Michael Jordan scares Robert Parish and laughs at him (04/04/1993)

Jordan looks like a bald Jimmy Butler in the thumbnail haha

[@kevinp7300]

Robert Parrish was one of those quiet guys you just don’t mess with. He’s a martial artist so not too many players dared to test him. He was a tough player.

[@MikeHunt-fo3ow]

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[@danilotamayo5689]

@@MikeHunt-fo3ow couldn't use his martial artistry though in front of MJ. 🤣

[@zerimar26]

When Parish was with the Bulls in 1997, Parish said that in practice, Jordan came up to him and said"I could kick your ass." Parish said "I don't think so." After that encounter, Jordan never got in Parish's face again.

[@alecvip7562]

@@danilotamayo5689 yes, because robert was passive 99% of the time. You rarely saw him ever go off on anyone.

[@bennyb44875]

@@alecvip7562 Unless your name was Bill Lambier

[@caribbean7667]

Correct title of the video: old Robert Parish still schooling three Bulls.

[@JackyTheBatty]

#fact

[@beachbunny7256]

Please do a chief video!!! He is a charming southern gentleman I'd be honored to meet!!

[@beachbunny7256]

😂😂🎉😂😂 I had to play it back because I said holy moly this is old Chief with a bad ankle!! Celtics had no mercy with the Buils, Lakers, Pistons and 76ers. 76ers rivalry seemed to have gotten lost in history but it was fierce against Dr. J. Jordan learned from the good doctor and from Bird, how to get inside player's minds with trash talking. Chief is the man!! Those 3 played injured. No one could beat them even then until they just got too worn down after 6 straight trips to the finals, as you would 😂😂

[@Huxiphy]

@@beachbunny7256He very much is! He’s nice and funny, signed my jersey, ball back in our hometown.

[@beachbunny7256]

@@HuxiphyThat's awesome!! What a wonderful memory!! I'm happy for you!!

[@davidbatin1699]

I miss MJ. He was a ballerina in basketball shoes. Graceful but intense with the way he played the game. It was a joy to watch him. The only other person that come close to him was Kobe Bryant.

[@0-Elias-0]

Yeah, Penny Hardaway also moved around the court in a fun manner. Instead of sprinting he'd bounced up & down like a slinky toy. Bop bop bop, shoot; bop bop bop, dunk.

[@zzzvain9710]

WTF U TALKING ABOUT GRANT HILL WAS MOST FUNDAMENTAL PLAYER JORDAN CANT POST UP OR CONTROLL BALL WITH BOTH HANDS. GRANT HILL CAN. U HAVE 15 YEARS U NEVER SAW JORDAN IN LIFE. MCGRADY IS MORE SKILLED THAN KOBRICK AND JORDAN HILL IS GOD OF SKILLS COMPARE TO OVERRATED KOBRICK AND MJ

[@davidbatin1699]

@@zzzvain9710 No doubt Grant Hill was a great player but MJ was the GOAT with 6 championships rings. Hill never won a NBA championship.

[@zzzvain9710]

HORRY 7-0 U MAY TALK HERE WHEN JORDAN WIN 7 RINGS HOERRY IS GOAT. MORE RINGS MORE DAGGERS THAN JORDAN. BTW SAM JONES HAVE 10 RINGS. NO DOUBT JORDAN IS NOBODY.

[@davidbatin1699]

@@zzzvain9710 Horry didn't carry a team & take them to the championships. He just played on different teams with super stars. & happened to be at the right time. Who the hell is Sam Jones?

[@GABRIELA-ACEVEDO.]

Then a few years later Parish gets another ring playing with MJ.

[@CatsClaw44]

And nearly kicks Jordan's ass in practice.

[@benzer126]

We're talkin about practice.

[@jso19801980]

@@CatsClaw44 parish stood upto bully tho

[@patstreater]

@@benzer126 Not the game we love, practice.

[@JPLMONEY23]

Yea he got a free ride alright and can say how I can whoop his butt in practice.....well that was the way MJ run practice.....intense, hard work, in yo face confrontation.....but at the end of the day.....it makes you a tougher, brash, don't take nothing for granted attitude.....how do you think he got all them 6x rings?

[@nicedoppy2077]

Great match.....Rob Parrish just wonderful and classy player with a great performance, so focus, quick reaction, hidding with creativy and passing the ball so accurate plus making a baby hook and all of that in the paint versus marvelous bulls like horace grant, scottie pippen and the GOAT MJ!!....

[@JPLMONEY23]

MJ didn't even touched the ball or even made contact with Parish lol

[@1guddad1]

Reggie Lewis..... 💚 Would have loved to have seen him have a full career against Jordan.

[@tomswill9189]

Facts

[@broaddusmarines]

And Len Bias too.

[@nonamewillbegiven9090]

It was already lopsided by this point

[@nonamewillbegiven9090]

@@broaddusmarines no

[@Gregory-sm9pf]

​​@@TheEsquireofSports.2.0Fact: Reggie blocked Jordans shot 4 times in one game, Jordan said after the game that the way Reggie would position himself and the type of posture he had made it difficult for Jordan to shoot over him, at this point in his career Reggie Lewis was just in the beginning of his prime, playing some very good basketball on both ends of the court,,,,,,,,, what a shame, and the Man was a class act, remember seeing him at a Patriots game back in the very early nineties sitting a few rows in front of me, I could tell it was him just by his posture, he was very friendly to everybody, signing a few autographs, waving to everyone that acknowledged him, Reggie Lewis imo would have had a Hof career,,,,😢

[@PA-qv2dy]

Jordan loved the game but he also enjoyed it a lot while he was playing, he was always talking to somebody, I seen all his games in the 90s thanks to WGN!!!

[@meminustherandomgooglenumbers]

Lucky you. In the first half of the 1980s, a lot of NBA games weren’t even recorded.

[@joeyslap426]

Look how intense this play is lol like a current day game 7 finals

[@danielstaystrong]

So true.

[@eib3137]

The 90s pre game warm up lines are more intense than the nba finals these days.

[@nbagoats4819]

Jordan was like a lion who wasn't afraid to go after larger prey.

[@vagabond4576]

Parish would have whooped his ass though if he crossed the line.

[@KingofgraceSARA]

Parish is like an elephant bull. You'd be hard pressed to find a lion who'd test him.

[@glen7137]

​@@vagabond4576David Robinson would've too.

[@RickyMoss]

Look at the Bulls defense in the paint in the first 17 seconds of this clip... that interior defense is rarely seen today... how are guys getting more injured today than they were back then?

[@lamefart]

Cupcake league. Cupcake environment. Chicken dinner for Shaq and MJ. Lol

[@Gregory-sm9pf]

It's because their fucking snowflakes

[@johnb7053]

I remember being a kid getting excited for Reggie to matchup with Jordan, this must of been the last one between the two

[@Gary828]

who is Reggie?

[@johnb7053]

@@Gary828 Reggie Lewis

[@WdnUlik2no]

RIP Reggie. I truly miss this era of basketball.

[@rueservin]

It's so terribly unfortunate. Man he was on his way to being one of the all-time greats

[@jamesgilles248]

The title should have been, "Robert Parrish draws foul from MJ and then splits three defenders to score."

[@Acoustribute]

Lol, Robert gets the last laugh with half of the Bulls trying to stop him.

[@KingAmaniImani]

And in the end, the Chief scored.

[@John6-40]

Yep. Chief had 9 points and lost by 12 at home to Jordan, who had 32 points. He did score here, though.

[@aiconic10]

Robert Parrish is still very underrated.

[@meminustherandomgooglenumbers]

Prolly coulda led the league in scoring for a decade if he had been on a worse team.

[@Gregory-sm9pf]

​@meminust 1:28 herandomgooglenumbers Definitely, but being on a team that was stacked with HOF players including himself, he just went about his business and played great basketball, never heard a peep out of him as far as wanting to get more shots, minutes played,,,, etc,,, ALL HAIL TO THE CHIEF!!!!!!!!!

[@martindeewan686]

...and then Parish scores against Grant, Cartwright and Pippen.

[@dc4690]

13 MJ haters LMAO

[@RickyMoss]

He had to fight really hard for them two points though.. look at that defense

[@burningkarma]

0:24 Jordan "That's bullshit!" LOL

[@LuisFernando-yd3mx]

Robert told him, "shut up, you fouled me", and Jordan just had to laugh at the ridiculousness...

[@gregoryharlston0602]

I guarantee you he DID NOT say that!

[@Stanlayy-em4fk]

The chief laughed back, you just can't tell

[@robhughes8198]

Look at the size of those mitts @ 0:26 ! Dude was constructed in a lab somewhere for one purpose.

[@menschmenschson7504]

One purpose, to destroy!!!

[@dcrutch434]

Parrish was NOT scared of MJ..when he joined the bulls they almost got into it and he didn't back down from MJ

[@Rischardo5]

Parish is a karate black belt, and is 7 foot tall. Nobody scares him I think

[@air2373]

He was scared from Jordan’s chase down blocks, obviously.

[@zzzvain9710]

@@air2373 NOPE HE SLIPPED BALL HE SCORED OVER 3 PPL U BLIND KID !! PARISH FOUGHT LAIMBEER. JORDAN PUNCH DWARF STEVE KERR ZEKE FOUGHT 6'11 RICK MAHORN NOT VS STEVE KERR LIKE OVERRATED JORDAN.

[@zzzvain9710]

ZEKE >>> JORDAN ANYDAY JORDAN HAS NO RINGS ZEKE WON VS SUPERTEAMS THATS ONLY MATTERS

[@TL2354]

Parish

[@tomswill9189]

This is funny as hell

[@ramsesstafford4640]

Jordan was right If only they had replay back in them days they would have seen he didn't even touch the dude he just scared Robert. 😆

[@TL2354]

If they had replay they would also see the phantom fouls that Jordan got

[@Gregory-sm9pf]

​@@TL2354Exactly! It was fucking ridiculous how many calls he got when nobody even touched him, the refs treated him like royalty,

[@starforcefighter]

Robert Parish was a quiet leader & lead by example. He was respected by everyone! Later in his twilight career he went to play for Chicago Bulls. He even told Michael, ''I'm not enamored by you as everyone else is''-The Chief👍

[@nonamewillbegiven9989]

"But imma still ride you for a 4th ring"

[@rb5519]

It looked like Jordan got all ball with his armpit. That's a special call. Fouling with your armpit. 😂

[@VampireYoshi]

Michael totally got screwed over on that play.

[@exclamationpointman3852]

Parish didnt seem like he cared much for Mike..

[@chadfisher611]

Mike was like a cat on D. Would get up and block 7-footers from behind all the time. D Wade could do it too.

[@tustari]

He was a devastating weak side shot blocker. Big men were in fear of him. D Wade is one of the few who you can mention in the same breath as MJ

[@zachtm4]

You know Micheal is saying "You know I got you, right?"

[@darren7610]

Classic example of Ref blowing his whistle for what he thinks he sees rather than what actually happened. Still happens today

[@xGvPTVx]

I'll never understand why bigs today seldom use those hooks (end of clip finish). They are near impossible to block and put the shooter in a decent position to get back to his feet for a rebound or to get back to a defensive stance since the shot arc is increased.

[@bballvault]

For sure it’s a lost art man big men nowadays wanna shoot 3s

[@cycleoflife565]

It’s not a cool looking shot to the current and recent generations. The bigs are brought up trying to be Magic and Bron, taking perimeter shots like guards.

[@aiconic10]

The game evolves. Bigs are waaaaay more athletic. They are not centers. They are athletic forwards that happen to be six ten and taller. Much higher skill sets than back in the day.

[@mrmacross]

Low post skills aren't being taught as much or as well. Guys in the past who operated well in the post were either physical behemoths or spent years refining their skills. The most famous clinic for learning how to play in the low post was the Pete Newell Big Man Camp, which ran for 35 years but has been gone for more than 10 years now.

[@mrmacross]

@@aiconic10 Yes, and no. Outside shooting? Sure. Perimeter ballhandling? Yes. But it's like 7-footers today don't know how to take advantage of a mismatch down low because they don't know how to manufacture points with their backs to the basket. There's essentially nobody today with Kevin McHale or Adrian Dantley's skill set.

[@affiliatestud]

Chief won the battle when he scored on that baby hook, as did those Celtic teams for years :)

[@ericwillison4011]

What I saw was Michael Jordan laughing at the situation, not laughing at Parish. Especially since Parish ended the possession with a 2-point hook shot.

[@guhsuckyamudda586]

He touched neither Parrish nor the ball; the Chief simply lost the ball trying to avoid MJ’s block attempt.

[@soundautomatic1]

Love seeing MJ like this. The competition, it burns.

[@anticorporatists9959]

I love how Robert Parrish got the best of Pippen on that one

[@millypoo7713]

It's Pippen

[@zzzvain9710]

I LIKE HOW JORDAN BEG RODMAN TO GUARD SHAQ WHEN SHAQ BEAT HIM PRIOR YEAR

[@Discipleofthelordandjesus]

I love how pippen has the most defensive teams EVER in the nba .

[@anticorporatists9959]

@@zzzvain9710 well Jordan is smart enough not to have too much on his plate combination of Nick Anderson Anfernee Hardaway and Shaquille O'Neal might have done it

[@zzzvain9710]

@@anticorporatists9959 NICK ANDERSON IS NOT HOF RODMAN KUKOC PIPPEN ARE. 4 HOF VS 1 SHAQ IS NOT FAIR FIGHT JORDAN REALIZED NOTHING HE HAS NO RINGS.

[@fezzik7619]

Chief didn’t look scared at all in that sequence. That was Fratello just being the mouthpiece that he always was.

[@gerardolopez4318]

Magic was the one who said it

[@auntoneyofuntease6704]

He holds the NBA record for most games played. With today's load management style, I doubt that record will be broken.

[@chrisbr1969]

But Parish scored.

[@milosobrenovic1241]

Chief was the last one laughing.

[@j.wright8157]

Michael made the game so enjoyable to watch!

[@zzzvain9710]

YEAH ESPECIALLY WHEN IVERSON TOOK GAME TO ANOTHER LEVEL AND HUMILIATED JORDAN SO ENJOYABLE TO WATCH IVERSON CARRY TEAM ALONE WHAT JORDAN NEVER COULD

[@broaddusmarines]

I remember when MJ mistook Robert Parrish for Will Perdue when the Chief became a Bull. Jordan tried to punk him in practice and Parrish reminded him that he was getting rings while Jordan was still in high school. And yeah, Parrish threatened to break Jordan in half (like he did to Bill Laimbeer) if he tried to do that again. Guess what? Jordan stayed in his lane after that. I don’t know what MJ was thinking by trying to do that to the Chief. Maybe he forgot how Parrish used to punk the bad boys in the mid to late 80s.

[@WdnUlik2no]

Seeing Parrish beating down Laimbeer in the playoffs was so satisfying.

[@tyronevaldez-kruger5313]

I always thought it was the other quite big guy not Parrish. Joe Cartwright or something like that... anyway thanks for clarifying

[@authornahsun634]

@@tyronevaldez-kruger5313 - You're talking about Bill Cartwright -- Bill was the one who said he was going to break Mike's legs Robert was the one who reminded Mike he was getting rings 💯

[@tyronevaldez-kruger5313]

@@authornahsun634 Bill, right! I confused it with Joe Cartwright from "Bonanza".🤦🏾 US Western series we used to watch on one out of 3 channels here in Germany

[@tyronevaldez-kruger5313]

@Danny P Wasn't aware of Parrish's karate stuff but I remember him on the Bulls bench: absolutely quiet but an intimidating aura at the same time.

[@thestatusqou3908]

As true champion Robert Parrish was not imitated by Michael Jordan's fiasco. Look at how cool and collected he converted his basket. Also true to days he had with the bulls team when MJ tried to get in head of Robert and failed again. He is not air Jordan most people tend to think because his feet were glued to free throw line.

[@nonamewillbegiven9090]

Yawn

[@nonamewillbegiven9090]

Didnt fail when he got that 4th ring for Parish

[@wmden1]

Parish wasn't scared. He saw Jordan coming in, over the top and was trying to hold his shot until Jordan had passed over. He just lost the ball. Jordan was upset because he got a whole lot more calls like that, when he had the ball and nobody had touched him. Why he was laughing, who knows?

[@bballvault]

I think Parrish got a little scared he heard the footsteps and had a flashback haha. Magic Johnson thought he scared him too

[@hinkhall5291]

Like a hawk! Stalking his prey.

[@cedricliggins7528]

Chief was so underrated.

[@bballvault]

Played more NBA games than anyone ever. Great rebounder/defender and a tough ass dude

[@goriotv2023]

Wow thats Paul Pierce...I mean Kevin Gamble!

[@brianfergus839]

Has anyone ever seen Chief smile?

[@Ho11is2Ho11ywood]

That double team split though...

[@joseph-ui2xc]

Jordan's not even Worthy to hold Robert parishes jockstrap😂😂

[@chewy98ta28]

Guarantee Jordan got a call or two in his career, but Chief was so respected by the refs he could travel on almost every low post move and rarely get called for it. The gave him another call here. He was lanky and awkward at times. A bit of a clutz but he knew how to play basketball. Very fundamentally sound, rebounded and played defense, and had some real good low post moves and a sweet touch from anywhere inside the free throw line. So skillful in martial arts he could almost kill a guy on the court and not get ejected from the game.

[@nonamewillbegiven9090]

Yawn

[@stewartgoodwin9488]

Robert Parish... look like a tall version of Richard Pryor without the mustache on that first clip. He redeemed himself though by scoring on all 5 of the Bulls defenders on that next play.

[@jbug1979]

that was actually a nice spin move by Sherman Douglas in the beginning. Too bad he couldn't finish.

[@bradtdarius]

So glad I can see this , and give the perspective of someone actually watched this game. MJ didn't scare Parrish. He laughed because he knew Parrish had got him, with that little hesitation.

[@itbepoetry]

... knew Parish had got himself to turn the ball over. n how he got the ref fooled by his own superhuman flight, body control n timing.

[@ramsesstafford4640]

You giving props to Robert Parish for having butterfingers, lol, either way it go it's funny cuz nowadays it would've been a Shaqtin A Fool moment and before you go there I'm 44 years old I actually remember this game and era very well.

[@TL2354]

Parish

[@MitiaOliver]

He had to fight hard for them 2 points they needed. 🤣🥳

[@TheMaddBlackMann]

New video title. Robert Parrish bakes Horace Grant yet again

[@janelavie4115]

Wow. He got so scared he scored two points.

[@jessef9041]

Thank you @BBall Vault for having original content and for actually having a description that matches the video.

[@beyoncebillings6625]

I miss these days

[@mattycakesmuhammmad]

eye wish eye knew whut da Chief said to da God

[@MRBOLDEN84]

And 4 years later won a championship together

[@SaigonlEntertainment]

scare Parish but Parish got the last laugh with a bucket

[@beachbunny7256]

❤❤hall of famer and a southern gentleman ❤❤

[@cylkbrunson]

The GOAT never touched the Chief…😅

[@emmanuelenyinwa1443]

Of COURSE, he touched PARRISH. What you mean is Jordan never touched THE BALL, as Parrish lost it on the pump fake.

[@cylkbrunson]

@@emmanuelenyinwa1443 no. He really didn’t.

[@heartoflion3736]

@Cylk Brunson you mean you didn't see Michael Jordan's gum came out of his mouth made him lose the basketball.

[@cylkbrunson]

@@heartoflion3736 🤣🤣🤣

[@heartoflion3736]

@Cylk Brunson no seriously he hit Robert Parrish with his gum. Mj better becareful how chews gum he can pok someone's eye out.

[@ezsmith3765]

1:14 There’s 5 fouls in todays game. In the 80s + 90s this was called A HOOK SHOT 🏀

[@joshuaevans5246]

R.i.p to Reggie Lewis

[@worldlfree]

He asked him “That’s a foul” Chief probably said “All Day”

[@MassGainingGuy]

The Chief!!!

[@yoursportsnow9729]

Parrish: Ball don't lie

[@jakedouglas6193]

Nice MJ could laugh about a foul call on him as it was so stupid, this was awesome

[@onetime3137]

Robert “ I was caught with marijuana “ Parish

[@JSWang-ii8kd]

Parish still scored against that triple-team defense of Bulls.

[@bernarddelossantos8083]

not a block , no contact, just a slip, lol

[@standup3686]

Hook was silk smooth

[@jr032582]

and The Chief got a calling to fight side to side with His Airness in 1997 and together win the title

[@ja2415]

Robert Perish came to Chicago and won a ring with Jordan

[@eliporter3980]

That was a clean ass skyhook by Parish

[@wilmetteentwistle9242]

Jordan scaring Old Man Parrish

[@coltruiz7126]

In his prime the Chief could also be MJ's dentist

[@mojebi3804]

what

[@coltruiz7126]

@@mojebi3804 ask Bill Laimbeer

[@nonamewillbegiven9090]

@@coltruiz7126 Laimbeer still played in that game

[@coltruiz7126]

@@nonamewillbegiven9090 with a missing tooth

[@nonamewillbegiven9090]

@@coltruiz7126 meh

[@richardpare3538]

Jordan "scared" the Chief??? THAT is a laugh!

[@nonamewillbegiven6847]

So he did. You clown

[@CookingWithLosPrimos]

I don't think the chief laugh back at MJ

[@ramsesstafford4640]

Air Jordan don't care. LOL

[@mrbriscoe2001]

Parish has The Last Laugh here. He doesn't look scared. He never did.

[@nonamewillbegiven9989]

Bulls won the game so they had the last laugh

[@eugenebeck6593]

Scare Robert Parish? Dumbest shit I have ever heard. You don't scare The Chief. The Chief scares you.

[@lenliu749]

Scared my ass.

[@rizeye0014]

The Chief is my favorite player

[@edenahbez2656]

parish was a big character..

[@timhoward5]

*That was a pretty hook shot.*

[@RoyPage1970]

This Boston Celtics team was beaten by a rookie Alonzo mourning and a second year Larry Johnson in the playoffs that year sure as hell wasn't schooling nobody Kevin McHale retired it was his last game the end of that series and I think parish played one more season there and then went to Charlotte

[@TommieGun71]

I forgot how horrible Magic Johnson was at color commentary.... that was a rough 2yrs listening to him.

[@itsmeforsure5475]

Everytime chief would shoot those 30' rainbow foulshots, my heart would stop. He would make them all though.

[@bbkyjohnson]

I find it funny how they make a big deal of mj getting called for a phantom foul when if you compare how many phantom calls were made in his favor over the years. He was a hell of a player!!

[@nonamewillbegiven6847]

No phantom fouls found. Keep crying salty

[@nonamewillbegiven6847]

Of course you're subscribed to Brett Cooper

[@bbkyjohnson]

Who’s Brett cooper?

[@nonamewillbegiven6847]

@@bbkyjohnson right wing media. Troll

[@bbkyjohnson]

Oh I know who she is now. I had to look through my subscriptions. Thanks for the reminder.

[@marvin7533]

RIP Reggie Lewis

[@redrocker1055]

Robert Parish was a bad man. Nobody scared him, especially a tiny, in comparison, Jordan.

[@dusttaker]

he even 2 pieced Bill Laimbeer

[@TheArtOfDean]

After Parish joined the Bulls, there was no scaring him by Jordan. Parish studied marital arts, for starters.

[@burningkarma]

Look at Jordan going in on Chief and he's not having any of it. Gets the ball, makes his move and puts it in.

[@ramsesstafford4640]

Wow y'all really in here acting like they were supposed to be in a octagon or something. Whether he was scared of getting blocked by MJ or just had butterfingers Robert Parish fumbled on that play big time. LOL

[@dusttaker]

@@ramsesstafford4640 well he was heavy in kung fu. he would hold his own in the UFC!

[@TheSubmissionChannel]

Parish always looked sixty years old.

[@brillopad6911]

Miss these days

[@marcusweathers7478]

HE DIDNT FOUL HIM AT ALL..SCARED THE YOU KNOW WHAT OUTTA HIM..PARISH WAS WEAK ANYWAY...THEN HE WENT AND JOINED THE BULLS ..buster...

[@eulissbeniot9024]

Parrish was never assumed by the greatest because he played for the Boston Celtics

[@amancalledhawk5575]

Robert Parish wasn't scared he flopped lol

[@jesusian7]

Im pretty sure Robert Parrish wasnt scared by Michael Jordan. Please....

[@nonamewillbegiven9090]

Get a sense of humour

[@jesusian7]

@@nonamewillbegiven9090 ok Jordan lover....just relax. No one here is taking away from Jordan's greatness. You can be at ease now. We wouldn't want you to get too upset. Jordan scares everyone. Is that better?

[@nonamewillbegiven9090]

@@jesusian7 okay we get it, you're a Mo Lasky now get to back to your husband

[@jesusian7]

@@nonamewillbegiven9090 whats a mo?

[@nonamewillbegiven9090]

@@jesusian7 ask your husband