Be More MASCULINE

In this short video from a live Q&A with my private group of men who are growing stronger everyday in every way, we talk about adapting our social skills to meet the demands of the environment. Let me know what you think.
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[@Bohmander1]

Masculine energy comes from consistent daily habits. Things like cold showers, working out, and NoFap. When you do this long enough, you just know you're among the elite of men. It's like an internal signal or switch that just flips

[@117MasterSpartan]

What if u can’t afford a shower?

[@nielsbertiller6930]

@@117MasterSpartan Collect Rain water😂

[@Bohmander1]

@@117MasterSpartan I'd say becoming masculine should be less a priority than getting some $$

[@TheBrick534]

To extrapolate on this, masculine energy and confidence develops through consistently exposing one's self to difficult challenges and succeeding. He mentioned lifting, cold showers and NoFap, which are all good things to work on, but it can be done through any sort of adversity you choose to put yourself through. The key is said adversity has to have a positive outcome and be aligned with masculine values. Trust me on that one, I learned the hard way. So figure out where your weaknesses lie as a man and double down on improving them. Watch and see your confidence in yourself as a man sky-rocket once you're successful with it.

[@deepquotes3319]

@@Bohmander1 The sexual energy is still challenging me . I don't know it's making me so uncomfortable when I'm out, in the streets. And I can't even get back to home. So embarrassed in the streets.

[@ParzivalMcfly]

I was a “nice guy” for so long up until 29. I finally realized I was being pushed over, passed up for jobs, and given more workload for no additional pay because “he’ll do it and not be combative.” Now, I don’t give a shit, keep my face straight, hold myself upright, work hard, and don’t take shit from anyone nor allow anyone to get away with shit behavior in the work place. It’s gotten me respect. I may not be liked, but I am respected and that’s all I care about.

[@wordbrah628]

Good for you brother, this is what I like to hear .

[@gmchessplay9043]

This 12 minutes of Elliot convincing his wife he doesn’t need to smile in the pictures.

[@warren010h]

One thing I'll add is that if you can, surround yourself by other masculine men. I think the environment I grew up in shaped me quite a bit. I grew up several miles away from the nearest town and even that town had only a population of about 300 people lol. But living the country life on a farm, there was always hard work to be done. And the older men around you will always call on you to help. I had a close relationship with my father, brother, and uncles so I was always being called on to help with something even when I was like 5 or 6. Knew nothing but hard work and that's something I think any man should be able to do. When shit needs to get done whether you feel like it or not, have to be able to flip the switch, not moan, and get it done. That's a trait all men should have and one I think we often gain by being around other masculine men.

[@matej9255]

maybe you do not feel like that but lucky you ! I would love to live that kind of lifestyle instead of living in a stupid city, life in a city is not natural. I would love to live on a farm and live in peace, grow my own food etc

[@OriginalKingRichTv]

@@matej9255 it's definitely not natural. Coming from a suburbs vs where I live now is a world's difference. I use to wish to live in the city now I miss my old neighborhood

[@mjdegrey4843]

My father was left to raise three kids on his own, when my mother bailed on us. I am not a criminal. I am not a drug addict. No, I have never managed to have a family of my own. But I live by the values that he instilled in me. I lost him in 2019. My heart has been broken in two. It will never recover.

[@nj-kh5vw]

Hey bro lost my old man 6 months ago,You just embrace it accept it as a part of life,your not alone in your pain,RIP and God bless,as a Christian death should never be a fearful experience for the living.

[@AvinashKayak]

Take care man.

[@aleksandarsavevski377]

Damn sorry to hear that brother your lucky to have a father like that in your life not many of us have the luxury of that unfortunately

[@BJ1008]

Your heart will become whole once you become a father and pass down those values to your child. Stay strong brother.

[@mjdegrey4843]

@@BJ1008 Thank you for the kind words. But due to my age and my illness, fatherhood is impossible for me. I just have to learn how to endure a life of pain.

[@CalebHimself]

Exactly what you said. Don't be offended by more masculine, alpha men. Be inspired by them. That's a problem with a lot of people these days is that they get scared and offended by people like that because they're not willing to put in the hard work it takes to be like them.

[@ahmadalhamar7226]

How to be alpha male: Stop telling people you’re an alpha male.

[@mikep1r]

I wish it was that easy brother.

[@fsfbarreira87]

Correct, brother! "Any man who says `I am king´ is no true king"

[@swaranbains8326]

@@fsfbarreira87 the man who proclaims king rarely lasts as one, one voted by the people outlasts all

[@Fatelvis2]

when people talk about being an alpha male I think the alphas are too busy being themselves to think am I alpha

[@leigholding1397]

The beginning of their ending , the Alfa and omega.

[@mbsfaridi]

A Hadith: "Your smiling in the face of your brother is charity, commanding good and forbidding evil is charity, your giving directions to a man lost in the land is charity for you. Your seeing for a man with bad sight is a charity for you, your removal of a rock, a thorn or a bone from the road is charity for you. Your pouring what remains from your bucket into the bucket of your brother is charity for you." Reference: Jami at-Tirmidhi Chapter on Righteousness and Maintaining Good Relations with Relatives.

[@achrafbouaddi2330]

This is so fucking refreshing Elliot is a real OG

[@pixelcaisa]

there's a saying in pop culture that works here: Show me you're an alpha male without showing me you're alpha male. When you see a lion you know he's the alpha, he doesn't need to growl at you to know that.

[@DPham1]

I think the word the young man who asked the question is looking for is: DISCERNMENT. Knowing what is right and what is wrong depending on the situation. What is appropriate at this time and is inappropriate at another time. A lot of men I've met from the red pill and manosphere seem to want to have a ready made ideology or simple platitudes that apply in every situation all the time. Heck, I do too since it'd make life simple but life isn't that simple. I find that turning to God will help a man develop his sense of discernment. God will show you who you are, and when you know yourself through God you will know how to act appropriately and with discernment.

[@rubioalvin]

One of the best comments ever man , facts

[@Jovibby]

🙏🏾

[@Official_ADG]

As a 24 year old man, don’t know what would’ve been of me without Elliott Hulse while growing up

[@nomaderic]

For the photo part...we smile because smiling portrays good energy. It's all subjective to art but in general people want the viewer of the photo to get a good vibe hence the smile. If you were trying to portray a more serious tone, by all means, keep the straight face, even a face of anger.

[@mistermister1366]

I just found out about your channel, and while I don't agree with 100% (just about 95% for now) of what you say, you really made me think! Your videos help cure depression! Thank you very much!

[@TheABCD3912]

The reason people are so resistant to the idea od there being an alpha male is because they dont see it as a frequency they can get to , but like something separate from them like its having different genetics. If you ask me thats the biggest issue men face. Its believing theyre innately not men at all so they dont even try Thats really why thy get so resentful if you ask me

[@breatheeasily4013]

Strong men are always good people. There is no strength without goodness, because God is good.

[@juswolf22]

God is indifferent

[@breatheeasily4013]

@@juswolf22 Don't speak of what you don't know.

[@juswolf22]

@@breatheeasily4013 I know perfectly. It’s universal law to have bad balance with good. It is no good without bad or bad without good. Something as ultimate as this god would have to be indifferent.

[@believer1028]

You can't be the best version of yourself without submitting your will to God. I don't care how successful you are. If you don't have God in your life then you're just like an ANIMAL; following your desires. Basically surviving and reproducing.

[@breatheeasily4013]

@Will Y Check out my fiber muscles.

[@maninahat1417]

agree about modern photos....

[@mw6879]

thanks for Being so open Elliott! sometimes it is hard to control myself to be the best based on my environment because my mind can wander. It often wanders off to negative things but I hope I can get some more control of this

[@Lupo1991]

We need more men like Elliot in this world. Especially in the US.

[@LILFIL180]

Elliot you have helped me a lot during my transition towards an adult, im a 24 year old still trying to find my passion, i just want to be better, peace king

[@ankits8785]

Me too 24

[@jourdangrate2418]

Elliot is my go to channel for after work motivation! Nuff respect to all of you who are constantly growing and learning

[@ErichBerries]

Bro you have helped me so much, grew up with a single mom didn't really have a male figure in the house. I have watched so many of your vlogs and you inspire me to be what a real man should aspire to be. thank you for all of the advice you give man.

[@donovindickerson7404]

I feel you man, I have just a bit of extra info to add. All those old time pictures where people didn't smile was because of camera exposure times. People literally had to hold the same pose for like 5 minutes without moving at all or it would blur the picture. Imagine smiling for 5 minutes straight and if your lip position moves you get a blurry mouth.lol

[@Monkey-pq5zt]

Need a vid on confidence in social settings. Got bullied growing up and told to shut up by one dude in group settings. Think cesar said with practice they build confidence, with confidence they achieve victory. Thinking this is the principle to go by

[@goodmorningweimerica9741]

The distinction between straight face and gay face by Elliott Hulse

[@Chris-iy4vr]

I can't stop making gay face tho

[@SkipYearSix]

Perfect example of Alpha state is when you do something amazing on a sports field ie put in a huge tackle, game winning shot, incredible feet of strength or speed. You feel incredible in that moment.

[@401sFinest]

That 1800s famine face 😂

[@chikotembo]

to 2021 soy face!

[@cottoneyejoe1able]

King David was a playful guy, God loving and trusting gentle and heartwarming, a poet who won hearts with his songwriting, he was a warrior of the people for the people, a man is a guy who could win any heart, thats a king, that's how you become a king, that's why Jesus is considered to have a kingdom in heaven, cause he helped alot of people. Man are made out of fights, and that's a way of making a man, a way of a making. Thank you elliot, keep on moving forward.

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

Choose a mindset of superior freedom || WE GREAT MEN|| THE MASCULINE ONES

[@TheBanjoShowOfficial]

People who focus so much on trying to be masculine tend to be the least masculine in my eyes. Like dude, just stop giving a fuck, that's the ultimate display of masculinity and confidence. And don't refer to yourself or anyone else as an "alpha". You people ever heard of Joseph and his coat of many colors? You have to be everything.

[@0i0l0o]

Serbia here. Sup. Go Elliott.

[@xxrngxx5]

Haha it's crazy how just being tall puts you as Alpha in people's eyes. us 6 ft under bros got to have more heart !

[@doublej7257]

It's a hard truth, and I agree. I'm 5'10 and I know better not to start a fight with a guy who is 6'4...

[@fgh6526]

@@doublej7257 And yet, Hitler, Stalin, Churcill, Mussolini, Emperor Hirohito were all relatively short or almost midgets... the only tall leader in WWII was Roosevelt.. height is such an annoying illusion of dominance, it's in most cases the opposite, tall guys are rarely leaders.

[@milesborg9812]

@@fgh6526 This. I would add Napoleon, Al Pacino's Scar Face, Alexander the Great, Joseph Goebbels, Bruce Lee... all under 5'7. Physically, I also feel that the optimum height for a man is between 5'5 and 5'8 as arguably you have more of a chance of being stronger pound for pound such as Franco Columbu who was also pound for pound one of the strongest at 5'5. The message in David and Goliath is an important one. To award a man the perceived ability to lead based on his stature is 'short sighted' in my opinion.

[@matej9255]

being tall means shit! who you are as a person is a lot more important

[@doublej7257]

@@fgh6526 I was talking about a hand to hand fight scenario bud

[@kaiyondo]

As a gen Z 21 year old, im beyond thankful there's not an intro anymore. I seem to lose interest in videos that dont cut to the chase my attention span is completely shorted.

[@117MasterSpartan]

Like a goldfish ?

[@shopifypro]

Like a lil pirhana

[@mikep1r]

Don't worry just work on it. A lot of people have ADHD or a short attention span. Y'all stay safe kings.

[@rooster555555]

Like a squirrel

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

Be discovered

[@jack1596]

When it gets to the point of needing to ask how to simply be In your own skin, it shows how men have lost trust in themselves. I sometimes suffer from this too. Just do what u need to do (as in actions) and the rest will sort itself out.

[@raysimms427]

This is the best transformation of Elliot Hulse

[@pavelthepsychologist9369]

Agree.

[@spaceisalie5451]

"There's men in their Alpha frequency and theirs men who are not". Yea finally someone put it right

[@djihadmohammedi9152]

Alpha also has roots in Phoenician, "Olaf" which meant for them " Ox " . Phonoecian letters were symbols with each its meaning.

[@keithdmello]

Very important lesson. Make your smile valuable. Don't smile all the time as a guy.

[@angeloreyes707]

The most “alpha male” type of guys I met including my grandpa were the most openly loving and caring people I’ve ever known. Mike Tyson is a good example.

[@klocc5627]

I used to work this trash pick up job as a helper, going through downtown LA, nicer areas by the beaches or the hoods depending on what driver I got. Some were more reserved, some gave life advice and some were goofy like this one that started dancing to MJ after the work was done. I think some of us on self improvement become too serious that it’s almost toxic but like you said we need to learn to chill.

[@thesupercode]

Smiling in photo's is about context. In your wedding photo's you smile (hopefully) because you are happy. If you are on holiday, you smile in photo's because you are (or wanting to) portray your enjoyment of that moment. It could be because there is a social pressure to appear happy. Of course there are other circumstances where you would make a conscious decision not to smile, for example, out of protest, or genuine dissatisfaction, or maybe even an attempt to portray a more 'masculine' image... But is that any less fake than a fake smile?

[@curiousgeorge7508]

Good point, all things in communication need to be done in proper context. My guess is his point is just to be real and if you don't want to smile then dont, not for portraying an image of alpha or manliness but just because you dont feel like it and donr succumb to social pressure of "smiling for pictures"

[@divingdeepinthought7609]

Always bringing that wisdom and making the world a better place!! 💪

[@CDG639]

Elliott is the GOAT

[@JamezJN007]

man i have never subscribe and unsubcribe from a channel, just from Elliott but im glad i did come back

[@bombieman13]

Saw a video of Owen,s free tour event about succes really inspiring

[@Jv9569]

Lmaoo, that bit about people putting on a fake smile is spot on.

[@PANKAJKUMAR-ji4rh]

I died laughing at 5:21, jeeesusss that was so damn spot on

[@alexjackson5178]

You should post some transformations. I'd like to see what is possible with making yourself more masculine.

[@leigholding1397]

I looked up what omen the dragon fly represents, and it means Love hope and New beginnings. In your snack juice video.

[@swaranbains8326]

Elliot. People smile now as cameras now can easily and cheaply take multiple photos. Back then you had to sit still and not move in order for the photo to come out properly and not have any retakes lol

[@Jelato_wrld]

Smiling can help you a lot with business I recommend reading how to win friends and influence people

[@gavinspeaks]

I’m wishing everyone who clicked on this channel nothing but LONG LIFE & PROSPERITY💰☀️🌎 ~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction KZbinr💜

[@dans1454]

Elliot, don't think more height means more alpha. As a 6ft3 guy I know plenty of goofy insecure tall guys who have no idea how to lead, stand up for themselves or seduce a woman. To me, being 'alpha' is being confident in your own skin. It doesn't mean you're the hardest or loudest guy in the room. Also what I would say is I think taller guys do tend to be more confident in their own skin naturally, I think a lot of shorter guys get hung up on height when they really shouldn't. I see this a lot in the RP community, people blame their lack of success on height because it's an easy excuse. The advantage of being shorter is that you can get yoked very easily. It took me 5-6 years of solid training to fill out my big long frame (80 inch reach wooo). All my shorter mates (5ft8-11) were getting yoked within 1-2 years. Embrace what you do got

[@jamesm5192]

Ya people cheesing so hard for pics is super disturbing

[@fkrsnofficial6095]

i died at 7:45 🤣

[@koan__23]

I like how Elliotts' current YT pfp is of him smiling, but the background picture on the channel is very serious 😅

[@TucsonPoliceScanner]

💯 % agreed

[@Bkay2240]

You should stock up on TRT its going to be hard to get in the near future.

[@believer1028]

Why?

[@paddyscroggins1]

Followibt

[@Chris-iy4vr]

Lol

[@luxefalcon2730]

It’s amazing given all your success that you’re still so hung up about your height. Just because they’re taller than you, that doesn’t make them more alpha than you...

[@yua7469]

True, he can reach new heights if he gets over that (pun intended

[@volodymyr_dmytrash]

Elliot, make a stream with AMS!

[@Nick-sl3ws]

Podcast with Charlie from Charisma on Command please.

[@ricardomendez8655]

I'm a jack of the trades, facility tech former director. I'm charismatic with women and men, I can disconnect with unnecessary people, I surround myself with like minded and differently minded people for that well rounded paradigm to life, I got the soft skills of a mental health counselor, excellent with kids and their development, great cook, got decent character traits, work out regularly and can design a program, follow doctors and take courses for the hell of educating myself, I fill my day with informative channels I'm lue of dopamine rushes from tiktok and memes can read a room, love to clean and be orderly at work and at home, generally improve any environment I go into, and know how to negotiate cause I always have the ace "go fawk yourself". What else do I need? I don't care about toys, women, or money really although I do have consoles and a couple women and a few kids and a good paying job. Do I even need this advice Elliot?

[@consciouslifestyle9018]

To Be aware and conscious is more important than to be masculine.

[@thephilb]

Just like to mention, in the 1800's it took minutes to take a single photograph. So even if they wanted to smile, it would be very difficult to hold it for long enough to not blur the picture.

[@hulkmodeactivatedOG]

I appreciate you man!!!

[@jebediahkerman8245]

I would be interested in a video about why we want to have hierarchy “rather than” “equality”. The quotation marks are there because I know they are loaded terms, but there seems to be no way to ask the question without using words that are heavily loaded these days.

[@joeyiscool8]

you are awesome elliot! keep going!

[@aleksandarsavevski377]

Yeah I remember your old videos back when you were younger and didn't have a beard and yeah you always used to smile and speak alot louder lol deffinetly impersive to see how you have changed over the years

[@SHAD0WZOMBIE]

I have always felt the exact same way about smiling in pictures.. Unfortunately I tried too hard and now all my childhood pictures look like I was really upset.

[@gmchessplay9043]

Well your body language communicates more to others than your thoughts (however intentional) so it’s only a natural response if you are the odd man out in a culture that does things a certain way. Imagine being in a culture where smiling in the picture is actually frowned upon, no pun intended.

[@gabrielguzman6018]

Facial expressions usually aren't always accurate though

[@p.g.2035]

Remember: more feminine man will be attracted to masculine a woman. More masculine men on the other side will attract feminine woman. We are naturally built to stick and be true to our nature. Although, the society today messes up with our identity. So, if a man want to be more masculine and a woman more feminine,then don't put up with the crap society tells you how or who to be. Be true to yourself, be masculine and be proud of it.

[@11hakanay]

3:27

[@Jay-yy7uk]

Masculine frame = Have an internal locus of control. Draw approval from within. Have an undercurrent of aggression that is under control.

[@jollygoodgordon5580]

YO Elliott have your heard about Kevin Samuels, If so what do you think about his content ?

[@believer1028]

He is a 🤡

[@believer1028]

Just like your profile picture

[@sandevastated1]

KS the godfather, winter is coming

[@mylespillai1017]

pause @ 5:19 😂 You're such a fucking boss

[@butterfly-rn2xe]

5:45 LMAOOOO

[@m.imamurreza2763]

thanks for this ...

[@sdot3358]

Code Switchin 101 💪🏽. I've gotten far knowing this haha

[@OriginalKingRichTv]

It feels more personal when your smiling like your selling me something. Straightfaced feels more down to earth

[@nikojurilj9141]

It helps dude, thanks

[@faithalone963]

On point!

[@skullymanewhoa]

AMS : 🙏🏼 look here fellas, I’m not talking about being no fucking Terminator

[@andytheindividual3862]

I think James bond is a worldly example of masculinity.. If you check out wild at heart it sort of speaks on this. I think James bond and maybe even John Wayne type Era of masculinity is what gave us toxic masculinity and things like that. Those characters did not have one thing.. The ability to show sincerity and have emotional understanding for others. Just my thoughts. Not discouraging anyone on their journey.

[@mikep1r]

I agree with that but.. If you look at james bond character you'll see that he is a real masculine man but he has traumas. Emotional and psychological traumas and that is what makes him a bit cold I should say. A kid whose parents have died. So be sincere and have emotional understanding for others is good but.. As a man you have a different role in this world. Women show emotional understanding and sincerity most of the time cause thats their role. Not saying it's feminine to show those things as a man but it kinda is. You just have to have the perfect balance. I mean thats what a masculine frame really is. Its having a balance and control over your character.

[@andytheindividual3862]

@@mikep1r yeah good point brother.

[@mikep1r]

@@andytheindividual3862 thanks !

[@Milo19970]

Yup and thats why the far left want to destroy james bond now. They want someone of color to play the next one, now i do not have a problem with that if it just naturally came like that. But its so obvious that the woke culture pushes this and if they succeed they will probaby get someone who is indoctrinated enough and not a good actor.

[@jaysphilosophy1951]

Yo Elliott. Hope your feeling better bro. You said you were sick last video, hope all is well.

[@djihadmohammedi9152]

Love you Elliotty

[@tudorverde]

Elliot, can you make a video about the sigma male?

[@theman7983]

this guy looks like he is the dad of jason from the minorities LOL

[@saadk8905]

I like this Elliot.

[@Adityasharkbyte]

Love the 007 plug in the thumbnail

[@djihadmohammedi9152]

The world Alphabet comes from Alpha that comes from Hebrew and Arabic " olef" or "Alif"which are the first letters of the Abjadya " Semetic alphabet"

[@AudreyandmeAu]

That’s a good answer

[@robfromthefuture214]

I guess as you get older you gain this sense of maturity and self awareness, but the desire to be the “coolest guy in the room” is way beyond unnecessary. Leaving a lasting impression on those you do come across and engage with is great, but lusting for moments as such is pretty much you living to impress others. Having “Charisma” is cool, but developing your masculine energy, and living in your own truth supersedes what you would like to be perceived as from someone else.

[@Nick-sl3ws]

👍

[@rooster555555]

It has to do with humility people don't have it

[@2legit178]

Eliot you had a snort in there, I heard it 😂

[@coolcarlosa66]

Idk about that, I use to be in plumbing. The most alpha dude who one of the shortest dudes. Super calm, straight forward. Probably the best plumber for his age, bar none.

[@ignaciodominguez3214]

Are you doing another trade?

[@zig8925]

Never Outshine the Master, know your place

[@Marcusdwayne639]

Elliot hulse, I have a question an how to deal with people trying to break my wall of what I call stability within my emotions, well supplicated with stoicism and self control. I am twenty years of age and my friends and family keep on trying to control what actions I take within a logical affirmative state that they cannot comprehend. I wake up before sunrise and pray five times a day with a strict workout regiment I have initiated for four years. With this I work as a accountant and have side hustles. I restrain myself from seeking unnecessary pleasure. However the strict lifestyle I live makes people around me uncomfortable in a sense that they try to change who I am by ridiculing the beast within. I have been accumulating knowledge and striving for self betterment every day of week and need advice on what path I can take with weak people struggling to change me and simply cannot appreciate my convictions. I thank you for your time.

[@alexisbernadac2099]

Charisma. Just fucking read books until you pass out. Become an Avid reader.

[@kevinbakermault9079]

Elliott mi lion 🦁