Behind The Veil E9 with Zainab - How to attract a high value muslim man

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[@RSADYNAMICS]

A high Value muslim man does not approach muslim woman in an unislamic way . And a high value muslim woman does not cheapen herself or allow herself to be approached by random casual men . In islam we have mechanism and Procedures and protocols for Introductions .If you start off by doing things the haram way dont expect Allahs blessings and a successful marriage .

[@sakura142]

THIS ! ❤

[@SDSen]

Plenty of successful marriages though like that

[@RSADYNAMICS]

@@SDSen so you know better than Allah ! Are you correcting Allah ? There is a good video by kamal el makki called the forbidden love ❤️ I have listened to it many times and I recommend we all listen to it

[@SDSen]

@@RSADYNAMICS no I'm going by what I see

[@RSADYNAMICS]

@@SDSen every single Muslim I know who has had a relationship before marriage has had a divorce the people who did things that Islamic halal way that I know they’re still married and happy

[@sahrishmansoor3858]

Please bring her more over here! MashaAllah, two amazing women!

[@shahanashaikh7300]

Bring her back, she spoke to me in a way no other.

[@munojat_alimova]

Jazakallahu khayran

[@Kaixvc12]

This episode is gold. I love how the sister used examples, of what to say when you want them to fulfil certain duties, Allahumma barik laha. I wouldn’t call myself a masculine or defensive woman but I’ve been struggling to meet a masculine man because I don’t really put myself out there. How does one meet someone esp when trying to avoid free mixing and when most of the men in my particular culture (or their mums) expect an established career woman 😭

[@naviifra2374]

Tahajjud and istigfar

[@FeruzaRustamova-pr9di]

Bring her back , you too are amazing!

[@bekasoyars3964]

Thank you Listening

[@majdoumajdou1175]

Amazing really!!!! that's crazy to what extent I can relate to your story!!! thanks a lot for sharing this with you! May Allah reward you !

[@rezwanakarim2177]

I needed this! BarakAllahu feek

[@aminah761]

Insha Allah I can have this kind life where I don’t have to constantly worry about bills n food n shelter

[@thehealedsister]

InshaAllah & ameen

[@dunyatrvlr]

One of my fav podcasts so far, Barakallahu feek. Jazakallahu khair Soumaya and Zainab for discussing this topic ❤

[@mehnazbaten9514]

Please bring her back!!

[@sahrishmansoor3858]

Please do another episode with Zainab specifically about the latter part of this video, details on these tips ans tricks.

[@gypsynurse9792]

My sister's are very well spoken 👏. Mashallah tabarakAllah

[@JMMin-Kahan]

Most of us autistics can see Elle from legally blonde is autistic coded, even if it wasnt intentional by the creators, while i fully appreciate why it triggered you, and it not being autistism thats the trigger, Subhan Allah, she was representation for alot of undiagnosed young women in college/uni. Im glad it helped you! Im so glad you got to that understanding of why you were triggered, at some point in life i had the same icks. May Allah forgive us all for our blunders. MaShaAllah im so glad it helped you.

[@JMMin-Kahan]

I also don't like pink😂 I feel too vunerable lol

[@thejoywithin]

This made me cry omg

[@getclosertoallah7777]

Hi somaya Sister, Can you please put the link of her channel or the name of her channel I really need her podcasts. Thanks may Allah give you reward both in this world and here after. ❤

[@bekasoyars3964]

I would love to be interviewed by you sister I would love to share my testimony and story and my journey

[@emavincaite5221]

Allah didn't make any mistakes when created woman. It's the way it is and we should been accepted our self rather changing and be something who others wants us to be. So in all perspectives we need to.love more ourselves and for sure put Allah in first place and be grateful who we are

[@AsmaMuse-ek6oc]

it was nice to listen this epsiode

[@ulama7828]

Im right here ladies🎉

[@miracle4914]

Really needed this! Thank you so much sisters! ❤ I had a question by the way. I have been brought up in a way to be fully independent, not depending on my parents financially. On the other hand, I also like to meet a provider husband. Regarding the Quantum technique that you mentioned, should I use it for my spouse only? Cause financially wise, my own family is having a hard time and I'm the one who lends them money often. So I do not know how should I behave or react in front of possible candidates... considering my own family, I also do not know how much should I expect from him. Is it ok to pretend as if I have never had any struggle in life (Quantum technique) even though I had?

[@IlyasbuttIlyasbutt-d2c]

Very nice and very beautiful ❤️❤️ All the best ❤️❤️ masallah ❤❤

[@priusa8113]

Salams sumaya can u please upload the recording of yesterday s webinar on feminine energy? Jaz Khairan ❤

[@thehealedsister]

It was sent out by email to those who registered and those who reached out on insta to get the link

[@shahanashaikh7300]

How to heal from the past experience so that you don't bring it in the current talking stage

[@olegnurmagomedov750]

"high value Muslim man" ?? Sis you are using the redpill terms. Please avoid it. Use what Islam prescribes: Here's a wonderful Hadith for your understanding: Sahl bin Sa`d As-Sa`idi (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: A man passed by the Prophet (PBUH), so he asked a man who was sitting near him, "What is your opinion about this man?'' That man replied: "He is one of the noblest men. By Allah he is certainly a proper person for (a girl) being given in marriage if he seeks to marry, and his recommendation is fit to be accepted if he recommends". Messenger of Allah (PBUH) remained silent. Then another man passed. Messenger of Allah (PBUH) enquired, "What is your opinion about this man?'' He replied: "O Messenger of Allah, he is one of the poor Muslims. He is not a proper person (for a girl) to be given in marriage to, and his recommendation would not be accepted if he makes one; if he speaks, he is not to be listened to.'' Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "He is better than the former by earthfuls". [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. Commentary: This Hadith contains the following two important points: 1. The distinction and greatness of such poor Muslims who are neither known in society because due to their poverty nor are they respected by people. But due to their Faith and piety, each of them is better in the sight of Allah than others. This Hadith makes it abundantly clear that what really matters with Allah is Faith and piety not lineage nor pomp and show. 2. For marriage purposes, men and women of noble character should be selected even if they are poor because at the level of religion they are on par with other Muslims. Thus, the principle underlined here is that the preference should be given to the equality in respect of religion rather than worldly wealth and richness.

[@MentalJihadist]

Great contribution, but I think we can relax here. The word value dosent only refer to money, a high value muslim man includes piety. A rich muslim who does not pray is not high value. its good for us to use this term and give Dawah to the people of redpill to show them that piety and virtue is where the true value is.

[@OrangeBlossomMilk]

Assalamu alaykum, Although the same term is being used, I think it's used to have a different meaning in this context - in fact to mean exactly what you are describing, it's about character (values, akhlaaq and imaan) rather than worldly possessions etc.

[@olegnurmagomedov750]

@@OrangeBlossomMilk The thing is, you don't know who is a high value man and who isn't, as only Allah knows about it. So, it's hard to look for them specifically. The only way to attract that kind of Muslim man is to become an extremely practicing Muslimah, and take part in social activities for the Ummah. Other sisters in your surrounding will vouch for you to the sisters / mothers of such men who would listen about you and decide to marry you without even looking at you.

[@OrangeBlossomMilk]

@@olegnurmagomedov750 did you watch the video in full?

[@olegnurmagomedov750]

@@OrangeBlossomMilk Valaikum Salam sis, this is a video for women only audience, hence I did not consider it suitable for me to watch. I only commented in relation to the headline.

[@11naa44]

MashAllah love it 🎉🎉

[@priusa8113]

Is it just me and my adhd or can we not see the guest, like is she on opposite way? Thanks

[@thehealedsister]

Zainab doesn't show her face online 🙏

[@Yahyamourad_]

سلام عليكم 🕊️ As a revert man in an Arab Country, it is so difficult to adjust to the way Muslims around are either so stuck in capitalism, or narrow minded, or too busy in distractions. It is also so difficult to find a good match knowing that Haq AL Tawaqol is not a valid currency, and aiming to Firdaous is also not attractive. I wonder dear one, firstly how would it be possible to ask for an opportunity in a halal way to see if we fit to assist this ummah as a man and a woman. Two, it is also important to find a way to tie such knots and it takes both men and women to set an example. I have shifted so much as to actually wear a Kafan (Sunnah of the prophet) and whoa, what it socially does even in an Arab Muslim area. Blessed day ✨🕊️🧭

[@unaa9380]

1. Get valid currency, why do you want something of value for free?

[@Yahyamourad_]

@@unaa9380 I don't understand your question. Why do I want to get what for free?

[@priusa8113]

Does sister Zainab have a KZbin channel or IG?! Thanks ❤

[@thehealedsister]

Her instagram is linked in the description box!

[@hodan1962]

But what’s wrong with putting your mother first before your desires. Our deen teaches us not to follow our desires, most of the time it will make us become misguided. If you mean positive desires ( going swimming, taking break, saying no and travelling) than you would have the right to fulfil it.

[@sadieharris366]

But what if you are in feminine energy- are a nice person but keep meeting the wrong people and in that pursuit now in late 30s …… and totally depressed , always wanted children . I believe In allah swt and I know it’s always for our best - but depression is a real

[@user-zm3no5xb6t]

I’m in same boat

[@RSADYNAMICS]

What websites or groups do you recommend for men looking for marriage ?

[@fridawsbamba1641]

Why would you prefer online

[@RSADYNAMICS]

@@fridawsbamba1641 I find it a big waste of time to meet people in person initially .i think you should meet with parents once you know the person and yourself are on the same wavelength .You get a very censored version of people when the parents are around as there parents don’t even know what there daughter is really like and the daughter is to embarrassed to show who she really is . When talking online she does not need to pretend to be a good muslim girl and the embarrassment factor is gone and when .if you meet initially in person and then later talk on the phone and you ask questions you realise the person is the complete opposite of what their parents are trying to portray .so it’s better to talk online initially then arrange a meeting with parents as those first few questions can root out the wrong type of person . I recommend talking online according to the sunnah keep it professional and concise and have an elder present as there are allot of muslim guys who pretend to be muslim and send inappropriate messeges and photos.let them know your parent or elder or brother is in the room

[@suhaill1890]

I am a Muslim guy, can I watch this ....😅

[@sahrishmansoor3858]

❤

[@NavBala-l7n]

A mother’s influence on a daughter is huge. The way the mother talks about the father dictates a lot of how her daughter will be with her future husband. Sadly, in this day and age feminist Mothers are raising feminist daughters, ungrateful wife’s are raising ungrateful daughters. So women should think twice before divorcing their husbands especially if kids are involved.

[@nehaather263]

An hour has passed and I literally doesn't want it to end, jazakillah u khyran katheera for sharing the practical stuff 🩷

[@thehealedsister]

Aw glad you enjoyed 🥰