being compared to siblings. HAVEN'T I GIVEN ENOUGH?

[@melodys2717]

JAZZYYYY why does your explanation sound exactly like me when I was younger!!??? Like I remember whenever I lost in even like tying my shoelaces faster than other kids I would beat myself up about it and be so competitive and brag whenever I got the chance because I just needed to feel the acceptance of the others and how I’m superior like them and even now whilst I’m in my part of life that doesn’t criticise myself even sometimes on bad days I can find myself subtly bragging to someone to feel nice!!????? And I was so hard on myself I had to be the best at EVERYTHINGGGGGG. On top of this, I would always think I could get better results if I did it myself and the others just held me down. sorry for anyone reading my rants

[@vriddhinavalakha2509]

Same and then parents are like you should always be free to talk to us "sure mom and sure dad"

[@kavyanallani889]

Jazz has all the experiences and she gives us all advice

[@aikamdhillon2010]

This is the most relatable video she’s done about Asian parents

[@CLEliasArt]

Preach! ❤❤❤❤You get to decide what the definition of success is in your life. That’s the only definition that matters. That is TRUTH.

[@Hinatsuru-San]

Me when I saw the title: 'HAVENT I GIVEN ENOUGH? GIVEN ENOUGH? HAVENT I GIVEN ENOUGH? GIVEN ENOUGH? ALWAYS THE FOOL WITH THE SLOWEST HE-'

[@vinshay1497]

AYYY Gilded Lily ref!!!!

[@NereidaYao-zy6nw]

Jazzy, you’re just Explaining me in a shorter version of myself I give myself so much pressure to point if I do not get the grade I want I will cry at least six times a week.

[@kathrynson850]

Yes. So true. LITERALLY!!! Like I just stepped out of law school to help with finances and my cousin who did law school after me is getting all these credits. Like... wth? That doesn't mean she's better it literally just means I should have done what I wanted to do as soon as I finished college and that's to go to work at a young age, giving me time to save money so that when emergencies happen, I can still continue with my master plan. My cousin's family is just richer thus she was able to continue until pandemic was over. That's it!

[@Moon_Cristal1234]

I didn’t grow up in an Asian household but honestly this is still really relatable. Being the youngest my dad for the most part had expectations on me because my older brother was always smart and had made his standards higher by that. Even though he doesn’t say it for the most part he still sometimes says things like “you know this” or “you can do this” even though I don’t. It still happens and is really frustrating

[@user-vk5tn7ji5b]

that is exactly like me when i was younger like use to literally throw all the uno cards if i lost in a game of uno and all of the other things that you said is exactly the same with my parents like them comparing me to my cousins saying it was supposed to "motivate" me especially because i was an only child so all the burden of expectations was on me😭😭

[@Echo-Gamerz]

FOR REAL IM SO TIERD OF BEING COMPARED TO MY COUSIN!!!!!!!!!😡😡😡😡😡

[@nagrajkolvekar6137]

True

[@BimalaAcchami]

Me too I am sick of it

[@airtiger4577]

My sister in arms feels your pain.

[@Its_Mickey10]

Same! My cousin is 2 years older than me and 50% of what my grandma tells me about are her achievements

[@YuviPhour]

@@Its_Mickey10same but it a boy cousin

[@MickeyNcat]

As an Asian I actually can’t relate to this as I grew up with not too strict parents in Australia. They had low expectations for me which is sort of a good thing but all my friends at school were exactly like you Jaz, very competitive and achieving medals, making their parents proud and happy. I always thought I had let my parents down and they have given up on hoping that I would achieve anything. Now whenever I am in a competition or a game ( UNO for example) I would feel really anxious and scared I will let my team down or make a fool of myself when I lose.

[@aesthx_blinks]

As a single child Im always compared with my friends 😭

[@dinosauraur]

Jazzz, thank you for giving me the push to appreciate myself! Luv you so much girlieeee💖

[@IamZahra6]

Thank you so much for your support jazmine but i kinda always feel like my parents (my mom. My parents are divorced) don’t like me and seeing other kids my age makes me feel kinda different and lonely because I have 4 other siblings and she kind of tells me bad word like “if I die, you are going to be its reason” or “you are such a headache”…. Thanks a lot for your motivation!!❤ Love you always❤️❤️🥰😘

[@himasha3125]

so true that comparison thing really get on my nerves

[@Mellohi_404]

and now look at the confident girl we have now!❤

[@ridhwan7255]

This didn't happen much for me as a child, but I was fragile and really needed that love and support. It still hurts but now that I've started seeing there's more to life than vanity, I'm VERY ready to respectful tell ANYONE off to never do that to me or my siblings else they risk harming out relationship VERY clearly. People need to do better

[@ArishaMalik-nj4rg]

I really really love the way you say "Ok I love you byee"💖 Oh my god 😍 especially the BYEEE 😘💘 I love itttt

[@deepapattnaik3454]

Finally someone who says being content is success. But I truely believe having money laying around in bank account is very important because you never know what health crisis may occur.

[@shreya5457]

U r so beautiful 😭✊️

[@Ashley__rania]

Why is it so relatable😭

[@AwasthiJii-so9sy]

Jazzzz u know what you're inspiration of many girls mann..... okiii lovee you bayeeee😅❤

[@RabeyaKhatun-vi2pw]

You are a real it girl 💓💓

[@sanhitadas3719]

I loveeee u soooo much jazzz! Can u pls make a video about friends?

[@asimrana2632]

girl I love your atittude your style and also you amazing and motivating love you. love from India

[@Zoey_Liontiger]

This is so real.

[@sharadakafle5725]

Yea true and when they compare you infornt of someone even worse

[@aagggaa9623]

Ok, short storytime. This video is literally so relatable. When I was like 8 or 9 years old, my parents always compared me and my lil sis. I used to care, but now I just don't. I don't have to be as good as someone else, to be great. I don't have to be better than everyone else to be great. I just have to be enough for me. Btw, I'm 11, turning 12 this year. (Just in case: 😊 please don't be like those people, who say "aren't you too young to be in the comment section" My life, my choice.)

[@Idkhashtaglol]

Why is this so true!?

[@Unniex985_]

Tbh i m really exhausted of that fuc*ing trauma that happens when someone compares me to my sibling.

[@Hello.bitches33]

FRR my mom always compares me to my cousin even tho her parents are MUCH MORE chill than mine her parents UNDERSTAND her unlike mine who are always ready to get into arguments

[@khadijahkhan9456]

The first thing that came to my mind "haven't I given enough haven't I given enough"🎵

[@vijayatripathi9124]

Love you girlyyy

[@leesapradhan1474]

Bro, I'm telling you.I wish I had a friend like her who had told me so many things about life where I didn't have to make those mistakes when it comes to men when it comes to parents or teenage

[@user-mm2ty2cx3b]

Every thing she told about her being competitive in the past is my present self

[@user-gc6zj8jt3r]

jazzy gurl LOOKS LIKE YOUR LIKE ME ASIAN PARETS NO GROUP WORKS. WHEN YOU SAID THAT A PERSON WHO IS TRUELY SUCESS FUL..... GURL I AGRREE WITH U U ARE SLAYYY QUEEN AND SUCESSFUL

[@smritidua2960]

THANK YOU JAZZY!! ❤

[@Mio13068]

"yOu kNoW yOuR cOuSiN kEvIn iS dOiNg vErY wEllEh?" 😂😂😂😂

[@idkwhatsmyhandle]

I think all Asian parents do that because mine do that too 😭

[@ananyasharma_25]

I am so happy to be an asian whose parents are really good ❤

[@AngelinaHolden-wq1iv]

Love you always too ❤

[@BimalaAcchami]

She is so damn real for making this video asian parents sometimes cross the limits of comparing their children to their siblings or cousins i am a teen and boy my own cousin like my biggest enemy Love ya jazzy thanku for making my day sis✨💕

[@yinix_Alexuhope]

My parents would compare me to my 6-7 YEARS APART SIBLINGS JUST BECAUSE OF RESULTS, THEY COMPARING LIKE 'oh, why cant you be as hardworking as your siblings and be more responsible' AND FOR THE SMALLEST OF THINGS THOSE TWO WOULD ACT LIKE THEY ARE THE VICTIMS WHEN THEY DON'T TAKE ACTION FOR THEIR OWN WORK, GETTING ME SCOLDED AND WHAT NOT. EVEN COMPARED TO MY OLDER COUSINS

[@FourishedDaydream]

Attention🌷💌🤍 The queen has posted

[@Snowfoxxyy]

Ikr Arab parents are the same it sucks

[@Anjela_ART]

Baby girl being a big sister is hard. I talk for my experience as a big f sister 😔😂😁

[@rezajafary2051]

Bravo!

[@Hazelnut_13]

Yeaaah! That's right 😂❤❤😅😊

[@karmahadid]

Well, jasmine. U r a fighter. My parents did that also but yeah... im still a loser n not motivate enough to become successful 😅

[@SanviSingh-ek2pt]

SO TRUE! thats all i can say SO TRUE!

[@flowergirl-1523]

For real😂

[@Naomi_77740]

They always compare me too😭😭

[@user-ko5kh2pb5m]

Im here early before famous love your videos

[@garigari5245]

Hi Jaz, any experience on encountering toxic boy mums? Any tips on handling this special creatures? 😂 They're weirdly so obsessive of their son, and super combative of other female presence in their son's life, to the point of borderline lunatic. It's a huge contrast, her behaviour around my fiancee's sisters/ her own daughters and my fiancee/her son 😅

[@asimrana2632]

i am a girl and thankyou for this sibling......... advice

[@user-hf7zs3yq1h]

Fr I hate being compared

[@Birdie1212]

Hi ❤

[@lola_xxy7630]

Jelly beans/ jawbreaker/ jelly rings / jolly rancher

[@PrimordialOracleOfManyWorlds]

jaz, you are not alone. my sister was compared until she got her life together and used her god-gifted genius intelligence that she neglected for years, went to the fashion institute of technology and university of Massachusetts, became a buyer at Macy's, rose to be a VP of Macy's. she was married for 30 years until her husband died of a heart attack. she had it all.

[@Filmproplus]

your content is like watching a good anime character girl.

[@BLINKDOM_.]

Frrr🤧

[@ThasaraGamage]

THIS IS MY INNER VOICE RN😭😭😩😩

[@user-xr2fv5cy6i]

I KNOW RIGHTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

[@blossomed4695]

Same

[@rainydecember6784]

compared to cousins? always and foreverrrrrrrrrrrrr its the way of our living actually they know no other way of life then this their marks their passion their hobbies everything is compared to us specially if u are of same age

[@sooyaasauce]

im just THAT cousin 🤷‍♀️

[@kayleetran1214]

my life:👁👄👁

[@shilpisharma9153]

Jazz tell me more I’m so sick of it but lemme first compliment ur pretty hair colour

[@GiRL_NeXT_DOoR77]

So true 😂 also first pin plz 😢 l love your vids

[@kyoha9840]

Well I was the cousin that parents will compare you with(;

[@X9Larvva]

rel

[@user-of4nu9yq4y]

can i please get pinned ur my only confidence when im low

[@dafialatas4179]

setuju jazmine 4 vice president,

[@dafialatas4179]

after this i will subtle disobey to parents order, proportionally listen to their interest, and give them, what they need , without sacrificing my interest

[@fahmidabegum1168]

I AM EARLYYYYY

[@pondering1716]

Kinda morbid, so only read if you like digging through the dirt... There will be a time in all of our lives when death comes for us - only us - and everyone else gets to continue on living. It's like a big unfair wall being put between you and the world that you can't tear down. At that moment of disconnection, say, looking at children playing in a park, you'll realize how precious having your whole life ahead of you is. Don't waste it being someone else. There's no room for "fitting in" once that wall goes up

[@sharadakafle5725]

I am first

[@missisha6349]

I am first I am first😂

[@spiritual_pragun]

You still going to be single/divorcee!!

[@user-xx3dv7yw1x]

Your mom wanted you to be a Doctor, so the rebellious in you became a KZbinr. Try to convince them that you make twice as much money now making videos

[@JennieFan512]

Pls pin me ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Poulomi7866]

For a 2:23 video she did 7 times that "so called" bunny ear thing with her two fingers .....like seriously you're so so sooo overacting girl ...

[@Not_a_bot_sub_to_me]

Fr! The lasting competitive effect is so real