BEING A FEMME LESBIAN | Q&A

[@smellydonut5088]

am i the only femme who's attracted to other femmes?

[@heatherwotherspoon7313]

definitely not! my girlfriend is also femme so i'm attracted to femmes too! :)

[@luna-hu5uw]

yes I'm saying this two months later but *hi* *me too*

[@tp7738]

Nope, me too!

[@croissant._.003]

Sameee!!! Ahhh but all off the girls I’m interested in turn out to be straight ;-;

[@manabanana0712]

-@@croissant._.003 moodddd-

[@siljanen1554]

Yayy I'm glad my questions got in the video!

[@KAmbler222]

Femme squad were u at??????🥺🥺🥺 - ❤️🧡💛💖💘💝-

[@souliewrld]

Meeeee

[@elliemae4820]

Hereeeee 🏳️‍🌈💞

[@Designer239]

Cakexpoppy I’m here too!

[@bubble_tealol4074]

Meeee

[@bubble_tealol4074]

Be proud of who you are and haters back off bc everyone is excepted and if you are lesbian it's fine bc we all deserve to be treated the same :)

[@mkatznelson]

I'm a femme, and I'd certainly been confused by that. I'm also only attracted to other femmes, which had made it even harder for me to not question my validity. It's unbelievable how we're doubting ourselves because of external views and wondering if what we're going through is at all possible while simultaneously experiencing that exact thing we're confused about. All the best to everyone, and I hope you do not struggle with your identity. 🍀

[@lollipoplexey650]

"Are femmes usually bottom" Hannah: We both are femmes! Me:*Spits out drink* THEIR BOTH BOTTOMS (jk lol, love your vidoes!!)

[@tammiev3985]

lgbt couples don’t have bottoms or tops, it’s always switching

[@jafaelpetals2022]

You’re an inspiration and I personally prefer female lesbians to be feminine for my taste.❤️❤️❤️

[@Designer239]

Jafael Petals Me too!

[@Designer239]

Wendy Testaburger What does “ STEMS “ mean?

[@cherryspice1011]

Jafael Petals yeah same, but they definitely aren't a lot of them

[@cassyarvin9398]

One time I tried to change the way I present myself. I started wearing hoodies more, and not wearing makeup. I'm happy I stopped doing that.

[@isabelrayla2228]

me at 2:30: there isn’t a man that’s the point heather seconds later: there isn’t a man and that’s the whole point me: I PREDICT THE FUTUREEEE🤯

[@glorimardelacruz3573]

I’m also feminine lesbian ❤️

[@KAmbler222]

Glorimar Delacruz saaaame

[@sarahdaviscc]

"A badass girl who likes girls who just happens to dress in a more feminine way". I love this so much.

[@natalie-cu3to]

I’m a total Shakespeare nerd, and whenever anyone says they’re a ‘bottom’ I’m like haha hee haw

[@eisblatttonks7156]

I-have-no-idea-whether-I'm-femme-or-not-SQUAD where you at?😂🌈

[@andie-castillo]

legit everything you said was 100% relatable! the next time i get asked one of these questions, i’m just going to send this video to them. all the love, heather! 💗💗

[@isabellakatelyn]

I love your lgbt+ content :)

[@radixandi6178]

😬

[@DaveGrohlsprincess]

Is it bad to be half masculine and half femme 😐 cause idk wtf I am

[@heatherwotherspoon7313]

not at all! the way you express yourself is totally up to you and what makes you feel comfortable! :)

[@DaveGrohlsprincess]

Heather Wotherspoon :) thanks

[@hilary8533]

Hi Heather, I love your videos! You have helped me so much in my coming out. Sometimes when I have a hard day at school I come home and watch one of your videos because it makes me smile and feel less alone. Thank you for that ❤️

[@JWR03KF9]

Rather than ask who is the man.... Who is initiative? Who is the lead? Who is the dominant switch and/or top? Who likes to get moved on first?

[@loverrlee]

THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!! 💯💯💯 Omg as a bi woman I can so relate. I don’t like the stereotype that there has to be a certain “look.” Why are these two things equated?? I just don’t understand the logic (or lack thereof). I’m femme and extremely attracted to femme women. 💄💋

[@coravelasquez]

I'm extremely proud of you for coming out at a young age. I didn't come out until I was 32, and that's only because I wanted to be completely sure. I regret the time I lost. I'm in my late 40's now and I'm loving lesbianism. I have one question. Like you, I'm femme and always will be. I'm also only attracted to femme women. That makes it harder to know which beautiful women might be also attracted to me. This is my first time seeing your channel, so I hope my question isn't inappropriate. My question is... since you're obviously beautiful, and I feel I am as well, would you date a woman 20+ years older than yourself?

[@jonnelmikeehcamagong4654]

I want gf rn

[@mynameissiddharth]

She's so beautiful. She has such a nice voice, such a pretty face, such deep beautiful eyes. I'm sure boys got sad when she didn't show any interest in them. May God bless her.

[@barnaliadhikary9421]

But lesbians got too happy

[@davidstratton696]

A lot of these r about people assuming your straight and I’d just like to say that when I’m talking to someone or whatever and don’t know their sexual orientation I use neutral terms (like they and what not) in order to not assume. Of course it’s a different story if I know their sexual orientation. Btw I myself am a straight male.

[@sarahmccoy1941]

What is wrong with presenting as a beautiful woman? Does a woman have to get a buzz cut, and wear jeans and a leather jacket to qualify of lesbian membership cards?

[@barnaliadhikary9421]

Exactly... There are all ridiculous expectations...these stem from stereotypical heteronormativity ideologies of PATRIARCHY

[@kasandra6171]

I seriously like your content, you’re really open with your fans and you always try to help them. Right now I’m super confused about my sexuality, cause I don’t know if I like girls too or if I just want to be them (I have terribly low self-esteem). I’m really afraid of myself and I just want to know who I am. Nevermind, thank you so much for giving us confidence and advices, seriously you’re saving my life sometimes. Greetings from Poland (it’s very intolerant country, we’ve got there some non LGBTQ+ zones).

[@heatherwotherspoon7313]

Cassie i’m so sorry to hear that you’re struggling. figuring out your sexuality can be SUPER confusing but it’ll happen with time. i’m glad that my videos can help even a little bit though! sending my love!

[@shenncapote5424]

Yes youre right cassie we are really so the same :( im afraid to know who i am im so very confused. Theres something in my self i want to clarify... thats why im still single im afraid to fail for my decision ..

[@raschidmalik464]

I am a homosexual man. I also experience it with men that they struggle with their sexuality. I believe that our core identity is suppressed through upbringing. And need to restore the true identity and actively work on it. This is a long process

[@sainttheresetaylor2054]

why would you be scared of yourself ?

[@fuzzzia6136]

Love has no gender🥰🥰🥰💙

[@hermione7860]

I love your voice; it’s so soft and calm and charming

[@natashajohn2517]

I'm not too femme girl but not too boyish too but i like femme girls🥰😅

[@MediaBuster]

Why are you whispering?

[@mariannagiann4766]

Today I watched all your videos in a row and I don’t regretted ;)

[@abraham9181]

💞👍I really do like the video Heather, it wonderful what you said about femme lesbian👍💞

[@BlackCrystalAlchemis]

is it okay to be femme & sometimes like to wear more masculine clothes? like wearing feminine outfits with a masculine twist & vice versa. would this be considered gender non-conforming?

[@pinless_grenade]

Sure I do that all the time. It could also be considered stem.

[@BlackCrystalAlchemis]

@@pinless_grenade i've heard of stem but i don't really know what it means. i'll have to look more into it.

[@BlackCrystalAlchemis]

@Liv Mawhinney ohh okay. thank you!

[@Designer239]

Is it really ok for me to show my love to other females? Cuz I’m just not really sure if I should do that.

[@heatherwotherspoon7313]

it is! be who you are and love who you love!

[@Designer239]

Heather Wotherspoon Thank you ☺️ I’m a female too, but um I’m trying my best to love the females. But um I just don’t know, like who exactly that I wanna love. Can you please make a vid for me, because I’m still single and I’m looking for another female for me to love and to woo. Please help me!

[@llama4178]

I’m a mix between a femme lesbian and a stud lesbian

[@justinfelton5323]

Hey,Heather.☺☺☺☺☺☺. This is super amazing video q and a.💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜. My favorite question is: If I see a girl at my high school or at college (when she is lesbian or not), what is the idea to become one?☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@mariajuliamarinho1243]

fav youtuber!!!

[@victoriabangrine9396]

thank u for providing subtitles in portuguese, i loved the video =)

[@baileyhayvener6146]

Hello this is such a helpful video because I have recently come out to my friends as bisexual and its nice to see someone kind of explain how this works

[@lorenellecajimat5113]

💗💗💗

[@stevenschoenfeld5751]

I have a gay question to ask you if I may please? Are all female athletes on sports teams gay and why are they all athletic? I love the video and as a man I learned a lot thank you for sharing this, great video I enjoyed watching this ✌️❤️👍

[@lovelybutterfly8681]

you express your self well🙂

[@fatimarodriguez4508]

1 minute later..... *I liked your video* ......2 minutes later..... *I became your subscriber* .... i can relate to your personality girl..... great expressions of insights

[@subninja8069]

Regarding to the Super straight meme.... Are we Super lesbian?

[@kiarraanton6685]

Its literally so hard being a fem attracted to fems lol

[@Alice-wm5oj]

It gets so annoying when you here ‘ REALLY 😱 you don’t look gay’

[@LadyLuvsNatr]

I love the sound of your voice. You are very well spoken. Well done video.

[@tahlia9966]

ilysm💞

[@deIcorazon]

thank you for your videos :( you're the best

[@isicem.8272]

Ily

[@marxel6231]

I love you

[@devasavant9252]

Your so cool

[@carlamilezamacanlalay534]

I love it how confident u are

[@justrachel6903]

👌

[@katrinaroberts6704]

yay, my question was in here 🥺

[@bigkenfytb]

First & ilysmmm 🤟🏽💞

[@laminsillah7161]

Hey I love you will you date me??

[@kxndyyy]

did u read the title

[@laminsillah7161]

Yes I did

[@tamia7032]

Hi

[@ttvpornhub7060]

Am I the only straight boi here???