The Devil's Obsession with Comparison - Khutbah By Nouman Ali Khan

[@shellynd2728]

"I want to do better than I did, not better than them" that's a good one. Never thought of it that way.

[@j_sr3608]

It's a growth goals theory of personal best (PB) by A.J Martin.

[@lssabban11]

Ya Allah I have this obsession with comparing myself to others all the time, make duaa for me brothers ans sisters. My Allah forgive us all.

[@assiamomouctarloveitdiallo1857]

May Allah help u fight this musiiba May he bless u

[@donyariadi3181]

Aamiin

[@taar]

Allah bless you.

[@abdweblinks]

Try to find the root cause why you developed this in the first place

[@PS5gamingNasir]

May Allah help you from this

[@asimnabi99]

Lessons from this lecture - Iblees said that he is better than Adam (ALS) since he is made from fire and Adam (ALS) from clay, which lead to shirk. As it is Allah who decides who is better than anyone among us and we don`t have any basis of comparison. * Don`t compare yourself with anyone in this duniya as this is not your job to do, your sustenance is in Allah`s hands and you won`t get anything more or less as what is decided. * Comparing in materialistic items as those of clothes, income, cars, home, etc will lead to arrogance which will lead to jealousy and thus this is what Iblees wants from all of us to fight and holds grudges among ourselves. * you are not superior when compared with anyone else. * If Allah Gave you knowledge, fame, money power etc don`t consider it as a sign that Allah loves you more than anyone else. * Since competition is a natural instinct, you need to compare with the person you were yesterday with the person you are today. * Don`t focus on beating someone else but beating who you were yesterday. * If you have thoughts like "why someone else is happy", "Why he earns more than me", "how can he be successful and I am not", then seek refuge from shaytaan and read and recite Al-falaq. These thoughts are popped up only due to shaytaan and ask Allah for help. * May Allah protect us from jealousy and hasad and ask for the success for all people in this duniya and aakhirah as well.

[@lebebeve4881]

worfoz you my friend are incorrect. Your are sadly misguided. Islam isn’t slavery. It’s the light. Inshallah may Allah guide to Islam ameen.

[@worfoz]

Your are sadly misguided. Islam isn’t slavery please do not lie, islam means submission which is the same as slavery you muhammedans are abd ullahs, slaves of muhammeds man made god and muhammed hated Trinity because the message of the bible is that we are not Gods slaves, but his children, the people of the covenant, not his slaves like you muhammedans so stop wishing your fake idol alla, it's offensive and blaspheme islam is utter darkness and very evil, you should read and understand your quran, and the bible (where the quran was badly copied from) and stop insulting me, YOU are terribly misguided by a filthy child rapist, who made slaves out of you bastards (which is in accordance with the bible, read about Abram and slave Hagar, the mother of bastard Ismael. And read your quran, surah 29:27 where the lineage of the true prophet is mentioned: Abram Isaac and Jacob, not the lineage of slave bastard Ismael) educate yourself, you need it, you are really ignorant about your own sect

[@worfoz]

Bible is made by humans quran is a fraud copy of that book, written by Uthman why are you so misguided and ignorant about your sect, muhammedan? there are more lies, errors and mistakes in your one book quran than there are in the 66 books in the bible so read that book and see where your fake prophet stole your fake quran from you really should do something about your lack of knowledge

[@abdulrahmant8095]

worfoz You seem like someone who likes to read and get more knowledgeable but unfortunately you are reading from the wrong resources and this knowledge is harming you more than benefiting you so for your own good i guess you should look at the bigger picture and see all points of view not only what taught to you by people or what you have learned by yourself with all my respect but you are the one who is brain washed and you are going the wrong way.

[@abdulrahmant8095]

worfoz You said our prophet Muhammad (pbuh) " child rapist" First of all what is your clue that is true ?what are your references? was it from old scholars or you just assumed that is the truth based on what you have heard or read ? second let me ask you a question how is it possible for a child that was raped as you say by a man when she was young to be one of his most beloved wives and she become one of the biggest scholars of Islam? wouldn't she hate that man who raped here as you say when she was a child? would she even hate every thing that comes out from this man including his massage which is Islam?! Weird isn't it!

[@ijazzzali]

He gives you pieces and later combines it to give perfect explanation. MashaAllah

[@marrytesfu3163]

it is his unique style

[@souledoucara2530]

We're waiting for your comment almost as much as we're waiting for bayyinah's new video 😁

[@worfoz]

it is his unique style Maybe it's strange for you muhammedans but that is how a teacher should work, nothing special, just educational skills. Not muhammeds style, I agree. Muhammed was not a great teacher, more like a dictator who needs to be blindly believed and obeyed.

[@saifgoheer3550]

Say, [O Muhammad], "I do not tell you that I have the depositories [containing the provision] of Allah or that I know the unseen, nor do I tell you that I am an angel. I only follow what is revealed to me." Say, "Is the blind equivalent to the seeing? Then will you not give thought?" Al-Qur'an [6:50]...

[@worfoz]

quran is the words of men the errors, wrongs and lies in it are proof

[@thomasbayer2832]

All envy and most unhappiness comes from comparisons. Sheytan was the first racist. And all racists are sheytans.

[@hafsahussein365]

My parents, mostly my father, have always compared me to kids my ages, and even my siblings. I’m 21 now and I’m still being compared to others who have already graduated from university. Now I don’t even want to hear about the successes of others around me because all I can think of is my fathers constant and endless nagging. And even when I do something that I’m proud of and worked really hard for, it’s never enough for them. I’m just so tired of it all and have been honestly considering just dropping out of college. But this Khuthba has made me feel a lot better. Jazakallahu Karin ya Ustaad

[@NaMe-ll3yx]

It’s been 4 years now, but I relate to you a lot and I think everyone does, it just makes it harder to do things when you are already having a hard time, I hope you were able to push through and Finnish college and I hope your parents have stopped comparing or at least it’s gotten better and lesser though it’s highly likely not

[@itzmintyz3587]

I feel the same way I’m 12 and I want to become a hafiz and go to a all Muslim school but I am very scared my parents will say no I have cousins who have become hafizs already and I feel like they will compare me to them yesterday I asked my mom if I could go to an all Muslim school bc I want to learn more about Islam and there are a lot of haram things kids do at my school and I want to move away from all that but she laughed at me and asked me why I was copying my cousins ( they go to an all Muslim school) I became very upset bc she was not taking me seriously and I did not want to copy them actually I was thinking about this before they went to an all Muslim school so it really hurt me that’s when I learned only allah (swt) is my friend

[@raihanhossain1531]

I truly love Nouman Ali Khan I hope one day inshallah I can meet him like if you believe so to.

[@hijabigirl9338]

Allahu akbar when i picked my phone today and see that it's a notification from bayyinah so.......:) it made my day JazakAllah

[@kaifmirza8945]

Same here

[@sufianmotan1578]

SubhanAllah, please make dua for me, I am suffering

[@hijabigirl9338]

@@sufianmotan1578 sure....... :)

[@sufianmotan1578]

Nafia Khan, where are you from?

[@khnrzk7102]

If you feel jeoulous for anyone, just make dua for that person, make sure you mention their name on dua, Once your done you will feel a change in your heart 💓

[@umamab.3663]

Experienced!

[@FajarSuryawan]

I didn't know I needed this khutbah so much, until now.

[@momahmood5543]

The way this brother dissects and explains is truly a blessing for him and for us. Allahumma barek brother nouman

[@FarhanaFaruq]

Yes I agree!! Masha'Allah.

[@ribhafatima7960]

May Allah protect us from this disease ameen

[@nicoletteferragamo]

I love how he has to remind us "think about yourself not anyone else" 😂😂😂 may Allah guide us and protect us from shaytan

[@randomplayergamingrpg6525]

ameen!

[@TheYusra2008]

Very useful advice in this in age where social media is full of people’s activities it’s so easy to fall into this trap. Alhumdiliallah is for this important teaching.

[@kausamsalam8543]

zahra jama Agreed -

[@totoyesica]

These series have now become part of my every morning. And every morning, I learn something new... in particular how to think about life (going forward) in a different way. thank you for giving us your interpretation of the best guidance a person can have. Any other way would have been nearly impossible, especially not knowing the Arabic language or having any background at all, to tackle the lessons of the Quran.

[@mohamedsuhailirfankhazi6628]

As a desi, I want this video to be sent to each and every family in India and Pakistan etc, cuz this mindset is everywhere there...you have no idea how bad it is...desi weddings are so expensive and families put themselves into debt and they don't care cuz they want their wedding to be better than their cousins... and they say "log kya Kahenge?" (What ppl will say?) May Allah guide us

[@MuhammadFaizan-jl4hp]

agreed from Pakistan

[@vinsmokesanji7550]

Pakistani people have forgotten their religion... It's all about being better than others Getting more likes, followers, looking better than others, eating better than other, wearing better than others it is just awful پاکستانی لوگ دین دین دار ہونے کی بجاۓ دنیا دار ہو گۓ ہیں...

[@jemima1688]

I’ve never ever ever, believe me ever related to a video as much as I hav to this one in my entire life. There’s a reason they say comparison is a disease. And this video fundamentally distinguished the truth of that. This video says it all. In black and white. What a man. His words are nothing but the truth. And give you such perspective 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I have no words

[@steezefairy]

Allah sent me here Alhamdulilah

[@easyenglish2023]

May Allah shower His enormous bliss on you.

[@haymaroo3577]

Alhumdulilah,I am student of biyannah through youtube. May allah give you effort to do more lectures,Sir!

[@haq786786]

Very good topic Ustadh !! Jazaak Allah Fid Daarain.

[@zh7077]

May Allah SWT gives u long live n health inshallah

[@auliadevi2009]

Assalamuamaikum, Ustadz Nouman, I have ever told you that you are the only one person that I want your possession. I have never wanted anybody elses possession.I don't care about their spouse,their children, their money and treasures,or their job/bussiness, even i never envy about their appereance given by Allah SWT. You are the only one who I want yours which is your strong relationship to Qur'an. I have never wanted to take it from you, because I love the lectures that you explained to us. There is also a group of people who always says: there is a sky upon sky to me which they mean is not to be humble, but to always compare ourselves to other people and compete them (in a wrong way just like an example in your lecture). So, i have never heard them ( and thus they think I'm arrogant) because I'm agree with you about the right competition you mean and not to compare to other in an envy way. .Alhamdulillah, that you and many other Ustadz around the globe have teached us to improve ourselves to be better by a guidance of Allah SWT in Al-Qur'anul Kariim, so I've got many lessons to know my mistakes and change it to a good way. I don't care anymore about the people who always only like and happy to make fun to other people in a bad way and angry if they are being corrected about themselves. I found thats because many people don't have a good connection to Qur'an. Im happy and so grateful that Im having a good relationship with Al-Qur'anul Kariim (thats because of you).I know that I will still find many tests, calamities and difficulties (this world is a test place,isn't it?!) in my journey with Al-Qur'anul Karim, but insya Allah I will be guided by Allah Subhanawata'alaa through Al-Qur'anul Kariim. Jazakallah khairon katsiron Ustadz, may Allah Subhanawata'alaa always gives many many blessings for you and your family.

[@MohamedAmin1983]

I am natively arab speaking and really impressed by how you get these interpretations out of Quran which i never got or red about it before . Allah bless and protect you . Please keep on the great work you are doing

[@husnakh5136]

JazzakAllah kheir brother Nouman

[@yochielevitch4056]

Talk about a SPIRIT OF DECEPTION: MANY ARE FILLED WITH IT!!! Great teaching.....HELP US get delivered from OUR foolishness!!

[@johnconstantinegrey7793]

This Islamic sermon is relevant to people of all faiths. I agree with most of it.

[@shahla9899]

Ustaad NOMAN is a GREAT blessing for us. May ALLAH bless him and his family. Ameen Allahumma Ameen

[@WinnieGooo]

ma sha Allah... the reason that i think he is the best , is the way he explain..may Allah reward him..

[@Greta-Latina]

I wish more people would watch this InshaAllah. Beautiful message.

[@zarminadogar6232]

May Allah bless ustadh nouman

[@asifloni7237]

Ustadh Nouman Ali khan, you are extremely special. May Allah bless you in this life and the hereafter.

[@talash0071]

Ma Sha Allah , May Allah bless you and all of us

[@iqrahcfrvbh9078]

Very useful khutbah. Jazaka Allah khairan

[@shum0013]

Excellent Khutbah. May Allah protect you and your loved ones. Ameen

[@bushrazaman9882]

MashaAllah . May allah bless us all. Keep up the good works you are doing .Thanks

[@rabeedee1805]

Every single time I hear you speak... I am absolutely grateful for You! May our Incredible Allah reward you in incredible ways ustadh!! Salaam

[@Momoisonline]

May Allah Baraka be upon you and upon all the persons that worked to allow these teachings to be available and moreover free. Al hamdouliLlah. Thank you very much.

[@safiyamir8825]

U r owsome in explaining.. may Allah SWT bless uhh..

[@مسلماسماء]

JazakAllahu khairan kathiran for the noble message.May Allah increase us in knowledge and wisdom n help us to understand His Word in best way.

[@nextupafrica9897]

Beautiful message. May Allah guide us and may we seek refugee in Allah that we may shun jealousy and comparison. May Allah bless brother Khan. I’m a new revert and he’s been such a joy to listen to

[@aliashamim3073]

It's such a powerful reminder! I've watched it 8 times already still it's just mind boggling! It changes the whole point of view of our way to lead the life and how we are maybe unknowingly getting into the devil's trap! May Allah save all of us from following the wrong way.

[@rubinaqureshi9356]

I am really thankful for this video. It carries very important lesson that will help us protect from the trap of the shyataan. May Allah guide our hearts. Jazakallah khair

[@Kohat911Khan]

Ma Sha Allah May Allah Ezza Wa Jal blessed you for the opening of our closed eyes Wa Jazak Alla Khair

[@emmakhan9122]

Subhan Allah knowledgeable khutbah Jazak Allahu khair for sharing

[@kajianjum]

This was like another life changing Qutba.. I wish everyone in this world would have watched it..

[@FarhanaFaruq]

Masha'Allah, so well explained. Jazak'Allahu-khair.

[@FitFamTV1]

The world should listen to NAK’s talks

[@amreenrao3830]

MA this lecture gave me so much content for self reflection. Jazak Allah

[@peaceeverywhere4627]

Jazak allah Khair, may allah protect you bro, aameen

[@mohamedfaizal7150]

Masha Allah.. May Allah give him rewards for his wonderful talk.. Ameen... He just explain things beautifully...!!!

[@tikauknow]

Anyway thank you ustadz, make my understanding change and insyaaAllah I will compete with my self from yesterday and become better for tomorrow insyaaAllah, I luv ustadz nouman, always keep healthy ustadz 💜😚

♥️ Eye opening reminder! JazaakumAllahu khayran

[@donyariadi3181]

Alhamdulillah... thanks brother, Jazakallah khair

[@xrayonthemove]

Subhanallah May Allah swt grant you good health and peace of mind

[@BenjouriNadine]

What a precious khutbah this is.A lot of GEMS can be obtained if we hear and understand carefully.May ALLAH bless Ustadh and his team for all the good work! BarakALLAHu feekum jami'an.

[@machinegunkely4417]

Allhumdu lillah for Islam allhundu lillah for making us amongst the ummah of prophet Muhammed (PBUH)

[@fazlayelahi29]

Words are not enough to accomplish how much remarkable Nouman Ali Khan's Khutbahs are....!!!! Jazakallah Khayr. Oh Allah please give me a chance to meet him directly and make me a disciple of him....

[@faree38green]

Brother Nouman thank you so much for this much needed sermon. May Allah bless

[@naadirsoeker2504]

"Your ultimate competition is against your own self" SLOW DOWN NOUMAN 🔥🔥🔥 (Masha Allah, Jazak Allah)

[@AhamedKabeer-wn1jb]

Jazakallah Khair..

[@Sib751]

Elhamdulillah. Thank you for such a nice khutbah,we really all needed it,agree or not. May Allah reward you,as much as all of us that watch it. Amin 🤗😍❤❣☝🏼☝🏻☝🏾

[@MdFaizullah]

Alhamdulillah. Powerful message from a wise person. May Allah bless you and us along with stop comparing with one another.

[@esraaahmed6098]

Barak allah feek .I enioy this vido so much.iam an arab muslim and alawys watches your vidoes and enjoy it so much so iwant to thank you and ask allah to protect you

[@ayansaid8551]

Masha Allah beautiful ❤️ jazakumulaahu Khair for uploading and may Allah bless ustadh Nouman Ali Khan and all of us ameen.

[@omarmohamed-ft6em]

Just wow wow mashallah the most beautiful khutbah ever heard jazakallauhkra Nouman Ali khan

[@vinsmokesanji7550]

I feel like everyone needs to listen to this.

[@musharrafhassan7699]

Masha Allah.... Jaza kAllah Khair Ustaad

[@rorealmughraby8928]

ما شاء الله يارب رد المسلمين الى الاسلام ردا جميلا

[@hashamfahmi8065]

Masah allah, wat a perfect explanation.....we need to compare ourself with ourself only...

[@desilads5555]

Aslam Alikum Brothers & Sisters & Thank you very Much Ustad Nauman Ali Khan for sharing such a Beautiful Video ..!!

[@laycation6458]

4:55 This is because Qabil did not find his wife as attractive as Habil's wife, and wanted to marry her. However, it was forbidden to marry your twin (Habil's wife was Qabil's twin sister). He became jealous of his brother Habil. They went to their dad, Adam (pbuh) and their dad told them to offer something to Allah. And that is why he decided to kill him. Habil had a better looking wife and Allah (swt) accepted his offer over the offer of Qabil. Subhana'Allah. Allah knows best.

[@DawahBroAustria]

Yes you're right, thank you for this addition. Being jealous because someone else has a better looking wife than you is a very big fitna. It consumes husbands. May Allah protect us all.

[@anggisiregar3449]

barakallahu fiikum ustadz and bayyinah team and to someone who make indonesian sub. sangat bermanfaat.

[@mohammadameraliimami5319]

Barakallah feeh

[@msa11387]

Alhamdollah for Allah's mercy and Islam!

[@iffipathaan5089]

Love you Ustadh . . . thnq so much please visit India

[@saghirmughal5389]

Assalamu alaykum may Allah forgive me and us all ameen

[@hijabigirl9338]

Walaikum assalam ameen...

[@عُمر-ك4ش4ت]

اللهم ارحمنا بالقرآن ،واجعله لنا نورا ،وهدى ورحمه ،اللهم ذكرنا منه ما نسينا وعلمنا منه ما جهلنا ، وارزقنا تلاوته آناء الليل وأطراف النهار ،وجعله لنا حجة

[@Ahmed35956]

Jazakallah khair. Exactly what I needed to hear.

[@msk389]

Subhanallah alhamdullilah allahu Akbar. ...important lesson.....may Allah help me and all Muslims to get rid of this dangerous heart disease of pride and comparison which even lead the human being to leave the true path after knowing the truth same like shaytan....the uncle of prophet (pbuh) knows islam is truth but didnot accept it coz of his pride ..today also lot of people are there same like ...very very dangerous heart disease which doesn't allow us to accept the truth from allah....may allah protect me my family and all believers from being one among them and make us accept the truth and qadr of allah ....aameeen....

[@Maldini009]

ive been to a mufti menk talk last week insha'Allah a nouman ali khan talk next

[@sanjidaahmed4081]

May Allah forgive all his sins, he is a blessing a real blessing... SubHan Allah😭😭😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@maleehaaamir665]

JazakAllahu khairan kaseera. Amazing lecture 💕

[@cineaste1972]

I feel sad when other people compare themselves with me and tell me I am nothing and that they are better than me😢 it also makes me feel alone

[@nexithedestroyer]

They are deceived by shaytan to think they are better but in the eyes of Allah you are everything, you are priceless. ❤️

[@N.a.n.a._]

Alhamdulillah, I couldn't wait !

[@jodyahmed230]

جزاك الله خيرا

[@abdulrehmansk97]

May Allah protect Us😪

[@minhajulislam5941]

It is always great to listen you ..

[@ashurabigiri6161]

Shukrani may Allah bless u

[@fzllhuq]

I never see someone explains Qur'an so logically. He is the best in terms of quran tafseer in the contemporary world. He is a superstar in our time.

[@zeenatchishty660]

Ustadh u are the BEST👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@رحيمة-ب8ت]

جزاك الله خير يا شيخ

[@ninevahcarter]

Great lesson! Now I worry about one thing: sometimes one may wish something bad happens to someone because they have experienced, or wittnessed, that one person being mean, or not being fair with someone. It's like you wish Allah s.w.t do something to punish that person, and you ust wish it is something bad. So is it that same desease? Wishing a person is punished for something bad they have done to someone else, because you would be wishing something bad for that person.

[@munajama4705]

Jazakalehu khair Nouman Almighty Allah bless you and your family. 💕💕

[@Amin-zq4dz]

You have to shift your focus onto yourself and concentrate on how to become better each and every single time

[@monasr12000]

O boy! Whenever I listen to Khutbas of this qwality, I thank Allah, that he has blessed me with what so many women of yesteryears were deprived of, just because they couldn't go to masjid friday prayers! Thank you Allah for internet and putting someone of Noman's calibre on that platform of deliverance!

[@taariekchakouh8119]

Ma sha Allah!! Love from belgium, wish you could come here!! Karima

[@angelikaspark1129]

It's so bad that, jelousy is a big problem in our world today. From primary school we began to be jelouse of kids getting better grades, wearing stylish clothes, parents having cars, and then we moved on yo college same things but now with most biggest problem in our siciety is social media, we post ourselves to see who has more followers and likes on our haram pictures. As this is becoming more popular in girls society is to reveal our bodies and not to feel guilty. Satan is doing a good job (sarcastic). Men are becoming more lost and have more intrests in watching videos. This world needs to stop and understand that one day we are going to fail I'm humanity and becoming nothing but a waste to Allah. Thank you for your work for helping us to remember who we need to become ❤️

[@attauba]

If each and everyone of ummah understands these basics then we will truly become ummathul wustha

[@Mahreen]

Masha Allah , wonderful words

[@mahfujhossain1403]

Wonderful...Masa'Allah...very nice lecture...🙂🙂