Beatrice Chestnut - Type 6 Enneagram Panel

Type 6 Panel on day three of the Enneagram Panel Workshop Series (Types 5, 6 & 7) with Beatrice Chestnut and host, Michael Lerner
Enneagram is an archetypal depth psychology. It has enormous power to deepen our insight into ourselves and others. As a follow-up to our last TNS conversation with author and enneagram expert Beatrice Chestnut, we’re offering a three-part series of workshops to explore enneagram further in depth. Each workshop will feature a three- to five-person panel of enneagram “types”.

[@Ariadetroit]

I am a 6w5p sp and this was absolutely hilarious. Listening to a whole group of people explaining what it’s like to be a 6 was so spot on for me and I cackled like it was stand up comedy. Absolutely loved it.

[@LauraMDuran]

“There’s a lot of inconsistency in testing others for how consistent they’re going to be in relation to me” 🤯

[@kelly6246]

I relate so much, especially to Noah. I used to think i was laid back..LOL. Also the dichotomies, seeing all angles, unable to pin down and everything "depends". Regarding distrust of others, i usually worry that I'm naive, because i can be fairly trusting in ways..but i think deep down it's a distrust of myself and my own judgement. Great panel.

[@Ktsjdu5xi6e86r9]

My biggest fear has always been insanity too. I literally forgot that because I've gotten so into the enneagram that I've been thinking "oh my biggest fear is being unsafe or not having support" but when he said that it hit me like a freight train. Edited to add i really relate to Noah: the fact that i believe in chaos and nothing is comforting to me and confuses the hell out of most people

[@justineact]

Love the Noah guy, very funny, honest, modest and prepared! That's the kind of guy you want to be with during these zombie days.

[@williammedford5891]

These were, by far, the best exemplars of type, and the most entertaining, in the history of enneatype panels. Thank you folks!

[@natalieh.3399]

I believe I’m a social six. Wow. This was like a look inside my head! When Noah spoke about his answers varying depending on the circumstances, I knew exactly what he meant. When people ask if I’m a glass half full or a glass half empty kind of person, my answer has always been, “I depends, if it’s being filled up, it’s half full. If someone’s been drinking it, it’s half empty.” I thought this was a logical approach, but maybe I’m wrong. 😂

[@MM-yl9gn]

I am a self preservation 5 with sexual 6 wing. The way the guy describes literally envisioning possible, often dangerous outcomes in an instant flash of insight is spot on and really centers these people within an intuitive process that is usually extremely accurate. The deep need as a 5 to protect sovereignty with an intuitive, sexual 6 wing makes for an aggressive protectionist who subconsciously amasses data with predictive outcomes resulting in jokingly "psychic" ability at times and who can largely instantly read people without knowing them first but who is also capable of becoming irrationally paranoid and untethered during times of duress. Sort of blown away, actually and enjoy that the Enneagram is more dynamical than other rigid personality type exploration into features of the self.

[@smittenwithsugar]

I'm a 7, but I found this video much more entertaining than watching the 7s, lol! Love you sixes

[@thriftyniftyfun]

my 2 best friends are 6's! 7 here.

[@lisagonzales8853]

This almost brought me to tears. It actually was so relatable to me it was almost scary.

[@lisagonzales8853]

This makes me not feel so alone.

[@meanna6495]

I had the same; now I finally know that I really am a 6 ( and not a 5 or a 1 or a 9 ;-) )

[@MattB8030]

Keep your head up, keep the faith in Christ, we are strong

[@sharontan4058]

Best panel I have seen, reminded me why I have fallen in love with a darling 6.

[@DiegoLinde]

That's ironic, I felt it was the worst panel I've listened to

[@braveknight2000]

I'm late to the party. No one will probably read this but anyway, the sixes I know love scary movies. As a four, I always wondered what the heck that was about because I sit there and watch them and think, "What's the point of this?" But it occurred to me that sixes like scary movies because it lets them feel like they're dealing with their fears in a safe way. I said this to a six once and they actually agreed with me.

[@OutwardElementStudio]

as a 6 i watch scary movies and laugh at them. Never thought of this, but maybe its because I think theyre so stupid for not being prepared that I expect whats going to happen. But personally I dont choose to watch scary movies in my free time.

[@skyekerrlevy6551]

Shannon, this reminds me that, as a six, I felt weirdly relieved (and also lots of other feelings) when the pandemic hit because I felt like other people might finally know the level of fear of illness I live with all the time as a six! Your scary movie observation feels spot-on :)

[@braveknight2000]

@@skyekerrlevy6551 My son is a six so I appreciate insight from other sixes so I can understand him better.

[@deborahbrannan3923]

I’m not sure if I’m A 6 but I love true crime. I like to be aware of what people are capable of. Plus there’s something satisfying about watching true crime from the comfort and safety of my locked up house.

[@braveknight2000]

@@deborahbrannan3923 Very interesting. Thanks for replying!

[@maralrapp5405]

This was a real joy. If I *ever* questioned my being 6, I gave that up today.

[@jacksonlandrum903]

This by far has been the most engaging group that I have heard. Thank you so much. As much as can relate to many things said, your willingness to share confirmed I am most likely 5w6. For example when reading about the six' need for stability and security, I had in mind that this was referring to economic stability/security, not security in the literal sense. After hearing the panel point this out so eloquently, it made me realize my focus on limited resources. Excellent Panel!

[@LADYDIVAful]

When dealing with a six just live in your truth, it's more easier for them to trust you. If they discern pseudo behavior they'll reject you! They're big on "trust"!

[@robertknight9506]

It used to bother me a great deal when I felt nothing after a near-death experience. I never felt fear or anger, I just moved on. I thought there was a problem with me. Apparently, this is quite normal for a 6.

[@tkinsey3]

Same. I have some much existential anxiety, but in the moment of danger (and after), I'm really not fearful at all. It's bizarre.

[@donnaleecriss8692]

Yes i agree as another 6

[@helenyates3951]

There is a problem if you dont experience your feelings...you are numbing out.

[@juliehere4yang763]

Wow this was incredible. I want these people to be my neighbors so I can process life with them! My people for sure 😭🙏🏼

[@alyssainnis4432]

I’m re-watching this, and the first guy is my spirit animal. And when she was referencing the book in the beginning regarding the subtypes...all of those are applicable in different circumstances, but there’s definitely an order.

[@robferguson9801]

This is a fantastic video. Fantastic. I'm 6w7. I'm often SP but can easily snap into the CP zone. I appreciate this panel but Beatrice is one of the most amazing hosts I have ever seen in any context. A natural.

[@alyleiwal]

Wow, the analogy about people’s expectations and being stuck in traffic. I constantly feel guilty that I’m not showing up for my friends and family in the right ways. (I’m pretty sure I’m a Social 6)

[@alyssainnis4432]

This is a constant feeling. And I’m creeped out that we share the same first name.

[@steph88bilo]

That really hit me too. I absolutely feel that way metaphorically and literally when I'm in traffic!

[@rockztar6420]

I have typed myself for an 8 and 5 for the longest. I would have never thought of an 6. I was never aware of myself as I thought.

[@luz3424]

Same here!

[@farrahhennessey8607]

Hearing others speak about consistency was so emotional for me. I crave consistency like no other. I NEED to know what to expect, and the world just doesn't operate in this manner. It causes me to experience a lot of anxiety. I don't trust anyone, and those in a position of authority have disappointed me time and time again. Great panel of 6's. I enjoyed listening to their takes and experiences on this broad Enneagram type.

[@mtoffo2275]

This panel was so much fun to watch :)

[@shewhodares5935]

Noah is soooo on point.

[@jennakfae]

us 6s are definitely good at laughing at ourselves :)

[@tangerinesarebetterthanora7060]

6's can be so charming in their own way.

[@tammygrisolia3496]

This is so helpful for me as a social 9 wing 1 who goes to 6 in stress. I have recently began dating a 6 and am learning so much by hearing each perspective and why he is always questioning me and preparing for the next move as if we are playing chess. He is always ready to take action, while I am fantasizing about my next opportunity to get to my peaceful, happy place and nap if possible. This helps me to give grace to him and he is listening to 9 podcasts which helps him to understand and step back when necessary. He is learning not to push me because I am the stubborn 9 who will dig my heels in like a mule. haha

[@lischenmuller8249]

Thank you for this Video! ❤ Hello Brothers and Sisters of Type 6! ❤

[@alyssainnis4432]

“Often find themselves driving fast on the highway...” me: 😳

[@MattB8030]

Yep, lol. Me to

[@michellerodeno7273]

Absolutely mind blowing! Many pieces to a puzzle just put together. I’ll be rewatching for sure...with tissues.

[@April18265]

YES! Wow, can relate so much to so many of the stories here! Awesome video

[@MoyaMorrisEnneagram]

Great Panels, thank you so much for sharing. I will post to Facebook.

[@mostcreativenickname]

At this point I don’t know anymore whether I’m a 9w1 or a 6w5. I can relate to both and none at the same time😭

[@akivaragen]

These panels really help me understand eniagram better than any theory. Thank you 🙏

[@annekruger1942]

Great people! All of them. Thank you!

[@patrarus6097]

Thanks for posting this interesting, informative video. I am a 6w7 SP and proud of it!

[@GenesisAcevedoDeChacon]

Hello! Thank you very much for this series of panels, I've learned a lot. Thanks to this one specifically, I'm certain now that I'm not a 6 but a 9. This was wonderful.

[@kane5785]

It is amazing how many different sixes there may be. I mean, I feel the total opposite of Noah's perceptions of the world, but somehow I can understand him.

[@donnalambert4208]

these are my people!

[@ldyjplantagenet]

I am a 4 but also on high alert, because I am an HSP. 6’s May want to look into the work of Dr. Elaine Aaron, too.

[@timschrock]

This was amazing and so helpful!

[@chrisd.2831]

great people! I didn't know how funny are! but what had been let open is: how did that plane hijack story end?????

[@petraondrackova4318]

Thank you so much for the experience❤. It is amazing to see how similar these people are to me and after watching this video I am glad that I am a six too. So many fun and great people together ;) and the sensitive and wise Beatrice is just the icing on the cake :) Thank you!

[@leftcornerdesign]

This was a great panel, thanks for sharing! - fellow counter-phobic 6

[@carolinesmith727]

Listening to the lady confirms I’m a 5. “That author is trash, you shouldn’t read him”. As a 5 I’m like wow that’s stupid, just because they have questionable character doesn’t mean I they can’t make valid points. You could be missing out on really great info because you don’t like the author

[@alyssainnis4432]

I can relate so much to a 5...I’m questioning which one I am all the time. But this makes me feel like a 6, but I am too like “if I’ve decided you’re trash, everything you touch is also trash...”

[@crisisalert3029]

I understand your point, but she never mentioned the character of the author. I would think she was referring to the author's body of work, which is still her subjective opinion. As well, one could still miss out on valid points.

[@YEDxYED]

I, as a six wouldn’t say this. Okay, I would as a joke but I would never try to deny you of something that you may enjoy.

[@Huizar]

This panel is great, humorous could be stand up comedy!. Me as an 8, coming from the 8 panel which felt powerful and energetic like a world war II bunker interrogation. I guess 8s we are…. Dense.

[@lexiemedina8215]

The insanity thing is so true! I always fear being insane!

[@gracenlee2987]

Listening to the panel members' accounts of their experiences really helped me to see myself as a 6. One of the things that dawned on me is that I have been super skilled at identifying potentially worst scenario cases and how to prepare for them using my observation skills, problem solving skills, etc, so why not use the same skills to imagine the best scenario cases instead?

[@donnaleecriss8692]

I was a correctional officer for many years. 6 very suitable because it is a job of observation

[@RubyRobbins88]

Imagine being a 6 with ADHD, dyslexia, depression, and OCD.....my life is interesting.

[@LeighCarolynBeauty]

6 with ADHD! Yes

[@rockztar6420]

makes us 3 perhaps

[@towel1636]

Same

[@angelatyler3712]

Excellent panel!

[@jeanie4703]

That guy Noah could so do stand up.

[@Jessicaunarex]

He is cute!

[@paisleyprincess7996]

His hijack plan

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Love to you guys from a 4w5.

[@steph88bilo]

Thank you so much! So much wisdom here.

[@NewSchoolCommonweal]

Thanks for joining us

[@adeliaforsteri3683]

i can see the nervousness in them lmao

[@GLAASJEMELC]

I keep coming back to this, because as a sx6, I find it so funny to hear this. Confronting your demons? Hilaaaaarious

[@vnsn1628]

could listen to noah talk for hours lmao and im not even a 6

[@madamk1818]

Being a 6w5 sp, I relate a lot to Trent especially when he was talking about the 37 bus. There was a situation that happened on the brown line in Chicago where I had that same line of worst case scenario thinking.

[@shuzennn]

Lmao we live in constant tension 😭

[@rontennis6569]

That was terrific.

[@randyplank]

As a law enforcement officer of 28 years, this explains why I have always found it easy to play the "What if..." game, why I don't get startled, I am calm in situations, and I so easily expect the worst out of those I deal with. It also explains why my ex has labelled me a "chameleon, narcissist, and hypocrit." Maybe I was uniquely suited to this career. Not so much to marriage!

[@Ktsjdu5xi6e86r9]

I am 6w5 with (I believe a 9w8) and my siblings have all said we are the only people for each other because no one else could handle us 😂😂 I've found that the sense of calm and security i get from my partner's 9 qualities has helped me move toward 9 immensely and stop my constant planning and anxiety toward the unknown a lot

[@neptuniankamie9]

Pretty surprised that Noah has not received any marriage proposals in the comments

[@yukiamijochi]

Wouldn't take it anyway ... Gonna get scammed and shipped of from organ traders ... Or just rob him ... Or Hack something ... Yeah I'll stop ... just from the standpoint of a 6 that not yet found the way to deal with it or work with it ... Sometimes but not reliable ... Nice either way ^^

[@mjones2619]

I have always struggled with authority and I’m definitely a 6

[@lokeshparihar7672]

14:20 planning is fear

[@kellie8468]

I thought six’s trust too much or too little. But this looks like it’s not easy to trust. I can relate to a lot of this but I tend to trust more often and I don’t know that I am consistently calm in a crisis or always prepare or pay attention to everything. I do some of that but not like this panel. I also don’t often worry if trust didn’t work it it’s more on the other person.

[@duhxdustin]

Did you take the test?? Check your wings

[@bensimpson9175]

Thank you@

[@helenyates3951]

Most people who describe themselves as "laid back " are usually defended and out of touch with reality. So "laid back" is a key element in this character type.

[@deborahbrannan3923]

Could they be 9’s?

[@deborahbrannan3923]

They’re anything but laid back.

[@steph88bilo]

We're quiet and reserved, taking it all in... and therefore look very laid back. I've often been told this.

[@geoffgentry]

I think there may be a lifetime developmental aspect to phobic/counter phobic. I think a young counter phobic tendency could mellow later in life.

[@MiliEiko]

I really think the person on the right is a social six. Not every social six are agressive! Some are very sweet and open-minded. Self-preservation six is more of a feeler because their protection is their bond with people. He has more of the intellectual, rational vision of the social six who want everything to make sense (logical rules, externally or internally).

[@lindseyl5842]

I'm a 4 but I love you 6s !

[@MrFireman164]

Love ❤️

[@kart_blanche2506]

I look up personality types of my favorite movie characters to see if they are the same as me 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@MultiCheeseme]

Same!

[@MsAliensex]

Are u 6 or 4 ?

[@kart_blanche2506]

@@MsAliensex I’m a 5w6

[@daniellthornton4218]

I have the worst/best imagination! I do the same things have the worst thoughts sometimes all I can do is laugh at myself lol

[@anitadodd]

Is it common for a 6 to test fairly even across the board? I tested 98% a 2, 90% a 4, and 85% a 9, but all of my other numbers were also in the 60-70% as well, so it appears I can be all things to all people. ? It seems that I do it to be loved, but there are also other motivators as well.

[@themiddleones11]

MY PEOPLE!

[@rockztar6420]

as a 6, also my life path numerology number IS 3. adds up man

[@FlamesAndShadows]

Lol. Mine is 8, with karmic lesson 8, between being an INFP and self-pres 6, closely followed by a 9 in a tritype, imagine my skepticism of that working in any sort of traditional way. ...Which I guess, from an enneagram point of view does make sense with the 3 being point of disintegration/integration for both top numbers, but in a useless if you don't, one slip of not being on all the time, and you are a monster, way. -_-' But again, for an INFP - 8 is ridiculous.

[@tapashraina9582]

I am a 6 and my life path is 9

[@daniellthornton4218]

ROCK ZTAR for the 8 they can be.. for the 6 it can be really difficult and suffocating. It depends on the health of the 8 and 6 honestly. 8s in my life tend to be the kind who break spirits and don’t care about others feelings

[@daniellthornton4218]

I also am a chronic ruiner of things lol

[@daniellthornton4218]

I identify with all facets of my 6ness. I get into my 5 and 7 wings not one over the other, I am CP and PH it just depends on the situation, my feelings before the occurrence, the people involved etc. I can’t say I’m one type of 6.

[@danielleschilling2038]

Love 6s. Jen comes off very 8ish to me -9 so/sp

[@ORfMT]

Partly I find all that laughing a bit confusing🤷‍♀️ - as a 6 myself I find many of those things true, not even funny even though its good to be able to laugh to oneself... Maybe people dont understand that things those people tell are true to us - maybe they are so absurd to other people that they spontaneously laugh to them

[@-_M___M_-]

Big crush on Noah.

[@deborahbrannan3923]

The difficulty identifying my type can also be an indication that I’m a 9, right? I’m not hyper vigilant nor am i usually prepared. But I find it super hard to take tests b/c it’s situational, it depends. Could this also be a 9 trait?

[@YEDxYED]

The over prepared thing can be a bit overblown honestly. Especially if you’re SP blind

[@alishaortega1132]

Anger demon. Yes. Totally understand that. Hate it lol.

[@mrs.heathergrafe4330]

looking for inconsistensies, vigilance and analysis paralysis.... know them well!

[@anthonywritesfantasy]

"The Skeptic."

[@haeru9997]

I love them all HAHAHAHAHAHAH

[@themoonbleu627]

i’m an 8 are 6s and 8 a good match ?

[@radiatormike]

No better or worse than any other match. If you're both self aware, and willing to meet the needs of the other, whilst not compromising your own too much, any match can work (be it for friendships, romantic relationships or anything in between).

[@alyssainnis4432]

As (I think I’m a social) a 6, I adore 8s and I actually attract them. Where others find them overwhelming and mean, I find them refreshingly authentic and necessary in a world full of chaos.

[@iamthisiam]

After watching this, I know for sure that Batman is a 6w5.

[@YEDxYED]

Nahh, he’s a 1w9. However, the rendition that planned on how to defeat each justice league member could be one lol

[@solo.4470]

7:05

[@juliereeves5625]

Watching the body language you can see they are feeling anxious.

[@obtuseandcongruent6510]

Scary anger demon - I feel you

[@tangerinesarebetterthanora7060]

If you're a 6 don't take this personally but to me 6's can be both the most interesting and boring type.

[@davidtrig]

I’m either a 3 or a 6 I don’t know! I don’t like either can’t I be a 9? Lol

[@FlamesAndShadows]

Be really healthy or unhealhy, depending on which is your actual number? :P I have 6 and 9 in a tritype, so acting assertive is a real minefield for me. I either bypass my inhibitions and finally get the shit done feeling uplifted (which doesn't last long anyway, since not all of us build to be someone else forever), or fail miserably at it with some trappings of an unhealthy 3.

[@davidtrig]

FlamesAndShadows sounds like me are you a 6?

[@drowningblonde]

You can really see Jens anxiety. She over explains everything, and has this inner over stimulated energy that shes trying to contain.

[@emmarae4322]

Do I look this tense?😂

[@mollyforaker9875]

Ed's fine but he needs to scoot over because he's totally encroaching on Jen's personal space

[@Sexxxyism]

I don't trust the one in the middle.

[@danielleschilling2038]

Because she is an 8?!?

[@paisleyprincess7996]

She comes off as an 8 to me

[@Sexxxyism]

@@paisleyprincess7996 Good point. Since I am a 6, I could relate to the other 6's on the panel, but not the lady in the middle. Maybe the reason is that she is an 8. Her demeanor kind of gives me the creeps. She even tell her husband he's not allowed to have chick-fil-a.

[@paisleyprincess7996]

@@Sexxxyism She tells her man he can’t have Chick Fil le. Him actually abiding by her gives ME the creeps. I’m an 8, and I have that same energy…Like fast energy.

[@Zimoria]

She's probably just type 6 one on one subtype since it's the countertype and commonly mistyped as an 8. And Chic Fil A is fast food. She also said she and her husband were both recovering. Given that he's male with alcohol abuse history he's already at higher risk of heart problems, which fast food isn't good for. So I didn't see her comment on him as controlling so much as just helping keeping him accountable, like an accountabilabuddy 🤷‍♀️