Before you say ‘I do’… learn kindness! This was sad to watch.

[@Lifeofayummymummy]

What most men don't realize is that if you treat your wife badly in Nigeria, they may take it & not fight back because they don't have a voice but when they get abroad & realize that they have a voice, they will definitely fight back pushing out all the frustrations that they have kept in over the years.

[@taxrollpeter]

It's not always like that. Some women are just bad naturally. Many many times they used the man to get to abroad and I know some of them.

[@Lifeofayummymummy]

@@taxrollpeter You're definitely right. It goes both ways. Some are just badly behaved women who will take advantage of the opportunity abroad to treat their husbands badly. My constant prayer is not , may good men meet good women & vice versa

[@taxrollpeter]

@@Lifeofayummymummy I myself married my wife from back home and there are some days I wish I didn't go back home to marry, but their are many days as well that I am happy I married from back home. Husband and wife need to learn how to live together and respect each others. We have neglected the major reasons of marriage and now Husband and wife are now becoming enemies in their houses.

[@superhooper425]

I do hope we can get to a place where children are seen as honorable humans with dignity and blessings from God and that our dreams don’t die they are reimagined. I also hope we can show self compassion as you build a legacy of multigenerational faithfulness to the little ones entrusted to us.

[@stanis8431]

I have said this repeatedly for years. It's part of the story. There is another part.

[@vivaciousveevee96]

Seriously I pray for a kind spouse...kindness is everything and it takes a really mature mind to understand this💕

[@timibolu]

I’m saving this

[@olusolaadebolu5921]

Cheta was always very kind in school. Always so kind in words and deed. You're blessed to have him. I don't know your person, but I believe he is also blessed to have you because I see how grateful you are with respect to his kindness

[@caramelcocoa234]

Honestly this has been my advice to single friends and sisters. Look for a guy that is genuinely caring (about your well being, about your mental space, about your vulnerability )and is genuinely kind (not only to you, make sure you see that in how he treats other people around him. And make sure you know that his motive is not “so people don’t say”)

[@topenoel1931]

That's the real issue, most women are not attracted to kind guys.

[@caramelcocoa234]

@@topenoel1931 that’s true but ppl that are serious about getting married and STAYING married need to start reconsidering how they pick men. Also kind does not mean easily manipulated. That’s what women aren’t attracted to

[@topenoel1931]

@@caramelcocoa234 okay o if you say so

[@LukeRev480]

​@@topenoel1931Most men are n't kind. That's bound to happen! If more than 50% of men are n't kind most women are bound to fall in wrong hands. This picking thing is gaslighting and blaming women, the only thing should be said is women decenter men period! The few lucky women who end up with kind men should celebrate. The rest should be ready to do life by themselves.

[@yugo_space]

Dear, you've spoken well. This advice is uncommon. I pray every yet-to-be married person(s) takes this advice seriously; already married person(s) should do same too. God help us all

[@kweensuga9724]

Kindness and understanding ect…most definitely will take you far in life. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us….. Beautiful Queen♥️

[@creativeuniqueexpensive4986]

Nancy this was beautifully said. What amazing advice. 😍♥️🥰🙏🏽

[@diywithlots3870]

Marriage is not for the faint-hearted o! I personally warm up to kind people and marriage has taught me more on how important kindness is to make this world a better place ❤

[@ewetashley9564]

Those words, God bless your heart.❤❤❤❤

[@maureenwilliams9234]

Kindness covers a multitude of sins and a word rightly spoken is like pictures of gold in frames of silver

[@amaragrace94]

Amen. 1 Peter 4: 8. Love covers a multitude of sins. And as we know, love is kind and love is patient (1 Corinthians 13).

[@AfrikBabeRN]

Your wisdom is unmatched ❤

[@onyinyechinwazue9955]

You are right 💯. Everyone has ways to treat eachother. Lets treat each other with kindness and not maltreat them.

[@salvationmanadom4900]

Excellent!! Learn kindness, apply kindness everywhere.

[@sosalikkutour6208]

You are so right, we need to treat each other with kindness and respect.

[@elizabethfembeh6860]

Exactly my point people you learn kindness and know how to treat their partner better

[@Lindah787]

Great advice 👍 👌 👏 some people are using their bad luck to destroy the life of innocent people,what didn't work for them they them it'll not work for others too

[@kemilolafadeyi5483]

God bless you Nancy . You are a wise woman who build your house . See how love and kindness conquer . People are just here marrying for selfish reason . When women in western world shine eyes , then people talking 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@artmonarchia9096]

2024, I understand what you're saying. I sacrificed for my family, and one of my family members told me, "That was a long time ago." I was floored and have yet too recover! I left that house drove five hours to another state. No, I'm not going back. My sacrifice was so large, I'm still paying for it today.

[@easymathstutor]

Unfortunately we hear this everyday in 9ja. It's like we were done a favor to marry as a lady

[@reneecalvin2158]

You are a very wise woman.

[@yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey]

Thank you ma'am❤ Wisdom ☑️ Beautiful you ☑️ Natural Hair popping ☑️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ritahnamuddu-st5hq]

Indeed the woman is so beautiful. The hair and complexion plus eyes she is really beautiful. Then add wisdom. That is unmatched

[@nanas.recipes_]

This is Godly wisdom. The wisdom in this video can only come from God. I was speaking to someone recently and telling them that the problem some adults face is how they communicate, not just the words, the tone, the pitch. I mean it’s all inclusive. Then such a person carry that mindset into marriage… omo that’s serious baggage and problems.

[@anymn8134]

Well said. You nailed it, Nancy.

[@IfesinachiNgozi]

Wisdom❤. You're beautiful.

[@rahdior8014]

They are only few humans has wisdom most humans think with education so its hard to find humans with WISDOM the key word is WISDOM. To mama Nancy keep the WISDOM flowing 100 percent VALID i approved your message thanks in a day and time like this thanks very much for that speech

[@naabborte1990]

Well spoken..Learnt a lot..Thank you❤

[@neish1863]

Great message ❤

[@gladysoyeabo2517]

Very interesting and informative. Well done dear Korra. Keep up the good work. A fan from NY.

[@uyijoy6492]

God bless you ma

[@ucheflorence8578]

❤❤❤lots of wisdom

[@designstudiohq7764]

You are absolutely Gorgeous my dear sister 🥳🥰🥰🥳🤩😘😘

[@harrycynthia7674]

Thanks Nancy ❤

[@recettesdetatarachou2967]

Thank you Nancy

[@vivaciousveevee96]

Thank you ma🎉

[@chinyereorji6686]

This is GOLD!!!

[@BjaaHobbies]

Fact!! My story is the other way around. It just has to do with 2 people knowing they both are responsible to keep yheir family and supporting each other and not a Japa mentality

[@lucasfoyere411]

What you are saying is right but some women are damn wicked due to advise from her family and bad friends some women have this attitude when start getting money the then to disrespect their husbands that's when trouble comes in

[@rachealchinenye1915]

You just spewed the truths

[@Pauline-ol4lr]

Powerful 🎉

[@Kingsdaughter68]

Well said

[@patriciafitts5577]

Thank you

[@brlevert]

Learn kindness and don’t take your HUSBAND abroad! He can stay home with the mommy n daddy who grew him! Lol! Hashtag serenity!

[@AciroJoan]

❤❤❤❤

[@betsyakoko6810]

It's draining energy

[@taxrollpeter]

The bible says soft words turneth away wrath.

[@chiokaforx]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@paulinedonatus3010]

❤

[@hannysalisu928]

Thanks and May God help us

[@migueljaquez341]

nanciis dates balorastes ❤❤

[@ChichiJac]

Thanks for this video but please try and fear God in your dressing... please accept Jesus ❤

[@Oyinda4lfe]

What does her dressing have to do with her relationship with christ??? This is how some of you literally turn people off the same christ you are talking about through condemnation..

[@reparations9910]

💚🤍💚

[@lucasfoyere411]

You read your bible a woman was created to be a man's helper not compititor

[@Esteem7342]

And how did you interprete that? She being a failure to herself? Pls also understand that the world is changing and there’s no love with kindness and being sensitive to each other’s needs rather than just reading the Bible blindly