The Type of Man Women Want

[@saltrock9642]

My daughter said she wanted a hard working, loving man like me. I told her she must first become the hard working, loving woman like her mom.

[@m.razanisar]

I swear outside of my religion and what my parents advice, your wisdom is the next thing that helps makes sense of this world. Seriously brother, thank you for all you’ve done and continue you to do. You just get it man.

[@Landerbecquet]

Could've not said it better!

[@sq9779]

After 10000 men are born only then you find a man like Elliott being born

[@QasimAli-bc2vc]

@@Adam-nu9gu it's islam. But may god give you a good life.

[@PantheraTK]

@@Adam-nu9gu Christianity is pagan weakness, Islam is strength and truth

[@everydaysadaytopleasegod2439]

💯

[@dorcaspowellpowell5971]

I recently explained to my 15-year-old son that women can be mean. I said out of 10 girls only 3 will like you. I also told him if he began dating a young lady and she starts treating him like shit dump her and get another one find one who will respect him. That young lady will have to need him not want him but need him. I want my son to be a man's man...I'm a single mom I understand I can't teach my son to be a man but I watch your videos and allow my son to spend time with my brother. I encourage him to start a business do well in school and take pride in eating well and exercising and focus on facts, not feelings.

[@funnymoment7632]

Wow you seem like a great mother. RESPECT! it must be tough raising a child alone. Stay strong.

[@tomlindsay7861]

"Woman just are, men must become" - Rational Male

[@MandeepGadgetBoy]

Allahu Akbar - Bun Laden

[@jesuschristislord77733]

Women aren't even. Is a para site?

[@WolvesBaseballNine]

Women are and must keep their purity, modesty and virginity.

[@gsgcarreviews]

"When you become addicted to women for her sex you become like a drug addict... and the drug dealers have no respect for their drug addict" THAT SHOULDVE BEEN THE HOOK

[@organicwins91]

Something I needed to hear.

[@max-mtg]

🔥

[@DeathbeforeSumo]

Real shit bro

[@yearight1205]

Every man wants a good woman. I've set my goals, and I've set a timeline in my life in which during that time I will not pursue women on any level. I simply focus on me and the goals I've set. After the time period is over, if I find someone, great, if I don't, I still have the things I'm working on to keep me busy. It's that simple.

[@yiri123]

Exact same words i live by today!

[@bittemoke]

you need to be a high value man with skills, good career and both mentally and physically strong to get a high value woman. so get on your grind with everything you got to reach that level where you could start finding a good woman to settle down with, tho never stop your self growth. always strive to become better and advance in your life and career which has meaning and purpose. be an asset who brings something to the table that you can trust and rely on but set bounderies so you don't get exploited. the things you learn in life from mentors and experience should be something you pass on to those who could gain something from it and are willing to listen. tell them who thought you it so they can learn from that/those mentors aswell. so when you are on the process to become the best version of yourself, bring as many as possible with you on that path. imagine how much better the world would be if everyone did this.

[@zachnunya8749]

How old are ya homie

[@bittemoke]

@@zachnunya8749 33

[@lavarball7538]

Best mindset bro keep striving and control your inner beast as that energy is what makes a man

[@bullfighter42]

Everyday is a fight for our masculinity

[@bullfighter42]

@@killmat1c I guess you’re clueless about whats in your food, water, air,

[@Hero_Of_Old]

Agree with masculinity is taught. I have never been the most masculine man, but seeing the state of men these days it has made me step up to my own masculinity and become a better man

[@bullfighter42]

Me too man, it’s been amplified once you see whats going on, everyday is a fight for your masculinity

[@kermitthefrog7072]

Yas pop off Gandalf 💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻

[@RedRedMCmusic]

Absolutely

[@blackelton7127]

The Alpha Gandalf vs the Sigma Saruman

[@kinqzbitz]

Elliot is my big brother for life

[@obaidasalm2484]

our*

[@justtrent4832]

No cap

[@polynesianmovtgp7439]

🥺

[@kyler4836]

Uncle E

[@sir3986]

@@kyler4836 absolutely lol....step-uncle

[@noahhughes2580]

Growing up handsome as a young kid, it skewed my worldview slightly as to how I perceive the world and how others perceive me to be. I’ve always been given free attention, always had girls chasing me because of my looks, and people always being nice to me by default because of my looks. Realizing this when I got a bit older in my current young adulthood, it made me feel entitled to have things without having to work for it. Now it’s hard to get out of that mindset because I take these things for granted.

[@BeardedKingface]

All women calling each other Queens, regardless of it being true. It's time the men not only call each other Kings, but to act and become like one.

[@breatheeasily4013]

sup queen

[@freecleets]

whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.

[@Vengeance627]

"you dropped this (👑)" lol

[@Bogdyindahous]

True.

[@Bogdyindahous]

@@Michael_6913 Because if you want to live a better life, you must improve the lives of other people, sleep head.

[@edgarguzman8888]

Fellas chase your purpose and self improvement, I promise it will be worth it. We are the builders and creators, create your legacies gentlemen!

[@Pedro-ci8gi]

Amen brother.

[@Kiyaansh.kulkarni]

Perfectly said bro

[@Musicman051186]

Again man!!! I've recently just separated with my wife of 10yrs and honestly Elliot you speak the true. It is not her, it was always me and listening to you gives me the insight and strength to stop being manipulated by society and her to comply with what is expected snd final do what I've felt is the right thing to do all along!!! I missed your videos man

[@ROKKANS]

“No woman will teach her son the truth about female nature” those are facts

[@RayRahu]

It's very rare, that's for sure.

[@James-ky6wu]

Exactly. Setting her boy up to fail. It's f*cked up.

[@FLS713HTX]

My mother was an exception she pretty much told me the bs women were on for exactly that reason

[@tamalalynchbradford5678]

Not true! A woman will teach the ones that "they" think are important for the sons to know. P.S. I have 4 sons and three brothers! I swear mommas tell their sons' these things and then the "aloofness" sets in.

[@James-ky6wu]

@@emerson8917 I. DON'T. HATE. WOMEN. I. UNDERSTAND. WOMEN. I. ALSO. DON'T. DATE. WOMEN.

[@mjbartending]

I love this version of Elliot, he gave me so much. From starting watching with his work out vids 10 years ago while living in a grimy outskirts room, to changing to doing work I like, learning a 4th language, going back to uni, picking up all of my favourite sports and getting a nice appartment in the best district. Bless you bro, keep it strong.

[@NakEdits]

Same bro hopefully he continues his videos

[@danguidi2]

The Tactical Guide to Woman was written by Shawn T. Smith not Shawn Baker. I only looked this up because it had me giggling thinking that Shawn Baker casually wrote this book and never spoke about it. Anyway, Good content Elliott!

[@julienhanna5341]

keep grinding kings 👑

[@karimkhayata9886]

That was a breath of fresh air. Someone clearly speaking their mind even when it does not match the current trends. Big like for the honesty and useful tips about intersexual dynamics.

[@kingofmydestiny]

Man. You absolutely killed this one. Unbelievable content, thank you.

[@Thomas116-m2n]

I love this. I agree that a man should be the best that he can be. Not to get hung up on a girl who mistreats you or put that girl on a pedestal, even when she does things to get down-don't put her back up. Don't treat a girl like a celebrity unless you want her to treat you like a fan.

[@drippxzzz9477]

Friends laugh at me for watcging advice but now days friends just have fun nothing bad bout it its just the no balance life that i didnt like so i consider eliot as an aquaintance/friend cheers yall

[@Snorky_88]

Truest shit I have ever heard and im married with 2 kids. I'm 25 my wife is 22. And this shit works I've known it since we started dating. As long as you keep your frame she will be attracted to you for life. Me and my wife have the greatest relationship becuase I follow what elliot says and my wife knows her place as a feminine housewife.

[@icecoo0909]

What do you mean by keep your frame

[@softmouse9315]

“Keeping your frame” basically means that you live your life however you want and having an IDGAF attitude. You’re living in your own mental movie and she’s just a side character in it.

[@AndrewRobeen]

@@icecoo0909 she a commodity to your life, but should never be your purpose. If she steps out of line tell her, or at least withdraw attention. Have an abundance mindset with women at all times (even if you don't have options just act like you have a few) but only choose the one, without losing the same mindset that made her attracted to you.

[@themisha1705]

@@softmouse9315 lol i have that attitude and im a girl

[@softmouse9315]

@@themisha1705 As you should!!!

[@nomaderic]

Once I stopped chasing women and started just doing me and focusing on myself that's when the girls started coming. Funny how that works

[@gelidbutwarmer-2294]

The dad I never had, amazing wisdom Elliot! Been binge watching your videos and I can see as to where they could lead a guy like me on his path. Thanks for this!

[@sunofsotep8265]

Bro been there 100%. If you get in shape and get on your purpose, one day when you're not paying particular attention the women who let you slip away will take notice, and proceed to salivate and kick themselves. I've literally been told, "there is nothing I wouldn't do to be with you", by a woman who treated me like sh!t back in the day. Thing is you'll be too far along your path to care much. Neither should you do it for that reason in any case. Get your shit together because you're a man, and it's literally your job to do so. All else is ornamental.

[@oishaelegido]

10:52 - Exactly what I was talking to my father about the other day . How after years i finally realized that becoming a man is not an automatic thing and how it is not an easy task at aaalllll!

[@conradosanchez7332]

There’s a lot of gems here

[@sellthatsaas]

Thanks for this Elliot. I just got out a really toxic relationship where she thrived off of power, and setting the rules for our relationship. At the end of the day it was all my fault, I should have never allowed that to happen in the first place. I showed too much vulnerability, emotion, not a good look. I have learned, and moving forward will be setting the rules on the relationship. Not only that, but not getting vulnerable with her.

[@realizingtrueself]

One thing I know is I never lost anything worth losing when I was focused 💯

[@sandykl]

Dang. Finally a man that knows what they hell he is talking about. There are so many guys on here that tip toe around the truth. You actually GET IT.

[@kevinclement158]

Its good to see that theres still good woman out there like u who supports mens musculine nature and rejects feminism.😊

[@nickstoliaroff324]

I take a lot of advice from you man Share a lot of your videos with friends and it’s yours that they always watch bc you speak with real authority. It’s like a big brother telling his younger brothers “do this” and “don’t do that” in order to become men God bless all of you guys

[@heuganian7252]

yeah

[@Mlbb-bestyin]

This video is crazy, he spoke nothing but facts ❤

[@Chingster22]

Elliot is fantastic. Recently found him again after a few years. Thank you for everything big bro, so good to see you flourish as well

[@2011vortex]

I grew up without a dad and realized this for myself at a young age. No one told me this but I sensed that I would have to grow my intellect and social skills in order to survive in this world.

[@zac2399]

“Society everywhere is in conspiracy against the manhood of every one of its members" -EMERSON

[@chicagonative1507]

This video really motivated and inspired me to really focus on myself and stop drinking. Thank you Elliot

[@wasimn4222]

You're not old School Mr. Hulse, you're just simply right. I'm a 22 year old man who stopped having Casual Sex with women after finding out that 1. It's dangerous 2. i'm not getting anywhere 3. They entertain me and make me forget my main Goal in life. 4. They put me in a very pleasurable comforting zone and that's a damn dangerous place to be in. Thank you for these wise words sir. Stay Hard

[@serbanlucian3652]

A great vide like always Elliott! I think the key word is balance. Give your woman enough attention that she feels loved, but have some boundaries and don't pour all of your heart's feelings onto her,.

[@purposeinpresence4494]

This guy just got personally red pilled by Elliot Hulse! Let her go bro. Don’t ever look back.

[@randomsimpson]

Dang. Would love to see a collab between Elliot and Uncle C. The value of that talk would be legendary

[@derekeano]

I love how Elliot talks. So clearly and concisely. I watch on x2 speed easily. He sounds like a fast-talking genius.

[@esoessos]

Well...there’s a balance...women do respect men’s vulnerabilities WHEN the man is balanced with it. He can cry in my lap about his childhood pain, (we ALL have it) as LONG AS HE GROWS STRONGER in the process. If you’re crying just to be crying I may next want to check your diaper but no, a strong woman can be a help and a healing for his heart BUT it has to make him BETTER and STRONGER because of it. We’re nurturers for the world which of course includes our men. The sun nutures nature to make it STRONGER.

[@GurlsiLike]

Best channel on Yt

[@sublimechimp]

If you have the wherewithal to heal your anxious attachment style, might as well do it. If it's not there then you don't have to worry about it "showing." Can't display what you don't have! One less thing to worry about.

[@alanssnack1192]

Nobody explains it better than El Hulse

[@dannykyle738]

I mentioned it before in a comment on an older video, but you and Casey should do a video together. You two are some of the only legit guys on youtube when it comes to this stuff.

[@gavinspeaks]

To the person reading this I don't know you, but welcome. You are exactly where you need to be right now and in this moment. Cherish each moment of this beautiful life and all things are possible. You are surrounded in love and protection. You are enough and an amazing human. Have a great life from here on and on. ~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction KZbinr💜

[@Pedro-ci8gi]

God bless.

[@Harbinger-1996]

Thank you brother, all the same to you🙏🏼

[@logandaniel3742]

great talk, i highly recommended this to all boys in highschool and guys in their 20s

[@johngotti299]

Real shit bro I wish I heard this shit when I was younger

[@captainramius790]

1 step at a time everyone Be there for each other

[@DreamersOfDreams]

Share your feelings... with The Father. Wife shouldn't be in that spot.

[@DreamersOfDreams]

@@killmat1c Do you get pleasure trolling people who believe in God? You're an athiest? OK. Your choice. Is that an excuse for you people to go around insulting others and having a lack of character/respect towards others beliefs? No common courtesy in the world of atheism required?

[@raphaelgonzo9788]

So much knowledge, thank you Elliot, men should follow your example and teach what they know because that’s how we grow stronger

[@enigma3516]

I agree with you about being a needy up to a point. Our genetics, social conditioning, and religious beliefs determine how we express our physical differences. Some men are soft, not simps but soft/needy due to genetics. And some women are natural leaders (more alpha) due to genetics. Just as the rainbow has different colors so also men standing in their masculine frame and women standing in their feminine frame have various expressions. However when one goes against God's word regarding sexual differences is when things go wrong. Genesis 1:27 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. (KJV) Deuteronomy 23:1 He that is wounded in the stones, or hath his privy member cut off, shall not enter into the congregation of the LORD. (KJV)

[@jaredstokes2423]

Some of the realest shìt I’ve heard

[@noodledalight5]

Thank you Elliot Hulse I learn from you as you are a mentor to all.

[@jessemunoz4937]

The timing of this video couldn’t of been more perfect…

[@gerryherrera3698]

That last part has been the realest shit I've heard in a while!

[@SmiteKite]

I also like Darius M about his view on women. NEVER CHASE. Recently a girl stopped wanting to see me. I think she wasn't ready due to her trauma (abuse by parents). I gave her one warning when she 'broke up' the first time. The second time, after having pulled on a dead horse, I deleted EVERYTHING and moved on. I won't take the initiative, because it will become destructive. If she ever does, in that moment, I'll see and decide.

[@Nemiyt]

Judt Elliott teaching us life.

[@HouseDarten]

Discipline!!! 💪🏿

[@Jv9569]

dang, good point on losing your frame; the reason women get on that, “you’re not the same person I fell in love with” deal.

[@jacobburrell613]

I knew I had to make a comment as soon as you said “it’s the man’s responsibility to have the vision for the relationship”. That’s incorrect. I recall a part of Bruce Springsteen’s lyrics from his song Dancing in the Dark, “You can’t start a fire without a spark”, while that’s true, it’s not enough to ignite the fire. A fire can only last as long as it gets enough oxygen and is given enough wood. My dad has taught me something very important: abolish the belief that having a happy wife will give you a happy life. If I get a girlfriend, and she asks me “where do you see this relationship going?”, I’ll say to her, “The destination of our relationship will be determined by how you AND I walk through the journey together”, if she then goes on to ask, “What do you mean by that?”, I’ll reply with, “If throughout our relationship journey, our love for each other is conditional, our relationship will not last to reach its destination. However, if you and (emphasizes on the ‘and’) I show unconditional love to one another throughout the journey, our relationship will make it to its destination.”

[@libbackbone641]

Thank God I came across your video my brother....

[@charlesbeaty8090]

Elliott and Wes Weston are my favorite KZbinrs

[@adamharlan5467]

Elliot is so full of wisdom man

[@benjaminvesenjak]

Thank you for making so many videos

[@Seth6000]

It's good listening to you man

[@dejesusjason9936]

He’s right never go after her. If she blocked you, move on. She may unblock you and reach out or you’ll realize that she wasn’t the best for you and you saved a lot of time. Also don’t work on yourself for women, do it for you my brother

[@NickCornerstoneRIG]

Powerful content 👊🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼

[@Nobodycares1993]

One of the realest videos on KZbin…salute

[@haroldmtambeka8328]

I really wish I came across all this knowledge 10 years ago. I've been searching

[@13mike74]

"What does it get you??..fucking dumped" My Boi keeping it real! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🤛👏👏👏🤝👍so good

[@RobStone]

At 47 years old guys..do what he says 101%

[@alexhowley9834]

"Get into your feeelings!! Whats that get u? Fckin dumped" so true lol

[@800wolfman]

You’re not old school!! You’re right!!!

[@SirGregg]

The tactical guide to women is by Shawn Smith. Shawn Baker does the carnivore diet and is the indoor rowing champ.

[@micahbarbee8636]

Alright, the idea behind women not telling men exactly what they want and what they're looking for is about security. Men are natural aggressors, women are naturally more concealing. Sadly we live in a time period where the natural ways of Man's and Woman's being aren't honored. Which leads me to say that, she shunned you in part because of societal dogma. However, I'd say that as a Man, I'm more concerned with being a gentleman not a gentle man, see what I did there? That's my shit test, you see, if a broad dares confuse me being a gentleman for a gentle man, I know that all she's worth is a pump and dump and I'm gone or I'll just ghost her and go about my business. In short, don't fool yourself into playing the gentle game sirs, play hard and go hard, let her be the initiator of all the soft crap, enjoy it for what it is and stay focused on self. At the end of the day no one is ever truly with someone because of some altruistic reason, it's because they want to be.

[@josiahslate7374]

Calling. it. as. it. Is. 🙌 💯

[@muldurksk]

Thank you for your knowledge uncle E.

[@sdot3358]

This is sooo good! 10/10. Listening to exceptional wisdom! 👏🏾

[@hmam7381]

I really appreciate your videos and all your work sir, keep going , stay safe . thank you

[@Ava-dk3by]

As a traditional christian Orthodox woman I don’t agree entirely. Nobody want’s a simp or a man without vision BUT don’t want someone who’s aloof and ignorant. What women need is the mastery of Spiritual leadership , Consistency and a Humble heart. (A literal reflektion of the greatest example of masculinity : Jesus Christ☦️❤️‍🔥💪 ) If a man plays detatched or unbothered it’s really a turn off bc . It takes confidence to be honest about your want’s, needs and weaknesses . Know what you want - be clear and pursue it ! If you want more attention don’t play busy and hard to get - say it and act upon it , do something to improve the foundation of the relationship and level of intimacy instead of just pretending ‘not to care’. That’s a manchild …

[@austinbrodeur22314]

Needed this Elliot, thank you

[@carlo8943]

Yo Elliott, have you written a book already? I would buy that shit bro 💪🏾

[@xhulioidrizllari4916]

Too bad my pops didn’t teach me this haha at least I know now!

[@willm5772]

Elliot you get it, you're absolutely right 100%

[@trev777]

Great video

[@jonathanthompson7067]

This was unreal truth. Damn near a Pastor preaching to the congregation. The line " drug dealer never respects the drug addict" cut so deep on how so many men are blinded/bounded by the physical/sexual power of a women.

[@gstavo]

Thank you man seriously! These words of wisdom really hit me hard. Much appreciated👏

[@paulzhang6512]

Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge. I’ve just ended a relationship, and with your insight on intersexual relationship, I ultimately realize what was wrong with my relationship with my ex.

[@HowDoIHeal]

7:21 Women want a leader, a provider, and a protector. We don’t speak enough about the different polarities of men and woman, and how if they change, partners will lose attraction. A feminine woman will be instantly unattracted to a feminine man because she’s looking for her opposite polarity. The feminine nature is the chaos of creation. We have an incredible amount of darkness because we are what holds the key to creating life. When you bury a seed, the ground is dark, and life grows through it. The balance for our nature is not an equally chaotic man. It is a stable and firm man. A man who sees our chaos, and can lead us, while holding space for us AND creating loving and firm boundaries. I am so exhausted by feminine men. Edited to add, that I also believe modern day feminism has completely ruined women.

[@videocreaterstudios]

I'm glad your in talks with Casey.

[@Zetrisy]

this is your best vid yet

[@davidnunes9528]

I would love to see conversations with your wife about this subjects. Much love Elliott.

[@TheDaz19831]

Casey Zander, is good red pill coach

[@avrod]

What he said is all facts gentlemen. I got the same advice from a female

[@سلطانالسواجي-ن8ع]

That what we need

[@sabounji]

There is no constancy in the "wanting " .... While there is comfortability zone.....as common traditions and cultures Which most whom are in relationship...work on sustaining...

[@NathanielJewell]

Becoming her simp is such a truth man. I had sex with a girl I barely knew, and from then on I was obsessed with checking her Instagram (when I had it), texting her, and trying to set up more link ups. The sex was great but it felt wrong and I completely ghosted her. A woman can use your own lusts to get you hooked. Before you know it she started asking me for favors, and I even thought about complying just cause I hit.

[@bestprimal9790]

Also don’t forget Elliott, supplication to a woman is a subtle yet powerful way to lose a woman’s respect and attraction fast. Sometimes a woman subtlety throws out supplicated requests to men and if men took the time out of their day to do it out of wanting something back, they’ve already lost.