Joey Struggles To Come To Terms With The Impact of Losing His Mum | Joey Essex: Grief & Me

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Joey Essex opens up for the first time about dealing with grief after his mum took her own life.
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@serena0997
@serena0997 3 жыл бұрын
The happiest people on the outside are the ones suffering the most on the inside. It's great to see a more venerable relatable Joey
@The_torero
@The_torero 3 жыл бұрын
I have always said this. The ones that are constantly upbeat are the ones with the most problems.
@joshuamatheron1
@joshuamatheron1 3 жыл бұрын
Not sure that’s the case. You could certainly say there are plenty of cases of this. In general most people are quiet for a reason.
@tekbahadurrai9721
@tekbahadurrai9721 3 жыл бұрын
@@joshuamatheron1 🏴🏴🏴🏴
@chrisbull4108
@chrisbull4108 3 жыл бұрын
@@The_toreroMaybe their being “upbeat” is because they’re naturally strong in character, it might be a cover, but some people have a natural ability to overcome problems better than others. 😳
@mattstocks4749
@mattstocks4749 3 жыл бұрын
Did you mean vulnerable? He’s not really venerable in the slightest (venerable means some one who’s very wise)
@mattstocks4749
@mattstocks4749 3 жыл бұрын
Bless him. So many people think he’s just some air headed fool but this just shows that we all have deep pain from our past.
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry he lost his mum when he was only 10 but using this as an excuse for not being able to tie his shoes or tell the time is pathetic I've got grandchildren under five who can do both they're some of the first things kids learn to do
@robslade2571
@robslade2571 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelharrison3602 People on TV could well put a fake persona up to get a reaction.
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 2 жыл бұрын
@@robslade2571 yeah you're right he's a TV Character just like Baldric or Mr Bean he's half my age and he's already earnt twice as much as I have in my entire life so he's not that thick
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 2 жыл бұрын
@@robslade2571 yeah but using your parents death to promise that persona is sick
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 2 жыл бұрын
@@robslade2571 meant to say promote not promise
@thepopfiles4294
@thepopfiles4294 3 жыл бұрын
Joey’s inner child was telling him not to deal with the grief because it was too painful. But in seeking help he was able with his adult head ease that grief and appreciate the time they had. This will be monumental for him.
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 2 жыл бұрын
The vast majority of people who are born loose their parents but they don't make a career out of it they bury them and move on letting them rest in peace not using their deaths as a way to become a celebrity that's disgusting and disrespectful. He'd dig his parents up and have them in the studio if he thought he'd get some TV time out of it
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 2 жыл бұрын
Oh please stop it are you reading teach yourself psychology?
@thepopfiles4294
@thepopfiles4294 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelharrison3602 did you actually watch? Clearly not. Have you ever watched him? Clearly not. He’s very very rarely spoke openly about the death of his Mum and you can clearly see it has effected him. There’s some sensitivity chip missing from you Fella. But don’t reveal that by showing yourself to be a dick on a public platform
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 2 жыл бұрын
@@thepopfiles4294 you're right I don't actually watch celebrity TV I find it boring but I do read the papers and whenever there's anything about this guy he's talking about losing his mum and how that has made him unable to tie his shoes or tell time it hasn't made him incapable of cashing in on it .But he's a Celebrity which means in the eyes of many he can do no wrong
@thepopfiles4294
@thepopfiles4294 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelharrison3602 you must be really bored this morning if something you have no interest in has brought you here and having this discussions. I get what you’re gripe is, he’s uneducated but famous and wealthy. His story is valid all the same of you actually watched. What you said has no relevance.
@skyefeyden
@skyefeyden 3 жыл бұрын
This is incredibly brave, sharing this struggle with the public as he's done. I hope therapy brings him peace.
@IrishgirlieX
@IrishgirlieX 3 жыл бұрын
I literally cried when he said if she loved me so much why did she leave me 😢 life is hard I just want to give him a big big hug and God bless his mum what she must have been going through also to take her own life rip xx
@krackajackz
@krackajackz 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@deerheart87
@deerheart87 2 жыл бұрын
Very sad
@andrewwalton1520
@andrewwalton1520 3 жыл бұрын
Joey is such a beautiful sensitive young man. God help him on his journey.
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 Жыл бұрын
Yes I’m not a fan of most reality TV but he seems a genuine and good man. He loved his mum more than all the money he made.
@davinajuma8381
@davinajuma8381 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing can replace a mother, im struggling with the same thing I truely understand him, I thought if I was rich I would find comfort, my struggles seems to be worse now that my mum is no more. My God rest our mums soul in peace.
@annetteslife
@annetteslife 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@ROBYNMARKOW
@ROBYNMARKOW 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry about your loss.. 🙁
@davinajuma8381
@davinajuma8381 3 жыл бұрын
@@ROBYNMARKOW thank you 😢 😢
@dawnhilton8937
@dawnhilton8937 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you..a year has passed since losing my mum and Im dealing with it at all.
@Calm_Tranquillity
@Calm_Tranquillity 3 жыл бұрын
God bless x
@DestinyBatesa12
@DestinyBatesa12 3 жыл бұрын
Monday will be 5 years since I lost my dad. Having Joey speak out about how he feels on his maladaptive coping mechanisms was not only so honest but relatable. I hope one day he finds peace, a genuine peace within himself and for his mum.
@yasminfletcher2162
@yasminfletcher2162 3 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss, sending my love for Monday xx
@colombejolyfeegbopo3385
@colombejolyfeegbopo3385 3 жыл бұрын
Sending love & prayers your way🙏🏿✝️🙏🏿✝️🙏🏿✝️ also i am so sorry for your loss
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 2 жыл бұрын
Most people loose their parents before dying themselves it's called life and it hurts sometimes
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 Жыл бұрын
Most don’t lose them at 10 yrs old. Have a heart? Even if it is common and we all have to deal with it one day, it’s still relevant and useful to see someone dealing with real grief. Not much else on TV to watch these days.
@01dazolympia
@01dazolympia 3 жыл бұрын
Always found him an incredibly likeable person and this has just highlighted why. Such a lost soul but so honest and open. I hope that he finds his way through this.
@pebbles4715
@pebbles4715 3 жыл бұрын
Awww bless him, this brought tears to my eyes. I lost both my parents, so I can relate so well to Joey. Money is nice and it’s better to cry in a Mercedes than on a bicycle, but there’s no substitute for your mum especially. No matter whom we lose throughout our lives, I believe we never actually get over it, we just learn to live without the person we’ve lost. Some days, weeks, months, years are easier than others. My mum died nearly 30 years ago, yet sometimes it still feels like yesterday, other days it feels much longer. Sad, 💔💔
@jadealden2338
@jadealden2338 3 жыл бұрын
He’s still very much a boy in a man’s body, my heart hurts for how much he misses he’s mother 🥺🌹✨
@carringtonlefayette8644
@carringtonlefayette8644 3 жыл бұрын
Joey my heart goes out to you. Kind deeds change lives. The universe was showing off when you were made. The universe rewards the brave.
@ltergilywamb8106
@ltergilywamb8106 3 жыл бұрын
What a courageous documentary you made about coping with grief. It was so touching to see you grow in confidence as you absorbed and adjusted to the stages of grief. I am so sorry you had that experience and feel so encouraged by your example. Thank you, and well done.
@tillysanders2593
@tillysanders2593 3 жыл бұрын
The choice of therapist is everything when benefitting from therapy. That relationship has to instinctively feel right almost immediately, regardless of how many degrees they have . It's gutteral trust which doesn't come easy to those who've suffered enormous trauma. Lovely Joey appears depressed and his beautiful Mum must've been .. she likely didn't want to leave him but instead lost hope and wanted the pain to stop. Its very brave to make this film and to reach out for help in the first place which in turn help will help others undoubtedly.
@earth7268
@earth7268 3 жыл бұрын
BBC Three, thank you for sharing such touching stories, life goes on no matter what...Hope everyone find some comfort in their journey of Life..
@TheRoarWithin
@TheRoarWithin 3 жыл бұрын
He’s a really good guy.
@daniellefrancis1476
@daniellefrancis1476 2 ай бұрын
No he isn’t you should see him on Love Island. Utterly vile! 😒
@foreverlis
@foreverlis 2 ай бұрын
@@daniellefrancis1476 put the reality tv show aside and show grace. a little goes a long way.
@Billzloveschelsea
@Billzloveschelsea 3 жыл бұрын
His sister is such a sweetheart.
@littleowl22778
@littleowl22778 3 жыл бұрын
Mental health is so important!!! Especially for men and ultimately everyone needs to feel safe and comfortable to talk about their feelings without fear, shame, embarrassment for needing help. Everyone needs help sometimes. Joey is doing exactly what I wish I could which is go back to my childhood home and walk around and soak in all the memories. Man this hits on a whole another level. 😢 I've been back to the street but it had changed alot but it was nice being back there.
@carringtonlefayette8644
@carringtonlefayette8644 3 жыл бұрын
Alex I concur with your sentiment 100% Australia 5.05pm
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 2 жыл бұрын
Nobody is saying he should be ashamed or fearful of his feelings or needing help most people loose their parents and feel the same thing but don't try and make a living out of it
@titifolol
@titifolol 3 ай бұрын
What I did to help myself now is something I will tell you to do Joey Essex....You go back and look at that little boy, and you take his hand in yours and you tell him "Come on with me, It's ok mate I'll look after you now"
@hayaglamazonluxe
@hayaglamazonluxe 3 жыл бұрын
I lost my father at 14. It took at least a decade for me to go by without crying when thinking of him. I can see where Joey's grief is coming from because he has not yet come to terms with her heartbreaking decision. It is brave of him to share his feelings.
@dixiempulusu3230
@dixiempulusu3230 3 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@mariaangelicavillarraga2334
@mariaangelicavillarraga2334 3 жыл бұрын
Omg,are you ok now?
@hayaglamazonluxe
@hayaglamazonluxe 3 жыл бұрын
@@dixiempulusu3230 💟💟
@hayaglamazonluxe
@hayaglamazonluxe 3 жыл бұрын
@@mariaangelicavillarraga2334 Thanks for asking. I'm much better now but I do think about him often and pray for him.
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 Жыл бұрын
My mum died last year at 88. She was a lovely person and I did all I could for her, but I still miss her every day and occasionally shed tears. It’s a hard part of life that reminds us how precious it is. Best wishes.
@inerit5175
@inerit5175 3 жыл бұрын
I've lost my mum: However , I can not begin to imagine his pain considering the circumstances!
@TheBBBeth
@TheBBBeth 3 жыл бұрын
So much love and respect for you Joey. I truly wish you nothing but the best ❤️
@annetteslife
@annetteslife 3 жыл бұрын
I know the feeling of losing a parent. I lost my mom 5 months ago to a sudden and swift heart attack and I lost her a week before my 48th birthday. I still haven't come to terms with the sudden death of my mom!
@mrswolf3084
@mrswolf3084 3 жыл бұрын
Sending my condolences, I too lost my mother 4 months ago and died in her sleep and still trying to get my head around it all.
@pearlford121
@pearlford121 3 жыл бұрын
So sorry for ur loss sweet x
@monicanath4859
@monicanath4859 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you! My father passed away 5 months ago too. The loss of a mother is just as traumatic in a different way. Take good care of yourself now.
@ellajackson4272
@ellajackson4272 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss ❤️
@monicanath4859
@monicanath4859 3 жыл бұрын
His mother was a beautiful woman who must have suffered so much. Joey looks just like her. Her spirit radiates through him. I wish him the best of luck with everything.
@ellajackson4272
@ellajackson4272 3 жыл бұрын
Agree with everything you said
@naysx12
@naysx12 3 жыл бұрын
I feel for him man
@andyhodgkinson7526
@andyhodgkinson7526 3 жыл бұрын
Don't everyone loses someone....would it be easier with 500,000 quid ?
@sophooper
@sophooper 3 жыл бұрын
@@andyhodgkinson7526 well money isn’t gonna get his mum back? he even said he would give up everything just to see his mum for an hour
@enadine6405
@enadine6405 3 жыл бұрын
Andy Hogdinkson what a horrible horrible responde.
@andyhodgkinson7526
@andyhodgkinson7526 3 жыл бұрын
And who cares everyone wants to see someone again im sure he's just a privatised spoilt brat
@sophooper
@sophooper 3 жыл бұрын
@@andyhodgkinson7526 he wanted to spread awareness? i dunno why you don’t just keep your opinion to yourself and not comment because no one is arsed about your option r they
@sisigpapi
@sisigpapi 3 жыл бұрын
Love Joey Essex, there's not a bad bone in him
@_fr3663
@_fr3663 2 ай бұрын
Is this why he can’t be loyal to 1 woman? He’s scared that she will leave him like how his mum did?
@matt-eq6ms
@matt-eq6ms 3 жыл бұрын
Lovely guy its evident hope he finds peace ❤️ because he deserves it truly.
@nattyaaa
@nattyaaa 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes behind the smiliest of people lies the greatest sadness. I don't think it's about getting over a loss like this its about finding ways to keep going and part of that is to confront the pain from the hole in our hearts so it starts to hurt a little less.
@liamsmyth2917
@liamsmyth2917 3 жыл бұрын
I can really relate to this. I’m 18, and lost my Mam a month ago, so I suppose my case is somewhat similar. Joey is very brave for doing this, and I really understand what he means when he says he’s on his own... even when you’re surrounded by friends and family, it’s impossible to discuss something like that with them, without upsetting them too. You don’t want to put that burden on others. I hope now that he can find some sort of escape from this long struggle.
@tracks8414
@tracks8414 3 жыл бұрын
Joey just watched the documentary should be proud of yourself with everything you have achieved look as positive stuff your mum would have been proud good on you pal Brodie Leicester 👍
@TheMissaysia
@TheMissaysia 2 жыл бұрын
Love seeing the real side to Joey. When you lose a lived one to suicide it's extremely difficult for anyone to understand what you are going through. As a child, to lose your mother would be the worst feeling. This will be the best thing he's ever done for himself. I hope he finds what he's looking for and can heal.
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 Жыл бұрын
Yes he deserves a good partner who I’m sure he’ll love so much. No man should be ashamed of crying.
@vibinxlacyx
@vibinxlacyx 3 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine his pain growing up... I like Joey even more after watching this. Very brave I wish Joey all the love and happiness in the world. His mum will be watching over him. X
@doublegtotheg9807
@doublegtotheg9807 3 жыл бұрын
Watched this today after not knowing previously of what happened to his mother despite being a fan of his personality on Imma Celeb and Celebs go Dating. Very heartfelt and emotional, hope now he can finally move on with some sort of comfort and find that much long awaited happiness.
@Geezman1977
@Geezman1977 3 жыл бұрын
This was so hard to watch, yet so important to see. Someone needs to see this!
@raunakiqbal8188
@raunakiqbal8188 3 жыл бұрын
I met joey Essex once and he’s such a good guy. Told him” he was my childhood role model”. Now I see why. Fame and being rich does not fill in the gap for a loss of family. Family is the most important thing and he epitomises that. His mum would be proud of him and wants him to move on and fill the gaps of grief.
@sophiehill3297
@sophiehill3297 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Joey, Just know that your mother died as a result of the illness depression. She hung on as long as she could in life because she loved you and your sister. It's a cruel illness and can be made worse or easier by her parents and her own prior life experience. You do not need to feel at all rejected or intentionally abandoned by her because I promise it would have been the opposite. People do hide, as much as they can, the symptoms of severe depression;fortunately that is getting better now and people talk about it. I think I'm just about old enough to be in the mother demographic of a 30 year old and anyone can see what a lovely sensitive kid you were. Sensitive also means strong, because people who cant show they need help suffer more;I wont call them weak as some generations just didnt allow for it. Don't rush to be in a relationship just inwardly hug yourself and face anything you need to, but remember you are clearly so loved. A Friend :)
@arnazir17
@arnazir17 3 жыл бұрын
Joey is so brave. I applaud his bravery and vulnerability. A real insight into childhood trauma and how hard it is to deal with it. I hope he finds peace and knows his mum will be forever with him. My respect for joey 📈📈📈📈📈📈📈📈
@danmoran485
@danmoran485 2 жыл бұрын
Joey. Go travelling, read some books, swim, do volunteer work, whatever, just build a rounded personality, because right now, you are a know nothing and it's going to hurt you and anyone you know. Seriously, bro, just find a meaningful cause.... there's more to it than sexy girls......
@emmajones3131
@emmajones3131 3 жыл бұрын
Bless Joey ...what a lovely man he is growing into ..
@natashaohara7278
@natashaohara7278 3 жыл бұрын
I have just watched the hour long episode. No words for how great it was. Big love to JE xxx
@peachycream
@peachycream 4 ай бұрын
The day a person commits suicide their problems end. But their families just begin. Its cruel. I hope Joey finds peace. He seems like a nice guy.
@daniellefrancis1476
@daniellefrancis1476 2 ай бұрын
Yes I wish people would seek help first before they even consider suicide. Especially if they have young kids. How can any mother leave their kids in that way is beyond me! 😒
@Blueilily
@Blueilily Ай бұрын
@@daniellefrancis1476people do!!
@ROBYNMARKOW
@ROBYNMARKOW 3 жыл бұрын
I know this OS but Joey has beautiful blue eyes. Hope he finds the peace of mind he's looking for..
@og6920
@og6920 3 жыл бұрын
Joey is a darling young man and I hope he continues to heal. He's on the right path to get through this. I wish so much that I could hug him.
@nicholablacklaws5380
@nicholablacklaws5380 2 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness 😢I never knew and I will never ever judge again x ❤sorry x
@Utube-l1p
@Utube-l1p Жыл бұрын
Loved this side of Joey ❤ I wish my son who is also 30yrs old would watch this. He reminds me so much of him. It wasn't a death that has separated us , but a divorce, my son is suffering like Joey is,has the exact same issues, he hasn't spoken to me in over 10yrs and cant talk about me to anyone. I love him so much and miss our relationship..I hope and pray someday he will talk to me. Thank you Joey I now understand why my son feels the way he does. ❤
@Mufcboy11
@Mufcboy11 3 жыл бұрын
feel for him so much I suffer with anxiety it’s horrible I hope u get threw it joey lad keep your head up
@s.wright6945
@s.wright6945 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I watched Joey mature before my eyes. I really hope he continues to grow, find love and have a family of his own.
@zeevon9907
@zeevon9907 3 жыл бұрын
The weather in england does not help as well its always depressing.
@Fatima-ph9ju
@Fatima-ph9ju 3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss and pain Joey. I feel your pain.Take heart Jesus loves you,may God comfort you.
@krackajackz
@krackajackz 3 жыл бұрын
🙏
@RickFlairWooo
@RickFlairWooo 3 жыл бұрын
Haven’t we heard this story about 100,000 times now from Joey. Yes, it’s sad you lost your mum but milking it isn’t going to bring her back mate. BBC at it again making utter shite.
@peameister0
@peameister0 3 жыл бұрын
Just watching the doc and my heart breaks for joey, he truly will be become a vessel for people suffering through depression. Thank you joey.
@voidwalker5328
@voidwalker5328 3 жыл бұрын
Lost my dad at 4 and mum at 12 very similar feelings and thoughts keep strong i am now 24 and have 2 beautiful children keep going your doing so well and therapy is key to getting untrapped in your brain
@palvinderchall7304
@palvinderchall7304 Жыл бұрын
I lost my brother to suicide in 2014 and I totally get where he is coming from that he has trust issues going forward in life. It's like your scared to form new attachments in case you get hurt again. I guess your just trying to protect yourself. Obviously you can let go.of attachements that you have already forged but I certainly dont attach myself to people like I use to for fear of getting hurt. Your not on your own Joey dont forget that. I read a great book by CS lewis .. A grief observed and the first page just summed up how I was feeling and still do. "Its like there is an invisible curtain between you and the real world" after the loss of a loved one. However losing someone to suicide is a different ball game because your dealing with so many things. Firstly you have lost a love one, secondly they took there own life and if they dont leave a note the questions as to why . It's so true that the people left behind are the ones that suffer because they have ended there pain. Well done for going to therapy and opening up but remember your not on your own with the pain that your carrying. Your mum will always be in your heart and no one can take that away from you. Xx
@linmagoxoxox3614
@linmagoxoxox3614 2 ай бұрын
I remember this documentary like it was yesterday 🕊️ I thought it was absolutely brave of you to open up an express yourself deep within; nobody knows unless they have lost a parent just how hard an painful losing a parent is LOVE you joey You’re mummy is going to make sure you have the most beautiful life ever possible you are SHINING SO BRIGHTLY right now i want jessy to WIN THIS an i truly HOPE to god you && your Jessy become WINNERS of Love island 💛🏝️ 2024 🎉 you are SO BRIGHT && BEAUTIFUL AN YOU GOT THIS Team JOESSY 🌤️🕊️💛🏝️
@milaskilathelab
@milaskilathelab 3 жыл бұрын
Always knew he would be hiding something the first time I saw him on T.V. Has the fame, the money.....At the end of it..Just a man who needs his mum back, trade it in a minute i'm sure.
@niamhm2967
@niamhm2967 3 жыл бұрын
It's so brave of Joey to open up about this, and it's so important for others who have gone through something similar to see.
@linzg9680
@linzg9680 3 жыл бұрын
Just watched this on iplayer and it was so honest and painful. My mum died at 48 when I was aged 20 and I can't imagine being the age he was was and losing her. Hope you are more free now Joey, she wouldn't want you to feel empty and sad in this world and I have to remind myself of this as well 💕
@traceysummers2281
@traceysummers2281 3 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain joey I didn't loose my mum at a young age but loosing a parent is so hard I've lost both my parents now and it's so hard at times. Stay strong joey I know it's hard and your mum didn't mean to hurt you I believe she must of loved you very much but was fighting her own demons and couldn't find a way out of her own sadness, I hope you come to understand that she didn't do it to hurt you and a mother never wants to hurt there child but sometimes it's hard not to so I hope you get the help you need and get comfort in knowing she did love you and I hope you can start living your life to the full like she would want you too I was in tears watching your documentary as its never easy loosing a love one especially one of your parents be happy joey your one amazing brave person speaking out about your grief xx
@daniellefrancis1476
@daniellefrancis1476 2 ай бұрын
I struggle to understand how a mother with young kids could kill herself. I know she obviously had problems but surely she could have had professional help. Leaving your kids is the ultimate rejection!
@sharrondebby7950
@sharrondebby7950 3 жыл бұрын
The circumstances of her death probably made him feel abandoned more than if she had died from natural causes. Sorry if I’m stating the obvious
@Deekalonz
@Deekalonz 2 ай бұрын
Who’s here after seeing him on love island 🤣
@annab1582
@annab1582 3 жыл бұрын
Watched it last night , quite upsetting to watch some bits of it . I lost my mom at 32 and it absolutely crushed me , can’t imagine how difficult it is being 10 and not have your mom around 😢😢 you just have to learn to live with it now and find your happiness ! All the best to him ♥️♥️♥️
@davinamissick6780
@davinamissick6780 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry, I've missed judged .Bless you 🙏
@al201103
@al201103 3 жыл бұрын
We all judge others and it's easy to misjudge someone. It takes heart to realise that's what you've done, and to openly share your mistake. Bless YOU Davina.
@JamieBettison
@JamieBettison 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you find what you need mate x
@EmmaRonan
@EmmaRonan 2 ай бұрын
When you miss your mum, and you just want your mum, everyone in the world could hug you and comfort you but it’s your mum you want and need and it’s utter heartbreak 💔
@missflipz
@missflipz 3 жыл бұрын
His biggest hurt is when he asked, ‘why did my mom leave me, if she loved me’…. 😢 So he clearly feels she never loved him and that pain has crippled him inside all of his life and being a prankster has helped mask it and been the only way he has felt accepted and loved, to be funny and outgoing in company. I hope the therapist helps him realise it’s not because his mother didn’t love him. It’s because she couldn’t face any of her own pain anymore and wasn’t able to love him as she so desperately wanted. 😢🙏
@michaeltimothycole
@michaeltimothycole 3 жыл бұрын
Can you upload.Hangar 17 series 2.Hangar 17 series 2.With bands and music cut.With puffin' billy song uncut.GranyCoral.
@jamilaasfu7481
@jamilaasfu7481 3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry Joe. I have been in the same situation I am so glad I didn't do it Your mum pain disappeared but it was put on her family she didn't thinking straight. Please be strong. ♥️🙏🙏🙏
@britturk123
@britturk123 22 сағат бұрын
God forbid this tragedy on anyone. Joey is actually a wonderful success story and has done very well his sister too . Suicide I believe is something to do with the person taking their life not those who are around them, they feel deficient somehow which being as beautiful and wonderful as Joey's mother obviously was no one can feel or see the reason why, one thing is certain the why has got nothing to do with the poor people left behind who will forever miss and love her.
@christieomojo
@christieomojo 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to anyone dealing with this in their family.
@lorrainewebb3163
@lorrainewebb3163 3 жыл бұрын
Wow...seen a different side to him ..so hard to lose a parent..but at 10 & those circumstances 💓
@joannesamuel1083
@joannesamuel1083 3 жыл бұрын
I wrote sometime last year on a video that joey was in, I said he needs therapy because of the loss of his mum you can see he needed this so glad he has decided to get help, he has kept all this inside for so long, when you hurt inside, it’s so hard to be happy, love 💕 you Joey you are handsome and kind hearted soul, hope you get all the help you need hun.
@missflipz
@missflipz 3 жыл бұрын
I am hoping the documentary, (have yet to see it), helps everybody here who has commented or will comment and are also struggling with grief and depression. That would be amazing if it helps ease your pain too and makes you feel hopeful and happy again. Sending you my love and virtual hugs for the pain you have felt and the struggles you are having. Stay strong and find your peace and happiness ❤️💜💚💛🕊✨💫
@AM-dv1xh
@AM-dv1xh 3 жыл бұрын
Sending Joey the biggest virtual hug ever! I hope he finds inner peace eventually. Heart of gold 💛
@swampophelia2098
@swampophelia2098 3 жыл бұрын
Aww bless him, I hope he finds a way to live with this and to start enjoying his life
@serinagrant5783
@serinagrant5783 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@Samuel115s
@Samuel115s 2 жыл бұрын
Joey always seems so happy, confident and fully of energy. I'd never think that he was going through all of that. He is brave to be this vulnerable on TV, much respect 👏🏽.
@Emily00Strange
@Emily00Strange 3 жыл бұрын
*Does anyone know where I can watch this in the USA?* KZbin recommended me this video, but BBC iPlayer won't play in my country.
@Ryan-yh7nk
@Ryan-yh7nk 9 ай бұрын
What an moving documentary about grief when we feel sad and it was on BBC three and it's about depression and joey essex was on towie and the only way is essex and that was very emotional honestly 😢
@ayatchafaqui
@ayatchafaqui 3 жыл бұрын
Joey I wish you strength that you will get through this. An absolute gentleman with such a great heart❤️ You are so strong for doing this and opening up ❤️
@willtoon88cat
@willtoon88cat 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t know much about you joey but I feel the exactly the same way over my dad I can’t let go I’ve tried everything and it’s killing me he’s not here. I don’t know how to move on I’ve lost everything
@owenfrancis1713
@owenfrancis1713 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you joey Essex I lost my nan best friend and another family friend to suicide and iam struggling hard my self these last few days bless who ever reads this message I wish you the best x
@gemmakguitar
@gemmakguitar 3 жыл бұрын
This is so inspiring and brave. Just reminds you, you never know what someone if going through on the inside! I have lost my Dad and several people I have loved too. I used to block it all out but now I let myself feel again and I think that is so important. I have starting writing songs and putting them on my channel as I find that a great way to let out grief. I would really recommend songwriting.
@19truman92
@19truman92 Ай бұрын
Fair play I never knew this about him I’m very sorry for your loss x
@lebanon2010fl
@lebanon2010fl Ай бұрын
It really is the performers that we see on tv that hide the greatest sadness. Everyone is going through their own struggle, indeed.
@vtara5394
@vtara5394 2 жыл бұрын
I can so relate to this … feel exactly the same way right now. Losing a parent at that age is traumatic. His mum was so pretty her niece frankie looks just like her.
@babebaby1054
@babebaby1054 2 жыл бұрын
That's her daughter not her niece
@medicatedflowers821
@medicatedflowers821 3 жыл бұрын
Really love Joey might be bit daft at times but he’s a good guy
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 3 жыл бұрын
I lost my father when I was 12 and my mother 3years later I still miss them but I wouldn't dream of using their deaths as a way to promote my public image and popularity
@manatworkhoyeahlovegodmade6373
@manatworkhoyeahlovegodmade6373 3 жыл бұрын
A mother can feel his her son
@hawkerrielly9317
@hawkerrielly9317 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you pal iv been getting therapy for 25 yrs it takes time rooting for you it's changed my life although it's been emotional
@annettesalle1050
@annettesalle1050 2 ай бұрын
I like Joey.. he's such a lovely man. Wish him all the best. X
@thanossfinger5960
@thanossfinger5960 3 жыл бұрын
Good lad Joey always had my respect love to meet the guy one day proper strong to keep on keeping on what he's been through
@MsAquaDaffodil
@MsAquaDaffodil 3 ай бұрын
This is heartbreaking
@micheall1127
@micheall1127 3 жыл бұрын
Does he have a good relationship with his dad?
@leoniward5660
@leoniward5660 3 жыл бұрын
This is just so sad 😢
@firetiger4849
@firetiger4849 3 жыл бұрын
💪🏻 top bloke 💖
@manatworkhoyeahlovegodmade6373
@manatworkhoyeahlovegodmade6373 3 жыл бұрын
You can feel it but you can't explain. Trust me less they know the best. They can't understand you. You're answer come from the sky pray it helps me IU I am you
@manatworkhoyeahlovegodmade6373
@manatworkhoyeahlovegodmade6373 3 жыл бұрын
Jesus is all you need. Gabriel mother Father. You're blood line no one can touch you nothing no agent's flesh and bones Roow ikiema, let no flesh speak
@happyclappyslappy
@happyclappyslappy Ай бұрын
At least he's got a sister. Mine are horrible.
@saraisherwood5016
@saraisherwood5016 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know much about Joey-- But I respect and felt his pain deeply. He is brave and vunerable to share that especially in front of the camera and whole world to be open like that -- I hope he can heal and get the help he needs💞 Good luck mate --
@michaelharrison3602
@michaelharrison3602 3 жыл бұрын
Sharing every thing on camera is how he earns his living
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