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Become a narcissist’s worst nightmare
Has a narcissist made your life a living hell? Are you ready to turn the tables and become a narcissist’s worst nightmare? Watch this video to learn exactly what to do to make a narcissist crack. It’s time to make them as powerless over you as you have felt to them and get victory over that narcissist in your life.
🎓What you’ll learn in the webinar:
The 3 empowering secrets you need to take back control when communicating with narcissists.
How to develop a winning, foolproof strategy to drive the outcome you want out of negotiations with narcissists.
How to be more powerful, persuasive and confident when negotiating with narcs.
What to say in negotiation and how to say it so that you can beat narcs at their own game!
How to anticipate what the narcissist will do and be two steps ahead of them at all times.
About Rebecca Zung:
✅Rebecca Zung is one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the nation, having been recognized by U.S. News & World Report as a “Best Lawyer in America”, as “Legal Elite” by Trend Magazine, and recognized by her peers and the judiciary as AV(c), preeminent rated in family law, the highest possible rating for an attorney by Martindale Hubbell.
✅But her journey wasn’t always easy. She got married at 19, had 3 children and divorced at the age of 23. She was a divorced single mom when she decided to go back to law school. She went from being a single mom, college dropout, to becoming one the most powerful lawyers in the country at the helm of a multi-million dollar practice. She is now committed to sharing her secrets and empowering others to live their lives at their optimum level of success, professionally and personally.
✅She is the author of the bestselling books, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win and Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom, and is a sought after major media contributor.
✅She has been featured in Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newsweek, Time, Dr. Drew, NPR Talk Radio, Good Day New York and CBS Los Angeles among others. She is the host of the popular show Negotiate Your Best Life™ which is available on KZbin and as a Top Podcast. She is also a frequent keynote speaker.
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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I will be there live to answer all your questions. Can’t wait to see you there!

[@suzanne7277]

Thank you, this will be just what I need to get my freedom back

[@vanislandangell7618]

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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

@@vanislandangell7618 hi! So sorry you’ve had that issue. Please send an email to [e-mail] and we will make sure you get it right away! 😊

[@vanislandangell7618]

@@RebeccaZungEsq Thank you so much! Ive sent an email there, hopefully I can get it right away!😊

[@EscapingTheMadness]

The best feeling for yourself is when you realise you don’t give a toss about them.. that feeling is everything. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@davidoaikhena4380]

When you don’t show that you give a damn about them! They show Narcissistic rage, they are in your face! If it’s a neighbor they can mess up the front of your house with papers, or open letters or rearrange your seats! They will come out at the door while you are going out to make sure you know they are the one! Don’t fall for it! Don’t show rage! Just ignore them! They will be ashamed of themselves!

[@HapillyMe]

I'm at that point right now. I don't care....

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

@@davidoaikhena4380 Every time!👏🏽

[@tracybeaver214]

@@HapillyMe You and me both.

[@tinab3627]

I’m finally there 😊

[@islandgirlruby2750]

Become the narcissist worst nightmare by ignoring them, don't take their calls, texts, and messages.

[@davidoaikhena4380]

They get MAD! When you ignore them! They want to be YOU! But they can’t!

[@davidoaikhena4380]

They get MAD! When you ignore them! They want to be YOU! But they can’t!

[@PrettyToez07]

The text message thing!! Oh boy!!

[@aroguereptilian]

Dealing with my dad & his dad, both extreme cases of classic npd. Deal with things like showing up at my job. Texting sister that the cops will be called if she doesnt respond because theyre worried. Really just straight up creepy how much these ppl obsess over whoever they fixate on.

[@mrfrancisko1]

i remember once my supervisor texted me and i replayed late 10 minutes then he was going crazy double texting me “why i was not responding”.and it was not even important.

[@redwoods7370]

Become the narcissist's worst nightmare by cutting off all contact permanently. Done.

[@vids4791]

True. She didn't get her claws in me. I think she even tried calling me a few years later but blocked her. They can't stand to have no contact.

[@boomerangsruckflug8513]

The best revenge is to have a great live without them!

[@joannajones3833]

Not always possible when there are innocents still involved!!

[@boomerangsruckflug8513]

@@joannajones3833 so protect them!

[@rodrigodasilva9176]

Yes. Cut all ties, friends included.

[@JoakimBB]

Want to win? Don't play.

[@couldntholdacandle6681]

That's not always easy

[@couldntholdacandle6681]

Ever dealt with a drunken abusive one

[@oliviavaldez8961]

Ever had to share the decisions for the care of a parent with brain cancer who becomes a quad amputee (loss of both hands and feet) after intense chemo? Didn't have the choice to "not play!" I had to or my parent could die! She's left us now (RIP Mom!) and now I have left her!

[@cvachon7]

@@oliviavaldez8961 Bless you.

[@fionahaliburton3756]

Mine keeps begging, "truth or dare" after I made it clear her terrorism and presence in my life is unwanted. I've never played that game because I hate it, why would I start now at fifty-seven? Narcs are infantile.

[@llynnie888]

By the time you catch on to the danger of a narcissist, lives can be destroyed.

[@Sagittarius12-2-77]

Mine has tried to kill me many times

[@roshall8401]

Mine was in law manipulate the whole fanily by making drama

[@oklahomaisok]

Seriously, some of them leave a path of damages throughout their life.

[@CJ-hz1uj]

So far, recognizing them instinctively and paying attention to gut feelings quickly, and that means in seconds since that’s all they need to create havoc, works pretty well. Then you know not to try reasoning or truth, since they only care to disrupt and destroy. Just get away from them, without being disturbed by them, since that only supplies them with more of what they call “fun”. Once you’ve identified the threat, if possibly needed immediately call on staff if you are in a public place like a restaurant or tavern to get a guard or some company out to vehicle or transportation. Of course do not engage. The drink or whatever they offer to buy you is not worth it.

[@suitcaseksimpson6169]

I'm currently in a hotel because he threatened me with cops my PTSD trigger due to military sexual trauma and it was literally turned on me in 4 hours... So I am homeless and all my children have been alienated, I have no friends left and I just spent the last of my disability on our hotel for a trip to the keys.... I feel like a complete tool....

[@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190]

Have been caring for myself - shampoo & shower everyday. Going out without him to see friends. Withholding all supply.

[@nancyinthegarden3160]

What does he do?

[@ESumner]

Omg this is sooo hard... 1/2 my adult life I’ve spent in bed, crying, exhausted and underweight from anxiety... all over a covert male narcissist... I thought I was the narcissist because when I’m mad I yell and sometimes say mean things to him 😔

[@eagleeye2300]

This is how dangerous narcissists are: It took me over 2 years to be able to bathe regularly and brush my teeth after leaving the narc. Get away from them and stay away from them if you value your sanity and your life. And then, beware the re-test, because if you don't heal and do your introspection, you'll keep attracting other ones. There are lots of them out there.

[@scooterpatooter9484]

@@ESumner No...lol...you aren't. They're toxicity takes a huge toll and you lose all sense of who YOU are because every damned thing has to be about THEM (or else...🙄).

[@oliviavaldez8961]

Haha! Good for you! Isn't it funny how caring and loving you, really angers them! (love your name cluster B free! that's good!)

[@rebeccah6533]

Turn the tables and live a happy and successful life without them.

[@kjbrocky]

That's the biggest cliche of all time. That's not possible for everyone.

[@davidoaikhena4380]

Success is relative! To some is physical possession! To others is intelligence and brilliance! To some is a happy life! Just be happy and confident! The day you lose your confidence, that’s the day the Narcissist will win the battle!

[@davidyardley512]

Just #3 Rebecca. Don't give a toss about them, what they're doing, who they're with. Just know that it's exhausting being them.

[@moonbaby6134]

@@Jackgritty28 I take it you’re not British. Not giving a toss, means not caring. Not spanking the monkey.

[@poolypiraterecords5740]

To all victims of narcissism! This is an example of someone been caught up in the chain. Don't let narcissist drag you into playing their game of "one up manship" Its simple don't let them wind you up, most things they say are only a kind of outscoring strategy. Just remember they don't matter! Don't get caught up in their mind games!

[@salliegallegos918]

1. Withhold supply that feeds their ego. Interrupt supply in how they look to the world; threaten them. 2. Demonstrate their lack of control over something. 3. Live happily without them. Move on. Erase them. Block them! 💕❤️💕

[@sueb6885]

Turned the tables by dropping all the narcissists in my life! Im 61 years old and have had a lifetime of overt and covert narcississts! Finally I'm through !Thanks for sharing your story!

[@lovewhitey2027]

Right with ya 55 yrs

[@koolbeans8292]

Me too I’m 63. I finally dumped my aging narcissistic parents too. Me is way too valuable for that BS... They have my too flying monkey sisters. One couldn’t and thank God, have children and the other had two and the youngest, scapegoat, took his own life at age 14. The same day that the older golden child, narc stole five bucks from him. The older narc went on a 12 year meth/crack spree. Ended up in jail. And they have the nerve, balls, golf, to tell me that they did way more for their kids, which was us, then I did for mine. Both my children are in their early 30s and have careers. They never been on drugs, never been judged, never drank, never smoked cigarettes. It took this long, 60 years and these videos and comparisons to realize how my narcissistic parents normalized that behavior.

[@sueb6885]

@@mongoose59 What I can say is find your way out! Where there is a will, there is a way! Don't let them have the satisfaction of destroying your life and your self esteem! Narcissists are not worth your time and effort.

[@eagleeye2300]

Same here. Narcissists for my entire life. Done with it, but still proceeding with caution.

[@jesusislukeskywalker4294]

you live alone too hey. it's insanity out there.

[@BrokeTruckerGyal]

I've taken up the habit of laughing at him when he tries his tactics and then just going about my day. Because truthfully I could care less.

[@rachelchenoweth5748]

I am almost there... Most of the time I catch it and am able to laugh at him or I say "how do you look in the mirror, how do you live with yourself?"

[@barbaraseccombe2421]

Love this video Rebecca

[@barbaraseccombe2421]

Rebecca i said to him YOU ARE A FAKE

[@katyballadares1183]

Oh hell yes! I am turning the tables! 21 years of hell, and now it is my turn to thrive!!

[@deletedaccount8275]

same here

[@kimsmith819]

Congratulations to you. Hope you are finally enjoying life to the fullest ✨💕

[@elizabethkinzey3865]

I was able to publicly witness my narcissist's complete social, financial and mental breakdown. He went from cutting people down to look superior to begging for food. People were treating him with pity or scorn. I completely turned my back on him and treated him like a non-person (like he did so many times to me) When he got back up on his feet, he was still a prick.

[@susanhopkinswarneke2335]

I never realized how controlled I was by the narcissist until I cut her from my life. Things are 100% better for me now. While I was in the relationship I just couldn’t see how crazy it was.

[@nicolekulikowski2401]

Saaaaaame

[@dawnhenderson889]

Turn the tables! I’m living my life without him! After 5 years of toxicity, I was able to move on & changed my number too! 🤩💪🏼

[@triplekids3]

I’m married 33 years work on leaving my husband, I’m so sick all the time

[@tracyjackson1630]

@Dawn Henderson Right on!!!

[@andrewcarlisle639]

How did you manage this? I was with my ex 6 years and even though she’s wronged me in so many ways and in the end cheated 8 months with no contact I cannot stop thinking about her ( everyday)

[@geneman4]

Turn the table

[@lindasharpe7039]

Beautiful

[@joellenwalker9830]

I turned the tables and walked away nearly five years ago!! He has tried every way he could to cheat me out of a fair settlement, even involving church ministers and elders who he thinks have respect for him and not me! I can’t wait until the court case is finished and he has to pay me my fair share it will kill him to hand over money to me after thirty years of controlling all the money. He and his flying monkeys try to intimidate me even outside the court building during the court case. I just walk away with my held high not even speaking to them as I’m not wasting any more time with the narc ever!!

[@salonsavy6476]

GO GIRL👍💪.... you are awesome 👏

[@mcollinson2200]

Ah this was my ending too but he won in court as we live in his country, He took everything and court helped him, I was left with 2 kids struggling to cope unable to leave the country so he could have access though he has never bothered with them. Every day is a fight.

[@joellenwalker9830]

M Collinson I’m sorry I haven’t got my settlement yet and we still have half more day of court and the judges decision. I’m hoping the judge sees his arrogance and disrespect towards not only me but women In general. I’m living in his country too and have done for thirty four years, I’m keeping my fingers crossed the lady judge and my lady lawyer give him what he deserves.

[@reneewachter1925]

Well i wish you lot of luck! Narcs love last minute surprise! The little money I got from my divorce I spent it with private investigators or cameras for my house or repair ing what he brakes. He even bought investigators I hired to mislead me and much more evil unbridled acts while playing victim with his church

[@joellenwalker9830]

Renee Wachter I know nothing is sure until it is done and you have the money in your hand when dealing with a narc. I’m astounded that they can play the righteous game so well but they really are just the opposite and a say Pharisees (look good on the outside but full of corruption, evil and fake on the inside). No contact, and never seeing him again is what I look forward to. I don’t miss him, I don’t love him, I don’t want anything to do with him, I don’t feel anything when I look at him other than thinking how ever did I ever fall in love with such an selfish hollow person. Good luck to everyone on their own journey stay strong and remember when you are no longer a supply to these blood suckers your life will be so much better!!

[@jacquid3538]

The best revenge is living a happy life! 30 yrs married to a covert narcissist. I left him 4 yrs ago and I’m not looking back. I am his worst nightmare now. Lol

[@jaymay-wy8ye]

Am sorry that you had to endure this ordeal but am also proud that you survived and survived well. Thank you for never ending support and help to strengthen the sense of hope and power of those who have been victimized by the narcs. Your coaching made me strong. My narc ex, an alcoholic fireman abused me and other women beyond cruelty. I got smarter through the process and turned the table and collected evidence that served will serve more against him. He believed that his fireman status made him untouchable. He is dead wrong. This experience made me a stronger woman and am speaking up now to expose him. I am in control and am in power!

[@misstrippy1147]

Turn the tables! HELL-TO-THE-YESSSSS!

[@lovelyqueen2878]

🥂🍾👏 #SELFLOVE 👑👠✨

[@vicbaker8367]

Just this morning I suspended his phone because he won’t find a new provider. Divorce has been over a month, but he’s happy with me paying the bill. Taking the power back! Thank you Rebecca for solid common sense guidance.

[@beckybarnes9676]

I was raised by a narcissist mother, a cruel nasty piece of work . I have found the best way to deal with her behaviour is to laugh at her, especially in front of others . She barely contacts me now...result !! She now only has my younger sister barely hanging on to get her supply from...the rest of the family avoid her as much as they can.

[@beverlyfarmer9311]

Love these videos, it took several years to realize his behavior has a name, narcissist.

[@lovingsongs1762]

Most of what she says seems to apply to married adults who have suffered from a narcissistic spouse. It doesn't seem to apply to a narcissistic adult child controlling a parent who wants a resolution other than walking away.

[@persiagil1488]

Relationship dynamic is not a particular factor. Narcissists are narcissists no matter what form they take! So deal with the behavior accordingly and disregard the personal relation.

[@amandaleonard2084]

I love your method of speaking aggressively. I think you're my new hero...

[@alices6634]

My Friends and I like the fact that you have many videos about Narcissists. Narcissists are a Bigger Problem in our Society than most People realize. Indeed many People do NOT know how to Recognize a Narcissist and the different Types of Narcissists. THANK YOU for Explaining and Describing Narcissists and their Bad Behaviors, Tactics, etc. And we especially Appreciate the fact that you not only tell us what a Narcissist is and does, but you also give us Assertive Solutions, Tactics etc., for Dealing With and Defeating Narcissists. THANK YOU, we're so happy that we found your Channel.

[@grantaugustyniak6667]

Just by saying NO to them - makes them crazy. Calling them Fake - makes them furious. Totally disconnecting - major injury! Your definitely sending a message that your no longer available!

[@steph49391]

My in laws are all narcissist, so terrible. My husbands family is all so tight threaded that they all believe each other’s lies about another person, we had to completely cut all of them out after stating why to all of them, we have been happier ever since. It’s sad, those grandparents will never have a life with my children. But they decided to do what they did.

[@lindamoore9729]

All my married life (47 years) I've been struggling to make the narc into someone he is NOT. For the past couple years I've been gradually pulling away and two thoughts have been a real help to me. 1. He studies me to see my reactions to what he says and does because he loves keeping me on edge. SO, I'm reacting differently or not reacting at all and it's driving him nuts. I had not realized how much he is studying my reactions. 2. He counts on me never changing my emotional reaction. He counts on my Christian beliefs and sensibilities to know I like fairness and goodness. I can still be that way... but i try not to react and try to make him have those same beliefs. It's just not in him. That being said, it's very sad to think of him being that way. How, how can people be that way?

[@festinalawson3516]

Thank you for saving my life

[@susanadiazdeleon8160]

It must be a neurological defect. They’ll never change because they’re not programmed that way

[@zoraidacastro5403]

Its a sickness

[@goldilocks3593]

Some kind of combination of nature and nurture. It’s tragic but if they are really a narcissist, they are not going to change. That IS who they are. If there is anything we should teach our children it is that when someone shows you who they are, believe them and make good choices for yourself accordingly. Don’t feel obligated to fix someone who does not want to be fixed.

[@enricosanchez894]

They also will watch your reactions to movies, rather than watch the movies themselves.

[@ESumner]

I basically hired my city’s version of you as my divorce lawyer... I told her my husband was a narcissist and she shot me a look that said... ‘it’s ok we got this’... all her reviews online are angry men saying she’s all about money LOL 💪🏻

[@georgejgilles.3999]

My wife is one as well. Trust and believe I've been through pure hell.

[@Dee29140]

🤣

[@theseeddream]

Thank you for sharing a part of your experience. For a long time I felt shame for getting into my situation. I've always been a driven, confident and optimistic person. I couldn't figure out how I got duped into my marriage. I used your guide to endure and win my six-hour mediation. I got everything I wanted. People need to understand the importance of prep work before mediation. Do your homework!!! You don't show up to an exam without studying and the same applies to mediation. Set your feelings aside. You can outsmart your narcissist!!! 💪🏼🤓🔥

[@johnchege4153]

TURN THE TABLES - I need this like yesterday. Its been a nightmare... cheating with everyone who comes here way

[@Eg-jd9zt]

I have a horrible covert one and she tried love bombing me too (acting like my friend) when I lashed back and now I just ignore her entirely like the misbehaving child she acts like.

[@greenspider1598]

I just left and she tried to promise me the world and everything telling me that things were going to change and I actually fell for that many times except this time I didn't I realized there was no going back and that would truly devastated her because she could not manipulate me anymore into coming back I no longer believe her lies scrambled and did everything she could to get me back and it was infuriating to her because it didn't work

[@TUFFbarislam]

Having done exactly that, I can only congratulate you on your life changing decision. I left 16 years ago and never a day goes by that I don't thank the Lord for that courageous act. I wish you all the best in your repossessed freedom.

[@MP-qy7br]

When I was a child it was very usual that parents throw a look at you with " cut it right now" eyes. The narcicist I live with, I'm working in gerting out of this, use this "eyes" strategy very often...so one we were with the carpenter snd I was asking few questions, that by the way were answered by the narcicist, you now ...they are experts in everything, so he was interrupting and gave me the LOOK...I couldn't resist and I told him in a very innocent way.." IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOUR EYES, WHY ARE YOU LOOKING AT ME THAT WAY?. Ther carpenter turned arround to laugh, and the narcicist was shocked.....I laughted a lot as well TURNING TABLES this way.

[@redskyatnight6317]

I've seen this look many times also. It's scary. Chris Watts gives this look to Nicole Atkinson when she becomes his worst nightmare. Classic narc glare. I still have nightmares about my husband's glare.

[@Melia_Mer]

I love it! 😂😂😂

[@m.h.5285]

Turn the tables, yes. See if they can handle themselves, their own BS, play by their own rule, without me to bully/threaten/harass/scapegoat.

[@juliauren1338]

Yes brilliant advice! I've lost weight I feel great he is blocked. I'm moving on ! It feels great thank you

[@kookiecanuck]

just like vampires..you find out the fangs and true nature once invited in..stakes, silver bullets and things in folklore actually come to life in narczillas nature....nightmares are real with narcs frankenstein, werewolves, vampires jekyl and hyde...all in one shapeshifters

[@JesusSaves194]

kookiecanuck 😂😂😂 I needed that laugh , it’s sadly all true

[@royalisrael7475]

Sum them all up, The DEVIL....

[@terrij3642]

I turned the table on my narcissist. It worked wonders.

[@20ASilva]

How?

[@Eg-jd9zt]

I work in law too. It’s a great asset to understand these personality disorders. There are tons in our field too!

[@khyleegiselle1567]

yes, my narcissist is a lawyer 😭

[@peaceangel-rl2hf]

Took me 50 yrs to figure out that narc parents want you there to abuse, mock and criticise- it gives them pleasure. So just stop going - drives them literally crazy having no one to abuse

[@joysoyo2416]

YES.

[@simonswamy688]

To all my fellow friends out there who suffered narc abuse I pray that God brings comfort and peace in your life Jesus Christ can bring back every chaos back to order I send peace and prosperity to you

[@drewsibleyloans]

Just want to return the favor of emotional pain she has caused me. A little retaliation goes a long way to feeling better. Especially when all I have to do is live my best life. Thank you Rebecca!! This hit my feed at the perfect time. How does KZbin know?

[@lovewhitey2027]

It knows your thoughts like google : facebook & my Fav Amazon 😳🤣

[@beastmaster415]

Oh Drew...how in can relate...vengeance shall be mine!!😂🤣😂

[@diannagerondale1914]

I spent 47 yrs with a narcissist and finally realized I am a good loving human being. Giving pain only gets you more pain. Let it go. 😊

[@dawnag7526]

great advice! I did all of these things to my narc father, including that I told him that he is no longer my father. That rejection made him lose his mind -- good moment for me. We removed his supply (our mom), took away his power (rejection of who is is) and moved on with my life. Our mom still struggles as she endured 58 years of abuse, and was brainwashed /gaslit, but no more. He's done. He's a piece of shit and I am so happy to be free of his abuse.

[@peaceangel-rl2hf]

Congratulations. That's amazing that he got what he deserved👏

[@Imnotyourdoormat]

outstanding itemized video that's 100% accurate...the No-Contact tactic blanket-covers everything alright, but its the total knowledge package of these hobgoblins that have spurred the industry motto..."an educated empath is a malignant narcissists worst nightmare." ...so acquire all the intel you can for the empathic defense-systems.

[@jen8175]

He thought I’d fail, I’m thriving! I have a good job I love , which if with him was a no -no, working with men.. ohh my! I got. 100% custody, he’s failing!! I’m thriving❤️❤️

[@Ms.Bookie0501]

Mines too and he looks like shit!!

[@jen8175]

@@Ms.Bookie0501 it’s sad, but yep, looking like shit. He’s on meth now and looks so gross

[@Ms.Bookie0501]

@@jen8175 Very that's exactly what they get i threw all his clothes away...Everything he tried to kill me emotionally,And physically,and even brought his D l boyfriend to my house...And his fling his sister's friend....But i got the last hardest laugh

[@lemusiciensolitaire8792]

In one word : CANCEL. Cancel the narcissist!

[@ProfessorNorris1]

Thank you Rebecca for sharing that you yourself have, at the personal level, dealt with 2 covert narcissist people. That deepened my appreciation of your comment and your walk and helping the rest of us.

[@manarmanar942]

It's true every thing that you have said. My husband told me yesterday that my attorney doesn't know how to do his job

[@Lyleartist]

Turn the tables. I'm dealing with a narcissistic boss, getting into a position financially to be able to move jobs is a nightmare. I'm getting it done while enjoying leaving pieces of his fractured ego along the way. I've suffered enough of his manipulation and abuse that I feel that a little revenge is warranted.

[@graceyoung516]

I am so glad, that you exist and give people back their live´s - 💖🌺

[@55nfabulous]

Yes … Leave them, have Nothing to do with them. RUNNNNNNN

[@CrFouquet]

Turned the table over. Much love.

[@francepiette4761]

Turn the Tables... big Hug's... THANK YOU

[@reneewachter1925]

Each time I did, he turned billion tables against me. My ex is not only a narcissist but a covert malignant narcissist. Committing crimes are the way he punished you

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Renee Wachter,You are a precious 🌹🌹🥀 being,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life!!

[@HapillyMe]

These psychological "mindscrewing" games to play with narcissists, can be draining. A person can only play these games for a short while until they get to the point and say, "I'm over it" But it's hard to walk away from a narcissist when you are married to one..... I wish I would've paid close attention to the red flags when we were dating, because there were definitely red flags that I ignored!!! I hate should've, would've, could've though....

[@elhadjdiallo633]

You are blessed indeed...trauma has affected my life in many way biblically speaking !!!!

[@GreenGoddessprivatecommunity]

Turn the tables!

[@stephaniecoleman964]

Turn the table!! 5 years of dealing with his abuse!😩

[@joannajones3833]

How can we get this information out to Social Services, Police, anyone in authority? The narc in my family is my daughter, who made my granddaughters life a living hell!! My daughter and her psycho father, my ex, completely turned everyone against me when I had been the ONLY constant in that child's life!!! My granddaughter has now fought herself free, regardless, but now we worry about her 5 year old sister still living there!! The problem is that these people are SO UNBELIEVABLE, that no one believes what we tell them!!!

[@MH-cv5ye]

Just ignore them totally. Like they're a ghost. Walk away, don't engage. Don't take the bait. Live free and happy! Don't let them see. Just move on, and stay aware!

[@alexissharify7138]

Yes ! Ready to Turn the tables 😂

[@Archer335]

This advice is spot on! She nails it here. I’ve used all three of these tools to great success! And becoming their worst nightmare is okay because it’s the only way to fight them. Once you win, it’s over, and it’s time to move on. But the fight is vicious because that’s how nuts they are. Another thing to do is to educate yourself as much as possible about them. The more one understands about them, the better one can fight them. Ms. Zung is awesome. I also like Dr. Les Carter (Surviving Narcissism channel) and Dr. Ramani, here on KZbin. I’ve improved my life immensely with their help.

[@texaspatty458]

ALWAYS helpful , Rebecca ❤️🙏👍

[@jennifermalky5265]

Thank you Rebecca for this affirming and validating video. Living our best life IS the ultimate victory over them. Freedom is a beautiful thing!

[@barbaraseccombe2421]

TURN THE TABLES THANKS REBECCA

[@carolvevle8190]

We are not a survivior, we are warriors, because we survived a war. I got the narc really upset, because I insulted him & gave him a narc injury: I told him he looks worse than my grandpop in his casket. I do not kiss my grandpop!!" I left him two days before Mother's Day & do not intend to go back!! I'm advocate for health, political, abuse & fraud. I'm so busy, there is no time to worry about him. He is financially abusing me, so I have a case with the CFPB & my work, on that is almost done.

[@juliepollard1532]

Turn the tables,amazing valuable advice as ever

[@dhanyaslifeventure]

Thank you Rebecca,your narc experience and pain turned out to be a beautiful resource for us and motivation too.

[@Sveiksmobile]

Rebecca, you have brought no nonsense clarity to dealing with these people! Thank you for being frank and practical!!

[@jaimebenson6102]

THANK YOU SO MUCH, REBECCA!!! Out of all the other YT channels I've watched on this subject, yours is by far THE MOST HELPFUL & INFORMATIVE. I watch your videos when I'm about to break and go back to the narcissist in my life. Without your experience and wisdom I feel like I would be completely lost! Thank you again!

[@khadijatajmohd3144]

I like the analogy of removing them from the hard disk

[@heatherann4390]

You are definately helping me get through my family court case with my daughter's father. This has been a nightmare for me. I am grateful for your videos thank you so much.

[@dominiquearmentrout6364]

Turn the Tables. I left 3 weeks ago. NC. Domestic Violence and Narcassism. He loosened my prosthetic hip.

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Dominique Armentrout,You are beautiful 🌹🌺🌷,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life

[@crownroyal2155]

Blessings for your knowledge Rebecca, 🙏

[@thewoundedhealer4950]

synchronicity; I’m wearing my “Slay All Day” shirt today. Haven’t worn it for a while!

[@lorielyasevich1472]

Survivor and Thriver!! Love this!!

[@DesmondPRyan]

I loved how much you appear to have enjoyed recording this, Rebecca! Clearly, you know of what you speak!

[@Liven78]

Hi Atty. Zung, just to let you know that I love watching your videos because I am dealing with a Narcissist volunteer in my church. You’re saving my life. I will keep you in my prayers.

[@caseyyoung32]

You have no idea how these teachings have truly helped me!!

[@oscarwilliamson1128]

Casey Young,Hope you are not with a narcissist…..

[@vrajeshparikh4163]

Thank you Rebecca for the video.

[@carenbarnet378]

Im ready to Turn the tables. I have already blocked them emotionally.

[@libbymitchell727]

Thank you, Rebecca!! You make me feel strong again! :)

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Libby Mitchell,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌺,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!

[@richardangus94]

Brilliant insights Rebecca - one very unhappy Narcissist about to leave my life!

[@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807]

You are Lucky

[@teenagersareadults]

Thank you for dedicating your life to helping people like me!

[@leftykeys6944]

Rebecca Zung, you are becoming one of my favorite people addressing this topic; right up there with Dr. Ramani! I love your feisty spirit and can tell that you are a fighter. I've no doubt you're a helluva attorney! Thank goodness I don't LIVE with a narcissist! My husband is wonderful and our marriage is as close to bliss as is humanly possible. But I come from a family of narcissists and psychopaths. In my case, it's not a husband or a lover... it's my goddam "brother". Our father's attitude towards the two of us can be summed up in the nicknames he gave us: "Boy Wonder" and "Knot Head". Any surprise that "Boy Wonder" turned into a loathsome, bullying narcissist?! (tsk TSK) As an adult, I got the silent treatment from my narcissistic brother for years. When I had had enough of his abuse, and began refusing to attend family gatherings where he was included, guess who got vilified by our clueless parents! ME. More recently (2006) he and his lawyer re-wrote my mother's will behind my back, after she'd been stricken with Alzheimer's and become too senile to comprehend a legal document. That original will would have split her estate evenly between us, free of trust, for us each to utilize as we saw fit. Our mother was coerced into signing this piece of crap that put MY half of that estate into a trust, with my brother getting his half free of trust without strings or restrictions. He simultaneously positioned himself as both Trustee AND "heir" (I'm without children), making his two kids my "heirs" after HIM. Long story short, after twelve years of this nightmare, our case has finally gone to court. It's not finished yet, but it's looking like ole Douchebag is getting his smarmy ass whupped by me and my attorneys. LONG OVERDUE. People like this need to get brought down to size, the sooner the better. Without this inheritance, I would have to work until I die. After I’m done beating his ass in court, I will be “adopting” a lifelong friend, thus picking my own heirs so my brother and his family get NOTHING after I’m gone. In the meantime, I have much yet to accomplish through my retirement years. I am a pianist and composer, and an artist, with better things to do than engage in an endless power struggle and tug-of-war with that DOUCHEBAG.

[@janicemontecalvo110]

Turn the tables, living my happy and successful life

[@warriormom5843]

Accomplished women are always targets....ALWAYS!

[@lynniekaye7513]

Been there 👍

[@ushmakothari9923]

Brilliant thank you so much 🇬🇧 Turn the table !

[@angelaallen1058]

Love this. Thank you!

[@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190]

Aloha from Honolulu. Excellent sharing of Anti-Narc info. Packed and saying 'no thank you're to any offer from him.

[@lynny5510]

I use to live in Hawaii!! 1995-1999 on Oahu!! I still miss it and wish we still lived there. The happiest time of of life was when I lived there. 💖 Enjoy it for those of us who wish we still lived there!!!

[@WaveDancer426]

Lol! I’m in Honolulu right now! 4 years so far and it’s been amazing! We’re in our second lockdown and the beaches and pools are closed!

[@lynny5510]

@@WaveDancer426 We lived in Ewa Beach for the first 3 months then moved on post to WAAF. My husband was in the Army so that's how we got to be there. I miss it every day of my life!!! I would really hate being locked down while living there. Paradise right outside your window and can't get to it! LOL At least you have a beautiful view! I was there when they first opened Old Navy in Pearl City! LOL Def a long time ago.

[@nancyinthegarden3160]

Yes I told him, I’m going to shut him down every time he acts like an asshole in front of people He loves when I detach from people ( my friends and family)that way I can be here available to him. There is t one friend or family member he likes. I have great nice

[@lovewhitey2027]

Wave Dancer awful 💔

[@paulesp06]

What a fantastic vid! I really got my narcissist’s goat when after a lifetime of playing the victim and deflecting to control the situation to her advantage, I stood up to her. I told her that I wouldn’t under any circumstances fold, and when she realised I meant business, she temporarily backed down. I then learned everything I could about narcs and I started to say no when she tried to control situations. I was able to predict all her actions and plan accordingly. I knew she’d try and triangulate and my closest friends and family were forewarned about it. Now she haaates me, but she can’t express that hate.

[@ShishirKhadka]

Awesome video Rebecca.

[@iammaximus614]

Turnin the tables! I watch your webinar & bought the SLAY program ⚖️🗽 Subscribed

[@warrior8511]

Turning the tables yes

[@phoenixsun6956]

One things for sure , when you’ve been abused by these demons 👺long enough it’s easier to recognize 🤗this NPD in future partners🐺... And that’s when you really start living life 😇🤩

[@markmangano1731]

Turn the table thank you Rebecca 😊

[@mikegump3766]

You are such a inspiration to me, on giving the public important information about these evil, selfish arrogant dysfunctional behaviour misfits...May God Bless you...

[@thorjor1]

watched a ton of your videos. there never seems to be a narc discussion regarding children involved in the divorce.

[@vibe_oli]

Yes kids complicate it 1 million percent. Especially when the narc is controlling of finances, doesn't let u work but tell others you can(lies), doesn't let u have friends who could help u or family around, and got your car repo because he refused to pay for it since he controls the finances. I'm not selfish enough to walk away from my kids or take them with me with no where to go. Its maddening and so abusive.