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Naledi Madumo is married to a man twice her age. When they first started dating, her family and friends doubted her intentions, believing she was only after his money. She had to pour her heart out to convince them that her love for him was genuine. The situation became even more painful with the harsh judgment from social media and the cold disapproval from his family.
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@tsholofelomogagabe6380
@tsholofelomogagabe6380 Ай бұрын
Age is just a number my darling. I had a 28yr age gap with my late husband and it was THE BEST relationship ever. Met him when i was 20 & he was 48. We built business empires together, traveled the world, he gave me the best lifestyle ever and two of the most beautiful children. Princess treatment all the way👌 Sadly, He passed on in 2021 from covid, i was 42 and he had just turned 70. People will talk either way - just do you baby girl
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Wow! What a story! Can we hear more from you? Please, DM us on Instagram @briefly_tv_producer or fill out a form: forms.gle/QQmQay9xHuSfpvcC9
@glantedavid9728
@glantedavid9728 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@michaeloyadeyi6281
@michaeloyadeyi6281 Ай бұрын
I totally disagree and hearing stories of children subjected to this nonsense. How do you marry your dad. Or grandad. You will be the old man’s slave that all. Also the children do not have an opportunity to grow up with their father and their father watch them get married and have children.
@michaeloyadeyi6281
@michaeloyadeyi6281 Ай бұрын
Sorry he passed away when you were 42 . Obviously he was an old man now it highly possible you may get married again .
@glantedavid9728
@glantedavid9728 Ай бұрын
@@michaeloyadeyi6281 . I know many women who lost their young husbands through accidents, crime, and COVID 19 etc.You are being unfair.
@DanielMathebula-kq9tb
@DanielMathebula-kq9tb Ай бұрын
Don’t put your relationship and private life online You will have to live up to your audience Fame kills the spirit
@misstaita254
@misstaita254 Ай бұрын
yoi can still be a widow at any age..no one knows..you can be married by your age mate and still be a widow..you can be married to your age mate and still separate..all.we need is to trust God and pray❤🙏
@michaeloyadeyi6281
@michaeloyadeyi6281 Ай бұрын
Wicked man wanted you to leave your child behind that’s a major red flag
@naomidambe
@naomidambe Ай бұрын
I myself couldn't understand why ?!
@patremagilbert682
@patremagilbert682 22 күн бұрын
Right
@nursemiesesdw9383
@nursemiesesdw9383 22 күн бұрын
Agree
@mrlt3535
@mrlt3535 23 күн бұрын
This lady is a an angel and a dream come true for older men. I wish her marriage much success!!
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life 19 күн бұрын
It’s wonderful to see such positive sentiments and well-wishes! 🌟💕 What qualities do you think make her such a great match for her partner?
@wonderbliss2566
@wonderbliss2566 Ай бұрын
Why his relatives don't like you is because they themselves are after his money
@josephinenajjemba1889
@josephinenajjemba1889 Ай бұрын
My husband is also also older. 15 yrs gap .He also forgets alot. Many of his relatives hate me but I've stood strong. Your story has given me more vibe.
@Shad701
@Shad701 Ай бұрын
Hold on! I don't think 15yrs is that huge😊. It's a normal age gap in most African marriages..
@tendanipelaelo6293
@tendanipelaelo6293 Ай бұрын
​@@Shad701Not most, it's some
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life 13 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story! 💕 How have you and your husband navigated the age gap and any challenges you’ve faced?
@noyazeph2206
@noyazeph2206 Ай бұрын
We need more of these insights , keep teaching us . We are learning from you and your experiences .
@A.M..688
@A.M..688 Ай бұрын
Forget about those negative things, and just focus on your marriage, love your husband sister...you don't have to mend anything if they distance them selves, let them..
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Your message is so true! Just keep loving your husband and living your best life. Let the haters do their thing.
@zambianyoutuberx
@zambianyoutuberx Ай бұрын
I love your Honesty! And its good that you found Happyness
@ChrisM733
@ChrisM733 Ай бұрын
Congratulations to you sister. I respect the guy. He is my hero. We older men ROCKS😂
@nursemiesesdw9383
@nursemiesesdw9383 22 күн бұрын
Sometimes the forgetting is playing mind games. Some old men get young women and eventually break them down in ways that make them age much more rapidly than they would have had they stayed young.
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life 19 күн бұрын
Age gaps can sometimes amplify certain dynamics, so clear communication and mutual respect are crucial. How do you think people can address these challenges to build healthier relationships?
@mpendulo_m
@mpendulo_m Ай бұрын
The story is always so beautiful to listen to and so inspiring makes me believe so much in love 🥺♥️
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
That's really heartwarming! What aspects of their story inspire you the most? ❤️
@thandekazanelenkosi4256
@thandekazanelenkosi4256 Ай бұрын
You guys look good together.... Don't stress yourself about what people say... As long as you are happy with your family. Congratulations 🎉
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Thank you so much! 💕 What's your favorite thing about their journey so far?
@mokgadisennya
@mokgadisennya Ай бұрын
You can never win with people, they were just mocking the first lady because they say she older than the president. Love doesn't know age and women age very quickly. Look at Lac and JZ. Nna i am just gonna love who i love and no one will dictate regarding my life.
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Love should indeed be free from societal expectations or judgments. What do you think is most important in maintaining a loving relationship despite external opinions?
@refiloemahlangu5015
@refiloemahlangu5015 Ай бұрын
She is not older she just looks older bcos of sickness. People r just cruel
@WinstonShamu
@WinstonShamu Ай бұрын
Lovely
@fatsofarayi
@fatsofarayi Ай бұрын
I had to google her age during inauguration 😅
@user-xs4mv4zq5f
@user-xs4mv4zq5f Ай бұрын
As long as you love each other. Happiness is here grab it with both hands ❤
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Absolutely! Love and happiness are what truly matter. What's something you both enjoy doing with that brings you the most joy?
@christinemookodi8865
@christinemookodi8865 Ай бұрын
Age is just a number enjoy your marriage der and stay blessed 🙏
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Absolutely, focusing on love and blessings can make any marriage stronger. What do you think makes their marriage particularly inspiring or special?
@juliamodise5557
@juliamodise5557 Ай бұрын
Stay blessed dear, as long as the two of you are happy in your marriage younger or old we will still judge...
@sapphireglow7250
@sapphireglow7250 Ай бұрын
He's very controlling and selfish. Based off of everything you narrated!! How could he have even thought of you living ur daughter, with your parents, but wants you to raise his🙄🙄🙄?.. shows he loves you, but not anything that has to do with you!!!.
@TTee203
@TTee203 Ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly. That definitely would've been a ground for separation/ divorce. If you have no room in your heart for my child, then you damn sure don't love me. TOTAL PACKAGE.
@nursemiesesdw9383
@nursemiesesdw9383 22 күн бұрын
No love in that
@derekntim-peasah3316
@derekntim-peasah3316 5 күн бұрын
​@@TTee203see arrogance. Where is that baby daddy why didn't he take the so called total package
@TTee203
@TTee203 5 күн бұрын
@derekntim-peasah3316 Who cares. Learn the difference between arrogance and IGNORANCE, then respond. The same way you are IGNORANT to the storyline, you are IGNORANT when it comes to using the correct adjective; or do you even know what an adjective is.🤷‍♀️ 🤔
@31kittykatty
@31kittykatty Ай бұрын
Respectfully, I think it's unfair for such old men to pursue these young women.
@samntsiea3563
@samntsiea3563 Ай бұрын
True love is what matters without being fazed by the age gap
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Love knows no boundaries! What’s your favorite memory with your partner that really shows the strength of your bond?
@khayakazikeller9652
@khayakazikeller9652 Ай бұрын
I was happily marriedwith ,my old man for years until he started forgetting a lot and We went to the pyschiatrist and he wasdiagnosed with Dimentia young as I was my family together with his family stood by our side until death did us apart. I will forever love my Husband. we did not pay attention to anyone we focused on us
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life 26 күн бұрын
So sorry to hear abut your husband's passing. It is very inspiring hearing how you stood by him and with family's support. Teach others your ways to love!
@xichavoveronicatheka7047
@xichavoveronicatheka7047 Ай бұрын
I am married to a man 20 years years older(I am in my 30’s), what you are describing here is not how older man are like but this is him being controlling to you, my relationship is nothing closer to this, thats your man’s character girl, he is controlling and insecure nyana. Vacation and taking kids out can never be a waste of money, being fetched and dropped so that he can feel secure of where you are is just insane.
@joankidon4626
@joankidon4626 Ай бұрын
Meaning your man is 50s That's still abit young. How about those in 70s or 80s
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life 26 күн бұрын
Let us know if you'd like to share your journey.
@mangah5911
@mangah5911 28 күн бұрын
Please can we stop being delusional,age gap in marriages have got a lot of challenges,most of the time the women or men go for the financial benefits.
@Theresa247
@Theresa247 Ай бұрын
To many red flags dear run❤
@tsolofelovioletsekete1925
@tsolofelovioletsekete1925 13 күн бұрын
Ppl R bitter.. M glad u could find ua happiness
@NicolaMabai
@NicolaMabai Ай бұрын
So he wanted you to leave your child behind to raise his? He thinks spoiling his family is waste of money? He wants to drops and pick you up when doesn't really "approve" of where you are going? Are you sure you are in a loving relationship? Sis don't do anyone any favour but yourself by being true to you.
@smartdiaries2372
@smartdiaries2372 27 күн бұрын
Exactly all the things I find odd about her older husband but it’s her life 😀
@nursemiesesdw9383
@nursemiesesdw9383 22 күн бұрын
Agree. Some old men are happy about a young mind they can break down to manipulate & control.
@djmohayus2967
@djmohayus2967 Ай бұрын
The man is very controlling and selfish, he control your time when you go out, he diddnt you stay with your kid yet he want you to raise his. Good luck gal
@monimag249
@monimag249 20 күн бұрын
My Wife is 13 years younger than i and will have 4 childrens together and a happy marriage ❤
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life 19 күн бұрын
That's beautiful! It sounds like you have a loving and happy family. What's the secret to your successful marriage? 😊
@MamaPrince-kd9cw
@MamaPrince-kd9cw 28 күн бұрын
This lady looks pretty in and out ❤❤
@sharonandrews4132
@sharonandrews4132 12 күн бұрын
This is a selfish and controlling man. How can you be happy in this relationship??
@WaisakeMaseikula
@WaisakeMaseikula Ай бұрын
The most important thing is "Love".If mam,if you really love him,why bother about what people say.
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Absolutely, love is indeed the most crucial aspect of any relationship. When two people genuinely love each other, what others say becomes less significant.
@Royhauya-uw2kr
@Royhauya-uw2kr Ай бұрын
It's not normal to put relationships on line. It depends on values and attitude
@ntombzanelediale7693
@ntombzanelediale7693 Ай бұрын
You guys were supposed to sell the man s old house and find a new home for all of you and that home will be a new home for all kids. In saying that, no kid will tell the other kid that's not your home because the home will be a new home for all. No complaints.
@ntombzanelediale7693
@ntombzanelediale7693 Ай бұрын
And another thing, if that house belongs to the first wife, the mother of those kids. You guys were supposed to move and find something that belongs to you with fresh memories and good past and future .
@smartdiaries2372
@smartdiaries2372 27 күн бұрын
Do you think she can suggest such a thing to the husband and he will do it? Marrying older men who are already rich can be difficult sometimes, unless he’s madly in love with you
@JacobMM-e3s
@JacobMM-e3s Ай бұрын
me too i am dating the lady whose 24yrs younger and she really makes me happy ....since we met we have a child together and ireally love her so much but her family hates me badly they also said shes just after the money
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It's wonderful to hear that you and your partner are happy together! ❤️ How do you both handle the challenges that come with having a significant age difference?
@JacobMM-e3s
@JacobMM-e3s Ай бұрын
@@Briefly_TV_Life it is not easy at first nobody knew that we are dating but when she fell pregnant thatwas the begining of our problems her family hated me they even give hera boyfriend force her toblame him for pregnancy they took her away for a year butl never stop loving her we still find the way to each others arms my children do not like because thier uncles told them that shes a gold digger but my eldr daughter' she is happy for us
@JacobMM-e3s
@JacobMM-e3s Ай бұрын
@@Briefly_TV_Life we are still in love and stronger than before but problems always knocking our door but we pray and we still togerther l love her so much and she too loves me
@keneilwemodise3903
@keneilwemodise3903 Ай бұрын
Wow, I like the way you feel about the guy nomatter age gap
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Age is just a number, right? 😉
@Iam_Nelisa
@Iam_Nelisa Ай бұрын
So it’s only 15 minutes which is unfortunate… I donl think she could have shared age difference, how they met in detail, how she gave in after three weeks of not speaking and how they told all the kids that they will be raised together. 🥺
@tjakonderokavejandja1035
@tjakonderokavejandja1035 Ай бұрын
Very inspiring to any other love relationship..🙏🏾
@mwendar
@mwendar 29 күн бұрын
God bless you guys!
@J1991-u6t
@J1991-u6t Ай бұрын
Old man are lovely but they will treat you like a child not a partner 😂😂
@jackiemonyemoratho4190
@jackiemonyemoratho4190 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It's true that relationships with age gaps can have their unique dynamics. How do you think couples can balance these differences to build a strong partnership?
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It's all about mutual respect and understanding. What do you think is the key to making such relationships thrive?
@jonathandhliwayo7022
@jonathandhliwayo7022 Ай бұрын
All that matters is your happiness,not what people will say about you whoever is not supportive or don't like it there's nothing they can do aboutit.
@waleolabowale9825
@waleolabowale9825 Ай бұрын
It can happen but l8ke tjat example one has to think well..i suppise we want ppk closer to our age 7yrs is ok but by time its getting to 20 but love is love and hope u stay faithful
@curiousk4083
@curiousk4083 Ай бұрын
Wesisi, wesisi l don't anything wrong with age gaps. Go to Shembe church you'll be shocked. Enjoy your blessings and love. Believe me in your age group you'll not get what you have...stay blessed Mrs.
@leahlinki5683
@leahlinki5683 Ай бұрын
So true, but it's the society at large that has a problem with age gaps! Re sa tlo tshaba go phela ka baka la "Batho ba tla reng!" 😊😊😊😊😊😊
@curiousk4083
@curiousk4083 Ай бұрын
@@leahlinki5683 True, but one has to strive for happiness and peace of mind & heart.
@leahlinki5683
@leahlinki5683 Ай бұрын
@@curiousk4083 Exactly! 😉😉👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
What do you think others can learn from their relationship and journey together?
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
You're right, societal norms and perceptions can sometimes create challenges, especially when it comes to age gaps in relationships. How do you think attitudes towards age differences are changing over time?
@TheMsChrisie
@TheMsChrisie Ай бұрын
It is difficult to handle them.. Lol.. I agree 💯.. I'm also in a similar situation. Prayers do play a big part in it.
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Glad you are doing great and owning your relationship too. Keep that love burning. Let us know if you'd like to share more.
@apollosmartyn
@apollosmartyn Ай бұрын
Great work hope to collaborate with you on KZbin one day ❤❤❤Namibia 🇳🇦
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
That sounds fantastic! What kind of content do you have for us?
@TheIncredibleKnox08
@TheIncredibleKnox08 Ай бұрын
If there is mutual love, mutual respect,no one is using anyone for anything.Thina singenaphi??
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Exactly! It's all about love and respect. What's your favorite thing about their relationship? 💖
@christinemookodi8865
@christinemookodi8865 Ай бұрын
😅😂 buy him walnuts,fish and omega 3
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
What do they help with?
@tabithawaithira1202
@tabithawaithira1202 Ай бұрын
​@@Briefly_TV_Lifememory and a good well being of the brain
@lorramokoka7778
@lorramokoka7778 Ай бұрын
So it's relationship of a daughter and a father
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Hey there, please explain what you mean by this?
@michaeloyadeyi6281
@michaeloyadeyi6281 Ай бұрын
@@Briefly_TV_LifeI totally agree to make it clear for you . This is a daughter marrying their father. It’s not right as she will end up his slave. He will die and she will re-marry as young bride
@Pam645
@Pam645 Ай бұрын
He is a little bit controlling, going to a wedding for a limited time or shame uyacinga intanga zakho will take you away from him😂
@Art4Fun937
@Art4Fun937 Ай бұрын
😂
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It's interesting to hear your perspective! What advice would you give to someone who feels their partner is being too controlling?
@user-gx3fb2jm7z
@user-gx3fb2jm7z 14 күн бұрын
Age is just a number what is important is love between both of you as long you are both happy 🙏🙏🎊🎊
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life 13 күн бұрын
So true!y 🙏
@moshemasitenyane5052
@moshemasitenyane5052 27 күн бұрын
Age is just a figure love is the matter heart❤
@SmithySmith-eu5kn
@SmithySmith-eu5kn 26 күн бұрын
I like what I discern
@Lindrish897
@Lindrish897 Ай бұрын
How do we find Naledi's channel
@elizebethnegumbo1809
@elizebethnegumbo1809 Ай бұрын
Black society n their issues though in this part of world every body does what feels right to them 🇵🇱
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It's interesting how societal norms and individual choices can sometimes clash. How do you think these issues can be navigated or understood better?
@mphosa995
@mphosa995 Ай бұрын
The man doesn't look that old... He's probably in his 50s because his children with his first wife are still teenagers.
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Age gaps can add interesting dynamics to relationships. How do you think their shared experiences and perspectives contribute to their connection despite the age difference?
@mphosa995
@mphosa995 Ай бұрын
@@Briefly_TV_Life there might be some age gap, but I don't think he's that old and there's nothing shocking about their union. At first I thought maybe she was talking about a man who was probably in his 70s or 80s... But that man looks like he could be in his 50s, it's not a big deal as long as he was single or widowed when they got together.
@michaeloyadeyi6281
@michaeloyadeyi6281 Ай бұрын
What are you talking about then is in his 70’s
@meeowgforever
@meeowgforever Ай бұрын
Lol
@susieadams3305
@susieadams3305 Ай бұрын
My friend boyfriend was 20 she was50 soon as she turnt70 he cheated got babies with younger girls and she now sick and can't even get around like she used too and he's on Facebook trying too pickup woman45 ain't nothing wrong with dating someone 30 years younger just don't married him or her the only girl or boy who dates much older either homeless,been in and out prisons or have a sex problem or drinking problem or never had a stable childhood so like I said just have fun enjoy the sex but don't fool yourself thinking he's gonna be there forever
@TCEssel
@TCEssel 28 күн бұрын
Not all older men are the same. I’m 51, look 35, built like 28, and can go for hours and hours. I don’t date women younger than 35 or over 65, but enjoy women anywhere in that range.
@SmithySmith-eu5kn
@SmithySmith-eu5kn 26 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@SmithySmith-eu5kn
@SmithySmith-eu5kn 26 күн бұрын
❤❤❤🎉
@MargaretMaimela-lw6kh
@MargaretMaimela-lw6kh 21 күн бұрын
Cap 🧢😂😂😂😂
@MargaretMaimela-lw6kh
@MargaretMaimela-lw6kh 21 күн бұрын
Cap 🧢😂😂😂
@bonaninelani4118
@bonaninelani4118 Ай бұрын
Vacation is a waste of money 😅
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Vacations can be seen as a luxury, but many people find them rejuvenating and essential for mental and emotional well-being. What's your perspective on how vacations impact your life?
@nontumbaleki9406
@nontumbaleki9406 Ай бұрын
You blessed❤❤
@jedidiahde-philanthropist2520
@jedidiahde-philanthropist2520 Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. We all do forget @ times. Old men do feel that they've won a jackpot with these young women and are unnecessarily overprotective because of insecurity. Every relationship has its own challenges despite age. Ignorance of each others temperament in most relationships is the cause of some unnecessary misunderstandings, not necessarily age. Me, I walk shamelessly with mine! Half my age 😂
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Every relationship indeed has its unique dynamics, and understanding each other's temperament is crucial. How did you two meet?
@susansusan5616
@susansusan5616 Ай бұрын
May God bless you l
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@NitrousXProductions
@NitrousXProductions Ай бұрын
Is it me or does the video look like there's some parts missing to the story. Example she explained that she met him but then jumped to getting married what happened in between seeing each other did you guys not get engadged or jumped straight to the wedding?
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It's common for videos to condense stories to focus on key moments. Sometimes, details like engagements or specific milestones might not be fully covered. What do you think about their connection so far?
@NokulilaNgcongolo
@NokulilaNgcongolo Ай бұрын
Who is she? Which platform can we view her on?
@CynNage
@CynNage Ай бұрын
she is laughing while mdala is controlling chilee
@Reign_255
@Reign_255 Ай бұрын
Crazy stuff I tell you 🫠
@CynNage
@CynNage Ай бұрын
😂​@@Reign_255
@BonganiMagadu
@BonganiMagadu Ай бұрын
I'm 50 now. Got married to this Scottish chick 2001 and we had 3 kids. Got separated and I was watching world Cup 2006 and this chick came over spike to me she said she was 21. We started messaging and she later admitted she was 17. I was 33 Best girlfriend I've been with ever. Honest, sensible and so on. Even met and slept at her parents many times with the parents there I missed her so much for a while😢😢 But now I'm happy
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It sounds like you've had quite a journey with relationships, with ups and downs along the way. Finding happiness is important, and it seems you've found a positive outlook now.
@chronikhavok3407
@chronikhavok3407 Ай бұрын
So easy to get here just with sending her to buy washing powder
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Right? 😅
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV Ай бұрын
I don't care about age gaps but something here sounds problematic. He doesn't like her socialising and doong things she likes like travel. Hmmm
@tshepotau5754
@tshepotau5754 Ай бұрын
It all depends on character. There are younger men who are just as unsociable.
@LindaTinahTV
@LindaTinahTV Ай бұрын
@@tshepotau5754 exactly. I see a controlling character here besides their age difference
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It's crucial for both partners to communicate openly about boundaries and expectations. Have you found it helpful to discuss these concerns openly with your partner?
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Absolutely, personality and individual traits play a significant role in how someone behaves in a relationship, regardless of age. Have you found open communication to be helpful in managing these kinds of challenges?
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It's important for both partners in a relationship to support each other's interests and activities. Have you seen similar situations before, and how did they resolve such issues?
@cameeldavis487
@cameeldavis487 Ай бұрын
Gwaan with your big man queen love all over him🗣️🗣️🥰🥰🥰🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
@kidiboneruby4640
@kidiboneruby4640 Ай бұрын
How old is the Man, n how old are u .
@naevahparker
@naevahparker 28 күн бұрын
Sounds like a live in hha to me
@ngulubeprincess5009
@ngulubeprincess5009 Ай бұрын
Is it just me or Ausi looks like Ntokozo Mbambo the gospel musician?
@BonganiMagadu
@BonganiMagadu Ай бұрын
How old is Anele so I can know how old the husband is
@susieadams3305
@susieadams3305 Ай бұрын
You met him when he was20 and you was48 so 20 years later where is he now ?
@NOMVULADLAMINI-fv7sw
@NOMVULADLAMINI-fv7sw 18 күн бұрын
If the woman is older than her husband I mean 9 years will it be easy
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life 13 күн бұрын
Every relationship is unique, and the success of a marriage often depends on factors like mutual respect, communication, and shared values rather than just age. Have you experienced or seen relationships with age differences that worked well?
@NOMVULADLAMINI-fv7sw
@NOMVULADLAMINI-fv7sw 11 күн бұрын
@@Briefly_TV_Life yes I have my cousin she is older than me, but then my problem here is I talk if something is wrong and am quick to apologize if am wrong. But then for him if I say something no am trying to control him and he is too proud to take responsibility. Worse he is too insecure of me at work or in public, questions like why was that guy looking at you or why were you looking at him. Why are you taking long to come from work, the way I dress there are questions why, who is speak to on the phone or not and if it's male then it's a problem with women is still the problem. Social media if people respond with hearts it's a problem. So am not enjoying the relationship like I hoped so, he is too much. He can argue over an old man worse things that happen 5 years ago. And if a decision doesn't come from him he will argue about it and the next day he will say exactly what I said yesterday. It's like you can be happy and laugh in the morning at during the day or a few minutes he moods changes it's too much.
@ricardobaggio4330
@ricardobaggio4330 27 күн бұрын
Yeah yeah yeah 🙄
@user-or6gb1ny9d
@user-or6gb1ny9d Ай бұрын
Frget about inlawrsNothing wrong to dating big man. Even me I dating old man lam 60 and he is 70. Is long you love each other
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It sounds like you're happy in your relationship, which is what truly matters. If there's anything else you'd like to talk about, feel free to share!
@humbulanimatshili2077
@humbulanimatshili2077 Ай бұрын
What is age gap between two of you?
@susieadams3305
@susieadams3305 Ай бұрын
Age just a number but I meet a32 man and 60 I wouldn't married him becauses ain't no young man's gonna be with no old woman when he's 40 and she90
@nomadictravelerfromTx
@nomadictravelerfromTx Ай бұрын
My wife is 11 years younger than me. We've been married 5 years.
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life 26 күн бұрын
Would you like to share how your journey has been?
@nomadictravelerfromTx
@nomadictravelerfromTx 26 күн бұрын
@@Briefly_TV_Life We met online. She was 4,500 miles from Texas, in Ireland. I flew there and then she came to Texas. She came on a K-1 visa or fiance visa and we had to get married within 90 days. She just got her U.S.Citizenship last week. We are planning on selling the house and traveling all over the motherland. A long 5 year journey.✈✈✈✈
@its_bobhermanus
@its_bobhermanus Ай бұрын
One thing we don't speak about is how long it takes a man to grow into maturity and wealth so he can treat a woman the way she loves and deserves to be treated.
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
That's a great point! The journey to maturity and financial stability can indeed take time, and it's not often discussed. What are your thoughts on how society can better support men in this journey?
@its_bobhermanus
@its_bobhermanus Ай бұрын
@@Briefly_TV_Life on our journey to equality, we diminished the role of men in society and still expect them to perform their duties as men in society. Even girls who hate absent fathers don't see the need for her child to be fathered just because he can't provide. For some reason we can always listen to a woman cry but men have to figure it out. Woman are the prize biologically but economically it's not possible. And the cycle won't end until we learn this. It'll stop men from feel unworthy in an economy that doesn't favor them and I hope women will understand, sympathize and support men. I hope I make sense.
@wallockhavard2033
@wallockhavard2033 Ай бұрын
The niece might not approve your relationship because they feel like you don’t love an old man and you want money. You did yourself a good favour. The old man gives you love, can you imagine the hell you might have gone through if u were in love with someone of your age growing like me…
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Relationships can indeed face challenges based on age gaps, but genuine love and understanding can overcome many obstacles. What do you think are the most important factors in navigating such situations with understanding and respect?
@michaeloyadeyi6281
@michaeloyadeyi6281 Ай бұрын
The reality is he will die and she will take his money and re-marry this is what you get particularly woman from a life of poverty. Why would you not be close to your in laws you are younger than his adult children
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
It's important for couples to build trust and understanding, especially when there are age differences and complex family relationships involved. How do you believe she should navigate this?
@mphodiane1204
@mphodiane1204 Ай бұрын
You sound bully. This man has put himself into trouble. They must part ways
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It's important to have open and respectful discussions about relationships. What do you think are some key factors in maintaining a healthy and happy relationship?
@auditingtaxmadeeasy5414
@auditingtaxmadeeasy5414 Ай бұрын
Awwwww🥹. Sweet love story. But you didn't mention the age gap so we don't have the full picture or context.
@Briefly_TV_Life
@Briefly_TV_Life Ай бұрын
How do you think the age gap influences their relationship?
@auditingtaxmadeeasy5414
@auditingtaxmadeeasy5414 Ай бұрын
I'm happy it works for her. But it may not work for everyone. She mentioned that he picks her up when she's out chilling. That level of control of someone may not work for everyone.Its also easier to control and abuse someone who's younger. But if she's happy, I'm happy for her.
@michaeloyadeyi6281
@michaeloyadeyi6281 Ай бұрын
This ma is your grandfather . She married her grandfather
@michaeloyadeyi6281
@michaeloyadeyi6281 Ай бұрын
The reality is he will die and she will take his money and re-marry this is what you get particularly woman from a life of poverty. Why would you not be close to your in laws you are younger than his adult children
@LadyT06
@LadyT06 Ай бұрын
Who are you to judge?Let her be!
@michaeloyadeyi6281
@michaeloyadeyi6281 Ай бұрын
@@LadyT06you don’t know what your talking about. This woman is joking . The old man is on his last legs
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