Beginner Guide to the Flylady System

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The Secret Slob

The Secret Slob

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@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
This video was long overdue! I made sure to include all of the daily focuses and how long it takes for me to get my whole daily routine done. Are you brand new to the system? Head over to facebook and join our flylady baby steps group, we start day 1 on Monday! facebook.com/thesecretslob
@susanstrouse3717
@susanstrouse3717 4 жыл бұрын
This was a really great explanation to simplify things. I am a floundering flybaby but love your enthusiasm and positiveness. One item to add is that, especially for working moms, the weekly home blessing can be split up over the week if they dont have time just on Monday. Thank you again for all you do for us. I especially love your weekly sheets. Having everything on one page makes it less complicated and more doable. We love you!
@connormalloy1593
@connormalloy1593 4 жыл бұрын
Been at it a year as of June 3rd, thanks to finding you and then Diane in Denmark. So thank you for your videos they helped me tremendously.
@nouaraouis4928
@nouaraouis4928 4 жыл бұрын
Hi steph I love you. Can you please give us parenting tips cause I m awful with my kids .
@pamelalowe2649
@pamelalowe2649 4 жыл бұрын
Hello from New York! New subscriber. Thank you for the motivation and energetic approach! Wish I had found your channel years ago! Thank you for simplifying the fly lady system. Many of us try to do too much and feel so overwhelmed by the site or book. Just need to get up and get going. Bless you and your family.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Pamela Lowe Thank you for such nice comments!
@marykay1707
@marykay1707 4 жыл бұрын
STEPH STEPH STEPH, this is BY FAR the BEST WAY TO show the WHOLE FLYLADY SYSTEM in one go!! Well done!!!
@catherinedouglas8049
@catherinedouglas8049 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree!!!! I have been trying to FLY, but somehow the way you lay it out seems far more simple to follow. Thanks, Steph!
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! thank you so much Mary Kay :) :)
@karenh8752
@karenh8752 4 жыл бұрын
Great job explaining
@speedpaw8023
@speedpaw8023 2 жыл бұрын
I agree! I refer back to this video ALL THE TIME
@melanieckelly
@melanieckelly 4 жыл бұрын
Today is my FlyLady ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY!! I’m so grateful for this system. It has improved every aspect of my home life. With 4 kids (ages 8-17), it has been a godsend. A word to the newbies: I spent the first 10 months JUST getting my daily routines down pat. In fact, the only routine I did for the first 6 weeks was shining my sink at night before bed. It’s all that I could handle at that point in my life. And it has only been in the past two months that I’ve been able to add zone cleaning. There is no “one way” to the FlyLady system. Marla Cilly (the FlyLady) always says that housework done incompletely still blesses your family.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Happy anniversary!! Glad that this system has helped you and your family so much. I love hearing these stories. :). And its sooo true...progress is progress!
@hollycopenhagen1282
@hollycopenhagen1282 4 жыл бұрын
@Melanie thanks for the great motivating comment! I have 5 kids, so it’s nice to hear it can work for bigger families 💕
@gomathiganesh8724
@gomathiganesh8724 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for setting expectations !
@Candypack1
@Candypack1 2 жыл бұрын
I have 4 kids (ages 6-16)! Life is so busy but I love this system.
@fitwithbrittany2706
@fitwithbrittany2706 Жыл бұрын
Is there a paper checklist somewhere??
@clmtdmmjcmm4489
@clmtdmmjcmm4489 4 жыл бұрын
The fly lady website is very overwhelming. You take the panic out of it. Your lists are the bomb!🌞❤️
@meghoffman1655
@meghoffman1655 4 жыл бұрын
When I visit the site, I always think "for not being into clutter, this website is an absolute bomb of digital clutter" 🤣 Steph's videos & printables are so helpful, I think she should be hired to re do the site!
@alainapotaduh
@alainapotaduh 4 жыл бұрын
@@meghoffman1655 I agree! It's in serious need of a redesign. It's so old, and not user friendly.
@poolahpot
@poolahpot 4 жыл бұрын
Meg Hoffman Totally agree!
@Plethorality
@Plethorality 4 жыл бұрын
@@alainapotaduh it was not easy to follow when it was new, either. Many people understood it, but for me it was always confusing and overwhelming... Which only compounded everything.
@jeanlaubenthal698
@jeanlaubenthal698 4 жыл бұрын
Flylady site is the whole enchilada and offers different levels of interactions and support for people in different situations. And yes it works for someone to break down for you. Her site is needed as she is the source.
@mageetu
@mageetu 4 жыл бұрын
I sent it to a 17 year old great grand daughter who is starting to want to get more organization in her life. Not sure if it will help, but I thought she would enjoy this young woman's great personality and sincerity! I do!
@amycain5438
@amycain5438 4 жыл бұрын
That's a wonderful gift. Wish someone had done that for me. I'm 36 and married and still really struggle to keep my home.
@mageetu
@mageetu 4 жыл бұрын
@@amycain5438 Lucky you to have Steph in your life now!
@Raven.13
@Raven.13 4 жыл бұрын
@@amycain5438 I think we found these videos just in time to be all grown up and keep our home✨ 😂
@geepind9442
@geepind9442 4 жыл бұрын
I totally wish this video would have been out when I first started trying to do the Fly Lady System. It's simplifies absolutely everything. Thank you so much Steph! ☺️
@ahoardersheart
@ahoardersheart 4 жыл бұрын
Oh yesss!! I need this refresher course!! I’ve fallen behind with the Fly Lady system bc I’ve been so busy decluttering my hoarded house!! Lol.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
You are smart to start with decluttering! You can't clean clutter :)
@judykiesow3922
@judykiesow3922 4 жыл бұрын
I did Fly Lady years ago and it worked and then I stopped. Now I'm going to start this again as you have been so encouraging!! I love all your videos! Your kids are so cute and enjoy this age as they grow up so fast. Thanks for your help!!!
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Judy! They are so much fun right now :)
@bkayepokrant9084
@bkayepokrant9084 4 жыл бұрын
Steph, I have been watching you for about a year. I watched several other "fly ladies" and when I found your vlog I knew I had found the One. I confess, I have been overwhelmed by this system. When you offered the printables, I thought that was a great idea. I printed each one, studied it, trying to make it work for my house and was still confused. This video was what I needed. Clear, concise, and in black and white. This described exactly how the tasks fit in the time frame. Love your enthusiasm and the occasional appearances by all your family members. Also, I like the" Hi guys"
@poolahpot
@poolahpot 4 жыл бұрын
B Kaye Pokrant AMEN TO THAT! 👍👍👍
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
I am so glad this video helped! Thank you for your kind words
@HassleFreeLiving
@HassleFreeLiving 4 жыл бұрын
One of the wonderful things about the Flylady system is how customizable it can be for you and your family. Progress Not Perfection
@jenniferklotzer2794
@jenniferklotzer2794 4 жыл бұрын
THE best introduction to Fly Lady that I've seen.
@louisedillon2413
@louisedillon2413 4 жыл бұрын
I started using your printable this week. I really like them. It seems they are helping me stay on task throughout the day. I leave it on my kitchen counter near my sink and check things off as they get done. I think this is the answer to getting me on track. Thanks for providing them.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@sticky-bones
@sticky-bones 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you - this has been great. Your help has been invaluable for my swap from a corporate entity to stay-at-home househusband and musician. From having no idea where to begin, I'm of to a great start thanks to you.
@ToriRamsey
@ToriRamsey 4 жыл бұрын
I've been trying to implement flylady for almost 4 years now ..I finally have my routines set in stone and you are right, it is totally life changing! I have free time in my day now 😍😍 I adore your channel xoxo
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
That's great to hear!! :)
@sarahburke8955
@sarahburke8955 3 жыл бұрын
I've been a Flybaby ever since my daughter was a little tiny girl, and now she's 22! I've somewhat fallen off the flywagon now and again, but the basic strategies and mentality never really left me. The setting a timer and realizing just how LITTLE time most tasks actually take, has been an enormous benefit for which I am forever grateful. It's so fabulous how many people's lives have been improved by Marla, all because she had the courage to share her struggles and her brilliant problem solving mind with all of us.
@katelynmraz4882
@katelynmraz4882 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a perfectionist so not being able to clean my whole house everyday with long work days and 4 animals, is fustration.Your video simplifying FLYLADY is helping me understand progress is more important that completion and that I can make these tasks fit my lifestyle. Thank you, you are a life and time saver.
@alysonsmokie
@alysonsmokie 4 жыл бұрын
Found this channel a few days ago and it’s growing so fast....))) well deserved!
@dianamihalache3360
@dianamihalache3360 4 жыл бұрын
Yes... she îs fantastic! I Wonder how does she gets The Time to film and edit all, besides The real houseworw and cleaning!
@modihussien4491
@modihussien4491 4 жыл бұрын
I wish there is more than just one thump up I want to give you a million like for this fabulous vedio thank you for your great work
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@sondaelockett3424
@sondaelockett3424 4 жыл бұрын
I love the way you broke down the Fly Lady System!!!!! Well Done!!!!!
@dianamarsden1933
@dianamarsden1933 4 жыл бұрын
You are such a ray of sunshine. You are so encouraging ! I look forward to your videos.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Diana, you are always a ray of sunshine in the comments section, thank you for that!
@laurab257
@laurab257 Жыл бұрын
I found the Fly Lady years ago when I was still married and a stay at home mom. Her system worked great for me then. I used it (combined with other things) to maintain my home. It worked great. I haven't had a system since before 2014 and it shows. I promised myself that I would find a way to make it work as a single, working mom of four. Part of my plan is to put the kids to work to complete some of these tasks! ❤️. Your video helped a lot! I just needed a quick template to get started again!
@thehadster7043
@thehadster7043 4 жыл бұрын
Sisters are great, aren't they? I have a confession. Living in an apartment in NYC, my air conditioning is through-the-window AC units. Because of the virus and New York phased in opening, I could not have my units installed. (I sent them for cleaning last fall), until yesterday. And it was too hot and humid to do my zone cleaning. I tried, and in minutes I was drenched in sweat. There are some who might read this and say, "work out," but being drenched in sweat after 2 or 3 minutes of doing hardly anything physical is different than running and working up a sweat. The temperature in Central Park, away from pavement might say 87 degrees (high 20's), but on the streets, with black pavement radiating heat, it can be 15 degrees higher. SO, I didn't get to my zone cleaning. But now I can. I don't think I can completely finish my zone, but.... something is better than nothing.
@Dwynfal
@Dwynfal 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Steph! Nice, concise and clear 👍 I followed Flylady years ago (2000 to about 2008 when my life went pear-shaped again... Since then I've struggled and slipped back into my old cluttered, slovenly ways. I've been following your channel for a bit and you've given me the kick in the butt to start again!
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Good luck getting back into it :)
@TheLuzy18
@TheLuzy18 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I love how u showed us in detail on the screen what the system actually looks like... so helpful!!!!
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that helped! I am a visual learner too! Hence the printables lol!
@athomeimmum2247
@athomeimmum2247 4 жыл бұрын
Love this. The fly lady system has turned how I keep a house for years now. It's amazing and nothing ever gets out of hand. 🤗
@rnguyen2516
@rnguyen2516 9 ай бұрын
This was such a great and helpful explanation! Your website isn’t up anymore; do you have a another way to access the printables? Also, how do you get your spouse and children on board with the system? Without my family’s cooperation, I feel like I’m fighting an uphill battle, lol!
@lynseymoffett9656
@lynseymoffett9656 4 жыл бұрын
Literally catching up on my correspondence as I call it and thinking... I'd love a little motivating video from Steph... So thank you! Looking beautiful
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much Lynsey!
@BORVII
@BORVII 4 жыл бұрын
Hello from deep South Texas! Thank you so much for such an awesome, insightful and helpful video. I am a teacher, who tries to undo a year's worth of "house neglect" in the summers. I have started using the Flylady app for my routines and it is working wonderfully. Thank you for carefully explaining Zone cleaning and the Daily Focus mission. The features are on the app, but I had largely ignored them because I did not understand them and neither had I taken the time to read through them. I sat and watched your video while having breakfast after getting all of my "morning routines" completed. Thanks again for your motivation!!! Love your channel and your enthusiasm, but above all, I love your wholesome and much welcomed honesty. Have a great Flylady day!
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Sounds like you're making good progress :)
@sarahfrancescutti9873
@sarahfrancescutti9873 4 жыл бұрын
Been following you Steph for about a year now and the past couple of months I've been focusing on adding the swish and swipe. Took a while to get it going but now I'm doing it every couple of days in each bathroom and absolutely love having shiny sinks, counters and toilets! So thankful I found you and your approach to the fly lady system 💖 my home has never looked better 😁
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Glad it's working for you :)
@shaunaferguson6102
@shaunaferguson6102 4 жыл бұрын
"HEY GUYS" If you love Steph, her greeting, her sweet personality, and her channel as much as me let's give HER a thumbs up!!! Keep the videos coming!! Don't change you Steph! We ain't got time for being sensitive over dialect!!!! 😘😘😘
@clmtdmmjcmm4489
@clmtdmmjcmm4489 4 жыл бұрын
Shauna Ferguson I gave her a thumbs up before I ever watch the video. I know it’s going to be something Helpful for me 🌞
@theoracleofniquita1166
@theoracleofniquita1166 4 жыл бұрын
And how radiant does she looking today 💕 she's glowing.
@poolahpot
@poolahpot 4 жыл бұрын
Shauna Ferguson Definitely a thumbs up👍
@vickileonardson9130
@vickileonardson9130 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 60 and just getting started. I may have posted already. I just purchased my control journal and plastic sleeves. This is awesome.
@susandugan6585
@susandugan6585 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you, Vicki! I am 72, live alone and have ADD, OCD and who knows what else! I am trying to get my house organized and clean to sell. Thanks so much for posting! Thank you Stephanie for taking the time to break this system down!
@vickileonardson9130
@vickileonardson9130 4 жыл бұрын
@@susandugan6585 Good for you Susan. I worked in my bedroom all day Saturday and I love the result!!!
@jeremywhitaker994
@jeremywhitaker994 8 ай бұрын
WHY CAN I NOT ACCESS THE PRINTABLES ANYMORE? YOU HAD THE BEST ONES AND NOW IT TAKES YOU TO A TOTALLY DIFFERENT WEBSITE
@alineandrioni1216
@alineandrioni1216 6 ай бұрын
Where does your cooking come in? That takes lots of time from me.
@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654
@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 4 жыл бұрын
This is great! Thank you for making it sound so simple. But I will probably clean my own bathroom daily. My hubby can clean his own. He needs to be responsible for some parts of the house!!
@amycain5438
@amycain5438 4 жыл бұрын
This was one of the best explanations I've heard of this system. It finally makes sense to me. Thank you!
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Great to hear!
@tammyi363
@tammyi363 4 жыл бұрын
That was awesome! I’ve been following along for the last year and seeing the visual was so helpful! My problem is not letting other things derail me. We’ve got lots of homestead projects to get done and I leave the house for last. Then it gets overwhelming again. I’ve got to work on that! Thank you for being so helpful and encouraging to all of us.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
I definitely find it harder to keep on track in the summer...I always want to be outside! We just have to do a what we can..progress is progress!
@staceyo1723
@staceyo1723 3 жыл бұрын
Is it weird I love your channel...and don’t need help with cleaning?? Minimalism and kids getting older solved it for me but I still enjoy your enthusiasm.
@tracyb8287
@tracyb8287 4 жыл бұрын
Well done Steph!!! This will be a huge help to beginners and seasoned as well. This really breaks it down. I wish I had this when I started the FlyLady system. Way to go!!!
@debbieray7563
@debbieray7563 4 жыл бұрын
Steph, your videos just keep getting better! Love your presentation style and your honesty and down to earth manner! Keep up the great work!
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@juliefordreister
@juliefordreister 4 жыл бұрын
I love your content! In 2007, when I had my daughter, I was an utter mess! I found Fly Lady's podcast and it really made sense to me! But I clung to "perfectionism." I ordered the Control Journal, but I kept postponing using it with the excuse that I didn't want to "kind of" do it 🤣! You are super-relatable and inspiring! Thank you for breaking it down so nicely!
@lizanelson3296
@lizanelson3296 4 жыл бұрын
Same.
@pattikennedy5698
@pattikennedy5698 4 жыл бұрын
What is the Flylady’s podcast?
@juliefordreister
@juliefordreister 4 жыл бұрын
@@pattikennedy5698 she had a podcast "back in the day" which is how I found her. It was fun to listen to while cleaning house. Here is a 2016 podcast where she is interviewed I think, but I don't know for sure. I found it just now when looking for the Fly Lady Podcast. If this link doesn't work search Fly Lady in podcasts. podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ms-073-marla-cilley-chaos-new-habits-and-fly-lady-wisdom/id901934777?i=1000359902801
@pathoefle3948
@pathoefle3948 4 жыл бұрын
Fly Lady is currently pod casting on You Tube every day to help us through quarantine.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
This is a tough one for a lot of people....progress not perfection is KEY! :)
@heidischumacher617
@heidischumacher617 4 жыл бұрын
My mom got so distracted by the flylady "fluff" that she never really got the house clean. She kept printing stuff, reading stuff, getting online... etc. It was exasperating
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
I understand that....
@BeachyWaves72
@BeachyWaves72 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for summarizing the FlyLady’s system. I don’t know if I have ADHD or what but I could not translate her writings into practical use but your videos help tremendously. I also downloaded her app (iphone) and can’t wait to use it. Do you keep cleaning supplies in the rooms where you use them? Half of my issue is having to retrieve cleaning supplies from one location and getting distracted in the process. As a result, the task I planned on doing is forgotten until I’m in that room again. My powder room is tiny with no storage so where would I even keep the bleach wipes/whatever?
@BabyandLittleGuy
@BabyandLittleGuy 4 жыл бұрын
You did a great job explaining the FlyLady's system. 😀😀💜💜. Thank you for sharing concrete, real-life examples! Your advice to be flexible is very helpful, too!
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'm glad you found it helpful!
@lillianbrooks5129
@lillianbrooks5129 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the breakdown. I finaly understand where to start. The site is so overwhelming. Anxiety predicts that much information equals choas of the mind. Rewatching and taking notes.
@heatherstephsmum1399
@heatherstephsmum1399 4 жыл бұрын
A really excellent video Steph! I’m sure many people will find this method so much easier to implement now. Your hard work is evident! love ya! 🤗❤️
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@larabrown8549
@larabrown8549 4 жыл бұрын
You explained the system so well, concise, and clear. I did try her system a few years ago but found it too confusing. I have taken on board some of the fly lady stuff but then modified it to suit me
@laurahulland
@laurahulland 4 жыл бұрын
this is great. but I have a 50 hour a week job and the last thing I want to do when I finish work is spend 2 hours a night cleaning. It seems un achievable :(
@cjay233
@cjay233 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this; especially the calendar. Too, I always wondered how one would get to the things done the next month of the things you didn't finished the last month, i.e., I thought you had to start over from the beginning if this makes sense. I didn't think you could save that for the next month. Also, I couldn't figure out how you split the zones like you did for the last week in June. TFS
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@patmulh4245
@patmulh4245 4 жыл бұрын
I think this was probably one of your best videos ever! I am not brand new, but this was so very helpful!
@rachelgetty7650
@rachelgetty7650 4 жыл бұрын
So when do I do my full time job?
@AmandaJYoungs
@AmandaJYoungs 4 жыл бұрын
This is a truly excellent summary of FLYLady's system, and I think she'd be impressed with it. And OMG check out the difference in you since you started making these videos! You're so glamorous in this latest one I've seen. Oh, and by the way, I am also on a quest to find the perfect cinnamon bun recipe. I've eaten some dreadful ones made commercially by supermarkets who shall remain nameless - and so the quest began! I hope you''ll share it with us when you find it. I'll certainly forward it to you at your website if I find it! Warm good wishes to you and continued success with your channel. :-D
@jennylhenry78
@jennylhenry78 4 жыл бұрын
Great over view of the fly lady system! 👍🏻
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks! 👍
@dawnb6107
@dawnb6107 4 жыл бұрын
FANTASTIC video!!! I’m struggling right now because I’m spending lots of time at my sister’s house, and coming home for a day or two to keep up with the yard. So I’m home enough that it still needs some cleaning, but my usual Flylady routines don’t fit right now. While listening to you, I came up with a way to try the routines in a way that will keep up with the basic things. Your consistent reminders that we need to build routines that fit our own house and schedule are so encouraging!!! Thank you!!! ❤️
@MichElle-ow3cs
@MichElle-ow3cs 3 жыл бұрын
Omgoodness.. so much to love about this video! Is your opening title new? Love your hair! This was so simple and so helpful. Stopped and took screenshots a hundred times. You are so clever.
@HollehhMarie
@HollehhMarie 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I could get all my errands done in one day but I'd die 😂😂😂 along with my two toddlers I'm pregnant AGAIN and I'll be 20 weeks on Tuesday so I try to get my appointments for Tuesdays (because hubs is also off of work then) so I don't get confused with my weeks 😬🤷🏻‍♀️
@tammiepope7946
@tammiepope7946 2 жыл бұрын
I found FlyLady 20 yrs ago!! Yes 20 yrs ago 😂 love her and that system!!
@TiredJaded
@TiredJaded 4 жыл бұрын
Finally getting my house cleaned thanks to your videos. In another video you talked about breaking up the Weekly Home Blessing into 10 minutes 6 days a week and I love doing it that way. I was already doing something like that but adding the zone cleaning alongside and making it strictly 10 minutes means I actually get things done and I'm not so sweaty and tired that I never want to clean again lol.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
That is awesome! You have to make it work for you :)
@lorenaballou4513
@lorenaballou4513 4 жыл бұрын
You are SO inspiring and I love how you make it your own! I tried Fly Lady years ago when my kids were young and it overwhelmed me. Thanks for breaking it down🙂
@keyisme1356
@keyisme1356 4 жыл бұрын
I've never made it very far into flylady... It's overwhelming. I also got a little defensive about the need to swish the bathroom... She didn't seem to provide a reason for doing that everyday. However, my kids are about as bad as a muddy dog, so one of my bathrooms could probably benefit from a daily swish at this point. You made this very simple... Now I just need to somehow print this checklist out... Last time I tried to implement flylady, it made my week so much smoother... But I also fell into bed totally exhausted at the end of the day. I guess I didn't stick with it because I felt a bit depressed about running ragged by the end of the day. Felt like I had zero time for me. Energy limitations & depression seems to be my biggest challenges.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
You can find all the printables at www.thesecretslob.com Try to just start small - don't over do it, and remember that any progress is worth being proud of :)
@amyethridge1798
@amyethridge1798 4 жыл бұрын
This is such a great overview of the whole system!! I’ve just recently gotten back into my own version of FlyLady and your videos have encouraged me to keep it up. Thanks so much for sharing! 😊
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck getting back into it :)
@lauriearanda506
@lauriearanda506 4 жыл бұрын
This is the best explanation I’ve ever seen, thank you so much!!!
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@jellirabauke2565
@jellirabauke2565 Жыл бұрын
I really dislike the name. It frames the Housework automatically as Women work. The system is good and works, but the name just gives me chills.. And also the fact, that nothing involves including the rest of the family..
@penname40
@penname40 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, I have watched a couple of your videos this morning. I did FlyLady a few years ago and hav e not kept following the system… I NEED HELP… while casting YT to my crappy little TV, the sound sucks…. But, your voice is perfect for this medium… wow! I can hear you all the way to the back of my house 😂 Thanks for projecting!
@naturallynesty1576
@naturallynesty1576 8 ай бұрын
Ok, great information! Question: On this system, when are all bathrooms being cleaned fully (tub, shower, etc.) weekly (as bathrooms that children/adults are using daily) need to be cleaned weekly? I’m asking since daily cleaning or zone cleaning (unless you’re in that zone) covers this (and would mean you’re not fully cleaning a bathroom that lives in different zones only once a month).
@joettasmith4594
@joettasmith4594 4 жыл бұрын
Great video! So helpful to us newbies who are navigating the system. I love the balance the routines bring and I am actually enjoying getting things in order. Instead of feeling overwhelmed about having to clean the whole house, this system breaks the work down in very manageable segments. Hubby has been jumping on board, too! Keep the videos and info coming! Much appreciated.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@Jane_Snow_
@Jane_Snow_ 2 жыл бұрын
Steph - You look like Kayleigh McEneny's kid sister. 🙂 I have tried the Fly Lady system more times than I can count and have always failed.
@katharinestrickland6357
@katharinestrickland6357 2 жыл бұрын
Okaaaay....when is the KZbin break and coffee in the AM??? If I do not have coffee in the morning the list is totally irrelevant 🙃
@vickoray7341
@vickoray7341 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Steph. I have started the Flylady system several times ,get overwhelmed doing everything right,then give up. Watching your video makes it really simple thanks for showing how easy it can be
@iwonder5748
@iwonder5748 2 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about coping with cleaning while having small children please? Also about cleaning products you use including mops etc. Thanks. I'm new here 🙂
@elissa3188
@elissa3188 3 жыл бұрын
So- right away, going through the Monday-Friday ... I am totally perplexed. Why is there nothing on Sat. and Sun. Also- why SO much on one day and so little on another? Why aren't things more evening spread out? Of course- I wouldn't be able to do most of that. My cleaning and errands are almost all entirely done on the weekends. There is no time to grocery shop during the week.
@dhivyaanand1
@dhivyaanand1 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Steph for putting this video together. I am trying out all systems to see what works for me. I loved the way you wrapped it to show how a day will look like. I have some questions there as a newbie to fly lady system. Please help me answer. For example in the evening routine it says start up dishwasher -2 mins. But to load a dishwasher it will take way longer time right? How do we account for all that time? Overall 1.5 hrs a day cleaning looks promising but I felt there is much more time to be spent than 1.5 hrs and I am working full time and so trying to see how much should I be prepared for.
@christyrye6140
@christyrye6140 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video bc I am a fly lady newbie! Still in the declutter stage.
@avantgarden2438
@avantgarden2438 Жыл бұрын
I'm a secret slob. I only clean the house when I have visitors 😬 I'm gonna start with my FlyLady journey today!
@patwarburtonr7488
@patwarburtonr7488 Жыл бұрын
If you have received the greatest gift from God, His Son, Jesus. He will certainly give you everything else you need. Just ask! 🙏 🙏
@Katie-yf4hu
@Katie-yf4hu 3 жыл бұрын
I'm trying to do this but my issue is my house is so small! I know that sounds counterproductive but when I try to do only 10 minus in the entry way I can't just stop because my entry way is my living room and my kitchen table. And the swish should I be doing that in my one bathroom daily? I know I'm overthinking this but I'm so done with my gross house! And I'm finally taking ADHD medicine so its time to get this under control
@unamchugh5955
@unamchugh5955 4 жыл бұрын
Hi from Ireland, love your videos, Steph. I work full time and have a 5 year old daughter. I am on 2nd week of using your printable which for me is a game changer. Love your motto ‘progress not perfection’ as in the past i was definitely guilty of not bothering if I couldn’t achieve perfect results x
@whatgwenloves
@whatgwenloves 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I've always felt the website was so confusing for new people. This explained it much better.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@alexagarrison2621
@alexagarrison2621 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never heard of this and my house is constantly out of control with two little ones or it’s just the living areas always getting cleaned and neglecting everything else. I downloaded the app but was extremely overwhelmed. Thank you for this explanation
@christian_lofi
@christian_lofi 2 жыл бұрын
Hi there! I just downloaded the app and am missed where the "daily focus" is on the app. I see the daily routines, zones, and weekly blessing, but do not see the daily focus. Could someone direct me to where it is in the app?
@NS-ru1yf
@NS-ru1yf 3 жыл бұрын
Wooow this is sooo nice
@kaleefletcher9056
@kaleefletcher9056 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video! It helps a lot. Can someone define what it means to "swish?" And what a launchpad consists of? Thanks!
@ShirinsChaos
@ShirinsChaos 4 жыл бұрын
Hey! Wo sind die deutschen FlyLadys hier?! Schaut gerne bei mir vorbei, ich mache auch Videos zu Flylady. Habt einen schönen Tag❤
@barbarascott7699
@barbarascott7699 4 жыл бұрын
I joined the Facebook group to start next week but have one question! Will we be starting with week one in the middle of the month?
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Nope, we'll start at the right zone for this time of the month :)
@almabaptist9291
@almabaptist9291 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much for this summary. Helped me to have an overview of this system, as i was getting lost in it. Cud u plz add timestamps to this n ur other videos also. Thanks again 🙏🙂
@ShatteredRippleBooks
@ShatteredRippleBooks 2 жыл бұрын
Interesting system but I just like to clean what I feel needs doing. I have OCD so I have to finish Job aswell once I start it so this would drive me nuts.
@ajsypek
@ajsypek 2 жыл бұрын
Where’s the husband part? Or a male day.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 2 жыл бұрын
He does lots of the routine, dishes and after dinner clean up mostly! He also does the floors on the weekend
@lemon1653
@lemon1653 3 жыл бұрын
Wait- so you only clean your showers once a month when you get to that zone week? I’m trying to understand this system. I like the idea of it, but the perfectionist in me is having a hard time letting go of the “spend hours cleaning everything all the time” mentality.
@iamDonareen
@iamDonareen 3 жыл бұрын
This video was so helpful. I’ve been trying to get down the fly lady system and I couldn’t. U are a big help! Thank u!!!
@courtneyhansen3032
@courtneyhansen3032 9 ай бұрын
I like the concept but it doesn't seem like something that someone who works full time could do. I didn't hear anything about work but mostly tasks that take up time during the day.
@kylaulbricht
@kylaulbricht 4 жыл бұрын
I SO need this!! I’ve been trying to figure it out! This is so helpful thank you!! I love love love your videos!
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@kyouell
@kyouell 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve read some unpleasant things lately about The FlyLady not being inclusive. Well, I’m watching your channel (instead of hers) anyway because you make so much sense. Thank you for all the help!
@CoolJack14
@CoolJack14 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@lamisanicole5640
@lamisanicole5640 2 жыл бұрын
Best explanation video ever! Can’t wait to try this system
@hotmessmomtv4117
@hotmessmomtv4117 4 жыл бұрын
This breakdown of the system was definitely the easiest to follow that I've seen! Thank you for taking the overwhelm out of it ❤️❤️
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@valorieyoung8805
@valorieyoung8805 4 жыл бұрын
I work 4/10 hour days outside my home so I’m gonna have to really think about how to work around that. I’m thinking for the zones surely I can muster up 15 each evening to complete one task in the designated zone. I’m gonna really focus on my home once my daughters wedding is over this weekend. Any suggestions for working flyers
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
You really have to break things up into small chunks of time! Use your timer and don't overdo it because you'll get burnt out!
@azlizzie
@azlizzie 2 жыл бұрын
Do you ever find that you don’t reach the bottom of your zone list consistently? Or do you rotate some of them to make sure the dining room gets mopped (for example)?
@omet2518
@omet2518 3 жыл бұрын
When do you clean the floor? Everyday? Do you vaccum le whole house everyday? When do you clean the toilettes?
@marisabove5178
@marisabove5178 4 жыл бұрын
I felt so overwhelmed by the Flylady website. You have not only have introduced this system to me (I had never heard of it until finding your channel) but it has completely changed my approach to keeping my house clean & organized. My home was in decent shape but my attitude needed some adjusting. Through you & the Flylady, I more organized, getting chores down faster & most importantly I feel calmer - there's a new joy. Thanks, Steph.
@TheSecretSlob
@TheSecretSlob 4 жыл бұрын
So happy to hear this. Glad I was able to simplify it a little bit!
@BridgettOwens
@BridgettOwens 4 жыл бұрын
I love this breakdown. We recently moved and still have things to unpack and put away. I feel kind of overwhelmed and I work 5 days a week outside the home. Thank you for giving me a great plan to start over! I have used the FlyLady system for many, many years and it’s so fun to get things into a routine and keep up with everything.
@nadineduerksen6556
@nadineduerksen6556 4 жыл бұрын
Great job on the power point and making it easer to understand the flylady system.
@צביהשבט
@צביהשבט 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks. U make it easier to follow than her website, seems to overlap and you don't know what to do first..
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