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DJ - ADM Entertainment
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[@sydneyyoung3]

I would love a video about what you wear to weddings as a coordinator (even if it's all black), and a video about how your job effects how you are as a wedding guest. Like all the little things you now notice about the weddings you go to.

[@medorakea7327]

I second this! Like all the little things that you notice about being a wedding planner, both for those of us wanting to go into wedding planning and also for couples to maybe be more considerate to their planners for things they wouldn't have thought of.

[@lyndacho8940]

Funny I also had the same question regarding the attire. Actually, I dress as I’m attending a wedding. Like other guest. But also want to be comfortable when I’m running around working.

[@rachelmartinez5057]

LOVE this idea, production is a hearts love for me! And wedding production is SO fun to hear about

[@celestiapreston849]

Jamie, My fiancee and I got engaged a month ago, and I've been binge watching your videos ever since. You did an amazing job for these two brides. Would you please consider making a video about what to know when planning and coordinating a gay wedding? I've been having difficulty finding professional resources for mine, so I would really appreciate it! Thank you for reading. You make great content.

[@tga6656]

Bethany Preston hi! My name is Zabrina and I am the owner of the Gay Agenda Weddings and Events. I plan LGBTQ+ weddings. I would love to help you out or answer any questions. Email me at [e-mail]

[@tessaerlandson289]

Wow, this flower budget was probably twice my entire budget. What a dream!

[@darcyferrigno]

You and me both. I love the look of flowers but literally only willing to spend $300 luckily not having bridesmaids so that cuts down

[@AnnaG1996]

Is this what a 100k wedding looks like?

[@lifeofmaddie4296]

I’d love to see you make a video about the mistakes/mishaps that happen with the events you’ve planned!

[@jessicahuff7276]

Okay, Okay. You've convinced me that I will in fact need a wedding coordinator and it will be worth the extra cost. Thank you for saving me from my frugal self on this one.

[@thepuppiesinpink]

Jamie, could you do a video about any good things to keep in mind when planning a lesbian wedding? More time for two sets of makeup? More time for two sets of details to photograph? Any tips about dealing with family members that aren’t thrilled with the whole gay thing? Do you have a list of the cutest things you’ve seen at gay weddings?

[@jessdomyhair4570]

Christy Smith this would be an amazing video !! Lots of things I also had to make sure I had organized as far as set up, pronunciations, get ready with me pictures, so many little things !

[@rachelmartinez5057]

Jamie: Let’s talk about this cake Texy Becky: 👁👄👁

[@jademcfadzean9471]

Don't know if someone has already commented about this but I used to have the issue with makeup disappearing off my nose too! I have a super helpful tip that I've learned through my journey in improving my beauty skills; maybe it will help you or someone else lurking in the comments with me :p Step 1: Take a beauty blender/makeup sponge and make it slightly damp Step 2: Press it into loose setting powder Step 3: Stamp it onto your nose and allow it a few moments to set Step 4: Blend it out and/or dust it off This is called 'baking,' there are plenty of KZbin tutorials if you ever want to try it! I love your channel and all your videos, they always inspire me and make me excited for the future. Lots of love!

[@tiffanya234]

I really love in every behind the scenes video of weddings Jamie has this cute "you ready?" when getting the brides before they walk down the aisle. Its just so sweet

[@Hetsupshut3]

This is actually a really beautiful venue. Normally I’m not a fan of outside venues or weddings but this was really beautiful! I loved LOVED the dessert table so much that it makes me want to cry! I really want her to do mine!!!! Seriously. BEAUTIFUL! I can’t stop.

[@mindyjoslin7279]

This was the most beautiful wedding venue I have ever seen! Sure wish I lived closer to there.

[@clairissacasey371]

Cried the whole video. They’re so adorable!!! ❤️ & holy cow what a gorgeous wedding 😍

[@katiewaitman92]

I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t in tears right now. What an absolutely beautiful wedding and an even more beautiful couple! 🥰

[@m.crittendon4186]

Beautiful wedding!! I was wondering when or if we would see their wedding day. Thank you to the newly weds and you for sharing their day with us.

[@marcelarios3182]

So beautifully planned and executed! This was one of the most beautiful weddings I have ever seen. Blessings to the happy couple and amazing job Jamie!!

[@constancew]

Stunning venue! What a beautiful and fun wedding!

[@shawnbegay4622]

omg i love everything about this video. I was confused like, "brides?" lol but then it clicked and I absolutely love the wedding, so beautiful

[@madisoned]

What a beautiful wedding! I love their choices and the botanica is pretty

[@rebelgirl711]

I've been waiting for this one! What a beautiful venue & couple!

[@Travelbyailsa]

Oh my god the whole ceremony was gorgeous, the space, the decor, her dress the bridesmaids dresses

[@lynnettetorres7635]

Omg! What a beautiful wedding! You did a great job staying calm and collected

[@maddienicole5957]

seriously the BEST KZbin videos. I could watch them all day. 😭😭😭

[@ElizabethMartinez-se5dx]

This is such a beautiful dream wedding, and the couple seems sooo amazing. Ugh this made my heart smile so hard.

[@koswims]

Watching old wedding videos because I miss them!

[@lakb45]

Jess and Jess, what a truly beautiful love story and spectacular, loving and inspirational wedding. You two are #Goals!

[@robinBhood1010]

I’M NOT CRYING! YOU’RE CRYING! Love this!!! ❤️

[@amandademarco5527]

Texy Becky and you make me happy! Great video as always. It was helpful to see the walk through video and then the event. They looked so happy 😍

[@thebeautyoflife327]

Aw I cried at the first dance. What a beautiful couple! 💕

[@oknt0oknt]

Such a beautiful wedding OMG stunning!

[@Agardi]

This might be the best wedding I've ever seen!

[@jessdomyhair4570]

Agardi awe thank you so much ❤️

[@eleanorbassett5536]

This venue is beyond beautiful!!

[@coffeekittennya]

What a stunning wedding! It turned out absolutely amazing! So wish I could have you at my wedding 9/1 but instead of a huge wedding we opted for a crazy 3 week honeymoon to Hawaii and Japan! You know I love you already but that bachelorette reference made me love you even. More. 🥰

[@nicolemiramontes7871]

They seem like such a fun and happy couple!

[@ButterflySamurai]

What a beautiful venue and wedding!!! Omg

[@taylordowlin3829]

This wedding is soooo beautiful ❤️

[@deeestrada342]

Omg what a beautiful wedding! I love it!❤

[@underneaththecape4055]

That dessert table is AWESOME!!

[@stankyj2001]

Beautiful wedding and couple!!

[@erinsmilley5612]

This is the type of setting I would like my wedding to be in and ugh I just wanna cry seeing how beautiful

[@jocelynsloan7801]

I love these!!! Gives me ideas for my own.

[@gracecarmody656]

I love all your videos!

[@ashleychung4349]

omg did you see that grand entrance sparkler flame land on the dress at 20:55 ???? I had a mini panic attack for a second

[@ashleychung4349]

jk realized it was on the ground CLOSE to the dress >.

[@jessdomyhair4570]

Ashley Chung 😂😂😂 no joke, when I walked by the sparkler before it turned on, I saw my dress graze the top of the sparkler. I did think, please don’t let my dress catch on fire 😂

[@jessdomyhair4570]

Ashley Chung buttttt these sparklers are actually called cold sparklers, so you can actually run your hand thru the sparklers and it doesn’t feel like anything ! They were great ! @sparkdazzle check them out!

[@lyndacho8940]

Jamie....please show us more of the behind the scenes, It’s really helpful for me since I’m just starting out! Kinda anxious....need all the tips I can get! Take care, Thx!

[@DelilaFarrell]

So beautiful! Who else loved this?! Love from a new Channel💕

[@cassandraleanne8485]

wow what a beautiful wedding!

[@cfit421]

Beautiful wedding!

[@bethanyniermeyer2177]

That cake topper!!!! Omgsh! I'd love to know where that came from!

[@brookecrawford8675]

Bethany S it looks like it was made using a 3D printer, then painted! That’s my guess. 🤓

[@michelleleonard5296]

@@JamieWolfer just contacted them for a cake topper!!

[@gioluna21]

This location is everything 😍😍😍

[@clarasel]

gorgeous venue omg!!

[@marisaboonnak8928]

Omg I loved that video of the couple

[@JuanitaBarcenas]

I know that you don’t play the full songs due to copyright, but I want you to know that I truly appreciate that you play the first few seconds of the processional on your behind the scenes videos. It just gives you all the feels and makes me excited for my big day in October! Huge fan, subscribed, watched every video and probably watched the behind the scenes ones at least 3 times 🤣 thank you for your content!

[@thehouseoflosi]

Soooooo beautiful!!!!!

[@emilybogaudo4882]

Those Rice Krispies !! Ps since we moved our wedding from 2022 to 2021 I have been watching ALL your videos 😂

[@shawnbegay4622]

Yay! new video!

[@tinaaurum]

Serious question: what if it was raining that day? Is there usually a back up plan for the weather for outdoor weddings?

[@imnewhere9]

Hi Jamie! Would you be doing any videos about eloping?

[@yz9550]

Can you make a video on how to request cash as a wedding gift? Thanks! Love your videos!!!

[@emilyEXECUTIONER]

Holy crap I wish I had a budget for a wedding like this!

[@BukeyBoy]

Lol, I think Hannah B puts blush on her nose to make it pink on purpose! But OMG such an incredibly gorgeous wedding :)))

[@lauramarsh8047]

Jaime and her assistant give off such frenemy vibes.

[@jasminemorrow331]

OMG THATS GONNA BE MY FIRST DANCE SONG TOOOO

[@jessdomyhair4570]

Jasmine Morrow it’s a beautiful choice !💕 congratulations 🎉

[@courtneydudley4166]

I love the day of the timeline for this wedding. Jamie could you break down the times for me?!?

[@ericairizarry6563]

You did NOT Hannah B!!! #rednose 😍🤪😍😘😂😄 I can’t even HANDLE!

[@whitneystephens6717]

One of the most beautiful weddings I’ve seen! I can’t even imagine what their budget was for this! 😳 Can you tell us about all the signage they had? I’m wondering what I’m missing after seeing all of theirs!

[@jessdomyhair4570]

Whitney Lessem thank you so much 🙏🏼. To those who can’t be here with us. 2 Unplugged ceremony. Gifts/cards. Welcome sign for entrance. Dessert table. Specialty drinks sign. Trust me you can dance -alcohol sign. 3 Hash tag signs. Sparklers sign. Reserved seats signs. Open bar sign. Sign that said let’s do this. A quote sign to put by our ceremony. One sign for the entrance that was on a green grass wall that said the jess n jess Show. And another sign that said living the dream. I believe that’s all the signs we had made ourselves !

[@whitneystephens6717]

@@jessdomyhair4570 omg thanks so much for replying! Congratulations on your marriage!! You both looked beautiful! ❤

[@sarah121980]

How did the end up lining up the wedding party at the ceremony site? We’re doing similar flowers (indoor ballroom ceremony) and I’m stuck on how to line people up without hiding the flowers.

[@lydiafoster9769]

Does any one know where I can get those marquee letters?! Really really want them for my wedding!!

[@oliviawescombe3468]

That'll be my first dance song also 😍

[@Lissa.A]

Beautiful!!! Love the HUGE Mrs&Mrs sign!!! Where is it from? The Dj seemed awesome too!

[@jessdomyhair4570]

ElectricLis thank you so much ! The Mrs & Mrs signs were 4 feet tall, and they made for a beautiful addition to our wedding. They were rented from @charminglights. And our dj was on a whole other level. @adm_entertainment

[@dboado10]

JessDoMyHair I remember from the walk through you guys were contemplating lawn games. Did you end up doing them? If so, was it worth it? Haha. Trying to decide if I should splurge on them 🙈

[@lolabodika1095]

does anyone know what two songs were playing during the ceremony, when the processional was walking and then the bride? TIA

[@carriemadison9620]

Video topics: how to successfully make a seating chart. ( All seated wasn't very helpful. I am from Coshocton Ohio.) So tips on how to make a good seating chart. -How to design your wedding day timeline.

[@sannyvee3176]

She did make a video on how to make a good wedding day timeline a few months back.

[@lilfizza]

Love that you literally hid in the bushes lol

[@realjuliagray]

Yayy!!!

[@adventureswithus8332]

Does anyone know what song began to play when she started walking down the aisle??

[@samanthaarmstrong7361]

Does anyone know where to get the cake toppers? Those are cute!!

[@jamie8999]

Okay but where is that cake topper from?! 😍 that’s so awesome!!

[@lizk4448]

Can you do a rehearsal video please❤️❤️❤️

[@poppy7415]

I will be on that dance floor until 1am. Stuff ending my wedding at 10 even though it starts at 3pm

[@michelleleonard5296]

Hi Jamie, what vendor has those firework/pyrotechnics?? I have no clue where to look.

[@andreabailey6062]

Jamie please tell me what songs they walk down the isle too, more importantly the one that’s playing after everyone is asked to rise.

[@chimoRee]

question- If their first names are the same do they just keep their family names? and technically can married couple have the exact same legal names? (some countries forbid that)

[@lifewithlacie1768]

I just sent you a message yesterday for another behind the scenes video 😂👍💕 ask anf you shall receive lol

[@ClaudiaGoodwin]

Please do more DIYS!

[@annetteberard9441]

Where did they get their cake topper? We love it!!!

[@jessdomyhair4570]

Annette Berard thank you ! Company called Cokreeate !

[@taru_3247]

ooooommmggg.... just add a bouncehouse and a unicorn and thats my dream wedding

[@sexiimaminydr]

What is the link for the cake topper ?

[@kristaschaefer7790]

When EVERYONE cries at 24:23

[@jolenewilliamson1031]

I just got married in Arizona. I did not have a wedding planner. My photographer did NOT show up. I mean MIA. After two hours of frantic calling he had the wrong date. He is reimbursing me--BUT a wedding planner would have had 6 back ups and would have handled the situation for me. GET A PLANNER NOT DAY OF.

[@isabellacosby3339]

Idek know these people but when Jess is the dress started walking up I started to ball like a baby

[@riellacorpuz2904]

💖💖💖

[@leaartemov2609]

Does anyone know where one could get giant letters like their Mrs&mrs sign?

[@devonwinkler9943]

I found the big letters at hobby lobby

[@EczeMom]

Have you ever thought about highlighting a band for your music you want to use in the video? That way you have one more advertisement, one more thing you don't have to worry about, and you can support a local band :) - just a thought. I love music and music montages. :) Do a little blurb like at the bottom or have thank you with the band name.

[@samanthabrown7823]

Did she have 3 dresses?! Damn I am saving just to have one.

[@jessdomyhair4570]

Sam Hill hello ! I did have three dresses lol you were the only person to catch that 🥰😱 did not get my dress from coco melody, But check them out !!! Seriously gorgeous options, and customizing options, AND AFFORDABLE ! You won’t regret it !

[@nicolemiramontes7871]

I’m selling one that I bought and then changed my mind about, so it’s unworn. Message me if you’re interested

[@samanthabrown7823]

Nicole Miramontes I don’t know how to message you without being friends on here first.

[@777malmo]

Jamie! My cousin is getting married in a month and I have no idea where to buy a dress! It's cocktail dress code and I don't want to spend more than $50. Where do guests buy a dress?

[@jessdomyhair4570]

Mallory Fraser for another wedding I attended as a guest, i know some guests were able to find some beautiful easy dresses at Ross. Seriously 🙌🏽

[@lauraerwin471]

Lulus! I have to go to a black tie wedding and got a dress for $49

[@wo0o0o0ho0o0]

Just bake your nose with powder and it'll stay. You can learn how to do that here on KZbin. There's a ton of tutorials.

[@alisalaska1786]

Did they make a panty line on the cake topper bride in the dress or am I seeing things? 😂 Such a beautiful wedding

[@jessdomyhair4570]

Alisa Holverson that wasn’t a panty line, it was the lining under my dress. Lol. The company that makes those figurines take digital video and pic image. They take a 360 degree video, and then close up pics. So everything you are seeing of our figurine (that we used as a cake topper) is all us.lol we wear whatever we want, and had to hold that pose for a couple of minutes without moving, and tadah! Couple of weeks later, we get our figurine!!

[@alisalaska1786]

That’s awesome! I may just have to do that when I get married :). Congrats!

[@ambernicole.]

I wouldn’t have wanted to take the first dress off