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[@rickaster]

Life isn’t supposed to be so difficult. That was the hardest lesson for me to get. Once I got that part, everything else started to fall into place.

[@quartzquantum7530]

Right on!!!

[@darrenyoung4509]

ANYONE ELSE having their life fall apart and crumble before them in the most ultimate way??? Would just be nice to hear I'm not (on a soul level) alone in this.

[@PowellTracey9]

Darren Young I hear you! I’m experiencing the same right now. Spending my days feeling out my comfort zone and saying “what is going on” repeatedly. Keep getting all sorts of synchronicities and messages too. They say when doors close its for new ones to open and it definitely is a new beginning getting created by the looks. Known as a re-birth and boy does it feel like it. Feels like being squashed through a needle 🤪

[@joylaine3193]

This is the last go around .. Amanda Lorence on FB did a great video recently on this.. We won't have to suffer much longer...It is a setup ...But this one is a doozy... We will survive and get through this...

[@Aww_ishaax]

Yes that anchor on the heart feeling I’m here

[@Closeuplogic]

For the longest time, I thought since I had a connection with someone, I had to behave a certain way to stay with them/ obtain them. It really does start to cloud your judgment on what's acceptable behavior and treatment for yourself. I am grateful to be conscious of this now though!

[@shiloh3275]

I've been in that kind of relationship for 5 years and I'm ready to heal and move forward.

[@ABLW013]

Very excellent video. Super helpful. It's taken some time but I have realized more and more that I've been spiritualizing codependency.

[@Aww_ishaax]

Me too

[@petramoreno-frasca1503]

You just leveled up... I believe there are several levels of enlightenment. I've followed you for awhile now and I so LOVE your information and journey you provided us out here. 💕

[@angie7159]

The moment I left a toxic situation your video popped up. Thank you so much. I notice you are now vibrant and happy. 🤗

[@winnebudisantoso8136]

Yes, True happiness can be seen from the eyes. I can see people clearly now. Just by watching their videos. And I’m rarely wrong. The energy doesn’t lie. No matter what the person tells you in front of the camera. Acceptance is always the first step. Our journey is to find our inner truth. Truth will always set us free. Face it, embrace it. Twin Flames is a vibrational match. It’s a dance of two souls. It’s an evolutionary process. People often mistakenly labels their toxic relationships as Twin Flame. To give themselves a reason to hold on to it once they hit a wall. And that’s how this getting messed up. Congratulations you finally solved a life puzzle😂

[@rickaster]

Watch this whole message if you possibly can, but if you have only a minute, skip to this part at 18:32: “Because if you could see the power in you that I see in you, you, trust me, wouldn’t care about what that person is doing. They can just go and do what they want to do. But you have so much power in you. And it’s about time that we rise up and wake up and realize that, to start getting on with what we’re here for. That person was there to awaken you. Now it’s time to focus on yourself.”

[@user-rk4xp6dz4e]

You were the first coach i ever found online and the only one I still resonate with. We’ve gone on this journey together, we’ve realized we were wrong, we wanted something to be so badly and thought we had the answers and thankfully we were doing the work regardless. I couldn’t imagine staying stuck in that place for years on years. I’m glad I did my healing and was able to call in my energetic match, I stopped asking for twin and started asking for my healing and my life partner. I’ve never felt a love like this.

[@kaixavier2]

Wow. This is literally happening to me now. She ignored me for 28 days almost a month. She’s in a toxic relationship with her gf and we just immediately connected and starting dating. Then, after the 28 days I decided to ended it and today I messaged her that I needed answers. She ended up reading it and blocking me. Finding this video came at the right time...

[@lecodeurpassionne2021]

i am literally crying while i watch this bcuz i feel very bad for not recognising myself. i believe I have a soul connection with someone and I am someone stuck in a vicious cycle. but I am glad I am no longer stuck I need freedom the most now.

[@thelifelist3185]

Last summer I met someone I was sure was my twin flame and I was stuck in this toxic loop of thoughts and allowed him to treat me terribly. I’m just proud of myself for letting him go as soon as I did. It set me free too. I thought I was healing but I really wasn’t until I let him go. Safety was an issue so I just had to disappear and never got to say goodbye. A year later I’m still dealing with that fact but I’m so happy to not be holding myself back anymore. 💕 thanks for this message.

[@soulfulflowersoulfulflower]

Thank you for this!I felt I was going crazy!!! But deep inside me, I felt the way you spoke but I was fighting also with the view that is out here about twin flames.I have been in toxic relationships(narcissism all my life)and I knew I didn't want to go that way anymore. Even though I know a person is a twin flame. Thank you so much, now I feel at peace and can continue to work on self love and wholeness 🧡

[@newbeginnings10]

I truly feel my guides sent me to this video to answer my plea for clarity. It resonated soundly and when I clicked the like button, I was #444. My intuition let me know this was meant for me. THANK YOU !!!!

[@elizabetha3113]

Love videos like this. It's about time someone gives real facts and acknowledges that most of these connections are meant for growth and healing.

[@jomougs]

I love you 💗 you’re like our soul mother. You teach us things no one else has. Thank u thank u thank u

[@user-gz8uo7py1q]

I so needed to hear this. He bullied me out of a job as we worked together. I cried so many times over him. I now am going to concentrate on me. I want to get to that wholeness you are talking about. Thank you. 😘 It is about me. I understand that now.

[@PowellTracey9]

Awakening , Snap! I lost my job too. If we fell out, he cut my hours. Forgave the first time but on the second occasion I ended it and of course got sacked. It so nice to see we are not alone. Here’s to new beginnings, new jobs and wholeness 🎉🍾 Good luck!

[@autumnlake8536]

Awesome!!! Love your glow!! So inspiring!! Thank you Your old videos show that you have experienced it and sincere. Much appreciated

[@manifestfun240]

Let go w no expectations and a treasure crossed my path! New horizons!

[@caitlinkleinow2772]

i just want to say how grateful I am for all your videos. I am so glad that you shifted the focus of your channel. I loved your channel and I was drawn to it because of the twin flame readings but it’s so funny because I feel like I shifted my perspective at almost the same time as you. As soon as you started posting the newer videos talking about how you weren’t going to be focusing on twin flames anymore and the reasons why, I got chills and I started crying cuz it resonated so hard for me. So I really appreciate you and all that you do! Sending you tons of light and love! Thank you thank you!!!! 💕✨💕✨

[@laurenbruso6340]

I started removing the labels from my vocabulary. Instead of saying twin flame or soulmate, I prefer to say love of my life. That way I don't limit myself to all forms of love and connections

[@idaollikainen3363]

Brilliant video! I SO needed to hear this. Thank you

[@charlx87x68]

Thank you Laura!! Asked for guidance and u posted this video! So grateful for u x

[@melissarivera1031]

This is an amazing video Laura! Thank you for sharing this powerful message! Xoxo 💖

[@manifestfun240]

I had my mind blown recently! After i saw it from above i felt so powerful n free

[@laurenlouise12]

When we're whole we're free ♥️

[@ammim6797]

I’ve woken up to this same thing throughout this eclipse season. Have finally let it all go and feel better than ever. Even though my life seems to be at rock bottom I have a sense of freedom that you’re talking about. I had started questioning if the people on the “twin flame” path were truly just meant to heal codependent patterns a couple years ago but kept getting sucked back into questioning my intuition. Thank you for this video it’s a wonderful confirmation as are the comments! We made it to the other side! Yay us!

[@jessicaw6963]

Amber M. Agree!!

[@jenisesmith]

Thank you for doing what you do! I appreciate you more than you know.

[@idanordquist3102]

OMG Laura! So powerful ✨✨✨ Thank you! 🙏

[@babyfawn]

Super helpful video, thanks so much Laura 💞

[@elletanner3146]

I’ve been tossling back and forth between this exact dilemma! Thank you so much for making it. I’ve needed this for a while :3

[@ChibiClee]

Me too because I have been juggling back and forth from the TF community and my own life i'm leading yk. The connection has brought me lessons and my life has not much changed tbh!! It's time for me to live, he wants to live as well so it's in no way the right time to meet up and start dating or anything.

[@elletanner3146]

ChibiClee very true. I often see friends put someone else or a relationship as their only priority and even sort of their life purpose... and it never ends well. They lose themselves and I even got to this point years ago. I was abandoned 5 years ago by someone I considered my everything my purpose my ... self. and even though I wish I had been strong enough to full break away from them, them leaving was the best thing that could have happened to me. Even though I still feel unconditionally for them, I understand that in this point if my life, I need to develop myself as a whole individual, and embrace all the good and bad, and continue to improve. Like she said in the video, I needed that wakeup call, and the happier for it.

[@ChibiClee]

@@elletanner3146 I lost myself in doing this in my relationship I had before my healing. Making our relationship work and being seen was the only thing I did. Now I start to focus on myself, this connection can still exist even if I am working on myself.

[@nicolagreen856]

This inspired me! a great timing to view too. I always feel so much better listening to you thank you so much 😊

[@spiritofbirds7989]

I love you Laura! I always resonate with you so much. My soul loves your soul. Be whole and let go... you are beautiful. I feel your emotion. Thank you for your guidance. I needed to hear this. Wholeness=Freedom

[@tsue1664]

I don’t know who you are , but this message was for me. It’s about the lesson. Love of self. Thank You 🙏🏽

[@laurascott2058]

Wow I resonate a lot to this video. I found your channel before I met who I thought was my twin flame. I resonated so well w your videos and once I met him it just clicked. I mean that connection was unreal and the synchronicities blew my mind. I even had him watch the videos. Thank you so much for posting this video though. I had this exact situation w him and had been in other toxic relationships so luckily I noticed the signs. He just did a complete 180 and didn’t even call me on my birthday. even though I thought he was my twin I knew I had to call him on it and he didn’t even apologize and said he didn’t want to see me anymore. I was devastated but I knew I had to do more self love. I doubted myself as a life coach too because I teach this and this person who I thought was my twin had turned out to be so mean and I didn’t even see it coming. But hearing this video made me realize I did the right thing and even though I can’t get him out of my head I know that the more I can love myself the more I will attract others who will respect me exactly how I deserve to be respected.

[@hanakmotorkova2382]

I needed to hear this so much!!! And it finally resonates. I've been waiting for 6 years! Last week we chat a little after (another) 4 months and then he stopped answering (again). I'm done. I love him but I let him go because I am also here important. Thank you.

[@SK-no2pp]

Hana Kmotorková don’t wait around for a man ever. A man who truly wants you and values you would never put himself in a position to lose you. Time is passing you by! Enjoy life and people in if.

[@jack.stokes]

Love the honesty and authenticity

[@Aww_ishaax]

This is god talking right here 💚🔥

[@Themostmercifulrabb]

Aw Laura !! I felt everything you said , I’m sorry he done that to you, I’ve also had to let go of my “twin flame “ , feels soooo good and so freeing , I also feel so disgusted in his behaviour & treatment to me now . Self love right here ❤️🌸🙏

[@iamrhondai]

Love, love, love this😍💖 thank you

[@scarletangel1997]

100% on point, thank you very much!

[@tamimiller439]

Wonderful video Laura!

[@chrishynds5824]

Labels don't apply in all situations. Sometimes two people love each other but are in other relationships. They find it hard to leave because of various situations such as kids or finances.

[@kaixavier2]

Chris Hynds 👏👏👏 feels like my situation rn

[@hizamalik3761]

This is so freeing to hear. ❤️

[@jeanniemedlock9493]

This helped!!! Thank you💜✝️🙏🏼

[@DrRahmanBeckwith]

Awesome Laura. Thank you for your honesty. You’re right... now many people live somewhere between 3D and 5D and it causes confusion... Anyway, you are AMAZING🤩 Thank you for going though this tough journey and sharing it with us all💐! You have saved many people from unneeded suffering I’m sure! You deserve amazing Divine Love in every form! May it wash over you and overwhelm you 💓💫💕💚✨

[@Chloe-hj8fw]

thank u so much this really helped

[@peggirl152]

thank you so much! you validated what I was trying to believe. couldn't settle my mind. I decided I didn't want this but couldn't let go. I was asked, I assume by a guide why don’t I have faith with the process? ( it just turned 11:11.spooky) exactly as you said, he wasn't going to leave his GF. He has a long way to go. grateful for the experience.

[@evelyntorres8647]

Been there in toxic relationships but a twin flame relationship is different. I feel the only wrong thing a tf can do to you is walk out on you which trigger healing on both ends. I have to say that he never treated me badly and yes, in the beginning I did chase because I couldn’t understand how someone would walk away from something beautiful to go into something toxic. After 4 months I knew I had to do something because chasing is not in my nature. I did a no contact program which worked wonders. I found the strength to let go but we still kept in contact and he will always be there to help me in any way possible. Not to say I’ll take him up on it. he still deposits money into my account from time to time. Communication is getting less and less and I’m fine with it. To say I don’t think about him or love anymore, I would be lying. We both have separate lives now but will always have apart of each other in us. Tf connection can’t be compared to no other and if it’s that easy to write him off then that was not a tf.

[@karasloan182]

Thank you from my heart 💖 I had to walk away from the man i love who also gives disrespect, abuse and neglect to walk into happiness. Thank you.

[@LoveofSoul]

So true! 🙏🏻 Love you 💗

[@AM-xr1ij]

Laura this is beautiful. Truth thanknyou 💜

[@KimberlyErnstGoffRE]

I needed to hear this today...yesterday..lol. Thank you.

[@soniabranco1534]

Thanku I resonated with this so so much.. I appreciate you .. thanku

[@admirbarucija2018]

I lost myself earlier this year trying to retain people I thought were good for me and wanted them to be in my life, now that I have nobody and I’m alone I see just how wasted my efforts were

[@Aww_ishaax]

Silence is calling you silence is full of answers

[@growingsoul9215]

Wow Laura, thank you for this video. I've been feeling this way for some time now. I don't want the connection as he's treating me as trash and I won't accept that. I felt uncomfortable though, because in the TF groups people talk about unconditional love and being always open to the connection when he comes back. Well, I don't want to be open to this kind, one-sided connection. I thought it was wrong and that I should be more open and accept more. But now I see that I was right all the time. This is about me, about feeling whole and happy, and about sharing my light with the world and not only with someone that does not even appreciate it. Let them live their lives and learn their lessons! 😊

[@sarajones2092]

YES Laura!!! 🙌🏼❤️

[@hannaroivas8734]

Thank you ❤️

[@missanonoymous7829]

I believe in family and marriage. I am a married woman. I do not get into twin flame non sense. It is rubbush. TF is all drama.There is no value in a cat & mouse game. Since there is free will, I stopped with even readings a long time ago. I go with what is in front of me.But, I by no means believe we are meant to be full on our own. I strongly velieve in love, family, etc....Someone told me I am married to my twin fame. My response:" No. I am married to my husband."

[@kaylablanchard1163]

I love that you posted this video! I am finally back down to earth or reality LOL. The last 10 weeks have been the best of my recent life. I finally said F it and left. Although I still miss the company of my TF And his love still haunts me LOL (only a teeny bit But not enough to distract me from my self-worth goal) I have finally come to realize I don’t need him to be whole. I spent four years as well. He did awaken in me he also helped me heal and spat me back out just like you said. It really is true when they say true unconditional love is not holding on to someone and attaching because you’re afraid you’ll lose them...it’s letting them go so they can love themselves And being OK Whether it’s with them or not. I find it a little ironic that it seems you and I are going through the same thing at the same time with our TF, but I do believe it is happening to a lot of people right now. There is a huge spitting out and getting back to reality happening. I can feel the vibes. A big change. I can’t believe the journey I had to take to finally know my worth, value myself, and love myself for everything that I am. But like you said thank gosh you had to go through what you did to feel the same way. Thank you for all of your words of wisdom looking forwardTo your next video! It’s nice to know we are not alone.

[@Awaken218]

Thank you

[@Aww_ishaax]

You are the gospel I love you💚🔥

[@quartzquantum7530]

You really have to learn to love yourself before you can love others and that can be hard knowing that your twin may live very far away from you as the United States is very massive in size!!! Infinite Light & Love to you!!!

[@FeelGoodWithin]

Thankx for sharing ur experience Laura however I tried my best to move on!!! I thought I had False Twin & When I was abt to move on with True Twin he unblocked me!!! So I thought I should wait coz I wanted to know who is True Twin!!! Though I see both the names everywhere!!! I surrendered to Universe!!! Yeah Of course I won't tolerate any bullshit!!! On top of that I facing hard time financially too

[@reignitingus]

FeelGood Within it’s about losing the labels. Why would it matter who the twin is when you’re learning to be whole within yourself? Do you see? 🙌🏻😆

[@delaneymonica6390]

Thank you ♡

[@harborbay3410]

Resonates 100 percent!

[@CreativePenguinGirl]

Blessings🙏🏽

[@Emilyboo106]

thank you 💜

[@manifestfun240]

Lessons n blessings

[@crystaleverhart3286]

I have noticed that the TF readings are saying same and nothing ever happens. Which has me now not finding this to be what I thought in some ways. It was good to hear you say that just now in the video. That the readings keep saying the same and then union never comes. I love your videos and one day soon I'll buy another service from you! I have learned reiki...which you saw in the reading you did back in March! Reiki has changed me so much!

[@SK-no2pp]

Crystal Everhart I stopped watching all readings. It’s pointless. They are reading energy for massive collectives who are all waiting on guys that suck lol. They ghost, block, are rude etc... learn to value yourself ladies! I had a TF I was so madly in love and obsessed with for 4 years. He was always in fear, scared, stopped answering blah blah... but in reality, he was enjoying life and mines was passing me by. I since don’t resonate wit the label. I got tired but mostly I started loving myself and will never allow a man to treat me that way 🙏🏼

[@priyatibrewal6255]

Tysm💝

[@worldofsoumya]

Thanks for sharing!🙏 thank you so much! It just gave me more clarity..... and its great looking at things going on like they are the reflection of your own choices and deeds rather than the other people's behaviour which can't be controlled. This I think will help in taking control of our life in our own hands rather letting everything go just along the wind. Would you agree with me? Please let me know! It will add to my confidence which I need right now. Love to you and everyone! 💚

[@leahannwhite1111]

Here's what's true... No one has to 'pay for their debt' (karma). No one has to 'lie in the bed they made..' You dont ever have to accept punishment for being who you Are. And from learning to become the person you want to be. Nobody owes You anything. Divine Feminine. Or Masculine. You are FREE. Free to choose Anything and Anyone at ANY time. There is NO God or karma or spirit forces that will punish you to teach you lessons. No. You do that to you. You keep yourself stuck in pain, in suffering of emotion, in unhappiness. No one owes you ANYTHING. And no ones coming to save you, rescue you from your beliefs. You've got to decide not to be a victim. Not to be victim to circumstance or to anyone's disinterest in you. Disinterest in giving you what you want. That is selfish to think , 'He should STOP what he is doing to come love me,.. to come show me I'm important...' No, that is not love. That is selfishness. That is disillusionment. That is looking for Love and fulfillment outside of yourself. You will Never get it. And you Know it's off because you FEEL it. The pain and the suffering will let you know. When you are out of alignment with what is really True. What is True is what Is. When He /It comes.. that is good. When He /It doesnt.. that is Just As Good. Thats when you know you are FREE. That's when you know it is True Love. To be a Lover of what IS is what you really want. To let go of trying to have and Own what you cannot own. You cannot EVER Own another's Heart. Anothers Mind. Their Free Will. To Love them.. to TRULY Love them, is to Let them Go. And allow them to be who they ARE. In each and every moment. They don't need your permission... Haven't you noticed? ❤

[@taharamika6927]

I can't forget my twin flame, is it normal ?

[@CharlotteLeguy]

Laura, how do you explain all the « signs » and synchronicities if in the end you re not meant to reunite with your twin flame? I go back and forth at the moment and I feel like I need to choose but where I get stuck is that I think: then all the messages I felt I received from my « guides » or the universe were wrong? I just get trigger and loose trust in the universe and in me... Thank you for your honesty 😇🌟❤️🙏

[@ChibiClee]

I have been through this recently, he told me that he wanted to start a new life with me, he feels the connection now but he wanted me to be with him in his poly relationship and I said no, I told him to choose. I am not in contact with him rn because of that, I don't want him to bring his karmic and bad choices into the new life. His choice was to go back :). Also found out because of that I had to let him go more and more, we'll see...

[@shweta.9]

I completely agree with you that we should not stick on label like tf.. But problem is I got karmic relationship this is even more bad compared to tf... And no matter what I am sexually not feeling attracted to anyone even there is alot healing done but still sex I don't like to do with anyone else rather than tf.... Ufff I 💯 agree with you.. I moved away from twin but only next right path for me is stay alone.. Because i can't do the sex so there is no point to be in relationship with soulmate, karmic whatever it is..if i feel romantically attracted to any other person then only I might thik..

[@leviemso]

Why when I decide to let go the dreams get stronger?...I want it to go away

[@reignitingus]

leviemso It will pull you back until you learn what you’re meant to learn from the connection :)

[@logic109]

Hi Kira 👋

[@kiraanother.free.spirit5135]

Hi Matthew❤

[@vODDEVILISH]

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[@petrathiderman360]

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