A Time Of My Life That I Will Never Get Back | Jesy Nelson: Odd One Out

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Little Mix star Jesy Nelson goes on a journey of rehabilitation as she opens up about the abuse she suffered at the hands of cyberbullies and its effects on her mental health.
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[@LaurenOrion]

Shes not fat... she ACTUALLY has a normal body

[@elliottboyd9585]

shes definitely lost weight since she won the show

[@martha9579]

@@FLAMEalan that's disgusting

[@FLAMEalan]

Martha O'Connor i know, those people shouldn’t even be insulting her when they themselves look even worse

[@fishcereal9940]

Martha O'Connor Nah, the uk has tons of fat people, admit it.

[@shanjanusman9974]

They're talented so who cares about negative views

[@euphoria8641]

the people who made these comments towards her are absolutely disgusting

[@kanemuraa_9709]

moodymidget so youre the one of em too

[@brickWall-mm8gs]

kanemuraa what do you mean?

[@tunasandwich6392]

Why did she get plastic surgery

[@kathleen4814]

The irony of this comment... stop feeding the hate

[@kawiiwhatever9114]

Sip that tea

[@asmijain2695]

When Jesy’s figure is literally your dream body 💀💀

[@iimam]

She is so beautiful, i'm happy she can see her worth now!

[@LittleRedMoon16]

Honestly!!! She’s always been so gorgeous to me!!! I hate so much that this all happened to her.

[@whitepek5494]

Yeah😭

[@Jake-eg8wc]

I don’t understand why people were calling her fat, she isn’t in any way fat!! She is absolutely beautiful, people are just jealous of her beauty.

[@brittanyritenour4695]

Agree! Its terrible that people feel ok about making her feel this way about herself.

[@jodianngonzales9007]

Exactly

[@demtd2417]

And even if she was fat no one has the right to bully her

[@amandac3362]

Exactly what I said -this whole video just blew my mind people would kill to have her figure

[@xDarkWerewolfx]

Because people are envious. In fact most haters probably didn’t care about her physical appearance at all and simply used it as an excuse to bully her.

[@babyanie4673]

Now she left. I hate this so much, Jesy did nothing to anybody but faced one the worst case of bullying. She's always been beautiful.

[@jvncomeaux]

She’s back, all of them just performed together. I believe it was just a mental health retreat.

[@randomperson8313]

@@jvncomeaux no she's not stop spreading false info

[@nicolekearney2889]

Girl you're talking right

[@valbonakavaja1102]

Jesy I miss you so much 💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭

[@krissykemp105]

I bet this haters are happy that she left little mix.....

[@ashleytisdalesbrokenheel]

*"no one is born ugly, we just live in a judgmental society"*

[@aishc9950]

RM

[@OliverChannelURL]

Depends what you think ugly is

[@hellochristimbouttasinagain]

@@OliverChannelURL that’s why they said *judgmental society* you’d be judging lol

[@OliverChannelURL]

@@hellochristimbouttasinagain Ooh sorry

[@leeroysdancer1202]

Nice name❤

[@billysheehan4442]

The line that Jade said tearfully, "Look what you've just done to this girl." is what I also wanted to say to those people who keep on constantly hating her.

[@dronesclubhighjinks]

I hate to tell you this, but the people who are bullying Jesy would be absolutely happy that they broke her. That is exactly the goal they have in mind when they write things like that. Every single one of those bullies is deeply unhappy with themselves and they hate to see anybody succeeding because they are failing at whatever it is that’s most important in their own lives. They want other people to be as miserable as they are. I even bet lots of those bullies weigh a lot more than Jesy ever did. And guaranteed none of them have talent but they have a secret dream of being in a girl group. They are also complete cowards hiding behind a keyboard and anonymity.

[@lanaprowse3269]

Yes it's sad because now jesy has a solo career she doesn't even have the decency to speak the other girls who were always there for her and supporting her

[@JanPalmtree]

There's more people who support her than those who bully her. Every dark side has a bright side. She was no where near fat! She's beautiful!

[@stacey9377]

She ain’t ugly...the society is.

[@Rudi_Mentary723]

The society isn't ugly ma'am. It's fair. That's why the same society which can call you beautiful can also call you ugly. It's all on the individual and how they receive the society's opinions. It always has been.

[@fallenwaffles7564]

Abhishek Choudhury it doesn't 'have the right' to call people ugly. It's not fair, but this shouldn't happen at all, whether you're a celebrity or an average person.

[@fallenwaffles7564]

Abhishek Choudhury I think your opinion is wrong that it should be the individual. It's the individuals that are so ugly on the inside to comment such awful stuff about a beautiful, successful woman out of spite. They need to take a long hard look at themselves.

[@fallenwaffles7564]

Abhishek Choudhury For you to defend it, you've not seen the video or the struggle of this woman. For YOU to be so IGNORANT, you have no clue, no understanding. You have no sympathy and you're pessimistic, blaming. It isn't Jesy's fault for ANY of this, she's a victim of her own success and it's all jealousy. The people who have done this should be ashamed of themselves. And so should you.

[@Rudi_Mentary723]

@@fallenwaffles7564 It shouldn't happen at all. I agree to that. But it does happen. It has been happening for a long time. And it will keep happening in the future. So rather than point the finger at them. Point the finger at yourself, be mentally strong and develop a thick skin. That's how you survive. You know what I think about these things ? It don't matter what I think because life would just keep carrying on the way it is. I accept the fact there is good and bad and that one can't exist without the other. It's just easier to look at things that way.

[@bluespruce7891]

Shaming someone for their physical appearance is so pathetic and disgusting. No ifs or buts.

[@jagyaaseni]

Exaaaaactly.

[@PrestontheHomosexualLion]

I have a lot of people who shame me for my looks. I genuinely don't know what to do.

[@nellyhalila721]

SOOOO TRUEEEEE

[@sofhris4982]

Preston the Fashionista Stand up for yourself or try to ignore them and surround yourself around your friend group.and positive energy :)

[@shockshplock3480]

I love Trees I mean to a certain extent I agree with you...

[@alois_trancy3245]

I can’t believe that I’m just now hearing about her leaveing

[@naakwarley3434]

Me too am just shocked...

[@whyyyy28]

Yes, Jesy has made mistakes but no one, and i mean no one deserves any type of bullying like that.

[@meg5323]

@Prick, Scumbag College Neil, the bathroom's free, unlike the country under the Thatcherite junta!

[@WallenLeah]

What did she do?

[@natashaing4999]

@@WallenLeah black fishing I think

[@myqueens16]

Jesy is one of the most beautiful woman I've ever seen..

[@jayatisingh3643]

Trueeeeee🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@holdmyweight3597]

She looks like the red haired fish from shark tale (go look it up if you’re too young) lol

[@toluzhimo4395]

@@holdmyweight3597 you stupid she has a better life than you she doesn't cares about your shits✌

[@toluzhimo4395]

She's queen

[@juliuscaesar3560]

@Holdmyweight35 noone cares about your opinion tbh... people like you is the reason why Earth is a hostile place to live in

[@lianne_shiii]

Wth she wasn't even fat, she looks so freakin' gorgeous. What is wrong with people 🤦

[@Illplll]

I honestly don’t know probably just because their jealous

[@brigidmurphy4425]

😂

[@brigidmurphy4425]

Kind

[@sweetcreaturep4117]

They are just JEALOUS she is really pretty and no one can take that away from her

[@sophiafeatherstone2722]

The way that you used 'fat' to suggest it's an insult, that it's somehow inherently bad, is also an issue. Even if she was fat, that's not a bad thing. Beauty doesn't equate to being skinny.

[@hearmeoutbro]

The fact that when they went back on X factor to perform their new single she came across as confident but inside was scared of people’s reactions and thoughts shows how deceiving tv can be.

[@sashagayechambers75]

She is so beautiful and innocent and those people broke her spirit but I know one day she will get her spirit back up

[@xxxAmandaxxx]

Jesy is absolutely beautiful. Heart shaped face, big beautiful eyes, a cute little button nose, with a head full of thick hair. How can anyone EVER call her ugly? Tf..

[@buterababe5594]

Amanda exactly!!! She’s stunning

[@suruj5652]

Ikr she's gorgeous

[@316EMPIRE]

@@buterababe5594 Rightt , but seems like she cared about useless strangers thoughts which affected her mental health. Nice to see she got help

[@lydiawase2352]

Honestly on my opinion she’s not all that

[@givmespace]

shes my favorite out of all the girls.

[@OSJDOD_]

This how many people think jessy is a beautiful woman

[@tills5271]

ME! Shes amazing and soooo talented

[@no-ln3nm]

Way more ppl

[@crazyazriel1648]

Jesy

[@minniexoxo1352]

I don't think she's beautiful... I KNOW SHE'S BEAUTIFUL AF

[@mushdashsisters4511]

Natalia Caranfil me

[@tv.zayn.]

she's so beautiful and her voice is everything if u think she's ugly then ur mind is ugly not her she'll shine brighter than diamonds

[@stay.luvingstraykids4508]

I love all members so I'm not gonna say one of them is prettier, but when my dad saw a performance of them he said: "this girl (jesy) she's mesmerising, what a beautiful woman". And I totally agreed, her body was and is pretty, her smile is so bright and pure, and when she's singing her entire aura feels like art, like watching a beautiful painting.

[@snc9035]

honestly how blind do you have to be to call this woman ugly

[@jpmicheals9269]

Extremely blind

[@antwonnyy]

Defqon you aren’t exposed to millions of people so who are you to tell her how she feels

[@roseqomh6608]

Or fat

[@antwonnyy]

Defqon no we’re not lol, a few hundred maybe IF they’re even looking at you. I’m not “famous” and have thousands of people on my social media all the time and leaving comments like that.

[@zercon8405]

@Defqon your a dumbass lol

[@jesikakubeserian8968]

Honestly ashamed to be living in a world with pathetic and disgusting people 🤦‍♀️

[@Bigsupreme2000]

If this woman would be living our Muslim society, she would be an honored one, a sister, mother, wife etc. but in the west you can see value of woman. The western liberals have failed to give respect to their own women who have no more family culture and they say women are forced in Islam. Tell me which Muslim woman is unhappy to follow Islam?? Western Women are the most Islam opting nowadays.

[@lanaabdula27648]

Really good advice for people so they be kind

[@lulahgloglo7788]

We breath the same air as them Just a thought

[@C2G2]

Jesika Kubeserian You and me both 🤷🏿‍♀️😶😶

[@-melville1759]

Me: *looks in mirror*

[@maisarahaina4423]

i love jessy the most in little mix, her voice, her class, her energy. can’t believe this happened

[@johannatheone]

She is so strong for speaking up against the bullying!

[@pennypurchase9536]

That’s what I think

[@Niko-fu5ul]

I’m not a little mix fan but this is sad as hell. All she wanted was to live her dreams.

[@Alecexo]

Being a fan of not has nothing to do with it, you’re just a good human being lmfao

[@Lost-mb1gj]

XVI what you said

[@chanellebooysen9570]

So true

[@MirandaInCanada]

So sad. I’m so glad she’s sharing her story 💜

[@johnwick1483]

Get a life 😂😂

[@clowned6881]

The worst thing about this is people will say “awww how sad” then continue to do this to other people. (With they being said stop bullying kind people such as Shawn Mendes, Jesy nelson, Camila Cabello and Selena Gomez)

[@thatonedude3851]

Clowned Especially Stan Twitter

[@jennymehl6671]

Completely agree.

[@angelscherryboo7309]

So true , they have memory problems of what they did bad lmao

[@larisamarak8851]

Ain't that true

[@dancingrose9623]

@clowned That is such a truth

[@JasaiP499]

No one deserves this :(( Her recent actions have been disappointing but like she’s still human

[@idilzengin1723]

and now she’s called Jamaican Queen ...

[@ALreleasesofficial]

Yeah it's awful

[@idilzengin1723]

the fact that she’s getting more hate now lmao I’m afraid of her going in deep depressions again

[@ALreleasesofficial]

@@idilzengin1723 yeah I am too

[@on_my_own_two_feet]

I am new to this. What were her recent actions?

[@evelyn4120]

To Jesy: You’re beautiful, talented, smart, sensible and brave. Don’t let them haters get to ya! Me and my friends support you no matter what. Stay safe and please don’t worry about the hates… they’re just jealous of ur talent and beauty

[@user-cg3vw1rf4i]

Jesy deserved so much better. The haters ruined her dream. She's so talented and my favorite vocalist in LM. We are gonna miss her so much.

[@jamessousa752]

I'm so sad she left 😭😭 but her mental health is more valuable. I hope she finds peace and happiness, she deserves it so much.

[@user-cg3vw1rf4i]

@@jamessousa752 Exactly!! It pains me that she left but it pains me even more the fact that she was suffering through what was supposed to be her dream. I hope that she has only a life full of peace and happiness now.

[@mizuhayt]

I watched this interview before and came back here after knowing the news. I truly wish her to be happy even when it saddens me to see her leave the group. But mental health should be her top priority so I'll still support her

[@milkyteawithbiscuits3555]

Same she holds such a special place in my heart Bless her

[@champoradongpink26]

they'll remain little mix in our hearts

[@maddygrabham136]

Literally how can someone look at her and think she is fat or ugly? People are so deranged

[@MrYuck-ec5do]

Her caked on make up makes her look nasty. Hey, you asked.

[@elliottboyd9585]

why do people not get that she has lost weight and spent thousands on plastic surgery since she won and received all the criticism?

[@maryo8076]

tbh it never crossed my mind

[@salomew-l3897]

@@MrYuck-ec5do i think it might be because shes been insecure abt herself and shes trying to distract herself if that makes sense

[@lizmacroy3662]

Hyzlow your mom is ugly.

[@cynthia4900]

She was the alpha of the group, it shines in her eyes. I sware, I never thought she felt that about herself.

[@kihyum]

“ ima constantly wake up and feel sad for the rest of my life “ felt.

[@nafishanuriya3511]

If your fat it’s a problem..if your skinny it’s a problem...if your happy it’s a problem...if your sad it’s a problem..if you laugh it’s a problem...if you cry it’s a problem...in this society whatever you do always has to be criticised by another person...no one is ever free to be themselves and it’s disgusting...I’m sick of it.. ........Thank you guys so much for the likes🥺♥️

[@sam-ip4su]

Yes so true. I’ve learnt that really as hard as it is you have to not give a shit to those people who care. The best advice from personal experience is to laugh when you hear someone giving out about something you do , jokes on them then 🐍🐍

[@larrisawhite6242]

Jesse is a cool person

[@shockshplock3480]

We live in a society...

[@riannaazzopardi4368]

We live in a judgemental society

[@r.t.birlove7908]

And we'll get rid of that s**t from our lives

[@caitlyndww]

Jesy: "Katie Hopkins just called me fat." Me: "Who tf is Katie Hopkins?" Friend: "exactly."

[@Martdiva1979]

yeah exactly who the F*** is Katie Hopkins

[@laurenmurray8639]

Acc same like who the hell is that like Katie Hopkins who I love jesy like queen

[@ashleighrudkin8898]

Google Katie Hopkins she's the most ugliest old woman ever

[@Martdiva1979]

@@ashleighrudkin8898 i 2nd that lol x

[@deborahforeverme]

Facts. I literally paused the video to google her.

[@samrhodes6387]

I feel so bad for her nobody deserves to be treated like this

[@y.o.6466]

You are beautiful Jessy, don’t let anyone change the way you see yourself.

[@morbidmusing]

She’s literally not even fat and never was. I’m confused

[@kyla2522]

just because you never thought that doesn't mean other people don't.

[@kale6637]

kyla cus the other people are talentless rats!

[@kale6637]

the trolls oop-

[@kale6637]

i fvkn hate my grammer

[@marieclairemampinda5188]

Right.

[@rrozzzie]

She wasn’t even fat???? People are so disgusting and I wish her the best (also you don’t make comments on anyone’s body unless it’s a compliment period.)

[@esthercheyannemirdha7118]

Honestly I would die to have a body like her ...

[@rageshreesengupta552]

@@esthercheyannemirdha7118 sameee

[@ani4305]

it doesn't matter if she was fat or not, the fact that people went out of their way to be rude to her about her body is disgusting

[@windmillcreep6836]

@@ani4305 okay calm down

[@rrozzzie]

@Watch Shera of course it doesn’t matter but it blows my mind how people can make up a lie about someone’s body if that makes sense. Like all the things you wanna call her you call her something she isn’t? Bizzare

[@madhatter4129]

The strength she holds is remarkable.literally.

[@cao0323]

If that’s fat and ugly, then I wanna be fat and ugly.

[@mel-mr3ot]

Samee!!

[@maryamjaved7812]

Same

[@themelodyofmadalie1352]

PERIODTTTT

[@BayMaxAcademy]

Same, if that's the case. I want to be the ugliest person on earth.

[@BayMaxAcademy]

@Dave Jon Numez Because if I was the ugliest girl on earth in these peoples eyes means I would actually be drop dead gorgeous.

[@gequmo]

It’s clear people didn’t learn from this documentary. Thank u Jesy

[@animitaroy1752]

The hate boomed even more after this imo. The haters saw what it did to her and they didn't stop. Poor baby, she was in so much pain :"(

[@lanadelneighh]

how to watch it on bbc iplayer? i cantt find it

[@AnnieOReilly1]

But the thing that i don’t understand is that she wasent ugly at all and never was? People are just so jealous of her success

[@Streamjihyosolokillinmegood]

@@lanadelneighh it's called odd one out

[@binirobinson4648]

She is amazingly strong and her perseverance amazes me but I can’t believe what she’s been through, our society is corrupt. Beauty standards has ruined people’s view of themselves. Nowadays kids at the age of 9 have some type of body dysmorphia, ED and are even anorexic, it’s honestly brought me to tears to find out this is what society and people have normalised. Our society should not determine what is beautiful, all people are beautiful ❤️❤️

[@colz5203]

And look at the way people are treating her now once again...

[@jennicemishra6425]

Jesy.. I'm so sorry we couldn't stop this.

[@seamelody509]

I used to think that she is the thick one out of all of them then I started to realise that everybody is different and doesn’t mean you not eat like other people you will become skinny but no your body will react the other way..that’s happen to me

[@lmvideosforever8943]

@@seamelody509 well even tho you should have not though that in the beginning but glad you know now 😃

[@connardouglasofficial8026]

I feel so sorry for her

[@seamelody509]

Esma Uluturk it is really hard to lose weight

[@jennicemishra6425]

@@seamelody509 it's not about weight anymore at this point. It's about how people overlooked her talent and judged her by her looks. But I'm glad you changed. It's all that matters.

[@GenF91]

I actually saw this a few months back. And now she’s left the group. I may not be a Little Mix fan, but still, it’s pretty upsetting hearing the news. I wish her all the best.

[@iansubito4899]

I absolutely devastated for reals... she is one whom continues to help me in the areas she struggle. I also get help from leigh annes story, perries life and jades support for being gay. These girls are amazing and are real artists to begin with.

[@almajohar8252]

Me 2

[@Duchesscarml]

They really have phenomenal voices. You should give them a listen. Secret Love Song is one of my favorite songs. Its really sad about Jesy, because this is one group where EVERY member is very talented.

[@Belle-wc4ju]

Same i'm not the fan just know the members and how talented they are listening to their hit songs but when i heard about jesy leaving i got a little bit sad, little mix will feel empty without her but i wish all of them the best.

[@mypurpleheart9795]

People are very cruel. This woman has been stunning from day 1! She stood out as being so freaking gorgeous and talented. I just recently discovered she left the group and honestly it breaks my heart. Really hope she takes off with her solo career and is more appreciated in the future. Be proud queen. Do not let them ruin you. Stay strong~!

[@kkleighxx]

When I was a kid she was my favourite out of all of them I always thought she was so beautiful

[@eri6656]

her and her body are the reason i didn’t end my life in middle school. seeing her body in a girl band made me learn to not hate myself because if i saw her as the most beautiful girl in the world then i couldn’t hate myself because we were the same size. thank you jesy, you made such a huge difference in my life!

[@urbanrealism237]

You should be very proud of yourself ♥️

[@emilysue4201]

Dear, you're BEAUTIFUL and NO ONE can tell you otherwise ... the best kind of love is the one you give yourself, and it should not be affected by how others see your figure darling.. you are beautiful, and you are loved and that's what matters most.

[@lamhierue]

Im so proud of you, even tho i dun even know you but it's just so happy to see someone getting back their confidence. 😊😊😊

[@ilzebolzane6402]

When i have suicidal thoughts, i overcome it. Then it happens again. Im not sure this made you happy. Its just that you overcome, lile me.

[@lamhierue]

@@ilzebolzane6402 try to talk to someone about it. And remember, you're amazing and if the world seems to turn it's back on you, everything will be fine and there will always be people who love you

[@dashgirl3709]

I can't believe people are so mean in this world.She is not fat

[@acceleratefx5966]

Sir Uppercrust III well said

[@davidhanley1962]

I no she is the best

[@jmorgan8385]

Dash girl bruh

[@amaraegarricks8604]

It’s not nice to be mean but you can change being fat. But I think calling someone ugly is out of line as you can’t change that.

[@jmorgan8385]

Amarae Garricks bruh

[@liayves9675]

She literally has one of the best voices it’s so unique

[@yoianengene]

She didn't deserve this. All this haters, they don't deserve to even look in her general direction. She is beautiful, talented and whatever bad the people have to say to her is nothing but bull.

[@derpface5156]

When I was introduced to little mix, I remembered that Jesy was the first one that caught my attention because she was pretty.

[@elifnazduran8533]

derp face Same

[@abhijoyr7768]

It was leigh 4 me and 2nd was jesy i thought jade and perrie looked too much alike

[@AutsiticAlien007]

She was the one I was drawn to because of her beauty and her personality. When I found out about the bullying from watching their X factor journey I was almost crying because I saw a girl who was an amazing singer get up on stage and perform. She’s one of the women who I had seen as a role model when I was a teenager and still is one as an adult.

[@rhinalynpalicte]

me too.. then perry But I love them all

[@kevsterrobert1847]

JeSS Never waS OIl PaIntIn

[@stopmediabias4772]

I’ll say it once and I’ll say it again, social media will be the downfall of society

[@ambrosiaaa9064]

Stop Media Bias 1000% agree and I agree Instagram models should be banned as they have a terrible influence on many young people (including me)

[@angelica6560]

I couldnt agree more. It has taken away so much like people living in the moment , being present in company or with loved ones, a photograph or picture actually meaning something and being taken for a special moment in time. Vanity, public abuse has incresed with it. Beauty standards have became ridiculous and depression and anxiety incresed with life comparisons and unrealistic expectations in life. I feel like social media is good for a lot of things like reconnecting and businesses and celebrities having their own voice, but i feel like it has got way out of control by this stage I remember when the 'selfie' came about at first it was harmless now we have instagram selfies 🙄

[@marlondavidson6540]

It is already

[@mdempsey7128]

Archy Ashton. You can’t just ban Instagram models without banning all models. This isn’t Gilead. Women have a right to be models. You have a right to not purvey photographs with models in them if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

[@dopeytripod]

SOCIETY WILL BE THE DOWNFALL OF SOCIETY

[@joanquinn2403]

I was just a little mix concert the other day and it just didn't seem right without you

[@Karmaisacat-us6pf]

It breaks my heart that she doesn’t see how perfect she is and she has always been gorgeous 💔

[@kristys8]

No matter what her weight is, she's gorgeous. She was gorgeous then, and she's gorgeous now. I don't get how people can be so damn hateful.

[@roslyndale3677]

Jealousy

[@yxri_xen9775]

Ikr

[@xxx-os6wi]

Kristyne Alvarado I agree she is amazing beautiful and not fat she’s my favourite out of little mix well there all my favourite but I love jessy the most 🥰❤️

[@kristys8]

@@hopescully5161 i agree

[@kristys8]

@@idkwhatsgoingon3295 that's insane. Haha!

[@somebody8264]

To all the people saying she’s ugly , she’s a human not a mirror !

[@gorgeously.a9454]

This was a good one. I’ll keep this in the back of my head.

[@chrissims7088]

I agree

[@moniquem07]

Yaaasss. She is beautiful and shouldnt change herself

[@DarielAndre]

GET ROASTED BULLIES

[@Nottyastro]

Roasted

[@Wobbly-gz4bu]

Watched this so many times and I’m still crying everytime

[@urfavsh1teditor]

I know a lot of people don't like Jesy anymore, but I honestly think the only reason she didn't stand up for Leigh on the live was she was scared of Nikki's fans trolling her if she said anything against her. I'm not justifying it, she absolutely should have stood up against it, but i sorta understand her. I hope she's doing well she's always seemed like a lovely person in her interviews ❤️ 💖 💜

[@236am7]

Katy Hopkins is a fully grown woman picking on a young young girl which shows her level of maturity.

[@nothanks5752]

She is cancerous.

[@reesemorgan2259]

She has kids herself - she should know better. She's also a well-educated, middle class woman. She can't plead ignorance, she has no excuse. Imagine being that thirtsty for attention. Any attention will do - even if it's infamy - not really fame. Before she found fame as a Media Tart she'd tried to get on TV via Big Brother. That is desperation. She's a very sad woman indeed.

[@raineaine2560]

Reese Morgan she called her own kids ugly

[@yasminali4418]

I bet the man who texted her saying she was ugly, is probably a 50 old man rotting his life away 😐

[@day6atemywallet78]

Piru Piru still that don’t give you the right to bullshit someone and they work hard for their shit they are talented and work everyday to improve themselves. Jesy endured all that agony and pain for years

[@day6atemywallet78]

Piru Piru so you are jealous that some people are lucky to be born in a good place while others are not? You wanna blame them for people having depression and body image issues? If you want to blame someone, blame the government and bullies like you. You want someone to live happily at the cost of bullying someone else 🤦‍♀️

[@day6atemywallet78]

Piru Piru think you are 11 or 12 years old imma just leave you here cause there’s no point of arguing with u clearly... and FYI, it’s spelled “jealous” not jelous

[@incog38294]

Piru Piru your grammar is ass. What are you gonna do huh? Yeah nothing weirdo.

[@day6atemywallet78]

Piru Piru you are right. 11 year old and 12 year olds have more of a common sense than you

[@christophertolmie6572]

How could such a beautiful woman be treated so badly!!!! I just don't get it!!!! I love Jesy with every part of me!!!! She was my favorite member of Little Mix and I full-blown sobbed when she left the band 3 years ago. But everything happens for a reason and I completely respect her decision.

[@kaththewolf938]

4:33 "Good Enough" in the background. I absolutely love that song, but it really describes Jesy's situation. No one thought she was good enough and people are hating her just for doing what she loves. It's not fair and it's really heartbreaking 💔

[@rijuljangra2090]

Jesy literally has the body that Kardashians pay millions for.. EDIT : BY THIS COMMENT I ONLY MEAN THAT, IF THE WORLD LIKES THE KARDASHIANS AND JENNERS, WHY CAN'T THEY LIKE A GODDESS LIKE A JESY?

[@sarahmalek1405]

Exactly ,I was thinking the same like almost everyone nowdays try to be a copy of Kim and her sisters like they truly change the game of beauty so a lot of people now days try to look like them hourglass figure big lips curvey body big ass ..., and when Jessy had all of that naturally she get all the hate I don't understand .

[@anikahussain9006]

Exactly, shes beautiful

[@chandraprabhasharma4799]

Why people can't see

[@chandraprabhasharma4799]

@NM NM how beautiful she is??

[@swarnimasharma2531]

Exactly

[@ayatmohamad8633]

She is not fat at all. People are jealous of her coz she's so beautiful and amazing. All this bullying should stop.

[@Elyna6869]

Are they blind sided do they know what fat looks like I don't think so.

[@tylerthecreatorasscheckski7516]

Tommy gibstain she is beautiful in her own way and if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it.

[@honeypots8787]

EVEN if she was fat, that doesn't AUTOMATICALLY make her ugly. She has so many wonderful qualities? She's so talented? She's so nice? Cmon y'all. I'm legit jealous of her and what she was able to achieve.

[@stephs8277]

She's not fat but she's curvier than the other girls, which in some eyes makes her the 'fat one' which is so dumb. She has a different face structure too which makes her stand out, in my opinion it makes the group more unique.

[@ester1332]

Tommy gibstain your disgusting every girl has something magical in them. And your saying she's not beautiful? She's a beautiful strong woman and has a beautiful heart. So please dont say that

[@stephenquinn309]

People are jealous of the way you look and Jessie is the most beautiful out of Little mix

[@shybenji5155]

That’s so crazy and messed up she’s talented and beyond beautiful no matter what her shape may be we are blessed to have her grace the stage in our lifetime❤️

[@whiiitttb7805]

Poor baby. I just wanna hug her. She's so beautiful, y'all just be bored.

[@jasonharding4792]

Ur so cind

[@kerryannelamont18]

Awwv🥺❤️

[@kerryannelamont18]

Same

[@whiiitttb7805]

@@jasonharding4792 I'm so what

[@lilacsky572]

Kind I think that’s what they mean?

[@titikshasharma2959]

That's why we don't have quality singers these days. People's main focus is on body image not talent . She is beautiful her voice is amazing. She is the voice behind those powerful notes in their songs.

[@destinykaur9674]

Jesy is the most popular person and Beautiful person ever let’s all say jesy is Beautiful person and popular person ever 💗💗💗 and this video made me start to cry 😭😭😭

[@izybishdom1623]

THIS MAKES ME SO ANGRY SHE IS NOT FAT OR UGLY SHES SO TALENTED AND AMAZING THE WAY SHE IS

[@8352731]

And if she was fat, so what? No one is perfect and we are all just trying to move forward the best we can. It is a better journey when people aren't vile to one another.

[@darrenwilliams8167]

I agree with u both

[@everythingunderthesun439]

Ik wtf

[@blair4909]

@@SpeakDahTruth atleast shes doing better than you in life

[@SA-ft4gu]

@@SpeakDahTruth get lost bully

[@sarabanas1447]

I hope she sees THESE comments and knows that she’s IS good enough and she will never have to feel that way ever again!!!

[@henrietjames1645]

I hope she doesn't see the negativity tho

[@priels.f3375]

noSoldierButSoul so is your mom

[@nabeeha3131]

@noSoldierButSoul And I reported your comment since you were the one who decided to be disgusting in the first place. Don't be hypocritical.

[@davidkay2287]

@@henrietjames1645 errm she wudnt have done this segment if she didn't

[@isabellahumphreys4303]

If I met Jesy Nelson I would tell her Instead of thinking of the negative things think about the positives I was bullied of my weight but that never stopped me from learning that this is who I am and I like the way I am and that will never change !!

[@isabellahumphreys4303]

Thx Isabella, Isabella’s got to stay together

[@UnknownnnUuserhere.]

I love you jesy I wish u came back one more time for the tour but I'm so happy to see you happy and shining

[@abi22222]

If she was considered “fat” then plop me in a tank at sea world and call it a day

[@annabelw5088]

Lol, I thought the same about myself

[@omgyeojins]

no ur beautiful dont talk about urself like that 🤍

[@roslyndale3677]

@Botanist 95 HOW DARE YOU. HAVE YOU NOT HEARD ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED TO HER. YOU DISCUST ME. JESY IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND I LOVE HER SO MUCH. PLEASE STOP LEAVING MEAN COMMENTS

[@gorgeyhun447]

@Botanist 95 if you think that, then why are you even on this video? Yes, people have their own opinions, but that doesn't mean you get to say them all out loud for the people that are already struggling with their image to hear. Jesy is a beautiful woman and talented; she also never deserved that hate that she got from all those people hiding behind their screens for protection. Get a life instead of hating on others.

[@lalthasangzuala886]

@Botanist 95 if she's ugly what am I then??? An Alien??????

[@empressdeedee]

How is she fat? I'm not seeing any fatness, I'm actually jealous of her curviness.

[@dimshum6975]

Yesss even i feel the same like i want to look like her curvy 🙈

[@lilyjames9282]

Dave Jon Numez why? Why do you need to say that?

[@dimshum6975]

Lily James its okie he is not well ...just ignore 🌸few days back i have read people who behave bitter and toxic are geneally not well deep down they are sick 😷

[@jasonwldes7636]

@@lilyjames9282 JN IS Double ShIt

[@jasonwldes7636]

@Raidabi Ashraf your Double ToIlct Crud wIth the Shel Of woman Overal Deluded Tart ful Of bul

[@mixer5405]

Seeing her cry kills me

[@LupercalRising]

So many of us feel this way, like we dont belong, were not good enough, but the truth is you were always enough,you just had to believe in yourself

[@misss2573]

People saying "but she's not fat and ugly" THAT'S NOT THE POINT! Even if she was (she's not) there's no reason for anyone to make another person feel bad for the way they look.

[@gloriaxx]

Exactly🤦🏽‍♀️💅🏻

[@SaphireXari]

The distinction matters, because it’s not just spiteful awful humans being nasty online, it’s people who have such unrealistic body standards for women that they don’t even know what a healthy body looks like anymore.

[@amber-gg5nh]

I think you’re misunderstanding. Those comments aren’t saying it would be fine if she was fat, they’re just either trying to be nice or that’s just the way they interpret it. Everyone thinks differently :)

[@dropnation2577]

sahir ortega you are really dumb did i make here eat no i did not i dont give a shit the world is making it normal it is not normal it is unhealthy un disgusting so stfup

[@taxibysimone4574]

We're aware that isn't the point. We're just baffled because she truly wasn't fat or ugly. So sad. I was never as thin as she was even at my thinnest. If she was "fat," then there was never any hope for me or people like me.

[@adoreyou28x24]

ıt's her body no one can judge her like this.

[@rocketgrrl8587]

If I ever meet the person that said this i will throw them in the sea

[@nicolebaum3092]

It’s what everyday normal women face daily

[@flowerchickenhairsparkle2819]

@@rocketgrrl8587 why?

[@aliceyue1754]

exactly. Those ppl can't even live up to their own potential, so why should she?

[@jadendiaz3615]

I want to start a project called protect jess and fight against these nasty people who agrees.

[@lauromarcoladores4617]

I wish she could just go back.Why dont people understand her feelings? Shes absolutely soooooo beautiful

[@ketchuptv5869]

She's my favorite in the group.. I miss her so much.. Please come back dear..

[@wissalassouli6576]

I can't believe they said that to her. From their debut, I loved her so much. I found she is special, and she has a special voice. If we keep listening to what others are telling us to do, we will never live normally and happily. All the time, there is a hole in ourselves telling us to stop or lose identity. I love Jesy, and I wish her the best in the future, and ofc to the other members.

[@RachelB2511]

Saddest thing about Katie Hopkins is she has daughters of her own. I hope and pray they don't take the same criticism - both for themselves or other people. Hopefully they will learn from their mothers mistakes.

[@jenniferbrowne4030]

She is soooo beautiful, but she does not know I hope she get over this becoz she is talented n HV the whole package to b someone special. Just learn to love urself n forget abt the haters

[@StylinRed]

You've seen what Katie Hopkins usually tweets out and says to the public right? She's one of the worst bigots in the UK... I doubt she's raised her daughters well. If they turn out as upstanding women it will be in spite of katie

[@dazzaMusic]

RachelB2511 Katie Hopkins makes money from being offensive like Piers Morgon they are both repulsive

[@missjuliawinston]

@@jenniferbrowne4030 Why do you have to lie? She's not "sooooo beautiful". She's not ugly either, but don't exaggerate.

[@lilymae404]

Why are they saying “big girl” and “the fat ugly one” she is so beautiful and she isn’t fat at all! And she is so so beautiful

[@jeenathankuri9130]

Not being fat at all. This statement is stupid.

[@nataliejones8308]

Well she has the same body type as me and no one at my school never body shamed me.

[@lilymae404]

@@nataliejones8308 and your point is?

[@nataliejones8308]

@@lilymae404 no one should ever body shame Jesy. periodt

[@lilymae404]

@@nataliejones8308 ik that’s what I’m saying

[@TomSanders1111]

I loved all 4 of them from the very second I heard one of their songs and I loved all of their bodies I loved that they each had their own look different hair and body shapes. I would have never even imagined that people thought she was the big one I actually thought Jesy and Perrie were the stars of the group, just for the fact that they sorta showed the biggest energy.

[@biancamociornita5214]

No your voice make the band be wonder full, youre a miracle on this earth Jessy, everybody îs a wonder never forget that!

[@Yungkingstonn]

People actually called her fat? Wow I must look like a whale in comparison

[@kewpiepie225]

tolly sook I know most people don’t mean harm when they say this, but to people with body image issues or eating disorders, it doesn’t sound encouraging. It makes us assume guilt for something WE didn’t do.

[@dawnj2881]

I feel like the whole point of this video was to make people aware of thinking about yourself this way. You are a human being please treat yourself better u deserve it :))

[@natalie-ew1no]

Sameeeee

[@jktea1549]

tolly sook no love, don’t say that about yourself 💘

[@samantasammy6415]

Same

[@LEVI-ps3ex]

Love, you're not ugly, the society is. : YOU ARE ENTITLED TO YOUR OPINION, BUT YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO TELL ME WHAT MINE MUST BE.

[@scousemouse9715]

And you're part of the said 'Society'. You people fuel the industry of superficiality and constant posing on screen.

[@LEVI-ps3ex]

@@scousemouse9715 and so are you?

[@scousemouse9715]

@@LEVI-ps3ex Is that the best you've got. LOL.

[@LEVI-ps3ex]

@@scousemouse9715 so what are you trying to prove? 🙄

[@LEVI-ps3ex]

@@scousemouse9715 and of course! I'm part of the society and so are you but the difference is that i am not a judgemental person. How 'bout you?

[@kon2428]

I love you, Jesy. Your powerful voice and beauty is always awesome. I can’t find the personI admire like you anymore. If you’d like to take a breath, you can. I hope your happiness.

[@mrjieee__]

Jesyyyy, I just wanna let you know that you save millions of lives just by being you and that you have a beautiful and pure soul. You are not and you will never be alone, you will always have our support in difficult times. You deserve the world. Never forget that you are very much loved by many 🥺.

[@sages6980]

She’s SOOOO gorgeous. I can only dream of looking like her. Like seriously? All I’m thinking is wow imagine what the public would say about me if I was up there.

[@frog_father6491]

I'm sure you're beautiful in your own way! Everyone is

[@tatianaac93]

Pretty sure someone will say the same thing you're saying about her right now :)

[@amoreweasley5302]

You're still gorgeous!

[@sarayna7343]

lmao I get it she's getting made fun if...but dont lie to her😭

[@alicelucy1333]

You're beautiful ❤❤

[@Om3194]

I’ll never understand why people feel the need to personally message someone to attack their looks. It’s horrible.

[@Emma_Rosa]

Amen to that!🙏💜❤️

[@soussoumisaki4360]

I think people who need to insulte someone especially over their look then that meen they are not satisfied about them self

[@unphazd5137]

I understand why but it doesn't make it any better. Humans are scum, no right or wrong about it... and we feel differently about the issue because we are lucky to be raised a certain way :)

[@silka3738]

They have anger and hide behind a computer to take it out on people. The bully has normally been also bullied.

[@blueisblue599]

@M G Ok troll. Jealousy is the ugliest trait and you got it.

[@lilliepower4538]

Jesy is actually my favorite person in little mix

[@vivianoquendol5668]

Jesy Nelson is a beautiful young woman who deserves to be respected as such. I don't understand why people bully her that's a big nono in my book. Jesy is talented beautiful and sweet she doesn't deserve all the bullying she's received from people who I think they're envious of her because they want to be in her place. People try to respect people with their virtues and defects. Lots of blessings for you Jesy. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@cottagecheeselegs9718]

If you asking why she left little mix, THIS IS YOUR ANSWER.

[@juliamosbach4277]

It‘s soooo sad that this beautiful talented woman has to stop her dream just because people who are struggeling with themselves have to bully.

[@cottagecheeselegs9718]

@@juliamosbach4277 ikr! The fact that she sacrificed her happiness for her fans seriously break my heart. For 9 years she brings a lot of positivity and being a good role model, but haters still bullying her, and sending her death threats just because they hate the way she looks

[@yhvbnwrnd]

I hate those bullies who fatshame her, they literally have no rights to criticise her body and she isn’t even fat! She had depression cause of these comments and felt insecurity, poor Jesy, she doesn’t deserve any hate, she’s a sweetheart🥺💗 btw I love your profile pic, Ron is a legend tho🥰

[@Blackcat21943]

Yeah u disgusting people you’ve destroyed this girls future she’s beautiful the way she is

[@aliyaha2863]

I hope she comes back 🥺💞

[@VanDeBloem]

She isn’t “Jesy the fat one” to me, she’s always going to be “do a Jamaican accent... baleshdae”

[@janefoster6782]

I was very serious at the moment. Had a mad laugh

[@10toesworthof]

I WHEEZED

[@kaylie2317]

This made me laugh

[@raya-vm4qj]

THAT WAS HER!?!!

[@jol861]

FKJDJSND I CANT

[@user-xq9jy5me8o]

Jesy is beautiful ilove the way she sing and hit the high notes.. ❤

[@princessjoules]

This breaks my heart. She is so beautiful.

[@catspellewolves3142]

Big shame on Katie Hopkins. Go Jesy you were beautiful then and you are now

[@umchain1474]

Katie Hopkins is ugly and irrelevant

[@craigmalcom6294]

What did Kate Hopkins do?

[@yusra5657]

@@craigmalcom6294 she wrote a horrible fat shaming tweet about jesy and it made her feel really depressed. it made jesy hate herself

[@slayerbot1394]

@Siye Boss but, at the cost of ruining someone emotionally? Some things are better left unsaid.

[@xanthe4906]

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