Being KAMBUA | A Father's Heart can Hurt and Heal (2) O’Neal, Willis, & Omari

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@SharonW_ 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Kambua for giving these men this platform to share their journeys. Thank you Willis, Omari and O'Neal for sharing and letting loss dads know their feelings are valid and it is okay to grieve.

@esthermunyi9177 9 ай бұрын

The part when Willis said when you loose even loosing a parking space hits you hard...took me back to when Kambua said sometimes we joins dots that are not to be joint and this just adds onto the pain.

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

Exactly…pain can make you see things from a skewed angle

@joskyshams4758 9 ай бұрын

I love what Willis has said that he mended a relationship with God. This is very important.

@joskyshams4758 9 ай бұрын

Thanks Kambua for creating a safe space where men can be vulnerable. These are the conversations we need. Hugs to all going through a loss.

@joskyshams4758 9 ай бұрын

Moment of silence to our departed angels.

@misslinnah3772 9 ай бұрын

God knew we needed these conversations and He sent Kambua.Good to see Willis and the other guys.We definitely need more men come next year Kambua.Sending so much love and prayers to anyone going through any of this.Merry Christmas

@hildaalividza3461 9 ай бұрын

This show is so emotional,pure ,deep ,relational and real Kambua, thank you for this, ❤🙏

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for being here 🦋

@Gelle-s5x 9 ай бұрын

Sorry to all who have gone through the heartache of child loss,Willis is well spoken and animated,I saw a side of him that is different from who he was at ten over 10. Refreshing to hear the depths of men's feelings, more strength 🎉

@Gelle-s5x 9 ай бұрын

Also for those who can't call or text,just send a card,you can write to and from and let the cards speak for you.Going completely silent seems a bit harsh and lack of etiquette imo

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

I agree with you on complete silence. It hurts when coming from someone you care about.

@faithmwanza5979 9 ай бұрын

Hey Kambua this conversation...I just gathered courage to talk with my spouse how I felt unsupported when we miscarriaged..and it's only now that I learn he was also pained and also needed help mentally....thank you ....we need more men maybe you can also share your husband's perspective throughout your journey

@estherndunguestherhousesto7960 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Kambua..I had to spend my afternoon listening to this..After loosing my parent i felt that no one understands me..and i even separated my self..I am still healing and learning to accept that they are no longer with us..and mourning its not linear

@fancytulula9537 9 ай бұрын

I just lost my Son 3 months ago & this Christmas season triggers it all. It's the first Christmas without him... It's too much grief.. It's too much for me/us as a family 😭😭😭😭😭

@paulinekawira4524 9 ай бұрын

Pole

@joskyshams4758 9 ай бұрын

Sorry for the loss

@dorcaskamau5573 9 ай бұрын

Hugs 🫂 Am so sorry. May the Lord give you peace.

@asiimwemukamadoreen4618 9 ай бұрын

Sending you love, hugs and prayers during this time, May He fill you with His Love forever

@lilianchybire9610 9 ай бұрын

Pole sana 😢 Comfort from the Lord.

@vickynyambura95 9 ай бұрын

You're young, don't worry you'll have another child. He's in heaven!!! That's the kind of crap I got. I wanted my baby boy.....and then my 2nd born was special and was sickly and that's a story for another day. We need to be super sensitive when you're around a mourning couple. Be silent and listen to them if they want to talk. I'm glad the men are vulnerable and they mourn as well! Good job kambua for bringing the dudes in this. I wish my hubby was still alive to see this....

@MaryMueni-t4z 9 ай бұрын

I was told the same words, had traveled back to Kenya to get support during that difficult time! Weuh 😢 I booked a ✈️ back coz every day I was hurt more by words, I guess they didn't know how to handle me

@paulinekawira4524 9 ай бұрын

Men mourn in silence,they get hurt too n mostly no one understands

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

Oh hugs mama 🫂💕

@gracekalekye9699 9 ай бұрын

People need to be sensitive when talking to a griefing mom how do you say you are young you will get another baby? Yet you know you cant replace the lost soul? I have been told so too by many peope others come to my Dm whenever i have those memories and post the kid...leaving some funny messages and comments...

@MburawaUK 8 ай бұрын

Your story is exactly as mine, weee to date you will never see me seated with older women, can't attend baby showers in short still traumatized

@mercykeli 9 ай бұрын

This is such a powerful conversation. Men need to be given such platforms more, to pour out and heal. It is so refreshing to see this. Also Willis is such an incredible communicator, not to say that others aren't, but he stands out.

@ValentineHokah0 9 ай бұрын

God bless you K! And these gentlemen, aaaah🎉 chukueni maua yenu for being vulnerable to speak about such heavy matters of the heart💐💐💐

@margaretkamau7834 9 ай бұрын

I have a COVID Baby and people I knew and close passed on I myself sensed I had COVID at some point coz I lost sense of smell and couldnt beleive my baby getting it and the last pregnancy before her I had miscarriaged at 3 months and wuuueeh I almost lost it.. BUT GOD.. HE IS INDEED A GOOD GOOD FATHER🙏 That's all i can say😢

@faithmwende2369 9 ай бұрын

Pole. Similar story I got a baby (miracle baby ) in 2021 and lost my mum same year. Yaani I can never wish that on anyone. Moving from joy to deep sorrow

@margaretkamau7834 9 ай бұрын

@@faithmwende2369Pole pia. A day at a time we are here today. There's raising and rising up in Christ 🙏

@jelagatkoimur1038 9 ай бұрын

Holidays trigger or remind us of our loved ones in a really big way. Thanks Kambua for creating this space. I have teared up, reflecting on how we easily by pass the man when a couple loses a child. It's like the only valid grief is the mother's 😢😢😢. Please forgive us, we know better now and we'll do better as fellow humans.

@janetm7693 9 ай бұрын

Hugs Raburu. You really needed this safe space to let it all out. I wish you total healing.

@ambasaakute4550 9 ай бұрын

This! This was way way profound. Thank you gentlemen for being candid and vulnerable. Thank you Kambua for handling such a heavy and important topic so gracefully. Thank you Jesus for allowing this

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@gracekalekye9699 9 ай бұрын

I lost my marriage last yr april then two months later i lost my infant son ...its not easy am still struggling with grief

@peshlucy987 9 ай бұрын

I love to hear men pour their hearts out and having good conversations thanks kambua we hope for more of this

@violaogutu6853 11 күн бұрын

Thank you Kambua for this ministry I'm touched by the brave testimonies of this gentlemen. Keep it up and more grace to you.

@Daisymasibo 9 ай бұрын

My friend committed suicide a week after a miscarriage.i ask myself what I could have done better.Thank you for this conversation.

@Gelle-s5x 9 ай бұрын

Wah pole.sana

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

Oh this breaks my heart. I’m so sorry ❤️‍🩹

@annkangethe3943 9 ай бұрын

Oh my goodness, coming from men's perspective this is deep... More grace to you❤❤

@mercymbula8653 9 ай бұрын

I have been waiting for this episode all week.

@winniewangui9661 17 күн бұрын

Thank you gentlemen for sharing your stories with us, personally I've learnt a lot,

@margaretmunyao7960 9 ай бұрын

I relate so much with O'Neil wish could hear his story more .... Encouraging to know that its normal to blame your spouse ..i did that too in my grief .

@bilhahnjeri6427 9 ай бұрын

This was deep men go through so much pain but society mostly focuses on the woman now I have a different perspective that men feel the pain n mourn too

@villagecocktail 9 ай бұрын

The way part I ended made me dread the continuation, yet here I am! 🤷🤷

@FAITH-f7q 9 күн бұрын

I Love it when men are opening up. such bravery.....

@joskyshams4758 9 ай бұрын

Yani you're going through a loss at the same time divorce and separated. There's nothing like being strong for sure.

@joylao 7 ай бұрын

I went through that. It broke me to my core😭

@carolmagara7244 9 ай бұрын

Just show up……if you have nothing to say be quiet. Child loss is devastating enough. Some of those opinions and questions make the situation worse.

@gracieh8342 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for creating this safe space for pouring out our emotions and learning from other people. Every time I feel I don't have strength to keep me going I come here and listen to these stories

@alicemaina6957 9 ай бұрын

This is deep,I love what you're doing Kambua...thanks 🙏❤️ God bless you 🙏 it's helping me heal,I gotta rewatch it with my hubby again

@mandygodsgirl7382 9 ай бұрын

Oh death 😭😭😭 it is a mystery and the pain is just a love that we have for the person and we want to express ..... That what grief is . I lost my sister and my niece 10month apart 😭😭😭😭 oh grief oh grief is painful .... God is still God and out of this pain God has brought out something in me that is a mystery and few are celebrating yet they have no idea the process of my becoming..... May God continue to comfort everyone who has lost a loved one and to this great men , thank you for sharing.

@joskyshams4758 9 ай бұрын

Men can never be strong to anyone. Mr. Omari. Truth

@ednathangu7463 9 ай бұрын

This is therapy for many. Kudos Kambua.

@elizabethndila 5 ай бұрын

Have just heard Willis say how he became mad at God.. same case applied to me .

@julietmwangi3030 9 ай бұрын

At the end there should have just been an altar call to receive or rededicate salvation to Christ...this is powerful

@alicewambua4378 9 ай бұрын

Weuh the depth of Willis saying "He is the same God"...... Deep waters

@judithkusa6066 7 ай бұрын

True

@CarolineMwaura-y1k 9 ай бұрын

Thanks kambua ❤ I thank God for this session 🙏 glory to God who has healed this hurt souls...cause only Him understand why all this pain & suffering... O'Neal,Omar , Willis amazing hearing you speak out... crying isn't a weakness bt a way if expression

@carolmagara7244 9 ай бұрын

Losing a child is just different. 😢😢😢

@carolmagara7244 9 ай бұрын

I embrace my son’s memory. Christmas season is the hardest for any grieving parent.

@esthermutheu6071 9 ай бұрын

Men talking about God❤ anyway i cried much and learned at the Same time

@joskyshams4758 9 ай бұрын

We need to talk about infertility too.

@brigitlameka5030 9 ай бұрын

This is real talk....... Yaani mambo kwa ground ni different 🎉

@roselynekawira5240 9 ай бұрын

So deep and inspiring.. thank you everyone seated there and God bless you richly.

@edithjuma3409 9 ай бұрын

Hugs dear....together in this but through God's grace, we shall overcome.

@belindahnjeri 9 ай бұрын

I cried part one and i know this one too I'm going to cry. I'm waiting here with some tissues

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for being here 🦋

@teresiamungai7602 9 ай бұрын

This was intense😢. Wow. Great job Kambua.

@chao_world 9 ай бұрын

Lots of hugs gentlemen. Thank you for being vulnerable.❤

@shazijaza6993 9 ай бұрын

wow this conversation is so emotional 😢😢😢😢 feeling so different on lost and grief now

@Reay_njogu 4 ай бұрын

Thankyou so much Kambua, this conversations mean more than you can ever imagine. 🙌🙌God is indeed great...he loves us. Thankyou ❤

@jeromeoduor8575 9 ай бұрын

Thanks kambua for bringing this men to share their stories. Please bring more men.

@alicewambua4378 9 ай бұрын

Omari is so profound yaani how you can blame your partner weuh.....thank you guys for your vulnerability and openness, never looking at grief the same

@joykiniaru1789 4 ай бұрын

May God continually give ya'll strength, I am sooo glad this forum happened. Kambua, you are a gem.

@judithkusa6066 7 ай бұрын

That ka statement "utapata mwingine ,u are young "makes me feel more sad...if people don't know what to tell a grieving parent, just keep quiet

@monicalewisky4925 9 ай бұрын

Kambua jameni... Anyway,8 minutes to go

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

Haha it’s here!

@aureliamunene2730 9 ай бұрын

So beautiful, relatable and encouraging. ❤

@janetm7693 9 ай бұрын

God is the owner of life - Oneel

@irenemutegi3358 9 ай бұрын

Oneal.. I have cried fot you.

@ivykinyanjui3345 8 ай бұрын

I loved loved loved these two episodes. My goodness, so much to learn from the men's stories on how affected they actually get and should not be asked to be strong for anyone, not even their own wives. And then there is how we say all the wrong things because we feel we must say something when people are grieving...lessons learned.

@atsenga 9 ай бұрын

These conversations are so impactful.

@kinanucharity1708 9 ай бұрын

This was so humbling, thank you all....Truly God is the same yesterday,today, and forever. 🎉🎉🎉 to all the Men who are battling something and to all of us

@sellyalembi-mamasdiary2600 9 ай бұрын

This is so profound. Listening to how men mourn for their babies. Thank you for having these men share their experiences

@gladyswanjiru7737 9 ай бұрын

Salute to gentlemen for sharing their stories not easy but who is God. I thank God for He is a good God all through our life,He knows every reason for everything. We have a reason for trusting Him all the time. Am humbled and God bless you kambua

@mercynyaboke115 9 ай бұрын

Thks kambua I enjoy watching ad listen ad I hv learn alot God bless you ❤

@Jenchep 9 ай бұрын

What can we say. This makes me see men differently and also understanding more how to be there for people grieving.

@rosemarygichohi6774 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Kambua, Willis, Omari, and O'Neal. I needed to hear this! Thank you

@wangarijonah7153 9 ай бұрын

Oooh lord i have cried all through this.Grief!! Pushes us to blame ,hate and loose faith in Him .

@mercymaina1416 9 ай бұрын

This is a beautiful platform.. Grace to everyone journeying on such a path .God got you

@Arniefavoured 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Kambua. Words fail me but thank you.

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

🫂❤️‍🩹

@evanyamai5937 8 ай бұрын

These conversations are so whole on so many levels. Thank you gentlemen and Kambua.

@miriammwangi5172 9 ай бұрын

Love this really real conversations. Thank you Kambua these are very important conversations.

@zolakazira5428 9 ай бұрын

Thank you, Kambua, for this space we now know to give grace even to men in loss

@margretgiftwangari5023 9 ай бұрын

Wow!! What a deep conversation. Thanks kambua for this ❤❤

@eunicenjeru215 9 ай бұрын

Great show.The gents were so vulnerable to share with us.Thank you and may all of us taste the peace of God❤❤

@christinesunda8686 7 ай бұрын

Wow! I have learnt alot especially coming from the men

@GraceAndebe 9 ай бұрын

Wow.What a conversation!Kambua Thanks for inviting these great men.

@periswambugu4356 9 ай бұрын

Very courageous and brave gentlemen there. Thank you for sharing your stories 😊

@magdalenehabwe9169 9 ай бұрын

Gentlemen! God bless and bse with you. Thank you Kambua

@elizabethkasimuochieng9480 9 ай бұрын

All the feels!!

@DrLizOkemwa 9 ай бұрын

Thank you , thank you Kambua, And the gentlemen for being authentic,

@annekanyi 9 ай бұрын

🫡🫡🫡

@gracegift7994 9 ай бұрын

This, is deep. Kambua MORE GRACE to you.

@meshmusyoka6449 9 ай бұрын

Nice one 👍 🎉

@joskyshams4758 9 ай бұрын

Real men cry.

@lucywairimukimani632 9 ай бұрын

There's so much merry making n we mostly forget such conversation need to be held . Thanks Kambua, .First time for me to watch n am already subscribed...

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for subbing! Welcome on board 🦋

@FrancescaMutinda 9 ай бұрын

Its so good to hear the mens perspective on child and pregnancy loss, this was beautiful Kambua. Thank you for creating the space for this discussion, for sure, its making a difference.

@kambua 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!