Be more charismatic (without trying hard)

4 Ways To Be More Charismatic
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0:00 Charismatic people RUN the world
1:00 1. Make them the main focus through presence
2:49 2. Always in a good mood
4:14 3. Passion & enthusiasm when speaking
5:40 4. Humility
6:50 Being a Socializer is an artform
7:30 Monetizing your Charisma
8:30 Free worksheets & guide

[@AksRepublic777]

Much better than the hamza-like hyper edited content. Your channel has the unique positioning of being able to reach a wider audience, and these more real/mature videos will surely do so.

[@speedy0_FPV]

i remeber this one guy, just doing pushups at the train station, what a legend, time to do it too

[@ElijahSoul]

As a guy who went from 0-100 in sociability, man is absolutely fucking right

[@thalmoragent9344]

Oh word? What tactics worked best for you?

[@cadedrury]

@@thalmoragent9344doing it

[@ElijahSoul]

@@thalmoragent9344 Presence and humor. To be charismatic, you have to get outside of your head and into your body; specifically, put your focus and presence onto the other person you're speaking to. And look for the funny. If you're not naturally funny (like I was), you'll have to build up a habit of looking for the funny in everyday life and this comes with deliberate practice. Go out of your way and ask yourself "What is funny about this" when you're speaking to someone, but keep it at that. (Sorry for late reply)

[@dawn_alex]

​@@ElijahSoul Thanks bro, I am 19 and I think this will help me in future

[@WorkModeee]

Been days since your last video. Welcome back brother, keep showing these gems! Socializing is good. Socializing is life.

[@luckme2752]

I've seen so many people, so many different aspects to cold approach, socializing ,getting girls but Denmo here is one of a kind. Total genius.

[@waterenjoyer16]

this is actually refreshing to see. I've been trying to master my social skills and i've learnt a lot in a short time. compared to this video, almost everyone else just recycles the same advice 'try active listening' and 'be more comfortable with yourself' as a result, you can tell they have either always been confident and charismatic, or, they never have; either way, they don't have any REAL experience. i can tell that you started from nowhere, and actually worked to achieve confidence and charisma unlike these chumps, keep it up Jack

[@rayhankhanoviee7001]

Watching from Bangladesh 🇧🇩. Thanks, Denmo, for changing my attitude towards social interaction stuff.

[@cosmoboyy4676]

Thanks Jack, after following you for a couple years finally started to take action. Started doing cold approaches this week and it feels good. Of course got some rejection but also some great conversations and phone numbers. It’s a feeling of freedom being able to walk up to somebody and just talk. Of course there is room for improvement but I expected it to be a lot harder to overcome approach anxiety

[@JcDaGoat]

Another great video Brodie

[@andrewthomas9777]

You are great man!, I'm 57 and I'm learning more from your videos then I ever did in my younger days. Thanks!

[@Ali_Ahmed_Yousuf]

You are my new Mentor Jack and trust me I learned alot from you!!! I am from Pakistan and I followed your advice by talking to one stranger everyday and trust me lol I am so confident now that I can speak with anyone. I hit on a girl which is almost deadly in pakistan but guess what I actually end up talking with a girl it was funny but yeah she said her parents not allowed to talk with boys (culture of pk basically). Thanks for everything.

[@richos07]

The first point is highlighted well in Robert Greene's Art of Seduction. The chapter describing the seducer known as "the charmer". The charmer masks their cleverness by creating a mood of pleasure and comfort. Their method is simple: deflect attention from themselves and focus it on the other. Understand their spirit, feel their pain, and adapt to their moods. In the presence of a charmer, you feel better about yourself.

[@GHOST42738]

got that dawg in him

[@sexmusix]

Bro what u said in the intro us so relatable u think everyone feel felt this

[@ibrahimshaban1941]

Hey Denmo I'm getting better at communicating with other people and that's because of you Thank you dude

[@AR7271]

It's true you have to fake it until you make it. I am not naturally an extrovert I still have to force myself to have charisma but yeah if you think positively about things then good things usually come from that. That is not always the case but more times than not it is.

[@richos07]

What helped me significantly in developing charisma in addition to all this is taking inspiration from cool and charismatic individuals I admire in both real life and fictional media. This is something I've been doing for quite some time that self improvement KZbinr Jack Hopkins recommended as well. You're still being yourself. You're just supplementing your personality with admirable traits you see in certain individuals. I myself look up to and emulate traits from Don Draper, Tommy Shelby, James Bond, Oliver Queen and Bruce Wayne to name a few. Real life individuals include Timothee Chalamet, Austin Butler, Michael B. Jordan, Jacob Elordi and Tom Cruise. And it does help. At parties, I bond really well with pretty much everyone and I've been described as the life of the party. I simply present an aura of charm and reassurance that makes people feel good about themselves and about my presence.

[@JohnM...]

'...you smile, and they smile back' - in what Universe? If I smile all I get is a 4 second death stare.

[@NgashVibe]

Sucks ..then the silence

[@Toiletclogga]

Don’t smile at them. Smile with your eyes. Also smile internally. Also learn how to enjoy your own life separate from what they think. They wanna stare at you? Fine. I’m only looking for the one person that likes the real me for me. Not a bunch of people who think I’m sort of okay. Your goal shouldn’t be dating or getting a girlfriend. The second you get a girlfriend is when you stop looking for one. That’s real shit I just dropped on you buddy. Bring out the inner dog in you.

[@Funworld107]

If I had known all this before,I would not have had made such a mess in my relationships.

[@brysonw2952]

nice 10 minute long video thanks

[@dandaman9009]

I have all these traits and it ended me up in the friendzone, with everyone, I ended up alone, I can talk to anyone about nothing, I enjoy talking and being with people. But people don’t like me, I have been single my whole life, I’m 33 years old, please help me, please I need help, I don’t care about looking weak anymore, I will take my own life if I cannot figure out my dating and sex life, and I don’t care who knows anymore, help me or I kill myself, please, I am being honest and not beating around the bush. If I don’t get any empathy that’s ok, I have been hated, ignored, and scorned my entire life, I’ll just accept being a villain, being the bad guy, I’ll embrace being an unloved monster, the way women treat me, the people treat me, and become the monster, you want to be afraid of me? I’ll give you something to fear. Give me a reason to hurt people, it’s apparently all I’m good for.

[@derrickupshaw3008]

Amazing brother!

[@D4nceMacabre]

OT but I see the resemblance with DJ Bobo lol Anyways, your perspective is great, keep up the good work!

[@quietpebble]

I can tell he knows what he's doing cause he's even keeping me engaged without me even thinking about it

[@tendinkayi5229]

Ever since I started running, people now call me Usain Bolt, and it has allowed me to meet new and interesting people.

[@jaspergabriels8933]

I always feel i am boring or something.. like Cant get out of thé superficial and engage them or something

[@vijit6338]

hey wassup just wondering why dont you upload on jack denmo it was going pretty good im new here btw

[@220avg]

I like the Dan koe thumbnail style

[@flavio888]

Great 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@sammyslik8858]

Second 🔥🔥

[@Borkov]

Ya bro I’m one of those people that does all these things and it’s always an adventure when I go out my door lol

[@johndong4754]

Hey guys, what are the best stores to approach women in? Ive been to a lot of stores, but most of the womrn i see arent very attractive

[@ninjablade-kk1eh]

Malls are a solid approach

[@kylebutler5098]

A small remark, maybe obvious to most of you but which could be helpful. You shouldn't think that you have to act carismatic because it will make you successful in business and with girls. You need to embrace the values that denmo said in this video and change your mindset because it will make you feel better. Being successful will be the logic consequence to it

[@billthammountry5863]

🎉

[@billthammountry5863]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@victorn5870]

You already messed up in your fourth point Demo. I care about building relationships, not being center of attention like what you preach. I don't crave to be center of attention like some drug although I am comfortable with it.

[@galiqxz1695]

Isn’t that why he said you should let the other person speak and not make it all about you? 😂

[@victorn5870]

@@galiqxz1695 he overemphasizing on charismatic over substance and message, which I don't agree with. I don't care how charismatic aura a person is if he say things that has no truth and substance. he is also condescending towards people that are less evolved than him , a crockach or Melvin, when he himself had gone through that phase. Although he does encourage people to try and leave their comfort zone , which has value and deserve respect.

[@opxitektop]

Rizz

[@joshb4286]

I'm at the point in life where idga-f about what comes out my mouth.

[@Myshot_]

You forgot to mention you've accomplished all of that even though you have ginger armpits, hats off

[@orange_turtle3412]

No melvin intro. 0/10 I want a refund.