Proud of Reylia and Johnna Slaby! Adversity only made them stronger!
@MaHennessy Жыл бұрын
Oh wow! My girls are twins and are half American half British but we live in Yokohama. They go to Japanese schools and their experience is quite different but also very similar! Japan is amazing and I love this video. Thank you Rayleigh and Joanna for sharing your story! You are so talented! I wish you all the best!
@Scrub_Lord-en7cq Жыл бұрын
Half-American?
@negationf6973 Жыл бұрын
@@Scrub_Lord-en7cq They probably have an American parent.
@pennify2079 Жыл бұрын
@@Scrub_Lord-en7cqone parent is American and the other is British
@lebellees-double-you2827 Жыл бұрын
Fascinating interview. Their parents were so strict on homeschooling that they missed out on Japanese friends and full Japanese integration yet they didnt have American integration either. Im surprised that they have turned out so well balanced despite the cultural and social isolation
@urbanws1234 Жыл бұрын
You only assume cultural and Social isolation from home schooling. In Every Country in the world, even you were born there, perfectly speak the language, and blend in 99% You are an outsider, and will be classified separately. Asian Countries are among the worst to exhibit actions like that even if done politely with a smile on their face. The result they experienced will be felt equally by someone who attended public school. Saying it is done from a place of good intent and they did not mean it is how all ensure it will continue unabated for a VERY long time. Every country practices Nationalism in their own way. I Believe they are lucky to have the life they do and the blessings they have are unique.
@yo2trader539 Жыл бұрын
Not having any formal Japanese education may impede their opportunity in everything from naturalization, mortgages, employment, etc. If their parents were Japanese citizens, I think it would have been illegal to not enroll them in school. I don't know what happened.
@viz8746 Жыл бұрын
Twins are never alone.
@MaxDCapo Жыл бұрын
Long awaited post. I had audio issues (again), that’s why Johnna’s audio only sounds crisp. But finally have fixed this for future interviews by buying completely new mics. No more issues to come, fingers crossed. Sneak peak to new interviews btw O__O: - Bilingual Harajuku DJ girl (should be up this month) instagram.com/bananaoka/?hl=en - Kazuo (rapper) interview instagram.com/kazuotv/?hl=en Stay tuned and follow me on Instagram or support on Patreon for more updates!
@jeffreybroussely9795 Жыл бұрын
Loved the interview. Maybe I missed this, but before they 'taught' themselves Japanese, what was their level? Did their parents ever speak Japanese at home or just English since they were homeschooled?
@MaxDCapo Жыл бұрын
@@jeffreybroussely9795 they told me that basically schooling was English, home life was English, could rarely go outside, but they would try to make friends on the bus or with neighborhood elderly people. And I believe children of family friends, even including meeting Joji / Filthy frank 😂Other than that primarily English it seems like.
@DanDanJanJanJP Жыл бұрын
Max, one question for you to ask in these interviews with "foreigners" that were born in Japan and lived here most of their lives: why don't you naturalize? I know Japanese law for naturalization is antiquate (beginning with the fact that citizenship itself only comes via ascendancy, not by being born in Japan), but since they feel at home here, why not naturalizing?
@atatur123 Жыл бұрын
@@DanDanJanJanJP You pretty much answered your own question there. I remember Jazmine (the British girl) saying that she can't naturalize since she doesn't have any Japanese ancestry. A lot of Asian countries (though not all) still function this way.
@giselle4418 Жыл бұрын
I was a blonde, blue eyed child that grew up in Hawaii, with a lot of influences from Japan. I could relate to much of what Raylia and Johnna were talking about. Both twins are SO talented and amazing. I wish them continued inspiration and success.😊❣
@moniquehuchet3646 Жыл бұрын
I can understand their parents emigrating with the intention of going back “home” it happened to us from France to Canada and with 4 children 6 years later choosing to stay. I envy you Kansai, I visited my daughter and her husband living near Kobe for several years and fell in love with Japan.
@lairddougal38337 ай бұрын
Hey Max Thanks so much for these segments. They are so interesting and informative.
Amazing story, loved it! Shame that we didn’t get to go on a tour of their house!! Also very interesting to see the differences (and similarities) in personality between the two. I’m a Japanese who moved to the States in high school and lived in the U.S. for decades so totally understand the struggle and identity crisis, though in a opposite way. At the end of the day we must all overcome in our own way regardless of circumstances. Excellent video and thanks for posting!
@user-eb9pv4dw5p9 Жыл бұрын
I love KZbin for presenting me with so many amazing individuals.
The girls not quite right American english accent was noticeable. Learning American english from their parents but not living in an American community but with Japanese as a 2nd first language. Fascinating and enjoyable interview 👍
@LIL-MAN_theOG Жыл бұрын
I disagree, like their parents, their English sounds like the American Midwest accent...if youre where I am from they sound normal to me. Most people who live outside the states are not used to the American accent from the midwest region which can sound either super plain without a heavy accent (like Boston, Southern, Californian or Texan..) or can have an accent that is similar to those who live in northern Wisconsin, Minnesota, Michigan and Montana which sounds more Canadian.
@fluffysnow7298 Жыл бұрын
This is interesting because at first I thought they were speaking English in a Japanese accent or an accent that would make them more understandable to native Japanese not considering the Midwest America influence. Maybe it’s a combination accent - unique to them.
@jub8891 Жыл бұрын
fascinating perspectives from the twins in this interview..
I love the fact that when they speak to each other, they naturally switch to japanese!! Sassuga ne!!
@GoodKong.BadKong Жыл бұрын
As an Asian American, I can relate to some of their experiences growing up a minority in upstate New York. People treated me as a foreigner more when I was a child, even though I was born in NY, but I think that was more due to the times. These days foreigners and minorities are more common now so I don't really see a whole lot of discrimination or none at all. Either that, or I just look scary so people don't bother me. I do consider myself American through and through. But its fascinating seeing the other side of the fence, we aren't so different after all.
@patharrison5061 Жыл бұрын
I lived in Japan for a few years as an adult. It's so interesting listen to Johnna and Reylia talk about the discrimination that was allowed. I understood as an actual foreign, it must have been so frustrating when the place you grew up was Japan.
@superviewer8 ай бұрын
Two amazing inspiring women. Thanks for another great insight.
@svmanana5852 Жыл бұрын
These young ladies are amazing, Kudos to them and to you Max for interviewing them. But, I've raised kids to adulthood, and it's a red flag for me that they went out on their own at 16 - it would be an extraordinary set of circumstances for me to agree to allowing my girls to fend for themselves at that age. I must admit my curiosity about their family dynamics. Still, they seem happy and contented, so more power to them - and you!
@alp9 Жыл бұрын
yeah they are amazing. with the solid insisance of their parents on homeschooling, I believe they are exteremely conservative in a way, maybe about religion. but hey, they turned out amazing.
@louloulouable Жыл бұрын
@@alp9 I wont say much because these girls are not their parents, but yes it is very apparent from her mum's social media that she is religious and in my opinion a conspiracy theorist
@TheMan21892 Жыл бұрын
I have heard of children as young as 15 traveling on their own(notably in Europe where it’s very easy and affordable to travel), as well as in Japan where there was even a television show centered on elementary age children traveling all on their own for the first time.
Me too! Born and raised in Nara, Japan! But now live in the states.
@kubapuchar7069 Жыл бұрын
To make things more interesting, I believe they are Americans of Polish origin, because their surname: "słaby" means "weak" in Polish. And it is pretty common for Polish words/names to lose Polish-specific characters ( "l" instead of "ł") when written in English-speaking countries. Słaby is not extremely popular surname in Poland, but not so rare either.
@WMitty2112 Жыл бұрын
I love that they watched Ranma 1/2! That was one of the first anime that I ever watched and it's still my favorite.
@gregorytoddsmith9744 Жыл бұрын
An enjoyable interview. You two have a unique story and perspective. Best wishes.
@etherdog Жыл бұрын
From the clock on the wall, that interview took no time at all! Interesting perspective from the twins, but it seems the stories of the hafu and "born in Japan foreigners" have a lot of common elements.
@Ann12681 Жыл бұрын
Their parents loved Japan but insulated their children so they didn’t speak the language or integrate into the general society? They are delightful girls with very different personalities. It is very difficult to be from a different race in countries that are not heterogeneous
@DanDanJanJanJP Жыл бұрын
A strange form of love in deed. Many foreigners see Japan as an amusement park and they believe they can get along by just observing it from inside a bubble. It is fine when you do not have your kids with you. When you do, you have to think about them.
@natalierebolledo9796 Жыл бұрын
Maybe they didn't like the school system, it is super focus on academic performance, kids have barely vacations, and as they grow older it gets even more time consuming, I don't think that school system would have encourage them or even allowed them to develop the art and creative side that they both have and have made their careers off. So I guess, they lost something but they also won something.
@DanDanJanJanJP Жыл бұрын
@@natalierebolledo9796 Yeah! Not going to school=artistic creativity sprouting. That is why all the great artists of the world come from underdeveloped countries where lots of kids don't go to school.
@yo2trader539 Жыл бұрын
How do they file tax or sign contracts without Japanese language?
@sddfsfsfsd Жыл бұрын
They are from Wisconsin, a lot of super white people over there who have their little "islands" over there, mainly in Wisconsin and Michigan, super Christian people that prefer not to mix with the rest of the people, they live in a big house with a lot of kids in the middle of nowhere
@tibowmew Жыл бұрын
It's funny becuase I got this same thing growing up in the US. Both of my parents are African, so I look more African that African-American. People therefore assume that I'm an immigrant and don't speak English well. The sheer number of times I've been told that my English is "so good". And it's funny watching people try and dance around with questions like "Where are you from?" "America." "No, but where are you FROM?"
@Heidi2003 Жыл бұрын
Love this type of content! Awesome
@Nepartinis Жыл бұрын
Had pleasure to listen to it!
@Kokanee604 Жыл бұрын
Keep it up! Congrats on 100K subs 👍.
@MaxDCapo Жыл бұрын
Almost there! 🎉 appreciate it
@workthentravel Жыл бұрын
I so love when they suddenly switch from enlish to Japaneae
@asdfghjjhgf Жыл бұрын
Speaking of buying a home in Japan, Canada has banned foreigners from buying homes as of this year. It is quite a challenge for foreigners to rent or buy a house in many countries not only in Japan.
@light80050 Жыл бұрын
True.
@roguechevelle Жыл бұрын
That is true but I could see it being extra frustrating if you were born in a country, lived there all your life, and are naturalized as a citizen but still people won't let you buy a home.
@giselle4418 Жыл бұрын
Canada is trying to stop investors buying up all of the homes, just to let them sit empty. With a shortage of available homes, the prices have gone stratospheric.
@kareemnishkor9728 Жыл бұрын
Wow. England needs to be more like Canada
@aristired6252 Жыл бұрын
Yes. It was a way to combat foreign companies buying up houses that people could use. However, it has been done in a way and doesn’t address the immediate issues that it causes foreign students, workers, migrants etc which I agree is really concerning. I think you have to be in Canada for a year before buying a house which is unfortunate. But it’s not quite for the same reason as in Japan (where it’s because it’s too difficult, threatening, unreliable etc.)
@MsShanarun Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experiences!
@jagion Жыл бұрын
Another banger, good job man!
@MaxDCapo Жыл бұрын
Wait til the next one comes out in a couple days bro👀👀
@jamesburns6603 Жыл бұрын
I laughed when you said you watched Ranma 1/2 when you were younger. That was one of the first anime I was introduced to back in the early 90's.
@SuperKokuJin916 Жыл бұрын
This was another great interview, Max! Some parts of their story remind me of Tiffany's (another great interviewee on your channel). Unique stories and experiences of foreigners born/raised in Japan (especially outside of the big city of Tokyo) are so interesting to me. I like hearing people speak Kansai-ben trying to pick up the differences. We even have the same favorite manga/anime!😆 It's my siblings and closest friends' favorite too. My older brother introduced me and my older sister to the manga back in the early 90's and we were hooked! It made me want to find and enjoy Takahashi-san's previous works. I'm so glad I did. Maison Ikkoku is my personal favorite but Ranma 1/2 is my forever love! I can't wait for more of these interviews! 🙂
@MaxDCapo Жыл бұрын
First off, I love the username SuperKokujin😂 Okay I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks Rumiko Takahashi makes bangers. Ranma 1/2 has a special place in my heart even though I never finished the series, I always thought the guy to girl transformation and Vice versa was hilarious. And InuYasha just feels like it hit a sweet spot for me. Sesshomaru still cool af too lol
I know the US and Japan are different countries, obviously, but there are laws in the United States making it illegal to deny someone housing based on ethnicity or culture. The reason for this is because the practice of discrimination is based upon _assumptions_ about how people _might_ behave, in other words pre-judging them without knowing them (as you have done in your example). Many Black and Asian people were not allowed to live in certain neighborhoods before these laws were enacted.
@julianneheindorf5757 Жыл бұрын
Not fair of the parents to homeschool the kids and then not ensure that they speak Japanese as native speakers. There is a big difference in speaking a language as a native speaker than only speaking it as a second language. The parents insistence on home schooling in an environment not their own instead of sending the kids to a school to ensure their proper integration into Japanese society was a big disservice to their kids. I grew up in a country that was not the native country of my American mother, and I was sent to a local school, yet my mother did insist that I study English at home as she wanted me to be a fluent native speaker in English
@TheZenomeProject Жыл бұрын
Yay! You finally posted this! I was really looking forward to watching this because I'm somewhat familiar with and I really enjoy Johnna's work as a painter. Nara seems like a really interesting place to grow up in, but it's also difficult to understand from an American perspective like my own as to why they it's so hard to own a home even as someone who, for all intents and purposes, should be considered Japanese. It's difficult to imagine myself walking in the same shoes, but I'm also pretty sure that if I was raised with the same background, even if I looked the same way, that I would be far more adamant than they would be in proclaiming myself as Japanese.
@mctapoutos7426 Жыл бұрын
DEAR lord these two are annoying big time ...
@momchilyordanov8190 Жыл бұрын
I'm not Japanese or American, but find these stories very interesting, no idea why. Maybe they show a little know aspect of Japanese society? And tell what it is like to grow up as one of "the others" in general? I don't know. Cool channel, I watched several videos here already.
The girl in the blue sweater has such a magnetic personality 😊
@Kojimochi Жыл бұрын
Another great vid Max!
@MaxDCapo Жыл бұрын
Thank you serrr🫣🙏
@taylorgay1641 Жыл бұрын
このインタビューしてありがとうございます。
@GoemonLovesFujiko Жыл бұрын
Like your channel. Pro tip- Please mic yourself tho to keep your sound between you and your interviewees consistent. You’re doing a great thing here telling these stories so would be great to have proper archival quality audio.
@chickenfriedwaffles Жыл бұрын
Did you not see the mic on his shirt?
@GoemonLovesFujiko Жыл бұрын
@@chickenfriedwaffles a mic, clipped on the shirt or not, is useless if it’s not turned on or at the appropriate level.
I do understand some aspects of this, despite living in a country that mostly speaks the same language as mine (I'm Irish, living in England). There's a lot of cultural differences that make both countries feel really isolating. I moved to England when I was 5 with my parents, and never really fit in. Many of my friends are people who have mixed or non-English heritage, and oddly enough, I don't actually know anyone who is Irish either, outside my family, so it feels weird trying to connect back to my home heritage too. I'm definitely Irish, I have an Irish passport, and if anyone asks, I'm not a British citizen, I'm not English, I'm 100% Irish, but going back there, even though it's really not that far away, it just feels very... distant. Like I don't belong. Of course, surprise, turns out I'm disabled too (Epilepsy, ASD, ADHD), which I'm certain added to the 'not belonging'-ness. I bet trying to live in Japan with everything I've built up so far might be even harder. But it would be nice to go there some day, to at least experience the place.
@Tazer_Silverscar Жыл бұрын
@Kiryu Kazuma Why thank you, Yakuza protagonist, while we're dishing out the compliments, you're just a weird guy too. 👍
@mctapoutos7426 Жыл бұрын
Weird , why would your parents move to landlords to the Brit overlords? But then on the other hand you not missing much in Ireland , junkies, rats , vomits everywhere on Saturday morning , fighting , young woman acting like total trash ...yeah if you have a nice home then stay there but on the other hand UK is really depressing as well , I would probably recommend a place where the second language is English so you can survive just with English first few months and then learn the native language. Unless you under age then stay home and study .
@Tazer_Silverscar Жыл бұрын
@@mctapoutos7426 Well, this was pre-Celtic Tiger Ireland. Income where we were was kinda awful, and my parents were both educated in sectors that didn't pay well in Ireland. They couldn't afford to be picky. Pay was much better over here at the time, so it was more a case of need rather than want. I just couldn't adapt to the change in environment. But as I've suggested, that might be a disability issue rather than the environment itself (I wasn't diagnosed when we moved, and really, details on those disabilities, and how a change in environment would affect them, were still kinda sketchy at the time). I don't think there's much difference between Ireland and England now, but back then, the change would have felt enormous, and aspects of that still make it hard to connect with either country even now. Just the way it is 🤷 I have considered returning to Ireland (especially when the Brexit debacle started kicking off), but from what I've heard, health support over there is still not sufficient. Until that changes, I'm kinda stuck. I am using the time to try to work and study in the meantime, but progress is slow 😅
@mctapoutos7426 Жыл бұрын
@@Tazer_Silverscar weather is just fantastic in Eire 😂🤣but its the same in UK, yeah if you OK in UK stay there health service is actually not as bad but definitely not great.
@Tazer_Silverscar Жыл бұрын
@@mctapoutos7426 Weather's pretty bad here, right now, lol. I'm fine when there's a bit of rain, but it's been pissing it down for nearly two weeks straight. Need a break 😅
@cooey2ph Жыл бұрын
very entertaining interview. the twins are lovely
@leaveittolefty Жыл бұрын
what amazing photography😮
@太郎山田-y8p Жыл бұрын
ほぼ10万人登録者達成おめでとう㊗
@theMyouknow Жыл бұрын
Ranma 1/2 is so good, its a good starter anime if you grew up around that time or Lu by Urusei Yatsura.
@shelleynichols9626 Жыл бұрын
OMG the QR code! Hilarious! Loved this interview. Great stuff Max.
@oldenslo4141 Жыл бұрын
The clock needs a new battery (batteries). Very interesting, thank you.
@capitalb5889 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking it was a strange time of day for an interview
@designdoctor247 Жыл бұрын
6:36 As a teacher and then counselor in the American schools...after age 13 students r honestly "on their own" here toooo i mean...by that age we give assignments and they complete them. yes age 13 to 18 and "for sure" college is allllll about personal DISCIPLINE and personal goal setting.
@miked4152 Жыл бұрын
I love natto too and I'm 100% American. The first time I ever ate natto my Japanese friend gave to me. At first I was like what am I doing and then I thought a lot of Japanese eat it so it must be ok....lol. So eventually I came to like it and my favorite way to eat it is out of the box with soy sauce and hot mustard. Cho oishi....lol. 😂
@t.m.y7033 Жыл бұрын
I bet you won’t eat the fish sperm. Forgot the name
@alexlilano1931 Жыл бұрын
As an Asian American, I didn't know White people experienced the same thing as me. I have to say that White people were way more mean and blunt about me being Asian though.
@pasyensyatv9092 Жыл бұрын
wow twins and both artists!
@sarahdrio4623 Жыл бұрын
T'was a great interview!
@orlandol.telesforo9597 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your video. ☮️🙏
@darrelnelson13957 ай бұрын
I don't care where you come from. You both are just beautiful. Nice people.
@datakechi Жыл бұрын
Good interview Max! Let them know their clock needs new batteries.
@MaxDCapo Жыл бұрын
Lol I dunno maybe this is fine art or something 😂and thank you!
@Marcel_Audubon10 ай бұрын
they have in interesting perspective, that's for sure! The overt racism of the failed house purchase is hurtful even though I was not even there side note: love Reylia's shirt
@20世紀青年-t3x Жыл бұрын
Very interesting, and instructive video. I've got to love the twins after watching this video. But It was unexpecting that Max had an experience of becoming Inuyasha of Ranma 1/2, not Marverick of Top Gun.
@hazelmeldrum5860 Жыл бұрын
They had each other for mutual support I wondered what path their sisters have taken. I also wondered if they dated Japanese or foreigners
@alias9025 Жыл бұрын
I've always found mixed culture interesting, having spent time in Japan at 18 and later marrying a gal from Taipei. The challenges today are benign compared to the past. Heard a recording today by Yoshiko Yamaguchi that reminded me of her difficult story. She was born in China of Japanese parents in 1920. How she survived during those turbulent times can provide some context for today. The people you have interviewed seem capable of making a good life for themselves perhaps because of the challenges they have faced already.
お二人の歩んで来た人生は退屈の無い毎日で羨ましくも思える。👍 また それが ing の進行形だから故に今後が楽しみ…❤
@kazualfa1310 Жыл бұрын
I would like you to visit Aogashima Village, which belongs to Tokyo. I would like you to see the starry sky that is touted as the best in the world with a very mysterious sight with two craters, which are rare in the world on an isolated island in the sea. I'm sure you won't regret it.🤗
@whateverz-876 Жыл бұрын
The one they didn't talk about is where you order in Japanese, then the waitress turns to your Japanese friend and asks what YOUR order is, then friend simply repeats verbatim what you just said, but THEN it's all understood. EVERYBODY has that one, even those with zero accent.
@paulwalther5237 Жыл бұрын
That's true. I was gonna argue that it's not but then I thought back to this half Japanese KZbinr Joey who is native in English and Japanese and his girlfriend is American (or maybe Canadian..) and I don't know her ancestry but she looks more Asian than he does, doesn't speak Japanese (or didn't at the time) and this lady just kept talking to her while she pointed at her Japanese husband like he's the one who can talk.
@bryancole842 Жыл бұрын
Yes, totally forgot about that instance _ during my 11 yrs in Japan I witnessed this a lot…
@scarlettrubyrose Жыл бұрын
A question about dating/relationships would be interesting
@metricstormtrooper Жыл бұрын
No matter the problem, the answer in Not home schooling, it's unfair to the children, the community and it's selfish of the parents, No matter which country you are in. I loved these two and loved watching this video but I found that in my heart I have a little bit of hate for the way Japan treats people who are born there but not typically Japanese. I'm from Australia and revel in the different Australians I meet.
@rev.paull.vasquez4001 Жыл бұрын
I will no more blanket condemn homeschooling than I will condemn public schooling, though there are profound problems with the public schools in several locations on the planet. I don’t think too many Uyghurs are happy with the Chinese public schools for instance. I’ve known families in public, private-secular, private-religious, and homeschooling, and was involved in all of these as a participant or instructor. Just depends on the actual individuals involved.
@squiggs1002 Жыл бұрын
Biggest problem with their home school is they were basically on their own at age 12. Sorry but 99% of kids are not motivated enough to properly educate themselves. Their parents decision left many careers which involve university degrees and higher education off the table for them. They left home at age 16 and are now artists. While they seem happy, what if they did not have artistic inclinations? They would be doing menial and low wage jobs most likely. Home schooling can work but the parent's have to be very involved and actually have the ability to teach themselves or hire people to teach through the high school level and the students have to be very self motivated.
Thank you Max for another great video. I'm sure this would exceed 1,000,000 views in a week or so. This is my first time to put a comment although I've been watching your interviews of Tiffany, Jasmine and others. One reason I can think of why you get so many views by Japanese like myself, especially, is that the experiences of those "Japanese" looking like foreigners are something every Japanese goes through. People are different inside even if they look like the people around them. And I think you, Japanese who were born in Japan to Japanese parents are trying to fit into the Japanese homogeneous community even though you look and speak 100% Japanese but are different from other people. The Japan-born "foreigners"" experiences are extreme cases but they actually are the feelings we Japanese have who are expected to look, behave and think as Japanese as we can although we are not the same as other Japanese at all. So, in those "foreigners" experiences, we (Japanese Japanese) kind of find "solutions" or ideas on how to handle to find reconciliation between ourselves and the Japanese culture or communities. Thanks again for the great interviews that I think are making people intercultural competent and more sensitive to other people. Keep up the good work. (BTW I teach communications, marketing and intercultural classes in a Japanese graduate school and an international undergraduate program. I used your videos as one of the materials for my students to learn the subjects).
@feliciacoffey6832 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Intercultural competence is so important!
@capitalb5889 Жыл бұрын
As a left hander, there are two ways to approach shodou- either badly and incorrectly with your left hand, or correctly and badly with your right hand. The results for most of us are never pretty.
@MaxDCapo Жыл бұрын
The results… remains unchanged 😂
@denisecaringer4726 Жыл бұрын
Probably not the wisest decision to isolate your "American" children in Japan by home schooling them, but these twins have turned out so beautifully, haven't they?
@EngineeringFun Жыл бұрын
Amazing interview. Their parents were trying for a boy, but after five girls, they gave up.
@stellarhyme3 Жыл бұрын
Their parents did them a disservice by homeschooling them & not teaching them the language. They shouldn’t have to teach themselves the language.
@TheZenomeProject Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't be so judgmental. It's very possible that the parents were expecting to return to the United States at some point and it just never happened. The thing is, though, that it makes for the sort of unique life stories that probably greatly help their art careers.
@stellarhyme3 Жыл бұрын
@@TheZenomeProjectIt doesn’t matter, they had options, international school is one where they would’ve learned Japanese & english. The parents decided to isolate them & school them at home & neglect to teach them Japanese, the very thing needed to communicate when they step outside daily. That’s doing your children a disservice. I lived in Japan, it’s very difficult to communicate & move around if you don’t know the language. These kids shouldn’t have needed to teach themselves. It’s like Someone coming to America & refusing to learn english. How far to you think they’ll get in society? It’s only through their own hard work & desire that they are where they are today. They left their parents at 16 & shaped a life for themselves.
@momosaku16 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you that it doesn`t make much sense to isolate them from Japanese, but on the other hand I think better Japanese than English. Practically speaking it`s easier to learn the language you`re surrounded by. I mean, when you`re in a foreign country you`re bound to be in contact with the language, but the only contact you get with your mother tongue is at home, so if the parents don`t talk to you in your mother tongue you get kids who only speak the country`s language and then can`t talk to their grandparents. We don`t know their situation, maybe when they were kids their English might have been really bad, that`s why the parents decided to focus on that. Dunno. I`m Slovak living in Japan expecting a hafu baby. I studied linguistics with a few classes on bilingualism, so I`m fully prepared to only speak Slovak to my kid at home, but it`s gonna be hard, cause I`m going to be the only source of Slovak my son will have in Japan. I have a lot of Slovak friends who just gave up at some point and their kids only speak Japanese.
@HARU-0126 Жыл бұрын
@@stellarhyme3 I agree with you. I can imagine they had such a hard time learning Japanese by themselves because these two languages are so different grammar wise as well as vocabulary wise. I'm so glad as a Japanese that they call Nara a home eventually after struggling with identity crisis.
@8kw7mx9 Жыл бұрын
The biggest thing about public school is that kids socialise and learn what society dynamics are all about first hand
@yokohamaborn Жыл бұрын
As a half Japanese person and first US lawyer to be hired in-house for a major Japanese company, I am not surprised to hear stories like the “are you lesbian” story. Japan is making progress overall but even large companies still struggle with HR and inappropriate behavior in the workplace. Anyway, love these interviews.
@light80050 Жыл бұрын
Really? I am Japanese and I was very surprised...
@Japonicasian Жыл бұрын
Can you tell me why you are not surprised, because as a Japanese it is not normal at all
@ramujomonshumeru1184 Жыл бұрын
Born this way! 🙂
@aerobicsparadise Жыл бұрын
Homeschooled ?! Born in Japan and didn't go to normal school and didn't have a grasp on the language going into their tweens ?! That is rather backwards !!
I am just wondering whether they now hold Japanese citizenship or are they dual national.
@porcorosso433010 ай бұрын
US kids watch Inuyasha too. Probably not Rama. Less "kid" friendly. It kind of make sense that max identified with Inuyasha... He is a hafu too...
@peterslaby9782 Жыл бұрын
I almost fell out of my chair when I saw their last names.
@averageguy1261 Жыл бұрын
It's interesting to hear about the preconceptions, ignorance, and prejudices from a Japanese perspective. I was once asked by a Japanese couple who lived here for decades about Vietnam repeatedly, despite the fact that I was born here and am not Vietnamese. Regardless I don't think it's a Japanese thing, but a human thing.
@Minty18889 ай бұрын
The UK isn't just England. Referencing the subtitles that say 'England' when Jana says the UK.
Max, you really need to check for audio levels before starting an interview. Its a good interview but the uneven audio a huge turnoff.
@Potbelly76 Жыл бұрын
I"m full Japanese but grew up in Iowa and have lived in the States my whole life. I can relate to a lot of this, but from the opposite side of the ocean. (Obviously not the crazy harassment stuff).
@DominicanStud101 Жыл бұрын
Where does Max find all these beautiful and intelligent women for his interviews?
@MaxDCapo Жыл бұрын
My meme response: “it’s a secret cause this is my niche and no one must ever find out” Real response: Mostly friends of friends, email, or finding people tagged on Instagram that seem cool👍👍. In this case, two people recommended the twins to me after working with them!
@bryancole842 Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed the interview ほまに
@cber5077 Жыл бұрын
One very interesting experience is when you travel outside Japan and then you feel more comfortable being around Japanese people, so you find yourself listening for Japanese and them meeting them. A question I have is now that you are adults, what kind of visas do you have or need to stay in Japan.
@davidleding2993 Жыл бұрын
Fascinating discussion. I have a friend who is a Japanese American. Her mother is from Japan and her father from the United States. She has travelled back to Japan several times to spend time with her mothers family. She has expressed that she doesn’t feel American and does not feel Japanese. Just like these two lovely women she sits on the same edge of being multi cultural. She is a dual citizen and maintains her Japanese citizenship and her United States citizenship. Additionally, I have a very close friend who moved to Japan and has married a Japanese women. I had the distinct privilege of traveling to Japan to be his best man at his wedding. It was an incredible trip. I thoroughly enjoyed the trip.
@zeitgeistx5239 Жыл бұрын
Japan will make her choose her citizenship when she comes of age. Japan and the U.S. frown upon dual citizenship, with the U.S. being slightly more flexible.
@shivapazoki1881 Жыл бұрын
Why would you move all the way to another country that is ssso fundamentally different from your country of origin and then build a wall around your children. Isolating them from the community they should be integrating in? Feels almost like child abuse.. 🤔
@nicolad8822 Жыл бұрын
No wonder they moved out at 16.
@jacobsoto72284 ай бұрын
I think there is very much an ethical argument here.