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Being Friends With Non-Christians

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Paul and Morgan

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‘Being Friends With Non-Christians’
Friendship with non-believers is a balance between knowing how deep to go with that person while also being aware that who you hang out with influences who you are. We share our own experiences and thoughts with you guys. We don’t claim to have the perfect formula but we believe we have some valuable insight! 😊
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@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
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@COJ.Island
@COJ.Island 6 жыл бұрын
Just the same. Nothing different. 😎👌
@movieinmymind
@movieinmymind 6 жыл бұрын
Paul and Morgan the best way to understand how to be friends with non believers is to look at JESUS! He was friends with tax collectors, adulterers, prostitutes, and Samaritans. He cared for them, ate with them, loved them, and was openly friends with them. That is how we should aspire to be with our non-believer friends. Love them as Jesus would!
@conniek1039
@conniek1039 6 жыл бұрын
Almost all of my friends are non believers, but it's because I don't really have a choice. Well, unless I wanted to only have 2 friends who both live in different countries to me... my friends near me are all either non believers or believe but don't have a relationship with the Lord. Everything you've said in this video completely coincides with my mum's advice to me. However, God has put my family in a place to shine our lights to the non believers and it has been very tough, especially for my brother and I who are the oldest kids in the family, to go through our teens without Christian friends to support us 😕
@03HaleyMarie
@03HaleyMarie 6 жыл бұрын
I have one friend who is the same age as me (under 18) and he's really struggled with what he believes. I always try and be there for him but I don't seem him much and we have grown apart some.. I just know he's struggling and I just wish I could be there to help. I care about him and I get frustrated that I can't help him. I pray for him and his family and for all the people who are growing up right now in this increasingly crazy world.
@captaindazed1735
@captaindazed1735 5 жыл бұрын
Ok, first time viewer here. I'm going to start off by saying that I am not a Christian. I'm not knocking the religion, but a very bad taste was left in my mouth. I'm a Wiccan and a few years back I started attending a church in the city I was living in. I had just moved to the city and didn't know anyone.i became friends with the pastor, his wife, and a majority of the church. I didn't hide the fact that I believed differently from them. I explained my beliefs to them and Visa versa. There were times when people would cross a line, with me and it would get a bit heated, but not ugly. I was a non Christian welcomed as a full member of the church. The only church I felt safe in and didn't want to see turned into ashes. Please don't take that comment the wrong way. I'm a quiet, nice, respectable, sometimes lonely guy. I follow a lot of Christian laws, along with my beliefs. I'm not quick to anger, but if disrespected I will speak the truth. My old church understood this and respected me for it and didn't hold it against me. By the way I grew up in an older black southern baptist church what I felt, thought or believed didn't matter. In the eyes of the church and my family, "I'm a Christian" no matter what I say. Sorry for the rant, but I wanted to give my world view. Take from it what you like thanks for your time.
@hhello6295
@hhello6295 6 жыл бұрын
My best friend is a non believer and honestly I love her to death. I will never force her to believe what I believe but we have talked to each other openly about religion. I feel like I have a closer bond to her than with church friends. This girl has helped me through such tough times, she has always been there for me and I will be forever thankful to her. She respects my faith and never tries to steer me away from my walk with god but only encourages it.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
That's really cool! :)
@SurferGirlAllAroundTheWorld
@SurferGirlAllAroundTheWorld 5 жыл бұрын
That’s so good to hear. ♥️
@MacyMay4669
@MacyMay4669 5 жыл бұрын
How does it make you feel when other Christians tell you he is going to hell? I have been told this by “loving” Christians and Muslims more times than I can count. Does it bother you, that people with your faith treat others so horrifically?
@theshermantanker7043
@theshermantanker7043 5 жыл бұрын
And that my friend, is the mark of a true Christian. Have a good day mate
@theshermantanker7043
@theshermantanker7043 5 жыл бұрын
@@MacyMay4669 Ignore them. Again, you're generalizing. This isn't just a problem with religion, it's a problem basically everywhere. Not everyone is like that, and I could also point out some atheists also call Christians out for literally everything they do, calling them retarded fucks and slandering them in every way possible. By your logic, I could say every atheist is like that. But I am well aware there are also atheists who are the nicest people and simply don't believe in God. So just like there are radical Christians, there are also radical atheists, and we should not judge just by the actions of a few. Have a good day
@FlorianKnowles
@FlorianKnowles 5 жыл бұрын
Here's some advice from an Atheist: Please don't force Jesus on us! We are friends with you because of your personality and honesty with us, not so you can "be our light". If you just try and force God down our throats, it will seem like you just saw us as a target instead of an actual person who wanted to be your friend. Attempts to convert is one of the quickest ways to lose a nonbeleiver friend.
@kittyem63
@kittyem63 5 жыл бұрын
Snips Our religion is about worshipping the Lord and if we can’t freely do that with you, that goes against our morals and beliefs. I wanna be able to pray and call out BS about Christ and talk about Satan. It’s a package deal being friends with a Christian.
@lainm1456
@lainm1456 5 жыл бұрын
@@kittyem63 if you try and convert me, I'll try and convert you. My "faith" is science and I will defend proven facts with much more vigor than you can defend beliefs. I have Christian friends, and then trying to convert me isn't a part of the deal.... because religion is an active choice. It's not something you should force on people.
@jazzye_92
@jazzye_92 5 жыл бұрын
Being a light is a matter of living a Godly life moreso than shoving a Bible in everyone's face or constantly bringing it up in conversation. Christianity isn't supposed to be about religion but relationship. Judging people with different beliefs is not true Christianity, it's religion
@reallynow9606
@reallynow9606 5 жыл бұрын
@Em Stories I like Satan he’s cool.
@lainm1456
@lainm1456 5 жыл бұрын
@American Nationalist yeah call "him" what you want, I guess, I'd rather call it a bedtime story to make you feel better about being rude to people in the comment sections of videos cause you are unwilling to have a conversation Also, if science isn't the enemy, please tell the rest of your religion that
@WakeUpMakeupTime
@WakeUpMakeupTime 6 жыл бұрын
This past year two of my best friends who were non believers found Jesus. Being along for that ride is like nothing else. It’s like witnessing something magical. But, they struggle, and honestly they have continued to live in sin. The enemy has been after them, and as their friend who’s been trying to disciple them through all this, it’s been a crazyyyy ride for me! I totally get what you mean, I’ll pour so much into them and just feel drained because I’m pouring everything out to help them. And then I need to go to my friends who are strong in the faith to be encouraged and help fill my cup back up so I can keep overflowing on others who need it. Moral of the story: being friends with non believers is hard, but it can also be kingdom changing💓So important to have friends strong in the faith as well!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
That's so awesome! Stay strong girl, be a light in their life but don't forget to get filled up! :D
@princessof96
@princessof96 6 жыл бұрын
My best friend is an atheist and i am a devout Christian, we talk about religion, i share with him my truth, he shared his truth, we never argue and love eachother the same at the end of the day, he shares his science (im a biology major btw) and I share why God is behind that science. We’re a yin and yang with so much to offer. We always joke “we’re two halves of the same idiot” just trying to make it with all the knowledge possible
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
That's cool that you guys can be so close! :)
@M1sterE321
@M1sterE321 5 жыл бұрын
That's how it should be. No need for divisiveness over religion or lackthereof.
@MacyMay4669
@MacyMay4669 5 жыл бұрын
How does it make you feel when other Christians tell you he is going to hell? I have been told this by “loving” Christians and Muslims more times than I can count. Does it bother you, that people with your faith treat others so horrifically?
@theshermantanker7043
@theshermantanker7043 5 жыл бұрын
@@M1sterE321 Exactly. Some atheists and religious people don't seem to get that.
@theshermantanker7043
@theshermantanker7043 5 жыл бұрын
@@MacyMay4669 Did you just copy paste that? Pretty sure I already answered your question
@mariajosetorresp
@mariajosetorresp 5 жыл бұрын
PLEASE dont listen to these two. Its wonderful to have people of different believes and to RESPECT them without pushing your own on them.
@theandroidsentbycyberlife
@theandroidsentbycyberlife 5 жыл бұрын
I totally agree!!!!
@analisapena3086
@analisapena3086 5 жыл бұрын
This needs more likes.
@kittyem63
@kittyem63 5 жыл бұрын
Maria Jose Torres Our religion is about worshipping the Lord and if we can’t freely do that with you, that goes against our morals and beliefs. I wanna be able to pray and call out BS about Christ and talk about Satan. It’s a package deal being friends with a Christian.
@langerovermill9296
@langerovermill9296 5 жыл бұрын
Like 90% percent of their views are athiests
@soupsmusic7129
@soupsmusic7129 5 жыл бұрын
I LOVE knowing people with different believes because it's super fun to talk to them and share stuff about our religions (if they have a religion)
@carrie637
@carrie637 5 жыл бұрын
I am an agnostic atheist, and I think you need to set boundaries with your friends. Personally, I am open to hearing about their religion, but I do not want them to force it on me. I just want people to accept that I do not believe in one set religion. I believe that any religion could be correct, I just do not know which, if any. Nonbelievers really do not want to have your religion onto them. We respect your beliefs, so you should respect ours.
@alinehaigassadourian2734
@alinehaigassadourian2734 4 жыл бұрын
Carrie thank you Carrie, for being transparent about your thoughts. Me as a Christian, I have people that I know that are non-Christians and I still find it very beautiful thing. We are not better than you, we are following with our faith. This faith is strong enough to let us be satisfied with our own relationship with God without needing to force it on anybody else.
@man-yp1gb
@man-yp1gb 4 жыл бұрын
The bible is not truth and here's the proof! kzbin.info/www/bejne/iHOWmGmjjbF4gc0&feature=share
@aimeealogeng
@aimeealogeng 4 жыл бұрын
@@man-yp1gb thanks
@l45897132
@l45897132 3 жыл бұрын
God only founded one church and that is the Catholic one. You can search it on google, or ask Siri. It’s also in the Bible. A good way to know is to type any church/religion you are looking for, type who founded that church or religion and it will tell you their names. You can do that same with “who founded the Catholic Church” 😊☺️
@eniola8160
@eniola8160 3 жыл бұрын
But then why do you worship Mary and pray to the saints?
@honeybeeproductions5263
@honeybeeproductions5263 6 жыл бұрын
One of my closest friends is an atheist. When we're together, we often talk about religion. But we both respect that we are both firm in our beliefs. He doesn't try to convert me or disprove me, and I don't shove the bible down his throat. We had classes together in high school, and we spent almost 4 hours a day together so we really got to know each other. He has since went off to college but we still keep in touch. We had have the most interesting conversations and learn a lot about what it's like living really different lives. I saw him for the first time in months a few weeks ago, and he gave me such a genuine hug and said he was happy to see me. We then hung out for a while and I noticed he was changing. One of his old friends showed up and started talking about the messed up things he was doing to women, and my friend told him off. Something he wouldn't have done before. I also noticed he was nicer in general. And he didn't seem as firm of an atheist. It gave me so much hope that all the time I spent praying for him was working. I feel like all the times we would have awkward moments in school when I told him I wouldn't do something, weren't just for nothing and he noticed something different about me. He has stopped doing drugs, and told me he just wants to have real fun again, without being drunk or high. To be completely honest, sometimes being his friend was really hard. He made promises that he didn't keep, and he has hurt me a few times with his words and actions. He even told me he the only reason why he was my friend was because we had class together. But seeing and feeling that change in him made me so happy. Also, the fact that he has made an effort to keep in touch with me. And I'm expectant of the day I find out he is finally saved. Because if God has brought him this far, why would he stop now?
@typicalalisa6057
@typicalalisa6057 6 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Praying works!! Hallelujah! Bless your friend, and keep praying for him!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
That is so cool! Thank you for sharing that! :D
@evysy9253
@evysy9253 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story. Keep praying 🙌
@CrazyGamerDragon64
@CrazyGamerDragon64 4 жыл бұрын
Phillipians 1:6 "being confident in this very thing, that He which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ." I have a friend that I was really close to back in high school & back then she was a believer, then we had a falling out & didn't speak to each other for 12 years although during that time she reached out to me on multiple occasions. These past couple of months she & I started reconnecting on Facebook. She told me at one point that she doesn't consider herself a Christian anymore & now considers herself an agnostic. I have been praying for her & have asked many people I know to pray for her to come back to Christ.
@ii1573
@ii1573 6 жыл бұрын
I became in fire for god and lost EVERYBODY...no friends..but i know God will give me christian friends...love your channel.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Keep looking and taking the steps you can :) I believe God will provide!
@callielaska1
@callielaska1 6 жыл бұрын
I’ve lost MANY “friends” as well since finding Christ. And that has been much more of a blessing than a curse. Hang in there, you’ll find your brothers and sisters.
@rebeccadurden4281
@rebeccadurden4281 6 жыл бұрын
hannah come on girl!!!
@ii1573
@ii1573 6 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccadurden4281 ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@ii1573
@ii1573 6 жыл бұрын
@@PaulandMorgan god bless you guys🎀🎀
@cameronmstahl
@cameronmstahl 5 жыл бұрын
I think it’s funny how you think being friends with a non Christian is you bringing light into their life, as if they’re unhappy and dark without you. When I was Christian I felt very unhappy, oppressed, and was literally in tears because of it. After I opened my eyes, lifted the veil, ate the fruit, whatever you want to call it, I became atheist and I was immediately filled with a sense of joy, positivity, and lightness. It was so freeing knowing that I am the one in charge of my own life, I don’t have to be bent to the will of some jealous god, and I don’t need religion to be happy, in fact I am better off without it.
@ChildofGod123
@ChildofGod123 Жыл бұрын
God never promised you will have a happy life when you become a Christian, you will go through the same thing as a non Christian but you have hope in the end as a Christian. You must find joy in God in everything thing. Don’t let emotions lead you but you lead them.
@tabbyrh978
@tabbyrh978 6 жыл бұрын
Yesssss!!!! I LOVE this!!!!! We are called to evangelize and be loving but we are also called to follow Christ first and foremost and be closest to the things and the people that are close to Him. So we need to be wise and discerning while still be loving. You're right, the people we hang with 24/7 are gonna be the ones who have the most influence in our life so it doesn't make sense to hang with unbelievers 24/7 and expect to grow closer to Christ. Your guys' energy and Joy is infectious!!! :D Love you guys and keep shining
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Tabby RH yes girl!! Amen. You’re so wise. Love it 💜
@Neverseenstars
@Neverseenstars 6 жыл бұрын
I have no friends so doesn't matter anyway lol. But Honestly it's the same for family, My family "believes" in a God but they arent Christian. I still live with them, talk to them, share my opinions, respect them. The only bestfriend I did have was also Christian- we didnt talk about our faith, we were just friends but sometimes its nice we can have convos about God. As long as they arent swaying your way of life, and they are good friends, I dont see the problem. God has said to be good and loving and caring to those around us.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
you just keep praying for a community and God will bring you the people you need :)
@laura___elise116
@laura___elise116 6 жыл бұрын
I am the same way. I have one good friend who I talk to & she grew up Muslim. However, she said she wanted to change so I have been helping her on her journey with Christ. :)
@totto79121
@totto79121 5 жыл бұрын
Whenever I hear a "Christian" say something like "My family "believes" in a God but they arent Christian," I wonder how they're going to feel when they meet those people in heaven -- or hell. Not that I believe in heaven or hell, it's just an interesting thought.
@Neverseenstars
@Neverseenstars 5 жыл бұрын
@@totto79121 my family believes there is a God and has a relationship with God in their own way. When I say they aren't Christian, i mean they don't follow Christ and haven't accepted him as their savior yet. I can't make them do anything. There isn't anything to feel about "it". I am sure they will find their own way when they figure it out. You can lead the horse to the water, can't make them drink it.
@lifewhy-ki1ij
@lifewhy-ki1ij 6 жыл бұрын
I found this video a bit offensive. I’d like to put a disclaimer that I’m not hating on y’all, you seem like lovely amazing people. However I would like to share my opinion. I am a Hindu and this video makes it seem okay to push your beliefs on someone else. I think having friends with different perspectives is so important because it helps open our eyes. I mean if a person is shoving their religion down your throat you should probably stay clear of them, but having friends that believe other things is amazing. Many of my closest friends are Christian. I feel like this video makes it seem okay to push your religion onto someone and if they don’t want to “convert” then you shouldn’t be as close with them. That’s not a great message considering we live in a world where everyone’s different, and you aren’t going to always agree with someone. I’m not saying you have to be friends with people who are apart of different religion but I am saying that you should be more open minded to the worlds different people.
@tokyodoll7000
@tokyodoll7000 5 жыл бұрын
life. why? They’re not saying “force” anything on your friends. They are just saying as believers we are called to give the gospel and give out love, but there are boundaries to that. We are called to love and be kind to others and the God we serve isn’t a “forcer” he is a “come as you will” God. We have a charge to keep to witness and tell people about God, and people don’t understand the difference between witnessing and “forcing the Bible on people”. And unfortunately there are Christians who are “forcers” but that’s not Godly. And it doesn’t mean that ALL Christians do that. I recognize that you are Hindu, but I just wanted to give some clarification on that matter. It’s important to know that having like-minded people around you helps a lot for “spiritual growth” but it’s also okay to have non-believers as friends as long as the boundaries are set and respected.
@SurferGirlAllAroundTheWorld
@SurferGirlAllAroundTheWorld 5 жыл бұрын
Ashdollz But that also includes not witnessing to people who don’t want it. Equal respect and boundaries respected. Just don’t talk about it. You wouldn’t appreciate a Satanist witnessing if you’re a Christian so, it’s the same the other way around. Two sides to the same coin.
@ceecee1424
@ceecee1424 4 жыл бұрын
The bible says we are to follow a straight and narrow path, we don't need to follow the world's path because the path to destruction is wide. It's not a matter of wanting to force your beliefs down someone's throat for a "holier than thou" complex nor to see you merely as a target, but out of love and concern for your salvation. Your closest circle becomes your mentality, or at the very least influences it greatly- and if your mission is ultimate Jesus, then there's no reason to fill yourself with the philosophies of the world if that's not the path you're heading on down your life.
@yolisabeauchamp1088
@yolisabeauchamp1088 5 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with what you guys said. It's a hard pill to swallow and that's why so many have an issue about this topic. Once you truly start walking with God, your relationships change. Being around people who don't walk closely with God does rub off on you. You find yourself being afraid of talking about God and end you end up conforming to their way of living and compromising on your relationship with God. Not good. This is definitely something that you should talk to God about and ask him to give you wisdom and discernment about the people you hang out with.
@jasontlaige6234
@jasontlaige6234 5 жыл бұрын
Ways to be friends with a non-christian is the same way to be a good friend to anyone. These two are the worst, calling people "the lost." How offensive.
@shafiendd
@shafiendd 5 жыл бұрын
U know what hurts more than being offended?.........Hellfire
@helenroy1011
@helenroy1011 5 жыл бұрын
Nicholas Grefe I mean they probably don’t believe in Hellfire. They could believe in reincarnation, or absolutely no after life at all so... let’s not assume.
@aubriellelucille1762
@aubriellelucille1762 5 жыл бұрын
Jason Tlaige that’s what we all are apart for God, not offensive at all if you already know yourself.(In Christ)
@BlackArachnid41
@BlackArachnid41 4 жыл бұрын
My best friend isn't a Christian, and honestly some of the deepest conversations I've had with him have been about faith, science, and religious philosophy. Although our beliefs differ greatly, the key is that we respect each other's opinions while also keeping an open mind, and we're not afraid to ask one another thought provoking questions that really probe into our beliefs. It's honestly provided me a great opportunity to share the gospel with my best friend without feeling like I'm jamming it down his throat, and it's also fascinating learning someone else's viewpoints about life at the same time. I kinda wish more people would be capable of setting their egos aside, respect each other's opinions, and learn that it's ok to disagree.
@summerjohn5110
@summerjohn5110 6 жыл бұрын
Morgan ur hair looks fantabulious😊❄✌
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
😊❤️
@arpithajammula2607
@arpithajammula2607 6 жыл бұрын
Completely agree. But what if, in a particular season of life none of your Christian friends are around or you just don’t have close Christian relationships that you really really wish for. I feel like in those times, from personal experience, God wants you to walk alone with him to experience his friendship and to be satisfied by him and his presence. All this to say He’s the first one who should be able to fill you up and we should turn to him first, before turning even to our Christian friends, to fill us up, especially in lonely seasons. But yet, those are the same seasons that we really crave good Christian company too lol. What do you guys think
@callielaska1
@callielaska1 6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes He will keep us lonely in the earthly sense, so we turn to Him to fulfill us completely, as He should.
@captaso5655
@captaso5655 6 жыл бұрын
Even better thought experiment. What if your son or daughter becomes an ex-Christian. Would you stop giving time towards them if they were committed to atheism?
@booksarefromheaven49
@booksarefromheaven49 6 жыл бұрын
this is what’s happening to me now. I crave for christian friends
@arpithajammula2607
@arpithajammula2607 6 жыл бұрын
I personally wouldn’t. But I wouldn’t be persistently talking about Jesus and Christianity like expected. Id keep it at a balance, like being brave and firm in your faith and defending it and talking about it at some times but also mainly living my life for them to see an example of how to live a truly meaningful life. I have a friend who’s an atheist and have learnt and am still learning. Also just a heads up, I recently learnt that Ravi Zacharias has great advice on atheism and how to approach it. Maybe look into it to find strength. And praying for God to give you peace in this time.
@emilyeliza7391
@emilyeliza7391 5 жыл бұрын
@@booksarefromheaven49 I see you everywhere!! We can be friends I need some Christian friends
@TeamWagy
@TeamWagy 5 жыл бұрын
Can y'all make a video on how to deal with your friends when you go from living an ungodly life to living out the faith more? I struggled with this in high school when I fell away from God, and I would try to live more faithfully and my friends would call me out on it, it was difficult lol
@rebeccadurden4281
@rebeccadurden4281 6 жыл бұрын
Come on!!!!! This was my biggest conviction when I started walking my Christian life. It is soooo hard to be surrounded by friends without the same or similar personal convictions and I think at the end of the day... the Bible says to surround yourself with likeminded people. I’ve seen the fruit of both sides and can 100% say letting go of the non-Christian friends, no matter how hard it was, has truly set me free.
@rebeccadurden4281
@rebeccadurden4281 6 жыл бұрын
I’d like to add, I have plenty of non-Christian friends! But I’ve had to learn that sometimes you have to get rid of friends that absolutely do not understand my walk of life. I’ve had friends that completely shut me out just because they found out I wouldn’t have sex before marriage, that makes me “weird”. Love you guys!!!
@nancyramirez5415
@nancyramirez5415 6 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Harris amen ! I can say that it has set me free too😇🙏🏽
@nancyramirez5415
@nancyramirez5415 6 жыл бұрын
Wow! Good for you Rebecca, if they didnt understand your point of view then those “friends” weren’t really friends.
@nickc1010
@nickc1010 6 жыл бұрын
Amen
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Rebecca! Thanks for sharing. It can be tough but sometimes it’s the right choice. The Holy Spirit will lead!
@mjoflores5163
@mjoflores5163 6 жыл бұрын
Paul and morgan, Thankyou so much for each and every video, thanks to you I'm starting to live life how I think God would want me to. Here in Mexico it's really hard to find christians and even harder christian teens who I can hangout with, so by watching your videos I feel closer to God. Can't wait to hear your cover! :)
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Praise God! This is so encouraging and a HUGE reason we do KZbin! God bless you😊 Stay Strong!
@benitakorhonen9801
@benitakorhonen9801 6 жыл бұрын
same here haha
@jesusreturning3003
@jesusreturning3003 6 жыл бұрын
It can be lonely at times but stay with Jesus, please do not compromise your walk, we are living in the End days, people are battling with all kinds of spirits, God will call you to minister to someone but not to hang with them, big difference, don't play with snakes cos they will bite if they are not filled with the Holy spirit. Ask God to guide you and help you in your lonely season and also being able to discern who is write for you, Im still waiting on my devine helpers, keep praying, there is a season when they come, but in the mean time, pray, and ask For God to send them, he will in his timing.
@lindacf2379
@lindacf2379 4 жыл бұрын
As a non-christian, we do to try to help friends in suffering. It is the human thing to do.
@benmartin9771
@benmartin9771 6 жыл бұрын
I had a friend who wasn't Christian and was looking for God and trying to find out what religion is the right one and so I tried to help show him what Christianity is all about. However, every time we talked about it he would try to convince me how God can't be real and the science behind it. It was more of a debate than trying to find the Lord. After multiple conversations it seemed that he wasn't trying to find God he was only saying that.
@cicimelendez4557
@cicimelendez4557 6 жыл бұрын
Ben Martin I relate. I had a friend who was a devoted atheist but she was so respectful of me and my faith. She saw how joyful and dedicated I was to God and said she wished she could believe in God and experienced his presence and maybe she wouldn't be an atheist. But whenever I even mentioned Jesus she got uncomfortable and told me she didn't want to hear it. I tried to explain to her that faith comes through hearing the word of God and if she really wanted to see if God is real she had to expose herself to his presence. You can't talk to someone if you never come in contact with them. It was really frustrating
@marleenvanhamersveld5940
@marleenvanhamersveld5940 6 жыл бұрын
I relatie on both of you, i have so much people asking me stuff about God and then they get angry and say the weirdest things. I feel you guys that it is really frustrating but we should always be polite even if they get mad. Bless you all who reads this.
@megalopolis2015
@megalopolis2015 6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people can believe in God the way demons and Satan do. Someone I love deeply fears and does not trust God, but pretty much knows He is real. I cannot be around him unless and until he finally accepts the gift of Life through Jesus. Otherwise he will just be used by the enemy to destroy me. I will never stop praying for him, but I know my limits, and I cannot be his Holy Spirit. He won't even allow the actual Holy Spirit inside, so I have no chance. If you are reading this, please pray for him and my family, that they may know Christ and be drawn to Him and be reconciled to each other. Many blessings to you.
@sunshinegirl783
@sunshinegirl783 6 жыл бұрын
I can relate as well. I have a friend who will sometimes mock my faith but then asks me to take her to church. When I mention Jesus to her or give her a word of encouragement - she doesn't want to hear it.
@megalopolis2015
@megalopolis2015 6 жыл бұрын
Scar, I pray that she caves. God's Love is so precious.
@alexac1887
@alexac1887 5 жыл бұрын
I have to say this one is hard, I have mostly non christian friends, ive had experience with christian friends being unreliable and not being there or being too busy, so I tend to keep to myself but my family are the ones I go to for godly wisdom and advice which i am so thankful for, praying currently for god to open my heart to new christian friends. Thanks for your videos, so helpful.
@jackson5802
@jackson5802 4 жыл бұрын
I have friends of the Protestant, Catholic, Jewish, and Buddhist faiths. Never once have any of them tried to force their beliefs onto me even when I was in a romantic relationship with them. I am open to hearing different points of view and seeing how others find love and peace and joy through following their faith but I have also seen religion used to hurt, control, and indoctrinate people. Personally, if you can make religion a stable and healthy part of your life, do it. But please don't force it onto others
@childinchrist7335
@childinchrist7335 6 жыл бұрын
Paul and Morgan I just wanted to let you know that I love your videos. I recently become a Christian and your videos open my mind up to challenge I may have to face.I am from a little Caribbean island of st.lucia 🇱🇨 and I'm a fan
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
That's so awesome! Thank you so much!
@jacobanderson8727
@jacobanderson8727 6 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to let y'all know how much of an inspiration y'all have been for me since I began watching y'all! I've been a Christian all my life, but all of your amazing videos and helpful advice has really inspired me and helped me build my relationship with God!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Praise God Jacob! It’s makes us pumped to hear that!!
@---ox3or
@---ox3or 5 жыл бұрын
bet listening to this ruined your friendships though
@alissaalexis2434
@alissaalexis2434 11 ай бұрын
“God’s kindness leads to repentance” love that
@tonymattei5866
@tonymattei5866 6 жыл бұрын
I really needed this video. I have a ton of non believer friends. It’s blessing to be a light to them (I’ve witnessed to some of them too.) but it’s also very easy to be of the world with them too. So it’s a huge challenge being really close with non believers and not to participate in sinful lifestyles with them.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Definitely understand that. It's hard sometimes. Lean on the Lord though. You got this!
@tonymattei5866
@tonymattei5866 6 жыл бұрын
Paul and Morgan thanks! 🙏🏻
@SurferGirlAllAroundTheWorld
@SurferGirlAllAroundTheWorld 5 жыл бұрын
There are many non believers/non Christians who don’t live sinful lifestyles. Just pure love and clean fun.
@silja1927
@silja1927 6 жыл бұрын
Completely agree with this! 👏🏼 We should affect the world around us more than it affects us!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Amen! :D
@HarrietEmme
@HarrietEmme 6 жыл бұрын
Great video guys. I don’t know if it’s Morgan giving up nannying to do KZbin full time but your video quality has sky rocketed at the moment, loving your content! 90% of my friends aren’t Christian and honestly, over the years I have dropped toxic friends who drag me away from my walk with God and these friends are ones that remind me how omnibenevolent God is. I would rather have 5 non-Christian friends that were so GOOD and brought me up than 50 not-so-good Christian friends who dragged me down. God bless guys!
@gabl3400
@gabl3400 2 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more. It’s important to have believers in your close circle to help encourage you
@deborahvdbrink1417
@deborahvdbrink1417 6 жыл бұрын
One of my best friends is such a good, loving, forgiving, happy person, but she's not a Christian. I struggle with telling her about my faith, because all she sees is the rules and boundaries. Thank you so much for reminding me that I should keep on trying with God's grace by my side. Nothing is too miraculous for Him :)
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Aww you're so welcome. Stay strong and just be you
@haleynicole2270
@haleynicole2270 6 жыл бұрын
I LOVE y'alls channel & content! I literally look forward to your videos. I'm thankful for a great Christian couple like y'all & spreading hope & truth!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Awe thank you, Haley😊
@hollyfischer441
@hollyfischer441 6 жыл бұрын
Can you give advice for helping christian friends that you struggling in their walk with Christ without sounding like you're above them?
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
We're gonna make a video on this soon. So stay tuned! :D
@MacyMay4669
@MacyMay4669 5 жыл бұрын
Not possible. Because you think you are above them. The fact that you think that you are their “light” or that you need to make them walk with Christ or what the hell ever is literally you (Christians in general) thinking you are somehow superior. Newsflash, you are not. There is absolutely no reason to ever harass people that just don’t have or want a religion or even a different belief. Full stop.
@NinaThomas
@NinaThomas 6 жыл бұрын
Such a good topic! I've had awesome non-christian friends over the years but ultimately can't be so close because of differing values. I think something else I struggle with my being friends with Christians who don't weigh their values as so important, another hard type of person to be close to!
@MacyMay4669
@MacyMay4669 5 жыл бұрын
Nina Thomas that’s the thing religion has and always will divide humans.
@okaysoanyways2645
@okaysoanyways2645 5 жыл бұрын
What a pathetic way to live your life sis.
@MagicalJuJuBee
@MagicalJuJuBee 5 жыл бұрын
I can't believe your religion gets in the way of feeling close to someone. I have friends with different beliefs and they have been wonderful friends. I wish you the best and I hope you can feel truly enlightened one day.
@Mad_Ancient_Computer_700AD
@Mad_Ancient_Computer_700AD 4 жыл бұрын
Former Catholic-Christian here, (I'm now agnostic atheist, I'll explain why) God, if he is greater than everything, won't completely follow the idea that EVERYONE should be christian. God, if he is greater than everything, will let people take the journey to faith as their own personal self. That is for them to decide. Them *only* That is their faith journey. My parents taught and raised me since I was born until the age of thirteen (where I am currently) as a Christian. As soon as I started to think about my current situation and what I really believe, I decided to take the journey on my own and become something different. I was *supported by them and encouraged to do my own thinking* This is something I think you two should try to think about. Religion, I feel, is not something of convincing or shaming or forcing upon. Then what is it then? Would you rather a person feel resentment towards your God the rest of their life and be nothing of true faith? Or would you rather that person make their own choices, experiment with what they grew up with, what they think, and what they really believe? Then, (not saying they will 100% convert and that is okay) they might just be a faithful and true follower of Christianity. What more could you want?
@paulbohman4134
@paulbohman4134 6 жыл бұрын
This is so true. In the school year I spend 5 to 6 days without christian community. I’ve really got to think about that thing where you said “ We need a community of God in order to refuel us so that we can fill our non believing friends with the love of God. Thank you very much for your videos know that they help people from all over I am from Sweden. LOVE!!😆❤️
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! :D Love back!
@sophiebell4758
@sophiebell4758 6 жыл бұрын
I think in the end god is a part of us all. And i think serving god isnt always go to church or do this or that, but bigger thinks. Thinks like forgiving love understanding respekt and caring no matter to who. And many atheist believe in these values. Serving god goes within many ways. If i am in need and a non-Christian friend of mine is helping me becauce he believes that its the right thing to help people in need but not becauce the bible or god ist telling him that than who i am to say he is a bad person, a person i shouldnt be near to. He is serving like i do maybe in another way but he does, he does like god is seen in many ways so is the serving to him. So we shouldnt try to convince our friends to a religion or not a religion, but to values that are universal. In this way we dont share opinions wich will lead to argueing seperating and so on but we share values wich will lead to love to respect to forgiveness and understanding.
@Sacrifice-Paid
@Sacrifice-Paid 6 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on how strong 1 is in their walk with Christ, I’ve just recently moved back in with friends of mine, whom r unmarried and with child, if u had to put a religious title on them, well atheists, we help each other out, as friends do, and every now and then we have ‘talks’, and not me being unsociable, but as I like my own space, I spend most of my time in my room doing my own thing, albeit watching Christian stuff, reading my bible, playing my guitar etc, as well as soon to be 1 of the worship leaders in my church, I’ve recently joined a new 1, and yes the last church I was part of, I was part of the worship team there, as yes we are in the world but not of it, and given my friends don’t go church at all, and a little girl currently 3 years old, I’m the only exposure they and their little 1 is getting of the bible, recently they had a argument over something absolutely ridiculous, I spoke to them individually and then together, saying, regardless of whose at fault, when is the last time u said sorry to each other, they then apologised to each other, I them pushed my friend into giving his woman a cuddle, I left the room, but when I went back in, I could see it got to them both emotionally, and surely that’s what Christ teaches us, to be Loving....., I used a biblical example without them knowing.......
@DavidSedano
@DavidSedano 3 жыл бұрын
"being friends with non-christians" or as anybody else would call it "being friends with people"
@sodaspider130
@sodaspider130 5 жыл бұрын
I'm not lost, I have never been more aware in my life. The word "lost" is the most pretentious degrading word to use for people you deem unworthy just because they do not think like you.
@abbeyjones9593
@abbeyjones9593 6 жыл бұрын
Morgan, you look so pretty!!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much! :D
@eilidhrebekah9875
@eilidhrebekah9875 6 жыл бұрын
I feel that it is okay to really discuss your beiefs when the opportunity shows it’s self. However, when your friend doesn’t seem open and ready to listen you shouldn’t push as in the past I myself have been discouraged from connecting with god, I even stopped going to church because I was forced to, not because I wanted to. We are called to god more at certain times in our lives where he feels we need his love and it is up to the person being called whether they want to embrace him or not. It is not up to us to decide for them; all we can do is be there and support them throughout their decision.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Agreed, it should never be forced onto someone. :)
@ajmjakforeva
@ajmjakforeva 5 жыл бұрын
Notice that they never say the word "atheist" or "agnostic".
@carrie637
@carrie637 4 жыл бұрын
They are talking anyone who is not Christian, not exclusively atheists or agnostic people.
@abbyclark932
@abbyclark932 6 жыл бұрын
❤️ you guys help so much and i been Struggling with this! Thank so much❤️
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome, Abizz 😊
@analisapena3086
@analisapena3086 5 жыл бұрын
If you were struggling with not being supportive to your friends lives, you need real help.
@maeellenmegginson4353
@maeellenmegginson4353 6 жыл бұрын
This was so important for me to hear today. Thank you for always speaking truth into your viewers' lives!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Love that! Thank youuuu! :D
@StarslightAndDreams
@StarslightAndDreams 6 жыл бұрын
Your beliefs and your relationship to god is personal and nobody elses business. In the same sense, it's none of you business what beliefs your friends have. If we only surrounded ourselves with likeminded people nobody will grow and develop. This is sort of segregation, distancing us from people we don't agree with because we can't change them. this isn't right and only getting along with people who believe what i believe shouldn't be my goal in life. i grew up with muslim, buddhist, atheist, hindu, agnostic people around me, you name it. they give me another perspective on the world and made me far more tolerant and loving towards other people than my only-strictly-christian family could have ever done.
@lexibewatchin
@lexibewatchin 6 жыл бұрын
i have been struggling with this for a long time, man i needed this video!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Praise God! :D
@SummerShepherd-4
@SummerShepherd-4 5 жыл бұрын
People always say that Christians should not date non-Christians, be super close friends etc. I didn't grow up in a christian household and nobody in my family is saved except me. I never really went to church or learned about the Bible until high school. My best friend group were all Christians as well as my college boyfriend, now fiancé. So thankful I met all these people because they taught me so much and meeting them led me to being saved from learning about God and the word from them. Edit: I'm glad they didn't make sure I was a Christian and walking with the Lord or I may have never learned everything I know now because they wouldn't have been my closest friends and boyfriend.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! God is great :)
@lysianeandre8809
@lysianeandre8809 6 жыл бұрын
Hey guys I've just discovered your channel and it's so great!! Thanks a lot for taking time for us and making us laugh with you ;) Just wanted to say that: I also have non-Christian friends and sometimes I just hang out with them without saying anything about Jesus. Sure, we are the light and our attitude speaks more than our words. But sometimes we forget that Jesus is coming really soon! So we should take any occasion to open our mouths and share the Gospel! Because actually THE THING that really matters is: when Jesus comes, where are they going to spend eternity?! With... or without Him? So I think it's sooo important to PRAY FOR THEM so that they can meet the Lord! And also pray to be courageous and not let an occasion pass away without talking about Him!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, we definitely agree! Praying for them is so important!
@kamarkrim7606
@kamarkrim7606 6 жыл бұрын
Hello Paul & Morgan! Two weeks ago i found your chanel by chance and I couldn’t stop watching your videos. Your lifestyle, the way you think, the fact that your always joyful just fill up my heart with love and you made me think a lot more about my relationship with god. Thank you for all you share with us!♥️
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! You are too kind! We are so happy you found us. Thanks for being a part of the P&M Fam! :D
@deancoleman5274
@deancoleman5274 6 жыл бұрын
Love what you guys are doing and standing for! I hope my wife and I could want day meet you guys and see what God can do! You guys are a joy and inspiration to watch!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! We love having you in the P&M Fam!
@deancoleman5274
@deancoleman5274 6 жыл бұрын
Paul and Morgan you there the most welcomed! We love being apart! May God be with you both always!
@rebeccathomas1551
@rebeccathomas1551 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!This was a great video! PS Morgan, you look so beautiful!!☀️💓😍
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Awe❤️
@evysy9253
@evysy9253 4 жыл бұрын
Her hair is goals!
@sardikbungkusan5052
@sardikbungkusan5052 4 жыл бұрын
I feel very offended when they put the word "non - Christians"
@bugayden2287
@bugayden2287 3 жыл бұрын
What’s wrong with it?
@jsan5878
@jsan5878 6 жыл бұрын
I agree some friends that I kept in contact don’t really have a relationship with God, and majority of my friends are from my religion and it’s so comforting not to worry about fitting in the worldly world. I rather be true to myself in what I believe rather than feeling out of place. Though I still respect others agency that’s just how I feel
@wittysecrets8176
@wittysecrets8176 6 жыл бұрын
Having a close friend who's not a Christian is an issue but having a non-Christian as a friend who's not close is OK. It's OK for the sake of your life should point them to ask "how come you're always joyful?" and then you point them to Christ. Morgan, your hair looks 😍
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Yes ma'am! :D Aww thank youuu! :D
@tracy-leighdiedericks6778
@tracy-leighdiedericks6778 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome video. People always ask me why I'm always so happy. I've haven't noticed until recently. God really makes us happy
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 5 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@Philip859
@Philip859 6 жыл бұрын
Paul is the real deal! I personally worked with Paul and he was so good at being an example of a Christian without pushing himself or his beliefs on others. His advice is gold for his viewers and that is coming from someone who is confused about his beliefs at best; I was raised Christian and have doubts. Paul puts my faith back in to question, in a good way. Keep up the good work!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Awww!! That is so cool! This is Morgan right now, but I'll show Paul your comment. :) Thank you for your encouragement!
@beulahsaid1059
@beulahsaid1059 5 жыл бұрын
I have read a-lot of comments saying that you all love your friends but don’t want to “force” your “religion” down there throats but true love rejoice in truth not lies. Don’t let your friends die in their sin because Jesus and eternity is worth witnessing for regardless of the reactions you may receive. Do everything in love but you still have to do it.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 5 жыл бұрын
AMEN!! :)
@dominiqueburse8232
@dominiqueburse8232 6 жыл бұрын
I think the balance for me is that you be led by the Holy Spirit at all times. Do not be self-righteous and judgemental because such where some of us. Also there will come times when it is time to speak up and most of the time people will not like it. Some will drop you and say I feel you a judging me and some people just want to be comfortable in their sin. They don't want correction but yes man, I heard a quote by Maya Angelo " When people show you who they are believe them." Some will not want the advice or stop talking to you, don't become bitter and gossip because your feelings got hurt. Pray for them, separate yourself, and love them as Christ loves you
@TheKingdomJake
@TheKingdomJake 6 жыл бұрын
Hey! You guys are super fun and have some valuable insight. My girlfriend and I just started watching and really enjoy the show and just who you are! So, about this video, it would have been interesting to hear your take on 1 Corinthians 5:11 where Paul basically tells the church not to even associate with people who call themselves Christians but don't live like it.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! We're so happy to have you in the P&M Fam! Hmmm...That would be interesting to talk about!
@toddhendry8516
@toddhendry8516 4 жыл бұрын
I was just in the area and read quite a few negative comments below so I thought that I might try to bring it back in balance by saying hang in there Paul and Morgan. Keep encouraging good christian relationships and healthy marriages. The Lord knows that these things are not talked about enough. This is the only video of yours that I have seen but everything came across with grace and tact. Jesus' encouragement is the best when he said, "In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." and Paul in Gal 6:9, "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."
@emilenesantiago
@emilenesantiago 5 жыл бұрын
yay 2K likes!! Can't wait for the Worship song cover!
@user-nq9tl6uk3c
@user-nq9tl6uk3c 4 жыл бұрын
This was a well needed video and definitely spoke to me. Paul and Morgan apply the word of God, and it makes sense for people that do too. Once you learn and build your relationship with God, we’re no longer people of this world. We definitely don’t expect everyone to understand. So well and truly if you disagree with them, don’t bother watching them! Can’t wait to hear the cover Morgan!
@susangrace9488
@susangrace9488 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome truths y'all!!! And Morgan your laugh is so contagious 😂😂
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Ohhh thanks! :D
@kittyem63
@kittyem63 5 жыл бұрын
This might be controversial but as a Christian I can’t really be friends with nonbelievers without compromising my beliefs. It’s a package deal. If you want me, you need to accept that I’m also a Christian because it’s a huge part of my life. If I’m friends with worldly people, they will start being an influence (as they said in the video) Edit: I think if you’re going to try and tell me how to live my life such as saying “you can be friends with people without shoving God down their throat” but I won’t apologize for not being a lukewarm Christian, which is why I distance myself from worldly (nonbelievers) people. If you love me, you need to love God because God blesses me with the things I’m known for such as being compassionate and loving.
@Stephanie-io8gj
@Stephanie-io8gj 6 жыл бұрын
What about people who have a relationship w/ g-d but are jewish? or another religion?
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
I think it would be the same, you don't want to constantly be getting advice or being filled up by someone who doesn't believe what you believe.
@kacifilms9192
@kacifilms9192 6 жыл бұрын
Lol I been thinking about this topic a lot lately! Thank y’all for talking about it! I’m so grateful for y’all :) God is always right on time!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Yes He is! :D
@heyyou9267
@heyyou9267 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about this. It's something that I don't even hear in the church that much. All my close friends are non believers but I find it hard to talk about my problems because they will come at it from a world view instead of what would Jesus do view. And I feel that I'm not the best example of a christian because I'm struggling with my faith so much right now.
@JamieRyou
@JamieRyou 6 жыл бұрын
What's your view on befriending people of Abrahamic religions but who still are non-christians? Since your main point seem to be the importance of sharing a relationship with God.
@karennajarro164
@karennajarro164 5 жыл бұрын
You both are awesome! Every video I've seen are always good Christian advice. God bless you both and channel!😁🙏
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support! :)
@Isaac_clark
@Isaac_clark 3 жыл бұрын
2 Corinthians 6:14, 2 John 1:10-11, 1 Corinthians 15:33.
@youknow1595
@youknow1595 4 жыл бұрын
My friends are christian, i have acquaintances that are non-believers and know I am a believer. The people I actually surround myself with on a daily and consider actual friends are Christians. I love talking to acquaintances about my faith when it comes up. Sharing Jesus with people is very important, just as important as it is to know when someone’s heart is so hardened and they are dead set against getting to know Jesus. If they reject Him, sadly thats on them, not the messenger :/ it is sad though ugh.
@abbeyjones9593
@abbeyjones9593 6 жыл бұрын
I always look forward to your guy’s videos! You’re such an inspiration!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Aww yay! Thank you so much! :D
@missthunderstormable
@missthunderstormable 3 жыл бұрын
I think it depends how yourself you can be with that person. I find that some colleagues at work would like to maybe be more on friendly terms with me, but they are unbelievers and I dont feel I can be myself with them. It s one thing to talk about our job, but outside of it, there can be a bit of chit a chat on various topics, but we dont see things from the same perspective and it is just not fulfilling and they force me in a way to be on their level. Like you said, they influence you and I dont want that. If they want God in their life, I am here, but if they just want a part of me, I am not really for it. maybe the answer is like in witnessing to strangers, 2 against 1. Invite non believer to fellowship with you and your christian friend/friends.
@crystalrose580
@crystalrose580 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Paul and Morgan! Throughout my whole life I've had friends who are Christians and friends who aren't and I think that's how it should be because God ultimately loves everyone. When it comes to getting advice or something from friends, I've talked with both my Christian and non Christian friends and because we are all human, no single person (Christian or not) has the perfect answer. However, I weigh advice I get against scripture no matter who it is from. On another note, I know how important it is to surround yourself with people who believe in Christ and who have a relationship with Him because people who don't know or haven't experienced following Christ don't completely understand the lifestyle differences of someone trying to live for God's glory and for the sake of The Gospel. Overall, I agree with you both! I always go back to looking at how Christ lived, and He surrounded himself with the 12 disciples, yet they were at fault many times too. I think the main importance is to stay close to God and allow the Holy Spirit to guide you in friendships because God ultimately has a purpose for each person that comes into and out of our lives❤ Love you guys!
@childrenofgod3015
@childrenofgod3015 6 жыл бұрын
Truly it can be challenging to not have people who believe the same as us and don't believe in Jesus... But Jesus will surely get us through.. Will help His LIGHT shine through us onto them and will also give us the strength, power and words when He gives us an opportunity to Spread THE GOSPEL .. The Strength to just stand there and let the HOLY SPIRIT OF THE LORD SPEAK THROUGH US.. AMENN. GOD BLESS YOU ALL FOR NOW AND FOREVER AME 😇 😇 ✝ 😇 ❤
@KennethEspericueta340
@KennethEspericueta340 6 жыл бұрын
Some of my best friends are atheist
@rebeccasrandomness3045
@rebeccasrandomness3045 6 жыл бұрын
TheTechnoDrone 406Show same
@megalopolis2015
@megalopolis2015 6 жыл бұрын
That is awesome. You can be a light to them. I am glad that they are good friends to you, as well.
@laura___elise116
@laura___elise116 6 жыл бұрын
same. basically everyone I talk to is an atheist & my one best friend was raised Muslim. I am now helping here in her walk with Christ thought.
@totto79121
@totto79121 5 жыл бұрын
I'm choosing to take this as an ironic statement, TheTechnoDrone 406Show. Hope I'm right, because it made my day.
@halliegal6331
@halliegal6331 6 жыл бұрын
Hey guys! I recently discovered your channel and I love the advice you give :) You’re a great encouragement, keep it up! If you ever need any ideas I’d love to hear your opinion on hair lengths (short hair for girls and long hair for guys) because I know it’s a controversial subject amongst my Christian group.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Dilly Dally thanks so much! 😊
@jennifervieira99
@jennifervieira99 6 жыл бұрын
I have friends like me that have not found that right church and have felt like certain churches I've been judgemental especially towards me cuz I'm single! Women have shunned me because I was married and had to get a divorce not knowing what I went through! How deal with that! I am a Christian and never barely go out, because I don't want to be a part of other people's way of life! My friends grew up in a Christian church/ Baptist or Catholic! I have Jews friends also, and one of my newest friends her husband and her are very down to earth southern Georgia family and I Love them so much for who they really are! I'm wishing I could know what and how to be in a church and the right church for me! I only show how I live by what I do in life! My friends know that I'm different and do not date even guy's that drink! I will definitely talk with them but I don't let them think I have any interest in them! I know I need to work on me, which I am doing to fix my brokenness! And how to prevent it again is to me the path to happiness! I love seeing you two on here and feel like others aren't as judgemental as in life it self ! Why are the worldly people so out to try to laugh and put a Christian down and bully them and how would you deal with people like that at work!? 😔 I feel like I'm always being broken down from mean bullies! I'm older than I look too!
@MacyMay4669
@MacyMay4669 5 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Vieira that’s religion for you. Judging you for ridiculous reasons. You will never get away from that, if you don’t get away from religion.
@GaylaBarrett
@GaylaBarrett 6 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything y'all said 100%! Great video once again! You guys are awesome! God is awesome! ♡ 😄
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Yes He is! :D
@bernisevanheyst4236
@bernisevanheyst4236 6 жыл бұрын
"I love you but I can't really support your lifestyle..." I think that's a very respectful way of standing up for what you believe in without being judgy. Great video!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
We think so too! Thank you :)
@MacyMay4669
@MacyMay4669 5 жыл бұрын
Bernise van Heyst Jeah trust me, it is not.
@kaylakat9075
@kaylakat9075 5 жыл бұрын
No its not
@Saturn_Ivory
@Saturn_Ivory 5 жыл бұрын
I use to be that Christian that would walk around saying this. Honestly it’s one of the most harmful and quickest ways you will segregate yourself and end up completely alone because you were such a judgmental person to begin with. Just saying.... it’s NOT healthy.
@kiana.kaiser
@kiana.kaiser 6 жыл бұрын
I love this video! It gives a lot of insight on friendships and how to handle friendships with people who don’t believe what I believe. I found it really helpful since I’m actually a college student and this is something that I’ve seen a lot of people struggle with so far around UK and just the community in general.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Thats awesome. We're really happy that God was able to encourage you through out vide! Thanks for your comment :)
@pavitraelizabeth9832
@pavitraelizabeth9832 5 жыл бұрын
I have non Christian friends actually. I live in India where there are multiple religions including Christianity :) and I chose to follow Christianity because it makes me happy :) and they are very aware of my beliefs and we respect eachother and it's lovely to share my beliefs with them
@hannahk938
@hannahk938 6 жыл бұрын
This is spot on! I was skeptical because there are MANY details to this subject, but I was amazed cause you guys hit every single one of them! I agree 100%. God is really working through you guys! :) Keep at the good work, and never be ashamed! Also, thanks for the reminder to be unashamed.
@faithkenoyer6153
@faithkenoyer6153 6 жыл бұрын
I needed this so much. The piece you spoke about in relation to taking advice really spoke to me Morgan. Thank you! I’ve had a hard time knowing who to trust currently and it’s simple: who is living a Godly life? That is who I should give more power of influence over me. 😊😘
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Amen girl! You're so welcome. I'm really happy this video was able to help you out!
@rebeccasrandomness3045
@rebeccasrandomness3045 6 жыл бұрын
In my experience it has been really hard to make Christian friends because I live in Denmark and although out state religion is Christianity there are barely any Christians. All of my friends with very few exeptions are atheists and that can be really hard at times but at the end of the day I really love those people.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
You keep praying for your community and God will bring you the people you need in your life. Trust that it will be in His perfect timing! :D
@MacyMay4669
@MacyMay4669 5 жыл бұрын
Rebecca's randomness that’s funny. This is my favourite thing about Europe. I couldn’t bare the thought of being around dividing and bigoted people like these two.
@sofiabravo1994
@sofiabravo1994 3 жыл бұрын
@@MacyMay4669 yet you are here spewing hate under all the comments coming off self righteous and pretentiousness...ironic.
@ryansymons8915
@ryansymons8915 3 жыл бұрын
If somebody is not willing to accept the gospel then I am not going to waste time being around them, because when it comes down to it, they have a problem with God, and therefor I have a problem with them.
@ranip7644
@ranip7644 5 жыл бұрын
I think as long as they're not a toxic influence than yeah you can be friends with them.
@coreyadams8407
@coreyadams8407 6 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this video! I can relate so much to it just because of ya’ll view on it all. I definitely think that we should have “worldly” friends, but kind of put up a barrier in a way to the things they do. We ,as Christians, are like a burning log and our non-Christian friends are like wet wood. Wet wood can’t burn or even ignite a fire, but if you put that wet wood next to a fire it begins to dry out and it will eventually set on fire!
@An19941
@An19941 6 жыл бұрын
Corey Adams +
@AK-nm5is
@AK-nm5is 5 жыл бұрын
Oh no..
@MacyMay4669
@MacyMay4669 5 жыл бұрын
Excuse me? Are you implying that you are better than a non Christian and that your beliefs can or should rub off on them to make them a better person? Oh hell no. Funny how religion has and always will keep dividing and ruining humanity.
@deliamarissela5156
@deliamarissela5156 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like many of you have the wrong idea. These two are not saying to shove the Bible down your non-Christian friends’ throats or force anything on them. You may be afraid to lose them if you talk about your faith, but the truth is that if you really LOVED them, you would show them Jesus through your actions or if opportunities arise, don’t hesitate to speak about God (in a loving way). The goal is to win souls for the kingdom of heaven!! :) You see that they need saving so you should have that desire to help them. 😊 I have a friend who is a non-believer. Honestly, I’ve had trouble not stumbling when I’m with her because she does things that I don’t condone. I’m learning to guard my heart (as the Bible calls us to do) and be cautious to not let it rub off on me. Sometimes I try to keep distance. At the end of the day, I still love her and recognize her need for a Savior. This is why I try to share God with her whenever I get a chance. If I didn’t love her, I wouldn’t even try to do that. 🙂
@Mango-de8xk
@Mango-de8xk 6 жыл бұрын
I think it depends some of my family member are Muslim , traditional believers or Christian and I love them because they are my family and they are human beings. God teaches us to love everyone and if the are not being judgemenatal or rude , then it’s fine . I’ve some of the most wonderful people who are not Christian but act more Christian than the ones who say they are, it depends on the heart look at the heart. God bless
@gabrielfranciscorichardson9557
@gabrielfranciscorichardson9557 6 жыл бұрын
Another beautifully wise video!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! :D
@Romin.777
@Romin.777 3 жыл бұрын
I was searching for this topic and you popped up. As i see it there is a hidden danger, crossing boundries that you really didn't want to. I have no Christian friends whatsoever but i know i don't want to be around people who try to drag me from God.
@abebueckert5269
@abebueckert5269 6 жыл бұрын
Such an interesting video and very helpful!! Thanks!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
No problem :)
@brittanywillingham5804
@brittanywillingham5804 5 жыл бұрын
I, myself only have Christian friends. I have maybe one or two that are non-christian. We both have our different beliefs. We know what topic not to talk about to each other out of respect. I can talk about God without realising I do. Apparently I'm disliked by a few people because of it, but you know I'm okay with that. I will be a light in the darkness, but I don't "throw my religion down people's throats" whatever that means. But I'm also not naive either. You can speak about Jesus without making it uncomfortable for people. For example: someone can say "that was a really hard time for me." And I can say "I went through something similar and my faith in God really helped me." I'm not forcing anything on anyone but I'm letting them know my beliefs and what helped me through a tough time. Our job as Christians is to plant the seed and God will do the rest. I might get some hate for this but I guess I just want you guys to know that not all Christians say you're going to Hell. That's not a way to convert anyone.
@colonelquakers
@colonelquakers 6 жыл бұрын
You guys are right on, the Bible says “what fellowship does light have with darkness” 2 Corinthians 6:14. We use that verse for marriage and dating but I believe it can be applied to every relationship. It’s one thing to minister, or to work with non believers, but it shouldn’t go further than that in my. Dont get your fellowship from non believers because bad company corrupts good character (1 Corinthians 15:33) , never the other way around. Light can shine from a distance!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 6 жыл бұрын
Yes and amen!
@kiera6326
@kiera6326 5 жыл бұрын
'Bad company corrputs good character.' Yes, this goes for both sides...
@thinzan6829
@thinzan6829 5 жыл бұрын
Athiests are a thing now aaaannnnddd yeah. AND Im a Bhuddist and I have friends who always make fun of me for being Bhuddist. Pushing me to be another Religion. You cant change people that easily . And pushing people isn't okay. And you guys ARE saying that so I wouldnt be talking about this. This video is soo rude to everyone who isnt Christian. How you word it makes it convincing but no its not good. The boundaries you guys said is disrespectful honestly.
@APieceOfPaige
@APieceOfPaige 6 жыл бұрын
Great video guys! Totally agree with you. We need to surround ourselves with people who will lead us back to Jesus. But we also need to be a light to our non believer friends and show them the love of Jesus through our actions and by sharing the gospel with them!
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