty2605 [" So you think that this movie is 'the only hope' yet you're not interested in calling out ignorance disguised as innocence? Part of the reason this is happening is because most parents just sit around 'being nice' instead of being honest. Make sure to share your 'only hope'. The implication of this being your 'only hope' is nightmarish. What you call humility might just be the act of being a dullard. "]

[@andyexe2213]

This is what I needed. I wish everyone could see this. I am 20 and I felt so lonely but I had no idea why. This documentary showed me why

[@BarkTechnologies]

We appreciate your support, and thank you for being brave enough to share. You are certainly not alone! We sincerely wish you healing and a bright future. 💛 More resources available at childhood2movie.com.

[@mgmodp8966]

God loves you and He's always there, Just ask him sincerely. Sometimes being alone helps you focus on what really maters in life and shows you who is really close to you and that's your family most of the times. . Stay strong Andy and move on one step at a time! Peace from Europe

[@sergeysiminyuk]

I really feel for you guys. My generation was the last one to experience free roaming childhood and the contribution that it made to who I am today is enormous. I got to learn danger by being exposed to danger directly, I learned to interact with others on my terms. It really shows in the difference in responses to stress. What a difference did 10 years make. I'm now watching this and I can't help but feel terrified of whats in store for my kid. We are robbing our children of a crucial stage of development. The way that children's lives are micromanaged these days leaves little doubt that unless something is done, our future will be people who never learned how to manage stress, fear, anxiety and other powerful emotions that are inseparable parts of the human experience. If at all possible, I would recommend our younger peers to travel the world, travel your own country and state. Try to experience life directly. Don't shy away from stress or anxiety, these are important signals from our subconscious meant to make us act on whatever is causing that stress or anxiety. Humans really are social animals to our core, what that means is that we find meaning in our interactions with other people and our place among everyone else. Meaningful relationships build up a strong support network that can help with a lot of the burden. Our modern lives introduced barriers and distance, especially for children and young adults and we are now being pushed away from our natural state and place that is to be with other people. We need to reverse direction asap, otherwise our children will end up paying the price, often with their lives. Its unimaginably terrifying to think as a father.

[@infinitephoenixrising428]

Saame so many issues iv had are now coming to the surface ..24 yr old ere

[@MsMichigan]

I'm so so sorry 😞 I hope you are getting better 💙🫂

[@katiekennedy1943]

As a 16 year old girl that's in high school i'm so glad i watched this

[@BarkTechnologies]

We are glad you enjoyed the documentary, Katie! ♥️

[@christinafidance340]

I’m glad you did too.

[@miriamsaadi9440]

So am l

[@adriannafleckenstein4891]

me too

[@SweetTooth1104]

Same :D

[@Joa331z]

when you have strict parents who thought locking me in the home all the time is for my benefit but its actually the opposite. I'm 21 old now and I take antidepressants and I have bad anxiety and I get harassed through the internet when I was teenager. I needed to get this thing out of my chest and this place seems so safe for me

[@BarkTechnologies]

We hear you. Hope you are healing and finding peace 🫶

[@tonyhuerta4113]

30 to 40 kids playing tag through the WHOLE NEIGHBORHOOD when I was young in Chicago.

[@tennesseeminnissi2445]

Those were the days. Tag, kickball and red rover were so fun.

[@smiley27b]

Yeah it's so sad how hard it is to get enough kids outside to play something like that 😕

[@theway3058]

Good times

[@mgmodp8966]

same I ve visited my home after 10 years and remember the street fool of kids playing tag until dark , and when I got there I kept asking the parents where is everyone? answer: they're inside on their tablets or playing videogames

[@mgmodp8966]

@Watermelon Ice yeah,... :( it immediately brought me into the shocking reality.. but there is still hope :) some kids are waking and they are willing , we need to help them and support the cause

[@bluejay2687]

Back in the eighties we danced, dressed up, hung out at the shops, spoke and looked each other in the eyes. Most of all we connected physically, emotionally and we developed real relationships. This is why I feel sad for this Generation. We knew how to truly feel. You can’t even explain this to them because it’s so hard for them to relate to this now.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Kids today definitely face much different problems than we did back then. Thank you for taking the time to watch and share your thoughts. 💔

[@goldenlionness7317]

Sad....but true. Another electronic babysitter

[@kagrimreaper]

young people have the chance to make similar relationships too. Its just nowadays there are different role models and the world is always changing with their interests and trends. I’m 15 btw so I know for a fact you boomers have no right to say that we won’t understand you. There are many things you guys can change too.

[@mako2king609]

@@kagrimreaper agreed

[@aeoligarlic4024]

But in the 80s teens get bullied for liking superheroes or being a nerd

[@veeeevo]

The decline of autonomy, the loss of true socialization, the beginning of falsified over-socialization, the destruction of discussion, the beginning of labelization, the numb reality of vivid connections built upon a simulated reality obscured by dopamine hits and depressive tendencies.

[@veronicadelarosa-clark7145]

Perfectly, beautifully and precisely put.

[@xtr3m311]

Those are some big words bro. But I totally agree

[@plaster3713]

The way to show your intelligence is to add a few big words here and there, not on every sentence

[@veeeevo]

@@plaster3713 If that’s what you genuinely think defines intelligence then I have some news for you. Lmao.

[@padarousou]

It’s like a hyper-developed interface of collective societal attitudes over the past half century all coming to fruition in a medium we can engage in. Quite interesting really.

[@emilycollins4204]

I wish parents understood this. It breaks my heart seeing friends and family leading their kids down this tragic path and being able to do nothing about it.

[@agonza4381]

I'm 30 and I remember living outside playing with my friends, rain or snow, until I was about 13 then we had DSL internet and instant messengers like ICQ, yahoo, and MSN and it all went downhill from there, that's when I started struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. I can't even imagine being a teenager today, back then I had to sit in our family room to use those messengers, now these kids are connected literally 24 hours a day...

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thank you for sharing your story. We are so sorry to hear you went through this, and you're so right that kids today face much different struggles than we did. We sincerely appreciate you for being open enough to share. ❤️

[@Deenique16]

Lol not me and im 28

[@Thedirtylittletruth]

Parents are still a thing right? Im 30 as well so I can take my experience and help better prepare my child! Why is everyone forgetting that there is always a solution to a problem? Because of googling?

[@sandyb2391]

A gonza yes today it must be so hard not too as this is what the know. glad you shared your story of how it all began

[@justinsane332]

Same

[@arbitrarylib]

I remember having a childhood in the early 2000s.

[@giannacrotty2605]

Me too, little did we know how lucky we were to have that

[@soarhighyandow9109]

It's crazy how quickly things have changed

[@RB-bu2lh]

Same, I was outside about 80% of the time, and even with game consoles and things like that you had to be with people in person to play with them

[@brendakabanda2181]

In the 90s for me.

[@sidijow4558]

Loool same , I’ve grown up in Africa and always used to played outside

[@meghnaaitha1046]

As a 20 year old I feel like I should’ve known this earlier in life

[@PD-fe7dz]

Watch Frontline "The Age of AI" that's scary.

[@2009mixmax]

You can always take a u turn

[@taliskujim4736]

Not too late IMO.

[@meghnaaitha1046]

Taliskuji M but I feel super old

[@cindysue5079]

You are early in life🤣

[@artsyfartsy091]

This is genuinely terrifying.

[@BarkTechnologies]

😞

[@druwiser5591]

THANK YOU! I deleted my social media as I watched this as an example for my kids.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Wow, Dru! That's a big step!

[@chrismckenna5669]

WOW! What a huge step!

[@darleneclarke8774]

i wish i could mine are grown now

[@ElevateChronicles]

I deleted every social media account I had about 5 years ago, I realized it after almost dying.

[@srso4660]

I deleted my FB and Instagram a few years ago but my 14 and 16 year old carry on with theirs anyway, it's hard to control now that they're in their teen years. It's especially difficult being a single parent. 😕 FYI, you do realize KZbin is also social media? 😉

[@rhondaliles6565]

This should be required viewing in every school along with facts on radiation poisoning. Thanks so much

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thanks for your support, Rhonda! We’re so glad you found the movie helpful! We’re proud to sponsor its release, since we think every family should have access to such important information about raising a kid in the digital age. We're always here if you need us! ❤️

[@ccampbell7214]

100% agree

[@lilyfuzz1]

Im so shocked these adult men are so predatory towards underage kids. Its disgusting

[@BarkTechnologies]

It's truly devastating. ❤️

[@aeoligarlic4024]

Been that way since the olden days. With social media they just get easier access to their victims

[@sandyschaffner5259]

Wake up. This has been going on for ages. Do you have any children? Hope you are watching over them.

[@xoxoxoxoxo7997]

And women who are predators also

[@jaredballoonboy7944]

@@xoxoxoxoxo7997 It's mostly men unfortunately

[@sarchalto]

I sat next to a young couple in a restaurant who sat their child aged about 17 months in a highchair, propped a child's animated movie on a phone in front of him and other than eventually put finger food in front of him ignored him the entire time they were there while his focus was glued to that screen, never once looked around. That boy is now about 9yo and I fear he is beyond addicted with a brain that never formed as it was meant to be. How Many Are Like Him?!!!?🥺

[@sarahl-b5282]

As a teen myself this makes me more aware. Now I’m asking myself: “Do I really need TikTok?”, “Do I really need Snapchat?” and these are nos- I don’t and I’d be safer if I didn’t- now I’m thinking, thank you for this Thank you for all the feedback everyone! I just ask you to please not add in anything referencing religion just because it makes me uncomfortable, Thank you.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thank you for your comment! Sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders! Stay safe! ❤️

[@padmeamante852]

Exactly!! I’ve deleted both Snapchat and Tiktok in the past month. I don’t miss either at all. I wish I could completely free myself from all social media but with lockdown and school work It’s not really an option right now. Maybe when everything’s back to normal

[@LoveHestia_]

Good for you!! there's so much to enjoy in life without the hindrance of these social apps.

[@peaceandlove544]

waste of time and energy. All fake.

[@forerunner7]

Follow that instinct.. Because its a guarantee your gut us right.

[@juliekunst4858]

I went on a school retreat a few years ago where we had to give up our phones for the four days that we spent there. We couldn't even have clocks on us to see what time it was. Those were probably the best four days of my teenage life. It's one thing to give up social media and technology yourself, but to have the people around you do the same thing makes it so much more enjoyable. The fact that so many of us wish that we could all live without phones and the internet actually makes me feel better about the situation.

[@BarkTechnologies]

That's such a wonderful memory, we appreciate you sharing this, Julie. Thank you so much for stopping by! 💙

[@pongchannel.]

@@BarkTechnologies everything is fine when you don't do to much of it but the problem is a lot of people get addicted. It's the same problem with loot boxes or other things meant to be addicting.

[@firelily77]

That is very refreshing and hopeful. Thanks for sharing.

[@TheOpenSociety777]

I can't believe the industrialist globalists that own Google/KZbin/Android allowed this video on their platform

[@skyjack8541]

Why do comments like this doesn't get 2k likes within 9 months when other's who comments do although they have less merit than those who comments are greater.

[@sarahkerubo8672]

As a 24 years old, social media has become part of my life but honestly, I feel a lot happier being offline. It feels like a vacation. I can think, feel. Its almost like I am alive offline, and dying slowly when I am online.

[@BarkTechnologies]

We're so glad to hear you found that balance for yourself! 💜 Thank you for sharing.

[@janetmaldonado]

It a mind-numbing tool the media has, for good and for the evil 😈 equally.

[@MountainMama77]

Im 23 and grew up with internet. It exposed me to things I wouldve done better without. It affected me mentally in a bad way. The internet is dangerous. Now I'm about to be a mom and trying to figure out how to protect my child from the dangers of the internet. Great video

[@devynwinchell7036]

We just gifted our 14 yo her first phone and part of her contract with us was having to sit and watch this entire movie. We wanted her to understand why there are still so many time limit blocks from us and why social media is an automatic non starter

[@nancyb8296]

I am in the same boat. My 14 yo just got her cellphone and I was wondering how yours reacted when watching that Documentary ? Was it to hard (as content)? And.. What are you doing as "rules" and saftyness ? I use Qustodio app and its seem It not doing all the things I wish. Thanks for your insight

[@rayanedraoui3341]

I'm like 20 years old and from now I can tell you that I'm worried how to convince my future children about the dangerous of all of this 😅❤

[@austinsawyer988]

​@@nancyb8296 Unfortunately, blockers such as Qustodio limit the internet for kids, and they feel left out from their peers. Limiting usage of the internet makes kids feel isolated, and can give them anxiety and depression. (i know this from personal experience) Please do not use these blockers. Talk to your kids about the dangers of the internet instead of locking them out.

[@yusrahb4461]

I did the same with my daughter and now I do regret why I gave it to her,her behaviour is worse than my other children who they finished school without the phone.

[@austinsawyer988]

@@ShahadNuaimi what I'm trying to say is that while other kids had technology, I was limited, and that made me feel left out. I'm not sure about your kids' schools, but everyone in my middle school had phones and were allowed to do stuff I couldn't.

[@ATakahashi12]

As someone who grew up with the internet, I can confidently say that as wonderful as the internet can be, it has done a lot of harm to my mental wellbeing over the years. I was exposed to way too many things at an age in which I was not prepared to deal with such situations. This documentary brings up so many great points that I wished more people knew about!!

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thank you for sharing your story to help others realize that they aren't alone.🤗 We appreciate your support, and please let us know if we can help support you in any way. 💜

[@hmu05366]

What was your favourite bit?

[@hyperouranios_topos]

Please tell me, how can you say that internet can be 'wonderful', if it has done a lot of harm to your mental well being? Doesn't it make it more sinister, that on the surface (and in theory) it is a 'wonderful thing'? The more 'wonderful' it gets the more harmful it becomes. Internet is evil.

[@Madebyadakiara]

@@iamme25yagoI implore you to shut up. And leave History alone. Of course our lives are not as hard as before. Thank God. It’s called evolving. And it’s not a competition

[@Heavymetalspirit710]

I never should have been allowed near it til i was older it FUCKED me.

[@ChefDawg]

I'm a 16 year old and I could not agree more! This generation I live in is more persuasive, sexualized, and sensitive than any other generation. And for it I blame social media, Facebook, Tiktok, snapchat, etc each one of those company's are competing for attention and they'll do anything for attention, putting profits over "Users" social health. What stresses me out the most is long term effects of social media. We knew how kids were going to grow up 100 years ago and how they would turn out, but now kid's are indoors, alone, looking at their phone for social acceptance. And it just makes me think how we'll turn out. Edit: This is my second time watching this, great job. This makes me what to create documentarys like this.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts! We are glad it has helped to open your eyes even further to the potential dangers. Stay safe, and feel free to share with your friends! 💙

[@Dowinohue]

Your attention is the currency. Companies are rewarded for engaging in this. Our system is structured in a way that incentivizes consuming consumers.

[@jmc8076]

It’s also (per experts) designed to not only distract from what’s real and important in our world incl financial literacy and rights but divide in many many insidious ways. I’m hoping there’s a future humanity who gets we are one collective and share 98.5% DNA no matter who you are or what you believe. A world based on cooperation, creativity and benevolence with acceptance and respect for all diff vs competition, materialism, hypocrisy, profit and division esp thru social labels and beliefs. Some of social media supports the first and helping our most vulnerable but most of it doesn’t and shames them but rewards wealth, fame and things. I’m not sure history will treat our phase of civilization kindly. It’s why Jiddu Krishnamurti while alive set up schools for kids unlike any other even to this day. Peace and health.

[@owensdmd]

Agreed. My bf’s 5 year old will play outside for less than 10 minutes, and then goes in the house on his own because he would rather play Roblox or watch KZbin. It’s sad honestly.

[@kyzee.2]

​@@BarkTechnologiestechnology & the internet would ruin future generation childrens & probably is due to generation alpha (Gen Z 2.0) usually age 5 - 7 yrs old & mostly kids age 5 have access to smart phones nowadays compare to my generation (Early 2000s) (First Generation) of Gen Z..

[@mylolita]

Absolutely vital documentary! Says the things sane, common sense parents are already thinking! I have three children - age 6, 4 and 2. Yes, they get cartoons, but we read, draw, craft and play in the garden! It warms my heart when instead of endless tv time, we have music on and they choose to draw, create things out of clay etc! Me and my husband have both staunchly agreed - no phones, no iPads, no video games until they are at least 16. At least. I just think - what is even positive about any of it? Too many negatives and “well everyone else does it” never justified anything in my eyes and doesn’t make it right! Make it a social thing like “movie night” altogether with popcorn or something, if you must. But no child under 18 needs social media and video games in my opinion!

[@genjaxx1463]

Social media will eventually destroy humanity.

[@sine8811]

That's a terrible hypnotic suggestion.

[@mariirena9267]

It already is with all the fake news about the pandemic so it’s basically destroying the world the news social media

[@sine8811]

[" Yes you're really spreading the positivity with this one. "]

[@jesusisking3814]

If you die tonight, do you know where you're going? Did you know that Jesus Christ is the only way to Heaven and He loves you? Through Him, God offers you a FREE gift - forgiveness. All you need to do is repent, turn away from your sins and evil ways, from now on put your faith completely in Jesus Christ and be obedient to Him. Explanation: God doesn’t want anybody in hell because He loves us, but you must understand why we deserve hell and why those who refuse to live under His authority will go there. (Matthew 12:30) ''Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.'' He gave us the law (Ten Commandments) not to make us righteouss, but rather to show us our sin (Romans 3:20). God gave us free will and since Adam sinned in the garden, sin is the nature of our flesh and we’ve all sinned. (Romans 3:23) and the law demands death to those who sin (Romans 6:23). For someone to be justified before God they have to be sinless, that's why everyone need Jesus Christ. None of us are good in God’s eyes, because for God good means moral perfection. We all have broken God’s commandments, we all have sinned in our lives so none of us are good. ‘’For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.’’ (James 2:10). ‘’For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.’’ (John 3:16) That’s why only Jesus can save us, because He lived a perfect and sinless life and is the only worthy sacrifice and died for our sins. We aren’t saved based on our good deeds/works, but only by the grace of God. (Ephesians 2:8-9) He said ‘’it is finished’’ (John 19:30), which means He paid the fine for our sins (past, present, future) to be forgiven if we repent and trust in Him. ‘’Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord.’’ (Acts 3:19) Biblically, a person who repents does not continue willfully in sin. Repentance is a turning from sin, and it always results in changed behavior (Luke 3:8). While sorrow from sin is not equivalent to repentance, it is certainly an element of scriptural repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). Do not play a hypocrite. (John 3:3) Jesus replied, "Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again." If you confess that Jesus is Lord (John 10:30) and believe that God raised Him from the dead, then you’ll be saved. (Romans 10:9) You are born again with the spirit of Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17). Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life; whoever does not obey the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God remains on him. (John 3:36) Bible is the Word of God. You may ask how so because it is written by men. Just like a letter is written by a pen, so is Bible written by God using men. Bible/God's Word was written over 1600 year period by 40 different authors and 66 books, all leading to the coming of God's Son - Jesus Christ. There is consistency of revelation throughout a long time of period, many prophecies being fulfilled. In the Book of Isaiah you see details about how Jesus Christ suffered even if it was written a long time before His coming. In the Book of Daniel 500 BC you can read about Alexander the great who lived 300 BC. Get right with God and start your relationship with Jesus Christ right now before it’s too late, because there’s not much time left!. "But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.’’ (Mark 13:32) You may start with a simple prayer from the bottom of your heart, TRULY believing that God listens and cares. (Jeremiah 29:13) ''You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.'' Get to know Christ through His word. At first I recommend reading Gospel of John and book of Romans. God bless you!

[@Stephii-bd1ed]

it WILL get better. just play with the system till it does. that’s what everyone is trying to do anyways

[@haymerm3848]

Born in 89. I feel like my generation got the best of the last

[@McSeverance]

Born in 84. It's crazy now. See of this is blowing my mind. I

[@brittany1991]

Amen to that. This is do disheartening. Tech companies which are money hungry at expense of emotional regulation and normalcy

[@verynice126]

Born in 91. Right there with ya.

[@lisaandmatthieu4570]

1980 and I agree. I’m so thankful I know the difference. However, I acknowledge that I regularly spend hours a day on my phone.

[@randomcomment7675]

I genuinely envy you

[@kayleejones3428]

I was 13 when I got my first smartphone. I never had any sort of screen other than the TV before that. My younger siblings both got tablets when they turned 3. It is extremely upsetting to me to see that my siblings that are about 11 years younger than me are completely attached to these devices. I would come home from school to my sister having a complete meltdown because my dad asked her to take a break from watching KZbin to put a dish in the sink. My parents are 100% addicted to their devices, as am I. It is a serious reality check to realize that this may be some of the cause of a lot of my mental health problems. Thank you so much for posting this amazingly informative video.

[@BarkTechnologies]

It's a tough topic to tackle, and the filmmakers did an incredible job!

[@blurrytaylor]

Take a stand in your household!!! Be different

[@jesusisking3814]

If you die tonight, do you know where you're going? Did you know that Jesus Christ is the only way to Heaven and He loves you? Through Him, God offers you a FREE gift - forgiveness. All you need to do is repent, turn away from your sins and evil ways, from now on put your faith completely in Jesus Christ and be obedient to Him. Explanation: God doesn’t want anybody in hell because He loves us, but you must understand why we deserve hell and why those who refuse to live under His authority will go there. (Matthew 12:30) ''Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.'' He gave us the law (Ten Commandments) not to make us righteouss, but rather to show us our sin (Romans 3:20). God gave us free will and since Adam sinned in the garden, sin is the nature of our flesh and we’ve all sinned. (Romans 3:23) and the law demands death to those who sin (Romans 6:23). For someone to be justified before God they have to be sinless, that's why everyone need Jesus Christ. None of us are good in God’s eyes, because for God good means moral perfection. We all have broken God’s commandments, we all have sinned in our lives so none of us are good. ‘’For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.’’ (James 2:10). ‘’For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.’’ (John 3:16) That’s why only Jesus can save us, because He lived a perfect and sinless life and is the only worthy sacrifice and died for our sins. We aren’t saved based on our good deeds/works, but only by the grace of God. (Ephesians 2:8-9) He said ‘’it is finished’’ (John 19:30), which means He paid the fine for our sins (past, present, future) to be forgiven if we repent and trust in Him. ‘’Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord.’’ (Acts 3:19) Biblically, a person who repents does not continue willfully in sin. Repentance is a turning from sin, and it always results in changed behavior (Luke 3:8). While sorrow from sin is not equivalent to repentance, it is certainly an element of scriptural repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). Do not play a hypocrite. (John 3:3) Jesus replied, "Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again." If you confess that Jesus is Lord (John 10:30) and believe that God raised Him from the dead, then you’ll be saved. (Romans 10:9) You are born again with the spirit of Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17). Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life; whoever does not obey the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God remains on him. (John 3:36) Bible is the Word of God. You may ask how so because it is written by men. Just like a letter is written by a pen, so is Bible written by God using men. Bible/God's Word was written over 1600 year period by 40 different authors and 66 books, all leading to the coming of God's Son - Jesus Christ. There is consistency of revelation throughout a long time of period, many prophecies being fulfilled. In the Book of Isaiah you see details about how Jesus Christ suffered even if it was written a long time before His coming. In the Book of Daniel 500 BC you can read about Alexander the great who lived 300 BC. Get right with God and start your relationship with Jesus Christ right now before it’s too late, because there’s not much time left!. "But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.’’ (Mark 13:32) You may start with a simple prayer from the bottom of your heart, TRULY believing that God listens and cares. (Jeremiah 29:13) ''You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.'' Get to know Christ through His word. At first I recommend reading Gospel of John and book of Romans. God bless you!

[@Sonya_hue77]

3 years old? Come on, that's way to young.

[@kt-xy5zo]

You should consider showing your parents this documentary, it might help your family change for the better as a whole :)

[@jocelynmedina71]

This is REAL. To put a warning ⚠️ on this is what's wrong with society 😢

[@jocelynmedina71]

@@balsarmy keep censorship alive

[@koolkidangel18]

Do parents know theyre the parents? You're the one paying for all of this and giving it to them. You can take it away or limit its use. Take them to the bookstore or library. Get them addicted to books or hobbies

[@bloomingnatural1291]

You are right and that needs to happen early! Kids are literally killing their parents because they get their phones taken away. There was a lady in my town who took her teen daughters phones and they jumped her and stabbed her to death. The kids are literally ADDICTED so taking them and limiting use is like taking a junkies needle. 😭😭😭

[@animekpoplover2002]

This is extremely correct

[@catsarerude]

I feel like the problem begins with other kids who don't have parents like that, so kids are still submerged in this modern world because their peers are. And naturally, the crowds will suck those kids in anyway.

[@mm5467]

I have website blockers and parental controls on my child's Nintendo switch and tablet. My child is not allowed to go on the internet without my permission and I'm always supervising.

[@TheBlackJewelz]

This is what perplexes me the most. I can't grasp how the heck parents hand children-CHILDREN!-a pocket-sized supercomputer that costs hundreds of dollars. Which is known to dumb them down and affect their mental well-being smh.

[@fredgalaxy7632]

I've seen children go crazy and have a tantrum episode when their parents remove the phone from them! The children instantly cry, scream, explode soon as someone removes the phone from their faces. Something is not right!

[@MyLittlePwny7]

You give a child an addictive substance, and then take it away... what do people expect? Most adults wouldn't handle having their phone taken from them well, either.

[@greattallguy]

We tightly control phones. 10 minutes only

[@IMSiegfried]

That's how kids act with anything they love to do if you don't raise them right.

[@factkage7282]

That was just me last night lol my father took my phone and we had an intresting fight but I studied all of his moves and easily got my device back and after an evil laugh I was tottaly satisfied

[@pongchannel.]

Like that didnt happen with other devices?

[@veronicarosewood1494]

I've been keeping my elementary aged daughter engaged in staying active (bike riding, sports, hiking with fam), and in reading and art. She grew up on an ipad and phone but I recently took it away and decided to make a stance to give her activities to keep her engaged and busy. Praying for her and all the children.

[@BarkTechnologies]

It's absolutely wonderful that you're giving your daughter access to so many enriching activities, Veronica! It sounds like they'll benefit her in a multitude of ways. Thank you for sharing!

[@sandyb2391]

veronica rosewood that is so awesome. you change the course of your childs life . this is the way to do it for sure

[@essennagerry]

How was the transition for your daughter? Was it difficult for her, did she adjust fast?

[@veronicarosewood1494]

@@essennagerry It was months of meltdowns, terrible behavior and "I'm bored" from my daughter. I won't lie, it was very challenging for us. I had to use some tough discipline and stick to my word. This transition also involved me getting off my phone too. I deleted all my social media and now I send quarterly emails to my family and friends giving family updates. I send them links to my Google Photo albums so they can see what we're up to. Our photos are now filled with us doing amazing activities together like cooking, gardening, hiking etc. We got through the hard hurdle together but as long as we do activities together as a family, it makes leaving the screen addiction easier for all of us. We play board games, read stories, do crafts and spend quality time together. I feel like we are all actually living. She never asks for the phone anymore.

[@mastercleanseNOTdiet]

Truly truly inspirational Veronica. Thank you for sharing 💕

[@Senacacrane]

Social media is getting out of control and it's getting even more crazier

[@julia2453]

As an early 2000's kid, I really wish I would had grown up as the older generations did

[@BarkTechnologies]

💔

[@georgiagraham635]

S a m e😬

[@wizkidgamer9942]

Likewise. I don't think I have it nearly as bad as a lot of people, I wasn't exposed to gratuitous sex until I already reached puberty, and I didn't own my own phone till I was 18 for college, but even so part of me feels like all my life me and my peers have just been guinea pigs, be it for school programs or social media or the very early steps into tyranny we're watching unfold in real time. I've never known a world pre 9/11, and the thought of people being REAL and talking and being present just fills my heart with sorrow that it couldn't still be that way.

[@lemonslimesanddimes]

During the Great Depression? War? Sexism? Racism?

[@doubleemcastillano464]

Born in 95. Just old enough to remember the time before the internet was popular. It gives me an appreciation for this thing I’m holding. I have the answer to almost any question I can think of right in my hand. This is a great time in history honestly…but the time before social media was kool too. There was a lot more waiting. More TV and time to think do other stuff. Back when there was no binge watching unless you waited til the series was already over and you got the DVD or VHS Collection. Or you saw a show on TV or PPV and you used the VCR to record it.

[@Investigativebean]

The “dangers online” are ultimately “dangers of the real world” now. That is a fact. Online danger is an extra precipitator of physical and psychological danger.

[@ianmiles2505]

That is so true.

[@_example]

But the internet has made it exponentially worse

[@gentilgentile6571]

What?... Whose real world? western societies? explain please..

[@rationalwiki1415]

We are all battling the *Wetiko* casted upon us via mass media's mind control scripts.

[@garfieldfan1127]

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[@blessedbythebest1003]

I was a snapchat queen, what others called me. I have been off social media for a year now living my best life. I LOVE KZbin, I’m a casual posher, and Netflix. I am finally seeing life with my own eyes, in love with my man and enjoying my everyday. Now I see everyone acting like a anxious zombies on their phone. I don’t miss it, if you’re wondering.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Really glad to hear you are living your best life! 🙌

[@blessedbythebest1003]

@@BarkTechnologies THANK YOU!!☺️

[@daveycrockett6622]

Living your only life you mean... lol

[@blessedbythebest1003]

@@daveycrockett6622 🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓

[@thebosley4103]

I also quit social media and am in love with KZbin now. While it is much better overall KZbin has lots of aspects of social media. Like comments and likes. It is a much safer place than other Social Media but still worries me, I need to be careful even as an adult. We need regulation of the internet focused on keeping minors safe. That starts with awareness for parents and ends with regulation.

[@HildeAzul]

My husband and I are terrified to have children. This added just another layer of anxiety of the world we would bring a child into….

[@MostBased_]

I am sad that my son will have to live in this age but i will do everything to make sure he doesnot make the same mistakes i made 😊

[@aCarolinaGal]

My boys are now 26 and 20 and they are amazing young men. No matter the world around them, the morals and values instilled in them from birth by both of you is what will shape their lives. I'm not pretending it was easy (I'm 50 now, and mostly stayed home with them through middle school), but seeing who they are today (a well known and respected locally diesel mechanic @ 20 and thr other graduating this year with a PhD in Applied Mathematics @26) I can wholeheartedly look back and KNOW without a doubt that IT WAS ABSOLUTELY WORTH IT. Much Love 🙏🏻💕

[@Burgemeesterr]

You can raise them good, so they and you can make a change. But I think its important to stay at home as a mother of work only 2 days

[@barbaranunes4476]

lots of “ influencers “ would lose their “ job “ if social media was deleted. social media become the new thing for people to make money. people with degrees are no longer recognised as they were before and that sucks cause they’ve been studying their ass off to do something for society like being a teacher, psychologist, doctor,etc... where there’s people who just take photos ( most of the times who aren’t real ) and get much more money than them. it truly upsets me.

[@anonanonanonanonanonagain]

Why let it upset u. Those of us with degrees have intelligence. We tend to see the world for what it is and what it is becoming......its them we should feel for.

[@therese8958]

take me for example some tellin me taking more degree is useless ain't wont give u money.. but no. I want to study more, i want to learn . The pressure around u --them gettin that "success" is not helpin.

[@IMSiegfried]

Ya, young people will soon realize supply & demand. Meaning there can only be so many influencers before the market becomes saturated.

[@IMSiegfried]

@@therese8958 Ya, not everything in life is about making money. Some things we do simply because we enjoy doing it.

[@fumomofumosarum5893]

to be honest, influencers are the scum of the earth.

[@serinab]

"Right now we're effectively living in an experiment. How is this going to affect us? We'll find out with the current generation." That really made me just... step back to take it all in.

[@melaniehughes8909]

Makes you afraid for your kids and grandkids and even think back on your own life and see how things changed. You wonder how it affected the things you taught your kids. I'm 50 now but my grandmother saw the sexual revolution and the woman's liberation movement. If you really want to understand how we got where we are now it goes all the way back to taking church, God, and the 10 commandments out of our lives making all these things that people want to do, because it makes them feel good, acceptable. People these days live on their reactions to their feelings instead of listening to their intelligence just because it sounds like fun. If God said not to do something it isn't because He doesn't want you to have fun but because, just like us as parents, He knows that it will be harmful to you physically, emotionally or both.

[@rhinoskin7550]

All the info in the world at their finger tips but will choose the easy stuff.. Human's love convenience, it feed/helps homeostasis.

[@joeanthony7759]

@@melaniehughes8909 This is not about religion, but I appreciate your comments aside from that

[@alfonzo7822]

It's a scary thought isn't it

[@ajh.4131]

As a 32 year old millennial, I’m so grateful to have known what life was like pre-internet times. We still played outside during our childhood and during our tween/teen years saw the rise of the internet, how it shaped the world and still knew how to navigate it all. Our generation was really during that transitional period so it was a nice medium. I remember actually talking on the phone for hours with friends and sending handwritten letters to them in the mail. Social media didn’t even really take off until my sophomore year of high school (2005) starting with MySpace and Facebook gaining popularity during senior year (2007). I can’t even imagine what teens have to go through now. The need to post every & anything and sharing the most intimate parts of your life (and body) is so toxic. It’s unfortunate that that’s a world you guys have to live in. Great documentary to say the least! The ending almost had me teary-eyed thinking about my future children.

[@BarkTechnologies]

We are so glad you found it helpful! 💛 Times have certainly changed.

[@ryanfresh8521]

I’m 36 years old and I absolutely agree with everything you said. You hit home with me when you said you used to play outside. So did I. I rode my bike with other kids. I called (even my crushes) on the phone and go out with them to Starbucks (they are ubiquitous). And as I had my share of social media, I have discerned my experiences of real life connections that I’ve mentioned to comparing my life with pictures I saw from people’s social media. At the time it was MySpace especially with the top friends list. If I got bumped off a top friends list I felt unloved. And then as I got on Facebook and left MySpace, I only lasted on Facebook for 6 months and I was going through the throngs of depression. At that point that was the last straw for me and now it’s 10 years that I’ve been free of social media. I could not be a happier person if I have not made the decision to part ways from social media.

[@Mixima101]

I thought the same. I grew up in the 2000s and didn't have a smartphone until 2008. I stopped using social media in 2015 because I realized it was making me suicidal. I'm still dealing with psychological problems from the internet. Yeah, I'm really scared about my future kids and the world they'll grow up in. How can I protect them from this while allowing them to engage with the world?

[@wioi]

I am 35 and was about to write the same thing until I saw that you already wrote it. I totally agree. I am so glad that I didn't grow up where everyone was on social media. When I was a kid we still had to ring doorbells and we played outside and I am really thankful for that.

[@skylarblue6725]

I agree with you. Things didn't get this ridiculous until about 2009, once everyone discovered Factbook. In other countries children still play outside and the poor still play outside. The more money you have the more access to technology your kids will have. Parents are guilty of giving their toddlers ipads/tablets or putting on cocomelon to distract them, so they can get things done. Parents are guilty

[@mybraineatseverything7404]

As an older Gen-Xer, I can't tell you how much freer we were as kids. If I had to grow up the way kids do now, I honestly think I wouldn't make it.

[@tabithasmith6892]

Kids don't even have a sense of self-awareness or personal identity. They are more worried about being someone else, for someone else. 😭

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thanks for your comment, Tabitha. We certainly hope the documentary helped open your eyes to the difficulties and dangers facing our children as they grow up in this digital age. We're here if you need us! ❤️

[@lizzy5437]

Damn, that’s a good point

[@a.friend8322]

Young women dealing with pornography struggles/addiction, I feel for you. I was exposed at a very young age. My heart breaks for my younger self and if I could turn back time, that is the one thing that I would change at all costs. It is very difficult for every young person, but I think it is especially hard for young women and girls. I remember writing letters to my older self and hoping that I would be able to overcome the "habit". It is very hard for me to post this comment... I've kept it hidden my whole life and nobody would know unless I told them, but it hurts on the inside. Hopefully this helps someone. Be strong.

[@BarkTechnologies]

We’re so sorry this happened to you. 💔 We sincerely appreciate your honesty and the bravery it took to share your experience in order to help others. We wish you continued healing and are sending big hugs. 🤗 If you need support, we’d be happy to share resources with you. Please reach out any time. 💜 - bark.us/contact

[@IbrahimIbrahim-dm3tw]

How old now?

[@IntoleranceRecords13]

A/L?

[@ibukun-oluwaabraham763]

I know i'm responding a bit late, so I hope you see this. I'm so sorry you are going through this. I would like to share Jesus Christ with you. He can deliver you from pornography addiction. If you can repent and call upon his name and ask for mercy, he shall deliver you. It's a very difficult battle to fight, because you are fighting against your flesh; you can't fight it on your own, only through the spirit. I pray for you that God almighty shall deliver you from every battle you are facing with pornography addiction in Jesus name, amen. God bless you.

[@lizadeeza]

@@IntoleranceRecords13 Unfortunately the way Christianity is practiced - it shames people about natural sexuality - that they feel the only way they can experience it is through toxic pornography - The Bibles' teachings that humans are born sinners. That sex outside marriage, homosexuality, etc is sinful has helped pornography thrive. I do believe in God and that Jesus was a holy man and messenger but much of the Bible's teachings have been incredibly damaging to humanity.

[@megan3916]

as someone who is still under the age of 16 and trying to learn and teach myself the dangers, since my gaurdian just doesent understand that this is harmful. thank you to the people who make these videos!

[@cobblecattt]

That's seriously amazing you have the awareness about this. 🙌❤️

[@TheCrazyCartModChannel]

Good for you

[@me-hk4ro]

i’m crying because i’m 18 and i’ve spent my whole childhood trying to play with friends but they were all on their ipad so i spent my whole teenage years on my phone especially during quarantine and all my friends are depressed which made me feel negative & sad. i just wish i spent time with my family and friends cuz everyone’s too busy these days

[@BarkTechnologies]

We're so sorry to hear this was your childhood experience! We hope you're on a journey to healing. Please reach out to talk to someone if you need to -- it's okay to not be okay. 💜

[@mrAZcardinal]

So glad I lived my childhood before social media and TikTok. Trampoline, running around with the water hose, building sandcastles, exploring creeks and abandoned factories... the sun shined brighter and social circles at school were much simpler.

[@izzygee2216]

Same here! I feel blessed.

[@metalrockstarizer89]

I wish life was like this again, doing all those activities you mentioned. All that crap ended for me at the age of 15 once I got social media, I was the last of my entire friend group that got social media. Time to get rid of it

[@anythingbutASIC]

we might have that again if we could just do away with the "regulators" making policy that control every part of are lives.

[@ssspit]

i had that exact experience and i'm only 22... i feel it really depends on the person

[@kenos911]

We were never rich enough to have this, just that I have a phone and computer now. I am currently 14, but can tell you that I have never experienced anything in this video on both sides, except the one time where we had rich friends that had those types of things. Online, it’s easy: you know how to not ask for free candy once you see a suspicious van? Same principle. You know how to not get depressed from the fashion industry? Same principle

[@cynthiaennis3107]

My deepest condolences to the family who lost their wonderful son to cyber bullying. My heart goes out to them.

[@curoseba5363]

I was born in 1984 and I miss the letter-writing for sure 😊 I remember my first boyfriend travel abroad for 3 months and receiving his letter was the most romantic and exciting thing ever

[@BarkTechnologies]

The anticipation was something special for sure!

[@kiasophia6869]

I love letter writing! The ONLY government institution that I like is the United States Post Office. It's sad that it gets so maligned all the time.

[@JB-pd3ir]

@@kiasophia6869 I relate to this

[@judyjohnson4541]

I was born 1977 and my husband and I use to write each other love letters every single day. We worked different shifts and always had a love note to read in the morning. I miss that.

[@JB-pd3ir]

@@judyjohnson4541 Take it back up - I have found that so many people are moved when you take the time to write a letter (even if is just by email ) but of course a handwritten is even better. Now, with this pandemic and political strife, it is a wonderful time to send letters to others to let them know you care. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@justinlaporte9414]

Every parent NEEDS to watch this. There are many cultural pot holes in modern society these days, none as dangerous as this one.

[@taylorsmithbr]

It made me feel good when he said, "If your child isn't getting slightly annoyed by your asking questions and interfering, then you aren't doing it enough.

[@hairball999]

me too

[@ourcorrectopinions6824]

Indeed.

[@altGoolam]

The huge blindspot for most parents is that their own kids partake in bullying themselves.

[@BarkTechnologies]

It can be heartbreaking to realize this. Parents can be left wondering how the behavior started & how they didn’t notice it sooner. At Bark, we know how stressful & upsetting this can be, which is why we’ve done some research on what to do if your child exhibits bullying behavior. You can read more here: www.bark.us/blog/what-to-do-when-your-child-bullies 💚

[@last_womann8344]

I deleted all social media a few months ago. Best decision I have made and I wish I would've done it sooner. The only thing that kept me on there for that long was because I felt sad signing off from my "friends" when in actuality, are literally just strangers with memories. I'm 20 years old and I grew up in that weird time where I had a phone-free childhood but started heavy use of technology during my adolescence. I think because of this, I never got that addicted feeling of social media for long and my yearning for real-life strong relationships and being in just plain nature overpowered the other feeling. Now, I draw, read, exercise, game, hang out, hike, volunteer, etc. I'm glad because I'm very intentional with communication and I established higher-quality relationships because of it. No matter how much we humans evolve and try to escape our humane ways, our brains are wired the way they are to force us to remember our humanity. It's beautiful.

[@LookAtYouShine]

I agree completely!! I got off everything back in May and my quality of life has improved. It feels good to be participating in life again. I'm glad to see others doing the same (: much love to you!

[@smiley27b]

I'm doing the same 🙌🏼

[@JustReadTheBible]

“Strangers with memories.” This is so perfectly said!

[@mgmodp8966]

so glad to read this! :) same exact thing happened to me years ago

[@marybrandon1924]

As a mom of a one year old this is eye opening, especially as a child who grew up in the early 2000s

[@adrianabonitaaziz]

By the age of 14 I had no parents and u used to feel less worth than other children in my family . They had mechanical toys , bikes , but the only thing I had was a doll called Susy , and some , pans and kitchen stuff , and I was crazy about books . I could make clothing for my doll , sewing them with my little hands , I made food with grass and mud . Today , I feel sorry for children with their phones and IPad devices .. They depend on others to feel good about them selves . Today , I feel so thankful for my childhood . I can cook , I can fix my clothing , I speak 4 languages . I realise now , That I was so rich , wheares other children in my family were actually poor .

[@KRAFTWERK2K6]

True gifts are never really appreciated, except by those who can see true beauty and appreciate it. You have the ability to CREATE. Not just consume but using your gifts to change your reality and improve it and add to it. I am very happy that You exists :) And I'm proud of You. Especially for that rare perk of self reflection which a lot of humans out there seem to lack, right next to empathy.

[@cynthiaennis3107]

@@KRAFTWERK2K6 spot on! You said what I was feeling!

[@liliethfox8298]

I’m 14 rn thatssss meeee to be honest social media is so innapropiate I deleted most of mines instead of my art Instagram and I still love to read I have so many reading apps if anything I’m mostly on KZbin watching videos about god or research videos and I used to play with dolls a lot but at 13 I felt embarrassed so I stoped but I still love dolls and collects them and I paint when I get my phone taken away I disconnected myself from my phone a while back

[@piedramultiaristas8573]

Hablas español?

[@piedramultiaristas8573]

On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 with anyone who wants it bless

[@kimberlieanne5271]

Its called having guts to go against peer pressure & just say no. Being your kids' friend is not parenting. Now you see how you set them up for failure....how many parents use tech to occupy the kid so they can do whatever & not be bothered.

[@BarkTechnologies]

No matter someone's parenting style, it's definitely important that they help keep their kid safe online! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Kimberlie.

[@solsticemeows]

Yep! Essentially letting their dumb devices teach them what they need to know.

[@Sophie-vs3vr]

I don’t have social media for this exact reason.

[@BarkTechnologies]

It's a tough decision to make, Sophie - we're glad to hear that you're making decisions that are right for you and your mental health.

[@owiw1]

hmm you know, KZbin is also a social media platform..

[@Sophie-vs3vr]

Max it’s not the same as other platforms.

[@owiw1]

True that its not the same, its a bit different concept but it has its own addictive properties which are not so good for us. The algorithms that learn each user in order to provide him with the best content for him to stay longer, Notifications, Refreshing homepage will give different results each time etc..

[@Thedirtylittletruth]

Sunflower Shine you still get endorphins from this site the exact same way as facebook or any other.

[@sammyakmohite]

One of the best documentary on KZbin. Hats off to your work.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@Shewasafairy00]

It’s sad when I see parents handing their children a phone or tablet to keep them occupied what happened to actually going outside and playing with the children 🤔

[@KamalasNotLikeUs]

Parks are closed. Fires raging. Poor air quality. Can’t spend much time outside. Not much to do with everything closed. Can’t be with friends in groups. Must wear masks and social distance.

[@KayKay0813]

Amen....Mystical Moon, you are being way to sensible!!! ha ha

[@blisslikethis4090]

Most activities for kids on devices aren't online. They are usually on the tablet colouring in, playing memory card games, doing jigsaw puzzles, or watching cartoons - things we been doing for centuries, just in a different form now. It's social media that is the problem. Not advancement in technology.

[@DB-bk9tr]

Materialism plays a big part of what he said about kids not having a phone getting bullied.

[@BlackTrunksPodcast]

💯

[@cateatinrat78]

Me when I was 11 felt pressured to have a phone. I'm 16 now and is sorta addicted to phone but working on it

[@tiara2crown]

It's scary how children are getting cell phones younger and younger these days. I'm talking 10, 11, and 12! Why does a child need a phone that young? They have access to the whole world with a cell phone and that's terrifying. I didn't get my first phone until I was 16 and even then my mom was reluctant.

[@Magnulus76]

A minority of people don't buy into smartphones at all. The award winning historian Yuval Noah Harari doesn't own one, for instance, for the reasons that this video gives. It's not a healthy way to interact with the world.

[@demoninblack6011]

I got my phone at 12, but thats because i go outside on my bike around the town for hours and my parents get worried and might need to call me to go back in

[@MissGodsChild]

Tablets as young as 3

[@MissGodsChild]

@@demoninblack6011 as they point out... parents always make excuses which is no excuse at all

[@demoninblack6011]

@@MissGodsChild but, i normally go like 2 miles away from my house when i ride and i almost got kidnapped once by some creepy guy

[@VeronicaCalderon-t9r]

I feel so blessed i grew up still experiencing childhood.. Running around, climbing trees etc.

[@f52_yeevy]

Many teenagers don’t realise that what they call “depression” is just boredom and distraction from the important things in life. Social medias. Are. Unimportant. They flood you with unnecessary things and make you feel that abstract things such as likes have value. Seriously, get a hobby, something that you can carry with you in life, wether it be drawing, writing, photography, reading, crafting, magic tricks, sports, acting. Whatever your situation, it will help. Obviously, some might actually have depression, in which case, PLEASE reach out to someone, and don't be afraid to talk about it to your parents! Your mental health is too important to be shy or embarassed and, in case your parents keep ignoring you, try to talk to a friend or anyone qualified. Many organizations offer free services to teens and even just talking to someone about your struggles will make you feel better. I’m 15 years old btw, and I’m currently in the process of getting rid of all the unnecessary and deleterious thing in my life, starting with social media. It's not at all an easy process, but I believe anyone can do it with enough determination.

[@BarkTechnologies]

Thanks for watching, and sharing your experience with social media with us! We appreciate your well thought out opinions. Stay safe, and reach out if we can help! ❤️

[@julia2453]

Same, sometimes I wish I were born in another generation without this much technology. I just want more humane technology.

[@masterdaveedwards]

Cool...May God bless you in your wisdom at getting off line. Learn how to build stuff that sustain real life. God's Shalom

[@FriedRice3519]

same bro, i support you, i'm gonna do teh same. We are literally missing nothing on social me- OH WAIT i just got a notification that billie eyelash unfollowed everyone on Instagram, welp gotta go scroll through insta for 5 hrs and then get a massive headache and then feeling of uselessness after i wasted a whole day doing nothing useful...see what i did there. Don't go back man. And if ur future self ever has kids, don't for any reason buy them phones or tablets. Maybe a track phone for emergencies.

[@Susanluc59]

My Mom was a very strict woman. Very loving, but very strict. If we were caught moping around the house, and we were not sick or feeling under the weather, we were given 5 minutes to adjust our attitude or she would do it for us, and by that she meant that we would have extra chores to do because obviously, moping meant we were bored. The worst chore my sister and I had to do was completely empty the china cabinet, wash and polish the china and put it all back neat and tidy. Took frakin' all afternoon. Another one she was fond of having us do was to completely empty the two linen closets, take it all outdoors, unfold everything, shake it all out and neatly refold it all, and after we had completely washed down the two closets, put the linen all back neat and tidy. I absolutely hated those two jobs, but the funny thing was my sister actually enjoyed them, and the process of learning to focus on something and not be distracted by meaningless background interference. To this day she will do these kind of jobs for enjoyment in her own home. Me, not so much, but the value of the process has stayed with me.

[@user-pd4mp5vm2t]

Maybe those old Christian great grandparents who said “TV is the devil”... weren’t so stupid. I mean they literally called it.

[@gen-x-zeke8446]

I used to think a troll lived in my wall...in 1990. I've been so mean and I'm not even mean. It can be troll addiction as well because how would are they going to do to you? I've been kicked out of probably 50 groups in the past two years on Facebook.

[@gen-x-zeke8446]

I would think that supernatural entities would not be an issue here, but I guess it's another piece of the whole pie. Acceptance isn't something we just 'do' like a happening. *I'm cringing right now though...and it is because it is likely much worse than we are ever willing to hear about, thus acceptance is impossible. So we have millions of people wandering around with false perspectives on life besides their own.

[@AZ-vx7nj]

It's was the magazines then radio and TV and now social media. All generation had challenges.

[@martmanana7269]

@@gen-x-zeke8446 if you believe in the super natural? Then why would they not get involved in computer science and ESPECIALLY social media? When you see those ghost hunting shows on TV what do they take with them to find the ghosts? Electronic devices. What do the spirits most easily manipulate? Electro magnetic devices

[@gen-x-zeke8446]

@@martmanana7269 You assume I'm unaware of electronic influence on the spooks?

[@aroona5]

Schools should show this documentary to their students. Very informative ❤️

[@BarkTechnologies]

It's a critical message to spread awareness to. ❤️

[@paike2880]

Except the massive honkers in the video.

[@shortlilma125]

Parents should show this to their children before the school does it!

[@HYPERVIBE_]

guess who had this for homework.... me

[@millypann8083]

Brilliant documentary! I totally agree with you..This should be shown in all all schools globally & parents should watch this and wake up! They've only touched the tip of the iceberg.. It's and lot worse..I grew up in Australia back in the 70's I can proudly say that even though we didn't have personal computers and mobile phones I was so involved in many after school activities that I barely had time to watch telly! I really feel sorry for the younger generation that has to battle with cyber bullying and all that Social Media crap! Bless you dear friend and stay Safe!

[@aishwarya2016]

I am so thankful and grateful that i still haven't used any social media other than KZbin . This is horrible and i am going to teach it to my youger sisters so they will never suffer from these things. Kuddos to your hardwork! Keep up the best work ✨💫 Thank you for making me realise how much i was missing on real life and i need to build more resilience even though others do not think positive about it , i now understand how important it is!!

[@Herekittykitty01]

I was born in 83. I do NOT envy the kids of today. And I worry about my children. What a horrible compulsion to deal with starting so young now. They’re only 4 and 3. They won’t be having any smart phones until they can buy them that’s for sure.

[@gala9593]

My kids (3) got their first phone on their 18th b day and they are 23,22, 21.

[@yiannakoronaki8254]

@@gala9593 I'm also 20-21 and I got my first phone at 17-18 Its a Nokia with buttons.I still use this I dont see a reason to buy a new one

[@yiannakoronaki8254]

@Antonella Vitali Me too.Well,actually not born but at least a kid or a teen

[@spektred]

Omg same. I was born in 81 and I didn't get a smartphone until I was in my late 20s. Thank god for that. I didn't even feel compelled to have one until I finally gave in to the pressure from my friends who had them. Its most definitely an addiction. And these devices have made people far more insecure and corrupt in the mind. The world was better without them.

[@ashleygarden6906]

Good luck with that 🤣🤣🤣

[@RoosterStone]

"Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars" - nothing's by accident, it's by design. ~ Bill Cooper

[@fuqupal]

Right on. This is programming of the future workers and consumers and at the same time divide & conquer tactics to keep them under control. Fascism under the guise of "fun". Happy nazism... call it what you want. It's still..... TYRANNY!

[@benchitty]

@@fuqupal absolutely brother

[@joshuab464]

Tiktok and snap chat has literally been a poison to these American teens.

[@pamveeee]

couldnt agree more

[@mezza_4252]

Not just American though, each and every country

[@benpietrzykowski9216]

@@mezza_4252 yea bc Syria is having real big problems w teens mental health bc of Snapchat posts…. Let me remind you there are much more serious issues going on in the world , not to downplay this at all .

[@soda3994]

@@benpietrzykowski9216 tf

[@heczamz8483]

Foreal. Now the majority so soft & have little to no self esteem

[@w.goethe9559]

As a Mom of a daughter in her twenties who made it so far in this broken world, I’m so very proud of her being such a strong and powerful person to know her boundaries and when to say either “no”, or “who cares”… And I’m also proud of all the other brave, young adults too and feel sorry for them, who weren’t that lucky. Their parents, like me, hadn’t a clue, how lucky and brave they all have been, being the first ones who made it trough upcoming fb, Insta and all this weird stuff. Thank God!

[@n.i.g.h.t.i.n_g.a.l.e]

Thank you so much.. Still breaks my heart remembering all I had to deal with alone. And my parents still have no idea and won't even understand. Makes me feel lonely and angered. So thank you for your comment, mama❤

[@w.goethe9559]

Dear n.i.g.h.t_i.n.g.a.l.e I feel really sorry right now. Let me hug you virtually. Take my honest apology instead of your Mom’s, I swear, we weren’t aware of the danger and didn’t really know. I remember, when I was on Insta for a short period, just to be an “official friend” of my daughter. I felt kind of a spy… it’s really difficult to find the balance between taking care and break the healthy boundaries of the necessary intimacy zone of a child, leave some innocent secrets in secret. Also my child had the one or other issue but what really helped her/me/us, was that she came and wanted to talk. I guess this bond of trust is really important as protection is really difficult in this virtual, open space. 🤗