Why Expats Go Back Home

[@qroo]

Mexico Expat Facebook Group facebook.com/groups/theexpatcommunitymexico/

[@russellbarnes7728]

I'm from the US and have been living in Morelia, Michoacan, for three years now. It's been absolutely wonderful! My wife's a Mexican citizen, and I'm from Reno, Nevada. Assimilation is key, and not getting involved with the wrong people is advised. I've never been victimized by ANY crime in Mexico, and the people are welcoming! You can find trouble if you look for it. It's proven to be the best move I've ever made!

[@chasingtheAmericanDream]

We love Morelia! 👏

[@MexicoAdventurer]

Trouble can find you, too, becauseits looking for YOU. It happened to us while we were in Morelia on one of our many trips there. I live primarily in Guanajuato State, but we have a cabin in western Michoacan and a vehicle registered there, hence, the reason we have business several times a year for several days each visit, in Morelia. Beautiful city, comfy hotels, awesome food and sights... (the aqueduct!) but flat out dangerous at times. Don't anyone lie about that. I'll call you out. We keep our fingers on the pulse of Morelia to see when the lulls in violence occur, so that we can visit. Nowhere in Mexico is "safe" to a point that you can let your guard down. I've got 35 years in Mexico, and will tell you unequivocally that nobody comes here looking for Trouble. But it's here. How to AVOID it, that's the key.

[@chasingtheAmericanDream]

@@MexicoAdventurer That’s very true!

[@russellbarnes7728]

​@MexicoAdventurer I'm reflecting MY personal experience. I'm aware of what CAN happen if you aren't aware of your surroundings. That being said, I feel easily as safe as I did in the States. As I said, my wife is a Mexican citizen, and maybe that helps, or maybe I'm just lucky!

[@MexicoAdventurer]

@russellbarnes7728 You can be aware of your surroundings all you want to (and yes, you should be), but if it's your unlucky day that trouble turns its eye upon you... don't be fooled, you're being watched. By no-good people. Yes, you've been lucky. Your entire experience is based upon luck. Your wife being Mexican actually puts her at risk because of you being a foreigner. You're in the heart of M e n c h o country, and one of his major tactics is sequestering for money. The statistics in Mexico are that 75% of kidnapping victims don't live to tell about it. I'm just a few hours north of you, and some serial kidnappers were arrested with their latest victims, JUST PAST THE END OF MY DRIVEWAY when their green Tahoe that I'd been seeing every day broke down. Two out of three were arrested, and their kidnapping victim was released after debrief. The third kidnapper escaped on foot, and my dogs were going crazy because he cut past my house. That group was kidnapping 4 to 5 schoolchildren and housewives every week. They found the bones of a 14-year-old bicyclist they kidnapped but ended him when the family couldn't pay. In my little town, 100,000 people. You don't hear about it because our friend who started his media business was threatened by both the media and cartel to stop reporting on it. Don't let your wife go anywhere alone. Take precautions. Take off the rose colored glasses. Mexico is not safe, with Morelia high on the "unsafe" list. We had to stop going to Morelia 2 years ago because of all the kidnapping and carjacking on the north side of Morelia in the hills before we enter the city. Federal Fiscalia had their checkpoint, then further down, cartel has theirs. And nobody better report on them or try to stop them. You don't hear about it by design. Another capital city I lived in from 1989 to 2012 had a huge gun battle just outside my house. 8 people were killed, 1,500 rounds fired. By that night, the media had taken to toll down to 4. In a week, down to 2. In a year, down to one. In 5 years, they showed nobody had been x'd. A local reporter was reporting on it and on day 3, he was picked up in a van and driven around the city while being beaten. They were just trying to teach him a lesson but the ended him, droppedhis body on the newspapersteps 5 blocks from my house, and they put a sign on him, "This is what happens when you report on us." You don't hear about it because it's strictly against the rules to talk about or report on it. I'm just giving you a heads up, that the seedy underbelly is hard at work right under your nose, but rose colored glasses make it all disappear.

[@luikzv]

I'm mexican and I love see foreign people. We learn from them and they learn from us. I think this is amazing because people who are learning become clever and interesting people. Always you're welcome!

[@ravenswood118]

If only Americans felt that way about Mexicans coming in, huh?

[@Chardi35]

Lol, americans come to mexico and treat us all like servants, what the fuck are you talking about? Americans don't want to learn anything from Mexico, they just want to live in luxury and don't care how they are displacing Mexicans

[@LaffoffBrand]

This is really good. Your is very knowledgeable and authentic and genuine you picked a great person to bring a massage show

[@paigeswartz7389]

Worked with Pablo's service when we moved to Costa Rica. We would highly recommend.

[@pawsitiveleader8710]

Can you work in Costa Rica?

[@brettd3206]

I get fed up with the ones who bring USA politics to Mexico. They are still angry at something that has little effect in Mexico.

[@gmm5550]

Seen the same here in se-asia..thats why expats from other country's avoid americans often.

[@d.f.9064]

In Ecuador. I left when DJT was in office. I thought I would be able to forget about it all. I was wrong. What happens in the U.S.A. affects the world. It IS important. I HATE all this drama too, but it can't be ignored and most likely it shouldn't be.

[@gmm5550]

@@d.f.9064 promise you that 90% what happens in the us doesn't affect the world..ONLY 4% of the earth population are Americans

[@anne-marieedwards5776]

Politics prevent people from embracing fully the Mexican (or other) experience. Whatever my leanings were/are, it is good to leave them behind.There’s not a lot you can change. Embrace the changes you can make. If that means going back to the US, then go. Do your good there. I love community where I can connect without the politics.

[@rosanneallen-hewlett9973]

Attention-getters they go. 😂

[@zenmaiden1]

Good advice! you mentioned one spouse dies, but also when moving to Mexico from the us divorce, is also a reason. Although we both decided to stay and live separately and live our own lives. I have found it liberating and I would not want to leave Mexico to return to LA , noooo way. I feel like i am on vacation every day being here... walking everywhere, the green , the beauty of the colonia everything is here. I visit my family they come down to Mexico we go to a popular beach destination so they can get their sun on. I love the Mexican people, and culture, values.

[@2GringosOnTheGulf]

We are 2 Canadians 🇨🇦 happy to call Mexico home for almost 3 years now. We absolutely miss our family, no desire to move back though. ✌🏼❤️🇲🇽

[@daniellegingras3319]

Where in Mexico and how old are you?

[@2GringosOnTheGulf]

@@daniellegingras3319 We are exploring Mexico 🇲🇽✌🏼 started off in Mérida Yucatán we now in Xalapa Veracruz soon to be moving to the Oaxaca coast somewhere. When we moved I was 54, the wife was 49. Still loving our life here in Mexico.🇲🇽🥰✌🏼

[@mylene_b]

Are you retiring in Mexico or working there? Do you have jobs in Mexico or are your jobs Canadian jobs?

[@2GringosOnTheGulf]

@@mylene_b I was blessed to retire at 54, the wife works online for a Canadian company. Yes we live here full time. We are temporary residents. 🇲🇽❤️✌🏼

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

@@daniellegingras3319 How old are you and do you live in Mexico? Are you on the fence and considering a move here? I have lived in Mexico since November 2022 after being able to retire early and feel it's the best thing I've ever done for myself. I have a Temporary Resident Visa and I used to live and work in the LA/Ventura area of CA. I have traveled into Mexico since the early eighties to surf and remote beach camp and fish with never any problems I couldn't talk my way out of or pay a few pesos to avoid. I fell in love with the friendly, welcoming and helpful people along with their family based culture, not to mention the affordability and the food, so I knew what I was getting myself into. You don't have to be young to move here or anywhere. My quality of life has gotten so much better and I could easily say, with the right attitude, that yours could greatly improve! Don't wait or the time will never seem to be just right! Buena suerte!

[@billclarke3754]

I've lived in Thailand, the Philippines and Mexico, many expats struggle with language and culture. Learning the language will help you learn the culture IMHO.

[@gmm5550]

Mainly ENGLISH speaking expats.. most European expats have 2-3 languages in the bagage before they even land in se-asia and have a culture of learning new languages. I did speak/read write 3 languages fluent when i did starting to work in Thailand 15 years ago and now i speak pretty good thai to ..writing thai..well..nope..i do read many words thou =)

[@BartMullin-o3d]

Learning the language is easier said than done when you've spoken English Primarily for 52 years. Learning Spanish (or any other language) later in life is possible but, FAR more difficult and you'll Never speak or understand that language like the locals. This is why it is important for the locals to learn English; it is the language of science, tech, business, aviation, and is helpful for Native English speakers (esp. Americans) to help them start to figure out and settle in their new homes. I am living in Mexico and what Spanish I do know is not enough and never will be. I'll always be scraping by on decent gringo Spanish. I've had representatives from Mega Cable and Telcel hang up on me when I've asked them to slow down their bullet-Spanish and that my Spanish is minimal (sh_t pretty much). I've given up on ever really being fluent in Spanish frankly.

[@gmm5550]

ps do u want ppl abroad to make american food so u feel like home or do greesy mcdonalds burgers and watery overpriced starbucks "coffee" do? hahaha

[@BartMullin-o3d]

@@gmm5550 That was not my point and please do not put sentiments that I did not say or intend in my mouth. (Also, please learn to spell and write in Correct English...)

[@gmm5550]

@@BartMullin-o3d You mr American entitled man are a GUEST in THEIR country.. YOU..can't demand others in THEIR country to adapt to YOU. Thank u for showing my all my prejudices about Americans going abroad.🤣

[@MsChicoro]

Truthful, authentic, genuine, informative gentleman.

[@torreykillam1384]

Thank you for the great video. As someone who has longed to relocate to Mexico for many years, there is many factors to consider and I appreciate both of you for your candid insights. A large part of my reasoning for moving to to flee from something: Winter. I don't just not want to see snow again....ever. I don't even want to see it on the discovery channel. I know a great many Canadians see living here as some sort of badge of honor. For me, it is all about pain. I used to enjoy winter activities; however, over the years I have have frostbite in my hands and feet several times to the point where they essentially cease to function at about four degrees above freezing. Coupled with osteoarthritis, winter is synonymous with pain for me. The relief I feel when I travel to Mexico (or anywhere with a similar climate) cannot fully be expressed. I hope that this does not fit into the category you spoke of. We do intend to rent for a year or two at first to ensure that we get beyond the "vacation" feeling, but also to ensure that the location within Mexico is what we are looking for.

[@keikofay9804]

Based on the specifics you gave, my opinion is that they are referring to people who do not take care with diligence research ahead of their move... and they do not oftentimes consider whether they are truly willing and/or able to work on leaving those reasons behind (or will they bring that "baggage" with them). Some people avoid Facebook expat groups, but I would like to suggest joining 2-4 groups that cover the parts of Mexico that you may be interested in. IMO, best is to find groups with a mix of expat/immigrants and locals, and spend a few weeks just on reading and key-word searching the group vs. posting a load of questions (chances are, 90% of your questions have already been answered many times over in the group. The answers are there). If I take the time to look through this stuff, I can then ask better questions. In return, I get nuanced, location-specific answers. And the locals like that and tend to open up more. If you can use a few recommendations on FB groups, feel free to message us (my husband and me) on Messenger. Have a great day.

[@jeanharris2906]

People often don’t realize with major moves and changes wherever they go they don’t realize who they really are does not change when they geographically change locations and experiences.

[@luvablesweetnsassy]

Right, “wherever you go, there you are”

[@LS-id5hc]

Remember you are the same person just different location. I Wish you all happiness and good health. Always keep your dreams alive.

[@kellibush9049]

PERFECT advice! We just moved back from Mexico after 2 1/2 years, biggest mistake we made was BUYING a house...we lost money and spent everything we had. Should have rented.

[@yestohappiness2721]

We are moving back too early next year (will be 2 yrs in Mx). We haven't bought here but we sold our home in the USA and now interest rates and home prices are much higher... also sold our cars (we loved one of them) and now much more expensive to buy. But we don't regret living in MX - we tried and had great weather for 2 years... going back to cold Midwest in a few months! So looking forward to go back home though :).

[@d.f.9064]

I bought a house soon after arriving in Ecuador. I love it and at this point (four years) I don't consider it a mistake. But I got lucky and picked a great community before I knew what I was doing.

[@Joce123]

​@@yestohappiness2721Why are you moving back and to wear in the Midwest?

[@Joce123]

The Mexican government takes 25% of the money from your house sale. The IRS takes a chunk

[@martinlabrecque1164]

Where in Ecuador?​@@d.f.9064

[@ravet3254]

We have been in Mexico for 2 years and love it. Has it been perfect? No, but we did not expect it to be either. The hardest part has been navigation of the government with not great español. After three visits we are usually good to go. We bought our place, and it was a broken dream from someone else. Just need patience to find the deal.

[@tonydewit2240]

Interesting video. We are at the 6 month mark now, honeymoon is over 🙂 Still renting, travelling the country using public bus services to see if we want to move or not. Haven't bought a car yet, we will wait it out before putting any serious money down.

[@MEN101]

Wait till you buy a car, have a car accident and then wait 6+ months for a Mexican insurance company to fix your car or pay you out. It does take that long or longer.

[@Mr-lw7gy]

Have had 2 car wrecks in Mexico, one my fault and the other not. So far the process was really quick, one month from accident to repair. I can’t imagine what 6+ months to get it fixed is like. That had to be crippling.

[@gabrielaalejandra1492]

I invite you to visit Miramar beach in the south of Tamaulipas, I offer you my service as a tourist guide.

[@user-bg9em7ch6k]

@@MEN101had this experience in the US last year 🤦🏼‍♀️😂🤷🏼‍♀️

[@whacked00]

Godspeed Pablo. So nice to find a business person with a heart and integrity that can help people succeed in a difficult transition.

[@tarey05]

Thank you, Paul and Pablo, for this excellent talk. I moved to Merida 3.5 years ago and secured a residence visa thru a very reputable organization-- Yucatan Expat Services. Adriana and her staff assisted me expertly thru the steps and I can call any time if I have any questions. (learned about them on a youtube video). I stay far away from expat groups, as I find them draining and dramatic. I never joined Facebook for this reason, though I know marketplace and community groups such as this can be valuable. When I arrived in Mexico in 2019 after retiring, i never felt more free. I was in fact shocked by how many Americans were buying property and older houses before they had even secured a temporary residence visa! That American mentality of owning everything was never one I could relate to. Part of the freedom is not owning! Thanks again, and see you in the next!

[@gabrielaalejandra1492]

Certainly not possessing gives freedom.

[@Kathryn551]

I agree with you:) Hoping to head out in November... kinda scared bc it's just me and my dog at age 70 but... I lived and worked in LA for 25 years and the language will not be a huge barrier for me nor the culture. I grew up with Spanish speaking people since I was a kid and took lots of Spanish courses. Not fluent bc I don't use it much but... not intimidated either. I have noticed the FB expat groups are some really nasty critters sometimes and they are always the expats, not the locals...I will probably steer clear of those groups when I get situated.

[@EasternDreamer615]

Going home is one of the best feelings in the world alongside one of the worst feelings in the world. I miss my friends back home, I don't miss the state of the US.

[@Trainfeastfast]

I’ll never return to the states. Im Puerto Rican American, I lived in Merida Mexico, and I can tell you I felt safer there than in New York where I’m from. I have lived 2 years in Malaysia, in Thailand, Bali, and in can tell you… Mexico felt like home. I only left because, my children were becoming teens, and we felt that Merida didn’t have enough for them. We now live in Spain, and are very happy.

[@bxv05d]

May I ask what you do for work to be able to make all these moves? Sounds wonderful. I would love to be able to say I’m never returning to the states. Currently in Mexico for a month and then back to US b

[@Trainfeastfast]

@@bxv05d I’m an online wellness advisor, and my husband works for a company that allows him to work anywhere in the world. Wishing you all the best.

[@daveed4475]

We’re retired, and currently planning to move to Spain. Mexico is also an option, and I have family in Mexico, which would help a lot. That said, Family advised me “Go to Spain - Mexico is a mess.”

[@Trainfeastfast]

@ whatever you choose… you’ll be better off than the United States. ESPECIALLY, now since Trump will destroy it.

[@wadeworth]

Thanks!

[@qroo]

Thank you!

[@djmack8]

I talked to Pablo before I moved to Costa Rica about shipping my truck. He advised against it because of the insane import taxes. Honest guy. I’ve been here almost 2 years and I’m headed back. Cost of living, horrible infrastructure, and lack of Tico culture (sadly) are my main reasons. After a while you really start feeling like a sucker paying the high prices for such low quality goods and services. I was going to invest in property and open a business but I’m sooo happy I pumped the brakes.

[@jayman48044]

Great video, Paul. Both you and Pablo, in your speaking, really convey a genuine compassion for the people you are trying to reach, and a passion and domain expertise on the subject matters you discuss. I’ve always appreciated the way your honesty and integrity comes through in your messaging. Cheers.

[@stevefritz5182]

Great video. I'm happy to see someone take this on honestly. I belong to multiple facebook groups for expats in my area (BCS). I see so many posts of people saying they are moving to my town and then ask, "what's there?". They are moving with an ideal not reality. What you rarely see in the facebook groups is people admitting that they are unhappy and going back. I just did a reverse drive - from north to south in Spring - and witnessed more than I expected of trucks loaded with a household of goods going north, back to the border. Our introduction to Mexico was to move our South American daughter-in-law from Peru to Mexico to be closer to the USA. The adjustment was easier with Mexico being more advanced than the jungle of Peru or less hectic than Lima. To adjust from the USA to Mexico is a different story. Personally, I didn't come with the expectation to stay. I've been here seven years and have no plan to leave, but I keep one foot in the US, knowing it isn't easy here. Things can happen here that wouldn't happen in the US. All good advice on this video. Don't buy right away. Getting caught up in the hassle of building will burn you out fast. Don't jump into the immigration hassle if you don't need to. Don't sweat the language although you do need to try. And don't expect people on the facebook group to help you find poppyseed salad dressing. It's Mexico. They don't care for poppyseed salad dressing!

[@kathywilson9257]

I´ve lived in Ecuador for 3 years and the honeymoon is definitely over. The biggest reason is that I miss Arizona so much. The second reason might sound odd at first glance, but the noise level here is just unbelievable. Something one has to experience to appreciate. There are other issues too. I am hoping to return to the US sometime next year, purchase a motorhome and spend some time traveling.

[@Dteshome85]

Air pollution has definitely got worse in Az

[@Nicole-xd1uj]

I'm always surprised at how little research people do before moving here. None of them seem aware that culture shock exist or that Mexico might do things differently. When people ask for advice, I always recommend reading a few books on the subject before upending their lives as well as watching your videos as they were so helpful for me in my move here and I'm sure this one will help people too. (Had a great conversation about your para/por video in my Spanish class last week and we all agreed that your lessons are brilliant)

[@catobie1948]

Well, they say, wherever you go you are. If you are unhappy or depressed and think a change of scenery will make you feel differently, it may work for a minute or two, but you have to fix the inside not just the scenery.

[@anneli1735]

🤔 I left heavily depressed the country where I lived the first 65 years of my life. Coming to Mexico changed everything! Never been that relaxed, positiv and cheerful as I am in Mexico! And I‘ve got some ideas because of why that „healing“ took place: the DIFFERENCE in mentality, climate, food supply, culture, language and what not leaving behind a ton of bad experiences and memories 🤷‍♀️

[@thegoldendog7991]

@@anneli1735 I’m glad you found peace! I myself am struggling and I find these “moving to” videos a release. I already speak moderate Spanish and I think that I can make a go of it. My wife is dead set against it though and I understand why. I at least would like to go for a minimum of several months, rent a place and experience the life. You can’t outrun your own head though and if my wife won’t try it, then it simply won’t happen.

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

@@anneli1735 Everybody you see saying "Buenas dias!" with a smile while out and about sure is nice!

[@BrendaZallito]

So good to see you again, Paul. I am still in Playa and miss you and Linda. Nice session with Pablo and good information. Thanks to you both

[@AngiesClassicTarot]

It was hard to move from one part of Canada to the other and it does take time to adjust even in our own 🇨🇦

[@ljones98391]

@AngiesTeaParty. I found a similar situation with culture shock moving from the Pacific Northwest to North Carolina in 2019. Quite difficult and unexpected too.

[@jahnacarlson3528]

Absolutely agree with renting/ long term visiting at different times of the year before immigrating on a permanent basis.

[@rmanbike]

I always feel better mentally and physically living in a hot and humid climate, Mexico offers more choices of fresh fruits and vegetables all year round than what you will find in any place in the US, plus at a more affordable price. The availability of seafood is also unmatched. Living close to a ocean also has its benefits, and Mexico has as much coastline as any country in the world. And I think many retirees leave the US because of the high cost-of-living and the assisted living facilities are so much better and much less expensive in Mexico.

[@dianaj3139]

I am at home no matter where I live ... because Quite simply I am there! LOL

[@jgoodygoods512]

LOVED this interview! So many truth bombs in here.

[@dvtco.2545]

My wife and I are going to go temp residency first. 6 months and move around MX and see what and where we would like to possibly settle down. She's close to retirement (in medical field), I'm already there but still working (I love my work). Wife was against relocating to MX but when I told her about temp residency (and her watching these videos), she's onboard with it (Yes!). Took awhile but after seeing what others have done and how long doing it, she's willing now to try it and she speaks much better Spanish than I do. We also just joined the Qroo membership group for learning Spanish at a higher level. MX is a beautiful country, and the people we've met have always been helpful, kind and caring, probably because we treat them the way we want to be treated. We don't want to be considered (pushy, demanding, disrespectful) tourists. We also are not that interested in ex-pat communities but then we haven't been to any yet. We don't want to hear about the drama or keeping the USA lifestyle alive in MX. We want to relax, converse (Spanish/Spanglish) and enjoy a better way of life. We see the future as being wide open and new adventures. Will we permanently move to MX? That's why the "try it before you buy it" is what we think is best to start off with.

[@manliveful]

The magic formula is to go and visit the various areas like on vacation and then if you like it rent first for ashorth period of time and then if you like it depending where you are rent for a longer period of time and by that time you will know if you want to stay on a permanent basis without jumping into something that you might not like or is not for you. This is the most intelligent thing to do; you will save your time and outlay of money and make the most logical decision that can be made.

[@talkcommonsense]

Dos hombres sinceros... bien hecho Paul...

[@d.f.9064]

"Opportunities are going to come, if you wait. Take your time. Surround yourself with professionals.". GREAT ADVICE.

[@jimmccann3856]

You forgot violent crime. Two people I used to play tennis with in Lake Chapala left abruptly: One got carjacked (in his own garage by a pistolero), and the other got home-invaded & kidnapped. Personally, I have been home-invaded twice in the 17 years I have lived in Mexico. If you drink beer at the tennis club, or the American Legion, or hang out at the bridge club, or the Donut shop, or the Lake Chapala Society and just talk to folks, you will hear about several incidents every single year. Paul, shit like that WILL make people move back.

[@KiKiQuiQuiKiKi]

Makes me wonder if the type of people who do not assimilate are targeted…🤔

[@asinglewomanontheloose5590]

@@KiKiQuiQuiKiKiNot so sure about that. A person can assimilate all she wants but will still look American, Canadian. Etc. That alone can target her.

[@jimmccann3856]

@@KiKiQuiQuiKiKi The San Fran guy brought his Lexus to Mexico. Big Mistake. So not assimilated. The other, a superb athlete, played on the best local soccer team and party-hosted his teammates at his Very Nice House in Floresta. Big Mistake. So, assimilated, too much. But same mistake for both: Showing Your Money. But I show Zero (stained T-shirts with armpit holes, $50 bicycle), and that did not help me. See singlewoman comment below...

[@jimmccann3856]

@@asinglewomanontheloose5590 Correct. See my additional comment to Kiki...

[@luyzqint3760]

Go back to a place that is the world's capital of mass shootings, drug addicts, crime and toxic people. Ok, that makes no sense 🤷‍♂️

[@TravelDiva61]

This is a perfect interview! I did approximately 3 plus years of research on where I want to be and why... I moved here to Costa Rica, January 2023 with Sarah Elena's help, renting and exploring before buying. I'm happy in my decision 😊 However, I encounter people from all walks of life who have come here, either bought a house flat out or rented... some say they're bored (imagine that), some say they have not adjusted to the culture, some say they miss their family. Some constantly complain about Costa Rica’s culture! I also feel that a lot of expats are running away from something. My motto is "everywhere you go, there you are"...I made sure way before coming here that my "WHY" was solid before selling my possessions and my house... I made sure to communicate with my family... I made sure that I am willing to continue my spanish to immerse here... and adapt to this beautiful country. I have even been approved for residency here and I am eternally happy to make any adjustments to be in my new country. 😊🇨🇷

[@mamaitaliano9774]

I heard there's a lot of petty theft and home invasions there. Why people left Costa Rica.

[@sandrabedard7848]

Pura Vida 😊 welcome to CR

[@CallowG]

Fortunately for me I have no family or friends keeping me here and I live in a frozen hellhole. If Mexico doesn't work out I can just get on a plane and move to BC without losing anything (if I'm moving back to Canada it won't be to a frozen hellhole).

[@colleenjolicoeur6059]

I’m going to go out on a limb here and guess MB?

[@CallowG]

@@colleenjolicoeur6059Bingo!

[@mamaitaliano9774]

What is MB?

[@cherylsmith8386]

Winnipeg?

[@CallowG]

@@cherylsmith8386 Bingo #2 lol

[@RexPonder-y6b]

No one is talking about how expensive it is now. It's now cheaper to live in the United States.

[@devvetomoon777]

Great interview, thank you very much

[@glony01]

Great advice from you both. I moved to Mexico 2 yrs ago and now moving to El Salvador (where I have family at). Have lived in PV for over a year and I can finally say 'its not for me'. Grateful for the lessons (and some of them hard lessons) but my time is up here. Suerte a todo. 🙏

[@molly5262]

Good luck in El Salvador! Yikes!😬

[@foreverlovesophie]

@@molly5262el Salvador has come a long way and is one of the safest countries now, so this person will most likely be safer in El Salvador than Mexico .

[@daveed4475]

@@foreverlovesophieI did not know that. Thanks

[@colleenpurcha8821]

Our dream is to move to Mexico in 9 years. We are just starting our research on EVERYTHING, lots of questions. Yearly visits and not to the tourist areas. Starting to learn Spanish. We want to make sure this is what we want. Cross the t’s and dot the i’s

[@CareBear-o2l]

You guys are awesome, great video..

[@qroo]

Thanks so much!

[@rmanbike]

Everybody is a real estate agent in Mexico!

[@happyinparadise7812]

Reason to buy from owners directly using a notary.

[@LESHAUNWILL]

😂 lol so true

[@happyinparadise7812]

Ask to see their license. If they don't belong to an accredited association. One word ...Adios

[@cwtckness]

I get scared too easy, I need to focus on love, god, please be safe I’ve been here for 14 plus years, alone and old ,just wanted to share thoughts with you Paul

[@Kathryn551]

Pablo is awesome:) I hope I meet many people like Pablo when I become an immigrant in Mexico:) I just put my Intention out there...

[@allenfrost2148]

That’s good info for taking a healthy look at your reasons for why you’d want to immigrate. It’s so tempting to jump in with both feet but wise to tiptoe in and test the waters for a year or two. I’ve been struggling with not diving in head first. 🤣 🇲🇽

[@Simonh65ish]

Learn the tres A's before you move anywhere :Adjust,Adapt, Accept..

[@wasabiginger6993]

I lived in Alamos Sonora for one Winter. At first I hated it but then slowly feel in love with the people & culture. I live Hawai'i, which has it's own issues but it's HOME.

[@alanacollins5685]

I have not yet heard the entire interview but I could not agree more! I actually avoid most other expats because I get so tired of people who ran away from some imaginary oppression rather than being pulled towards something, such as a beautiful culture. There’s a guy who drives around here with Canadian plates and with children, with a F@ck Trudeau sign on his truck. I just want to see that guy and say Dude! Let it go!

[@calvinconcepts]

I totally agree with you. I feel the same way. I don’t want to hear about any of it. I’m trying to move on!

[@Annajetady]

Yes! I also agree - what am wanting to create in my life, rather what am I seeking to leave.

[@bjones9942]

I've found that the people who continue to call where they came from 'home' are the ones who move back. When I decided to move to México, the only expectation I had was that it would be different. Different weather (Mazatlán vs Seattle = different!), different culture, different lifestyle, different. And it was/is. Some differences are good, some are not - but my expectations have held to reality.

[@DanielGomez-jk6bv]

Immigrant, the proper term for a person who moves to another country other than the one they were born, they are immigrants I was born and raised in Mexico, moved to the US over thirty years ago, if I start saying I am a Mexican ex-pat, let's face it, I would sound ridiculous, I am an immigrant.

[@mylene_b]

I completely agree with you, I'm Canadian and I live in Canada. I'm tired of Canadians, Americans and Europeans going to the Global South saying they're expats. They're not expats. They're immigrants. Period. It doesn't even matter if they're permanent or temporary immigrants, they're still immigrants

[@JuanMoreno-wo5yb]

I can not imagine living anywhere in which I don’t speak the language or worse yet, never care to learn. I am 71 and could live in any Spanish speaking country with little to no problem or disadvantage. I have visited 13 Hispanic countries. I was investigating Portugal and I am considering living in Spain more just because Portuguese is tough for me to learn and I want to relax and only have Spanish and a bit of English to rely upon now. ❤ From Spain I can visit Portugal and even have a second home if I like it that much!

[@jahnacarlson3528]

Some people are most comfortable in a chaos environment (lots of change and transitions).

[@whacked00]

Fantastic video. So important to know who you are and work on yourself. IF retiring it takes time and forethought to decide what kind of life you want and rethink who you are and what you want to be. Going from a career to retirement and 60 hour work weeks in Chicago to the countryside in Mexico with nothing to do is a recipe for failure.

[@jenifertravelssolo5387]

Going on 3 years in Mexico and have no desire to back up there right now. I suspect when my health fails me I might need to.

[@jonmeek3879]

Really enjoyed this, thanks for putting this together

[@matthewbaker5084]

Yikes... something to think about. My wife is mexican and we are moving there in June. We have a 6 apartment building already and a house in a small town. I hope I'm making the right move.

[@manueljnegrete5048]

Hello Paul, Paul is right on as to people moving. I was a realtor for years and my observation was that a percentage of home buyers are having marriage issues and think a new home is going to fix things and it only makes things worse. Thank you for this excellent subject.

[@d.f.9064]

Pablo Arias, a great guest, I would use his service.

[@curtramey913]

Thanks for this! I just joined the México FB group 😊

[@300rivers4]

We're still here in the states, but are considering that move. Going to come down later in the year for a month long visit and check it out. People need to seriously remember that Mexico is not the u.s. You can't change where ever you're going so don't try.

[@fabtup9611]

I was born in Rome.Italy I lived in California 40+ years since I was 16. I have owned a condo in Cabo since 2012. I had no issues adapting at beginning because many things of the Italian and Mexican culture are similar, it was a breath of fresh air when I first moved there. Nicer people, a sense of community, relaxed lifestyle, adapting wasn't a problem. Cabo reminded me of some Italian beach towns, and when I am in Italy at some beach towns specially in the South, they remind me of Cabo. Spanish was never an issue,I am fluent in Italian and French languages, I picked up Spanish quick. But yes in Summer time I come back here to Santa Monica in California for 2-3 months which is where I am right now.

[@bamslerc]

Hello. I’ve just discovered your channel and have enjoyed the no nonsense approach you have. I grew up ( 20 yrs) in Mexico City, and lived here and there since. My brother is still in Mexico and I am planning to move back to spend my remaining years. I have my residency visa in my passport, which needs to be finalized within 30 days of my arrival in Mexico. I have until November 22 to get myself down there. My problem is navigating the INM site to try and make an appointment to do so. I am completely lost in that site. And of course they don’t answer the phones …. Any tips or pointers on getting that done? I’m trying to get an appointment for sometime in August.

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

You should check out Qroo Pauls tutorial on completing your canje at an INM office in Mexico. I did both processes by myself in the US and in Mexico with very limited Spanish. I also renewed my Residente Temporal card for three more years at the end of last year with no problems after watching his tutorial on that. I walked right into the INM office in Ensenada, BC both times with no appointments or no lines and walked out an hour after they opened both times with my card in hand. BTW- The first time I went to the INM I had heard all about the nightmares that many people have experienced in more expat INM locations around Mexico and expected the worst. I was at least expecting to make an appointment for a later date. The first time I got there a little before 6:00am and was easily the first in line. When they opened at 9:00am there were only about ten people in line behind me. When I went in the second time to renew it for three additional years I got there at 8:00am and was again easily the first in line and when I left a couple hours later there were only two people behind me. You may have to pay a facilitator to get an appointment for you in CDMX.... You could probably save money by flying into Tijuana and catching a $12.00us bus ride to Ensenada and after easily getting your card here, catching a flight to CDMX. If you choose the second choice I'll treat you a fresh seafood brunch at the world famous La Guerrerense food stand that Anthony Bourdain said was the best in the world. It's a short walk down the harbor malecon from the INM office! Mucha suerte desde la hermosa Ensenada!

[@bamslerc]

@@davidsebastianelli1326thanks! I’ll be visiting my brother in Merida in a few weeks. I’m only going down for a week this time. Once I cross in to the country with that visa stamp in my passport, I have those 30 days to finalize it, so I want to be able to get it done in that week. After which I will return north to sell everything, etc., and make my way back down at my leisure, having completed the process and getting the all important card! I will check out the video you mentioned, and thanks so much for the input. Saludos 😊

[@Stevenfrijol]

Many Mexicans I know spend time in both the US and Mexico.

[@Johnnie-d9b]

YES, and many many Mexicans lived in the US until they or their parents were deported. Sometimes the people who “lived on the other side” are called pochos, which can be a derogatory term or not depending how it’s used. Probably more than two million Americans (like us) live 3-6 months in Mexico each year - making sure to stay less than 183 days in the calendar year because they’ll likely not be sucked into the mexican income tax system then. There is an intricate an d overwhelming interlocking of people and culture and commerce between these countries, even more so near the border, with a whole bilingual bicultural society of people who live substantially in both countries, or who commute from one country to the other.

[@jj-bp3fr]

In general as a mexican I can say I'll never trust a central or south American, we learned the hard way in mexico.

[@rosanneallen-hewlett9973]

It's not hot until you join us in Arizona...like about now! 🌞 🌵

[@ElAgaveGuy]

Good info. And we can vouch for Adriana. We used her to get our permanent residency here in the riviera maya.

[@ticomadlynjoing7783]

if you have no health insurance for international you must pay in full in dollars to a hospital. or pay up in advance for any surgieries.

[@Joyexpanded]

Nobody mentioned the lack of ability to drive safely and park at a trailhead and hike with your kids without thinking about the unthinkable… everything from car broken into (or insane car accident) to kidnapping at gunpoint. I have lived in MX for 2 years and have 3 girls- one of which is Mexican. My husband and I don’t feel comfortable driving across the country and I can’t take my kids for a hike by myself between the dogs and people. I love our community, but I can’t do two things that I love- travel and spend time in nature. We RV’d full time in the US national parks for 2 years and it was amazing. I would never do that in MX. It’s not safe.

[@JamesG1126]

The only way to get outside and exercise safely in Mexico is to live in a gated community and use trails inside the community. Definitely agree it's not safe to drive long distances and go hiking in Mexico.

[@monicarowe7915]

It’s one of the reasons I’m spending less time in Mexico as I miss the roadtrips, long walks and hikes in nature- You just feel free, safe and mixed in with other people who enjoy the same.

[@rmanbike]

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[@giljusino]

I experienced some of the issues you covered when I moved from DC to a small town in FL.

[@giljusino]

Me too. We moved to Punta Gorda. We had to leave FL after a few years, to many Republicans.

[@molly5262]

@@giljusinoThat’s why I want to move to Florida! Too many libs where I’m living right now.

[@NewYorkerinLondon7]

I do find it interesting how there’s no American neighborhoods outside of the U.S. But every foreign country has a neighborhood in the U.S.

[@elginb]

One can find just about every US fast food restaurant around the world, which are the symbols of American neighborhoods. So no need to feel nostalgic about American culture when trotting the globe. Just pop in a Starbucks and make yourself at home.

[@theladygeorge]

Maybe because there was the Red Line real estate agents lived by. Immigrants where internally not sold homes or could rent in other neighborhoods. It’s against the law now but the damage is done. And one of the favorite and first moves “expats” do is build a golf course and a gated community in the countries they go to.

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

The US is a country of immigrants. Think of it this way, the sidewalk outside of my home was built a few hundred years before the US was an established country.... Just saying....

[@pawsitiveleader8710]

I understand that immigration changes and the government wants proof of income and savings... But can I work in-person in Mexico as an American?

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

You could get a work visa and probably have a rough time getting around the fact you would be making around $25.00us per day. Buena suerte!

[@meatgravylard]

Another reason is they feel like leaving. Most of the gringos I've known in my years of living in Yucatan are people of means and can make that choice easily without having any issues mentioned by broke and triggered KZbin comment section addicts. We've been here fifteen years and have stayed because we wat to, and would leave for no other reason. It's a big world, we can move almost anywhere in it, that would be a reason.

[@ltdodgen]

I think we’re a small percentage of the population, lucky enough to do just that.

[@Thisnotmysandwich]

Wherever you go, there you are... I'm definitely running. I was raised in Foster Care and don't have any living family. Recently divorced after 17 years. I'm 40 now. I'm fairly well-connected and have friends but still feel incredibly alone. Everyone I know is obsessed with their careers and success. Have to schedule hangout time a month in advance. I have a fantasy that I'm going to find my core friend group in another country but I feel I know the ending already...

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

If you can continue to work remotely you may enjoy living in Mexico. Everywhere I've visited the people are friendly, welcoming and helpful because it's still a family based culture. I moved to a mostly Mexican town and community in November 2022. When I first got here I didn't know much Spanish but every where I went people were always smiling, friendly and always said "Buenas dias" to me with a smile knowing I didn't speak Spanish. I felt like was under their radar but during my first Christmas week all of my neighbors came by with their kids and family and gave me homemade tamales. Now after almost two years my Spanish has improved slowly and every where I go to eat and shop people remember me and are genuinely happy to see me. Moving here was the best thing I've ever done for myself! Buena suerte!

[@richardhart6548]

Good information. Thanks Pablo and Paul. Paul I hope this question is not too personal but I been wondering why you moved back to the USA.

[@tonynes3577]

It's funny I moved from Canada to USA for my job career, and to escape the bad weather and it was no problem. Then I bought a small condo in Cabo, Mexico but that's all. I love the Mexican culture and people but I think I will not live there, not full time anyway. I'm single maybe I'll meet a Mexican lady. Hopefully not to be scammed.

[@happyinparadise7812]

I married a Beautiful Yucateca. 8 years ago. We are living the dream! In Mérida.

[@ocelotjazzz]

I have lived in Guatemala for 19 years and I’m from the UK. Please rent at the start guys. Can’t believe people are buying houses off the bat.

[@DrGaryGreen]

I've never lived in Mexico but I have worked and lived in Turkey, Spain, Australia, Malaysia, Indonesia, Norway, Netherlands and the Philippines. The last thing I ever felt was homesick because I'm not a big fan of the USA. I've met plenty of people that do feel it though especially in the military. I remember one guy who refused to accept the fact that he was in Turkey. He wouldn't go off base and on base he stuck to the most American looking parts of the base. He always knew to the day how long it was before he flew out. I'll never understand those kinds of people. Living in every country is like visiting Disneyland. It looks, smells and tastes different. Take it in. Eat it, drink it, make friends. I'll never understand homesickness. I think it's a side effect of small mindedness and lack of education.

[@ParisianThinker]

Excellent advise!

[@ticomadlynjoing7783]

I need to talk to Palo about shipping company?? how to reach him??

[@Maya-uy2xx]

This is a great discussion! It is good to point out that safety is not really one of the reasons, since a lot of people (in the US) still think that Mexico is “not safe”. Most people who have this thinking are people who have never been to Mexico (or Costa Rica, etc)

[@JamesG1126]

Safety is a reason and when you live in Mexico you'll see for yourself.

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

@@JamesG1126 Do you live here? Before moving here a few years ago I had traveled here at least two hundred times to remote beach camp, fish and surf since the early eighties with never any problems. I fell in love with the people, culture and food a long time ago and told myself when I could retire that I would move here. Because it's so affordable I was able to retire early and move here. It's the best thing I've ever done for myself!😎🏄🍍🥥🌮🍯

[@geanitsucuneli4791]

Guys as far as I know in Mexico is not very expensive ....when is coming to pay out of pocket! In USA the insurance ,doesn't cover 100%.So you have to pay a lot out of pocket.I am telling you from our own experience.We went in India for an operation .Was cheaper then our copay in USA.Implant in Mexico are very ,very cheap.In USA $2700 for a molar.So is not a big different !

[@jerrysegal2903]

love mexico. the climate, people, culture. my only concern is that as a 79 year old person, if a serious medical codition happens, I want to be in the states. I know there are good hospitals, doctors, surgeons in mexico but i believe the most up to date fcilities and equipment are in the states. If or when i learn different, I would be living in mexico right now.

[@kellyname5733]

@@jerrysegal2903 Ever herd of medical tourism in Mexico? People from around the world have been going to Mexico to get superior medical treatment since the 1950's. The only downside to going to another country for medical treatments is you have no recourse if things go bad. Mexico has cutting edge medical treatments with the latest equipment. Doctors in Mexico still do house calls and will give you their cell # if you need to contact them. Many, many doctors go to medical school in Mexico because the cost is way less. Then they practice in their home country, usually the USA/Canada and some go home to Europe or...they stay in Mexico.

[@juancortez4726]

Thank you for your information... thinking about retiring in Mexico... we'll love to talk to Pablo one day... !

[@richardg8651]

Great advice to rent before buying. People are way too impulsive.

[@belliott4844]

Tamarindo Rich in Costa Rica warns of this!

[@pattiarmstrong5583]

No the must frustrating thing for me is to find the most basic things like now finding CoQ10 or u get the drift but not enough for me to move back, that being said the housing prices r ridiculously high that is often too much

[@charmainejones2284]

How can I get in touch with Pablo?

[@davidhunternyc1]

I could live in Mexico but I do like the four seasons here in NY. I too would find Mexico too hot. It's hot all year every year. If I lived on the beach, that would be great, but it takes a lot of money to live on the beach in Mexico. Then again, any foreigner is going to have a target on their back. You've got to be careful.

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

You seem to not know much about Mexico.

[@sallylee6934]

We would love to move to Mexico but the government is making it too hard for us who don't have the income required for them when here in Canada we have enough to maintain our house and living. It would be nice if the lower it so we can sell our house and rent something nice along the coast.

[@sallylee6934]

@@MaryGwenDungan yes there are ways around it by buying property but not everyone can do that.

[@Johnnie-d9b]

Start with temporary residence, as the proof-of-income or proof-of-liquid-savings requirements are getting higher for temp residency but nowhere near as extremely high as permanent residence. We were lucky to get permanent residence without proof of income or savings after my wife gave birth in Mexico - we applied from inside Mexico, which is allowed for such so-called Family Unit Residencia Permanente applications.

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

Oh Sally...You could easily move here and live here legally. Sell your house and put the money in the bank for a year. While you live here for that first year you would have to do a couple of border runs. After a year you would qualify for residency status, not to mention all the money you would save in that first year because of the affordability of living your best life here. Buena suerte!

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

@@sallylee6934 You don't automatically get residency status by buying a home here. You would still have to qualify by other means, of which there are many. Do some research....Buena suerte!

[@philiphowell1505]

Love to all from my home of seven wonderful years, from a small town, the EU and Gran Canaria, learn the language, integrate, pay ALL your taxes and enjoy a civilized life.

[@randyross9426]

We are trying to decide the best choice about buying a car and bringing to Mexico or buying in Mexico?? We own a home in Cajititlan. Any advice?

[@qroo]

If you have residency in Mexico, my advice is always to buy in Mexico. The reasons are too numerous to list in this comment. ;)

[@randyross9426]

@@qroo thanks much

[@randyross9426]

BTW, we have temporary residency

[@kellyname5733]

You are going to have to do a ton of research and learn all the caveats. Everybody that has researched this issue says by the time they pay all the imports it is not worth bringing your car.

[@davidsebastianelli1326]

On a Temporary Resident Visa you can drive your foreign plated car for up to four years before having to sell it or import it. You need to get a TIP (temporary import permit) outside of Baja and the money you spend on that is refundable when you leave to sell it in the US. I would say keep it until then because you may decide you don't really need a car after you move here. I brought my car down to Baja with me and very rarely drive it around town. I still like to go remote beach camping and surfing so I am glad to have the option. I will probably always own a car here because of the freedom it offers to just get up and go somewhere with out any hassles. BTW- I understand they will be changing the laws to make it easier and less expensive to import your car. I also live in Baja and I can keep my car as long as want living in the "free zone" Buena suerte!

[@rochelleglam]

What about shipping to Colombia 🇨🇴?

[@ParisianThinker]

Lovely man & one I would do business with if he could move me out of France.

[@danielb516]

i would only do the move for the winters . live in the northeast so the snow bird thing appeals to me .

[@Johnnie-d9b]

If you’re looking for warm to hot winters, tens of millions of Mexicans live in places that will not fit the bill: Mexico City with 20-million-plus people and the Pacific coast of Baja CA (at least norte), which are consistently cooler than people realize. But if you need warm to hot winters, sure, they’ve got that too.

[@allisa-vi7lp]

Do many people return because of crime and/or feeling unsafe? I apologize if you mentioned this.

[@emc6511]

14:02 talks about crime concerns

[@alalesc3796]

In general Mexico is still the best country in Latin America to move to and one of the best in the world!😀

[@takencareofbidness]

One word - Grandkids!