"Be our guardian angel": assisted death patient shares final hours with friends

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@cindyelie2513
@cindyelie2513 3 жыл бұрын
I work at a live in facility that has patients with Huntingtons disease. It is an awful disease. I have seen people go through it. God bless you.
@ThatOne77
@ThatOne77 7 ай бұрын
Live-in
@migbham1
@migbham1 2 жыл бұрын
My God, I admire the courage of this man, and the grace of this woman. She was able to say a soft goodbye to the one she loved most, and she made a decision to honor him by continuing to LIVE.
@yesterdayitrained
@yesterdayitrained 8 ай бұрын
I could not have said it better. His wife was a bastion of strength. Walking along right beside him, with love, the entire way.
@ThatOne77
@ThatOne77 7 ай бұрын
Your God?
@yesterdayitrained
@yesterdayitrained 8 ай бұрын
Brave man, brave family. Huntington’s is truly hell for the patient and the family- or whatever is worse than hell. I’m glad he was able to make that choice. I would do the same.
@RealMrQuintis
@RealMrQuintis 5 жыл бұрын
Rest easy Mike.
@Cmercedes822
@Cmercedes822 5 жыл бұрын
as a nurse this is so hard to watch, but at the same time I understand. RIP💐
@comanchio1976
@comanchio1976 3 жыл бұрын
What does being a nurse have to do with anything?🤔
@debbielazenby7516
@debbielazenby7516 3 жыл бұрын
Don't find it hard one bit. It's beautiful. To have the choice ...wonderful.
@Izzyforeverlace8chrome
@Izzyforeverlace8chrome 3 жыл бұрын
@@comanchio1976 If she has to explain that to you, you would not understand.
@humdrum9895
@humdrum9895 2 жыл бұрын
@@comanchio1976 cause nurses and doctors are there to save lives not to end one.
@carriethompson4171
@carriethompson4171 2 жыл бұрын
As a Hospice Nurse. It’s hard to watch everyday. The same time I understand the quality of life. What that means.
@CherryRedBanshee
@CherryRedBanshee 2 жыл бұрын
Rest easy, Mike. I hope you’re partying away. We never met but I’ll remember you.
@Turkeyinthehay
@Turkeyinthehay 4 жыл бұрын
A hard decision to make, but I respect his wish to suffer no longer. I hope he rests well.
@veronicazawodniak9412
@veronicazawodniak9412 3 жыл бұрын
Cool he got to be in that wonderful garden...God Bless his wife...
@lorij6796
@lorij6796 3 жыл бұрын
We cry when a baby is born and we cry when we lose a dear person.
@a-match-made-in-heaven
@a-match-made-in-heaven 4 ай бұрын
But sometimes it's only US that cry when a dear person dies. Michael surely cried when he was born but he didn't cry when he left this world into a better place for him. I feel both with him and his relatives and friends and especially Vickie.
@izzsweeney2521
@izzsweeney2521 3 жыл бұрын
My nana passed in corona. I couldn’t see her. I couldn’t say goodbye. It will haunt me for the rest of my life. This is the BEST way to go. The most humane way to go. Surrounded my friends, family, after a long life & being at peace painlessly in the moment you pass. God bless him
@mbdoucet
@mbdoucet 5 жыл бұрын
This video made me cry so much. The strength of this familly to truck through this is inspiring. I hope you are enjoying your parties, Michael.
@RDC902
@RDC902 5 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the time you have, people.
@Fearinferno3622
@Fearinferno3622 4 жыл бұрын
@@jeanninepoulin5285 Keep your religious thoughts to yourself
@billymccaughey3741
@billymccaughey3741 4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful soul. Love you Michael
@vympyr
@vympyr 3 жыл бұрын
Since we are brought into this world against our will, we should have the right to decide our end. Rest in peace, Michael.
@Seekingtruth-mx3ur
@Seekingtruth-mx3ur 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. This life is hell. I think if we would have known before hand,none of us would want to come into this matrix.
@rakanaltassan7797
@rakanaltassan7797 3 жыл бұрын
That’s really powerful thank you
@rakanaltassan7797
@rakanaltassan7797 3 жыл бұрын
@@Seekingtruth-mx3ur Totally agree ,enjoy the struggle , and know that life has the potential to be good !
@mitch5222
@mitch5222 2 жыл бұрын
@@Seekingtruth-mx3ur exactly.
@florairvan8305
@florairvan8305 2 жыл бұрын
I don't want to cause others distress by my comments but: Michael's going to be a party animal?! This is truly a tragic statement. And others have commented on how cruel and worthless this life seems. I truly believe we are living right now in the last days which the Bible discusses and warns about. Bizarre, horrible things are happening every minute. This is our real situation but this is not real. truth. I am praying and trust- ing that some who read these words will be encouraged to find God's ultimate truth and divine hope and truth that is found in HIS word, which is HIS letter to every soul that has lived or will live on this planet we call home
@brissiAU
@brissiAU 3 ай бұрын
Both very brave people, God speed.
@Rock_Girl_Daze
@Rock_Girl_Daze 5 жыл бұрын
We have the option for our four leggers....we should have the same option. ✌️❤️
@karenlowes7802
@karenlowes7802 5 жыл бұрын
@Claire fitzpatrick Have you not noticed how special animals are. The Bible may not say so, but I believe they are spiritual creatures.
@k0smon
@k0smon 4 жыл бұрын
@@mandycote5662 ///// They are given the gift of life, directly from the Source God.
@lucyterrier7905
@lucyterrier7905 4 жыл бұрын
@@karenlowes7802 The Bible does say that animals will be in heaven. Animals, however are not made in the image of God as people are, nor do they have the ability to choose Salvation. That is probably why they are not focused on in the Bible. But, we are to care for them properly. Having dominion over animals means to take care of them, not do whatever we want.
@shayfewell5779
@shayfewell5779 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget about little babies in their mamas belly.... They didn’t get a choice. So I agree. If we can go to a clinic and get our pet or BABY put down then why not us ADULTS...
@CARNELIANTURQUOISE
@CARNELIANTURQUOISE 3 жыл бұрын
@@shayfewell5779...babies are not in the belly, they are in the womb
@uubee4443
@uubee4443 3 жыл бұрын
Much appreciation and respect for showing this journey. I can only see selfless love represented here.
@miketaverner4451
@miketaverner4451 3 жыл бұрын
My greatest respects and admiration for this gentleman and all those who where with him and supporting such a courageous man. Especially his dear lady wife
@mirandajones3739
@mirandajones3739 4 жыл бұрын
Rest In Peace Mike😇You will never be forgotten.
@carolking6355
@carolking6355 2 ай бұрын
What a sweet man. ❤
@moonlighteternal8024
@moonlighteternal8024 8 ай бұрын
Bless him!
@sunnychun7105
@sunnychun7105 5 жыл бұрын
My husband's grandmother has been suffering from Alzheimer's for about a more than a decade now. Well, "suffering." She's even not self-aware enough anymore to know that she's sick. She's like a vegetable; doesn't talk or move out of the bed, can't remember where she is or who we are or who she is herself. My mother-in-law told me once that her mother used to be a busybody, curious and full energy, always gossiping and not knowing (or caring) when to stop talking. Nowadays, she just stares at you for a moment before going back to staring at the ceiling. Told my family if I ever get diagnosed with that disease, I'd make sure to end it on my own terms before I end up her.
@djackson006
@djackson006 5 жыл бұрын
Sophie Cho lots of news about getting them to listen to old music brings them to the surface. Lots of memories come back. Find out from old friend what music they loved and let them hear it. ✌️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/e2TWaGl-lN53i9E
@Fearinferno3622
@Fearinferno3622 4 жыл бұрын
I love that she said, "Wherever the next stage is" instead of heaven or hell or whatever.
@wendyedwards7472
@wendyedwards7472 4 жыл бұрын
This is very sad. The bible tells you to prepare to meet thy God. There is a heaven and a hell. You must be saved to reach heaven. Repent of your sins and ask Jesus Christ into your heart. You have an eternal soul, don’t leave this life unsaved! John 3v16
@samystarfish5056
@samystarfish5056 4 жыл бұрын
@@wendyedwards7472 we don't believe...so this is it for us...rresprect other opinions
@cam553
@cam553 3 жыл бұрын
@@wendyedwards7472 Sin and forgiveness is nonsense if god is omniscient.
@Bubba__Sawyer
@Bubba__Sawyer 3 жыл бұрын
@@wendyedwards7472 Keep your religion to yourself Wendy.
@michellestella7477
@michellestella7477 3 жыл бұрын
@@wendyedwards7472 keep YOUR beliefs to YOURSELF!
@amadeusmedusa134
@amadeusmedusa134 3 жыл бұрын
Such a brave man with such a loving relationship . He really is quite inspirational.
@Menechem
@Menechem 3 жыл бұрын
If he was so brave, he wouldn’t have taken the cowards way out.
@User-pk9ud
@User-pk9ud 2 жыл бұрын
@@Menechem So you would’ve rather had his suffering from his illness drawn out? What a terrible take.
@Cristinaluv
@Cristinaluv Жыл бұрын
It’s not bravery it’s stupidity! This man is going to hell! To be brave means to take all sufferings and be strong and take it all this is courage ! Not crying and complaining and complaining! For his wife as well !God will not give you more then you can take! He did suicide he is weak and pointless as he didn’t read and learn the word of God at all! I feel sorry for him
@Bubba__Sawyer
@Bubba__Sawyer 11 ай бұрын
@@CristinaluvStop trying to impose your religious beliefs on others.
@Bubba__Sawyer
@Bubba__Sawyer 11 ай бұрын
@@MenechemWhat is he to gain from unbearable suffering?
@paddy654
@paddy654 Ай бұрын
Watched this video a few times, never till the end, until today. Living with Huntington for 20 years, mind boggling 😢😢, I mean I would have killed myself the moment I hear the diagnosis..why wait for this cruel process to slowly unfold.. It takes courage to want to go through this. Utmost respect🙏🙏🙏🙏
@dilligaf1009
@dilligaf1009 Жыл бұрын
I don't understand but I 100 percent empathize. R.i.p. my friend.
@Channel-ld9ip
@Channel-ld9ip 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful people, love story. Thank you for sharing.
@katharinatrub1338
@katharinatrub1338 4 ай бұрын
I am very much touched by this video! I wanted to watch it because I wanted to know more about 'when one decides to leave this World. Thank you so much for sharing !
@sarahwestwell8774
@sarahwestwell8774 3 жыл бұрын
Why is this such a hotly debated subject. As long as all parties agree why not let the patient decide when and where. Nobody wants to watch a loved one fade away. Xxxx
@BosisofSweden
@BosisofSweden 3 жыл бұрын
I hope Michaels wife can feel that he would probably also think it was time for her to start living again. I think she is totally right to do that
@donnathomson4048
@donnathomson4048 2 жыл бұрын
Very brave n thoughtful man. Praying for a quick n good transition to heaven
@Kyledaniels88
@Kyledaniels88 Жыл бұрын
God bless you.
@joannemullennix2021
@joannemullennix2021 3 жыл бұрын
I do not know why this come up....but I fully understand and agree....How kind his family, friends were for him...
@Seekingtruth-mx3ur
@Seekingtruth-mx3ur 3 жыл бұрын
Peace unto his soul.
@mistybehave4886
@mistybehave4886 Жыл бұрын
In tears as I lost my Nan, Aunties, Uncles, Cousins to Huntington’s and so understand Michael he did so well to live as long as he did I only had one relation live to there late 60s the rest died between 30-50 it’s so hard to watch your love one suffer and fade away and struggle to speak eat breathe, I lost my mum two years ago she always donated to the charity and hoped to see a cure for this x
@mistybehave4886
@mistybehave4886 Жыл бұрын
Rest in Peace Michael x
@anthonyhansen9108
@anthonyhansen9108 3 ай бұрын
I believe Michael found the peace he was looking for. I believe he found an end to his suffering. What a sweet man he seemed to be! And I hope all people will someday find the same, regardless of whether suffering is physical or mental!
@victoriamacpriest7130
@victoriamacpriest7130 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story xo
@HateBeinAlive
@HateBeinAlive 3 жыл бұрын
That's love that I'll never feel
@krazykarrie999Wrld
@krazykarrie999Wrld 3 жыл бұрын
I guess being able to say goodbye and tell family and friends your love will be with them the rest of their lives.
@witchypoo2424
@witchypoo2424 3 жыл бұрын
Blessed Be....may your soul rest in peace.
@christopherkline4042
@christopherkline4042 4 жыл бұрын
Coffee does taste better when it’s made with love ❤️ what a beautiful story 😢
@ronjahack792
@ronjahack792 4 жыл бұрын
Super sad But this is the way to go. Rest easy 😇
@martinaosullivan1622
@martinaosullivan1622 3 жыл бұрын
Heartbroken a wonderfull man that faced life with his illness in heaven with all loved ones rip
@ShariHoldal
@ShariHoldal 6 ай бұрын
So happy for Mike no more suffering see ya on the other side
@angelwingzzz777
@angelwingzzz777 4 жыл бұрын
I have nothing but love for these people. I had watched a similar story a while back, & the guy had some very valid points for anyone saying how dare you play God...because doctors are doing this every time they use technology to save a premature baby being born that would other wise pass away without their help, technology of heart surgery, pacemakers, &,life support! Its only when someone wants to not suffer & choose. Do people judge . Regardless how you see it rather u see the outcome good or bad...doesn't change the fact that they both are essentially playing 'God"....Sending love to this family! 🙏🏼❤
@murphyville
@murphyville 2 ай бұрын
RIP Sir. Hope you are free of pain!
@keztukariri
@keztukariri Жыл бұрын
Good on you Michael, much love in heaven ❤❤❤
@jessicadeshpande7988
@jessicadeshpande7988 5 ай бұрын
This was hard to watch. Rest in peace. Courage to family
@nopeninja8883
@nopeninja8883 5 жыл бұрын
Wishing everyone much peace. The right to choose is important. Not a easy road to travel.
@Somedude20282
@Somedude20282 2 жыл бұрын
I truly hope there is more beyond this life when we go, and if so that Micheal is at peace.
@josefine7095
@josefine7095 3 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful that this has started to become an option for people. I am hoping more developed countries adopt this practice. Imagine all the terminally ill- both mental and physically, who can be relieved from the worst kind of suffering. The kind of suffering there is no end to.
@Picoteful
@Picoteful 2 жыл бұрын
Why only developed countries?
@eyesee3516
@eyesee3516 2 жыл бұрын
I agree there would be a lot less people on earth i think that's why the government's dont want that they want people to suffer
@kyles5513
@kyles5513 2 жыл бұрын
There's an end to all suffering. Just when that end comes is unknown.
@bonitobonita9263
@bonitobonita9263 2 жыл бұрын
@@Picoteful because for example, you shouldn’t do this in county doesn’t even have trials
@bonitobonita9263
@bonitobonita9263 2 жыл бұрын
@@kyles5513 you don’t understand that’s why people should have choice to end the suffering?
@freehugs8670
@freehugs8670 Жыл бұрын
such a loveable couple!
@kaylahbkitty9691
@kaylahbkitty9691 Жыл бұрын
I cried watching this
@maltasfinest85
@maltasfinest85 5 жыл бұрын
Michael, you are truly brave and honorable soul. Your courage and decision to make and have the final choice is extremely empowering. I wish to some day have a chat with you wherever you are. Thank you for giving me this extraordinary gift of courage. God speed and rest forever at peace.
@teachpeace3750
@teachpeace3750 3 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful, thank you for sharing your story ♥️
@CricketGirrl
@CricketGirrl 9 ай бұрын
What an amazing couple. I am going though MAID planning all alone, and no one will remember me.
@sfrwriter
@sfrwriter 6 ай бұрын
It will be the same for me. I have no-one left 😢.
@shreeshasinghthakur7430
@shreeshasinghthakur7430 3 ай бұрын
😢😢😢that's so sad for both of you
@rosaespinal7698
@rosaespinal7698 3 жыл бұрын
Be our Guardian Angel, Michael.
@wendynicklin7693
@wendynicklin7693 3 жыл бұрын
Powerful 🙏🙏🙏
@Lovelulovelovi
@Lovelulovelovi 2 жыл бұрын
Omg so sad!!! I can't handle this 😭 I can't see someone I love say goodbye Omg so hard.
@katharina6865
@katharina6865 6 ай бұрын
Have a goo journey, Michael! 🙏
@Queendi143
@Queendi143 3 жыл бұрын
Michael Rest is heaven
@dhanushsathya679
@dhanushsathya679 4 ай бұрын
Rest in peace 🫡
@DevonDumpling123
@DevonDumpling123 4 ай бұрын
This needs to be legal in the UK lovely man and amazing wife ♥️
@UKSTRAINS
@UKSTRAINS 2 ай бұрын
RIP Michael.
@adammarchand1162
@adammarchand1162 2 жыл бұрын
Rest easy Michael.
@AJ-hk6ex
@AJ-hk6ex 4 жыл бұрын
Rest easy mike
@habibebakir6841
@habibebakir6841 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my God how handsome and brave he is🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
@Menechem
@Menechem 3 жыл бұрын
He took the cowards way out, nothing brave about that.
@Lovelulovelovi
@Lovelulovelovi 2 жыл бұрын
@@Menechem stop saying nonsense
@bertjonez4347
@bertjonez4347 3 жыл бұрын
This was heartbreaking, touching, sweet, beautiful, courageous and more. He is just the cutest thing and their relationship is/was so beautiful and adorable. 😞❤
@nuchzara97
@nuchzara97 Жыл бұрын
...i believe that they would decided to live if those illness can be treated...please give doctor a chance...sad to see the final goodbye...
@sherrybrown2830
@sherrybrown2830 Жыл бұрын
God love him. I cleaned for a man that had this terrible disease. He took his life with a hand gun. I'm glad Mike got to go out in the way he did.
@themanonmars
@themanonmars 2 жыл бұрын
He's too sweet. Definitely hard to watch
@딩가딩가-n7x
@딩가딩가-n7x 5 жыл бұрын
RIP.....
@keztukariri
@keztukariri Жыл бұрын
"And vodka..." lol so much love to you Michael ❤
@florenciapistritto5747
@florenciapistritto5747 4 жыл бұрын
May he rest in peace. A very brave and remarkable man. Does anyone know where exactly in Switzerland is the clinic located ?
@blessedfela1515
@blessedfela1515 4 жыл бұрын
i don.t know..and i pray you never find out
@k0smon
@k0smon 4 жыл бұрын
FP////// Dignitas is located near Zurich.
@TheBlueCream
@TheBlueCream 3 жыл бұрын
@@blessedfela1515 u'd rather have folks suffer
@abhishekghosh2686
@abhishekghosh2686 2 жыл бұрын
Why are you asking for it... I don't know why you ask but I hope your fine and healthy...
@Bubba__Sawyer
@Bubba__Sawyer 11 ай бұрын
@@abhishekghosh2686Obiously they wouldn't be asking about it if they were fine and healthy 🙄
@jeffreyskinner7167
@jeffreyskinner7167 3 жыл бұрын
Rest easy Mike . I too am choosing medical aid in dying . Aids is a brutal disease. Why in civilized society must people suffer . ❤️🙏
@caleythomson6583
@caleythomson6583 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that.
@spooky5973
@spooky5973 3 жыл бұрын
Rest easy. I’m glad you were able to make that choice for yourself. :)
@cherripopfizzy7937
@cherripopfizzy7937 2 жыл бұрын
Rest easy ❤
@abhishekghosh2686
@abhishekghosh2686 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know your alive or not man but i hope you found the peace no matter where you are
@floatingyunsan
@floatingyunsan 3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭 respect
@kristenmitchell2118
@kristenmitchell2118 3 жыл бұрын
Rest in power 💓🌹
@Queendi143
@Queendi143 3 жыл бұрын
Rest In Peace Michael 🙏
@khalidhabib1552
@khalidhabib1552 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you god for your countless blessings.
@abbyking5985
@abbyking5985 4 жыл бұрын
I'm crying a puttle
@k0smon
@k0smon 4 жыл бұрын
"Puddle"
@whiskeyman8289
@whiskeyman8289 2 жыл бұрын
They make it seem that being loaded up on morphine in hospice for weeks with your body rotting away is the supposed peaceful way to go. Well from experience from seeing loved ones go like that IT IS NOT. ! It's torture. To go the way this guy went in this video with no more torture is the best way when you're at that point that he was in.
@JuanHernandez-ry9dr
@JuanHernandez-ry9dr 2 жыл бұрын
Is so sad to see how humanity suffers.
@lacymatheaus3793
@lacymatheaus3793 2 жыл бұрын
when i tell u im bawling
@veronicazawodniak9412
@veronicazawodniak9412 3 жыл бұрын
God bless all that are suffering...you have the right to meet god on your own terms...
@taydatay8571
@taydatay8571 3 жыл бұрын
Damn it hurt but I guess it is better to say goodbye my moms died 12 24 2020 and I talked to her but she couldn't say it to me but I wish she could so I understand but damn I'm In tears hurting
@ErikaPerez-fr6vj
@ErikaPerez-fr6vj 3 жыл бұрын
❤️wow
@NoName-pu5ls
@NoName-pu5ls 3 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@Çerūlean9007
@Çerūlean9007 Жыл бұрын
I have an amazing story. One time I was driving home and I felt the presence of the Lord, come down to me from above. I started getting chills and I felt so comfortable with Him. I knew if I asked Him to play a song on the radio, He would. So I said "Ok Lord, play Come as you are..." I didn't know what station it was on or anything, but I turned the radio on and the song started playing right on the spot, perfectly... I started getting flooded with chills inside, and started crying. When I got home, He stayed with me for 10 minutes till I got out of the car. I've been getting answered prayers for around 5 years since, because that visitation eliminated doubt and I follow Biblical instructions as best as I can. Maid is a satanic, slippery slope.
@texasred2702
@texasred2702 Жыл бұрын
Well, in light of the recent revelations about the Canadian VA suggesting medically assisted suicide to disabled veterans in response to complaints, this story REALLY hasn't aged well.
@mraanj3118
@mraanj3118 3 жыл бұрын
Is this painless?
@johnny_joestar_toenail2548
@johnny_joestar_toenail2548 3 жыл бұрын
Yes it stops your heart and brain like the drugs they use on dogs and cats to put them to sleep
@ShariHoldal
@ShariHoldal 6 ай бұрын
Your an amazing women
@susanfenton4647
@susanfenton4647 2 ай бұрын
Very sad.
@andrewfarias3910
@andrewfarias3910 5 жыл бұрын
I cried alarm also crying right
@yasir9103
@yasir9103 3 жыл бұрын
ohhh what we can do to stop like that
@patriciafoster3347
@patriciafoster3347 3 жыл бұрын
He was in middle stage?
@FemaleObserver
@FemaleObserver Жыл бұрын
how sad
@slappychap969
@slappychap969 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 47 and I am thankful I have that right for assistance in my passing. I am so completely out of energy and I am ready to pass. Sadly in my case I have morons for doctors who have opinions of not helping me find out what's wrong.
@blackcitroenlove
@blackcitroenlove 4 жыл бұрын
Micallef is a Maltese surname. Caw hanini (goodbye dear)
@olegmedvedovski8146
@olegmedvedovski8146 5 жыл бұрын
Just relax man..
@Acvsdfe3245a
@Acvsdfe3245a 5 жыл бұрын
just as people have a right to live they also have a right to end their life. a while back lawrence hill wrote an excellent opinion piece in the globe and mail. a personal account about his mother that i hope was understood by decision makers who as trudeau said have no business in our lives. since there is no more privacy just let us be