Being a blessee and the lifestyle it brings

Staying on the trend that still has social media buzzing 'blessers and blessee'. Blesse Amanda Cele is unemployed but lives in a flat in the suburbs, drives a Mercedes and wears a range of luxury brands. Amanda is joining us in studio to tell us more about her life style.
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[@kwandagumede3294]

Why is she on the news? Why are we glamorizing this? What are we saying to young girls?

[@demonpunisher9337]

So true

[@lloydndhlovu7985]

They say they should do it too. What do you think? Is it surprising how these young girls are wild now? If the parents fail them, they'll take everything that comes in their way.

[@threethroneproductions5498]

I was about to ask that question

[@chaks4466]

Eix this is embarrassing

[@mrmkhosana6876]

It's insane really

[@zandilematu5913]

she sees herself "settling down", so I guess she'll be ok if her future husband is a blesser to younger girls then

[@kholofelomaloma]

good point

[@nhlakaniphombambo5979]

mmm wow

[@veronicampofu2646]

damn the interviewer should have asked her that question

[@lungilebuthelezi4746]

word..

[@bomkazidlamini2801]

Halleuya

[@tebatsoselowa3699]

it takes nothing to be on TV this days

[@kholofelomaloma]

eish

[@millicentramusi2036]

if it ''takes nothing to be on TV'' like you said, I'm sure you would also be on tv now but...Dololo

[@bomkazidlamini2801]

😂😂😂😂

[@sibymathew7859]

To be on TV one has to be a pleaser and have lack of grace. Lol. People sell self to be on TV

[@janemuller2066]

@@sibymathew7859 selling a "imitation" product. Check out the flaws from the reviews.

[@shonaboy7554]

Young people, it's wonderful to be young! Enjoy every minute of it. Do everything you want to do; take it all in. But remember that you must give an account to God for everything you do.- Ecclesiastes 11:9

[@mojalefathobane7488]

Why are we glorifying bofebe?

[@mokgadicaron8317]

lol😂😂😂

[@mojalefathobane7488]

Like weitse she is so proud ka botlaela. What happens when she loses those looks? No food no more? Like WTF. Rather make it official that wa rekisa. It's soon going to be legalized maybe hai

[@malulekalucas9800]

ke life boss we cant tell people what to do.

[@rethabilemonese8908]

Like serious, why is she doing that???

[@boipelopee]

Oh wow...🤐🤐🤐

[@DeeManDee2]

I am saddened by this. I couldn't be bothered by the lifestyle. I am just concerned that this made prime TV. We have so many issues that can be broadcast but this is the best we can do. Lafa elihle

[@pheladileshaba2782]

Sinezinkinga ezingaka emzansi

[@mandisashabalala6466]

I'm prepared to go through it all so I can bless myself. This is just a shame for young girls to see.

[@sibymathew7859]

There is this kind. And then there are the innocent ones getting raped. 🤐

[@janemuller2066]

@@sibymathew7859 this kind is an insult to female gender. No respect for self or others in the triangle

[@anafrican9902]

She's literally an insult to her whole family!!!

[@lesegoelisah6517]

say that again please

[@lesegoelisah6517]

say that again please

[@JoCar229]

K sho "Let them say what they want to say"

[@simonayoo3377]

Tee Jay do not promote this

[@abongilemathole4690]

😢😢😢

[@zanelenzuza7439]

It’s 5 years later now and R.I.P beautiful ❤️

[@risuna_s5941]

She didnt cross the bridge 😭

[@joyjohanexo]

She was still young. Do you have any knowledge as to what cut her life so short. It’s sad. May she Rest In Peace.

[@khathutshelomothabene883]

behind every blessed there is a hurt wife and on top of that there is a child who was destroyed together with all spheres of life. I'm fed up withal thing South Africa is harbouring. Fhasi na dzi blessers and blessees fhasi!!!

[@cowbalala]

that's not her problem. He's the one to blame. King sifebe.

[@katendlovu7535]

You are so right and people don't care anymore

[@janemuller2066]

Kathutshelo Mothabene you so right. A sick world. Lovers of pleasure, lovers of self👌

[@monicamonica7248]

This is better than having a abusive husband

[@sthembisomadlala6943]

Am sure she gets abused

[@someguy007]

She has sold her soul to the devil. Be Careful Children of God, not to be deceived and not to be found wanting. We were forewarned thousands of years ago about exactly these kinds of behaviors. Read 2 Timothy 3 and Dont fall into these traps, lies and lusts. For the time is very near and we have all been warned.

[@takue2099]

amen

[@tshidzivhe]

AMEN, this is deception she need deliverence from this kind of thinking

[@adolphmatjukotja3093]

I fully agree, we can live with such and expect normality in them

[@ziphokweyama4730]

amen

[@victoriadhlamini1516]

It looks like every area of life is being tested Now how are you responding to this madness

[@nkuleenkuliza4467]

l think is the end of the world

[@geraldtsotetsi6581]

she lying about the protected sex the blesser pays for deliverance so the woman doesnt have say

[@sthembisomadlala6943]

Fully agree

[@Masibigirigudani]

Where she is nw 2019??

[@realest_Tate]

W such beauty n such perfect English, had she been serious with life she could be affording 'Blesser standards' on her own like some of us. Ladies we don't need men for money, we need to focus!

[@godlovesme8115]

Tendai Ndumo lol

[@Ele__.]

This interview was a waste of television time!!!

[@jupiterlesabe]

here here

[@bondjamesbond5580]

Thats the SABC 4 u 🤦‍♂️

[@vuvuleem_2219]

She has a beautiful voice

[@yolandasijobo6112]

I love her. She's an adult and has chosen her way of life. Many chicks hating on her but low key want to be blessed... Sit down.

[@mathebulanope]

An Adult makes MORAL CHOICES...clearly is has not grown.she is even comfortable to BREAK WHAT GOD HAS PUT TOGETHER. "MARRAIGE". this is PROSTITUTION.

[@lyndahdube]

Judgmental much? This man is the one to blame for stepping out on his wife, it is not this woman's fault.

[@mathebulanope]

Everyone will be tempted in life, Jesus Christ said it, It is the choice you make that determines weather what you it in for is for selfish desire or Godly. In this case, SHE CLEALY does not care about LOVE, she wants what she want, not even marriage can stop her. The man is already Step out line I agree, but she has the power to stop it or make it wurse.

[@LinnSpin]

In this case, they're both to blame. It's not like she doesn't know he's married. And +Yolanda Sijobo disliking something doesn't necessarily spawn from jealousy.

[@vuyolwetutshabeni9195]

We'll everyone's gotta do what they gotta do to get by. At the end Morals don't put food on the table. As long as she sleeps well at night. It is the guy's job to not cheat on his wife. Also can Jesus please make us all equal - because this thing of other people having to go through so much suffering just to be able to buy a loaf of bread, while other people live luxurious lives since birth is not fair.

[@phililemkhize2951]

How did I even get here Holy Spirit Come down I am praying for you cc ubone ukukhanya

[@sandy_gee8010]

Why does she have a ring on?

[@mpuse7527]

i hope when she settle down , she will still put that brave face when her man becomes a blesser to a girl 10 yrs younger than her. KARMA BAE.

[@makhosazanethabisilenkosi8368]

Who are you girl to judge

[@portiaramashala7411]

May her soul rest in peace

[@bigscott175]

What happened

[@percymakgwale2120]

i like this girl. She's a realist

[@amarumoon7151]

What the f*ck you talking about? She the realest,she can't even get a job as a women she has to depend on a man to satisfy her needs. Cmon that's ridiculous,a real women would get up and find herself a job and earn her own money. I am tired of women depending on men for money,get your lazy ass and find a job....its really sad that a 13 year old is telling you this..but I hope our future women can be a successful business women!!

[@percymakgwale2120]

+Amaru Moon she can be a successful business woman too. she's just taking a different path towards her success and that's okay. It's 2016. As much as she respects ppl who go to school & get jobs, she also has to be treated with respect.

[@Burnflesh82]

what creeps me out about this is the fact that noone has condemned her being with a married man, noone, this can not be normal

[@meeya916]

Burnflesh82 I do..but i dnt hv da energy t text it..my text will b a waste

[@janemuller2066]

Burnflesh82 she is just an embarrassment & disgrace for all the decent an intelligent women out there. Because of DESPERATE & vulnerable women like her that so many marriages & homes are falling apart. She admits all Relationships have their ups and downs so why entertaining partners in marriages under strain causing further damage. Sadly Depriving herself of God's eternal blessings

[@sibusisotshabalala9060]

@ 1:43. did she just say settle down? with who? which good decent man would want to settle down with a woman who sold her body and dignity for material things like you did? wish again sisi?

[@BENDBUTDONTBR8K]

SIBUSISO TSHABALALA An American 🤷🏾🤣😂🤣

[@BoboWillNeverBeFound222]

@@BENDBUTDONTBR8K but these type of girls get married all the time

[@lihlemzimela1756]

😂 she doesn't know what "perk" means Lord😂😂😂

[@babalwagadudu4504]

Hahaha maybe the guy should have said .... What are the benefits.... The word perk is confusing for the lady😀😄😀😄😄😬😬😜

[@amarumoon7151]

If she would have got a job she Would have know 😹

[@lifeofnikkismith]

lol

[@trashtalker2341]

i also don't know what perk means

[@camillehendricks9819]

lihle mzimela laaaaaaaaaaaawl

[@mpho87]

This girl needs a prayer.

[@cherylhlophe7303]

WTF is this nonsense?! Such rubbish on tv news yet Hlaudi says no to broadcasting protests and matters that affect us on a daily basis. My blood is actually boiling.

[@dollysiyathemba2757]

we leave in a wrld free of choices. from what I see this girl is not stupid and she knows what she wants at the moment. although I may not agree with her choices wats important is tht shes happy with the life shes chosen. and doing what ppl expect from her doesnt

[@bonganipendros]

What a huge display of parenting that failed. Worst thing is the SABC is even broadcasting this.

[@philadelphiladel2162]

Why do i have this feeling they know each beyond this interview.

[@jukkzzmaila6068]

"after a long run". I wonder if she ever settled or ended up being hurt

[@busisiwejaxa2894]

Samehere

[@sinah_zo]

I sew few days ago she’s selling herbal life now. She old for these grandpa they want ama 2000 😂😂

[@afro_mami3014]

She passed on

[@buhlesammyndlovu5869]

Unfortunately she has passed on 🕊🕊🕊

[@vusumuzimathumo-githendu6949]

@afro_mami3014 what was the cause of death

[@WayneModz]

She's got the heels :D

[@IanMahetiMbano]

"I would like to settle after a long run" - JAW DROPS

[@trashtalker2341]

The minister says its distgusting but some of this woman are drove into this because of poverty and unemployed

[@janemuller2066]

Trash Talker Many women use poverty and unemployment as an excuse for laziness. Some find it too easy to use their bodies as tools to generate an income fully aware that it's married men or women.

[@vuvuleem_2219]

The girl who her future husband is going to be a blesser to in still in grade 1.

[@nizshowsmith]

Hahahahaha Blesser, Blessee, Blessed...😂😂😂😂 2016 things 😂😂😂

[@wordofgodthroughtheapostle1812]

Where is she today?

[@zwonaka95]

Amanda Kardashian

[@njabulozikhali4966]

I really like this chick, she is being real to herself. Sisters, enjoy the ride, you are Blessed..... lol Don't mind these haters

[@njabulozikhali4966]

its a free country. I like this girl, I like her personality and humor and the fact that she is telling the truth. She is not a child she have a brain, she is making dicissions and choices, is she not? who are you to judge her?

[@andileandile4310]

Its very sad and interesting to see how the media has fooled young people to believing that someone is a 'hater' when criticize immoral and bad behavior.

[@juniorkaybee5453]

That's Evil man..............is like telling people to prostitute themselves.....Romans 1:32

[@zinhlegeluk8131]

It shows how our society has normalized things and an interesting thing is if it happened to their sister, daughter etc... would they still able to say the same thing? . To me a true hater is someone who encourages the wrong things coz you indirectly destroying me.

[@telisorangaka7582]

This chick has some freaking brains i got to give her credit...damn it!!!

[@godfreyndlovu6540]

Teliso Rangaka brains really,, I think she is well spoken nje

[@janemuller2066]

Telido Rangaka What made her give her requirement of the job when she was asked about the perks?

[@beautychuma3980]

RIP🕊….the lifestyle neh🙌

[@rorisangmokati7897]

I just heard.. What happened??? R. I. P

[@canceymyrah8519]

Who am I to judge if she's happy dts her business

[@lyndahdube]

Exactly! I don't have a blesser and I am not looking for one, but this is HER life. For each his own.

[@Marthadimakatsohons]

thank u

[@gire819]

Its wrong... Blessers who are married are causing so much pain... We need our morals back

[@janemuller2066]

@@lyndahdube it's her life yes, but what about the life/lives she's helping to destroy by proudly entertaining a married man. A woman with a healthy self esteem would say go sort your marriage issues out I don't entertain unavailable men. This type of woman is part of the increasing divorce statistics. No empathy, self centered life in my opinion

[@janemuller2066]

Cancey Myrah not judging the person, but the act

[@mandlazondo4619]

Nice Service

[@securitasboundary7824]

Big up gal this is your life..life came to the point where by anyone suppose to mind his o her business..at the end of the dae u put sumthng on top of the table..n no one will do tht for u..ppl will talk even if u r hungry ..or u full a black person will find the way insult o discourage u..ungenzani ngomntu kukuphela kwesilwanyana esinobungozi ummntu..qhubeke wena sisi yeka bantu nemilomo yabo..

[@sisamcombothwana8545]

this news anchor has a nice accent....:)

[@honeydate]

sisa sisa Durban accent

[@thedailymgosi]

Rest In Peace my dear

[@triciakekana]

She definitely paid the high price

[@millicentramusi2036]

To think of it most women have blessers or rather the idea of having one have crossed their mind at least once, I mean lets face it..it is a bore to be in a relationship with a man who cannot provide. weitsi mang, maybe le mmao was once a blessie...

[@erickhuzwayo4132]

wow and she is not ashamed of herself

[@StixTheMiner123]

I am here after watching Jackie Pamotse

[@princesszeeuncensored843]

If she's happy who are we to judge but where is she at right now ...???

[@allenbay2460]

she's literally becoming a south African kardashian 🤔🤔🤔

[@GhislaineMutombo]

kim k has multiple successful business, has multimillion dollar brand endorsements and was also voted one the most influential woman. to the best of my knowledge she's not sleeping with married men for money and she herself is married. This girl here is not Kim k she's is just basic fulls top, I mean she doesn't even work. #JustSaying

[@lakongolaise7837]

Kim's fame blew up after her sex tape. Influential yeah #JustSaying

[@mosima_r]

Kim wasn't always a multi-million brand.

[@princessdafiyah896]

Yeah if she is smart enough to start a business to promote herself.....she can be way way richer than that

[@redeemablesoul]

We shud not judge.

[@TheLoxionKasie]

Will the "perks" question be answered in this lifetime, or is she still trying to work out what "perks" means?

[@LinnSpin]

...find out on the next episode of DragonBall Z

[@TheLoxionKasie]

LOL, wena will you get sacarsm in this lifetime or do I need to break it down? ;)

[@LinnSpin]

Somebody didn't watch DBZ. I understood the joke, I was adding to it, but I guess my efforts weren't appreciated. Goodnight.

[@TheLoxionKasie]

Lindiwe Ngwane Well, that's why you need to be careful with reference jokes. :P Goodnight.

[@kundaibenhura2639]

+Lindiwe Ngwane lol youre the real MVP.

[@youjustgotburned3980]

Stop being jealous y'all,she played her cards right😂

[@khutsokganyago9598]

She’s gone now mhsrip.

[@thelazysnapper]

how does being with a married man and protected sex... you know what I don't even know how to phrase my sentence

[@anthonyhough3813]

The oldest profession. Peace and blessings lol

[@nosihlevilakazi8873]

i feel sorry for the blesser's wives and children....these blessees aren't scared of STDs hey

[@janemuller2066]

Noshikle Vilakazi these blessees are home wreckers and moralless. They are enabling married men to Disrespect their wives and kids. They have no self respect using their bodies as tools destroying marriages for their financial gain. Acting as fake wives. That's not love

[@sdundlovu9409]

why is this on SABC news,,

[@precious5333]

we have the freedom to be who ever we want to be Go girl, I just hope and pray there's more of us out their smart enough to not disgrace our womanhood and publicly show our luck of respect for ourselves and other women (married man) her answer to were she sees herself is five years is absolute insanity. beauty and youth doesn't last forever, you need to set some goals for yourself sister.

[@saint_teddi]

Mara South Africa this is what we come to😂😂

[@JoCar229]

"Let them say what they want to say"

[@mandlamamba9542]

this is madness

[@johntankiso775]

PLEASE BE MY BLESSEE

[@siphondlovu1127]

She is beautiful

[@prudencemthembu4476]

2020. I wonder where she is now

[@KulaniKeagile229]

She sells herbal life 😂

[@Mphothegift]

Passed away

[@prudencemthembu4476]

@@Mphothegift Really? What happened to her?

[@LsgNyembe]

I WONT JUDGE THIS LADY AT ALL,HOWEVER I HOPE SHE CAN SUSTAIN THIS LIFESTYLE COZ YOU DONT WANNA BE KNOWN AS A 40 YEAR OLD BLESSEE ONE DAY,YOU WANNA BE KNOWN AS A CLASSY LADY WHOS HAS A SUCCESSFUL CAREER.

[@mildredkom5158]

Her life her choices,some are doing it and hiding !!Who are we to judge?I don't support this but each to their own really!

[@zonketjipura7274]

while u hating, she's making tht money 😂

[@janemuller2066]

Zonke Tjipura unhappy money. Faking it all the way till it lasts to keep up the image.

[@simbongilemgqwetho385]

Cowntree ... 😴

[@thapelokgaje4080]

Best KZbin comment in 2016.

[@EllenMiss2010]

That's her problem! She lives in a cowntree. Lol

[@hrh7886]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@vhudzisanimutangwa2612]

she's living her own life n its obvious dat she's enjoyin..U ppl hu r u to judge..let her be

[@ncebakazifiko3516]

You always use protection with this man and his fine with it after spending thousands of rands on u, Lady dont lie to us. You willing to settle down lmfao hahahahahahahahahahahaha kwaaaaaaaaaaa #DEAD then be prepared dear dont ever complain or get mad if the man you gonna settle down with is a blesser to a young girl, just advice his blessee,give her techniques and strategies..coz you are the Queen of the industry

[@artyringaz4572]

I think most men could be blessers if they could afford after all the population demographic s indicate 3 women per one man

[@bachelorofpharmacy816]

Lol I also want a blesser

[@Liz-jw9rf]

I like her

[@busisiwehlekiso8542]

You are a lost soul

[@mpumelelomphuthi8531]

We are not supposed to judge; but we also don't have to promote something that leaves so many South African families broken; further it's not entirely about colour or religion, but it's more of moral and ethnic stability of our societies. This, i do not support, at all...SABC is just making money from this! I mean there are serious things to discuss.

[@anitanytahranana9246]

2021

[@mak28busted]

Men are complaining but if they had the money they would be blessing women left and right.

[@clp5224]

Neva

[@mak28busted]

@@clp5224 🤣

[@mak28busted]

@@clp5224 🤣

[@henslymazwayi6279]

why are we judging the girls ,,what about the ""married mans " who make it possible for them girls to even consider being sponsored beautifully ///////#BRAND IT LIKE GUPTA #

[@wezilentakazana9440]

eish i hate the fact that there's no like button in youtube....but you spot brother

[@LVXBeats058]

Nkandla.. . Gay marriages, blessers.. . Wow. I need to swim to Australia hey.. .

[@LVXBeats058]

What you dont realise is that you're a slave in South Africa Idiot.. . take this (L) and frame it. You'd get paid 2 to 4 times in Aussie for the same thing you'd do here for peanuts. . .

[@JoCar229]

djfingatips1 lol stupid

[@Abosh123able]

troll much?

[@LVXBeats058]

BLeagueRapper Nope.. . I actually troll less these days buddy.

[@LVXBeats058]

Tee Jay No nigga. You're speaking like a typical black South African who wants to be loved and accepted by everybody. We are the ones who set mental barriers for ourselves. I believe I'm the shyt here in mzansi, I'll still believe I'm the shyt in Aussie or anywhere else. #NoTrolling #IOnlyTrollOnComedyChannels #Facts

[@senzoterrancemhlanga5157]

fluent English-speaking girl.. she must be a bit qualified .. what wrong with just hustling girl, you growing old

[@PoliTainmentSA]

English is a language, not a way to measure intelligence or qualification. What if she went to a multiracial school?

[@mokgadicaron8317]

+Vesta thank you!

[@boipelopee]

+Vesta 😂😂😂🤐🤐 true

[@zwilemakhabane5057]

She passed s away a few days ago

[@mamahlolimasipa9901]

Really?

[@marcusee7186]

And they say they Christian

[@lesedikenneth9648]

Where is she now 🤔

[@ruvarashetephan4658]

Who is she ?

[@darlingitsbond2032]

THIS SICK !

[@menzimngadi6793]

generally temptations are there. But speaking openly about such in this sort of platform suggests a certain degree of immorality. This is trend is just dangerous and if I could help it it would be a crime because essentially what it does is destroy peoples futures

[@gugusibanda5433]

LOL, KKKKKKKKKK I JUSS SAW HER, I GUESS ALL THESE THINGS WERE TAKEN BACK BY THE BLESSER. #IMNOTLAUGHING

[@kgabodajoypome9348]

nice

[@evamathebula4448]

i pity the fact that she does not see anything wrong with this whatsover

[@Groovesupplya]

This has made it to PRIME TIME TV??????????????WTF??

[@mutsachaka]

this is so sad

[@mercyoconnorneemunyai5844]

well, I'm not the judge of this, GOD is.

[@ThabangKhumalo_]

Well if she is happy and brings no harm to her life then she can have it however she wants. I mean like look at the people who cheat, they all spend spend for girls one way or the other so why not do it in honesty. I do not have a problem with this girl. Its like chasing people off the bridge because they are gay or lesbian, whether we do or don't they will still be there hence we need to accept and live with it.

[@sibusisodhlamini7256]

that's barbaric how can you be involved with the married man you disrespect your parents that they don't groomed you well how to be the real African women who respects herself and others even that men he doesn't know what he needs his crazy for only five minutes game play that's nickampoompe

[@bigscott175]

I see people saying R.I.P what happened

[@prettykhoza7968]

i like her...

[@khulekanimtshali622]

I can't wait to be rich.😈

[@anelisanozipho4144]

Jah ne umuntu uphila impilo ayiphilayo who I am to judge

[@janemuller2066]

Anelisa Nozipho it's not judging the person/s, but the acts involved destroying lives and relationships. Why not wait until this married man divorced his legal wife. How about respecting another woman instead of being selfish thinking how you can gain living off another woman's marital income. How many homes are suffering Financially & Emotionally due to this kind of sick behaviour